TOXIC TRAITS IN RELATIONSHIPS

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  • Опубліковано 11 вер 2024
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  • @JillBrittany527
    @JillBrittany527 4 роки тому +22

    This message hits different when you've lived it. Praise God for bringing me through those storms!!

  • @monicavegagallery1876
    @monicavegagallery1876 5 років тому +19

    Being healed Realtalkkim being healed.I am a forty-two-year-old on fire born-again believer in love with Jesus Christ and I'm married.Actually this morning I just repented to my husband on some issues that I drug into the marriage (silent issues) something I didn't have to talk to him about it! I broke down and I wept over him and I told him what a Godly man he is and how much he's done for me.As I'm listening to your message I'm crying out of thankfulness towards the Lord because, I put up deep sin in a previous marriage with someone who was a violator of the heart. I want to thank you. I just found out about you through Terri Foy Saville Ministries and I searched for you because I said who was his real talk Kim. I want to just bless you and encourage you that you really are a fire starter in the kingdom and God bless you woman of God.

  • @soy.ingrid
    @soy.ingrid 5 років тому +35

    Traits of unhealthy Relationships:
    1. constant strife and division
    2. violators of the heart
    3. balence in giving and taking
    how to get rid of the unhealthy relationship?
    1. know and identify unhealthy relationship
    - hand that person over to God
    2. Don't try to be God to someone
    3. become comfortable with criticism
    4. Progressively end unhealthy relationships
    - one at a time
    - Is God pleased with my relationships?
    - don't burn . bridges
    - cut ties in a way you don't blame
    - clean and definitive
    - hand it over to God

  • @shantejck9765
    @shantejck9765 4 роки тому +9

    Their rejection is God's redirection.

  • @koetissasearcy4253
    @koetissasearcy4253 5 років тому +13

    Pastor Kim I thank God for you, we received a 5.00 coupon at CVS my teenage daughter came out of the store and said, Won't he do it! We needed that 5.00 God is good

  • @Mzshey2006
    @Mzshey2006 5 років тому +14

    My GOD this is my current situation 🙏 thank you Pastor Kim for this message ♥️✌️🙏🙏

  • @lemonawrencher-strong6920
    @lemonawrencher-strong6920 5 років тому +13

    AMEN......The toxic persons have to go....and I need to detox myself as well.

  • @angelareynolds6312
    @angelareynolds6312 5 років тому +19

    So glad I stumbled across you on Instagram...such a blessing to me in this season

  • @lmoody2825
    @lmoody2825 5 років тому +6

    I receive peace and clarity over every area of my life today in the name of Jesus sealed in the blood. This is a word of confirmation. Lord I am getting out of your way. Lord I want what you have for me. Father your will for my life please. Amen

  • @staceyadams1727
    @staceyadams1727 4 роки тому +2

    Oh my gosh- I WAS a fixer!! Thank you for this word. Now it all is coming together. Thank you God! ♥️

  • @sarahnoethen5583
    @sarahnoethen5583 3 роки тому

    I'm not even searching these...God keeps finding me by suggesting these specific videos to me. Nothing is an accident. It's even helping reach my best friend who's having trouble letting go of a relationship that's not helping her. "Train another one" wow!

  • @dr.angelakalender9322
    @dr.angelakalender9322 5 років тому +5

    Good preaching...I love this PASTOR...her personality is beautiful

  • @angelahall6608
    @angelahall6608 5 років тому +4

    Amen and Amen! This was confirmation and is so indicative of my life. I know that God loves me and my husband both. However, there is no place for toxic traits in a relationship that is supposed to be led by God!
    I thank God for you and your word Pastor Kim. I have been listening and you have been blessing me for a long time!! God bless!

    • @yvonnemcdaniel4424
      @yvonnemcdaniel4424 4 роки тому +1

      Pastor you bought an awesome word I have been so blessed to hear it today because I was there but I understand that I have allow people to go and I can move forward and bless God,s people that he is sending to me to minister that truly need it thank will listen soon love Pastor Mc

  • @mechellstern9833
    @mechellstern9833 4 роки тому +1

    This is the first time I listen to pastor Kim , The lord is really using her for his kingdom, She gets straight to the point and I have been convicted on something and in life and I’m thankful for that , I thank God for what he’s doing in my life to restore me .

  • @odettahines9913
    @odettahines9913 5 років тому +1

    Giving all honor and praise you are a blessing .God bless you and your family ,and friends and congregation .He really used you.

  • @Realprettyjelly
    @Realprettyjelly 5 років тому +4

    Im here to let you know I love you soo much, you have helped me in tremendously ways, I’m much closer to GOD cause of you, you are an Angel, GOD blessed you ❤️🙌🏽🙏🏽

  • @debreccaspady4912
    @debreccaspady4912 4 роки тому +1

    I m really thankful for your calling and being down to earth real right where we are. Telling the whole truth whether we like it or not. Be blessed woman of God and keep letting God use you. You've been a great encouragement to me. And I can relate to you I can see And feel God doing some things in my life that he did for you. Love your Temperament and character.

  • @tinatina1452
    @tinatina1452 5 років тому +5

    This message spoke volumes to my core, Thank you!

  • @abloodworth33
    @abloodworth33 5 років тому +1

    My God! What a word. Hallelujah! Right now I'm learning more about the Holy Ghost. Amen

  • @marquitacoit2368
    @marquitacoit2368 5 років тому +7

    💨💨💨 PK, you're preaching straight 🔥🔥🔥. #youbettertellitsis

  • @tonyaharris6593
    @tonyaharris6593 3 роки тому

    Kim is such a powerful Preacher, free and transparent.I thank you!

  • @brittneyfoster853
    @brittneyfoster853 3 роки тому +1

    This break up is kicking my butt!! But now IN JESUS NAME I LET IT GO!!! I don’t want to hurt anymore!!! 👊🏼❤️

  • @isispalmermommyTV
    @isispalmermommyTV 5 років тому +3

    Omg.. she is soo funny. I love her energy. She is an right on time preacher for me

  • @krissiluv4756
    @krissiluv4756 5 років тому

    This word is powerful and had to be for me... You called my name.... God is so amazing!!!

  • @SonjaStClair
    @SonjaStClair 3 роки тому

    Thank you, for this message. I've been asking God clarity and peace. I have been very sick. I just turned on the TV and saw that you will be at st louis area in June for a womens conference called Thrive. I didn't know about you or your ministry...It was no accident it was a divine appt. I need healing in every part of my being blessings

  • @msdecemberloveangel8236
    @msdecemberloveangel8236 5 років тому +1

    Peace reigns within u lovely woman of God. Inspiring to me. I love the Lord

  • @sarahnoethen5583
    @sarahnoethen5583 3 роки тому

    Real Talk Kim--- God always finds me and sends me messages through your videos. I am so thankful for you. 🙏🙏💜💜💜

  • @bisheabagriffin3544
    @bisheabagriffin3544 3 роки тому +1

    Thank you for this word!!! I heard from the Lord🙌🏿🙌🏿🙌🏿

  • @yolandabeukes4868
    @yolandabeukes4868 2 роки тому

    There is no laughing emoji. Love this truth its worth more then a like lol

  • @amandacaudill6029
    @amandacaudill6029 3 роки тому

    Yasssssss! Kim let God speak thru u! 🙏 this hit me right in the face ! Praise him! I respect u so much!

  • @shannoncoffman8171
    @shannoncoffman8171 3 роки тому

    I just imprinted this in my brain and heart! I wish I could know a certain person listened to this! Dear Father, ...The saying "Hit the nail on the head!" Never rang so true! I never wanted to hear it is the best for us both my heart was selfish! I now truly love this person by setting them free! The mental, physical abuse we did too one another brakes my ❤️! Watch over us, heal us and help us understand that "Love is nothing if you God does not come first and foremost! I pray these things in Jesus name!
    AMEN!

  • @sarahnoethen5583
    @sarahnoethen5583 3 роки тому

    Wait!! I heard this a few years ago.....wowww what a message. Goosebumps 🙏🙏🙏💕💕😭😭

  • @QueenRonny
    @QueenRonny 4 роки тому +1

    Great message, I receive it and thank you very much. Amen 🙏🏽

  • @dr.daisymay7415
    @dr.daisymay7415 5 років тому +1

    Breath of fresh air and transparent 🙏

  • @leratofortunatetooane1977
    @leratofortunatetooane1977 2 роки тому +1

    🥺🙏🏻 Such a blessed message. Thank you soo much Pastor.

  • @theresaflowers
    @theresaflowers 5 років тому +4

    An awesome message Pastor Kim. God richly bless you always. 🙌🏼😍❤️🔥💪

    • @christianleomorgan511
      @christianleomorgan511 2 роки тому

      Hello... anyone here 👋 I enjoyed your page 😊 where are you from??

  • @cateyes1906
    @cateyes1906 4 роки тому

    AMEN !!! Thanks Real Talk Kim for this inspiration-well needed👏👏🙈🙏🙏

  • @melvinawright9394
    @melvinawright9394 3 роки тому

    The part where she said the “fixer” constantly go get the most broken people and try to fix them! Because they want to feel not-disposable and the abuser of the heart knows they want to be loved so they take advantage 😞😕 basically

  • @cthompson5867
    @cthompson5867 4 роки тому +2

    I needed this at this very moment and time

  • @jacobromero2634
    @jacobromero2634 4 роки тому +1

    My ex called me a bitch in front of my kids I took him in he was homeless n i provided for him I forgave him n all he did was hurt me he left I forgave I'm healing

  • @taniarupert5059
    @taniarupert5059 5 років тому +2

    Come on Pastor. 🙏🙌☝💜

  • @LaurieLatimer-sisfantastic
    @LaurieLatimer-sisfantastic 5 років тому +3

    I enjoy all of her ministry!! 🔥🔥🔥

    • @christianleomorgan511
      @christianleomorgan511 2 роки тому

      Hello... anyone here 👋 I enjoyed your page 😊 where are you from??

  • @howlishiaevans5376
    @howlishiaevans5376 5 років тому +1

    This was a word for me. Thank you Pastor

  • @courtneycrawford965
    @courtneycrawford965 4 роки тому

    Maybe I AM THE TOXIC ONE !Amen🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾♥️♥️♥️♥️🔥🔥🔥✍🏾✍🏾✍🏾lord keep my feet from following EVIL
    Rejection is redirection🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
    REJECTION IS ALSO GODS PROTECTION 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥✍🏾✍🏾✍🏾✍🏾

  • @jenniferzandarrski3184
    @jenniferzandarrski3184 4 роки тому

    Hey boo hey Miss Kim girl you know you be preaching girl preach on boo

  • @BabyGirl-nb9kk
    @BabyGirl-nb9kk 4 роки тому

    Amen I needed to hear this Pastor Kim love your service

  • @megansmart9355
    @megansmart9355 5 років тому +2

    This spoke to me loud and clear

  • @nikam3986
    @nikam3986 5 років тому +2

    Preach Pastor Kim, yessss

  • @shawntea1868
    @shawntea1868 2 роки тому

    Powerful messege for motivation and staying on track

  • @keyab3564
    @keyab3564 4 роки тому

    Loved this message, needed this today 🙌🏽

  • @jjw1309
    @jjw1309 4 роки тому +1

    Talk to me Kim🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯🙏🏾

  • @SincerelyTaliaxo
    @SincerelyTaliaxo 5 років тому +1

    Amen! Thank you Kim

  • @MrStacyk
    @MrStacyk 3 роки тому

    God bless you, this message was on point!!!

  • @kenyak2959
    @kenyak2959 5 років тому +2

    Always on pointtttt

  • @joycehutson6477
    @joycehutson6477 5 років тому

    Wow. This is sooooo real & true. Thank you. 🌠

  • @jjw1309
    @jjw1309 4 роки тому +1

    Remove this toxic relationship with D.H. lord

  • @LaSonja939496
    @LaSonja939496 3 роки тому +1

    Thank you.

  • @rutavitello7189
    @rutavitello7189 5 років тому

    We know what the nation I know God he will give use peace God he knows already what all the church they need God knows God bless God loves the church fight for god Crist always WIN WIN

  • @megansmart9355
    @megansmart9355 5 років тому +3

    Great message

  • @SkinbyJai
    @SkinbyJai 4 роки тому

    Amen truly blessed me

  • @cecilekasongo2835
    @cecilekasongo2835 5 років тому

    Real talk and wisdom

  • @jacobromero2634
    @jacobromero2634 4 роки тому +1

    U called my name Pastor

  • @kaishiajones7895
    @kaishiajones7895 5 років тому +1

    Powerful message.

  • @tiffymart09
    @tiffymart09 5 років тому

    This really blessed me!

  • @JuniRose123
    @JuniRose123 5 років тому +2

    I love her

  • @kimpartee2327
    @kimpartee2327 5 років тому +1

    Such a great teaching 🔥🔥🔥

    • @christianleomorgan511
      @christianleomorgan511 2 роки тому

      Hello... anyone here 👋 I enjoyed your page 😊 where are you from??

  • @justzo92
    @justzo92 5 років тому

    Thank you pastor

  • @fr33bird.33
    @fr33bird.33 Рік тому

    So needed.

  • @violetsurbida2774
    @violetsurbida2774 5 років тому

    i love your videos! wish the quality was better!

  • @scollins3946
    @scollins3946 5 років тому +1

    Have you posted the Red flag sermon??? If not please post it...

  • @LadyDragonfly200
    @LadyDragonfly200 5 років тому

    Thank you!!!

  • @mondayenjoyment9700
    @mondayenjoyment9700 5 років тому

    Amen 🙏

  • @lisax2296
    @lisax2296 5 років тому

    AMEN🙏

  • @rutavitello7189
    @rutavitello7189 5 років тому

    Devil nothing but he already die I believe in that I remember when God on the mountain 40 day and 40 night before he died on the cross Satan nothing but it gone burn in 🔥 and he it in he'll

  • @keishaoliviab
    @keishaoliviab 5 років тому +1

    👏🏾👏🏾🙏🏾

  • @laquitawalker8741
    @laquitawalker8741 4 роки тому

    Wheeeewwww at work crrrryyyiiinggg... come on

  • @snlovesjn
    @snlovesjn 5 років тому

    ♥️♥️

  • @rickvargas1307
    @rickvargas1307 5 років тому

    24:59

  • @Italiangirlnj747
    @Italiangirlnj747 5 років тому +2

    Omg luv u

    • @christianleomorgan511
      @christianleomorgan511 2 роки тому

      Hello... anyone here 👋 I enjoyed your page 😊 where are you from??

  • @kenyak2959
    @kenyak2959 5 років тому

    Yassssss

  • @ciaracorr6015
    @ciaracorr6015 5 років тому +2

    ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️🇺🇸🦅

  • @TammyReneeCoaching
    @TammyReneeCoaching 3 роки тому

    🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥
    👑❤🙏🙋‍♀️

  • @yolandasanchez5567
    @yolandasanchez5567 5 років тому +1

    💝🔥🕊🌹👑💝💝💝💝💝💝💝

  • @technologybridges9940
    @technologybridges9940 5 років тому +1

    AMBASSADOR YOU ARE SUCH A DELIGHT AND DIRECTORY FOR KINGDOM LIVING. KIM THE WAY YOU STRANGLE DOUBT AND USHER IN THE YOU CAN DO IT, IS AMAZING. YOUR APPROACH THIS IS MY TESTIMONY, IT WAS HARD AND I DID IT, AND YOU CAN TO , AWESOME. BLESSINGS TO YOU AND YOUR HUSBAND THANK YOU

  • @willenepowers5044
    @willenepowers5044 5 років тому

    Amen 🙏