I get the pain from the daughters-I cried too! Makes me think of my late father and how dearly I miss him. It’s hard to grab the attention and love from the person who is nearest to you especially when you have several other siblings who already get enough attention. Nevertheless, I still fought to show my love and demanded the same back because I know life’s going to continue revolving 365-366 days/year. Much love to grandpa and his daughters. May they find the closure and peace they have been seeking for.
You reap what you sow, why are you even sad? You play favoritism and receive the consequences. Smh, parents like this sickens me. They expect what they dont give and complained why they werent loved or care for. Its too late to undo what you've done. Leave them alone
It’s not just 1975, it’s the Hmong kev cai worldview. In that worldview, daughters will go marrying off into another dab family, therefore they are not part of the family dab like the boys will. Ask yourself, specifically with that worldview, would you love your daughters equally or more than your sons? You shouldn’t bc it makes no sense.
It's wild that this was the general mentality of our elders. Hopefully this current generation can do better. Blessed are those who went against the grain.
Wow‼️….you really reap what you sowed! These days sons go & love their in-laws, “happy wife happy life.” Daughters have taken on the roles of sons in caring for their parents. Re-eval who you put on the pedestal, title & prestige have changed with sons.
Too late. Daughters do have a choice. They did show some compassion because they don't want karma from their kids. They got good hearts like their mom.
In today world Boys are much important like the 60 and 70 don't disrespect your wife and the daughter they may be girls but they will be the one to look at you when you get older in life......
Tiam no nej cov ua niam ua txiv nej txhob xav tia nej yug tau es nej g hlub nej yuav g muaj kev txhaum nej yeej mj kev txhaum thiab nawb mog vim nej yug tau nej g hlub
Yes, their karma is not getting the love they didn't earn. Kids do not owe parents love simply by being born. They also need to be raised and shown the love they're expected to return their parents.
Tij, vim koj tsis muaj kev cia siab rau cov ntxhais es koj thiaj tsis hlub lawv. Tub ntxhais los yuav tau hlub lawv kom sib luag. Yam laus ces tsis paub xyov leej twg yuav hlub yus.
Tus txiv tsev awnej cov txiv neej yuav tus tshiab lawm ces tsis xav hlub niam loj li kuv tu txiv ces tshuav nws thib thiab os txhob tu siab koj rov ua rau koj ris xwb os
Nej yug tau ib pab ntxhais nej tsis hlub ces nej ntawv tau zoo tas lawm mog kwv tij Hmoob! Txheej tam sim no txawv txheej thaum ub lawm. Tub ces tsuas yog lub koob xwb, hos ntxhais thiaj yog kev cia siab. Nco ntsoov peb txoj kev sau nqi txhais tso tseg es thaum kawg peb thiaj tsis tau txais txoj kev txaj muag nawj.
Tsis tu siab li os yaw txiv awsss.. nyias ko nyias txaj rau nyias pws es tsis pom qhab tu siab rau leejtwg nawb.. yus twb vam cia siab rau yus cov tub xwb ces kav liam os.. ua siab tos tuag es lwm tiam mus thov ntaub ntawv Los ua tus neeg siab zoo siab ncaj hlub mi tub mi ntxhais sib npaug os
This guy does not see his fault at all. Koj twb yog txiv koj yeej lees tias koj tsis hlub tsis kes koj cov nxthais es koj yuav tseev kom lawv hlub koj dabtsi naw? Koj hlub koj cov tub xwb ces kavtsij zoo siab hlo ua raws li koj kev tshav ntuj mas! Tsis txaj muag li os, koj na.
ab cov me niam tsev cas peb cov ua yug ntxhaus coob22 es tu siab tiag22 li os lawv aw Sim neej no es cov ntxhais no na twb yog yus yug lawv na cov txiv neej no Mas xuaj tiag ho txawj tu siab thiab no thiab tiag peb cov yug ntxhais ces rau kiag tib nkawm khau xwb os
Nej cov txiv neej txoj kev uas xav tshov lom luag muaj me nyuam tab sis thaus tau me nyuam lawm ho tsis xav hlub ces zoo li no twb tseem tsis tau txaus hlo li os
Koj twb g hlub lawv thaum yau es tsam no lawv g hlub koj los koj tu g tau siab os vim koj g hlub lawv ne koj yeej g zoo ne koj cov ntxhai koj g quav ntsej koj cov ntxhai yuav txiv los koj g quav ntsej ne koj mas lim hiam dhau lawm tam tom xwb os thaub laus aw koj g muaj cai tu siab rau lawv
I came from a family of 10 girls and 2 boys. My dad’s 2 sons and 4 daughters died. He was heart broken but never once looked down on us as daughters. We told him we are his sons. We all took care of him till his last breath and took care of his funeral for him. Many relatives said he was the most fortunate one because all his daughters loved him dearly.
Now you know, you give what you get. Hope you really learn from your experience. You lucky to even see them and they cared enough to go visit and even change you. Tell them you're sorry and its not late to turn around to love them like they deserved. Your daughters are good people, thanks to their mom she raised them well.
Peb Hmoob yog ib haiv neeg g hlub ntxhais los yog tsoom poj niam li tab sis nyob li lwm hais neeg los zoo li kv pom suav ma lawv tsuag xav kom yug tau ntxhais.
Haub yau, ua cas yus yug tau es yus hos tsis hlub tab sis yus hos yuav kom luag hlub yus. I never understand, man. If you want to have many wives, why can you love all equally. Love goes both ways.
Lim hiam li koj twb yog koj cov ntxhai no es tseem tuaj saib koj xwb yog lwm tus ces g quav ntsej koj li qhov koj g quav ntsej lawv ntag lau lim hiam ces paub lawm paub nej cov ua yog niam yog txiv es hlub g ncaj nruab nrab na tam tom ntxim xwb
Cov txivneej uas tsis hlub tsis cia siab rau cov ntxhais es cia siab rau cov tub xwb ces txhob tu siab es koj cov tub yuav hlub koj thiab tsis hlub los yog tim koj xwb. Txawm tub ntxhais los yog koj cov niag Kab me nyuam tsis yog koj pojniam li Kab me nyuam.
Xav kom nej cov txiv neej es poj niam yug tsis tau tub es pheej yuav niam yau xav kom zoo zoo seb puas yog vim tu poj niam mas txiv neej yog tu muab poj niam yog tu yug xb os tsis vim tu poj niam os muab hais lo vim nej cov txiv neej xb
Mloog koj tham koj yeej tsis yog ib tug neeg zoo koj ua li cas koj tau li ntawv vim koj tau li koj ua nyuam qhuav ntxim koj xwb koj yog ib tug txiv dev xwb
The audacity of OG's believing that because they produce a child but does zero for that child and expect the child to love them unconditionally is beyond crazy. You get what you give. In your case, you gave nothing but heartaches for them. You are lucky they didn't pay you back by giving you the same treatment you gave them. If you want to repent, leave those girls alone, they owe you nothing.
Nej cov laus na. Thaum yus tsis taus lawm tsuav tej tub nyab tseem kam tuaj tu es lawv yuav nyiam looj qhov ncauj qhov ntswg pes tsawg tshooj los txhob tub tub qaug nej thiab ma. Tsw2 heev ces lawv looj lawv thiaj tsis tau nyob tsev laus nawb
niag ntsej muag dev lau ko nim kuv pab me ntxhai pab koj txaj muag dhau lawm os niaj hnub no koj tsi tau chaw tuag lawm koj mam hai kuv pab me ntxhai quav dev xwb cov ntxhai ko es nim yog lawm lo lawv ib qho qhov twg lo lov tub thiab ntxhai lo twb yog koj cov niag kua xoo pua yog lawv nim xav2 ua ntxhai es lawv mu ua ntxhai no lov lawv twb yog koj tsim lawv ne koj mua tu qab hau dab tsi lo ntxub cov ntxhai ko ua dab tsi koj ma tseem tshuav kev npam ntau heev koj tsi tau tuag sai thaum twg koj tsuab koj cov quav noj tag ma koj mam li tuag nawj
Ntuj aw, twb tsis hlub los nim ntshaw luag tej kub. Tsis txaj muag los cas. Koj chim tias nyab lawv looj 3 lub hnav looj tes, ces koj kuj los tu es txhob looj ib lub hnav looj tes txhob npog qhov ncauj. Phem thiab kus kes npaum koj es leej twg thiaj xav nyob ze na.
Aub yaub, koj ces tag hauv ris li ko lawm laus thaub. Lawv twb yog koj roj koj ntshav cas koj yuav li hiam ua luaj li os. Pab ntxhais, yog nej yog neeg zoo tiag tiag, nej yuav tau zam txim rau nej txiv, vim nej twb yog nws cov noob, nej txhawv tawm ntawm nws los. Yog tsis muaj nws yeej tsis muaj nej thiab. Forgive the old man for his grudge in the past but flow your love to him before he breaths his last breathe.
Why you sad? That’s what happen when you have high hope on ur other kids and disown ur daughters! You don’t have to be sad.. it’s your fault for what comes to you!
Old man aw!!!! You don't deserve any love from your daughters at all. That's what you get! OG Hmong parents need to appreciate all their kids no matter whether they are girls or boys. Love all your kids equally.
You get what you give.. you give nothing you receive nothing..
I get the pain from the daughters-I cried too! Makes me think of my late father and how dearly I miss him. It’s hard to grab the attention and love from the person who is nearest to you especially when you have several other siblings who already get enough attention. Nevertheless, I still fought to show my love and demanded the same back because I know life’s going to continue revolving 365-366 days/year. Much love to grandpa and his daughters. May they find the closure and peace they have been seeking for.
What!?! You don't even love them but you want their love??
This guy is delusional.
Tus me yawm txiv aw koj zaj neej neeg es nim zoo li kuv txiv thiab o kuv ce nim tus2 siab li koj pab ntxhai thiab o 😢😢😢😢😢
Bad father like you, you did what you got back dude
You reap what you sow, why are you even sad? You play favoritism and receive the consequences. Smh, parents like this sickens me. They expect what they dont give and complained why they werent loved or care for. Its too late to undo what you've done. Leave them alone
This is why the 1975 mentality dont work. Love all your kids equally. You don't know which one will love you at the end.
Agree
Excactly 100%
It’s not just 1975, it’s the Hmong kev cai worldview. In that worldview, daughters will go marrying off into another dab family, therefore they are not part of the family dab like the boys will. Ask yourself, specifically with that worldview, would you love your daughters equally or more than your sons? You shouldn’t bc it makes no sense.
Tus yawm txiv txhob tu siab tag tag rau koj cov ntxhai os. Vim lawv twb tsi tau koj txoj kev hlub lis ib leej txiv nes
Sounds like There’s more to the story. You reap what you sowed.
Yep. Sound she was never there for anything and not even the daughters weddings.
Your kids are giving your first wife the love you aren’t giving them or her. Nothing is wrong with them.
Nyuam qhuav nxim xwb mas ua 1 leej txiv siab phem li ko thiaj tsis tau kev hlub
These men talk about regret, but i question how much they would of been able to change how they treated their daughters. Easier said than done.
Dude it’s your own fault
Tos luag tias neeg siab zoo thiaj tau qhov zoo
Tus neeg siab ces yeej Yuav plag mud.
It's wild that this was the general mentality of our elders. Hopefully this current generation can do better. Blessed are those who went against the grain.
Lig rau Koj lawm thaub laus😅
Wow‼️….you really reap what you sowed! These days sons go & love their in-laws, “happy wife happy life.” Daughters have taken on the roles of sons in caring for their parents. Re-eval who you put on the pedestal, title & prestige have changed with sons.
Too late. Daughters do have a choice. They did show some compassion because they don't want karma from their kids. They got good hearts like their mom.
In today world Boys are much important like the 60 and 70 don't disrespect your wife and the daughter they may be girls but they will be the one to look at you when you get older in life......
Tiam no nej cov ua niam ua txiv nej txhob xav tia nej yug tau es nej g hlub nej yuav g muaj kev txhaum nej yeej mj kev txhaum thiab nawb mog vim nej yug tau nej g hlub
Yes, their karma is not getting the love they didn't earn. Kids do not owe parents love simply by being born. They also need to be raised and shown the love they're expected to return their parents.
They love you as much as you love them. Lawv hlub koj li koj hlub lawv. Koj hlub me me, lawv hlub koj me me.
Tiam no ntxhais hluas txiv tshaj plaws lawm. Koj yog ib niag txiv xyob txhiaj coj tsis ncaj. Good story ua kev kawm tau cov txiv neej txhua tus.
Cas cov ntxhais tseem tuaj hlub koj thiab laus thaub laus siab lim hiam
Mloog nawb nej cov txiv neej uas niaj hnub no tseem coj tus cwj pwm zoo li no na
Tij, vim koj tsis muaj kev cia siab rau cov ntxhais es koj thiaj tsis hlub lawv. Tub ntxhais los yuav tau hlub lawv kom sib luag. Yam laus ces tsis paub xyov leej twg yuav hlub yus.
Thaub koj txhaj le ua le ko xwb os. Peb tsi ua le ko. Tub ntxhais peb hlub sib npaug
Tus txiv tsev awnej cov txiv neej yuav tus tshiab lawm ces tsis xav hlub niam loj li kuv tu txiv ces tshuav nws thib thiab os txhob tu siab koj rov ua rau koj ris xwb os
Peb cov txiv nimno peb hlub peb cov tub cov ntxhai ib yam nkau, peb tsi cai li nej cov laus lawm 😂
29:34 Kuv yog koj tus niam loj pab ntxhais los kuv yeej tsis hlub koj thiab, vim koj yeej tsis hlub lawv thaum me los lawm. Koj txhob ntshaw2 lawv niam tej saw kub loj2 uas lawv yuav rau lawv niam. Thaum lawv me lawv tsuas pom lawv niam txoj kev hlub lawv xwb. Yog koj lam hlub koj pab ntxhais ntshe hnub no koj twb tsis tau txom nyem li ko os....thov nej cov OG saib taus nej cov ntxhais nawb vim cov yuav tsis qias nej ces yog nej cov ntxhais ntag.
Nej yug tau ib pab ntxhais nej tsis hlub ces nej ntawv tau zoo tas lawm mog kwv tij Hmoob! Txheej tam sim no txawv txheej thaum ub lawm. Tub ces tsuas yog lub koob xwb, hos ntxhais thiaj yog kev cia siab. Nco ntsoov peb txoj kev sau nqi txhais tso tseg es thaum kawg peb thiaj tsis tau txais txoj kev txaj muag nawj.
Koj pom koj zoo nkaus xwb ua neeg nyob koj twb tsi pom lawv zoo li os.
Yus tseb dab tsi ces yus tau yam ntawd yus tseb kev hlub ces tau kev hlub yus tseb kev phem ces tau phem xwb os
Tiam no ntxhais thiaj hlub yus os
Tsis tu siab li os yaw txiv awsss.. nyias ko nyias txaj rau nyias pws es tsis pom qhab tu siab rau leejtwg nawb.. yus twb vam cia siab rau yus cov tub xwb ces kav liam os.. ua siab tos tuag es lwm tiam mus thov ntaub ntawv Los ua tus neeg siab zoo siab ncaj hlub mi tub mi ntxhais sib npaug os
Vim yus tsis paub ua txiv...menyuam yuav fay hlub ib yam
Peb yuav tau hlub cov ntxhais dua os. Cov ntxhais mas thiaj hlub yus tshaj plaws li hos.
Cov me ntxhais aw kav tsij mus hlub nej txiv os mog nws tsuas los ua yus txiv ib zaug xwb os mog.
This guy does not see his fault at all. Koj twb yog txiv koj yeej lees tias koj tsis hlub tsis kes koj cov nxthais es koj yuav tseev kom lawv hlub koj dabtsi naw? Koj hlub koj cov tub xwb ces kavtsij zoo siab hlo ua raws li koj kev tshav ntuj mas! Tsis txaj muag li os, koj na.
Nay naaayyyy
ab cov me niam tsev cas peb cov ua yug ntxhaus coob22 es tu siab tiag22 li os lawv aw Sim neej no es cov ntxhais no na twb yog yus yug lawv na cov txiv neej no Mas xuaj tiag ho txawj tu siab thiab no thiab tiag peb cov yug ntxhais ces rau kiag tib nkawm khau xwb os
Nyiam qhuav haum txoj ke yus yug tau yus tsi hlub cav mus hlub cov tsi yog yus roj ntsha na have npam loj kawg
Koj paub tu siab thiab los koj twb tsis hlub cov ntxhais koj ho xav kom lawv hlub koj thiab
Nej cov txiv neej txoj kev uas xav tshov lom luag muaj me nyuam tab sis thaus tau me nyuam lawm ho tsis xav hlub ces zoo li no twb tseem tsis tau txaus hlo li os
Koj púas yog ib tu txiv zoo na kuv xav ma tsis yog hnub twg yuav tuag ces mas Xav txoj ces lig lawm mog 😂😂😂
Ua neej nyob yus tau qhov yus ua xwb os .koj tus siab dabtsi
Tus tib neeg ntxeev siab ces yeej tsis tau lub neej zoo. Txhob chim rau koj txoj kev phem.
Tej kev no ces yog koj tsim koj xwb os, nej cov txiv neej hmoob ces yeej coj li koj 99% os thaum yov tuag ces mam xav tau luag zog thiab kev hlub.
It's too late... many broken hearts because of you. now you know the end game. Good for you.
Koj twb g hlub lawv thaum yau es tsam no lawv g hlub koj los koj tu g tau siab os vim koj g hlub lawv ne koj yeej g zoo ne koj cov ntxhai koj g quav ntsej koj cov ntxhai yuav txiv los koj g quav ntsej ne koj mas lim hiam dhau lawm tam tom xwb os thaub laus aw koj g muaj cai tu siab rau lawv
Koj kawm tiav Dr. tias yuav tsum hlub cov ntxhais thiab tab sis lig zog lawm. Tsis muaj lwm tiam lawm.
Nyuam qhuav ntxim xwb nej cov txiv neej siab phem na txawm tub txawm ntxhais los yeej tsis paub xyov Leej twg yuav hlub peb na cov ntxhais Lawv txawm mus yuav txiv lawm los lawv yeej yuav hlub peb na!
I came from a family of 10 girls and 2 boys. My dad’s 2 sons and 4 daughters died. He was heart broken but never once looked down on us as daughters. We told him we are his sons. We all took care of him till his last breath and took care of his funeral for him. Many relatives said he was the most fortunate one because all his daughters loved him dearly.
Now you know, you give what you get. Hope you really learn from your experience. You lucky to even see them and they cared enough to go visit and even change you. Tell them you're sorry and its not late to turn around to love them like they deserved. Your daughters are good people, thanks to their mom she raised them well.
Ntuh aw.... Cas zaj no es zoo ib yam li peb thiab os😢😢 thaum kawg kuv txiv los tuag ntawm peb cov ntxhais xwb os hmoob....
Thaub laus aws koj twb tau kiag qhov koj xav yuav lawm ne koj tseem muaj ntsej muag tuaj tham thiab, txoj me kev cov txiv neej saib tsis taus cov ntxhais na cas ho txawj mus taij cov ntxhais txoj kev hlub thiab
What these OG don't understand is you can't expect to receive love if you never gave love to begin with.
Siab phem lim hiam li koj ces ua siab tuag liab qab mog.
Peb ua neej nyob ua zoo tau zoo ua phem tau phem ces li no tiag hmoob ua neej nyob yus hais tsis tau los lub nyuj mam hais xwb tiag hmoob
Tab tom ntxim xwb mas txiv neej Hmoob lub siab phem 😂
Peb Hmoob yog ib haiv neeg g hlub ntxhais los yog tsoom poj niam li tab sis nyob li lwm hais neeg los zoo li kv pom suav ma lawv tsuag xav kom yug tau ntxhais.
What you reap is what you sow.
Nyuam qhuav ntxim npam tsis npam niag ntsej muag laus txoj me kev siab phem rau cov me ntxhais os.
Oh kuv yog tus thib #1 xub xub tuaj mloog ntag ov zaum no na
Yawm txiv nej cov txiv neej tsa tsa hwj chim os mog txawm cov tub yog koj yug los lawv tsa tsa hwj chim tsis lam nyoo xiam piaj los hlub nej cov laus os mog. Peb cov ntxhais mas peb tsis tsa hwj chim li cov tub os cov tub txawj xav txawj txo hwj chim txawj hlub yus ces tsawg tsawg leej xwb mog.
Koj niag txiv dev liam li koj tseem cas tseem txawj ntshaw kev hlub thisb nas ntsej muag kuv ntxub cov txiv phem li koj
Yus ua li cas ces yus tsuas tau li ntawv rov xwb os vim yus tsis hlub luag ua ntej ne
tsis yog lawv ua pauj koj. vim koj txoj kev phem lim xyiam rov los raug koj .thiaj npam koj.tsis paub txaj muag li cas ntsej muag yuav tuab ua luaj yom
Yus twb tsis hlub cov ntxhais ces txhob tu siab. Yuav tsum hlub kom sib npaug tsis hais tub los ntxhais yus thiaj txaus hlub yav laus rau menyuam mas
Yus hlub lawv li cas ces lawv hlub yus li ntawv xwb..
Tiam no ces yuav tau hlub kom sib npaug g hai tub lo yg ntxhais
Haub yau, ua cas yus yug tau es yus hos tsis hlub tab sis yus hos yuav kom luag hlub yus. I never understand, man. If you want to have many wives, why can you love all equally. Love goes both ways.
Nev twb tias kom hlub ib yam peb cov hluas tiam tshiab no peb hlub ib yam xwb os yawm txiv
Lim hiam li koj twb yog koj cov ntxhai no es tseem tuaj saib koj xwb yog lwm tus ces g quav ntsej koj li qhov koj g quav ntsej lawv ntag lau lim hiam ces paub lawm paub nej cov ua yog niam yog txiv es hlub g ncaj nruab nrab na tam tom ntxim xwb
Tus old man no npab nauj dhau…txaj muag dhau lawm!!!!!!!!!!
Cov txivneej uas tsis hlub tsis cia siab rau cov ntxhais es cia siab rau cov tub xwb ces txhob tu siab es koj cov tub yuav hlub koj thiab tsis hlub los yog tim koj xwb. Txawm tub ntxhais los yog koj cov niag Kab me nyuam tsis yog koj pojniam li Kab me nyuam.
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Vim koj xav hais tias koj yuav tsis ntxau laus nes...txog quaj os..
N.tsis hlub luwv ces ziag no ces xav ntau luwm 😂
Ab thaum me nyuam tseem me yus twb tsi hlub es txog thaum kawg es hais los lus thov txim xwb es tau dab tsi naj txiv neej hmoob
Cov niag neejneeg ruam ruam li no mas lawv cov hais neejneeg nyiam hais heev li.
Yog 1 qhov zoo kom cov txiv neej hmong saib taus nws cov ntxhais Es kom nws txhob tuag da quav da zis thaum laus los mas
Zoo tshaj nplaws qhov uas yus tsi hlub luag os yus pheej xav hais tias ntshe yus yuav tsi txawj txom nyem li no nev paub lawv poj.
Zab story no yog ib zaj yuav qhia hais tias tiam tshiab no yuav tsum hlub tub hlub ntxhais ib yam thiab tau kev hlub rau yav laus ib yam
Xav kom nej cov txiv neej es poj niam yug tsis tau tub es pheej yuav niam yau xav kom zoo zoo seb puas yog vim tu poj niam mas txiv neej yog tu muab poj niam yog tu yug xb os tsis vim tu poj niam os muab hais lo vim nej cov txiv neej xb
koj twb tsis hlub lawv nes. Koj twb tsis hlub lawv niam nes.. tim yus ib leeg xwb os.
Ib tug leej txiv siab phem npaum no cas tseem txawj ntshaw me nyuam txoj kev hlub thiab na qhov no yog koj txoj kev npam xwb mas
Cov txiv neej ua tsis hlub cov ntxhais thiab nws tus niam loj ua yug ntxhais xwb na. Koj hmoov zoo ua cov ntxhais tseem tuaj saib koj
Mloog koj tham koj yeej tsis yog ib tug neeg zoo koj ua li cas koj tau li ntawv vim koj tau li koj ua nyuam qhuav ntxim koj xwb koj yog ib tug txiv dev xwb
es koj twb Tau Le qhov koj ntshaw lm nej koj tseem pheej mus khib niam loj ua ab Tsi naj .koj twb Tau kiag ob tus tub raws Le koj ntshaw lm nej
The audacity of OG's believing that because they produce a child but does zero for that child and expect the child to love them unconditionally is beyond crazy. You get what you give. In your case, you gave nothing but heartaches for them. You are lucky they didn't pay you back by giving you the same treatment you gave them. If you want to repent, leave those girls alone, they owe you nothing.
Nej cov laus na. Thaum yus tsis taus lawm tsuav tej tub nyab tseem kam tuaj tu es lawv yuav nyiam looj qhov ncauj qhov ntswg pes tsawg tshooj los txhob tub tub qaug nej thiab ma. Tsw2 heev ces lawv looj lawv thiaj tsis tau nyob tsev laus nawb
Txhob phem2 thiab tsuav cov hluas tseem tu yus.. kev siv hnab loojbtes yeej yog yuav tau ua raws txoj cai...tsis yog qias. Cov tub nyab los yuav tau tuaj pab neb thiab vim neb yog niam txiv neb xav tau kev pab... puam chawj tsam ko yus laus yus yuav tsis muaj neej ua, tsuas ua neeg lm xwb. Cov hluas ua tau licas siv li ntawd
niag ntsej muag dev lau ko nim kuv pab me ntxhai pab koj txaj muag dhau lawm os niaj hnub no koj tsi tau chaw tuag lawm koj mam hai kuv pab me ntxhai quav dev xwb cov ntxhai ko es nim yog lawm lo lawv ib qho qhov twg lo lov tub thiab ntxhai lo twb yog koj cov niag kua xoo pua yog lawv nim xav2 ua ntxhai es lawv mu ua ntxhai no lov lawv twb yog koj tsim lawv ne koj mua tu qab hau dab tsi lo ntxub cov ntxhai ko ua dab tsi koj ma tseem tshuav kev npam ntau heev koj tsi tau tuag sai thaum twg koj tsuab koj cov quav noj tag ma koj mam li tuag nawj
Ntuj aw, twb tsis hlub los nim ntshaw luag tej kub. Tsis txaj muag los cas.
Koj chim tias nyab lawv looj 3 lub hnav looj tes, ces koj kuj los tu es txhob looj ib lub hnav looj tes txhob npog qhov ncauj. Phem thiab kus kes npaum koj es leej twg thiaj xav nyob ze na.
Aub yaub, koj ces tag hauv ris li ko lawm laus thaub. Lawv twb yog koj roj koj ntshav cas koj yuav li hiam ua luaj li os. Pab ntxhais, yog nej yog neeg zoo tiag tiag, nej yuav tau zam txim rau nej txiv, vim nej twb yog nws cov noob, nej txhawv tawm ntawm nws los. Yog tsis muaj nws yeej tsis muaj nej thiab. Forgive the old man for his grudge in the past but flow your love to him before he breaths his last breathe.
I am too from a family that only wants sons but my mom only birth girls. Too bad my dad died young or else he would be feeling like you.
Lim hiam li koj tam tom ntxi xwb txawm yog tub yog ntxhai los nyob lub teb chaw no cov ntxhai tseem hlub niam txiv tsaj cov tub
Why you sad? That’s what happen when you have high hope on ur other kids and disown ur daughters! You don’t have to be sad.. it’s your fault for what comes to you!
Old man aw!!!! You don't deserve any love from your daughters at all. That's what you get! OG Hmong parents need to appreciate all their kids no matter whether they are girls or boys. Love all your kids equally.
Yus ua rau yus ris xwb Mas.
Koj txawj ntshaw thiab laus niam ntsej muag dev laus. Hnub no koj txawj tuaj qhia koj txoj kev siab phem liam him rau nyiaj teb paub. Koj mas tseem yuav qhov tsis muaj neeg fan koj lub niaj tau hauv dev laus ntawd koj.