GIRL TALK: Jealousy, Ex's, Friendship Advice & More!

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  • Опубліковано 18 гру 2024

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  • @mollycostello9117
    @mollycostello9117 5 років тому +844

    Wow Kara is obviously a very kind, selfless person to make sure that everyone kept her ex involved despite them being broken up.

  • @kaylinjohnson7717
    @kaylinjohnson7717 5 років тому +1667

    Wait can this please be a weekly or monthly thing I love my ladyspeedsticks

    • @TessChristine
      @TessChristine  5 років тому +278

      kaylin johnson I’m thinking about making it a series!!

    • @BlowingUpStars
      @BlowingUpStars 5 років тому +59

      @@TessChristine can it be a podcast?! lmao id love to listen to this on my way to work and school

    • @Valeria-98
      @Valeria-98 5 років тому +2

      @@TessChristine PLEASE

    • @julia4619
      @julia4619 5 років тому +3

      Yeeees please

    • @shannanne13
      @shannanne13 5 років тому +8

      @@BlowingUpStars carrie and Julia have a podcast, Tess and Kara have been guests on it. It's called "we're the ladies"

  • @rywannabe1701
    @rywannabe1701 5 років тому +480

    "if my friends didnt like my husband then i would simply not have a husband" YES TESS

    • @eliasyonuskeykey7146
      @eliasyonuskeykey7146 2 роки тому +1

      This is disappointing to here her say that. Your husband should come before some temporary friends.

  • @alexisdeleon5620
    @alexisdeleon5620 5 років тому +641

    Honestly this is a PRIORITY over my homework at the moment.

  • @vikieh4522
    @vikieh4522 5 років тому +294

    Your reply to the question about "your friends flirt with pat" yes queen I so agree with you if you don't have trust with your close circle then they shouldn't be your close circle

  • @juliaarapoff7376
    @juliaarapoff7376 5 років тому +664

    What's better than Carrie's laugh? Nothing

  • @MsNeonshock
    @MsNeonshock 5 років тому +363

    CARRIE'S LAUGH IS EVERYTHING.

  • @talkingtoalison
    @talkingtoalison 5 років тому +127

    Tess is always so well-spoken and kind with what she’s saying, Even when responding to negative comments/hate. And i just love Carrie and her personality

  • @margaridacorreia1473
    @margaridacorreia1473 5 років тому +435

    Well, I guess Tess didn't get the "let's all wear turtle necks" e-mail ahahahahah

  • @abigaillopez1750
    @abigaillopez1750 5 років тому +381

    Please do this regularly. Like, a monthly "ladyspeedsticks" q&a or something, hahahs

  • @nakibaspencer2267
    @nakibaspencer2267 5 років тому +243

    Who asks these types of questions?! I see Pat as one of the girls. Pat+Tess is one solid package. I love your friend/family group.

    • @-Solange-
      @-Solange- 5 років тому +5

      Those ones looking for a trouble 😅

  • @alexandraflorea3268
    @alexandraflorea3268 5 років тому +58

    Their personalities fulfill one another so well. They harmonize so perfectly. Love ittt

  • @lidiyaz.7354
    @lidiyaz.7354 5 років тому +154

    I think this needs to become a series on your channel.

  • @meganlovesnewyork
    @meganlovesnewyork 5 років тому +61

    it has been two months since being broken up with by my boyfriend of four years, i live in a town 2 hours away from my friends with no car to see them often, i find youtube very good at distracting me from the pain and videos like these are so wholesome and lovely, i need more !!!

    • @ursuladomingos9657
      @ursuladomingos9657 5 років тому +2

      I'm here! You are not alone.

    • @Ella-ub5gy
      @Ella-ub5gy 5 років тому

      I’m currently going trying to get a divorce- leaving an abusive husband. I feel your pain! UA-cam is always there to lift me up! Stay strong. ❤️

  • @ivanpoldrugac3510
    @ivanpoldrugac3510 5 років тому +164

    I need 4 of you to film most likely to 🤩🤩🤩

  • @Nicreb
    @Nicreb 5 років тому +78

    It’s like you knew that I just ran out of videos to watch on UA-cam and it’s the content I’ve been waiting forrrrrrr

  • @Maria-qo5ew
    @Maria-qo5ew 5 років тому +127

    It felt so weird still that you called Pat your husband it’s so cute

  • @deborah-jk7by
    @deborah-jk7by 5 років тому +237

    I also think that thinking that your freinds are "too flirty" with Pat, could also be because a certain age group might not know that adult friendships are a bit different than high school boy/girl friendships… 🙈

    • @Ninitschga
      @Ninitschga 5 років тому +13

      .deborah. Exactly. I think there are a lot of younger people in her audience now. I‘m personally a 90s gal and have been a subscriber to her channel since day one. So from a end-20s-married with two kids perspective there is nothing new here. But still enjoy seeing everyone and listen to their stories. 😊

    • @deborah-jk7by
      @deborah-jk7by 5 років тому +1

      @rando I think everybody has different experiences with opposite sex friendships. Sometimes it works, sometimes it doesn't. But in the end it also doesn't really matter what we think bc it's their friendship and they know what is true. But I also think that you can love somebody but not actually feel sexually attracted to them, as it often is with same sex friendships. But that's just my opinion :)

  • @WeiJoanUdden
    @WeiJoanUdden 5 років тому +49

    This was such a cute video! Loved the casual format and of course seeing the amazing relationships you have with your friends!

  • @conniedale9081
    @conniedale9081 5 років тому +51

    Kara should make her own youtube channel... she definitely has the carisma and she could do fun cooking videos👩🏽‍🍳

  • @singingrox1000
    @singingrox1000 5 років тому +119

    this video is curing my hangover

  • @orsi1293
    @orsi1293 5 років тому +112

    Carrie picks friends well. Now all I have to do is just sit here and wait for Carrie picks me out too. :D

  • @hemmoari5148
    @hemmoari5148 5 років тому +85

    THIS IS WHAT I NEEDED

  • @karinem1259
    @karinem1259 5 років тому +26

    THIS should be a monthly thing! LOVE IT

  • @coolrompsm3
    @coolrompsm3 5 років тому +10

    "Friendships come and go, but if they don't like my husband, then I wouldn't have a husband." What a bond

  • @ThreesCompany22
    @ThreesCompany22 5 років тому +3

    I love when you talked about your friend group and Pat’s relationships. As I’ve gotten older I am more and more passionate about the idea that guys and girls can JUST BE FRIENDS! It’s refreshing to see your friend group have a really healthy unit of both men and women, all with great friendships among each other. My friend group has grown to be like that more, and it’s awesome!

  • @sarahzureiqat
    @sarahzureiqat 5 років тому +10

    idk why but Tess referring to Pat makes my heart flutter 🥺

  • @fabiannabarbarino414
    @fabiannabarbarino414 5 років тому +42

    I’m loving all the ladyspeedsticks content!!

  • @juliaborden
    @juliaborden 5 років тому +1

    my new answer for when people ask me what i want to be when i grow up is Carrie. what an icon.

  • @hannahkauffman7565
    @hannahkauffman7565 5 років тому +7

    Kara and Josh are like a real Ross and Rachel situation and I love it.

  • @rania9332
    @rania9332 5 років тому +10

    I met Tess and Carrie (and Pat!) at the Museum of Pizza party in NYC last year and they are the sweetest! Literally felt like talking to friends.

    • @kali697
      @kali697 5 років тому

      I LOvE that they can all be friends and hang out. My ex friends get jealous and freak out. They just al get along and that’s amazing! 😘

  • @leannapia7964
    @leannapia7964 5 років тому +1

    tess is so good about letting her friends speak and giving other people space to talk on her channel

  • @manereeaurum
    @manereeaurum 5 років тому

    what julia said about quality being more important than quantity is so spot on. i went to a tiny high school that on top of that, was overpacked, so it was easy to "know" everyone, but not everyone is your friend and i think as teenagers and maybe even younger adults, it's easy to want to have as many friends as possible because let's face it, life, and those years in particular, can get pretty lonely. but the phrase, "4 quarters are worth more than 100 pennies." is so true. loneliness and a need for friendship isn't quenched with a thousand friends. in fact, the more you have, the lonelier it gets, from my experience. you honestly could even just have one or two really really great friends and be totally satisfied.

  • @annaaad2321
    @annaaad2321 5 років тому +14

    Julia's voice is so so beautiful, it's very calming🌸

  • @zoebellanfante5017
    @zoebellanfante5017 5 років тому +1

    i love how they all noded in agreement , i can see u guys being frens way into grandma age, all adorable

  • @vaydaotti
    @vaydaotti 5 років тому +34

    but you never told us why it’s called ‘ladyspeedsticks’ :/

  • @diamandone
    @diamandone 5 років тому +3

    your talk about relationships and friends was right on!! in my group of friends there are two couples and i treat everyone the same because they are not my friends’ partner they are my friends and that is a key thing

  • @emiylev
    @emiylev 5 років тому +3

    okay I think we all NEED a friends series because this group is what I live for

  • @ashleyjohnson5824
    @ashleyjohnson5824 5 років тому +2

    ultimate best friend goals honestly

  • @kasiowelove1
    @kasiowelove1 5 років тому +4

    I’m crying on the inside right now. Not because of jealousy, NEVER! It’s just my internal dream of having a group of friends is sobbing right now, hoping for the future 😭

  • @beatrizdias6566
    @beatrizdias6566 5 років тому

    Please make this monthly! Just loved this video, so inspiring!

  • @torymay10
    @torymay10 5 років тому +1

    Kara has a heart of gold you can tell

  • @juliamcdevitt3502
    @juliamcdevitt3502 5 років тому +32

    I would kill to have friends like you four

  • @ashleyjohnson5824
    @ashleyjohnson5824 5 років тому +1

    LADYSPEEDSTICKS!!!! i needed this in my life

  • @noratk
    @noratk 5 років тому +9

    MORE EPISODES LIKE THIS ONE PLEASEEEEE

  • @itellly7600
    @itellly7600 5 років тому +17

    The four of you should start a podcast!

  • @leahhelenc
    @leahhelenc 5 років тому +2

    LOVE IT! This needs to be a series!! Also including the boys would be an awesome addition too!

  • @mariabelle7986
    @mariabelle7986 5 років тому +1

    Please do more of these!! Love this friend group and hearing everyone give advice/perspectives!

  • @juliannewong2225
    @juliannewong2225 5 років тому

    Honestly love this friend group. You could feel how genuinely they are!

  • @ambersmeets6736
    @ambersmeets6736 5 років тому +1

    Please make this a weekly or monthly thing! love the vibe of the video and how you guys work together.

  • @harrisonpamela40
    @harrisonpamela40 5 років тому

    This was so sweet and fun to watch! I am (much) older, and I have a few treasured friend groups that have been with me through every life event imaginable. They are, as you stated, my family. We put in the effort to stay in touch, but the most amazing thing is that no matter how much time passes ( life is busy) we never lose our connection. I consider myself so very blessed to call these people my friends💕

  • @MsLiz1900
    @MsLiz1900 5 років тому +84

    Just curious, what happened to Ryan?

    • @Momosaymkay
      @Momosaymkay 5 років тому

      What makes you think something happened with Ryan?

    • @astrocutie37
      @astrocutie37 5 років тому +5

      Ya! He’s never around anymore, it’s like Louis took his spot

    • @martinapiroddi
      @martinapiroddi 5 років тому +6

      I was just asking the same thing! He lived with them for a while and he didnt go to the wedding ?! Too weird. Plus how did suddenly know louis ? So confusing ahah

    • @nia8243
      @nia8243 4 роки тому

      Martina Piroddi I think Louis moved in to live with josh and that’s how he became close with the group.

  • @jenniferbradley6115
    @jenniferbradley6115 5 років тому +1

    The most genuine friendship group I’ve seen on the internet! Thank you for being so real and down to earth about y’all friendships! ♥️ #friendshipGOALS

  • @karafauerbach2685
    @karafauerbach2685 5 років тому +88

    It really looks like I’m the only one drinking in this video hahahahaha I swear it’s an illusion

    • @kellie1993
      @kellie1993 4 роки тому

      Kara Marie As soon as I read this, I looked up and you were sipping. 😂 That would be me, too! Hahaha

  • @123princesssnow
    @123princesssnow 5 років тому +1

    I would love a group of friends like this because its soooo cute and you can tell these r long time friends and gnna b there through anything

  • @emmaweisjrgensen6188
    @emmaweisjrgensen6188 5 років тому +7

    Had a rough evening, but this cheered me up and I can now go to bed happy

  • @mylenelefresne7282
    @mylenelefresne7282 5 років тому

    So glad to hear you talk about the problem of meeting someone in big cities! In Paris it’s the same... and it’s going harder and harder when you get older (I’m 37). It’s so reconforting to see that I’ m not alone 😉
    Love you girls!! 💕

  • @grrrlonthemoon
    @grrrlonthemoon 5 років тому

    I love watching videos of you guys, setting the standards for a healthy & beautiful friendship, makes me so happy

  • @xoxsabrina
    @xoxsabrina 5 років тому +61

    I wanna know about the dating stories😂

  • @majalo96
    @majalo96 5 років тому +1

    i wish i had a group of girlfriends like this! your friendship is so special!!!!

  • @carolinacorrea1823
    @carolinacorrea1823 5 років тому

    I could watch this all day. Please make this a regular part of your channel 😘

  • @kelseyb3501
    @kelseyb3501 5 років тому

    Omg! I use hi mama worked in preschool, so cool to understand Carrie’s career! I really love this vid, you guys should do this more often. I crave a friendship like this, my best friends and I all live in different cities, our reunions are few and far between but girl time is so important. Love your friendship! Also loved seeing more of Julia and Kara ❤️

  • @efi8086
    @efi8086 5 років тому

    This needs to be a regular series ♥️♥️ love it!!

  • @shamimmotamedi9177
    @shamimmotamedi9177 5 років тому

    I love watching you guys hang out together especially like this in a sit down video. Lots of love for you girls

  • @butterfly13020506
    @butterfly13020506 5 років тому

    Tess is just perfect!! And I well know that no one is perfect but she is incredible

  • @lizbethflores2056
    @lizbethflores2056 5 років тому +31

    I feel as thought I am apart of the group !!

  • @darkbrumecaldin1902
    @darkbrumecaldin1902 5 років тому

    Love this omg!! You guys are a friend squad goal!

  • @vikieh4522
    @vikieh4522 5 років тому +47

    God I hope I have this quality friends when I'm older ye are the best

  • @karolinak5847
    @karolinak5847 5 років тому

    Make it a series! Absolutely loved the vid!!!

  • @natbondarenko
    @natbondarenko 4 роки тому

    I would honestly love if you guys did another video together!!! And talk some more about all of your jobs and careers, that would be really interesting

  • @ashk611
    @ashk611 5 років тому +2

    I need videos like this more often 😍

  • @annhelen5955
    @annhelen5955 5 років тому

    Love this video!! Feel like I get to know you all on a personal level!! And dont understand how the girls dont find anyone, they are so stunning

  • @melh1540
    @melh1540 5 років тому

    So happy for you, to be around such nice people :) would love to see more videos from all of you :)

  • @s5.bryant
    @s5.bryant 5 років тому +38

    I’m struggling to make more friends and to find love.

  • @RiperVag75
    @RiperVag75 5 років тому

    You guys are the absolute best! Also love love love your new instagram !

  • @Claudia-lc5lj
    @Claudia-lc5lj 5 років тому +1

    So honest and pure and mature! Love all of you ❤️ thanks for sharing, you are a real example of female power! you are so lucky to have such a wonderful friendship... A true FRAMILY ❤️💕

  • @ariannacormier366
    @ariannacormier366 5 років тому +1

    You guys are amazing 💕 I love the Lady Speed Sticks account!

  • @joeyamf7033
    @joeyamf7033 5 років тому +1

    I love julias outfit!🥰🥰

  • @mariaa9635
    @mariaa9635 5 років тому

    That's so sweet that you made sure your husband got along with your friends. My former best friend's husband used to be very rude to me. She thought it was funny. We ended our friendship after 15 years of friendship.

  • @hollyjustine5
    @hollyjustine5 5 років тому

    OMG the video I’ve been hoping and waiting for! 😍 Your friend group is so adorable, love you guys! Thanks for being real and open. 👌 Love these sit-down-and-talk kinda videos! Hope to see more videos with the @ladyspeedsticks gang!!!

  • @kimcornetta6610
    @kimcornetta6610 5 років тому +1

    You guys feel like my big sisters I never had!!!!! Love you guys

  • @suzie96
    @suzie96 5 років тому +4

    I was so confused when I saw no comments but YAY, so happy you're doing this :)

  • @nicoleszymikowska6867
    @nicoleszymikowska6867 5 років тому

    FAVE FRIENDS!!! NEED more of this! You guys are amazing!

  • @lisa_roev
    @lisa_roev 5 років тому +11

    Carrie: "My ring size is.." 😂😂😂😂💍💍💍

  • @ClaudiaFuenmayor
    @ClaudiaFuenmayor 5 років тому +1

    you guys are all so beautiful! this was such a pleasant video to watch 💕

  • @shreyagupta2402
    @shreyagupta2402 5 років тому +1

    Can we just take a moment to acknowledge how beautiful Kara is like OMG pure gorgeousness

  • @gillian1473
    @gillian1473 5 років тому +1

    Love this video.. you guys need to do these more often 😌 also a podcast would be epic.

  • @samDenise11
    @samDenise11 5 років тому

    Love the advise! oh! and the photos, lol gets me every time. Hopefully we get to see more of ya'll. 🤙🏼

  • @Zi895
    @Zi895 5 років тому +3

    I need more ladyspeedsticks content in my life

  • @mathura15
    @mathura15 5 років тому +9

    Carrie sounds like the life of the party! So fun

  • @lisakumar1949
    @lisakumar1949 5 років тому

    Omg yayyy!!! I love you all ❤️ Tess you should post more vlogs!!

  • @cynthialikesturtles
    @cynthialikesturtles 5 років тому

    MORE GIRL TALK. I NEED A GIRL TALK SERIES.
    and a competition to hang out with you guys for a day.

  • @laurazimmer9515
    @laurazimmer9515 5 років тому

    I just love you girls so much! You remind me of my own friends and i really hope that we will forever be as close and loving as you are! True friendship goals ❤

  • @ariannaflores1549
    @ariannaflores1549 5 років тому

    Hands down best series, you all should make this it's own youtube channel!

  • @sabrinacastro9126
    @sabrinacastro9126 5 років тому +1

    Omg love this video you guys should do a podcast would love to hear it when im driving to work or getting ready:) does anyone know where tess got her top?? Its so cute

  • @alysawasem1585
    @alysawasem1585 5 років тому

    Thank you guys so much for giving us what we wanttttt

  • @mariejuarez6326
    @mariejuarez6326 5 років тому +4

    Y'all need a podcast😂 like I can listen to y'all talk for hours👌

  • @1224missbubbles
    @1224missbubbles 5 років тому

    Omg I love you and your friends so much!! You should definitely do more of these types of videos

  • @samantarizzi248
    @samantarizzi248 4 роки тому

    Loved this! Please consider making more videos with them :)

  • @melsk5813
    @melsk5813 5 років тому

    Please do more of these I’m obsessed !!!❤️😊