Selena Gomez - Lose You To Love Me (Official Music Video)

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  • Опубліковано 21 жов 2019
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    LYRICS
    You promised the world and I fell for it
    I put you first and you adored it
    You set fires to my forest
    And you let it burn
    Sang off key in my chorus
    Cause it wasn’t yours
    I saw the signs and I ignored it
    Rose colored glasses all distorted
    You set fire to my purpose
    And I let it burn
    You got off on the hurtin’
    When it wasn’t yours
    We’d always go into it blindly
    I needed to lose you to find me
    This dancing was killing me softly
    I needed to hate you to love me
    To love love yeah
    To love love yeah
    To love yeah
    I needed to lose you to love me
    To love love yeah
    To love love yeah
    To love yeah
    I needed to lose you to love me
    I gave my all and they all know it
    You tore me down and now it’s showing
    In two months you replaced us
    Like it was easy
    Made me think I deserved it
    In the thick of healing
    We’d always go into it blindly
    I needed to lose you to find me
    This dancing was killing me softly
    I needed to hate you to love me
    To love love yeah
    To love love yeah
    To love yeah
    I needed to lose you to love me
    To love love yeah
    To love love yeah
    To love yeah
    I needed to lose you to love me
    You promised the world and I fell for it
    I put you first and you adored it
    You set fires to my forest
    And you let it burn
    Sang off key in my chorus-
    To love love yeah
    To love love yeah
    To love yeah
    I needed to hate you to love me
    To love love yeah
    To love love yeah
    To love yeah
    I needed to lose you to love me
    To love love yeah
    To love love yeah
    To love yeah
    And now the chapter is closed and done
    And now it’s goodbye
    It’s goodbye for us
    Music video by Selena Gomez performing Lose You To Love Me. © 2019 Interscope Records

КОМЕНТАРІ • 354 тис.

  • @selenagomez
    @selenagomez 4 роки тому +1349766

    This song was inspired by many things that have happened in my life since releasing my last album. I want people to feel hope and to know you will come out the other side stronger and a better version of yourself.

  • @CoverArmy1
    @CoverArmy1 4 роки тому +69479

    When Selena said: “I needed to lose you to find me”, I FELT THAT.

  • @nisa9093
    @nisa9093 4 роки тому +38347

    You don't miss the person.
    You only miss the memories .

    • @Ari_Cloud
      @Ari_Cloud 4 роки тому +206

      me too

    • @jazminewiggins6725
      @jazminewiggins6725 4 роки тому +544

      Same. Memories never fade.

    • @viper8735
      @viper8735 4 роки тому +291

      the memories man.

    • @willmcc4070
      @willmcc4070 4 роки тому +152

      Keep telling yourself that

    • @GudJonnyCakes
      @GudJonnyCakes 4 роки тому +506

      That's deep.. Here is another one
      You don't love me, you just love the thought of me

  • @BoxOfficeEarners
    @BoxOfficeEarners Місяць тому +2011

    Who’s watching this in 2024?

  • @Officiallyarohi
    @Officiallyarohi 2 місяці тому +1121

    "In two months you replaced us" i felt this

  • @painterrella9723
    @painterrella9723 4 роки тому +3316

    "Cry as much as you want to,
    But just make sure when your finished, you never cry for the same reason ~Selena Gomez

  • @Maratonei
    @Maratonei 3 роки тому +23218

    I can't believe it has been a year since the release of this song. So much have happened since the things I was experiencing when this song was released.

  • @chicken
    @chicken 2 місяці тому +845

    Its March 2024, let's see how many legends are listening to this incredible song ❤

    • @user-sw5pg1dz5f
      @user-sw5pg1dz5f 2 місяці тому +1

      Me

    • @itslemah
      @itslemah 2 місяці тому +2

      We are all here

    • @chrissalinas9630
      @chrissalinas9630 2 місяці тому +3

      Me here listening to this masterpiece that turns 5 YEARS OLD this year! honestly it`s unbelievable

    • @crypticstreak.1991
      @crypticstreak.1991 Місяць тому +1

      I think u r a big fan of sel I see ur comments in every video

    • @porchiabrown7728
      @porchiabrown7728 Місяць тому +1

      🥰

  • @heidisanders3290
    @heidisanders3290 3 місяці тому +605

    One of the MOST BEAUTIFUL SONGS I've EVER heard.....

    • @Katfall2012
      @Katfall2012 3 місяці тому +7

      Must not hear much music

    • @kathleenmcdonald1132
      @kathleenmcdonald1132 19 днів тому +1

      Oh yeah definitely!!❤ makes me cry Everytime but at first it was sad tears now it’s of joy.

    • @SimonHRoy
      @SimonHRoy 12 днів тому +1

      @@Katfall2012 Who hurt you?

    • @georgenelson6022
      @georgenelson6022 5 днів тому +1

      That is so true. Lovely song

  • @mariami7249
    @mariami7249 4 роки тому +10479

    “In two months you replaced us, Like it was easy”
    This hits so hard

  • @farjanaakther922
    @farjanaakther922 4 роки тому +41664

    2014 : The heart wants what it wants
    2019 : Lose you to love me
    A glow up we all needed

    • @sahianestanol8707
      @sahianestanol8707 4 роки тому +70

      Yass

    • @errrgo626
      @errrgo626 4 роки тому +53

      love it

    • @jnthnofficial
      @jnthnofficial 4 роки тому +127

      Farjana Akther both songs are amazing though. Her vocals improved a lot. I make music too btw, give me a chance if u want. I won’t let u down

    • @sunitirajput2014
      @sunitirajput2014 4 роки тому +19

      Agreed 😭❤️

    • @bi.fruitsalad
      @bi.fruitsalad 4 роки тому +10

      True

  • @LeonelHaydle
    @LeonelHaydle Місяць тому +139

    It's not a song but a masterpiece and a hit. Selena Gomez is a exceptional artist by the way she's my favorite. Who's listening to this masterpiece in 2024? It's just immortal...

  • @brendacapestany2518
    @brendacapestany2518 11 днів тому +18

    This is such a masterpiece. It’s true proud of Selena for realizing Justin wasn’t good for her. He didn’t treat her good.

  • @user-pk2px2dj2d
    @user-pk2px2dj2d 3 роки тому +10345

    This girl really deserves the whole world. God please give her real happiness

  • @eya4971
    @eya4971 4 роки тому +47869

    _I love her because _*_she's not afraid_*_ of showing her emotions._

  • @daylexreyes
    @daylexreyes 3 місяці тому +242

    This song is so powerful and touching. _Selena has overcome so many things and has come out stronger than ever. This song is a proof of her talent and her courage. I love how she changes the tone of the song from sad to hopeful. This song is a life lesson for everyone who has suffered for love and has found their purpose. We admire you, Selena. You are a queen. 👑_

  • @Foreverwinter8
    @Foreverwinter8 2 місяці тому +83

    Still, feeling the raw feelings and emotions she felt when she wrote this masterpiece back in 2019. Can't believe it's been four and a half years since this song was released.

    • @p1k4chuuuu
      @p1k4chuuuu Місяць тому

      +

    • @warrenself
      @warrenself 2 дні тому

      I remember driving with my first gf in January 2020 and this still being a top song and playing on the radio. Time flys.

  • @modellbahnh0162
    @modellbahnh0162 4 роки тому +52065

    Everyone is trying to find the right person, but nobody is trying to be the right person.

  • @Sharonnnnnnnnnn
    @Sharonnnnnnnnnn 4 роки тому +32754

    *“I think it’s important to realize you can miss something, but not want it back.”*

    • @Tracydoune
      @Tracydoune 4 роки тому +345

      I love this

    • @beyasaskia4037
      @beyasaskia4037 4 роки тому +440

      I really like your comment, it helped me clear my thoughts thank you!

    • @catherine8755
      @catherine8755 4 роки тому +728

      Or sometimes miss the memories but not the people

    • @didiwoye7634
      @didiwoye7634 4 роки тому +155

      @@catherine8755 that's true. I have so many memories of things I don't want back

    • @Hailey-tn9pb
      @Hailey-tn9pb 4 роки тому +17

      MaShEd PoTaEtoEs 1.1k like

  • @mellysarit524
    @mellysarit524 Місяць тому +34

    To miss and love someone but to not want them is wild, the craziest things happen to your brain and heart. But at the end of the day you’re a little proud 🩷

  • @kikyaaakun
    @kikyaaakun 23 дні тому +16

    All the drama aside, I’m so impressed by how brave she is to show such a vulnerable & raw side of her

  • @feliciasatriyanto6233
    @feliciasatriyanto6233 4 роки тому +3919

    she sounds honest and strong on every lyrics, she’s coming back stronger than ever. i love this song, i love queen!

    • @414MzD
      @414MzD 4 роки тому +9

      She has part of her friend flowing thru her now🧚🏾‍♀️

    • @Joyful477
      @Joyful477 4 роки тому +1

      For real❤️❤️

    • @rickiayela
      @rickiayela 4 роки тому +1

      Felicia Oct yes! This song is honestly so good 😭 she’s so talented! And I love this comment , I’m a musician too and would absolutely love to hear your thoughts on some of the music on my page :)

    • @pompunpopularpodcast
      @pompunpopularpodcast 4 роки тому +2

      Felicia Oct I’m not a fan of her music but this comment is straight facts! Beautifully relatable lyrics

    • @MagicBarbiemagicbarbie
      @MagicBarbiemagicbarbie 4 роки тому

      Felicia Oct hi can u subscribe to my channel its my birthday❤️

  • @littlekiwi8964
    @littlekiwi8964 3 роки тому +34775

    She's not just singing... she's talking to us
    Let's make her feel heard

  • @letyhermosillo3467
    @letyhermosillo3467 2 місяці тому +28

    Such a strong song. Especially for a public figure to go throughout what she did , and that other person to walk arround like that relationship was nothing. And marry. That’s tough. If it’s hard for us that aren’t a public figure I just can’t imagine what she felt in those months. ❤. Good thing she found someone better and better that brings a smile to her❤.

  • @lalasow38
    @lalasow38 3 місяці тому +165

    who's here in 2024

  • @huyenchi0601
    @huyenchi0601 2 роки тому +4407

    I am still crying listening to this. She deserves the whole world.

    • @huyenchi0601
      @huyenchi0601 2 роки тому +16

      @@vipraja7 that's such an expression to describe how much you love a person and wish all the best to her. 🤦‍♂️🤦‍♂️. I feel bad for you

    • @bloom2666
      @bloom2666 2 роки тому +24

      but still, she don't get the grammy for this song.. well, grammy doesn't deserves her.

    • @huyenchi0601
      @huyenchi0601 2 роки тому +2

      @@bloom2666 ???? Relate?

    • @huyenchi0601
      @huyenchi0601 2 роки тому

      @@vipraja7 you tell me what to say, what not to say? Excuse me?

    • @huyenchi0601
      @huyenchi0601 2 роки тому

      @@vipraja7 it's good for you to realize yourself

  • @KrisBN
    @KrisBN 4 роки тому +2173

    “And now the chapter is closed and done” hit me really hard in the feelings 🥺

    • @peachsweetgirl5452
      @peachsweetgirl5452 4 роки тому +42

      It's has to end sometimes it hurts but we have to end something in order to start something new 💓

    • @YoungAlienBoy
      @YoungAlienBoy 4 роки тому

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    • @amkerschen
      @amkerschen 4 роки тому

      ChrisBN same

    • @FaruqAbdillahh
      @FaruqAbdillahh 4 роки тому

      ua-cam.com/video/4h4QOk1TFt8/v-deo.html Subscribe juga ya makasih :)

    • @kimberlycardamone6109
      @kimberlycardamone6109 4 роки тому

      She will never be over him he will have her at any given time that he wants

  • @Alexas_english
    @Alexas_english 7 днів тому +6

    I'm going through a breakup now. It's so hard to let this person go. The words of this song resonate with me so freaking much! This song is truly universal. Everyone goes through the same things during their lifetime. We all will be able to heal ❤ A breakup means that you are closer to the person that you are meant to be with 🙏

  • @lessonsinlifestyle4709
    @lessonsinlifestyle4709 Місяць тому +17

    Selena, when this came out I was homeless, on drugs, and then jail. I now have a house, job, and husband. This song and “Clover Cage - In the Moment” are the two songs that helped get rid of my depression. I just want to send love to everyone and I want everyone to know things will get better. We are in this together..I love you 💕

    • @missdrey954
      @missdrey954 19 днів тому +2

      God is good! Glad that your life came together so beautifully!

  • @oliviacastro4978
    @oliviacastro4978 4 роки тому +4157

    Get this:
    "There's a difference between a *want* and a *need* "
    "The heart *wants* what it wants" but "I *needed* to lose you to love me"

  • @cimonica1846
    @cimonica1846 4 роки тому +1844

    "in two months you replaced us
    like it was easy"
    💔

    • @HS-qw7od
      @HS-qw7od 4 роки тому +30

      Wendi Cimonica I felt her pain in that!

    • @dilahspardi
      @dilahspardi 4 роки тому +13

      Was it abt justin?

    • @diana-gw7xf
      @diana-gw7xf 4 роки тому +20

      my jelena ass got hurt ngl dhjsjs

    • @juhikundi190
      @juhikundi190 4 роки тому +1

      dilah spardi Yh

    • @diana-gw7xf
      @diana-gw7xf 4 роки тому +13

      @@HS-qw7od also "not it's goodbye for both of us" like i know they're over but damn it hits different when she sings abt it

  • @josenubes3118
    @josenubes3118 3 місяці тому +97

    I love you Selena, don't retire, your music saved me

  • @daylexreyes
    @daylexreyes 3 місяці тому +34

    _This song makes me feel so seen. Selena is an inspiration for everyone who has gone through a painful breakup and learned to love themselves. Her voice is so beautiful and emotional. Thank you for sharing your story with us, Selena. You deserve the best. 💖_

  • @hannahheath8258
    @hannahheath8258 3 роки тому +4947

    This song is definitely the definition of “When you’re sad, you understand the lyrics” 🥺

    • @awesome6084
      @awesome6084 3 роки тому

      ua-cam.com/channels/Wzz0vu--q_1d1YmeoVqRtA.html

    • @kc-lv4gh
      @kc-lv4gh 3 роки тому +24

      I know you guys hate self promoters but please hear me out. I'm different than other rappers, I rap about stuff that makes a difference. I recently got bullied in school and I wrote a song about that. They bullied me cause I'm indian, my accent and a lot of other stuff as well. The song is called "k grip hope" on youtube. I think you guys should listen to it so you know what it was like for me. Thanks for listening to me, please be kind to others whether you listen or not. 🙂

    • @RJ-xd6ub
      @RJ-xd6ub 3 роки тому +42

      This song is heard and felt when you finally let go of THAT person.

    • @hannahheath8258
      @hannahheath8258 3 роки тому +8

      @@kc-lv4gh I’m sorry to hear that! I will definitely check it out! :)

    • @hannahheath8258
      @hannahheath8258 3 роки тому +5

      @@RJ-xd6ub Exactly!

  • @angieh524
    @angieh524 3 роки тому +3958

    “in two months you replaced us, like it was easy” damn

    • @jbxbts8756
      @jbxbts8756 3 роки тому +393

      Honestly , it must have been so hard for her.
      Justin should have waited until she recovers from her depression , anxiety knowing that she just had a kidney transplant.
      They both were equally responsible for the toxic relationship , but the marriage thing was just fucked up.
      T_T

    • @harleywatson7621
      @harleywatson7621 3 роки тому +35

      As if Selena never replaced🙄

    • @lisawatson4230
      @lisawatson4230 3 роки тому +4

      Selena and Hailey spotted together at one place?!😱😱😱😱🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️💝💝💝💝💝😱😱😱😱ua-cam.com/video/HF56IM9HrPs/v-deo.html

    • @zensingy8466
      @zensingy8466 3 роки тому +33

      Jb sucks

    • @mommywhyismylifeamessog
      @mommywhyismylifeamessog 3 роки тому +32

      @@zensingy8466 sorry i don't know any jb i only know dustbin barber if he is this one then let me know pls

  • @EvelynDaniel413
    @EvelynDaniel413 Місяць тому +63

    Selena Gomez dun went off 2 da next level like fr fr 💖 *a u t h e n t I c v i e w s* 💖 is what got them HUGE!

  • @andreatapia3841
    @andreatapia3841 27 днів тому +114

    Whos listen in April 2024??

  • @pajn5516
    @pajn5516 3 роки тому +3869

    She doesn’t know that this song actually heals our pain....

    • @samanthathompson7736
      @samanthathompson7736 3 роки тому +29

      This what helping me now

    • @axriiaxie541
      @axriiaxie541 3 роки тому +5

      I list someone now I'm feel it on my heart love this song it heals all that are broken 🥺💓

    • @crostan4769
      @crostan4769 3 роки тому +5

      when imposter is sus!!!11!! 😳😳😳

    • @Thnked
      @Thnked 3 роки тому +1

      Heyy!! Sorry for being a copy & paste warrior, but i just released my first single on spotify and it's sitting at around 300 streams. My ultimate goal is to hit 1000 streams. I'm hoping you could give it a chance by searching "Thnked - Beautiful Life" or just through my channel page here on youtube. Thanks in advance! 💗

    • @paolaviet9195
      @paolaviet9195 3 роки тому +1

      m.ua-cam.com/video/h006-5wn_gI/v-deo.html

  • @doraa.2067
    @doraa.2067 3 роки тому +3134

    “ in two months you replaced us , like it was easy “ :(

  • @divyabhashini
    @divyabhashini 3 місяці тому +50

    Still remember those days this masterpiece released..It's still in my heart..after 4 years I really understand these lyrics very well than 4 years ago..Luv you Selena I'll always be there for you..I'll never forget this masterpiece I'll come here again maybe in months or years cuz it's breaking my heart when listen to this sometimes.

  • @andreawelch7559
    @andreawelch7559 3 місяці тому +40

    Four years later, I am listening to this song and it still resonates right to my heart ❤️ this song is about letting go and it is so important, letting go, if to lose those or that person that is hurting you ..This song rescued me. It’s been a four year battle and I’m learning to love myself and not blame myself. There will always be evil in the world, but Selena you teach us how to keep shining how to keep doing good. May God bless you always you are an angel.

    • @smritysarma50
      @smritysarma50 2 місяці тому

      4yrs ago even I had a break up and she healed me. Again today after long 4yrs I had another break up and I 🤞 I will heal my 💔

  • @jaden1987
    @jaden1987 3 роки тому +22542

    losing a relationship is okay.
    but losing yourself in a relationship is not okay.

  • @marcelomunoz1452
    @marcelomunoz1452 4 роки тому +857

    "And now the chapter is closed and done"
    "And now its goodbye, its good bye for us"
    Bro... I Really Feel That 😢

    • @diordo4109
      @diordo4109 4 роки тому +1

      I dropped a freestyle right now
      someone should please listen to it 🙏🏽

    • @juiienco8864
      @juiienco8864 4 роки тому

      @@diordo4109 thats fire dude
      Pls drop it

    • @Mikeyb.__
      @Mikeyb.__ 4 роки тому

      Ok.. Buddy

    • @knight8513
      @knight8513 4 роки тому

      @@diordo4109 it's trash holy shit 🤢

  • @mistiemo1665
    @mistiemo1665 2 місяці тому +10

    I love seeing Selena growing & in love & just being herself. I just know this year is the best one for her. Everything else is just a memory. A closed chapter. ❤

  • @sharanit.953
    @sharanit.953 3 місяці тому +17

    Literally this song represent my life right now...Every word makes so much sense with untold thousands of emotions. 😣

  • @zaineb_mb
    @zaineb_mb Рік тому +3439

    2020 : Listen to the song to enjoy Selena's voice
    2022: Listen the song and feel the words and what she was feeling
    edit : It is 09/03/2023 and here i'm so happy with my single life now and I'm enjoying with my family and friends without thinking about the hard time I went through.. Just trust in God 'cause u will get through everything.. Love you all

    • @andrea.dandelion
      @andrea.dandelion Рік тому +27

      Wait, literally though. Why is this me too? It can feel so hard at times.. Glad to know I'm not alone though. We got this.

    • @zaineb_mb
      @zaineb_mb Рік тому +17

      @@andrea.dandelion Fortunately I'm not alone.
      We will get through all of this..just trust in God

    • @evasosso_
      @evasosso_ Рік тому +3

      yes..

    • @user-yz2vj8uj4t
      @user-yz2vj8uj4t Рік тому +1

      🖤

    • @sarasegura1358
      @sarasegura1358 Рік тому +3

      this is so true

  • @BM-ef4sx
    @BM-ef4sx 4 роки тому +2159

    She said, “I’m back and better than ever”, and we love that

    • @MursydQurthubi
      @MursydQurthubi 4 роки тому +2

      please see my youtube channel, I just made the song lyrics of your lost video to love me, fill Selena with the story of his ex-girlfriend. i hope you want to

    • @lilxtasy4936
      @lilxtasy4936 3 роки тому

      *plays wild sorry interlude boom*

    • @CoCo-yp4it
      @CoCo-yp4it 3 роки тому +1

      Ladies and gentleman: welcome Selena Gomez the lupus trendsetter + bieber booster pack
      🎶🍾🍾"rumbaaaaaaaaa"

    • @lilxtasy4936
      @lilxtasy4936 3 роки тому

      @@CoCo-yp4it SELUPUS THE TRENDSETTER*

    • @CoCo-yp4it
      @CoCo-yp4it 3 роки тому

      @@lilxtasy4936 oh oh oh! Rrrrrrrumbaaaa 🎉

  • @JL-zn7me
    @JL-zn7me Місяць тому +14

    I lived every word of this song..except, I still can’t heal. “ 2 months, you replaced us”… after almost a decade together. Does the pain ever stop???? Does the question of “why?” fade?

    • @jik7724
      @jik7724 Місяць тому +2

      Jesús is helping me with my pain he will do the SAMEE for u draw near to him

    • @krystalramirez9759
      @krystalramirez9759 Місяць тому

      Yes & no. Yes you'll be okay. No you may never find out why. And as days go by you're going to learn and see some questions don't have answers. In time you'll find you. I hope you allow yourself to feel all that you need to. Big hugs

  • @user-zl6wj5gu1e
    @user-zl6wj5gu1e 3 місяці тому +81

    Who's here in 2024❤️?

  • @rheynahdethbonhoc4535
    @rheynahdethbonhoc4535 4 роки тому +3042

    "AND NOW THE CHAPTER IS CLOSED AND DONE."
    ohh it kinda hurts.

    • @DavidAlcanttara
      @DavidAlcanttara 4 роки тому +4

      Selena Gomez's new song gets an engagement clip between two men, it's really bad, come watch: LINK ua-cam.com/video/ASiZWp9GBFI/v-deo.html

    • @iiAngelic
      @iiAngelic 4 роки тому +1

      Yeah especially since Justin and Selena were like Britney and Justin T.

    • @marbelysalmeron
      @marbelysalmeron 4 роки тому +1

      This comment's replies tho

    • @blinkeuu3107
      @blinkeuu3107 4 роки тому +2

      no it doesn’t SHES FINALLY FREE

    • @nahed562
      @nahed562 4 роки тому

      💜💜

  • @marina-wq3fy
    @marina-wq3fy 4 роки тому +1680

    2011: love you like a love song
    2015: same old love
    2019: lose you to love me

    • @katrinafaso16
      @katrinafaso16 4 роки тому +4

      *baby....

    • @tiredboyshit
      @tiredboyshit 4 роки тому +6

      Katrina Faso the song is called love you like a love song. The baby is part of the chorus ☺️

    • @laliga353
      @laliga353 4 роки тому

      Search it man!

    • @sunnysumanth1280
      @sunnysumanth1280 4 роки тому

      Make a meme babe 😂😂 it's nice

    • @YoungAlienBoy
      @YoungAlienBoy 4 роки тому

      @@tiredboyshit Everyone Can Yall Dislike Danny Phantom Muisc Video 🏳️‍🌈🙏🏽 ua-cam.com/video/I--rRfdoWEI/v-deo.html

  • @musiclova2112
    @musiclova2112 Місяць тому +13

    When this came out I was homeless, on drugs, and then jail. I now have a house, job, and husband. This song and “Clover Cage - The Chess Piece” are the two songs that helped get rid of my depression. I just want to send love to everyone and I want everyone to know things will get better. We are in this together..I love you 💕

    • @Daisy30y03
      @Daisy30y03 Місяць тому

      Love you 2, be blessed

  • @damterpanret5744
    @damterpanret5744 Місяць тому +10

    Losing someone to death is painful
    Losing someone who is still alive is another level of pain

  • @kandace6798
    @kandace6798 2 роки тому +1486

    Hope she knows how much this song has helped so many ..it’s so relatable..so real.

  • @liperpul9238
    @liperpul9238 4 роки тому +6006

    "If you lose someone but found yourself, you won." -Joker

    • @sevcan6140
      @sevcan6140 4 роки тому +25

      True

    • @ignaciolynette
      @ignaciolynette 4 роки тому +7

      0o0

    • @jnthnofficial
      @jnthnofficial 4 роки тому +25

      liperpul fc that movie is one of the best ones I’ve seen in the past 5 years. I make music too btw, give me a chance if u want I won’t disappoint

    • @bluesanta6006
      @bluesanta6006 4 роки тому +6

      Jnthn I found u a minute ago your music is amazing bro

    • @shawnnn8411
      @shawnnn8411 4 роки тому +6

      Jnthn dude you sound like a mix between Shawn and billie. I love it sm

  • @constancewest9448
    @constancewest9448 2 місяці тому +11

    I’m in Rehab for Alcohol 30 days today! This is my song saying Goodbye to what made my life unmanageable and insane! Thank you God for drawing near to me ❤

    • @constancewest9448
      @constancewest9448 Місяць тому

      72 days sober Today!! I can now say for the first time I Love Me 💖

  • @daylexreyes
    @daylexreyes 3 місяці тому +14

    _Selena has grown so much as an artist and as a person. This song is a masterpiece that shows her vulnerability and her strength. I love how she uses the metaphors of fire and color to express her feelings. This song is an anthem for everyone who has had to lose someone to love themselves. We support you, Selena. You are amazing. 🔥_

  • @daylexreyes
    @daylexreyes 4 місяці тому +3858

    _Anyone listening to it in 2024?_

  • @Necessaryexit-4
    @Necessaryexit-4 2 роки тому +4578

    This is not a song..this is once in a lifetime masterpiece that’s filled with emotions that everyone can relate with.

    • @nihaaa3476
      @nihaaa3476 2 роки тому +1

      69 :)

    • @Stewie_and_brian631
      @Stewie_and_brian631 2 роки тому +7

      And i still don’t know why we cry when we see this 😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😍😭😍😭😭😍😭😍😭😭😭😍😭😍😭😍😭😍😭😭😭😭😭😍😭😍😍😭😍we’ll never know

    • @Stewie_and_brian631
      @Stewie_and_brian631 2 роки тому +4

      But we do know here today that the Selena Gomez followers will emerge victorious once again

    • @princesserichesse1216
      @princesserichesse1216 2 роки тому +6

      except narcissists 💀

    • @shafickbhyat2683
      @shafickbhyat2683 2 роки тому +1

      @@Stewie_and_brian631
      Lol

  • @fikekhayakhethiwemasekofik9955
    @fikekhayakhethiwemasekofik9955 3 місяці тому +17

    My heart broke 4 years ago and Selena released this song and l listen to it everyday and it makes me feel better
    2024 am still here to listen again ❤❤❤🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉

  • @lisaponsell9384
    @lisaponsell9384 Місяць тому +15

    You made the right choice. You are an amazing woman!!

  • @pratikkumardas362
    @pratikkumardas362 2 роки тому +3964

    True feelings can't be replaced within 2 months . This song hits me hard.

    • @DarkAce1
      @DarkAce1 2 роки тому +40

      Ikr!! This song makes my day much better

    • @TiffanyLMorales
      @TiffanyLMorales 2 роки тому +47

      They can if you spend everyday with someone else.

    • @anniejustin2621
      @anniejustin2621 2 роки тому +4

      😔❤right

    • @olabodeprecious1126
      @olabodeprecious1126 2 роки тому +7

      I moved on 2days 💔

    • @olabodeprecious1126
      @olabodeprecious1126 2 роки тому +15

      @@TiffanyLMorales fact I moved on two days ..when my ex said he was getting married..two days I replaced us 💔

  • @twentyonehanias
    @twentyonehanias 4 роки тому +1970

    *_"i needed to Lose you to love me"_*
    *-Selena Gomez 2019*

  • @MrsTayIor
    @MrsTayIor 2 місяці тому +22

    I didn't really know a whole lot about Selena and what she was going through but after hearing about what might have inspired this song, I feel so bad for her. It's nice to see she has Benny now and I hope she was given more than she lost.

    • @nasrakabongo3287
      @nasrakabongo3287 2 місяці тому +1

      After in inspiration behind this song i just fell in love with it twice ❤️😍

  • @anishudhdh
    @anishudhdh Місяць тому +17

    3:03
    "I needed to lose you to love me
    And now the chapter is closed and done
    And now it's goodbye, it's goodbye for us"
    How can anyone say this with a smile
    She is so strong for this

  • @nytjen1649
    @nytjen1649 4 роки тому +933

    It's so intense ! It seems like she is showing every emotions that she got. Anger, happiness, sadness, disappointment, misunderstanding

    • @wilythougths7838
      @wilythougths7838 4 роки тому +3

      Yes, she show us, what she feeling

    • @emilysquarepants7402
      @emilysquarepants7402 4 роки тому +1

      Yeah a year ago lol

    • @nytjen1649
      @nytjen1649 4 роки тому +1

      Lorena Esquivel: Yea, what she passed through

    • @bumblebeebella4331
      @bumblebeebella4331 4 роки тому +1

      Omg yes I'm so glad someone else saw that too, I've never seen an artist express such a range of emotions that doesnt feel fake or like acting, it's just raw.

    • @nytjen1649
      @nytjen1649 4 роки тому +2

      BumbleBee Bella : Yeeaa.. she's so strong. The best one ❤️

  • @sarcardinal
    @sarcardinal 4 роки тому +3128

    she lost him, but found herself, and somehow that was everything

    • @Not_yourMOM
      @Not_yourMOM 4 роки тому +28

      And sometimes that's just how the universe works 💕

    • @MunchieCrunchie4E
      @MunchieCrunchie4E 4 роки тому +20

      TAYLOR

    • @SaraSilva-id8js
      @SaraSilva-id8js 4 роки тому +12

      Some out of the wood vibes with that sentence

    • @caiogabriel05
      @caiogabriel05 4 роки тому +27

      Taylor Swift's quote is the best to describe this song.

    • @AZIAHSNOW
      @AZIAHSNOW 4 роки тому

      sarah cardinal I’m crying

  • @ishaansharma9509
    @ishaansharma9509 Місяць тому +79

    anyone listening in 2024?

    • @michellethompson9674
      @michellethompson9674 Місяць тому +1

      Still am . And even though I love Justin voice, he’s a manipulative narcissist.

    • @Dbarr311
      @Dbarr311 28 днів тому

      No absolutely no1 is listening to this song! Your an idiot kid.

    • @mrskamski7693
      @mrskamski7693 28 днів тому +1

      Always 🥲

    • @wildflower7951
      @wildflower7951 27 днів тому

      It's my night song 🍦🥺 I can't get enough of it ❤😊

    • @Dbarr311
      @Dbarr311 27 днів тому

      No absolutely nobody is listening to this song. I mean really!? Cmon, now! You fishing for comments and likes?

  • @BoxOKittens
    @BoxOKittens 8 днів тому +2

    I remember when this song dropped. I wasn't even a fan of her, I was neutral. But this song grabbed us all by the brain and heart. It's so strong and delicate and triumphant and grieving all in one. It's still so beautiful.

  • @vee08
    @vee08 4 роки тому +1393

    2011: Love You Like A Love Song
    2014: The Heart Wants What It Wants
    2019: Lose You To Love Me

    • @coffeedense
      @coffeedense 4 роки тому +20

      The glow up that she needed finally💃

    • @denizt4986
      @denizt4986 4 роки тому +25

      Don't forget 2018: Back To You

    • @haa8888
      @haa8888 4 роки тому +2

      Don't forget Feel Me.

    • @tinyroberts9290
      @tinyroberts9290 4 роки тому +1

      Selena Gomez talks Beyonce. ua-cam.com/video/8CtVxPzcUmY/v-deo.html

    • @VickRail
      @VickRail 4 роки тому

      @@coffeedense go watch my UA-cam channel please I'm singer

  • @carolinasalazar257
    @carolinasalazar257 2 роки тому +1530

    When selena said: “In two months you replaced us”. I FEEL THAT :(

  • @risclyde
    @risclyde 3 місяці тому +73

    no matter how the world would hate her i will be here and stand with her❤

    • @nilesc9184
      @nilesc9184 Місяць тому +1

      The world actually loves her. Hater just shouts louder but they are the minority

  • @noemie18
    @noemie18 17 днів тому +3

    It's only me that this song help me a lot not for only a love breakup but also for family breakups and friendship breakups ?

  • @tachilyn3195
    @tachilyn3195 3 роки тому +842

    “And now the chapter is closed and done”
    It’s hit me so hard

    • @NO-sq7no
      @NO-sq7no 3 роки тому +2

      That’s my favorite part

    • @riyaraj4421
      @riyaraj4421 3 роки тому +4

      Ikrr it literally breaks me

    • @huseinmuthohar1778
      @huseinmuthohar1778 21 день тому

      Closed and done for Selena. But for him? Who knows

    • @utubeuloser6166
      @utubeuloser6166 8 днів тому

      Justin Bieber is gay. Jayden Smith and Justin Bieber were caught kissing each other after

  • @I_AM_KD_WIFE
    @I_AM_KD_WIFE 2 роки тому +2201

    2022 and I'm here to listen to her voice. I've never seen a stronger woman in all my life. I wish her all the best for this new yr.

    • @marstrove
      @marstrove 2 роки тому +2

      When you block your parents on social media
      ua-cam.com/video/mceYMD28h9A/v-deo.html

    • @hazielshorts3941
      @hazielshorts3941 2 роки тому +2

      ua-cam.com/video/ffjucDipYLA/v-deo.html

    • @nyari17
      @nyari17 2 роки тому +1

      Hmm right I lost my granny and I wrote a song called 'goodbye' hope yall will check out bless you

    • @dishapathak2714
      @dishapathak2714 2 роки тому +1

      ua-cam.com/video/Pzwanz9DxRU/v-deo.html

    • @MarinaandM
      @MarinaandM 2 роки тому +1

      m.ua-cam.com/video/sdaEQHXLQjk/v-deo.html

  • @laurietantalo4012
    @laurietantalo4012 2 місяці тому +4

    I always knew who she was but because I'm much older, I didn't get it until this song. This made me fall in love with her music, her story, and the person she appears to be. Nice to see her happy with Benny. We find true love when we love ourselves. We find happiness when we let go of the past and learn from it, without regrets.

  • @DoriHarrold-vl9yi
    @DoriHarrold-vl9yi 3 місяці тому +6

    You really only miss the memories not the person. You have really inspired me to not give up and to love myself in general

  • @mariami7249
    @mariami7249 4 роки тому +746

    2014: “I guess I don’t love myself first”
    2019: “I needed to lose you to love me”
    👏🏻WHAT👏🏻A👏🏻GLOW👏🏻UP 👏🏻

  • @EurovisionMacedonia
    @EurovisionMacedonia 4 роки тому +1832

    Not a fan of Selena Gomez. But *DAMN* this song hits on another level.

  • @alli1025
    @alli1025 2 місяці тому +8

    We Love You, Selena!!! You have a beautiful heart and soul. You light up the world with your glow! That is for sure!

  • @superhenryprince502
    @superhenryprince502 Місяць тому +4

    I love Selena, she’s the most fabulous singer, I can’t stop thinking about her everyday. ❤

  • @rezkienggiaputra
    @rezkienggiaputra 2 роки тому +3036

    She sings by heart and it touches our hearts. This is what we call a masterpiece. Proud of her.

    • @mahoornj3682
      @mahoornj3682 2 роки тому +15

      That was full of pain for me...

    • @rezkienggiaputra
      @rezkienggiaputra 2 роки тому +8

      @@mahoornj3682 I agree with u. It pains us as well

    • @vanessalala8687
      @vanessalala8687 2 роки тому +3

      keep watching until you reach 400M, I have faith that we will make it

    • @hasntlkizaman9524
      @hasntlkizaman9524 Рік тому +1

    • @kill4chels6
      @kill4chels6 Рік тому +2

      @@joedoe2672 Everyone's entitled to their own opinion, but if you feel that way, why are you here on her video? I like Selena, granted shes not a vocalist type of singer, but honestly most artists aren't these days. A person could use minimal vocals and still create decent music. It's done daily now lol. All comes down to taste and preference.

  • @etnihernandez8833
    @etnihernandez8833 4 роки тому +749

    “In two months you replaced us, like it was easy” I felt that 😭💔

    • @kiml1226
      @kiml1226 4 роки тому +6

      Same😔

    • @padmeskywalker1537
      @padmeskywalker1537 4 роки тому +2

      That stung.

    • @TWCNation
      @TWCNation 4 роки тому +4

      My dad said he would buy me a lizard if I hit 1.6k subs help :(

    • @brittanyv1126
      @brittanyv1126 4 роки тому +1

      It was easy for her to replace Abel in a matter of a couple days when she went running back to Justin.... she got her karma.

  • @LHydro
    @LHydro 3 місяці тому +4

    This song saves my soul in so many ways. I listen to it whenever I need to. Thank you, Selena. God bless you ❤

  • @the420pikachu
    @the420pikachu 2 місяці тому +6

    4 years later and it still gives me chills!

  • @karag4289
    @karag4289 4 роки тому +592

    the part where she‘s able to confidently say “I needed to lose you to love me” and she points to herself and gives that little smile, gives me chills/makes my heart happy for her EVERY TIME I watch it

    • @banuyashsiva1914
      @banuyashsiva1914 4 роки тому +2

      justin beeiiiiiberrrrrrrr

    • @dralinafisa-breasthealth
      @dralinafisa-breasthealth 4 роки тому +2

      Youll be never sad with selena then lol

    • @amkerschen
      @amkerschen 4 роки тому +3

      SAME! It’s my absolute favorite moment of the video. Seems so genuine and well earned.

  • @NoName-qd7yl
    @NoName-qd7yl 2 роки тому +1170

    When she said "two months you replaced us…. like it was easy." Then she felt that she deserved it, it made my heart shatter. Like he just dropped a 10 year relationship like it was easy how evil. No queen deserves a broken heart. Just imagining what she’s been through is heart wrenching and ground breaking. Then all those jelena fans trolling and just making things worse like she made it crystal clear that she lost herself because of him and she’s not wanting to look back. He destroyed her. As fans we should support Selena not make it a war on her platform.

    • @sahar.2316
      @sahar.2316 2 роки тому +7

      is it for justin or the weekend I still don't know

    • @rajshreedewal9171
      @rajshreedewal9171 2 роки тому

      True!!!

    • @dkushaaljain6338
      @dkushaaljain6338 2 роки тому

      ua-cam.com/video/HIakoHqfVIM/v-deo.html

    • @kimmy6984
      @kimmy6984 2 роки тому +13

      @@sahar.2316 for sure its for justin bieber because they’ve been in relationship for so many years

    • @vaishnavideshmukh5693
      @vaishnavideshmukh5693 2 роки тому +8

      @@kimmy6984 yeah and he only replaced her in 2 months

  • @merrick6048
    @merrick6048 3 місяці тому +7

    “You promised the world and I fell for it
    I put you first and you adored it
    Set fires to my forest
    And you let it burn
    Sang off-key in my chorus
    'Cause it wasn't yours
    I saw the signs and I ignored it
    Rose-colored glasses all distorted
    Set fire to my purpose
    And I let it burn
    You got off on the hurtin'
    When it wasn't yours, yeah
    We'd always go into it blindly
    I needed to lose you to find me
    This dancing was killing me softly
    I needed to hate you to love me, yeah
    To love, love, yeah
    To love, love, yeah
    To love, yeah
    I needed to lose you to love me, yeah
    To love, love, yeah
    To love, love, yeah
    To love, yeah
    I needed to lose you to love me
    I gave my all and they all know it
    Then you tore me down and now it's showing
    In two months, you replaced us
    Like it was easy
    Made me think I deserved it
    In the thick of healing, yeah
    We'd always go into it blindly
    I needed to lose you to find me
    This dancing was killing me softly
    I needed to hate you to love me, yeah
    To love, love, yeah
    To love, love, yeah
    To love, yeah
    I needed to lose you to love me, yeah
    To love, love, yeah
    To love, love, yeah
    To love, yeah
    I needed to lose you to love me
    You promised the world and I fell for it
    I put you first and you adored it
    Set fires to my forest
    And you let it burn
    Sang off-key in my chorus
    To love, love, yeah
    To love, love, yeah
    To love, yeah
    I needed to hate you to love me, yeah
    To love, love, yeah
    To love, love, yeah
    To love, yeah
    I needed to lose you to love me
    To love, love, yeah
    To love, love, yeah
    To love, yeah
    And now the chapter is closed and done
    To love, love, yeah
    To love, love, yeah
    To love, yeah
    And now it's goodbye, it's goodbye for us.”

  • @clem903
    @clem903 3 місяці тому +10

    This song makes me cry every time

  • @MrMusicman1971
    @MrMusicman1971 4 роки тому +872

    "I needed to lose you to find me." - Selena. That's the best line.

    • @ramadhan_govinda
      @ramadhan_govinda 4 роки тому +1

      Please check to my channel and listen this song. Or click here ua-cam.com/video/P4FPw9SekRQ/v-deo.html hopes you enjoy this audio for this song.🙏🏼

    • @amandayumi9627
      @amandayumi9627 4 роки тому

      Siiii , como siempre Selena está bellísima 😍❤

    • @MagicBarbiemagicbarbie
      @MagicBarbiemagicbarbie 4 роки тому

      hi can u subscribe to my channel its my birthday💗

  • @aiwynairyn5711
    @aiwynairyn5711 2 роки тому +2013

    It's July 22 , 2021 "It's selena birthday " listening this masterpiece on her birthday.

    • @nicolealisia8825
      @nicolealisia8825 2 роки тому +2

      Yay

    • @cassiaferreiralima8206
      @cassiaferreiralima8206 2 роки тому

      @@nicolealisia8825 tá vendo Selena Gomes quanta gente gosta de vc por uma música que vc nem fez

    • @darlenecastillo6908
      @darlenecastillo6908 2 роки тому

      @@cassiaferreiralima8206 v s0

    • @axislays
      @axislays 2 роки тому +4

      May god bless her for all the pain she went through…

    • @birds764
      @birds764 2 роки тому +2

      I....I didnt know I shared the same birthday as Selena gomez.... Oh my moons! Well happy birthday to her to then

  • @laurajandreau600
    @laurajandreau600 4 місяці тому +14

    Even 5 years later. ...I hear this song and am transported back to a time when I turned on the radio in my car traveling back for a 40 min commute between 2 jobs. This song made me incredibly aware of the relationship I was in and how dangerous it was after 7 years. I may not be a super fan of yours, but I hear you as a normal patron. This song helped me through legitimately evacuating a situation I was in. I had bags on my shoulders so I could ensure I had the arm space to scoop my cats up when the time came to flee. I was in a very dark and scary place then. I come from a space that "it's hard to grow when you feel so little". Thank you Selena for your voice. I am in a completely 180º situation. I am so happy and found love. I returned to my family and have a spouse now. I have a new life that I care for so much now. I am enriched. I am on the right path of growth for myself now. I. AM. THRIVING.

  • @bellllllaaaca
    @bellllllaaaca 6 днів тому +2

    I'm addicted to her

  • @iv3942
    @iv3942 4 роки тому +557

    " In two months you replaced us , like it was easy "
    damn 😞

    • @YoungAlienBoy
      @YoungAlienBoy 4 роки тому

      Everyone Dislike Video & Share Its Going Viral 🏳️‍🌈🙏🏽 ua-cam.com/video/I--rRfdoWEI/v-deo.html

    • @mehmet5407
      @mehmet5407 4 роки тому

      Pls support my lil bro he had an accident, his biggest wish was to be an Artist
      ua-cam.com/video/jCSqJYmJXUQ/v-deo.html

    • @Lucil00
      @Lucil00 4 роки тому

      😭😭😭

    • @miguelbrtdd
      @miguelbrtdd 4 роки тому

      Bruh

    • @AdventuresWithMariah2018
      @AdventuresWithMariah2018 4 роки тому

      A bunch of boys told me my channel will go now where ua-cam.com/video/nUw7Cixf5qQ/v-deo.html PROVE EM WRONG!

  • @Lets_Go_Brandon_FJB
    @Lets_Go_Brandon_FJB Рік тому +2396

    One day Selena, you will find someone who treats you like the queen you are. Losing your first love is hard but finding your last love is breathtaking 🥰😘

  • @scottwilson6467
    @scottwilson6467 8 днів тому +3

    How people say Selena Gomez cant sing , has no talent , no looks etc after watching this video is truly beyond me! Young women around the world would absolutely kill to have her looks and singing voice to say the least fs!

  • @Tawffii
    @Tawffii 10 днів тому +2

    This song has been on repeat since it came out. Such a beautiful, powerful, and emotion-releasing song. It is one of my favorites, honestly. Thank you for sharing this beauty with the world. x

  • @arnavdeshmukh8050
    @arnavdeshmukh8050 3 роки тому +553

    And now this chapter is closed and done , this line hit me

  • @rose9377
    @rose9377 3 роки тому +1350

    Selenators, Sel said she doesn’t feel appreciated enough in the music industry that she might consider retiring. Let's str3am
    Edit: She confirmed she's staying but still str3@m

    • @fly2292
      @fly2292 3 роки тому +20

      You must have an fp for Selena right? Because on Instagram, all the selenators decided we're going to have a streaming party!

    • @cloroxbleach8676
      @cloroxbleach8676 3 роки тому +1

      This song is ass

    • @vicxiv
      @vicxiv 3 роки тому +7

      Lytlm streaming party

    • @itsme-kw7tv
      @itsme-kw7tv 3 роки тому +3

      @@fly2292 ohh pls tell when i will joinnn

    • @fly2292
      @fly2292 3 роки тому +3

      @@itsme-kw7tv when I wrote that comment, but it's important to stream whenever cuz our goal is to bring lytlm on the charts again

  • @Kashyapswati07
    @Kashyapswati07 2 місяці тому +4

    Best love is self love and taking care of ourselves....don't lose yourself for others....❤to all reading this comment... every time this comment gets a like...i remember how i was suffering and finally decided to showup for myself for the rest of this beautiful life❤❤❤