Selena Gomez - Lose You To Love Me (Official Music Video)

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  • Опубліковано 27 січ 2025

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  • @selenagomez
    @selenagomez 5 років тому +1356702

    This song was inspired by many things that have happened in my life since releasing my last album. I want people to feel hope and to know you will come out the other side stronger and a better version of yourself.

  • @CoverArmy1
    @CoverArmy1 5 років тому +72985

    When Selena said: “I needed to lose you to find me”, I FELT THAT.

  • @nisa9093
    @nisa9093 4 роки тому +42722

    You don't miss the person.
    You only miss the memories .

    • @Ari_Cloud
      @Ari_Cloud 4 роки тому +221

      me too

    • @jazminewiggins6725
      @jazminewiggins6725 4 роки тому +585

      Same. Memories never fade.

    • @viper8735
      @viper8735 4 роки тому +312

      the memories man.

    • @willmcc4070
      @willmcc4070 4 роки тому +168

      Keep telling yourself that

    • @GudJonnyCakes
      @GudJonnyCakes 4 роки тому +533

      That's deep.. Here is another one
      You don't love me, you just love the thought of me

  • @СафинаАхадова
    @СафинаАхадова 3 роки тому +11924

    This girl really deserves the whole world. God please give her real happiness

  • @gaiamorgosi7181
    @gaiamorgosi7181 Місяць тому +2007

    Today, Selena has gotten engaged. And with a man that loves her so much, that’s her win, period.

    • @hellohellitsnicehere4814
      @hellohellitsnicehere4814 Місяць тому +20

      Yes ma’am

    • @MaruAngelo-bg4vm
      @MaruAngelo-bg4vm Місяць тому +4

      Ariana Grande and Dalton Gomez should be a perfect couple together, but what suck that they broke up

    • @BeidouImmortal
      @BeidouImmortal Місяць тому +15

      I wouldn't say marrying Benny Blanco of all people is a win but to each their own.

    • @Gabrielaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa1111
      @Gabrielaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa1111 Місяць тому +17

      @@BeidouImmortalnem tudo é sobre aparência, se ele faz ela feliz ela venceu sim!

    • @btscartoon9957
      @btscartoon9957 Місяць тому

      Yes ❤

  • @Maratonei
    @Maratonei 4 роки тому +23454

    I can't believe it has been a year since the release of this song. So much have happened since the things I was experiencing when this song was released.

  • @hemambikapilli4
    @hemambikapilli4 4 роки тому +61725

    It's better to be alone than being with people who always makes you feel alone 🙂🙂

  • @farjanaakther922
    @farjanaakther922 5 років тому +45353

    2014 : The heart wants what it wants
    2019 : Lose you to love me
    A glow up we all needed

    • @sahianestanol8707
      @sahianestanol8707 5 років тому +84

      Yass

    • @errrgo626
      @errrgo626 5 років тому +64

      love it

    • @jnthnofficial
      @jnthnofficial 5 років тому +137

      Farjana Akther both songs are amazing though. Her vocals improved a lot. I make music too btw, give me a chance if u want. I won’t let u down

    • @sunitirajput2014
      @sunitirajput2014 5 років тому +24

      Agreed 😭❤️

    • @bi.fruitsalad
      @bi.fruitsalad 5 років тому +14

      True

  • @sanaeadaruwalla6523
    @sanaeadaruwalla6523 Місяць тому +678

    And now she is engaged to someone who makes her so happy :')

  • @mariami7249
    @mariami7249 5 років тому +13399

    “In two months you replaced us, Like it was easy”
    This hits so hard

  • @eya4971
    @eya4971 5 років тому +49334

    _I love her because _*_she's not afraid_*_ of showing her emotions._

  • @kandace6798
    @kandace6798 3 роки тому +2114

    Hope she knows how much this song has helped so many ..it’s so relatable..so real.

  • @bercoutin
    @bercoutin Місяць тому +249

    I’m here after Selena’s wedding announcement. She deserves all the happiness in the world

  • @RoccuzzoMusic
    @RoccuzzoMusic 4 роки тому +2921

    after six months of listening to this song every day, I love it as if it were the first time ❤️

    • @user-ys3wg8rx7d
      @user-ys3wg8rx7d 4 роки тому +3

      Me too hah, she's the best UwU

    • @TheLazyAdult
      @TheLazyAdult 4 роки тому +3

      Roccuzzo Music same same - this song hits different

    • @fearne724
      @fearne724 4 роки тому +7

      Same here, this song is such a great message that sometimes you need to give up something you love, but you ALWAYS come first. ❤

    • @papillonmagique6415
      @papillonmagique6415 4 роки тому +1

      me too!!!

    • @yazmin5088
      @yazmin5088 4 роки тому +2

      Literally me

  • @jaden1987
    @jaden1987 3 роки тому +23682

    losing a relationship is okay.
    but losing yourself in a relationship is not okay.

  • @littlekiwi8964
    @littlekiwi8964 3 роки тому +35671

    She's not just singing... she's talking to us
    Let's make her feel heard

  • @angelphyo2243
    @angelphyo2243 Місяць тому +172

    I m here after her engagement news. U deserve it, Sel. Congratulations.❤

  • @gretafaberi2811
    @gretafaberi2811 5 років тому +1004

    Seeing someone so famous and exposed having feelings just like all of us is so important and beautiful,it makes me feel less alone. I listen to this and I think I can handle it just like you did.
    You’re inspiring and I thank you so so much for that.
    You’re gorgeous

    • @heisthood
      @heisthood 5 років тому +1

      Everyone listen my new spanihs versión ua-cam.com/video/PnRXt_RXJSI/v-deo.html

    • @joshuamaralending133
      @joshuamaralending133 5 років тому +2

      Yeahhh i can feel it too..

    • @harrietturner-browne4908
      @harrietturner-browne4908 5 років тому

      Rickey Baker Baker pardon?

    • @yueyingtan8471
      @yueyingtan8471 5 років тому

      @@heisthood c

    • @sahilanower9189
      @sahilanower9189 5 років тому

      Every living person has a 💓 and it gets broken the same for famous or not, the poor or the rich. To love yeah........ 😔♥️

  • @MrMusicman1971
    @MrMusicman1971 5 років тому +1045

    "I needed to lose you to find me." - Selena. That's the best line.

    • @ramadhan_govinda
      @ramadhan_govinda 5 років тому +1

      Please check to my channel and listen this song. Or click here ua-cam.com/video/P4FPw9SekRQ/v-deo.html hopes you enjoy this audio for this song.🙏🏼

    • @amandayumi9627
      @amandayumi9627 5 років тому

      Siiii , como siempre Selena está bellísima 😍❤

    • @MagicBarbiemagicbarbie
      @MagicBarbiemagicbarbie 5 років тому

      hi can u subscribe to my channel its my birthday💗

    • @karendiaz4106
      @karendiaz4106 7 місяців тому

      Yes, I did with my husband, almost hate Him. Cheating, liar

  • @Sharonnnnnnnnnn
    @Sharonnnnnnnnnn 5 років тому +34672

    *“I think it’s important to realize you can miss something, but not want it back.”*

    • @Tracydoune
      @Tracydoune 5 років тому +365

      I love this

    • @beyasaskia4037
      @beyasaskia4037 5 років тому +463

      I really like your comment, it helped me clear my thoughts thank you!

    • @Julietc05
      @Julietc05 5 років тому +765

      Or sometimes miss the memories but not the people

    • @didiwoye7634
      @didiwoye7634 5 років тому +168

      @@Julietc05 that's true. I have so many memories of things I don't want back

    • @Hailey-tn9pb
      @Hailey-tn9pb 5 років тому +19

      MaShEd PoTaEtoEs 1.1k like

  • @danielleelias685
    @danielleelias685 Місяць тому +43

    Happy that Selena now had someone special in her life that loves her and treats her well. Selena you deserve it, happy for you.

  • @pishonn
    @pishonn 5 років тому +953

    When Selena said “I needed to lose you to love me” I felt that. Sometimes, you tried so much for someone, you forget to love yourself.

    • @YoungAlienBoy
      @YoungAlienBoy 5 років тому

      Hey Everybody Dislike This Video 🏳️‍🌈🙏🏽 ua-cam.com/video/I--rRfdoWEI/v-deo.html

    • @Itsbeenwhile
      @Itsbeenwhile 5 років тому +2

      @@YoungAlienBoy hahahah I can understand your problem u want view lol 😅

  • @karag4289
    @karag4289 5 років тому +729

    the part where she‘s able to confidently say “I needed to lose you to love me” and she points to herself and gives that little smile, gives me chills/makes my heart happy for her EVERY TIME I watch it

    • @banuyashsiva1914
      @banuyashsiva1914 5 років тому +4

      justin beeiiiiiberrrrrrrr

    • @dralinafisa-breasthealth
      @dralinafisa-breasthealth 5 років тому +5

      Youll be never sad with selena then lol

    • @amkerschen
      @amkerschen 5 років тому +7

      SAME! It’s my absolute favorite moment of the video. Seems so genuine and well earned.

  • @huyenchi0601
    @huyenchi0601 3 роки тому +4883

    I am still crying listening to this. She deserves the whole world.

    • @huyenchi0601
      @huyenchi0601 3 роки тому +17

      @@vipraja7 that's such an expression to describe how much you love a person and wish all the best to her. 🤦‍♂️🤦‍♂️. I feel bad for you

    • @bloom2666
      @bloom2666 3 роки тому +27

      but still, she don't get the grammy for this song.. well, grammy doesn't deserves her.

    • @huyenchi0601
      @huyenchi0601 3 роки тому +2

      @@bloom2666 ???? Relate?

    • @huyenchi0601
      @huyenchi0601 3 роки тому +1

      @@vipraja7 you tell me what to say, what not to say? Excuse me?

    • @huyenchi0601
      @huyenchi0601 3 роки тому

      @@vipraja7 it's good for you to realize yourself

  • @keepingitrealalwaysdxb
    @keepingitrealalwaysdxb 26 днів тому +1204

    January 2025 anyone?😊

  • @rezkienggiaputra
    @rezkienggiaputra 2 роки тому +3144

    She sings by heart and it touches our hearts. This is what we call a masterpiece. Proud of her.

    • @mahoornj3682
      @mahoornj3682 2 роки тому +15

      That was full of pain for me...

    • @rezkienggiaputra
      @rezkienggiaputra 2 роки тому +8

      @@mahoornj3682 I agree with u. It pains us as well

    • @vanessalala8687
      @vanessalala8687 2 роки тому +3

      keep watching until you reach 400M, I have faith that we will make it

    • @hasntlkizaman9524
      @hasntlkizaman9524 2 роки тому +1

    • @DearGulley
      @DearGulley 2 роки тому +2

      @@joedoe2672 Everyone's entitled to their own opinion, but if you feel that way, why are you here on her video? I like Selena, granted shes not a vocalist type of singer, but honestly most artists aren't these days. A person could use minimal vocals and still create decent music. It's done daily now lol. All comes down to taste and preference.

  • @hannahheath8258
    @hannahheath8258 3 роки тому +5172

    This song is definitely the definition of “When you’re sad, you understand the lyrics” 🥺

    • @awesome6084
      @awesome6084 3 роки тому

      ua-cam.com/channels/Wzz0vu--q_1d1YmeoVqRtA.html

    • @kc-lv4gh
      @kc-lv4gh 3 роки тому +24

      I know you guys hate self promoters but please hear me out. I'm different than other rappers, I rap about stuff that makes a difference. I recently got bullied in school and I wrote a song about that. They bullied me cause I'm indian, my accent and a lot of other stuff as well. The song is called "k grip hope" on youtube. I think you guys should listen to it so you know what it was like for me. Thanks for listening to me, please be kind to others whether you listen or not. 🙂

    • @RJ-xd6ub
      @RJ-xd6ub 3 роки тому +42

      This song is heard and felt when you finally let go of THAT person.

    • @hannahheath8258
      @hannahheath8258 3 роки тому +8

      @@kc-lv4gh I’m sorry to hear that! I will definitely check it out! :)

    • @hannahheath8258
      @hannahheath8258 3 роки тому +5

      @@RJ-xd6ub Exactly!

  • @malenaion4887
    @malenaion4887 5 років тому +2241

    This song is literally the definition of how a heartbreak can make you realise, that you have to love yourself first♥️

  • @bohochic4559
    @bohochic4559 Місяць тому +34

    Here after her engagement 🎉❤...so happy for you selena..you deserve all the happiness in the world.

  • @nytjen1649
    @nytjen1649 5 років тому +1098

    It's so intense ! It seems like she is showing every emotions that she got. Anger, happiness, sadness, disappointment, misunderstanding

    • @wilythougths7838
      @wilythougths7838 5 років тому +5

      Yes, she show us, what she feeling

    • @emilysquarepants7402
      @emilysquarepants7402 5 років тому +1

      Yeah a year ago lol

    • @nytjen1649
      @nytjen1649 5 років тому +2

      Lorena Esquivel: Yea, what she passed through

    • @bumblebeebella4331
      @bumblebeebella4331 5 років тому +3

      Omg yes I'm so glad someone else saw that too, I've never seen an artist express such a range of emotions that doesnt feel fake or like acting, it's just raw.

    • @nytjen1649
      @nytjen1649 5 років тому +3

      BumbleBee Bella : Yeeaa.. she's so strong. The best one ❤️

  • @dacrimsoncurse
    @dacrimsoncurse 5 років тому +1525

    When Selena said "In two months you replaced us"
    I felt that

  • @Necessaryexit-4
    @Necessaryexit-4 3 роки тому +4665

    This is not a song..this is once in a lifetime masterpiece that’s filled with emotions that everyone can relate with.

    • @nihaaa3476
      @nihaaa3476 3 роки тому +1

      69 :)

    • @Stewie_and_brian631
      @Stewie_and_brian631 3 роки тому +7

      And i still don’t know why we cry when we see this 😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😍😭😍😭😭😍😭😍😭😭😭😍😭😍😭😍😭😍😭😭😭😭😭😍😭😍😍😭😍we’ll never know

    • @Stewie_and_brian631
      @Stewie_and_brian631 3 роки тому +4

      But we do know here today that the Selena Gomez followers will emerge victorious once again

    • @princesserichesse1216
      @princesserichesse1216 3 роки тому +6

      except narcissists 💀

    • @shafickbhyat2683
      @shafickbhyat2683 3 роки тому +1

      @@Stewie_and_brian631
      Lol

  • @humayunsctrl
    @humayunsctrl 2 місяці тому +22

    Easily her best lead! It still hits just as hard as it did when it came out. She delivered vocally, lyrically & sonically.
    Visually too. Sometimes, surrendering to tender truth is all you need. This is art in it's purest form.

  • @tachilyn3195
    @tachilyn3195 3 роки тому +983

    “And now the chapter is closed and done”
    It’s hit me so hard

    • @NO-sq7no
      @NO-sq7no 3 роки тому +3

      That’s my favorite part

    • @riyaraj4421
      @riyaraj4421 3 роки тому +5

      Ikrr it literally breaks me

    • @huseinmuthohar1778
      @huseinmuthohar1778 9 місяців тому +1

      Closed and done for Selena. But for him? Who knows

    • @utubeuloser6166
      @utubeuloser6166 9 місяців тому

      Justin Bieber is gay. Jayden Smith and Justin Bieber were caught kissing each other after

    • @joannakinach2802
      @joannakinach2802 10 днів тому

      ​@@huseinmuthohar1778he has a wife and a baby 🤦🤦🤦 he left her like 10 years ago

  • @thesatarupaganguly
    @thesatarupaganguly 5 років тому +873

    2018: Back to you
    2019: Lose you to love me.
    She did it. You will get through it too.

    • @Jowitaxoxo
      @Jowitaxoxo 5 років тому +10

      ❤️ if you were happy with the wrong one, just think how happy you will be when the right one comes along ❤️

    • @thesatarupaganguly
      @thesatarupaganguly 5 років тому +3

      @@Jowitaxoxo Thats so true girl. Well quoted

  • @chiaramaffe5526
    @chiaramaffe5526 3 роки тому +1644

    I am old enough to be Selena' mother but I burst into tears listening to this song for the first time. You can break your heart even at 40.

    • @nate2759
      @nate2759 3 роки тому +35

      If you are 40, than you aren’t old enough to be Selena’s mother, since she’s 29.

    • @arshx_x
      @arshx_x 3 роки тому +13

      Ur not old enough but anyone can get a heart break I got a heart break from my best friend of 9 years 4 years ago because she betrayed me actually I’ve had 3 more one of 2 years 5 years ago because someone stole her from me another one because she moved for 2 years 3 years ago and one for 3 years because we separated classes 2 years ago

    • @gaildibernardo1636
      @gaildibernardo1636 3 роки тому +1

      Ditto

    • @sarakurdi4279
      @sarakurdi4279 3 роки тому +6

      So if you would be Selena’s mom you would give birth in 11 years old!!!!

    • @adelemcg69
      @adelemcg69 3 роки тому +8

      I'm 52 and just discovered this song. I'm old enough to be her Mom. Our own daughter is 29. What a gorgeous voice this young woman has. I love this song 🎵

  • @INouraAlahmadi
    @INouraAlahmadi Місяць тому +42

    Congratulations Selena, things have changed for the better. A wonderful person who loves and respects you is going to marry you!❤

  • @angieh524
    @angieh524 4 роки тому +4628

    “in two months you replaced us, like it was easy” damn

    • @jbxbts8756
      @jbxbts8756 4 роки тому +443

      Honestly , it must have been so hard for her.
      Justin should have waited until she recovers from her depression , anxiety knowing that she just had a kidney transplant.
      They both were equally responsible for the toxic relationship , but the marriage thing was just fucked up.
      T_T

    • @harleywatson7621
      @harleywatson7621 4 роки тому +42

      As if Selena never replaced🙄

    • @lisawatson4230
      @lisawatson4230 4 роки тому +5

      Selena and Hailey spotted together at one place?!😱😱😱😱🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️💝💝💝💝💝😱😱😱😱ua-cam.com/video/HF56IM9HrPs/v-deo.html

    • @Sensingy8466
      @Sensingy8466 4 роки тому +33

      Jb sucks

    • @mommywhyismylifeamessog
      @mommywhyismylifeamessog 4 роки тому +36

      @@Sensingy8466 sorry i don't know any jb i only know dustbin barber if he is this one then let me know pls

  • @HeidiClement-s3k
    @HeidiClement-s3k 5 місяців тому +778

    I love how she kept looking over her shoulder, as if afraid or regretful, but at the goodbye it's all straightforward and firm.

  • @sarcardinal
    @sarcardinal 5 років тому +3398

    she lost him, but found herself, and somehow that was everything

    • @Not_yourMOM
      @Not_yourMOM 5 років тому +31

      And sometimes that's just how the universe works 💕

    • @Chlowo3
      @Chlowo3 5 років тому +22

      TAYLOR

    • @SaraSilva-id8js
      @SaraSilva-id8js 5 років тому +13

      Some out of the wood vibes with that sentence

    • @caiogabriel05
      @caiogabriel05 5 років тому +28

      Taylor Swift's quote is the best to describe this song.

    • @AZIAHSNOW
      @AZIAHSNOW 5 років тому

      sarah cardinal I’m crying

  • @jenjengoessling
    @jenjengoessling 2 місяці тому +13

    I never really knew much about Selena, but now I’m a fan. I’m 52 and she’s amazing, kind and I have an autoimmune disease that also affects my body similar to her, I have depression and anxiety, so it’s so easy to relate to her even with a an age gap. I absolutely love her and her music. She’s different than most famous people!

  • @pajn5516
    @pajn5516 4 роки тому +4143

    She doesn’t know that this song actually heals our pain....

    • @samanthathompson7736
      @samanthathompson7736 4 роки тому +32

      This what helping me now

    • @avsley
      @avsley 4 роки тому +8

      I list someone now I'm feel it on my heart love this song it heals all that are broken 🥺💓

    • @crostan4769
      @crostan4769 3 роки тому +5

      when imposter is sus!!!11!! 😳😳😳

    • @Thnked
      @Thnked 3 роки тому +1

      Heyy!! Sorry for being a copy & paste warrior, but i just released my first single on spotify and it's sitting at around 300 streams. My ultimate goal is to hit 1000 streams. I'm hoping you could give it a chance by searching "Thnked - Beautiful Life" or just through my channel page here on youtube. Thanks in advance! 💗

    • @paolaviet9195
      @paolaviet9195 3 роки тому +1

      m.ua-cam.com/video/h006-5wn_gI/v-deo.html

  • @Baranaga7
    @Baranaga7 2 роки тому +2519

    Saw her documentary today and came to this song again after a long while, it's amazing that people just think the song is about love and relationship.. but at first the song is about herself. The fact that she talks in this song about herself to herself is just pure inspiration. Never forget that you are just amazing in the way you are. First learn to love yourself.
    Edit: Who says you are not perfect.

  • @aymanaziz5173
    @aymanaziz5173 5 років тому +1595

    2019 hasn’t been easy for alot of us and it shows

    • @ALLYOUPEOPLEAREVAMPIRES1984
      @ALLYOUPEOPLEAREVAMPIRES1984 5 років тому +24

      everyone is fake depressed these days..

    • @Wonnrei
      @Wonnrei 5 років тому +10

      Ikr we are all sad humans all the time it really hurt but we have those little happy time I guess

    • @rimaderradji8790
      @rimaderradji8790 5 років тому +2

      Hmdlh I'm not alone

    • @s3_phi
      @s3_phi 5 років тому +15

      @@vengeance2277 everyone's like depressed, feeling insecure, a K-pop star commited suicide, Chile is having innocent civilians shot, raped, and sexual abused, the world has really changed tbh. Last year everything was fine, but 2019 was really so much.

    • @luciegye7078
      @luciegye7078 5 років тому +13

      @@ALLYOUPEOPLEAREVAMPIRES1984 no one say that we're depressed, this year was just not easy for some people and that makes them sad but not depressed, the depression is more than that. don't be negative please and just pass your way

  • @nadamahmoud6915
    @nadamahmoud6915 Місяць тому +17

    I can't believe she is happily engaged now. I am so emotional 💖

  • @I_AM_KD_WIFE
    @I_AM_KD_WIFE 3 роки тому +2231

    2022 and I'm here to listen to her voice. I've never seen a stronger woman in all my life. I wish her all the best for this new yr.

    • @marstrove
      @marstrove 3 роки тому +2

      When you block your parents on social media
      ua-cam.com/video/mceYMD28h9A/v-deo.html

    • @hazielshorts3941
      @hazielshorts3941 3 роки тому +2

      ua-cam.com/video/ffjucDipYLA/v-deo.html

    • @nyari17
      @nyari17 3 роки тому +1

      Hmm right I lost my granny and I wrote a song called 'goodbye' hope yall will check out bless you

    • @dishapathak2714
      @dishapathak2714 3 роки тому +1

      ua-cam.com/video/Pzwanz9DxRU/v-deo.html

    • @MarinaandM
      @MarinaandM 3 роки тому +1

      m.ua-cam.com/video/sdaEQHXLQjk/v-deo.html

  • @chiefdivinity
    @chiefdivinity 5 років тому +666

    I never really listened to Selena’s music like that before but this song is beautiful

    •  5 років тому

      Selena Gomez's new song gets an engagement clip between two men, it's really bad, come watch: LINK ua-cam.com/video/ASiZWp9GBFI/v-deo.html

    • @haziq4658
      @haziq4658 5 років тому +3

      you should listen to werewolf too

    • @jays5926
      @jays5926 5 років тому +2

      Baekhyun EXO
      Or wizards or waverly place theme song

    • @arcijrluvzu6407
      @arcijrluvzu6407 5 років тому

      Same

    • @gamewizard8878
      @gamewizard8878 5 років тому +1

      Idk this song kinda garbage 🗑 🤷🏿‍♂️

  • @leinethlee9227
    @leinethlee9227 5 років тому +726

    The pain is not in the breakup, it's in letting the memories go and a whole future you had planned in your mind.

    • @rickiayela
      @rickiayela 5 років тому +1

      Leineth Faith yess! This song is seriously so good 😭😭 I loved reading this comment as well! I’m a musician too and would absolutely love to hear what you think of my stuff :)

    • @chicagorose66
      @chicagorose66 5 років тому +1

      Well said. But true..

    • @leinethlee9227
      @leinethlee9227 5 років тому +1

      @@rickiayela will check it out

    • @iEddYKz
      @iEddYKz 5 років тому +2

      this proof it always about ourself.. we are very selfish at the core and it about our needs first

    • @magorzatakozub6329
      @magorzatakozub6329 5 років тому +1

      Yeees ! That's true ! :(

  • @hoadinh1293
    @hoadinh1293 24 дні тому +3

    I can feel her. Poor Selena a lot. I wish she will have a whole life filled with peace, safe and happiness

  • @heykobe8437
    @heykobe8437 5 років тому +887

    “I put you first and you adored it.”
    damn that hit me deep

    • @LoriWoodson-q8q
      @LoriWoodson-q8q 6 місяців тому +3

      Id say he ded

    • @Nasdaqbaby
      @Nasdaqbaby 4 місяці тому +7

      narcissistic character :
      recognition

    • @IceDragon-7
      @IceDragon-7 Місяць тому

      @@Nasdaqbaby my most recent ex is a narcissist she totally destroyed everything on me my life my heart my personality I used to love her unconditionally now I have to stop myself from hating her not for her sake but for mine I won’t do that to me

    • @Nasdaqbaby
      @Nasdaqbaby Місяць тому +1

      @ i wish you peace, calm and comfort

    • @IceDragon-7
      @IceDragon-7 Місяць тому +1

      @@Nasdaqbaby thank you same to you

  • @damarpun9701
    @damarpun9701 4 роки тому +1851

    This song is not just a breakup song.
    This song is the healer of sad , angry and depression. I listened to this song when I am sad .Such a calming song😥.Who is agree with me?

  • @pratikkumardas362
    @pratikkumardas362 3 роки тому +4038

    True feelings can't be replaced within 2 months . This song hits me hard.

    • @DarkAce1
      @DarkAce1 3 роки тому +40

      Ikr!! This song makes my day much better

    • @TiffanyLMorales
      @TiffanyLMorales 3 роки тому +47

      They can if you spend everyday with someone else.

    • @anniejustin2621
      @anniejustin2621 3 роки тому +4

      😔❤right

    • @olabodeprecious1126
      @olabodeprecious1126 3 роки тому +7

      I moved on 2days 💔

    • @olabodeprecious1126
      @olabodeprecious1126 3 роки тому +15

      @@TiffanyLMorales fact I moved on two days ..when my ex said he was getting married..two days I replaced us 💔

  • @MaruAngelo-bg4vm
    @MaruAngelo-bg4vm Місяць тому +6

    Looks like we're getting older but this song will never get old.

  • @carolinasalazar257
    @carolinasalazar257 3 роки тому +1620

    When selena said: “In two months you replaced us”. I FEEL THAT :(

  • @cimocimon
    @cimocimon 5 років тому +2316

    "in two months you replaced us
    like it was easy"
    💔

    • @HS-qw7od
      @HS-qw7od 5 років тому +34

      Wendi Cimonica I felt her pain in that!

    • @dilahspardi
      @dilahspardi 5 років тому +24

      Was it abt justin?

    • @diana-gw7xf
      @diana-gw7xf 5 років тому +27

      my jelena ass got hurt ngl dhjsjs

    • @juhikundi190
      @juhikundi190 5 років тому +2

      dilah spardi Yh

    • @diana-gw7xf
      @diana-gw7xf 5 років тому +12

      @@HS-qw7od also "not it's goodbye for both of us" like i know they're over but damn it hits different when she sings abt it

  • @oliviacastro4978
    @oliviacastro4978 4 роки тому +4686

    Get this:
    "There's a difference between a *want* and a *need* "
    "The heart *wants* what it wants" but "I *needed* to lose you to love me"

  • @ZleeLyrics
    @ZleeLyrics 22 дні тому +5

    the most painful thing is that the person who gave you memories, has become a memory

  • @agussanchez470
    @agussanchez470 5 років тому +813

    " she lost him, but she found herselft and some how that was everything ".

  • @idontcare7543
    @idontcare7543 5 років тому +706

    'I needed to lose you to love me'
    Most iconic saying ever..

    • @ronggrikmarak4357
      @ronggrikmarak4357 5 років тому +2

      Rosé Ari LoL don’t exaggerate

    • @VSamoeSerdce
      @VSamoeSerdce 5 років тому +1

      "Я должна потерять тебя чтобы полюбить себя "

    • @heregood494
      @heregood494 5 років тому

      Selena(๑ơ ₃ ơ)♥

  • @English_By_The_Grace_Of_God
    @English_By_The_Grace_Of_God Рік тому +2431

    One day Selena, you will find someone who treats you like the queen you are. Losing your first love is hard but finding your last love is breathtaking 🥰😘

  • @Mr_Actual
    @Mr_Actual 9 днів тому +2

    If she dedicates this song to you just know there's no coming back.

  • @shrutibhoyar156
    @shrutibhoyar156 5 років тому +749

    My eyes were filled with tears. A song for every broken heart.

    • @hendrisamsudin4746
      @hendrisamsudin4746 5 років тому +3

      Mantul

    • @BeefbrothHD3L
      @BeefbrothHD3L 4 роки тому +4

      At some point ur heart gets broken enough u stop feeling it.

    • @BeefbrothHD3L
      @BeefbrothHD3L 4 роки тому +4

      Theres a point when ur hearts gets broken enough it almost feels like there's nothing left, that point when u can't even feel anymore and life just feels almost like a Haze and you're not really present.
      Girls aren't the only ones who have heart break , most guys just arent man enough to admit it 😔

    • @shrutibhoyar156
      @shrutibhoyar156 4 роки тому +4

      @@BeefbrothHD3L true

    • @nurizyean2715
      @nurizyean2715 4 роки тому +3

      Yes.. Agreed.. when u feel betrayed u will know the meaning of this song.. My eyes filled with tears too.. It kinda help u to express ur feeling and after that.. Feel relief!!

  • @vee08
    @vee08 5 років тому +1454

    2011: Love You Like A Love Song
    2014: The Heart Wants What It Wants
    2019: Lose You To Love Me

    • @coffeedense
      @coffeedense 5 років тому +22

      The glow up that she needed finally💃

    • @denizt4986
      @denizt4986 5 років тому +26

      Don't forget 2018: Back To You

    • @Gregnolaa
      @Gregnolaa 5 років тому +2

      Don't forget Feel Me.

    • @tinyroberts9290
      @tinyroberts9290 5 років тому +1

      Selena Gomez talks Beyonce. ua-cam.com/video/8CtVxPzcUmY/v-deo.html

    • @VickRail
      @VickRail 5 років тому

      @@coffeedense go watch my UA-cam channel please I'm singer

  • @ninilovegt5521
    @ninilovegt5521 5 років тому +602

    this song hits me so personally she deserves a love like her heart

    • @fahadx3622
      @fahadx3622 5 років тому +2

      You are so cute😍😍

    • @mxinnocent
      @mxinnocent 5 років тому +1

      She has have once. Theres The Weeknd but what did she do?

    • @aqsarahman1140
      @aqsarahman1140 20 днів тому

      And now she got benny blanco ❤

  • @Sewminiperers00
    @Sewminiperers00 24 дні тому +8

    It’s crazy how I can relate to the lyrics now
    “two month you replaced Us “hits hard

  • @bbyquinn333
    @bbyquinn333 5 років тому +525

    When Selena says: “I needed to lose you to love me” bro I really feel that

    • @JakeMC521
      @JakeMC521 5 років тому

      Bro, which time?

    • @YoungAlienBoy
      @YoungAlienBoy 5 років тому

      @@JakeMC521 Everybody Dislike Muisc Video & Share It Going Viral 🏳️‍🌈🙏🏽 ua-cam.com/video/I--rRfdoWEI/v-deo.html

    • @proclub1756
      @proclub1756 5 років тому

      Selena and Camila collaboration. ua-cam.com/video/8CtVxPzcUmY/v-deo.html

    • @JakeMC521
      @JakeMC521 5 років тому +1

      @@YoungAlienBoy Leave me alone

  • @andrealekic120
    @andrealekic120 5 років тому +529

    *This song helped me get over the relationship I was never in.*

    • @YoungAlienBoy
      @YoungAlienBoy 5 років тому

      Everybody Dislike Video & Share Its Viral 🏳️‍🌈🙏🏽 ua-cam.com/video/I--rRfdoWEI/v-deo.html

    • @TVWaterIsland
      @TVWaterIsland 5 років тому +1

      I think I'm finally clean ❤️

    • @tiktokaddicts9220
      @tiktokaddicts9220 5 років тому

      I felt this deep into my soul 💀

    • @stoppls1709
      @stoppls1709 5 років тому

      this song finally helped me get stage 6 cancer

    • @liliax2741
      @liliax2741 5 років тому

      It really did

  • @nupursaigal
    @nupursaigal 4 роки тому +973

    When she said - "and now it's good-bye, it's good-bye for us". I felt that.

  • @z-gnz
    @z-gnz Місяць тому +6

    This is a new song everytime I listen, it never gets old.

  • @sircolmilloblanco40
    @sircolmilloblanco40 4 роки тому +1067

    I can't believe VMA's robbed this masterpiece. I love Selena Gomez.

  • @liperpul9238
    @liperpul9238 5 років тому +6443

    "If you lose someone but found yourself, you won." -Joker

    • @sevcan6140
      @sevcan6140 5 років тому +27

      True

    • @ignaciolynette
      @ignaciolynette 5 років тому +9

      0o0

    • @jnthnofficial
      @jnthnofficial 5 років тому +27

      liperpul fc that movie is one of the best ones I’ve seen in the past 5 years. I make music too btw, give me a chance if u want I won’t disappoint

    • @bluesanta6006
      @bluesanta6006 5 років тому +7

      Jnthn I found u a minute ago your music is amazing bro

    • @shawnnn8411
      @shawnnn8411 5 років тому +6

      Jnthn dude you sound like a mix between Shawn and billie. I love it sm

  • @ramseszamora938
    @ramseszamora938 3 роки тому +678

    I'm not a Selena Gomez fan, but to admit that this song deserved more than a grammy
    no soy fan de Selena Gomez, pero de admitir que esta cancion merecia mas de algun grammy

  • @classisthekey7792
    @classisthekey7792 Місяць тому +10

    And now she is happy🥹❤️ and engaged! Im so happy for her! She deserves the world❤

  • @ivoryglass3589
    @ivoryglass3589 4 роки тому +620

    Selena has accomplished in one year :
    Rare Album,
    Cooking show,
    Launched Rare Beauty
    Black Pink Song,
    and many more things she has done....
    She is very amazing.

    • @evelyng2747
      @evelyng2747 4 роки тому +15

      She definitely found love within herself, it’s beautiful ❤️

    • @nethmaakara6041
      @nethmaakara6041 4 роки тому +5

      Yeah she is gorgeous

    • @penguinpookizz5085
      @penguinpookizz5085 4 роки тому +1

      Trevor Daniel song, film the heartbroken gallery, netflix serie and many more :)

    • @shawnrich8845
      @shawnrich8845 4 роки тому +3

      She did this all this year and got ZERO nominations for AMAS VMAS BBMAS like seriously why they are snubbing her?? #selenadeservesbetter

    • @romelyvillanueva8307
      @romelyvillanueva8307 4 місяці тому +1

      and.. a billionaire.

  • @triyanajones9521
    @triyanajones9521 5 років тому +672

    "In Two Months You Replaced Us, Like It Was Easy."
    i felt that.

    • @YoungAlienBoy
      @YoungAlienBoy 5 років тому

      Everybody Can Yall Dislike Video & Leave A Rude Comment 🏳️‍🌈🙏🏽 ua-cam.com/video/I--rRfdoWEI/v-deo.html

    • @tessasua7222
      @tessasua7222 5 років тому +2

      I felt that shit.

    • @jessicagarcia3719
      @jessicagarcia3719 5 років тому +2

      i did too..

    • @carolnegri
      @carolnegri 5 років тому +1

      same omgg

    • @yslena2373
      @yslena2373 5 років тому +1

      I felt that too

  • @hxfizax
    @hxfizax 5 років тому +584

    When she said “I needed to *hate* you to love me “ I felt that

    • @bea1941
      @bea1941 5 років тому +2

      Right?

    • @YoungAlienBoy
      @YoungAlienBoy 5 років тому

      @@bea1941 Everyone Can Yall Dislike Video 🏳️‍🌈🙏🏽 ua-cam.com/video/I--rRfdoWEI/v-deo.html

  • @Batmanforeal22
    @Batmanforeal22 Місяць тому +5

    5 years ago? Feels like she just dropped it yesterday

  • @rheynahdethbonhoc4535
    @rheynahdethbonhoc4535 5 років тому +3443

    "AND NOW THE CHAPTER IS CLOSED AND DONE."
    ohh it kinda hurts.

    •  5 років тому +4

      Selena Gomez's new song gets an engagement clip between two men, it's really bad, come watch: LINK ua-cam.com/video/ASiZWp9GBFI/v-deo.html

    • @iiAngelic
      @iiAngelic 5 років тому +5

      Yeah especially since Justin and Selena were like Britney and Justin T.

    • @marbelysalmeron
      @marbelysalmeron 5 років тому +1

      This comment's replies tho

    • @blinkeuu3107
      @blinkeuu3107 5 років тому +5

      no it doesn’t SHES FINALLY FREE

    • @nahed562
      @nahed562 5 років тому

      💜💜

  • @xMelanyyy
    @xMelanyyy 5 років тому +590

    This is her best song, for real

  • @Officiallyarohi
    @Officiallyarohi 11 місяців тому +1962

    "In two months you replaced us" i felt this

    • @dircemaria7554
      @dircemaria7554 11 місяців тому +7

      😢

    • @raniaallie7235
      @raniaallie7235 11 місяців тому +39

      mine already dated a another person while dating me

    • @SarahThompson05
      @SarahThompson05 10 місяців тому +32

      Im really mad at JB becouse of this

    • @kentacherissakenese2155
      @kentacherissakenese2155 10 місяців тому +2

      My fav part 😢

    • @Jess-zr8ez
      @Jess-zr8ez 9 місяців тому +10

      I was replaced while still dating. But I feel this so so much right now. I needed to hear this again

  • @Helen.Jesus-Saves
    @Helen.Jesus-Saves Місяць тому +1

    I was with a dismissive avoidant and it hurt so bad. This song has helped me heal. Thank you Selena xx

  • @ellypatterson9175
    @ellypatterson9175 3 роки тому +918

    One of the most meaningful and powerful songs she has ever wrote. Just Listen to the lyrics……..

  • @ikravanlaeken
    @ikravanlaeken 5 років тому +671

    “I needed to hate you to love me”
    my heart hurts

    • @sirfabulous8521
      @sirfabulous8521 5 років тому

      Selena fans will love to see this
      ua-cam.com/video/8CtVxPzcUmY/v-deo.html

    • @yusufutkukibarkaya6778
      @yusufutkukibarkaya6778 5 років тому +2

      🇹🇷🇹🇷🇹🇷🇹🇷

    • @shehmeerahmed5351
      @shehmeerahmed5351 5 років тому +1

      My Also😢

    • @tanem8482
      @tanem8482 5 років тому +1

      arkadaslar sarki harika

    • @ikravanlaeken
      @ikravanlaeken 5 років тому +1

      mika 美 ağlıyorm şu an zatn dertsiz başıma dert açtı

  • @aiwynairyn5711
    @aiwynairyn5711 3 роки тому +2035

    It's July 22 , 2021 "It's selena birthday " listening this masterpiece on her birthday.

    • @nicolealisia8825
      @nicolealisia8825 3 роки тому +2

      Yay

    • @cassiaferreiralima8206
      @cassiaferreiralima8206 3 роки тому

      @@nicolealisia8825 tá vendo Selena Gomes quanta gente gosta de vc por uma música que vc nem fez

    • @darlenecastillo6908
      @darlenecastillo6908 3 роки тому

      @@cassiaferreiralima8206 v s0

    • @axislays
      @axislays 3 роки тому +4

      May god bless her for all the pain she went through…

    • @birds764
      @birds764 3 роки тому +2

      I....I didnt know I shared the same birthday as Selena gomez.... Oh my moons! Well happy birthday to her to then

  • @Unedz1174
    @Unedz1174 Місяць тому +5

    And she’s now engaged 🥺✨

  • @manilovefrogs1971
    @manilovefrogs1971 5 років тому +4434

    She lost him.
    She found herself.
    She wins.

    • @obinwosu95
      @obinwosu95 5 років тому +16

      Actually yeah she found herself
      But fr, A lady who has really left you..won't even try to make a song again about you. In other words..she finding different ways to let the word "jb" get off her mind because people still talk about it and it gets her thinking

    • @dove.9833
      @dove.9833 5 років тому +23

      Peter Parker he lost her she didn’t lose anything his loss not Selena’s

    • @armoniarchie9477
      @armoniarchie9477 5 років тому +8

      Peter Parker um no
      He wins and she does butshe still writing songs about him but I love her and always will

    • @너너나나나
      @너너나나나 5 років тому +13

      @@armoniarchie9477 she has the right to write song about him.

    • @tomascorbin8716
      @tomascorbin8716 5 років тому +3

      Peter Parker stfu bitch

  • @arnavdeshmukh8050
    @arnavdeshmukh8050 4 роки тому +609

    And now this chapter is closed and done , this line hit me

  • @khalidkh6763
    @khalidkh6763 5 років тому +847

    "I gave my all and they all know it"
    yes we know selena

    • @mo-key8839
      @mo-key8839 5 років тому +3

      What she gives him???

    • @galilo818
      @galilo818 5 років тому +22

      @@mo-key8839 the true question is waht she didn't give to him.

    • @stevenoswaldo7335
      @stevenoswaldo7335 5 років тому

      Whom is she talking about? Can u tell me some of the story

    • @asoumamhf3460
      @asoumamhf3460 5 років тому +5

      @@stevenoswaldo7335 she talking about story of Justin biber

    • @tigrefofo3853
      @tigrefofo3853 5 років тому +2

      @@mo-key8839 Everything and something more

  • @ryanscot7445
    @ryanscot7445 12 днів тому +2

    Most under rated song.... even after 1/2 billion views.

  • @cevatkaraduman4806
    @cevatkaraduman4806 2 роки тому +3555

    It’s been 3 years now and it still hits the bottom of my heart

    • @sutsui
      @sutsui 2 роки тому +24

      After these Years it's already a Masterpeace from her.

    • @aananditasood5673
      @aananditasood5673 2 роки тому +10

      Yes I wish posts songs everyday I just love listening her voice

    • @felicialopez3318
      @felicialopez3318 2 роки тому +2

      Don't forget this MV keep watching

    • @PETSYs
      @PETSYs 2 роки тому

      me too

    • @moryirs5134
      @moryirs5134 2 роки тому

      Jus like me,,one year and two months now, Unstopable TEARS

  • @mrpiggy4031
    @mrpiggy4031 5 років тому +905

    2014: the heart wants what it wants
    2019: i needed to lose you to love me

  • @ladeesetaiwi8110
    @ladeesetaiwi8110 5 років тому +3156

    Omg when she said “In two months you replaced us, like it was easy” this hurts

    • @ahmadkhalaf2768
      @ahmadkhalaf2768 5 років тому +1

      لديس عطيوي ladees etaiwi bshrfi ah

    • @pinkabrablen
      @pinkabrablen 5 років тому +82

      I know, this is my story too. After almost 5 years of relationship he replaced me in 2 months. It hurts so much.

    • @ebony3324
      @ebony3324 5 років тому +26

      Straight shot at justin

    • @user-oz2wr1pv7r
      @user-oz2wr1pv7r 5 років тому +34

      that's clearly kinda " HI JUSTIN "

    • @courtneylee3477
      @courtneylee3477 5 років тому +3

      Same

  • @JenniferAnisone
    @JenniferAnisone День тому +1

    Today is my birthday and this is on replay. This song and "Clover Cage - Stand Up For My Country" are the two songs that helped with my depression. I just want everyone to know things do get better. We are in this together. I love you 💕

  • @lushflake601
    @lushflake601 4 роки тому +863

    She made her emotion, struggles an art and that’s why she is a true artist 👩‍🎤 and inspiration

    • @mirrorgt908
      @mirrorgt908 4 роки тому +11

      Your right, we choose what we get out selfs into. We have control of that. We see the signs and ignore them.

    • @pinkangel9398
      @pinkangel9398 4 роки тому +3

      Yes you are right

    • @srsesshoumaru9014
      @srsesshoumaru9014 4 роки тому +2

      Yeah, this is so true because all of art come from inside of us

    • @m47k1985
      @m47k1985 4 роки тому +2

      And the song writer

    • @bleish.
      @bleish. 4 роки тому +3

      Selena is the cutest and loveliest person....I have so much love for her.. ❤️

  • @EurovisionMacedonia
    @EurovisionMacedonia 4 роки тому +1859

    Not a fan of Selena Gomez. But *DAMN* this song hits on another level.

  • @rnbPGTV
    @rnbPGTV 5 років тому +793

    Justin: love yourself.
    Selena: exactly I needed to lose you to love me.

    • @viniciusconnor6607
      @viniciusconnor6607 5 років тому

      601 likes in 31 minutes. Wow!

    • @dneshjain9328
      @dneshjain9328 5 років тому +3

      Love yourself was written by Ed Sheeran.

    • @viniciusconnor6607
      @viniciusconnor6607 5 років тому +2

      I love Selena and i love Taylor Swift

    • @rnbPGTV
      @rnbPGTV 5 років тому +1

      @@viniciusconnor6607 cheers 😃🍻

    • @wallace9314
      @wallace9314 4 роки тому +2

      Bitch talking about getting a secret abortion, Listen again...

  • @AloysKruse
    @AloysKruse 24 дні тому +5

    Losing a relationship is okay, but losing yourself in a relationship isn't.

  • @etnihernandez8833
    @etnihernandez8833 5 років тому +833

    “In two months you replaced us, like it was easy” I felt that 😭💔

    • @kiml1226
      @kiml1226 5 років тому +7

      Same😔

    • @padmeskywalker1537
      @padmeskywalker1537 5 років тому +2

      That stung.

    • @TWCNation
      @TWCNation 5 років тому +4

      My dad said he would buy me a lizard if I hit 1.6k subs help :(

    • @brittanyv1126
      @brittanyv1126 5 років тому +1

      It was easy for her to replace Abel in a matter of a couple days when she went running back to Justin.... she got her karma.

  • @Moonlight-bl4tl
    @Moonlight-bl4tl 2 роки тому +1805

    Happy 3 years to this masterpiece. Thank you Selena for creating such a powerful song !

    • @barnabusoskineegish364
      @barnabusoskineegish364 2 роки тому +2

      there passing msg to me to flat out majic .cloning msg for me encryptic msg from the underworld.this song is based on my life i lived..all in purpose .i suppose just makes me wonder why me why iam suppose to HATE ..IMM LOST more then ever before fallen angels music cloning all i got say bout that IAM WE ARE ONE ..Mm

    • @Precaus
      @Precaus 2 роки тому +7

      I listened to this song the day it came out and haven't listened to it since (no bad reasons.. just into K-pop) I say on my recommendations and saw it's been three years and I was so shocked like time moves fast it felt that I listened to this masterpiece last week.

    • @repentnowtomorrowisnotprom8410
      @repentnowtomorrowisnotprom8410 2 роки тому +2

      Don't take the v@ccine trust in The LORD ALMIGHTY!!!

    • @ثرياكارم
      @ثرياكارم 2 роки тому

      Yeah

    • @sheilamugambi8630
      @sheilamugambi8630 2 роки тому

      Yes

  • @leak502
    @leak502 5 років тому +714

    "I needed to hate you to love me"
    Damn that shit's deep

    • @shamaniehwilson7035
      @shamaniehwilson7035 5 років тому +4

      One of the deepest things she’s ever sung

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      @georgiagreasidou3216 5 років тому +1

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      @refinedbylew 5 років тому

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    • @noran5717
      @noran5717 5 років тому +1

      Georgia Greasidou are u ok bruh