This song was inspired by many things that have happened in my life since releasing my last album. I want people to feel hope and to know you will come out the other side stronger and a better version of yourself.
I can't believe it has been a year since the release of this song. So much have happened since the things I was experiencing when this song was released.
Ur not old enough but anyone can get a heart break I got a heart break from my best friend of 9 years 4 years ago because she betrayed me actually I’ve had 3 more one of 2 years 5 years ago because someone stole her from me another one because she moved for 2 years 3 years ago and one for 3 years because we separated classes 2 years ago
I'm 52 and just discovered this song. I'm old enough to be her Mom. Our own daughter is 29. What a gorgeous voice this young woman has. I love this song 🎵
I know you guys hate self promoters but please hear me out. I'm different than other rappers, I rap about stuff that makes a difference. I recently got bullied in school and I wrote a song about that. They bullied me cause I'm indian, my accent and a lot of other stuff as well. The song is called "k grip hope" on youtube. I think you guys should listen to it so you know what it was like for me. Thanks for listening to me, please be kind to others whether you listen or not. 🙂
Easily her best lead! It still hits just as hard as it did when it came out. She delivered vocally, lyrically & sonically. Visually too. Sometimes, surrendering to tender truth is all you need. This is art in it's purest form.
@@joedoe2672 Everyone's entitled to their own opinion, but if you feel that way, why are you here on her video? I like Selena, granted shes not a vocalist type of singer, but honestly most artists aren't these days. A person could use minimal vocals and still create decent music. It's done daily now lol. All comes down to taste and preference.
Idk if u will ever see this but thank u. It will be 7yrs today that I let go of an 11yr relationship (that I was engaged too) it was filled with neglect and emotional abuse. And I did everything for him thinking that I was his only. Thinking that giving him everything at the risk of myself was enough but it wasn’t. And I thought that me leaving ment I was giving up on him and everything our relationship stood for. But when I heard this song I was reminded that my daughter and me deserved better then for me to stay with a man that didn’t love himself, his kids or me, and once I finally got it. I made the hard choice to do the worst before taking my leave ( yes I cheated before I left) and I got my freedom back. Since then everytime this song plays I smile because no longer will I give my all to those who don’t love me back. No longer will I do everything for someone for them to give me less. I love my freedom and me and my daughter more. So again thank u for giving me the bitch back. And now when I hear this song I smile because I got me back
Seeing someone so famous and exposed having feelings just like all of us is so important and beautiful,it makes me feel less alone. I listen to this and I think I can handle it just like you did. You’re inspiring and I thank you so so much for that. You’re gorgeous
This song is not just a breakup song. This song is the healer of sad , angry and depression. I listened to this song when I am sad .Such a calming song😥.Who is agree with me?
Saw her documentary today and came to this song again after a long while, it's amazing that people just think the song is about love and relationship.. but at first the song is about herself. The fact that she talks in this song about herself to herself is just pure inspiration. Never forget that you are just amazing in the way you are. First learn to love yourself. Edit: Who says you are not perfect.
Omg yes I'm so glad someone else saw that too, I've never seen an artist express such a range of emotions that doesnt feel fake or like acting, it's just raw.
the part where she‘s able to confidently say “I needed to lose you to love me” and she points to herself and gives that little smile, gives me chills/makes my heart happy for her EVERY TIME I watch it
One day Selena, you will find someone who treats you like the queen you are. Losing your first love is hard but finding your last love is breathtaking 🥰😘
How the hell did this song not get nominated at the Grammys? Beautifully written, produced, and so heartfelt. There’s not been a song like this in a long time. So beautiful 🖤🖤
First plan on the new world order Georgia Guidestones is for 93% of all people to be disappeared. (That includes blacks, whites, Mexicans, Asians, Christians...and even many Democrats.)
Gabriela Jimenez was videoed saying she was enslaved and saw people eating people. She moved her hands to her mouth while explaining how they were eating. She said they smelled like humans. She said billionaire Carlos Slim knew about it. Police took her away and I've read she was never seen again. Gabriela was a little frantic, as would be anybody, and why is she missing now?
This is such a beautiful song. I spent 15 years fighting for a man who never saw my value, made me cry all the time, we were so toxic and yet I held on. It nearly killed me and when I finally let go and chose to love me I met my soul mate my real soulmate. And now I'm happily married to a man who cherishes me who loves me unconditionally. Were expecting our first baby. And I couldn't be happier. This song really hit home with I needed to lose you to love me. Yes couldn't have said it better.
Ana Burroughs so happy for you, you deserve endless love ♥️ left my ex after four years and it was so hard but i guess i needed to lose him to love me ♥️
She has no idea how much this song has helped me heal. Still in the process but this makes me feel braver and stronger. Thank you, Selena. I hope you've fully healed and will find the one who you deserve to have. Edit: Thank you for the support and likes ❤
2020 : Listen to the song to enjoy Selena's voice 2022: Listen the song and feel the words and what she was feeling edit : It is 09/03/2023 and here i'm so happy with my single life now and I'm enjoying with my family and friends without thinking about the hard time I went through.. Just trust in God 'cause u will get through everything.. Love you all
Leineth Faith yess! This song is seriously so good 😭😭 I loved reading this comment as well! I’m a musician too and would absolutely love to hear what you think of my stuff :)
This song helped me get over my abusive ex, we broke up in mid 2017 and it took me almost 3 years to get over him. He broke me. The lyric “I needed to lose you to love me.” Is what really got me, I cried for hours after hearing this song. Coming back to it now while I’m in a healthy relationship hits different, like fr fr. It made me realize I always settled for less before and I will never do it again.
Sometimes it takes losing ourselves to finally love ourselves enough to know we deserve better and deserve to be loved the way we love them. I left my ex bf of 6 years in 2018 , I listened to the heart wants what the heart wants to then this song and it just for so well to what I was going through. Listening to this now it makes me feel so proud of myself for having the strength to walk away and come out a much better version of myself and now In a happy relationship.
It’s amazing I’ve been their I was married I gave my everything in that marriage to find out he was cheating on me and to top it off we was married for 8 and share a little girl that’s now 6 years but this was the a amazing feeling because now I look back and think wow look how strong I am look I made it and I know I got everything planned out fine that was escape because this universe don’t allow traumata last for long believe me it took me long time to realise what was going on but then I got all my pieces together like a jigsaw 🧩 and now I look back on the 2 years I’ve been divorced and now question myself and say did I even love him and I laugh but I went through a lot I meant Someone else after my x husband but I wasn’t ready my mind wasn’t ready or my soul and the same experience happened to me again so I looked back on it and it shut me down because this other guy was married and was keeping it a Secret from me he had kids and everything so then my mental state just went cold 🥶 ha ha ha i just focus on myself for a while and out of no where I have meant a new guy in my life that dose love me and my daughter however my guard is slowly coming down because it’s my fear of pain and getting hurt but I swear it’s so pointless whatever meant to happen will happen for good reasons always this why I am just going with the flow of life and if you have good intentions with life people the world believe me your Angels your guides will never let you down thank you 🙏 for taking the time to read this ✌🏽
When this song first came out, I was so touched by it and cried because I could hear Selena's heart and all her emotions. I was crying for her and her situation. I didn't know that I would need this song 2 years later. Thank you, Selena. My son and I are going to be alright.
Theres a point when ur hearts gets broken enough it almost feels like there's nothing left, that point when u can't even feel anymore and life just feels almost like a Haze and you're not really present. Girls aren't the only ones who have heart break , most guys just arent man enough to admit it 😔
Yes.. Agreed.. when u feel betrayed u will know the meaning of this song.. My eyes filled with tears too.. It kinda help u to express ur feeling and after that.. Feel relief!!
Heyy!! Sorry for being a copy & paste warrior, but i just released my first single on spotify and it's sitting at around 300 streams. My ultimate goal is to hit 1000 streams. I'm hoping you could give it a chance by searching "Thnked - Beautiful Life" or just through my channel page here on youtube. Thanks in advance! 💗
I’m here to listen this song again but I see that Selena published this song 10 months ago. I feel like she published like 2 months ago. Time is going fast. Shocked!
exactly... I feel like it was just one month ago... I still remember those times when this song came out , I was so busy to stalk Selena , Justin & Hailey accounts LOL
i can't believe today marks 2 years of the release of this masterpiece. I remember exactly the release day when i was not in a good place mentally for many bad reasons. It was raining and everything was dark and blue. Today i am actually doing good. Crazy how this song holds a place in my heart and mind. God bless that woman.
I feel you 100%. 2 years ago I was so devastated after I broke up with my 1st love and it felt like I would never be able to crawl out of that black hole... then the pandemic hit and things got even darker. This song made me feel less alone and it's crazy to look back now and think of how much I've grown and how much happier I am now. This song will always be very special to me.
Can't believe it's been 3 yrs already. I was in a bad place when this song was released. It did give me hope that life will get better. And now, taking a break while writing a short story at midnight, with all that has happened, i can definitely say that life does turn out to be better if you decide to choose yourself, your dignity and learn to first love you own self.
This song is so beautiful and inspiring. And it has a very important message: Never base your happiness on no one else but yourself, otherwise it's a very dangerous and painful path...
@@vengance2277 everyone's like depressed, feeling insecure, a K-pop star commited suicide, Chile is having innocent civilians shot, raped, and sexual abused, the world has really changed tbh. Last year everything was fine, but 2019 was really so much.
@@ALLYOUPEOPLEAREVAMPIRES1984 no one say that we're depressed, this year was just not easy for some people and that makes them sad but not depressed, the depression is more than that. don't be negative please and just pass your way
2019: selena comes back with a new song This song is the most liked song from her And has already 110M view after 2 weeks I love it 🥰 And a number one on billboard this week
I'm thirty years older than Selena, and I can truly say this song should have existed since the beginning of time many Women have gone through this, we love selflessly and get Scorned. All you young girls in love it would do you good to pay attention to her songs relationship roles have not changed much in 35 years since I fell in love she nails every experience Blessings Ladies
there passing msg to me to flat out majic .cloning msg for me encryptic msg from the underworld.this song is based on my life i lived..all in purpose .i suppose just makes me wonder why me why iam suppose to HATE ..IMM LOST more then ever before fallen angels music cloning all i got say bout that IAM WE ARE ONE ..Mm
I listened to this song the day it came out and haven't listened to it since (no bad reasons.. just into K-pop) I say on my recommendations and saw it's been three years and I was so shocked like time moves fast it felt that I listened to this masterpiece last week.
"In two months, you replaced us" "Like it was easy" "Made me think I deserved it" Felt this💔💔.. "And now the chapter is closed and done It's a goodbye for us" And this too💜💜...
listening to this now, knowing so much more, truly makes me feel the pain she went through. didn’t think i could love her more than i already did. “two months you replaced us” truly strikes the heart.
Same! I have a whole different perspective towards her. And on the documentary when she said something like she went to her team after like 2yrs and was like she’s ready to say that she was sad and tell her side of the story and they wrote this in 45mins , you can just see and hear the hurt she went through.🥺
I'm not a Selena Gomez fan, but to admit that this song deserved more than a grammy no soy fan de Selena Gomez, pero de admitir que esta cancion merecia mas de algun grammy
Only those who have ever loved someone who only hurt you know the feeling of listening to this song by Selena Gomez and realizing that you have freed yourself from that feeling, which was good and bad at the same time, and if you have already found another love that is completely healthy, you see how much what you were experiencing before was problematic August, 2024
“I saw the signs and I ignored them “ is probably one of my favorite lines of the song . I felt this in my last relationship , I gave him my all and he still managed to change me for another female . Never again will I be love blind just because I’m afraid to loose a guy . I will never loose myself like I did with him it was never worth it .
When someone trying to juggle between both ....u gotta understand ur mindset that u r loving him unconditionally n expecting from someone who cant even undersrand you n using u to throw(selfish) you....u better frndjone him like a massive revenge or ignore lik a shit....good luk cute
When she says “i needed to lose you to love me” I feel like she’s talking about a battle with herself . Like she was lost and once she started finding herself she started loving herself . Iono tho, that’s how i see it
I actually feel like every single word here is directed to Justin bieber...its like she's telling him how he hurt her but when she lost him she found herself and after hating him she learned how to love herself and thats Why now she closed the Justin bieber chapter. Case dismissed.
This song was inspired by many things that have happened in my life since releasing my last album. I want people to feel hope and to know you will come out the other side stronger and a better version of yourself.
💓💓💓
you're inspiring 💜
Good luck, love. I hope you heal and live.
WE LOVE YOU
So proud of you sel!!!
It's better to be alone than being with people who always makes you feel alone 🙂🙂
💯
Absolutely
Amen!!!!!!!
🔥💓
True 🤧
When Selena said: “I needed to lose you to find me”, I FELT THAT.
First
@Adolf Hitler what the hell is ur problem
@Saitama Woah calm down 😲
Yeah
@Saitama someone is pressed
This girl really deserves the whole world. God please give her real happiness
Yes,I confirm.
Indeed
I ask for the same truly love an wish the best for her ❤️❤️
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She will find happiness. God bless her
5 years already? time flies so fast
Justin Bieber is a father now
You don't miss the person.
You only miss the memories .
me too
Same. Memories never fade.
the memories man.
Keep telling yourself that
That's deep.. Here is another one
You don't love me, you just love the thought of me
I can't believe it has been a year since the release of this song. So much have happened since the things I was experiencing when this song was released.
For real
Sameeee thoughtssss 😢
I know rightttttt 😍💯💛💛💛 I also uploaded me paying tribute for Selena on my channel! Feel free to Check it out !
Same😢
Can relate
I am old enough to be Selena' mother but I burst into tears listening to this song for the first time. You can break your heart even at 40.
If you are 40, than you aren’t old enough to be Selena’s mother, since she’s 29.
Ur not old enough but anyone can get a heart break I got a heart break from my best friend of 9 years 4 years ago because she betrayed me actually I’ve had 3 more one of 2 years 5 years ago because someone stole her from me another one because she moved for 2 years 3 years ago and one for 3 years because we separated classes 2 years ago
Ditto
So if you would be Selena’s mom you would give birth in 11 years old!!!!
I'm 52 and just discovered this song. I'm old enough to be her Mom. Our own daughter is 29. What a gorgeous voice this young woman has. I love this song 🎵
Dear Selena,you’re so lucky...Here I can see you have enough fan...They're listening your songs everyday...
Hope she knows how much this song has helped so many ..it’s so relatable..so real.
Yes ❤️ thanks so mach ❤️ I ❤️ Iove ❤️
@@nohdrickjamiewesley420 Me Too.
ooonga no
_I love her because _*_she's not afraid_*_ of showing her emotions._
Yes I agree
Typical fangirlmytrr
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Blink..
well hi again i guess? lol you're in every UA-cam video comment section
This song is definitely the definition of “When you’re sad, you understand the lyrics” 🥺
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I know you guys hate self promoters but please hear me out. I'm different than other rappers, I rap about stuff that makes a difference. I recently got bullied in school and I wrote a song about that. They bullied me cause I'm indian, my accent and a lot of other stuff as well. The song is called "k grip hope" on youtube. I think you guys should listen to it so you know what it was like for me. Thanks for listening to me, please be kind to others whether you listen or not. 🙂
This song is heard and felt when you finally let go of THAT person.
@@kc-lv4gh I’m sorry to hear that! I will definitely check it out! :)
@@RJ-xd6ub Exactly!
Easily her best lead! It still hits just as hard as it did when it came out. She delivered vocally, lyrically & sonically.
Visually too. Sometimes, surrendering to tender truth is all you need. This is art in it's purest form.
2022 and I'm here to listen to her voice. I've never seen a stronger woman in all my life. I wish her all the best for this new yr.
When you block your parents on social media
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Hmm right I lost my granny and I wrote a song called 'goodbye' hope yall will check out bless you
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I am still crying listening to this. She deserves the whole world.
@@vipraja7 that's such an expression to describe how much you love a person and wish all the best to her. 🤦♂️🤦♂️. I feel bad for you
but still, she don't get the grammy for this song.. well, grammy doesn't deserves her.
@@bloom2666 ???? Relate?
@@vipraja7 you tell me what to say, what not to say? Excuse me?
@@vipraja7 it's good for you to realize yourself
“In two months you replaced us, Like it was easy”
This hits so hard
I felt that when she sang that part-
It killing me right now. I have a question about the lyric... SIA ARE YOU HERE??
M a r i follow me please❤️
FUNnEH ME follow me please
Carlos Alberto Valdes follow me please ❤️
Selena’s heartbreak songs are just top tier
She sings by heart and it touches our hearts. This is what we call a masterpiece. Proud of her.
That was full of pain for me...
@@mahoornj3682 I agree with u. It pains us as well
keep watching until you reach 400M, I have faith that we will make it
@@joedoe2672 Everyone's entitled to their own opinion, but if you feel that way, why are you here on her video? I like Selena, granted shes not a vocalist type of singer, but honestly most artists aren't these days. A person could use minimal vocals and still create decent music. It's done daily now lol. All comes down to taste and preference.
She's not just singing... she's talking to us
Let's make her feel heard
two months u replaced us...
Yes ! !
@@exg2004 killed me
yeah
You're right
This song is literally the definition of how a heartbreak can make you realise, that you have to love yourself first♥️
So true
Yasss..
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Amen
Idk if u will ever see this but thank u. It will be 7yrs today that I let go of an 11yr relationship (that I was engaged too) it was filled with neglect and emotional abuse. And I did everything for him thinking that I was his only. Thinking that giving him everything at the risk of myself was enough but it wasn’t. And I thought that me leaving ment I was giving up on him and everything our relationship stood for. But when I heard this song I was reminded that my daughter and me deserved better then for me to stay with a man that didn’t love himself, his kids or me, and once I finally got it. I made the hard choice to do the worst before taking my leave ( yes I cheated before I left) and I got my freedom back. Since then everytime this song plays I smile because no longer will I give my all to those who don’t love me back. No longer will I do everything for someone for them to give me less. I love my freedom and me and my daughter more. So again thank u for giving me the bitch back. And now when I hear this song I smile because I got me back
Seeing someone so famous and exposed having feelings just like all of us is so important and beautiful,it makes me feel less alone. I listen to this and I think I can handle it just like you did.
You’re inspiring and I thank you so so much for that.
You’re gorgeous
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Yeahhh i can feel it too..
Rickey Baker Baker pardon?
@@heisthood c
Every living person has a 💓 and it gets broken the same for famous or not, the poor or the rich. To love yeah........ 😔♥️
This song is not just a breakup song.
This song is the healer of sad , angry and depression. I listened to this song when I am sad .Such a calming song😥.Who is agree with me?
Damar Pun and not a hate song
Yes even if me. This is my 24hrs listen to. Because I feel the pain 😩 .
I like Selena Gomez so much but I will like that she can replied me
I agree with your said
me
Saw her documentary today and came to this song again after a long while, it's amazing that people just think the song is about love and relationship.. but at first the song is about herself. The fact that she talks in this song about herself to herself is just pure inspiration. Never forget that you are just amazing in the way you are. First learn to love yourself.
Edit: Who says you are not perfect.
Same💔🥺
Here the part of the documentary where she talks about this song 😊 : ua-cam.com/users/shortspR84d0UHbDg?feature=share
@@chir3569 Thanks
Yes
Same ❤️🩹
Lose u to find me
Lose u to love me
These lines inspired me
This song somehow helped me to lose my past self nd to seek happiness
Best song ever
And now this chapter is closed and done , this line hit me
Same. That shit hits deep af
and now it’s goodbye it’s goodbye for us
Yeah, DEEP🖤
Love it🖤
It's so intense ! It seems like she is showing every emotions that she got. Anger, happiness, sadness, disappointment, misunderstanding
Yes, she show us, what she feeling
Yeah a year ago lol
Lorena Esquivel: Yea, what she passed through
Omg yes I'm so glad someone else saw that too, I've never seen an artist express such a range of emotions that doesnt feel fake or like acting, it's just raw.
BumbleBee Bella : Yeeaa.. she's so strong. The best one ❤️
the part where she‘s able to confidently say “I needed to lose you to love me” and she points to herself and gives that little smile, gives me chills/makes my heart happy for her EVERY TIME I watch it
justin beeiiiiiberrrrrrrr
Youll be never sad with selena then lol
SAME! It’s my absolute favorite moment of the video. Seems so genuine and well earned.
Honestly I fell that this song should be on repeat! Look at her now♥️. Billionaire ✨💰🥂. Inspiration to all of us! 🌹. Happy she chose herself!
This is not a song..this is once in a lifetime masterpiece that’s filled with emotions that everyone can relate with.
69 :)
And i still don’t know why we cry when we see this 😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😍😭😍😭😭😍😭😍😭😭😭😍😭😍😭😍😭😍😭😭😭😭😭😍😭😍😍😭😍we’ll never know
But we do know here today that the Selena Gomez followers will emerge victorious once again
except narcissists 💀
@@Stewie_and_brian631
Lol
"in two months you replaced us
like it was easy"
💔
Wendi Cimonica I felt her pain in that!
Was it abt justin?
my jelena ass got hurt ngl dhjsjs
dilah spardi Yh
@@HS-qw7od also "not it's goodbye for both of us" like i know they're over but damn it hits different when she sings abt it
She is such a beautiful person, inside and out.
I agree 102%
*and when I say 102% it’s TRUE*
Aldana Alkubaisi well I agree 103%
I agree 100000000000000000%
@@vunurableme656 well I'll back track with 104% agree, haha ;-)
@@lulu9001 my word what kind of English is this comrade😂
What a beautiful song. ❤️
“In two months you replaced us, like it was easy” I felt that 😭💔
Same😔
That stung.
My dad said he would buy me a lizard if I hit 1.6k subs help :(
It was easy for her to replace Abel in a matter of a couple days when she went running back to Justin.... she got her karma.
One of the most meaningful and powerful songs she has ever wrote. Just Listen to the lyrics……..
You can't listen the lyrics tho
Really! how insightful you are.
@@derklanz1222 I was being sarcastic dont take it seriously
Totally agree!!
*written
One day Selena, you will find someone who treats you like the queen you are. Losing your first love is hard but finding your last love is breathtaking 🥰😘
hit
What a great thing to say agree totally
hoping it's zayn
She already has. She found herself. ❤️
😊 sweet
This song makes me feel so sad but in a good way.
“I put you first and you adored it.”
damn that hit me deep
Id say he ded
narcissistic character :
recognition
“And now the chapter is closed and done”
It’s hit me so hard
That’s my favorite part
Ikrr it literally breaks me
Closed and done for Selena. But for him? Who knows
Justin Bieber is gay. Jayden Smith and Justin Bieber were caught kissing each other after
She made her emotion, struggles an art and that’s why she is a true artist 👩🎤 and inspiration
Your right, we choose what we get out selfs into. We have control of that. We see the signs and ignore them.
Yes you are right
Yeah, this is so true because all of art come from inside of us
And the song writer
Selena is the cutest and loveliest person....I have so much love for her.. ❤️
I cant tell whats more beautiful, her or her voice
both is the perfect answer
How the hell did this song not get nominated at the Grammys? Beautifully written, produced, and so heartfelt. There’s not been a song like this in a long time. So beautiful 🖤🖤
Totally agree, Grammys is awful
people slept in this song when this was released
*SELENA GOMEZ SUCKSS, MY MUSIC IS BETTER*
First plan on the new world order Georgia Guidestones is for 93% of all people to be disappeared. (That includes blacks, whites, Mexicans, Asians, Christians...and even many Democrats.)
Gabriela Jimenez was videoed saying she was enslaved and saw people eating people. She moved her hands to her mouth while explaining how they were eating. She said they smelled like humans. She said billionaire Carlos Slim knew about it. Police took her away and I've read she was never seen again. Gabriela was a little frantic, as would be anybody, and why is she missing now?
It’s been 3 years now and it still hits the bottom of my heart
After these Years it's already a Masterpeace from her.
Yes I wish posts songs everyday I just love listening her voice
Don't forget this MV keep watching
me too
Jus like me,,one year and two months now, Unstopable TEARS
This is such a beautiful song. I spent 15 years fighting for a man who never saw my value, made me cry all the time, we were so toxic and yet I held on. It nearly killed me and when I finally let go and chose to love me I met my soul mate my real soulmate. And now I'm happily married to a man who cherishes me who loves me unconditionally. Were expecting our first baby. And I couldn't be happier. This song really hit home with I needed to lose you to love me. Yes couldn't have said it better.
😍👏❤
Hey congratulations❤ That's beautiful ❤
Ana Burroughs so happy for you, you deserve endless love ♥️ left my ex after four years and it was so hard but i guess i needed to lose him to love me ♥️
Congratulations😘❤❤🎉
Ana Burroughs I bet ur ex is smashing hit bitches and partying as u settle in and have a boring life with kids screaming and paying debt etc haha
Just saw a young lady sing this beautifully on The Voice, had never heard this song before im grateful to have found it, its moving 😢
This is her best song, for real
Yes.
one of her best.
Jes
I think the heart wants what it wants and feel me might also share that slot
She has no idea how much this song has helped me heal. Still in the process but this makes me feel braver and stronger. Thank you, Selena. I hope you've fully healed and will find the one who you deserve to have.
Edit: Thank you for the support and likes ❤
We’re in this together my friend. Know you are not alone in this healing process one day we will love ourselves better than they ever could. ❤️
🙏🙏
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Selena if ur reading this we hate you! You got no talent!
@@hornyliastreet4464 shut up hailey!!!
2020 : Listen to the song to enjoy Selena's voice
2022: Listen the song and feel the words and what she was feeling
edit : It is 09/03/2023 and here i'm so happy with my single life now and I'm enjoying with my family and friends without thinking about the hard time I went through.. Just trust in God 'cause u will get through everything.. Love you all
Wait, literally though. Why is this me too? It can feel so hard at times.. Glad to know I'm not alone though. We got this.
@@andrea.dandelion Fortunately I'm not alone.
We will get through all of this..just trust in God
yes..
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this is so true
I burst into tears when I first watched this masterpiece 🩷
When Selena said “I needed to lose you to love me” I felt that. Sometimes, you tried so much for someone, you forget to love yourself.
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@@YoungAlienBoy hahahah I can understand your problem u want view lol 😅
The pain is not in the breakup, it's in letting the memories go and a whole future you had planned in your mind.
Leineth Faith yess! This song is seriously so good 😭😭 I loved reading this comment as well! I’m a musician too and would absolutely love to hear what you think of my stuff :)
Well said. But true..
@@rickiayela will check it out
this proof it always about ourself.. we are very selfish at the core and it about our needs first
Yeees ! That's true ! :(
This song helped me get over my abusive ex, we broke up in mid 2017 and it took me almost 3 years to get over him. He broke me. The lyric “I needed to lose you to love me.” Is what really got me, I cried for hours after hearing this song. Coming back to it now while I’m in a healthy relationship hits different, like fr fr. It made me realize I always settled for less before and I will never do it again.
Sometimes it takes losing ourselves to finally love ourselves enough to know we deserve better and deserve to be loved the way we love them. I left my ex bf of 6 years in 2018 , I listened to the heart wants what the heart wants to then this song and it just for so well to what I was going through. Listening to this now it makes me feel so proud of myself for having the strength to walk away and come out a much better version of myself and now In a happy relationship.
don't forget to listen to fans a lot, on the neighboring app, go give full support to this wonderful song.
Hope you okay now 😊
I’m happy you are with someone who treats you right! 💛🙏🏻
Here feeling the same emotions years later. Much love xoxo
Well I have a very bad relationship with someone selenagomez and I’ve been struggling with my life listen to your music calms me
This broke my heart a little bit this is life we love hard but then we find ourselves again it’s all worth it makes us more stronger
bouamri1 IKR this song is amazing 😭😭 I loved reading this comment as well! I’m a musician too and would love to hear your thoughts on my stuff :)
Best song
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It’s amazing I’ve been their I was married I gave my everything in that marriage to find out he was cheating on me and to top it off we was married for 8 and share a little girl that’s now 6 years but this was the a amazing feeling because now I look back and think wow look how strong I am look I made it and I know I got everything planned out fine that was escape because this universe don’t allow traumata last for long believe me it took me long time to realise what was going on but then I got all my pieces together like a jigsaw 🧩 and now I look back on the 2 years I’ve been divorced and now question myself and say did I even love him and I laugh but I went through a lot I meant Someone else after my x husband but I wasn’t ready my mind wasn’t ready or my soul and the same experience happened to me again so I looked back on it and it shut me down because this other guy was married and was keeping it a Secret from me he had kids and everything so then my mental state just went cold 🥶 ha ha ha i just focus on myself for a while and out of no where I have meant a new guy in my life that dose love me and my daughter however my guard is slowly coming down because it’s my fear of pain and getting hurt but I swear it’s so pointless whatever meant to happen will happen for good reasons always this why I am just going with the flow of life and if you have good intentions with life people the world believe me your Angels your guides will never let you down thank you 🙏 for taking the time to read this ✌🏽
True feelings can't be replaced within 2 months . This song hits me hard.
Ikr!! This song makes my day much better
They can if you spend everyday with someone else.
😔❤right
I moved on 2days 💔
@@TiffanyLMorales fact I moved on two days ..when my ex said he was getting married..two days I replaced us 💔
When this song first came out, I was so touched by it and cried because I could hear Selena's heart and all her emotions. I was crying for her and her situation. I didn't know that I would need this song 2 years later. Thank you, Selena. My son and I are going to be alright.
Sending you hugs ❣️ it's okay not be okay.
Sending you two lots and lots of love and abundance 💗
me tooooooooooooooooooooooooooo
Sending you lots of love and know that you are so strong😍❣I wish for great days for you and your son💞
no cause same
What an absolute masterpiece, especially when you can relate to the lyrics. 🥹
If you can't love Selena, don't atleast hate her. She's a gem of a person, she's my biggest inspiration. Lots of love from India, my queen.
❤️❤️❤️
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THIS. She isn't one of my favorite artists, but she is such a beautiful soul inside and out and I have lots of respect for her.
nice to e-meet you
India????? 😳😳😳😳😳😳
I really needed this song rn .. I’m literally crying my eyes out ...
Yes.
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Ernestine Montgelas 😪
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I hope you'll feel better soon💙
My eyes were filled with tears. A song for every broken heart.
Mantul
At some point ur heart gets broken enough u stop feeling it.
Theres a point when ur hearts gets broken enough it almost feels like there's nothing left, that point when u can't even feel anymore and life just feels almost like a Haze and you're not really present.
Girls aren't the only ones who have heart break , most guys just arent man enough to admit it 😔
@@Manperor true
Yes.. Agreed.. when u feel betrayed u will know the meaning of this song.. My eyes filled with tears too.. It kinda help u to express ur feeling and after that.. Feel relief!!
I still get goosebumps
I love how she kept looking over her shoulder, as if afraid or regretful, but at the goodbye it's all straightforward and firm.
Excellent observation!
I never really listened to Selena’s music like that before but this song is beautiful
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you should listen to werewolf too
Baekhyun EXO
Or wizards or waverly place theme song
Same
Idk this song kinda garbage 🗑 🤷🏿♂️
She doesn’t know that this song actually heals our pain....
This what helping me now
I list someone now I'm feel it on my heart love this song it heals all that are broken 🥺💓
when imposter is sus!!!11!! 😳😳😳
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this song makes me want to let it all out, we're so proud at how far you came selena🩷
Respect . . . . This song is a reflection to all broken-hearted people . . . .
Ms Hana Stark that is very true
I'm one of them😭😭
Diallo Oumar same
@@@mochibabi2267 yeah, it pretty hurt, isn't it . . . . and it's hard to move on when you already fall for someone . . . .
Ms Hana Stark yea it does......a lot
Here in 2022, and still proud of the person you became. We watched you grow and I can say you’ve become an amazing person. Much love Selena 💖💖
me too..
2021 Adamaris López, 2022 con Shaquira también. Entres otras otras famosas y no famosas. Experiencia que nos hacen más fuerte.
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this song hits me so personally she deserves a love like her heart
You are so cute😍😍
She has have once. Theres The Weeknd but what did she do?
Wow.. How could you sing the whole song without cryingg 😢
I’m here to listen this song again but I see that Selena published this song 10 months ago. I feel like she published like 2 months ago. Time is going fast. Shocked!
I was looking for someone to comment this, I swear she put this out a month or two ago, crazy
Same dude time is running
yesss time going so fast :")
exactly... I feel like it was just one month ago... I still remember those times when this song came out , I was so busy to stalk Selena , Justin & Hailey accounts LOL
Atm
When selena said: “In two months you replaced us”. I FEEL THAT :(
He was already moving on while they were "together", 2 months for her was probably more than a year for him.
She is talking about Justin bieber
@@RemDovans yes.
Same
Same
i can't believe today marks 2 years of the release of this masterpiece. I remember exactly the release day when i was not in a good place mentally for many bad reasons. It was raining and everything was dark and blue. Today i am actually doing good. Crazy how this song holds a place in my heart and mind. God bless that woman.
Im so happy for you. Wish one day I'll be able to get pass my mentally problems
@@getonisd985 thank you so much, hopefully one day you find the peace you deserve 💕
I feel you 100%. 2 years ago I was so devastated after I broke up with my 1st love and it felt like I would never be able to crawl out of that black hole... then the pandemic hit and things got even darker. This song made me feel less alone and it's crazy to look back now and think of how much I've grown and how much happier I am now. This song will always be very special to me.
I’m so happy for you!
Think this was exactly the same settings for me too, it's funny how time changes everything.
I needed this today... Going through my millionth break-up. I just gotta love me... And that's enough.
Can't believe it's been 3 yrs already. I was in a bad place when this song was released. It did give me hope that life will get better. And now, taking a break while writing a short story at midnight, with all that has happened, i can definitely say that life does turn out to be better if you decide to choose yourself, your dignity and learn to first love you own self.
Me too miss thing..
Same here, this song got me thru alot
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Сколько раз я пересмотрела этот клип и до сих пор щемит сердце !
Same I still remember Im waiting for this song released in 12:00pm when I literally on workout 🥲
2014 : The heart wants what it wants
2019 : Lose you to love me
A glow up we all needed
Yass
love it
Farjana Akther both songs are amazing though. Her vocals improved a lot. I make music too btw, give me a chance if u want. I won’t let u down
Agreed 😭❤️
True
This song is so beautiful and inspiring. And it has a very important message: Never base your happiness on no one else but yourself, otherwise it's a very dangerous and painful path...
TOTALLY AGREE GYAL
So true
TRUE!!!!
I love yr sum up!!!✌
@@s.phavuth Thank you. It's a tough lesson! But it's the best thing in the world to understand you own the keys to your happiness!
a beautiful song like your beautiful soul
2019 hasn’t been easy for alot of us and it shows
everyone is fake depressed these days..
Ikr we are all sad humans all the time it really hurt but we have those little happy time I guess
Hmdlh I'm not alone
@@vengance2277 everyone's like depressed, feeling insecure, a K-pop star commited suicide, Chile is having innocent civilians shot, raped, and sexual abused, the world has really changed tbh. Last year everything was fine, but 2019 was really so much.
@@ALLYOUPEOPLEAREVAMPIRES1984 no one say that we're depressed, this year was just not easy for some people and that makes them sad but not depressed, the depression is more than that. don't be negative please and just pass your way
after six months of listening to this song every day, I love it as if it were the first time ❤️
Me too hah, she's the best UwU
Roccuzzo Music same same - this song hits different
Same here, this song is such a great message that sometimes you need to give up something you love, but you ALWAYS come first. ❤
me too!!!
Literally me
When Selena said "In two months you replaced us"
I felt that
100 that was real man
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Mine was 2 weeks
Mine was 2 days lmao
Have you noticed, Selena's character grew from naive & uncertain, to strong and bold by the end!!!!
2019: selena comes back with a new song
This song is the most liked song from her
And has already 110M view after 2 weeks
I love it 🥰
And a number one on billboard this week
Katılıyorum
i don't usually listen to her songs but i love this song
Yup
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facts:if it wasnt about justin it would never
Get this:
"There's a difference between a *want* and a *need* "
"The heart *wants* what it wants" but "I *needed* to lose you to love me"
Olivia Castro best comment
👏👏👏lul
I love this.
Damn that hits hard!
Great
The lyrics "I needed to hate you to love me" makes me feel like a real HEARTBREAK💔
Me too
I felt that
This song makes feel a real heart break
I am a really heart broken 💔💔💔💔💔💔 what justin bieber did to selena Gomez was very sad I am really heart broken 💔💔💔💔💔
I can't get over this song.
I'm thirty years older than Selena, and I can truly say this song should have existed since the beginning of time many Women have gone through this, we love selflessly and get Scorned. All you young girls in love it would do you good to pay attention to her songs relationship roles have not changed much in 35 years since I fell in love she nails every experience Blessings Ladies
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I wish this song was in my high-school years.
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"I love you like a love song"
"The heart wants it wants"
"Lose you to love me" ✨
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China Ambrose it's not always roses but it always smells as sweet. "I needed to hate you to love me"
*“I think it’s important to realize you can miss something, but not want it back.”*
I love this
I really like your comment, it helped me clear my thoughts thank you!
Or sometimes miss the memories but not the people
@@Julietc05 that's true. I have so many memories of things I don't want back
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Hearing dz song for the first time of Selena , it's so passionate and deep, I wanna cry ooo😢😢😢😢😢
Happy 3 years to this masterpiece. Thank you Selena for creating such a powerful song !
there passing msg to me to flat out majic .cloning msg for me encryptic msg from the underworld.this song is based on my life i lived..all in purpose .i suppose just makes me wonder why me why iam suppose to HATE ..IMM LOST more then ever before fallen angels music cloning all i got say bout that IAM WE ARE ONE ..Mm
I listened to this song the day it came out and haven't listened to it since (no bad reasons.. just into K-pop) I say on my recommendations and saw it's been three years and I was so shocked like time moves fast it felt that I listened to this masterpiece last week.
Don't take the v@ccine trust in The LORD ALMIGHTY!!!
Yeah
Yes
This song and Olivia’s are the only breakup songs I’m listening to nonstop
mediocre
Sure!!
taste ✨
You should listen to call out my name by the weeknd. Best breakup song in my opinion.
Listen to Send My Love. This music video was inspired by Adele.
Not a fan of Selena Gomez. But *DAMN* this song hits on another level.
Eurovision Macedonia ikr lol
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Same
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Happy 5 years to this masterpiece 😭💕
"In two months, you replaced us"
"Like it was easy"
"Made me think I deserved it"
Felt this💔💔..
"And now the chapter is closed and done
It's a goodbye for us"
And this too💜💜...
When I read this lyric, my heart hurts too much , Imagine Selena's heat ...
@@thepink3197 She is so strong, She Deserves more!!!!
And i just got goosebumps she deserves better. Justin stupidd
same TnT
My imaginary bf cheated
listening to this now, knowing so much more, truly makes me feel the pain she went through. didn’t think i could love her more than i already did. “two months you replaced us” truly strikes the heart.
Same! I have a whole different perspective towards her. And on the documentary when she said something like she went to her team after like 2yrs and was like she’s ready to say that she was sad and tell her side of the story and they wrote this in 45mins , you can just see and hear the hurt she went through.🥺
I'm not a Selena Gomez fan, but to admit that this song deserved more than a grammy
no soy fan de Selena Gomez, pero de admitir que esta cancion merecia mas de algun grammy
Heck yea it does 😖
yesmon
simón
Only those who have ever loved someone who only hurt you know the feeling of listening to this song by Selena Gomez and realizing that you have freed yourself from that feeling, which was good and bad at the same time, and if you have already found another love that is completely healthy, you see how much what you were experiencing before was problematic
August, 2024
“I saw the signs and I ignored them “ is probably one of my favorite lines of the song . I felt this in my last relationship , I gave him my all and he still managed to change me for another female . Never again will I be love blind just because I’m afraid to loose a guy . I will never loose myself like I did with him it was never worth it .
very good point
Girl you rock . I'm so happy for you
Andrea Estrada keep calm and stay strong 💪🏻
When someone trying to juggle between both ....u gotta understand ur mindset that u r loving him unconditionally n expecting from someone who cant even undersrand you n using u to throw(selfish) you....u better frndjone him like a massive revenge or ignore lik a shit....good luk cute
you deserve more more better then him ❤️
but love yourself first❤️❤️❤️❤️
When she says “i needed to lose you to love me” I feel like she’s talking about a battle with herself . Like she was lost and once she started finding herself she started loving herself . Iono tho, that’s how i see it
I actually feel like every single word here is directed to Justin bieber...its like she's telling him how he hurt her but when she lost him she found herself and after hating him she learned how to love herself and thats Why now she closed the Justin bieber chapter. Case dismissed.
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Esmeralda Garcia yes that might be it but also the part that says “in two months you replaced us” was directly toward JB so...
karena apus well we dont know if it is abt justin bieber it could be abt a lover WE the public dont know abt 🤷🏾♀️
Leslie Ortega but what does she mean with “us” she and who? (besides jb)
losing a relationship is okay.
but losing yourself in a relationship is not okay.
Period
Preach
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wow
and will never be worth it