I remember when I worked in sales. My coworkers would send out letters to customers with the anticipation that the prospect will respond to the letter by calling them. No one would call. I wouldn't mail letters instead I picked up the phone and cold called. Guess who sold the most floor mats? Yes, me.
I was a beast this past weekend. Approached like 20 girls. Ended up in a hotel with some random bitch after clubbing, a girl admitting she was feeling me but her boyfriend was at the club in front of us, some chick asking me if I was good at sex off the rip. A girl telling me we could be friends just for sex. Some chick 9 years older than me telling me age is just a number lol. I really couldn't believe all this shit was happening. I had a bunch of rejections in there too. Some were mad intimidated. It's amazing how the game works in your favor when you just dont give a fuck lol.
You have to approach women period!!! It's very rare a smoking hot woman will approach you to holler at you. So that is why its a number game you have to talk to a lot of women and many will reject you but many will give you their time.
This is something I began to realize this year. I have to cold approach. My social circles has no women I can get with. Online dating I ve gotten average to above average women at best but I notice I get better reactions from hot women when I meet them on a night out. I'm going to work on cold approaching this year
It makes a whole lot of sense. I’ve been using this ‘waiting for choosing signals’ approach as a cop out for years because most of times even when I get a choosing signal I don’t approach. You’ve made me realize that it’s my ego that’s prevents me from cold approaching women because I care too much about how the women will respond. It’s time for me to man up and go for what I want
I have a blueprint written down of what to do in my phone😂☝it helps. My problem is just goin over to the girl but once i go over to her and talk its easy. The last approach i did last week was cool. I was actually comfortable
Use subjects in the moment, like if a chick is talking to her friend. Go up to them and introduce yourself then ask them what they were talking about. Literally anything can be a "icebreaker".
@@aight365 "Excuse me. Hi what's your name?Kelly? Nice to meet u. My name is (blank) Look Kelly I know you're busy but I want to get to know a little bit better, I'm interested in u, ur kinda cute. Let's exchange numbers and we should get together sometime this week"😂i got it from Mr. Locario and Steve☝☝u gotta get straight to the point
I have serious anxiety when it comes to women, it's not a fear of a woman. If a woman started talking to me, I'm good with conversations, but having to approach I completely freak out.
Mr. Locario I get what you mean by cold approaching. I have approached a lot more women this way than the average guy. Most of the women I have had have been through cold approaching. Some guys are not afraid to cold approach. They are just sick and tired of the bullshit that can come along with it. I suggest guys to just introduce themselves and try to close the deal on the spot most times. I don't like giving chicks compliments, when I first meet them, as many women are used to them and they are cheesy as hell and sound like you might have rehearsed them and shit, or they are arrogant and don't even acknowledge them. I like to save my compliments in the bedroom or on a date. A lot of guys spoil women with the compliments at first or they think too much what perfect compliment to say. Women know you are trying to fuck just say for instance ,"Hey I'm Peter we should meet up sometime what is your name?" That is all you have to do and close that shit. Some guys are not pussys. Some guys get exhausted from the games and might need to recharge their batteries. Some guys might not even be in the mood. I have approached women, when I was not in the mood to, and my game was not as sharp, simply because I was depressed or angry. I might not have shown it, but that energy is communicated subconsciously. Many guys just don't know what to say. Just keep the shit simple and introduce yourself and close the deal. If the bitch is fronting and pretending that she does not know why you are approaching her then next her ass as she is playing games. The moment you approach women before saying anything, a lot of them know you want to fuck.
I dont understand why you dont have more likes. That was the realist comment that ive read right now. And I can agree from all angles, you sound like me.
compliment during a first interaction is definitely a no no. Learned that the hard way today fr. Bitch ego boosted so high thru me way off! like she already had me. And she lied about having a bf/gf ? lol Only compliment should be when you mode one talking bout smashing that ass! fr fr
@@jbway86 Thank you bro; I am just now reading your response. I turned my notifications off years ago, as I don't like getting those emails. Anyways bro, a lot of people don't like real shit. I will keep it a hunnid with anyone. If you used to watch pro wrestling, I am kind of like a Black CM Punk. I tend to say things, that might be a bit controversial or against the grain, but are true a lot of the times. Some people will fuck with me heavy, but some people will be really turned away by me. I used to be a fake person back in the day, but I have evolved a lot since those teenage years. I just don't agree with Locario assuming that every guy is a pussy, if they are not out there like chickens with their heads cut off approaching a bunch of women. That is good, when you are first getting used to approaching women, but after a while you don't have to approach as many women anymore. I think he even said that himself in some videos. I know Loc was probably trying to talk about guys who make excuses and have not really approached women that much period and are coming up with excuses all the time. See bro, I have approached thousands of women, and you will see a pattern EVERY TIME you go out no matter how good your game is. 1. Women who are receptive towards you. This is tricky, because some women just love attention, and they will be all up on you and excited, when you approach them, but the moment you try to set up a date or hookup, they have excuses, or they are not cooperating and are not trying to fllow up and follow through with you. This also happens with choosing signals. Some women just want the ego boost and validation. I would roll the dice and figure out which woman this is. I would not call/text more than once. You can usually tell, if these women are into you or not, AFTER you exchange numbers. If she is not trying to cooperate with what you want to do, then she is running that game. Some of these women will go out on dates with you and even make out with you, but will play games with actually having sex with you. Women who like you will have sex with you without going out on dates or on the first or maybe second date. 2. A lot of women are somewhat into you but not all the way sold. I hate these women, because a lot of the times they are too confused for their own good, and they more than likely will waste your time, no matter how great your seducing skills are. You can probably get some here or there, but many are just wasting time asking you questions and being a bit hesitant and indecisive about you. 3. A lot of women out here are just full of crap bro no matter how good your game is. They will either be cold and or ignore you and just reject you, or they will try to dick you around by acting all clueless to what is happening in the interaction. No matter how sharp your game is, you will always have these women to deal with, if you are approaching an abundance of women. I really don't see that many sexy or gorgeous women out there, and I live in a diverse area. I have been told I have high standards, but they are not that high honestly. I see a lot of funny looking bitches around here, who think they are the shit, so I don't bother approaching them anymore, since I don't need the practice. I usually approach these days, if I am trying a new technique, like if I am trying to see how receptive women are towards me, if I come at them wanting casual sex "hookup" and not a relationship. Gosh their reactions are priceless at times, nothing but guinea pigs for me.
Both your comment and reply is on point. Cold approaching taught me to be fearless and go for things I want. It did get to me though when women would be hesitant or change their minds right at the last minute. It is better when the woman has made up her mind and chose the guy at hello. You won’t have to worry about stupidity and childish games from her in the beginning at least.
Its like sales. You're going to get little to no sales if you wait. The top salespeople go AFTER IT, and probably get rejected the most. The more cold approaches the more sales.
Well both techniques have worked for me..”cold approaching”and “waiting for choosing signals”..you’re supposed to go after what you want but on the other hand the “we are the prize”feeling kicks in at times,so for me,the jury is still out on which one works the best.
Locario I'm glad that you made and spoke about this. In my experience not even the average women choose, 90% of them at least wait. When they do choose it's indirect and they don't make it a habit. This is my sticking point, I am playing their role.
Guys should work on themselves first then start approaching in a context that favors them. It's not the act of approaching that will get you pussy, it's your value.
@@omarlerouge5420 I disagree. Sometimes all it takes is the balls to appeal a woman vs having to show value (a subjective concept) to a woman. Plus I run direct game, so I'm not getting into in depth conversations when I first meet women.
I’ll admit, some times I am scared to approach and shoot my shot. Other times I don’t even be on the mindset of approaching women. My mind is on things completely different . Like I have to see an attractive woman walk past me to even realize I’m around women. You’re right though. If you wanna make things happen, you gotta act
If cold approaching is beta? Then wtf is not approaching at all ?? Lmao if you don’t approach no matter how many signals you get you wont fuck!! I swear. There has been girls that liked me and I had no clue until we talked, so every woman who is interested will not show it
This is true I’ve recently started cold approaching and stopped giving power to the rejection and it’s sped shit up A LOT. Choosing signals is a waste of time. No matter how good looking u r she might even like u by the top intimidates to talk to you. So WE HAVE YO APPROACH.
The context in which you cold approach is key. Cold approaching a woman who's at a mansion party that you organised is different from cold approaching a woman at the local super market. Cold approaching a woman at your VIP table is different than cold approaching a woman when you're at the bar ordering a drink. Status can significantly influence your overall results
If a chick knows she's at your VIP table or at your mansion party... If she knows who you are and that's not cold approaching.. It's not cold to her bc she "knows" you
Kyser Saucé 😂 bruh these niggas man. Leave em be they just don’t get it. That type of thinking is the reason they don’t have an abundance of women or if they do they’re working games & finessing their cash from them.
Lol why do you have to cold approach a girl that you brought a table for or invited her to mansion party ? The fact that you think you spend so much dollars to get girls itself makes you low status.
I'm a busy guy I work alot so I don't have alot of down time. But this video is straight facts. I swear ain't nothing but 5-7s online then they funny acting or some timey. But this is law
You can still approach during your daily commute. I remember working in a different state, and I would approach women at the subway and on my lunch break. You have to be a bit more aggressive with it.
If the majority of men stop approaching women it forces society to change. Over time women will have to change their dating philosophy. One generations sacrifice for the future.
Bruh Stoopppp. THey ain't gonna change nothing. Those women are gonna keep fucking and the guys like you that aren't approaching women will be on the side lines.
I agree with you bro. These other guys on UA-cam be saying don’t cold approach girls in public.” You should wait for choosing signals. But I disagree with that stuff I’m better with talking to girls in public because I get to show my personality better in public
If you're scared to cold approach women, it's usually because you're scared to talk to people period. I used to be scared too, but I've realized as a man, you HAVE TO approach people to get things done and get what you want out of this world. This isn't an option. Once you do, you'll be amazed what you can accomplish. Approaching women is the EASY part, believe me
zero He discuss that all the time 😂 he got one called “ 10 things women did that disrespected me “ in that video he talks about women flaking on him, acting like rude bitches when he try to holler, etc.
Most helpful video I've looked at so far. I identify heavily with being one of those guys that wait for choosing signals. I'm not even gonna front. I'm about to get outta that beta shit asap. Thanks for that motivation Locario. 💯
I think I have a problem, when girl give me signals I got it so hard to approach her.. all the time I do approach the one don't give me an signal.. why is like this?
@@jbway86 Same here, I had a woman who used to sit on my lap at work, I never even asked her to goto lunch. This was many years ago but I guess I'm not the only one blind to IOIs. I figured if she really liked me she would have asked me out.
It's okay, we all are. They are confusing creatures, and unpredictability is scary. I've heard women say they wouldn't be approaching themselves either.
I've been going hard on the online dating for several weweeks across 3 different apps hinge tinder and bumblebee and have had zero success this year not even a date just a bunch of either match then no responders or chicks that set dates and flake. Point blank I'm done wasting time wa with that shit. I wanna start cold approaching I feel like girls who have already met you in person will be less inclined to flake but it's hard to get the motivation. I thought not getting laid for so long would motivate me to cold approach but even that doesn't work.
Even for guys that approach a lot have to get motivated to approach. The first approach is always the hardest. Once you get past that, even if you're rejected you'll not be phased. So go after that first approach. Any female will do just get past your first approach. Than you're good to go....
@@kingb7038 I'm an in shape, good looking, handsome dude with nice 360 waves (im black not sure if your familiar with waves) it's not my looks though I understand not every girl will find me attractive
Mr Locario is absolutely right, cold approach has to be done because if it doesn't then the women that you want will be taken off the market in a heartbeat. Many gorgeous women have boyfriends, are engaged and have husbands because those men made their move straight away with those women. Do not be slow gentlemen and do not get left behind because the women you want will not come knocking at your door.
Mr Locarii, i think you dont play the game at a high level. You say, "usually, girls that five chosing signal are nit the hottest, or usually are easy to get girls" right? I am ok with that. But the same thing happen in the girls mind, they know men whi cold approach are the low value men and hight value men are automatically cookie. Girl hate cookie men because she start feelinf you, she can control you, she kind like starting liking you because she find something mysterious about you. But at the other side, we kniw she wilk never approach but at least she can make a signal. So, the way men should aporoach girk shouk be very careful, not a standart simp compliment aporoach, but a real valuable approach introducing you as a different man, not just your name. Usually, you have to make a litle bit of talk to the girl to make here feel you, if you cold approach. If you just come like a simp, like "you are beautiful, let have a diner sometimes", unless this girl dont slef estime herself, she will not give you here number. But If she is a lonely mother, i low value girl, a partying hoe, then you have chances.
When 6's and 7's approach men, they still want men to close the deal 9/10 out of ten. It is very rare that any women regardless of her looks will close the deal with you. Women usually don't like to give men compliments to swell their egos up.
Look lads its 2019. if i was M.Locario i would quit repeating myself over and over for guys who will never get it (guys who keep thinking its all about looks, money & status). M.Locario should start focusing on Advanced level game videos and leave the LMS guys behind. -Shoutout from South Africa. thank you.
Nobody said that Looks Money Status is the only thing. What we are saying is that Looks Money Status will significantly improve your overall results with women. Sure you can play in the NBA if your shorter than 6ft, but guess what - being tall will significantly increase your chances of succeeding in the NBA. Those are just facts. Lying to men, saying that LMS won't help them is borderline fraudulent. Rather let the truth to be known. Shoutout from Namibia. thank you
Simply Balling significantly? Bruh tell that to Anthony Bennett...& all the other failed NBA players despite being “tall.” Your comparison is wrong. Your ignoring the only thing that can level the playing field. It’s called “game!” LMS only gives you & advantage just like being tall in the NBA will but only your “skill” & in terms of dating “game” will determine your success. You lms guys are equating groupies & gold diggers to real women & they aren’t the same! How many celebrity stories of niggas getting extorted will it take for y’all niggas to realize you need game! James Harden has money & status & he paid a hoe $10,000 just to hang out! And he didn’t even fuck!
that's a big problem which isn't addressed here at all. some places women are getting quite militant about this. They see "...cold approaching." as harassment! WTF is a guy to do??
Mr Locario is the truth i was so confused about other coach’s saying it makes men beta to approach women I was thinking so should I just sit and do nothing lol but now I know and you can approach without giving validation as well great video
How do you studs pull in the clubs? I’m going fairly regularly and the noise is absolutely deafening always, there is no way I can make any sort of approach that is heard let alone understood. F*ck, I even got approached this Saturday, but between the noise and her accent I had no idea what she was saying and just couldn’t get any vibe going and we both got annoyed with the situation and so I just left it. I’ve even tried grinding with them on the dance floor and then security comes and eyeballs me for getting too touchy and warn me to keep my distance or I’m getting thrown out.
You're right. If you want blue balls from grinding all night then clubbing is good. If you want to get laid, then approach during the day. No competition, no loud music, no bitch shields and no loud music,
I'm glad you made this video for these goofy-ass dudes because I heard a UA-camr said that cold-approaching is "Beta." I had to unsubscribe from that bullshit.
I bought your book:” how to have sex with two women a day “. I finished it and I feel like you may have slightly change your mind on certain topics over time based on what I’m seeing in your videos...Do you think you should make a video about that ?
Mr.locario you ever heard of a guy named heedandsucceed? Go check out his recent video asking a dating coach why it's so hard getting with women, it's hilarious! Also he made a video like 10 months ago saying your girl dissed him lol.
I remember when I worked in sales. My coworkers would send out letters to customers with the anticipation that the prospect will respond to the letter by calling them. No one would call. I wouldn't mail letters instead I picked up the phone and cold called. Guess who sold the most floor mats? Yes, me.
I was a beast this past weekend. Approached like 20 girls. Ended up in a hotel with some random bitch after clubbing, a girl admitting she was feeling me but her boyfriend was at the club in front of us, some chick asking me if I was good at sex off the rip. A girl telling me we could be friends just for sex. Some chick 9 years older than me telling me age is just a number lol.
I really couldn't believe all this shit was happening. I had a bunch of rejections in there too. Some were mad intimidated. It's amazing how the game works in your favor when you just dont give a fuck lol.
I bet when folks look at you, they’re like “that dude always got chics.”
None of them know the work you put in or all the rejections.
I can relate.
Facts bro. When i stopped giving a fuck i started pulling chicks i thought were way out of my league 😂
You have to approach women period!!! It's very rare a smoking hot woman will approach you to holler at you. So that is why its a number game you have to talk to a lot of women and many will reject you but many will give you their time.
This is something I began to realize this year. I have to cold approach. My social circles has no women I can get with. Online dating I ve gotten average to above average women at best but I notice I get better reactions from hot women when I meet them on a night out. I'm going to work on cold approaching this year
It is not just the night out; I have met most women during the day time, some I picked them up from their jobs. :D
It makes a whole lot of sense. I’ve been using this ‘waiting for choosing signals’ approach as a cop out for years because most of times even when I get a choosing signal I don’t approach. You’ve made me realize that it’s my ego that’s prevents me from cold approaching women because I care too much about how the women will respond. It’s time for me to man up and go for what I want
I truly don't mind getting rejected. My problem is i just don't know what to say with confidence when cold approaching
I have a blueprint written down of what to do in my phone😂☝it helps. My problem is just goin over to the girl but once i go over to her and talk its easy. The last approach i did last week was cool. I was actually comfortable
Use subjects in the moment, like if a chick is talking to her friend. Go up to them and introduce yourself then ask them what they were talking about. Literally anything can be a "icebreaker".
@@TreyGoose would be dope if you could share your blueprint with us
@@aight365 "Excuse me. Hi what's your name?Kelly? Nice to meet u. My name is (blank) Look Kelly I know you're busy but I want to get to know a little bit better, I'm interested in u, ur kinda cute. Let's exchange numbers and we should get together sometime this week"😂i got it from Mr. Locario and Steve☝☝u gotta get straight to the point
@@reggielee2523 i like that one bro☝☝☝that was tight. Simple but effective. Imma use that shit😂talkin to 2 girls at once is the shit
I have serious anxiety when it comes to women, it's not a fear of a woman. If a woman started talking to me, I'm good with conversations, but having to approach I completely freak out.
Mr. Locario I get what you mean by cold approaching. I have approached a lot more women this way than the average guy. Most of the women I have had have been through cold approaching. Some guys are not afraid to cold approach. They are just sick and tired of the bullshit that can come along with it. I suggest guys to just introduce themselves and try to close the deal on the spot most times. I don't like giving chicks compliments, when I first meet them, as many women are used to them and they are cheesy as hell and sound like you might have rehearsed them and shit, or they are arrogant and don't even acknowledge them. I like to save my compliments in the bedroom or on a date.
A lot of guys spoil women with the compliments at first or they think too much what perfect compliment to say. Women know you are trying to fuck just say for instance ,"Hey I'm Peter we should meet up sometime what is your name?" That is all you have to do and close that shit. Some guys are not pussys. Some guys get exhausted from the games and might need to recharge their batteries. Some guys might not even be in the mood. I have approached women, when I was not in the mood to, and my game was not as sharp, simply because I was depressed or angry. I might not have shown it, but that energy is communicated subconsciously. Many guys just don't know what to say. Just keep the shit simple and introduce yourself and close the deal. If the bitch is fronting and pretending that she does not know why you are approaching her then next her ass as she is playing games. The moment you approach women before saying anything, a lot of them know you want to fuck.
I dont understand why you dont have more likes. That was the realist comment that ive read right now. And I can agree from all angles, you sound like me.
compliment during a first interaction is definitely a no no. Learned that the hard way today fr. Bitch ego boosted so high thru me way off! like she already had me. And she lied about having a bf/gf ? lol Only compliment should be when you mode one talking bout smashing that ass! fr fr
@@jbway86 Thank you bro; I am just now reading your response. I turned my notifications off years ago, as I don't like getting those emails.
Anyways bro, a lot of people don't like real shit. I will keep it a hunnid with anyone. If you used to watch pro wrestling, I am kind of like a Black CM Punk. I tend to say things, that might be a bit controversial or against the grain, but are true a lot of the times. Some people will fuck with me heavy, but some people will be really turned away by me. I used to be a fake person back in the day, but I have evolved a lot since those teenage years.
I just don't agree with Locario assuming that every guy is a pussy, if they are not out there like chickens with their heads cut off approaching a bunch of women. That is good, when you are first getting used to approaching women, but after a while you don't have to approach as many women anymore. I think he even said that himself in some videos. I know Loc was probably trying to talk about guys who make excuses and have not really approached women that much period and are coming up with excuses all the time. See bro, I have approached thousands of women, and you will see a pattern EVERY TIME you go out no matter how good your game is.
1. Women who are receptive towards you. This is tricky, because some women just love attention, and they will be all up on you and excited, when you approach them, but the moment you try to set up a date or hookup, they have excuses, or they are not cooperating and are not trying to fllow up and follow through with you. This also happens with choosing signals. Some women just want the ego boost and validation. I would roll the dice and figure out which woman this is. I would not call/text more than once. You can usually tell, if these women are into you or not, AFTER you exchange numbers. If she is not trying to cooperate with what you want to do, then she is running that game. Some of these women will go out on dates with you and even make out with you, but will play games with actually having sex with you. Women who like you will have sex with you without going out on dates or on the first or maybe second date.
2. A lot of women are somewhat into you but not all the way sold. I hate these women, because a lot of the times they are too confused for their own good, and they more than likely will waste your time, no matter how great your seducing skills are. You can probably get some here or there, but many are just wasting time asking you questions and being a bit hesitant and indecisive about you.
3. A lot of women out here are just full of crap bro no matter how good your game is. They will either be cold and or ignore you and just reject you, or they will try to dick you around by acting all clueless to what is happening in the interaction. No matter how sharp your game is, you will always have these women to deal with, if you are approaching an abundance of women.
I really don't see that many sexy or gorgeous women out there, and I live in a diverse area. I have been told I have high standards, but they are not that high honestly. I see a lot of funny looking bitches around here, who think they are the shit, so I don't bother approaching them anymore, since I don't need the practice. I usually approach these days, if I am trying a new technique, like if I am trying to see how receptive women are towards me, if I come at them wanting casual sex "hookup" and not a relationship. Gosh their reactions are priceless at times, nothing but guinea pigs for me.
Both your comment and reply is on point. Cold approaching taught me to be fearless and go for things I want. It did get to me though when women would be hesitant or change their minds right at the last minute. It is better when the woman has made up her mind and chose the guy at hello. You won’t have to worry about stupidity and childish games from her in the beginning at least.
Its like sales. You're going to get little to no sales if you wait. The top salespeople go AFTER IT, and probably get rejected the most. The more cold approaches the more sales.
Well both techniques have worked for me..”cold approaching”and “waiting for choosing signals”..you’re supposed to go after what you want but on the other hand the “we are the prize”feeling kicks in at times,so for me,the jury is still out on which one works the best.
Locario I'm glad that you made and spoke about this. In my experience not even the average women choose, 90% of them at least wait. When they do choose it's indirect and they don't make it a habit. This is my sticking point, I am playing their role.
Guys should work on themselves first then start approaching in a context that favors them. It's not the act of approaching that will get you pussy, it's your value.
@@omarlerouge5420 I disagree. Sometimes all it takes is the balls to appeal a woman vs having to show value (a subjective concept) to a woman. Plus I run direct game, so I'm not getting into in depth conversations when I first meet women.
I’ll admit, some times I am scared to approach and shoot my shot. Other times I don’t even be on the mindset of approaching women. My mind is on things completely different . Like I have to see an attractive woman walk past me to even realize I’m around women. You’re right though. If you wanna make things happen, you gotta act
If cold approaching is beta? Then wtf is not approaching at all ?? Lmao if you don’t approach no matter how many signals you get you wont fuck!! I swear. There has been girls that liked me and I had no clue until we talked, so every woman who is interested will not show it
This is true I’ve recently started cold approaching and stopped giving power to the rejection and it’s sped shit up A LOT. Choosing signals is a waste of time. No matter how good looking u r she might even like u by the top intimidates to talk to you. So WE HAVE YO APPROACH.
The context in which you cold approach is key. Cold approaching a woman who's at a mansion party that you organised is different from cold approaching a woman at the local super market. Cold approaching a woman at your VIP table is different than cold approaching a woman when you're at the bar ordering a drink. Status can significantly influence your overall results
REAL SHIT
If a chick knows she's at your VIP table or at your mansion party... If she knows who you are and that's not cold approaching.. It's not cold to her bc she "knows" you
Looks money status play a major role in everything when it comes to a woman
Kyser Saucé 😂 bruh these niggas man. Leave em be they just don’t get it. That type of thinking is the reason they don’t have an abundance of women or if they do they’re working games & finessing their cash from them.
Lol why do you have to cold approach a girl that you brought a table for or invited her to mansion party ? The fact that you think you spend so much dollars to get girls itself makes you low status.
I'm a busy guy I work alot so I don't have alot of down time. But this video is straight facts. I swear ain't nothing but 5-7s online then they funny acting or some timey. But this is law
Facts. You get more cooperation when you interact with them in person than online
You can still approach during your daily commute. I remember working in a different state, and I would approach women at the subway and on my lunch break. You have to be a bit more aggressive with it.
I agree and alot of that is on me. Cause I let my job keep me from talking to women in person this one hit me personally
Locario on point with this one. Cold Approach is beta if u a beta. Cold Approach is Alpha if u are an Alpha. Point blank period.
I like this guy.
I get insulted when 6’s and ⬇️ give me choosing signals at bars and clubs 😆
Fr lol
same
If the majority of men stop approaching women it forces society to change. Over time women will have to change their dating philosophy. One generations sacrifice for the future.
Bruh Stoopppp. THey ain't gonna change nothing. Those women are gonna keep fucking and the guys like you that aren't approaching women will be on the side lines.
I agree with you bro.
These other guys on UA-cam be saying don’t cold approach girls in public.” You should wait for choosing signals. But I disagree with that stuff
I’m better with talking to girls in public because I get to show my personality better in public
If you're scared to cold approach women, it's usually because you're scared to talk to people period. I used to be scared too, but I've realized as a man, you HAVE TO approach people to get things done and get what you want out of this world. This isn't an option. Once you do, you'll be amazed what you can accomplish. Approaching women is the EASY part, believe me
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approaching and getting a number is not difficult that's true. getting the bimbos to actually meet up and not flake? that's the hard part....
I think with many guys even if they approach women, they don't get chosen within that interaction as you say could possibly happen
@Aces lately I've been approaching more women than I usually do (usually I don't approach at all) and it hasn't been working
@Aces hmm. Thanks. You keep going too.
Cold Approaching is ALPHA not beta.
99.99% of women I pulled was thru cold approach.
You do it right by pulling them first because she would have pulled you af the first time another beta man cold approch here just after you do.
Bro is speaking facts 🔥🔥🔥
Should make a video of times you failed with females, whether it was on dates or approaching
zero good idea
zero He discuss that all the time 😂 he got one called “ 10 things women did that disrespected me “ in that video he talks about women flaking on him, acting like rude bitches when he try to holler, etc.
Most helpful video I've looked at so far. I identify heavily with being one of those guys that wait for choosing signals. I'm not even gonna front. I'm about to get outta that beta shit asap. Thanks for that motivation Locario. 💯
I wish I could like this video twice!
dawg random question but are you Trendz from I Love New York?
@@mrlocario Were you ever attracted to New York?
I always wanted to know that too. Cause I looked back I was like oh shit.😂😂😂
Locario Fan oh shit how evil was sister patterson in real life
choosing signals helps but become the chooser not the chosen. The girl is gaming you online cold approach is the best. Relying on IOI's is stupid!
I needed to this ..Good one💯
I think I have a problem, when girl give me signals I got it so hard to approach her.. all the time I do approach the one don't give me an signal.. why is like this?
I agree. I also feel incompetent to approach when a woman clearly give me signs than a woman that doesn't. Wierd situation.
@@jbway86 Same here, I had a woman who used to sit on my lap at work, I never even asked her to goto lunch. This was many years ago but I guess I'm not the only one blind to IOIs. I figured if she really liked me she would have asked me out.
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You have some good points on this subject
I'm scared to talk women period
It's okay, we all are. They are confusing creatures, and unpredictability is scary. I've heard women say they wouldn't be approaching themselves either.
Great video. I don't know..maybe it's just me but it seems like the girl in the video didn't really feel like taking that picture with you.
I needed this cause for a while now I’ve been struggling to figure out for a that “thing” to level up my game for badder broads.
I've been going hard on the online dating for several weweeks across 3 different apps hinge tinder and bumblebee and have had zero success this year not even a date just a bunch of either match then no responders or chicks that set dates and flake.
Point blank I'm done wasting time wa with that shit. I wanna start cold approaching I feel like girls who have already met you in person will be less inclined to flake but it's hard to get the motivation. I thought not getting laid for so long would motivate me to cold approach but even that doesn't work.
It must be your looks bro what do you look like ? Hit the gym keep your teeth white 🦷 dress nice get a stylish haircut 💇♂️
Even for guys that approach a lot have to get motivated to approach. The first approach is always the hardest. Once you get past that, even if you're rejected you'll not be phased. So go after that first approach. Any female will do just get past your first approach. Than you're good to go....
@@kingb7038 I'm an in shape, good looking, handsome dude with nice 360 waves (im black not sure if your familiar with waves) it's not my looks though I understand not every girl will find me attractive
I had the same problem.. before you go out or while you on your way to approach lissen to UA-cam approach audios inspiration then take action.
Mr Locario is absolutely right, cold approach has to be done because if it doesn't then the women that you want will be taken off the market in a heartbeat. Many gorgeous women have boyfriends, are engaged and have husbands because those men made their move straight away with those women. Do not be slow gentlemen and do not get left behind because the women you want will not come knocking at your door.
Don't worry. You don't need to secure any girl. Every year there is a fresh batch of girls turning 18+.
Think of all the times that you saw a hot girl but didn’t say anything, or someone you thought was kinda cute, you think they don’t do the same thing?
Mr Locarii, i think you dont play the game at a high level. You say, "usually, girls that five chosing signal are nit the hottest, or usually are easy to get girls" right? I am ok with that. But the same thing happen in the girls mind, they know men whi cold approach are the low value men and hight value men are automatically cookie. Girl hate cookie men because she start feelinf you, she can control you, she kind like starting liking you because she find something mysterious about you. But at the other side, we kniw she wilk never approach but at least she can make a signal. So, the way men should aporoach girk shouk be very careful, not a standart simp compliment aporoach, but a real valuable approach introducing you as a different man, not just your name.
Usually, you have to make a litle bit of talk to the girl to make here feel you, if you cold approach.
If you just come like a simp, like "you are beautiful, let have a diner sometimes", unless this girl dont slef estime herself, she will not give you here number. But If she is a lonely mother, i low value girl, a partying hoe, then you have chances.
Locario u are right. Usually 9 or 10 s won't cold approach a man 6 or 7 s will probably cold approach more often
When 6's and 7's approach men, they still want men to close the deal 9/10 out of ten. It is very rare that any women regardless of her looks will close the deal with you. Women usually don't like to give men compliments to swell their egos up.
@@supersaturn956 yeah your right. Woman usually now a days don't compliment men on any aspect now a days
Nice content 💯💯💯
Cold approach is too much energy for low return, r that.
Look lads its 2019. if i was M.Locario i would quit repeating myself over and over for guys who will never get it (guys who keep thinking its all about looks, money & status). M.Locario should start focusing on Advanced level game videos and leave the LMS guys behind. -Shoutout from South Africa. thank you.
Nobody said that Looks Money Status is the only thing. What we are saying is that Looks Money Status will significantly improve your overall results with women. Sure you can play in the NBA if your shorter than 6ft, but guess what - being tall will significantly increase your chances of succeeding in the NBA. Those are just facts. Lying to men, saying that LMS won't help them is borderline fraudulent. Rather let the truth to be known. Shoutout from Namibia. thank you
Simply Balling significantly? Bruh tell that to Anthony Bennett...& all the other failed NBA players despite being “tall.” Your comparison is wrong. Your ignoring the only thing that can level the playing field. It’s called “game!” LMS only gives you & advantage just like being tall in the NBA will but only your “skill” & in terms of dating “game” will determine your success. You lms guys are equating groupies & gold diggers to real women & they aren’t the same! How many celebrity stories of niggas getting extorted will it take for y’all niggas to realize you need game! James Harden has money & status & he paid a hoe $10,000 just to hang out! And he didn’t even fuck!
How can you cold approach with MeToo today. You are 20 years too late.
that's a big problem which isn't addressed here at all. some places women are getting quite militant about this. They see "...cold approaching." as harassment! WTF is a guy to do??
Be yourself....and live everyday like its your last!!!
And don't give women non sexual attention... thats how you get friend zoned...
"She doesnt even know I'm there but I roll up and say what's good" BAD BOY GAME. Enjoy your content locario
I never cold approach and my game is weak lol
i am not scared what so ever its just what to do after i get the number
Good shit bro. Most men i know who get choosing signals don't do shit, and women can't take it because of their ego.
Big L you've made hundreds of videos....but this is probably the realist and most helpful.
Mr Locario is the truth i was so confused about other coach’s saying it makes men beta to approach women I was thinking so should I just sit and do nothing lol but now I know and you can approach without giving validation as well great video
just become successful in life
We want to see some infield game where you show us .
No we don't. You do. What do you need to see another dude approaching women for? Go out and approach women and you can see yourself do it.
All that shit can be faked, as Mr L has mentioned already...
I got the best results with Women & business doing Cold Approaches!
The woman in the thumbnail with you is beautiful.
Cold approach only works if you're a jock???
Yea nerds will get killed cold approaching a thotty
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Also I heard the women decides wheter she will sleep within the first 15 seconds is ballshit
based.
If she don't like your sexual attention move on to the next one lads..
I think there's a difference between a woman seeing you and a woman "seeing" you that men aren't comprehending because we're so visual.
I prefer to cold approach in the summer time cause that's when ladies look sexier.
How do you studs pull in the clubs? I’m going fairly regularly and the noise is absolutely deafening always, there is no way I can make any sort of approach that is heard let alone understood. F*ck, I even got approached this Saturday, but between the noise and her accent I had no idea what she was saying and just couldn’t get any vibe going and we both got annoyed with the situation and so I just left it. I’ve even tried grinding with them on the dance floor and then security comes and eyeballs me for getting too touchy and warn me to keep my distance or I’m getting thrown out.
ask her to come outside to the foyer / hallway of the club where its usually quieter. Bars can be just as noisy IMO...OR...stop going to clubs!
You're right. If you want blue balls from grinding all night then clubbing is good. If you want to get laid, then approach during the day. No competition, no loud music, no bitch shields and no loud music,
Straight logics
Big up Locario..
Respect to King Nipsey Hussle
This is some good shit right here.
I'm glad you made this video for these goofy-ass dudes because I heard a UA-camr said that cold-approaching is "Beta." I had to unsubscribe from that bullshit.
I know who said that
@@rahzikashiharris9539 Ridiculous, right?
@@chizzycity5585 yup
Was is Stephon?
I cold approach woman whenever the opportunity presents itself
I bought your book:” how to have sex with two women a day “. I finished it and I feel like you may have slightly change your mind on certain topics over time based on what I’m seeing in your videos...Do you think you should make a video about that ?
Too many attitudes and bad personalities!
This is simple shit quit be a scary cat in do your thing.
Bere shit
Mr.locario you ever heard of a guy named heedandsucceed? Go check out his recent video asking a dating coach why it's so hard getting with women, it's hilarious! Also he made a video like 10 months ago saying your girl dissed him lol.
Theres no hope for that guy...he den been on calls with locario
Hes a lost cause
This advice did not age well with the
Me too movement on the rise