Burlinda: You are something else! I am not going to even try to understand that mentality. I may be wrong, but I am quite sure while she's home ALL DAY WORKING, part of that time the kids are down for naps, and part of that time she's relaxing on the phone watching TV. As a mother, I am definitely not minimizing what a stay-at-home mom does, but be real. Many don't realize who the women's liberation movement was for and who benefitted the most.
If you have wild friends you may need to switch that up after u get a husband and children. Just like your spending habits..try to look at yourself instead of blaming your spouse for trying to help you grow up.
She married him while he was in jail?! SO WHAT!! It was HER CHOICE! He didn’t put a gun on her temple to marry him while he was there! She doesn’t deserve a medal for that! She is entitled as hell and doesn’t know the real meaning of the word ‘sexism’ HEY LADY!! COOK THE MAN A MEAL! IT’S NOT HARD!
@@lb.3199 Most of young women work though. If he the only one working then 1000% yes she should take care of the home kids and rest. But ya can't expect a woman who works to also do other things.
Helli yeah ! I have been a stay home wife / part time outside the house worker. It is all about planning, NAP TIME AND a schedule. Certain meals can be prepped over nigh. Air fryer and pressure cookers are a help😊
Maybe she actually was putting on. Maybe if she cooked, he would be more tolerating. She is selfish. She wants to be treated like a wife. But acts like a teenager.
I wouldn’t want my husband to see all that goes on while giving birth. My husband was in the room when I gave birth and I was happy that he was there, but why would you want him to see all of that stuff… Also, I don’t know why women think that men are going to be the heavy in taking care of household responsibilities and child rearing, especially when you are a stay at home mom. I worked, cooked, and kept my home clean. My husband cooked a few times a week, washed dishes occasionally, took out the trash, and took care of the yard. I also did yard work and took care of the garden. He spent time with our children and even changed diapers and babysat when I needed him to.
If your home and have kids and house hold you can cook clean 7days a week ask him agreement for 5 days of cooking when he's at work then weekends he can cook or take everyone out just petty fr sad my grandmother's never complained when the bills are paid they get to be home most of the time
I think judge needs to come harder on the defendant. You have 3 children. So you must love having him. She expects too much!!! How old are the children. Sorry on this one. The defendant is wrong. She is going to lose a good man. She needs to appreciate him He could be going out with his guys.
she expects him to shower her with money and live free in the home but he cant get a meal? thats literally all i heard him really complain about. a working man that does all that and likes you staying home with the babies, deserves at least a hot meal every day. go the extra mile and cater to him. i get it motherhood is a never ending job but when you sign on for the life it is what it is. its a blessing. she shouldve spoke to him before marriage about roles and capabilities bc no ma'am but he do need to work on that ROMANCE bc that can make a woman give up after years and all them babies
This case is completely out of hand now you going to make my man love and assist, if he doesn't want to don't want him to do that, you work for 12-hour shift I would want some help but it would be minimized, I worked and had to grocery shop cook clean the house.. She's not appreciating her husband.. He said he helps sometimes that's all he needs to do. Give her a break sometimes, but the only other side of the corn who's giving him a break.. Definitely not his wife..
3 kids aren't all that much to take care of while doing housework. I have babysat up to 14 kids a day & kept my house clean, laundry done, etc. I just don't understand when Moms complain about taking care of 4 or less kids while doing housework!
I agree that she needs to cook for her husband period but let’s not compare babysitting to be long a stay at home mom. U give those kids back. Mother is 24/7 zero breaks. U better sleep when they sleep cause if not u not getting any.
I like this couple, they don't have a lot of drama. It seems that they are getting complacent and need more romance in certain places. Take it from me, appreciate what you already have. The only thing out in these streets is idiots, pretenders and wanna be's. Go to therapy if you think it will help. Make a good thing better. Remember: the divorce rate is 50% in the U.S.
Baby listen my son father almost did t make in the hospital. He hates needles and anything hospital. When I was giving birth they told him to have a seat they didn’t want two patient’s!
being at home with kids is not as hard as working a job, a job requires you to work at all times outside of your designated break. at home parenting has its moment everyday but not as consistent as a job. plus the kids go to school for most of the day and grow up and out the house at some point. You get to take breaks when you want for the most part cleaning can all be done at a specific point. i did it during COVID and i had a system with keeping the kids in order and doing their school work since the was remote school. I'll trade it in for the work i'm doing 10 hours a day if i didn't love what i do.
It always amazes me women always put overemphasis in the conversation that you have two or three or five ETC. but you always have a choice not to children that is choice. Why not get yourself fully together financially before having children therefore this would never be a topic 🤔🍀✨🍀
Deep down they get along, they need downtime. Get a housekeeper one day a week, daycare one or two days a week to get ahead of the obligations and room to breathe.
I need women to teach men so men can teach their sons what it means to woe a woman. What it takes to live on a woman & a woman is not your mom, but your servant but there to be your partner in life n elevate your entire life journey experience. What you put into a woman you get back tenfold. Stop being a selfish lover
Got to be something they are married.... HELLO it's her mouth for me she needs some growing up....First she needs to learn how to cook and stop being a consumer... doing things for likes she's still learning
I was married for 43 years abd had 4 children, we were 12 years apart, worked well, I married a man not a boy, goodness, I was 23, inexperienced but educated. The bad part is that he died before me, that is the sadness.
If she's doing everything in the house hold and yard work and doing school online he should come home and fix his own sandwshich like I hate when men say want a hot meal well get up and fix you something your arms and legs aren't broken
I think he’s a good man. She trying to keep up with the Joneses and the Jones is broke! 😂😂😂😂
"Love is a two way street constantly under construction"
Imagine if he said "I try to work but sometimes it just doesn't work out like that" 😂😂
He cant woo you on an empty stomach 😂
Honey prep that meat the night before and put it in the crockpot in the morning and just fix the sides
She said she feels he is sexist because of the roles yet she would be expecting him to be carry the financial and protector responsibilities.
Burlinda: You are something else! I am not going to even try to understand that mentality. I may be wrong, but I am quite sure while she's home ALL DAY WORKING, part of that time the kids are down for naps, and part of that time she's relaxing on the phone watching TV. As a mother, I am definitely not minimizing what a stay-at-home mom does, but be real. Many don't realize who the women's liberation movement was for and who benefitted the most.
Girl you got to pick one, either you want a traditional life or a modern life., you can't have it both ways!
I actually enjoyed them. They didn't have any major issues. They just needed a little tweaking.
Get a ceock pot, hunn. Or precooked your meat on Sunday for the week. That way, all you have to cook are sides.
My crockpot is my best friend 😂
That's a great idea😊
If you have wild friends you may need to switch that up after u get a husband and children. Just like your spending habits..try to look at yourself instead of blaming your spouse for trying to help you grow up.
She married him while he was in jail?! SO WHAT!! It was HER CHOICE! He didn’t put a gun on her temple to marry him while he was there! She doesn’t deserve a medal for that!
She is entitled as hell and doesn’t know the real meaning of the word ‘sexism’ HEY LADY!! COOK THE MAN A MEAL! IT’S NOT HARD!
3 under 3 years old is a lot but ma’am if it was so much why keep having them back to back.
You in the house with the kids and a stove. Cook that man a hot meal.
Right! These young women don't understand what it's means to be a wife. Especially if they have a true provider.
@@lb.3199 Most of young women work though. If he the only one working then 1000% yes she should take care of the home kids and rest. But ya can't expect a woman who works to also do other things.
@N.B988 Agreed! But remember, she doesn't work. She needs some lessons in time management.
@@lb.3199my thoughts exactly!!
Helli yeah ! I have been a stay home wife / part time outside the house worker. It is all about planning, NAP TIME AND a schedule. Certain meals can be prepped over nigh. Air fryer and pressure cookers are a help😊
When you cook for your kids also cook for your husband smdh
Right, do the kids only eat 4 times a week?
Hope he likes Mac and cheese and chicken nuggets
Maybe she actually was putting on.
Maybe if she cooked, he would be more tolerating.
She is selfish.
She wants to be treated like a wife. But acts like a teenager.
I wouldn’t want my husband to see all that goes on while giving birth. My husband was in the room when I gave birth and I was happy that he was there, but why would you want him to see all of that stuff…
Also, I don’t know why women think that men are going to be the heavy in taking care of household responsibilities and child rearing, especially when you are a stay at home mom. I worked, cooked, and kept my home clean. My husband cooked a few times a week, washed dishes occasionally, took out the trash, and took care of the yard. I also did yard work and took care of the garden. He spent time with our children and even changed diapers and babysat when I needed him to.
They need to see the beautiful life you and he created. They have so much respect to see what you have to go throgh
He’s a good man, she’s tripping
😮judge Lynn 42 and 29 is not a huge gap? Like a decade is not a lot ? 😔😔 so disappointed from that statement
If your home and have kids and house hold you can cook clean 7days a week ask him agreement for 5 days of cooking when he's at work then weekends he can cook or take everyone out just petty fr sad my grandmother's never complained when the bills are paid they get to be home most of the time
Chic is wrong, she's leaving that man home and using his money to run the streets
I don't think that she understands what the word "sexist" means?
She really doesn't.
No, she does. It is sexist to think your job is to do 100 percent of custodial parent work.
No disrespect she said she is in school but I'm wondering what grade or class she is taking since she seem not to know the true meaning of sexist😮.
I think judge needs to come harder on the defendant.
You have 3 children. So you must love having him.
She expects too much!!!
How old are the children.
Sorry on this one. The defendant is wrong.
She is going to lose a good man.
She needs to appreciate him
He could be going out with his guys.
Why you having kids with a man who is distant during giving birth 😂😂😂
she expects him to shower her with money and live free in the home but he cant get a meal? thats literally all i heard him really complain about. a working man that does all that and likes you staying home with the babies, deserves at least a hot meal every day. go the extra mile and cater to him. i get it motherhood is a never ending job but when you sign on for the life it is what it is. its a blessing. she shouldve spoke to him before marriage about roles and capabilities bc no ma'am but he do need to work on that ROMANCE bc that can make a woman give up after years and all them babies
Womanly duties. Not female duties.
Their age difference is big asf?
I'm on and waiting.
Yessss lol I'm a loyal fan!
This case is completely out of hand now you going to make my man love and assist, if he doesn't want to don't want him to do that, you work for 12-hour shift I would want some help but it would be minimized, I worked and had to grocery shop cook clean the house.. She's not appreciating her husband.. He said he helps sometimes that's all he needs to do. Give her a break sometimes, but the only other side of the corn who's giving him a break.. Definitely not his wife..
She is the problem
"Do you expect me to change my crowd when you meet me?" Emmmm yes, just like you would expect me to.
Sis has the same name as I do, we just spell it different. Berlinda, and Burlinda. 😂😊
Their in Love! ❤
Gurl, get an air fryer, or a crock pot! How is that so hard. The problem here is that she was too young and you too old.
Im 31 weeks/7months pregnant and my man works 16 hour shifts. I have his breakfast and i cook him dinner and a container take to work. Thats crazy.
3 kids aren't all that much to take care of while doing housework. I have babysat up to 14 kids a day & kept my house clean, laundry done, etc. I just don't understand when Moms complain about taking care of 4 or less kids while doing housework!
I agree that she needs to cook for her husband period but let’s not compare babysitting to be long a stay at home mom. U give those kids back. Mother is 24/7 zero breaks. U better sleep when they sleep cause if not u not getting any.
She doesn't respect his position as a provider,
Love this! Good job judge
He is soft , too soft !!!!! Thats not the problem his girl is out with a younger dude , i can read her , she is a liar !
“6 and a half” 🥹😂😂
She had more than one child by him so,, apparently, it obviously didn't keep him from wanting to do it again. 😊
I like this couple, they don't have a lot of drama. It seems that they are getting complacent and need more romance in certain places. Take it from me, appreciate what you already have. The only thing out in these streets is idiots, pretenders and wanna be's. Go to therapy if you think it will help. Make a good thing better. Remember: the divorce rate is 50% in the U.S.
Baby listen my son father almost did t make in the hospital. He hates needles and anything hospital. When I was giving birth they told him to have a seat they didn’t want two patient’s!
being at home with kids is not as hard as working a job, a job requires you to work at all times outside of your designated break. at home parenting has its moment everyday but not as consistent as a job. plus the kids go to school for most of the day and grow up and out the house at some point. You get to take breaks when you want for the most part cleaning can all be done at a specific point. i did it during COVID and i had a system with keeping the kids in order and doing their school work since the was remote school. I'll trade it in for the work i'm doing 10 hours a day if i didn't love what i do.
So the children dont eat?
Burlinda such a pretty name
They are too cute
Great couple & great judge. Go home & love each other. Young lady, go home, please. You have no problem. God bless you'll & the kiddos.🙏
It always amazes me women always put overemphasis in the conversation that you have two or three or five ETC. but you always have a choice not to children that is choice. Why not get yourself fully together financially before having children therefore this would never be a topic 🤔🍀✨🍀
Girl stay at home mother's do more than children care too
She has a rap sheet long as yo arm!😮😮😮
Deep down they get along, they need downtime. Get a housekeeper one day a week, daycare one or two days a week to get ahead of the obligations and room to breathe.
I need women to teach men so men can teach their sons what it means to woe a woman. What it takes to live on a woman & a woman is not your mom, but your servant but there to be your partner in life n elevate your entire life journey experience. What you put into a woman you get back tenfold. Stop being a selfish lover
What does a 42 year old want with a 29 year old? That's not a good look
Got to be something they are married.... HELLO it's her mouth for me she needs some growing up....First she needs to learn how to cook and stop being a consumer... doing things for likes she's still learning
I was married for 43 years abd had 4 children, we were 12 years apart, worked well, I married a man not a boy, goodness, I was 23, inexperienced but educated. The bad part is that he died before me, that is the sadness.
@@nflgloWell they shouldn't marry anyone that young or that old anyway
@@joe-dante9036 Why?
It’s nothing wrong with a younger woman and older man and vice versa. These 2 are not quite on the same page.
If she's doing everything in the house hold and yard work and doing school online he should come home and fix his own sandwshich like I hate when men say want a hot meal well get up and fix you something your arms and legs aren't broken