This is my life! I was married to an abusive husband for 32 years..but long enough to enjoy my five children. When the last one graduated..my husband divorced me and married and moved to another state and left me with the children and grandchildren. God also took care of me provisionally too. I was able to be myself and enjoy my family. God is helping me understand now..what happened! 😊❤
My mama left her marriage last year just days before their 32 years together. It was the best decision she could’ve ever made . All six children are so proud of her . ❤
Abigail’s story has always inspired me and shows that a wife is not to “be submissive” to a husband who is evil. A wife is meant to help her husband be a righteous man not lay down for his selfish behavior.
@@JesusChrististheonlyway777my friend, marriage is the representation of the Christ and the church. Just as Christ is the head and full authority of the body of Christ, which is the church, man is the authority of woman. This is not woman hating but the order of hierarchy in this present life of sin because of Eve’s actions. Women are weaker not only physically but spiritually, and the devil knows how to work in emotionally charged decision making. Consider the original text from Ephesians 5:33 “However, each one of you also must love his wife as he loves himself, and the wife must respect her husband” Must [see to it] that she respects φοβὴται (phobētai) 5399: to put to flight, to terrify, frighten from phobo Original Word: φόβος Part of Speech: Noun, Masculine Transliteration: phobos Pronunciation: FOH-bos Phonetic Spelling: (fob'-os) Definition: Fear, terror, reverence, respect Meaning: (a) fear, terror, alarm, (b) the object or cause of fear, (c) reverence, respect. Word Origin: Derived from the verb φοβέω (phobeo), meaning "to put to flight" or "to terrify." Corresponding Greek / Hebrew Entries: - H3374 (yirah): Fear, reverence, piety - H3373 (yare): Fearful, afraid, reverent Usage: In the New Testament, "phobos" primarily denotes a sense of fear or terror, often in response to the divine or supernatural. It can also imply reverence or awe, particularly in the context of the fear of the Lord, which is a profound respect and recognition of God's power and holiness. The term is used both in a negative sense, as in fear of danger or judgment, and in a positive sense, as in reverence for God. I would argue that modern translators got softer with women by using a word like respect, bc it diminishes a husband’s place in a wife’s life and how she views her husband. Abigail most certainly submitted to her husband, but she didn’t submit to sin because she walked by the Spirit, not according to her flesh. All men will sin as well, but women are to learn from the wise women of old like Sarah, who referred to her husband as master, just as Christ is our master. 1 Peter 3 Don’t harden your heart to these facts; just as children have a very special place in Jesus’ heart, they are still under the authority of their parents. Obeying is a command that must be fulfilled, and it comes with a promise! Whereas, the disobedient are likened to all sorts of other types of sin.
@@iamjustsaying4787 a lot of women end up with evil husbands because of their own decisions in this day and age. In the past, we had mostly arranged marriages. Now we have dating, where people try out their partners before marriage which is a whole separate issue. Point being, if a woman chooses a husband, once married, she is bound for life and must submit to her husband as we all submit unto Christ. This doesn’t mean sinning but anything he is asking that isn’t sinful should be submitted to in full authority. Husband is the head of wife, just as Christ is the head of the church. The body does not tell the mind what to do. The head controls the body. We are reminded that Sarah called her husband master. These other examples and the way submission is defined (as unto Christ), show us this is more that just a “helper.” We are either slaves to sin or slaves unto Christ.
Was married 20 years to a very abusive man, both physically and verbally. I know verbal abuse can come sometimes without the physical abuse. But physical abuse is always accompanied with verbal abuse. I finally got up the nerve one day to pack up the kids and leave before he got home from work. Scariest day of my life!!! During the next few years he stalked me, threatened, kicked down my door, and more, I finally got a restraining order and he moved out of state. About a month after that they found him on his couch dead from a heart attack. Although I know God was protecting me and the kids, there was no celebration, mentally it all really messed me up for awhile. I’ve since recovered, the nightmares are next to zero nowadays days, and my daughters are now happily married to fantastic men! I as well have since remarried to a man that never yells, cusses at me or raises his fists. A good man. Lord thank you for being there with me through it all, you never left me ❤
EFT techniques are free too learn and practice and most effective on trauma. Glad you for away or he was taken away L. I feel very sorry about these stories as real women truly suffer a lot with abuse. Men are rare in this world, selfish males abound!
I'm so sorry but so happy for you and your daughters, God bless you all. I am wondering what your take is on "you reap what you sow" how do you think your ex husband reaped when he passed away so soon? Your answer may help me wrap my mind around this concept.
@@Heidi914 my husband & 33 year old daughter rescued our oldest daughter from a abusive husband & father. He verbally abused & berated our beautiful daughter for over 12 years. He also physically abused the children when he "corrected" them for misbehavior, as he himself was abused by his Dad. But that's no excuse! Now almost 22 mos later our daughter & family are safe in their own apartment , b/c she has a job & also her kids are in a excellent school system that helps them. The good from this is I see my grandchildren every day, as they moved from NC to OH!
When my husband retired early b/c of a plant closing, he said: now I can do what I've always wanted to do & he has . He never asked me what I'd like to do. Yes he's home at night( but downstairs watching his screen), & pays the bills, but we have no relationship or connection. I feel broken b/c of his negligence. 😢 Thankful for my relationship with God that gives me hope.🌌🧔♂️
Perhaps he may feel shame at his new situation. Not being able to provide for you as the man /husband. Maybe he is testing you. If you will stay or leave. Go and tell him straight - try and push you away but you are not moving. Only cowards do that. So he needs to halt the self-pity/shame and live the next chapter of his life. If you both want that moving forward. I pray for your healing and future.
@@dome4ever Thankyou for your kind words whoever you are. I forgot to mention his retirement was 15 years ago, since he worked at GM we've had a decent- good income. I'm not listened to when I speak my feelings & mind. That seems selfish. 😔
@mariaalfonsi4746 Deeply saddened to hear of your situation. 15 years is sufficient time to recover and seek alternative opportunities. Yes, it appears selfish. Alas, a solution is for you to become more selfish rather than continue to be selfless or you will look back at your life in sadness. This does not mean self -centered but more self -caring. 1. New hobbies 2. More charity. Meeting others changes our perspective and priorities as we see their troubles as well. Also gives our life a Purpose. 3. New outward appearance - perhaps a hairstyle change or other alterations to remind yourself of the value of your Life. 4. Oneness with Nature - more interaction with Nature. Gardening or volunteering in community projects. This is a Healing process and brings into perspective the true meaning of Life and our Oneness with the Universe. 5. Keep a pet - I adopted 3 street dogs. My best friends. My children (I am single) and their unconditional love is priceless. I need nothing more than to wake at Sunrise with their thoughts in my mind. Their presence truly does Manifest positive energy; as does seeing my garden grow. 6. Penpals - letter writing is an Art. Blessed are those who practice, protect and thus, preserve this Art. There are many trusted Penpal sites to meet fellow kindred Souls and exchange letters/email correspondence on life. Sharing information, knowledge and wisdom and growing is akin to a new chapter in your life. Even joining an online group to chat on topics of shared interest yields similar results 7. If you do not work, seek part-time work. How glorious to awaken at each Sunrise and have activities to do. Your silent steps of progress may also awaken his energy too. Perhaps he has abandoned his path. Your journey must continue. Decision determines Destiny. All the best from the Pacific.
@mariaalfonsi4746 l feel so sad for you Maria😢 my dear friend lives like you do, but longer.. l 🙏🙏 fir you both, and ALL the people who suffer in this situation in life😢 l know it's Not Gods Will, but it doesn't lessen the pain that we feel... l send you my Love and Prayers❤🙏❤ from Australia 🇦🇺
I just got away from a 30 year marriage to a Jezebel spirit. He is a covert narcissist so everything is sneaky and quiet and behind closed doors while everyone else thinks that he’s a wonderful guy. But I am free and my PTSD is gone and I draw closer to God every single day. The best thing that ever happened to me in the marriage was my four children though. I would definitely like to get your book. I will look it up thank you.
@@robinmorrison-wm6sp You sound like me very much, are you interested in communication? I'd like to know how you are getting through it. Perhaps the abuse we endured are at different levels. Not sure
Yea but been 6 yrs since I got out of 24 yrs of physical , emotional, and financial abuse. He still hasn’t settled the community. Kept everything. Waiting patiently on God. Lord strengthen me cause I am battle weary. At least I escaped alive.
I'm paying for you Sister. Yes may the Lord strengthen you in your long battle. May He bring a breakthrough very soon so you will receive what you need and more.
It was 12 years for me. I was waiting for our children to graduate. Sadly, the Lord took him home. Now I am left cleaning up his mess & the damage he did to our children. God will RESTORE them. I am breaking all generational curses by the blood of Jesus. Never STOP PRAYING - it will restore you, and your loved ones. ❤
Help me God. Infidelity is also abuse and neglect. Praying for deliverance and salvation of my husband, restoration of my marriage, justice, and God’s will be done.
Learn the lesson of forgiveness, and get yourself right with God. This is a prerequisite for justice to come to these people. The Just Judge will deliver a sentence to him, but only when you are covered in the Blood so you are not a recipient of that judgement as well. I stopped calling him a narc and forgave and walked away to live free. I found God’s love & mercy for me, while his life is an amazing mess and his mental & physical health is crumbling around him. Make no mistake, God waits on you to get your heart right, then He deals with those demons and their host
I had to forgive first and then my life came together, I spent 10 years helping other victims/survivors and their children as a support worker. Nothing was wasted God brought good out of my suffering in the end.
I'm married to a man who is a womanizer. He treats other women so lovingly in front of me. He has belittled and humilated me many time in front of others. Emotionally abusive. God plesse give me justice. I have done nothing to deserve this evil.
I was in an emotionally and verbally abusive marriage for a decade. I did the stay and pray thing for that entire time and then God spoke to me and let me know that the marriage was not one that He put together. I got out. My ex came after me and my daughter with threats and the whole 9 yards. But God provided freedom for both me and my daughter, and I’ve watched Him judge my ex little by little. God is faithful. He has a way of moving His remnant to Goshen while judging Egypt. Though my divorce was painful, it was necessary. For anyone else still in their toxic marriage, I say our God is faithful and He never fails.
There's a third thing that could happen. God can take the abuser's hard heart and give the abuser a new heart. Making that person new. There's nothing God can't do.
Abusers don’t change only change victims! They rarely allow God to change them as they don’t acknowledge that they are abusive. Don’t hold your breath waiting on an abuser to change cause they might take out your breath!
@@riettevanrooyen yes give them a chance to admit they need help and to change. If they say yes then help them to forgive those who hurt them and get delivered from their demons. If they refuse to get help then God will confirm when it’s time to leave
@@riettevanrooyen very unlikely. Most abusers blame shift and never admit to wrongdoing!!! Don't count on that happening. It's a rarity and you don't want to give victims false hope
@@tailsthefox6568 exactly!!! People need to think realistically. All I've known growing up is toxic people. They don't change. Usually they have enablers too scared to hold them accountable. Abusers are very dangerous. The accountability for their behavior should've been enforced long before they ever got so toxic!!!!
Real change may happens in few but mostly they just pretend that they changed!! They just confuse their partner with love & hate😔Facing this issue in my life!!!
Thank you for sharing. Married in 2012 in 2014 a very violent relationship. He went to prison 2019 to 2023 for drug possession. I was stressed due to release and cried to God. God said, Mark 5 and the Samaritan woman saying, the water is deep. Where will I get that living water?" I only spoke to him on phone and once in a while saw him. Fast forward Aug 2024 shot 2x and died. Saw him day before and he was quiet and distant. A few days before he said, thank you for always being there. I said, thank you Jesus. He helps us to help others'. Psalm 150 Let everything that has breath Praise Him in His Sanctuary! Thank you Jesus
I was in an abusive relationship with a dude a lil older than me when I was 16. He was murdered, I helped him give his life to Christ before he died. The day before he died he was soooo convicted and fell to his knees and cried to me. Saying everything he did was wrong blah blah blah. That day I prompted him to give his life to Christ, the day after he died. I was still in a lot of pain because I had no closure. I had to pick up the pieces. But because he was so violent, with no remorse against a child of god at that, God took his life.
Saddened by your story. Perhaps he was an abuse victim as well. Knew no other life. Determined his worth by pretending to be rough and tough. Pray for his Soul, wherever it may be. That it is not trapped in rebirth or the Spiritual realm. Your prayers for his Soul will present you the closure you seek. Focus on your Soul too. Heal. Grow and glow. That chapter is the past. Future chapters await. Pray your path is blessed.
I lived with a verbal & mental & emotional abusive husband to me & our 2 children for 341/2 yrs. I finally told the Lord to do what he saw fit to do. He died of a heart attack a few months later. I couldn't believe it. It's been so pleasantly different.
I am living a similar story of Abigail in the Bible. He has a self-righteous spirit. He has the Jezebel and Leviticus spirit. I am awaiting for God to set me free from this man. Amen 🙏🏽🔥❤️🔥🙏🏽
My mother was the abusive person in my parents marriage she was controlling verbally and physically abusive my dad was a quiet family man and he suffered and died from a broken heart he was the provider the parent who taught us morals discipline and how to live good lives I always admire his patience and dedication to his family and family values
It happened to me and I said bye sorry. God doesn’t expect you to be a door mat or be treated like trash. No sir . I love the Lord and he loves me so I have to cherish and love myself for him. I am his child so wont allow it anymore regardless.
Thank you for this word. It gave me confirmation regarding my end of the abused battle. All Victory belongs to Jesus and we are victorious because of Him🎉
There is no rapture hun thats an overused term especially to cause confusion. Theres an ascension of the 144k but the remnant which is most of the believers will all go through tribulation Seek the Lord for answers 🩵 fast and pray
@@roar8693nah. 1 Thessalonians 4:15-18 NKJV "For this we say to you by the word of the Lord, that we who are alive and remain until the coming of the Lord will by no means precede those who are asleep. [16] For the Lord Himself will descend from heaven with a shout, with the voice of an archangel, and with the trumpet of God. And the dead in Christ will rise first. [17] Then we who are alive and remain shall be caught up together with them in the clouds to meet the Lord in the air. And thus we shall always be with the Lord. [18] Therefore comfort one another with these words." Revelation 3:10 NKJV "Because you have kept My command to persevere, I also will keep you from the hour of trial which shall come upon the whole world, to test those who dwell on the earth."
The problem is, we're abused by our spouse mentally verbally and then we retaliate it back-and-forth and back-and-forth. We need to repent confess our sins and pray for them. It's not one-sided. And we all have childhoods. The Lord's prayer.
I remember my late mum's suffering and I wonder whether recompense is always in this life time . When she died I grieved losing her and even more the suffering and torment she experienced in my dad's hands . . .
@@Blessed591 so very sad for you. This message on this is false. I love Norman but rarely is there justice. I sure the hell never received any growing up in abuse and cheated out of my inheritance. Hell no. Justice rarely comes for most. Instead we have to bare the scars for life most the time
@@eleeyagrace5364 2 Thessalonians 1:6 KJV - Seeing it is a righteous thing with God to recompense tribulation to them that trouble you; Romans 8:28 KJV - And we know that all things work together for good to them that love God, to them who are the called according to his purpose. There's so many scriptures that show that The Most High is an Elohim of Judgement and Justice. To say that nothing happens to these wicked people or their victims means you're calling The Most High a liar and if that's the case, your problems are much bigger than those who have wronged you because you have already become an enemy of your own soul. Your job is not to worry about when the wicked will be punished, but to make sure that you have forgiven them and not allowed your heart to turn wicked like theirs. Your job is to increase your faith so that you can believe in His word that shall never return void. Scripture talks so much about how the wicked get their just due. One of my favorites is Psalm 37. The Most High can return all that has been lost, but if you have no faith you will be counted amongst the wicked because without faith it is impossible to please Him.
It took a team of psychologists and part of the police department to get me to leave. I never would have found Christ if I hadn’t left before he killed me.
Yes, women can be abusively evil as well. I was in a marriage ( or thought I was) for three decades. She was a liar, a cheater, a thief, a manipulator, and a standout evil narcissistic psychopath. God freed me from this demon. I 100% truly believe he saved me. So when I see a sign that says “God Saves” I believe it.
What about justice for nasty narcissistic parent who tell you to take your life? I have had it with my.mother and my sister is casual messing with the occult and has very dark hateful personality. Please pray for their salvation and if things continue this way- a much needed move for me. Thank you and God bless you .
May the Lord cover and protect you 🙏 may you know your great worth and purpose and the great great Love He has for you. Lord please show this person what to do please guide their mind and steps and please help and heal them and their loved ones🙏❤️
My EX m-i-l (because of going No Contact not divorce) once said to me about 1989 “Why don’t you divorce her and find someone healthy to marry. Of course if I’m ever asked if I suggested it, I’ll deny I ever suggested it”. This coming from a pastor’s/missionary wife. Yes the family was playing both sides of the spiritual fence. My wife until she passed on to be with Christ was a committed Christian first and foremost and the family had made her their scapegoat. Yes it made our marriage hard, trying to untangle the who did what to whom & when and how often. Now I commit myself to remain single, never again to allow another woman or family into my life. I just commit to the general fellowship of Christ and help there.
But I'm happily married to my lord's kingdom & I lack nothing. Need to be kind to our spouse as well. Lord Jesus has given us the authority & we need not waste our time explaining to the demons in our life.
The minute they start abusing you they already abandoned the marriage! The Bible talks about husband and wife treating each other with respect. I don't get how people would want you to stay in abusive relationship that could kill you or cause you to unalive yourself? Also infidelity is also a grounds of divorce and you can forgive but it doesn't mean reconcile. It's more of love from the distance but don't get involved with them again. There are people who loses their lives from DV because the pastor and the congregation who were supposed to protect the abused instead told them to stay in the abusive marriage because God hates divorce. Well God doesn't want you to be in something that will cause you harm. You can't be a Christian and abuse your spouse or anyone!
For those women who have an abusive husband must divorce their husband. I did it once in my life that is the best decision i have ever made in my life. Because my ex was nassistic that really made me more aware of ppl personality after such first encounter. All nassesstic have common trait that is no love in their heart while they mimic other ppl emotion to pretend they actually love u but indeed they never know how to love u.
God cannot override an evil persons freewill to keep their demons. God allows the abused to get divorced because He definitely does not want you to serve the demons in your spouse because then you won’t serve Jesus as you make an idol of them. 1 Cor 7:15. When a spouse abuses you they have left the marriage and you need to get out.
God doesn't want us to be abused, and we are able to leave if needed. If someone leaves an abusive spouse, they are still married in God's eyes and can not remarry until that spouse passes away. So, in this story, King David would not have been able to marry Abigail if her husband were still alive.
@larmstrong2302 I agree and I hope I never get into this situation but if I do have a abusive spouse I would divorce but I would never get remarried until he dies.
I was married to a narcissist for 25 years God made a way out Unfortunately for him, he passed away in 2021 Waiting patiently for Cindi from the lies and abusive behavior Wait on God to get you free
Wow I was in a relationship with one for 6 months and wanted to end my life. I can only imagine what you were going through being married to one for that long!! Glad you got free sis!
Malachi 2:14 Because the Lord has been witness between you and the wife of your youth, with whom you have dealt treacherously. Renee us true justice O Lord as people we are told not to avenge ourselves according to Romsns 12:19 This is dishonoring his vows and God will convict those who have dhown no mercy, no forgiveness, no repentance. As well children young or old are being taught this by poor examples being set.Stumblung blocks need ro be removed in Yeshua name.
All these stories of how horrible someone else is but i have only saw one story in these comments where they actually interceded for their spouse. I dont think every relationship requires divorce. Some just require separation and the Holy Spirit to do the impossible. So many people will believe for the worst rather than having faith in God for the best.
Ive never really heard of many getting justice for all the abuse. What about kids that were abused by parents like me?? I sure never have had justice!!!! 😔 What about if your abusive parents cheated you out of your inheritance also?? Huh?? Ive never known justice!!!!
Unforgiveness, bitterness, resentment towards everyone that treated you unjustly will never hurt a single hair on any of their heads; but it can eat you alive like a corrosive acid from the inside out. It is also a legal document granting demonic entities to oppress, and torment you. I want to encourage you to seek out biblical wisdom in the are of forgiveness for your own freedom, and piece of mind. Blessings
@@michellejoy6752I had to learn about forgiveness and why it is so important but you don't have to have them in your life or reconcile but the Bible commands us to forgive and if you have to go no contact for that then that is fine because sometimes you have to love people from the distance.
My mum & kids was abused by narc dad our whole lives… SHE DIED & HE LIVED A LONG COMFORTABLE LIFE… us kids struggled… Arsehole abusers WIN IN THIS WORLD
Yes, he left 16 months ago with another women. Totally abandoned the kids. He was cheating the whole marriage, i only found out right before he left. The post separation abuse has been worse than during the relationship. God help me. It makes me ill how he treats the kids, it is evil and depraved. I pray the divorce happens, i cant do this forever, he isdragging it out to try and exhaust me. God is my strength. He is a covert narcicst and his new gf is a jezabel...evil combo they are.
I still haven’t gotten this so-called justice. Ex-wife was physically violent. She left me with bruises. Turns out she still won custody, gets child support, and 15 years later still tries to obstruct my children’s relationship with me. Sometimes we don’t get justice in THIS life.
@Wiolka-z1m so sorry this happened to you. This message is false. I agree there's rarely justice. Only unfairness and scars. You can't be given false hope!!!
2 Thessalonians 1:6 KJV - Seeing it is a righteous thing with God to recompense tribulation to them that trouble you; Romans 8:28 KJV - And we know that all things work together for good to them that love God, to them who are the called according to his purpose. There's so many scriptures that show that The Most High is an Elohim of Judgement and Justice. To say that nothing happens to these wicked people or their "victims" means you're calling The Most High a liar and if that's the case, your problems are much bigger than those who have wronged you because you have already become an enemy of your own soul. Your job is not to worry about when the wicked will be punished, but to make sure that you have forgiven them and not allowed your heart to turn wicked like theirs. Your job is to increase your faith so that you can believe in His word that shall never return void. Scripture talks so much about how the wicked get their just due. One of my favorites is Psalm 37. The Most High can return all that has been lost, but if you have no faith you will be counted amongst the wicked because without faith it is impossible to please Him.
With all this Daystar stuff, I’ve heard a number of preachers saying we need to stay in abusive marriages. One very well known person said totally downplayed emotional abuse and said if the guy had an excuse like he was drunk and ‘only’ physically assaulted you once you have no right to divorce. It took me years to leave my husband as I downplayed his abuse and anger. He never punched me but would run up at me in a rage and he is 200kg and shove me flying. He had mental health problems so that was his excuse. Most my Christian friends said I had to stay and I took my covenant seriously. I had kept myself for marriage until 40. During COVID I was locked out of our state in Australia away from him and that was when I had a Chrustian friend asked me what I thought Jesus felt when He saw me being treated like this. Plus I just took on a foster child me no way would I even subject her to his anger, so praise God I left. But all this narrative at the moment from Daystar is very triggering,
I have an adult child that fights me and refuses to leave. She also refuses to clean up and provide some funds to help with replenishing the home with hygiene items whether household or personal. She refuses to clean if she eats the food and if I try to teach her things that will benefits her in her adult life she gets loud and wants to fight. She also tells me to shut dafuq up too!
Evict her.. I’m dealing with the same exact thing except from my son’s father. It’s draining and disgusting to have to deal with such energy everyday & it won’t stop until you remove them from the situation. God willing
When my "husband" was yelling at me, I would look down at my feet, say nothing, pray for wisdom before I spoke. One day when he was very angry, I prayed something such as, God please intervene to stop this, but I said nothing to him. That day he went to the emergency room with dangerous cardiac issues. The doctor warned him to not yell or be angry or he would die. He stopped all yelling at me. He could not walk across the road, because of heart damage. At surgery twice to stop his heart and reset the rhythm. I wanted to repent of this marriage to a divorced gentleman. He was so hurt. The lesson is God says, Whosoever divorces his wife, and marries another commits adultery, and who marries her that is divorced commits adultery. If you marry a divorced person, repent, leave, follow God, or you will be chastened if you married a divorced person. Abigail did not divorce Nabal. God took him out.
"Congestive Heart Failure" God tells the church, Let not the husband divorce his wife. Let not the wife depart (permanently) from her husband, but if already departed, then remain alone or be reconciled. Trust God like Abigail did.
I am afraid that many cases is just God ordaining one persons sin to be the punishment for another persons sin. I used to think “O you poor thing” but now I’m mature enough to demand both sides of the story before making a judgement.
Let a real living relationship with the Lord...not petrified religious principles guide you in this. Sometimes it is right to stay. Sometimes it is best for you and your kids (remember what this can do to kids)to leave.
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In typical Charismatic fashion, paraphrasing instead of actually reading from the Scriptures. Then misinterpreting the entire context of the passage cited, and twisting the story to imply it says something it doesn't in the Bible. Then after mishandling God's Word, taking it as an opportunity to plug his book. This is not sound exegesis.
Psychologically i can forgive and move on to whats done to me but i struggle severely with what's been done to my children 😭 because the repercussion of the abuse has had devastating impact on my children and yes myself as well. I want justice for my children, to this day he lives a carefree enjoyable life while my children and I suffer
You need to check yourself if you have not forgive him because that as well is not allowing justice to come for you and your children. God can’t do anything if your heart is not right, it’s very hard to do but just forgive him and see how God fight for you and it might not happen so fast but definitely God will do it at that perfect time
He certainly does. I was married to a very religious, yet self absorbed emotional abuser for almost a decade. God ripped everything from him. His 4 kids & I were placed with a very loving man who took us all on. The ex refused to learn his lessons & found every way possible to continue his abuse towards us, while attending church every weekend. He finally dropped dead at the age of 54. He was living alone in a rent free expensive 3 bedroom home filled with items he bought, yet 30k behind in child support. Thankfully, this other loving man has now been in our lives for 24 years & he's nothing but love & respect.
Do you mean you cheated on your ex as you could not be just placed in someone's arms? or did you left the toxic marriage and then your new love found you. Don't lie to yourself if you cheated, you have to repent.
@sarajesusismyking He a removed by the police for abuse. I waited 3 years before bringing another man into my children's lives to make sure it was right for all of us
I pray for a good man for me and my 4 kids too. Someone who will love and father us. I will also love that person and God. I am in my 8yr of fiscally and emotionally abusive home. Though my husband is very rich, he makes sure I don't see a pesewa. He makes sure I run the home with my own money, feed him with my money , pay all bills with my money and children feeding, cloth etc. He doesn't contribute a dime. I am drained and strained in the marriage. I pray for God's redemption and grace. I pray God saves me from this situation and give me life again 🙏
The problem is, we're abused by our spouse mentally verbally and then we retaliate it back-and-forth and back-and-forth. We need to repent confess our sins and pray for them. It's not one-sided. And we all have childhoods. The Lord's prayer.
This is my life! I was married to an abusive husband for 32 years..but long enough to enjoy my five children. When the last one graduated..my husband divorced me and married and moved to another state and left me with the children and grandchildren. God also took care of me provisionally too. I was able to be myself and enjoy my family. God is helping me understand now..what happened! 😊❤
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My mama left her marriage last year just days before their 32 years together. It was the best decision she could’ve ever made . All six children are so proud of her . ❤
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Abigail’s story has always inspired me and shows that a wife is not to “be submissive” to a husband who is evil. A wife is meant to help her husband be a righteous man not lay down for his selfish behavior.
The word submission didn't mean to be a servant. helper also means rescuer. I heard the bible is also translated by women hating men.
@@JesusChrististheonlyway777my friend, marriage is the representation of the Christ and the church. Just as Christ is the head and full authority of the body of Christ, which is the church, man is the authority of woman. This is not woman hating but the order of hierarchy in this present life of sin because of Eve’s actions. Women are weaker not only physically but spiritually, and the devil knows how to work in emotionally charged decision making.
Consider the original text from Ephesians 5:33
“However, each one of you also must love his wife as he loves himself, and the wife must respect her husband”
Must [see to it] that she respects
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5399: to put to flight, to terrify, frighten from phobo
Original Word: φόβος Part of Speech: Noun, Masculine Transliteration: phobos Pronunciation: FOH-bos Phonetic Spelling: (fob'-os) Definition: Fear, terror, reverence, respect Meaning: (a) fear, terror, alarm, (b) the object or cause of fear, (c) reverence, respect.
Word Origin: Derived from the verb φοβέω (phobeo), meaning "to put to flight" or "to terrify."
Corresponding Greek / Hebrew Entries: - H3374 (yirah): Fear, reverence, piety
- H3373 (yare): Fearful, afraid, reverent
Usage: In the New Testament, "phobos" primarily denotes a sense of fear or terror, often in response to the divine or supernatural. It can also imply reverence or awe, particularly in the context of the fear of the Lord, which is a profound respect and recognition of God's power and holiness. The term is used both in a negative sense, as in fear of danger or judgment, and in a positive sense, as in reverence for God.
I would argue that modern translators got softer with women by using a word like respect, bc it diminishes a husband’s place in a wife’s life and how she views her husband.
Abigail most certainly submitted to her husband, but she didn’t submit to sin because she walked by the Spirit, not according to her flesh. All men will sin as well, but women are to learn from the wise women of old like Sarah, who referred to her husband as master, just as Christ is our master. 1 Peter 3
Don’t harden your heart to these facts; just as children have a very special place in Jesus’ heart, they are still under the authority of their parents. Obeying is a command that must be fulfilled, and it comes with a promise! Whereas, the disobedient are likened to all sorts of other types of sin.
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That's correct.
@@iamjustsaying4787 a lot of women end up with evil husbands because of their own decisions in this day and age. In the past, we had mostly arranged marriages. Now we have dating, where people try out their partners before marriage which is a whole separate issue.
Point being, if a woman chooses a husband, once married, she is bound for life and must submit to her husband as we all submit unto Christ. This doesn’t mean sinning but anything he is asking that isn’t sinful should be submitted to in full authority. Husband is the head of wife, just as Christ is the head of the church. The body does not tell the mind what to do. The head controls the body. We are reminded that Sarah called her husband master. These other examples and the way submission is defined (as unto Christ), show us this is more that just a “helper.” We are either slaves to sin or slaves unto Christ.
Was married 20 years to a very abusive man, both physically and verbally. I know verbal abuse can come sometimes without the physical abuse. But physical abuse is always accompanied with verbal abuse. I finally got up the nerve one day to pack up the kids and leave before he got home from work. Scariest day of my life!!! During the next few years he stalked me, threatened, kicked down my door, and more, I finally got a restraining order and he moved out of state. About a month after that they found him on his couch dead from a heart attack. Although I know God was protecting me and the kids, there was no celebration, mentally it all really messed me up for awhile. I’ve since recovered, the nightmares are next to zero nowadays days, and my daughters are now happily married to fantastic men! I as well have since remarried to a man that never yells, cusses at me or raises his fists. A good man. Lord thank you for being there with me through it all, you never left me ❤
EFT techniques are free too learn and practice and most effective on trauma. Glad you for away or he was taken away L. I feel very sorry about these stories as real women truly suffer a lot with abuse. Men are rare in this world, selfish males abound!
I'm so sorry but so happy for you and your daughters, God bless you all. I am wondering what your take is on "you reap what you sow" how do you think your ex husband reaped when he passed away so soon? Your answer may help me wrap my mind around this concept.
@@Heidi914 my husband & 33 year old daughter rescued our oldest daughter from a abusive husband & father. He verbally abused & berated our beautiful daughter for over 12 years. He also physically abused the children when he "corrected" them for misbehavior, as he himself was abused by his Dad. But that's no excuse! Now almost 22 mos later our daughter & family are safe in their own apartment , b/c she has a job & also her kids are in a excellent school system that helps them. The good from this is I see my grandchildren every day, as they moved from NC to OH!
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@@Heidi914 so proud of you. God is faithful
Abuse has so many definitions. It can be emotional, financial, and physical. Woman do it to a man as well.
When my husband retired early b/c of a plant closing, he said: now I can do what I've always wanted to do & he has . He never asked me what I'd like to do. Yes he's home at night( but downstairs watching his screen), & pays the bills, but we have no relationship or connection. I feel broken b/c of his negligence. 😢 Thankful for my relationship with God that gives me hope.🌌🧔♂️
Perhaps he may feel shame at his new situation. Not being able to provide for you as the man /husband.
Maybe he is testing you.
If you will stay or leave.
Go and tell him straight - try and push you away but you are not moving. Only cowards do that. So he needs to halt the self-pity/shame and live the next chapter of his life.
If you both want that moving forward.
I pray for your healing and future.
blessings and happiness for you Maria.
@@dome4ever Thankyou for your kind words whoever you are. I forgot to mention his retirement was 15 years ago, since he worked at GM we've had a decent- good income. I'm not listened to when I speak my feelings & mind. That seems selfish. 😔
@mariaalfonsi4746 Deeply saddened to hear of your situation. 15 years is sufficient time to recover and seek alternative opportunities.
Yes, it appears selfish.
Alas, a solution is for you to become more selfish rather than continue to be selfless or you will look back at your life in sadness. This does not mean self -centered but more self -caring.
1. New hobbies
2. More charity. Meeting others changes our perspective and priorities as we see their troubles as well. Also gives our life a Purpose.
3. New outward appearance - perhaps a hairstyle change or other alterations to remind yourself of the value of your Life.
4. Oneness with Nature - more interaction with Nature. Gardening or volunteering in community projects. This is a Healing process and brings into perspective the true meaning of Life and our Oneness with the Universe.
5. Keep a pet - I adopted 3 street dogs. My best friends. My children (I am single) and their unconditional love is priceless. I need nothing more than to wake at Sunrise with their thoughts in my mind. Their presence truly does Manifest positive energy; as does seeing my garden grow.
6. Penpals - letter writing is an Art. Blessed are those who practice, protect and thus, preserve this Art. There are many trusted Penpal sites to meet fellow kindred Souls and exchange letters/email correspondence on life. Sharing information, knowledge and wisdom and growing is akin to a new chapter in your life. Even joining an online group to chat on topics of shared interest yields similar results
7. If you do not work, seek part-time work. How glorious to awaken at each Sunrise and have activities to do.
Your silent steps of progress may also awaken his energy too. Perhaps he has abandoned his path.
Your journey must continue.
Decision determines Destiny.
All the best from the Pacific.
@mariaalfonsi4746 l feel so sad for you Maria😢 my dear friend lives like you do, but longer.. l 🙏🙏 fir you both, and ALL the people who suffer in this situation in life😢 l know it's Not Gods Will, but it doesn't lessen the pain that we feel... l send you my Love and Prayers❤🙏❤ from Australia 🇦🇺
I just got away from a 30 year marriage to a Jezebel spirit. He is a covert narcissist so everything is sneaky and quiet and behind closed doors while everyone else thinks that he’s a wonderful guy. But I am free and my PTSD is gone and I draw closer to God every single day. The best thing that ever happened to me in the marriage was my four children though. I would definitely like to get your book. I will look it up thank you.
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You sound like me very much, are you interested in communication? I'd like to know how you are getting through it. Perhaps the abuse we endured are at different levels. Not sure
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That’s how my mother was unto her late 50’s(huge platter of humble pie). It really sucked.
blessings, healing and happiness for you Robin.
I am going to be set free & it will work out for my good. Protect our hearts Lord
I am in this situation. Oh Lord provide justice so that I can serve you.
Praying for the wounded. Nothing is impossible with God!
Yea but been 6 yrs since I got out of 24 yrs of physical , emotional, and financial abuse. He still hasn’t settled the community. Kept everything. Waiting patiently on God. Lord strengthen me cause I am battle weary. At least I escaped alive.
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I'm paying for you Sister. Yes may the Lord strengthen you in your long battle. May He bring a breakthrough very soon so you will receive what you need and more.
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May this song minister to your soul.
It was 12 years for me. I was waiting for our children to graduate. Sadly, the Lord took him home. Now I am left cleaning up his mess & the damage he did to our children. God will RESTORE them. I am breaking all generational curses by the blood of Jesus. Never STOP PRAYING - it will restore you, and your loved ones. ❤
@@Julie-zi2lm AMEN
Help me God. Infidelity is also abuse and neglect. Praying for deliverance and salvation of my husband, restoration of my marriage, justice, and God’s will be done.
Learn the lesson of forgiveness, and get yourself right with God. This is a prerequisite for justice to come to these people. The Just Judge will deliver a sentence to him, but only when you are covered in the Blood so you are not a recipient of that judgement as well. I stopped calling him a narc and forgave and walked away to live free. I found God’s love & mercy for me, while his life is an amazing mess and his mental & physical health is crumbling around him. Make no mistake, God waits on you to get your heart right, then He deals with those demons and their host
This comment should be up there. Forgiveness is a prerequisite, then watch things turn around for you.
I had to forgive first and then my life came together, I spent 10 years helping other victims/survivors and their children as a support worker. Nothing was wasted God brought good out of my suffering in the end.
Thank you for reminding me.
Thank you so much, God. I was obedient and severed ties. I need a miracle God!!! You see the challenges I face. I trust you, Amen ❤❤❤
I'm married to a man who is a womanizer. He treats other women so lovingly in front of me. He has belittled and humilated me many time in front of others. Emotionally abusive. God plesse give me justice. I have done nothing to deserve this evil.
@marymatthews1843 that is a form of triangulation and also devaluing you. I know I lived it for many years.
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Do not squander your life.
Let him go and focus on your healing.
In God's Perfect Time, someone better will come before your path.
I dated someone that same way and would hold off on affection. He still send letters and we have a child together.
I was in an emotionally and verbally abusive marriage for a decade. I did the stay and pray thing for that entire time and then God spoke to me and let me know that the marriage was not one that He put together. I got out. My ex came after me and my daughter with threats and the whole 9 yards. But God provided freedom for both me and my daughter, and I’ve watched Him judge my ex little by little. God is faithful. He has a way of moving His remnant to Goshen while judging Egypt. Though my divorce was painful, it was necessary. For anyone else still in their toxic marriage, I say our God is faithful and He never fails.
blessings and happiness for you now.
There's a third thing that could happen. God can take the abuser's hard heart and give the abuser a new heart. Making that person new. There's nothing God can't do.
Abusers don’t change only change victims! They rarely allow God to change them as they don’t acknowledge that they are abusive. Don’t hold your breath waiting on an abuser to change cause they might take out your breath!
@@riettevanrooyen yes give them a chance to admit they need help and to change. If they say yes then help them to forgive those who hurt them and get delivered from their demons. If they refuse to get help then God will confirm when it’s time to leave
@@riettevanrooyen very unlikely. Most abusers blame shift and never admit to wrongdoing!!! Don't count on that happening. It's a rarity and you don't want to give victims false hope
@@tailsthefox6568 exactly!!! People need to think realistically. All I've known growing up is toxic people. They don't change. Usually they have enablers too scared to hold them accountable. Abusers are very dangerous. The accountability for their behavior should've been enforced long before they ever got so toxic!!!!
Real change may happens in few but mostly they just pretend that they changed!! They just confuse their partner with love & hate😔Facing this issue in my life!!!
Please lord be with me though this
Blessings and strength for you Nichole.
Thank you for sharing.
Married in 2012 in 2014 a very violent relationship.
He went to prison 2019 to 2023 for drug possession. I was stressed due to release and cried to God. God said, Mark 5 and the Samaritan woman saying, the water is deep. Where will I get that living water?" I only spoke to him on phone and once in a while saw him. Fast forward Aug 2024 shot 2x and died. Saw him day before and he was quiet and distant. A few days before he said, thank you for always being there. I said, thank you Jesus. He helps us to help others'.
Psalm 150 Let everything that has breath Praise Him in His Sanctuary! Thank you Jesus
“God gives justice to those married to abusive spouses”
I need more justice please.
I got away and stayed away!!! 💜💜💜
I was in an abusive relationship with a dude a lil older than me when I was 16. He was murdered, I helped him give his life to Christ before he died. The day before he died he was soooo convicted and fell to his knees and cried to me. Saying everything he did was wrong blah blah blah. That day I prompted him to give his life to Christ, the day after he died. I was still in a lot of pain because I had no closure. I had to pick up the pieces. But because he was so violent, with no remorse against a child of god at that, God took his life.
Saddened by your story.
Perhaps he was an abuse victim as well. Knew no other life. Determined his worth by pretending to be rough and tough.
Pray for his Soul, wherever it may be. That it is not trapped in rebirth or the Spiritual realm.
Your prayers for his Soul will present you the closure you seek.
Focus on your Soul too. Heal. Grow and glow.
That chapter is the past. Future chapters await. Pray your path is blessed.
I lived with a verbal & mental & emotional abusive husband to me & our 2 children for 341/2 yrs. I finally told the Lord to do what he saw fit to do. He died of a heart attack a few months later. I couldn't believe it. It's been so pleasantly different.
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I am living a similar story of Abigail in the Bible. He has a self-righteous spirit. He has the Jezebel and Leviticus spirit. I am awaiting for God to set me free from this man. Amen 🙏🏽🔥❤️🔥🙏🏽
Same here.
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May God give me justice and do my husband like he did nabal in Jesus name Amen 🙏
My mother was the abusive person in my parents marriage she was controlling verbally and physically abusive my dad was a quiet family man and he suffered and died from a broken heart he was the provider the parent who taught us morals discipline and how to live good lives I always admire his patience and dedication to his family and family values
Amen ❤ Hallelujah 🎉 Praise the Lord Almighty now and forevermore ✨
I love that Bible story! She actually married King David
It happened to me and I said bye sorry. God doesn’t expect you to be a door mat or be treated like trash. No sir . I love the Lord and he loves me so I have to cherish and love myself for him. I am his child so wont allow it anymore regardless.
Thank you for this word. It gave me confirmation regarding my end of the abused battle. All Victory belongs to Jesus and we are victorious because of Him🎉
My justice will be at the rapture. My Yah has provided and set me apart. Vengeance is mine saith the Lord 🙌 Yeshua is coming soon.
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There is no rapture hun thats an overused term especially to cause confusion. Theres an ascension of the 144k but the remnant which is most of the believers will all go through tribulation
Seek the Lord for answers 🩵 fast and pray
@@roar8693nah. 1 Thessalonians 4:15-18 NKJV
"For this we say to you by the word of the Lord, that we who are alive and remain until the coming of the Lord will by no means precede those who are asleep. [16] For the Lord Himself will descend from heaven with a shout, with the voice of an archangel, and with the trumpet of God. And the dead in Christ will rise first. [17] Then we who are alive and remain shall be caught up together with them in the clouds to meet the Lord in the air. And thus we shall always be with the Lord. [18] Therefore comfort one another with these words."
Revelation 3:10 NKJV
"Because you have kept My command to persevere, I also will keep you from the hour of trial which shall come upon the whole world, to test those who dwell on the earth."
God is a just God.shalom
Wow needed this today thanks
Praise God
Thanks for ministering
The problem is, we're abused by our spouse mentally verbally and then we retaliate it back-and-forth and back-and-forth. We need to repent confess our sins and pray for them. It's not one-sided. And we all have childhoods. The Lord's prayer.
Thank you so much for this. How encouraging! There's always hope for those that are abused!
Thank you Brother you hear only about staying praying and working it out not enough believers look at the nuance of these situations.
Leave if possible
I remember my late mum's suffering and I wonder whether recompense is always in this life time . When she died I grieved losing her and even more the suffering and torment she experienced in my dad's hands . . .
@@Blessed591 so very sad for you. This message on this is false. I love Norman but rarely is there justice. I sure the hell never received any growing up in abuse and cheated out of my inheritance. Hell no. Justice rarely comes for most. Instead we have to bare the scars for life most the time
@@eleeyagrace5364 2 Thessalonians 1:6 KJV - Seeing it is a righteous thing with God to recompense tribulation to them that trouble you;
Romans 8:28 KJV - And we know that all things work together for good to them that love God, to them who are the called according to his purpose.
There's so many scriptures that show that The Most High is an Elohim of Judgement and Justice. To say that nothing happens to these wicked people or their victims means you're calling The Most High a liar and if that's the case, your problems are much bigger than those who have wronged you because you have already become an enemy of your own soul. Your job is not to worry about when the wicked will be punished, but to make sure that you have forgiven them and not allowed your heart to turn wicked like theirs. Your job is to increase your faith so that you can believe in His word that shall never return void. Scripture talks so much about how the wicked get their just due. One of my favorites is Psalm 37. The Most High can return all that has been lost, but if you have no faith you will be counted amongst the wicked because without faith it is impossible to please Him.
Thank you for that, Thank you Lord Jesus
At last. male preacher bravely exposes a bully in marriage to a gentle and intelligent woman😊so proud of you!!!
This is my life, thank you Lord
It took a team of psychologists and part of the police department to get me to leave. I never would have found Christ if I hadn’t left before he killed me.
Good timing thank you for this message
Yes, women can be abusively evil as well. I was in a marriage ( or thought I was) for three decades. She was a liar, a cheater, a thief, a manipulator, and a standout evil narcissistic psychopath. God freed me from this demon. I 100% truly believe he saved me. So when I see a sign that says “God Saves” I believe it.
What about justice for nasty narcissistic parent who tell you to take your life? I have had it with my.mother and my sister is casual messing with the occult and has very dark hateful personality. Please pray for their salvation and if things continue this way- a much needed move for me. Thank you and God bless you .
Jeeeeez that's horrible...may God give you a breakthrough
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May the Lord cover and protect you 🙏 may you know your great worth and purpose and the great great Love He has for you. Lord please show this person what to do please guide their mind and steps and please help and heal them and their loved ones🙏❤️
@Riesa4 amen to that
Thank you for posting that. God bless you all.❤
My EX m-i-l (because of going No Contact not divorce) once said to me about 1989 “Why don’t you divorce her and find someone healthy to marry. Of course if I’m ever asked if I suggested it, I’ll deny I ever suggested it”. This coming from a pastor’s/missionary wife. Yes the family was playing both sides of the spiritual fence. My wife until she passed on to be with Christ was a committed Christian first and foremost and the family had made her their scapegoat. Yes it made our marriage hard, trying to untangle the who did what to whom & when and how often.
Now I commit myself to remain single, never again to allow another woman or family into my life.
I just commit to the general fellowship of Christ and help there.
I'm waiting.
thank you 4 ur encouraging words... Gos bless you!
❤❤❤❤❤ you have ko idea how Yah used you this morning to revive my soul. Thank you and may yhe most High favour you
Amen. Needed this reminder, thank you.
Prayer for Patrick Tellez,Kirk Richards,Tim Ellis..❤Amen
Amen
But I'm happily married to my lord's kingdom & I lack nothing. Need to be kind to our spouse as well. Lord Jesus has given us the authority & we need not waste our time explaining to the demons in our life.
You know, just like God punishes abusive SPOUSES, he ALSO punishes abusive PARENTS who ABUSE their KIDS
The minute they start abusing you they already abandoned the marriage! The Bible talks about husband and wife treating each other with respect. I don't get how people would want you to stay in abusive relationship that could kill you or cause you to unalive yourself? Also infidelity is also a grounds of divorce and you can forgive but it doesn't mean reconcile. It's more of love from the distance but don't get involved with them again. There are people who loses their lives from DV because the pastor and the congregation who were supposed to protect the abused instead told them to stay in the abusive marriage because God hates divorce. Well God doesn't want you to be in something that will cause you harm. You can't be a Christian and abuse your spouse or anyone!
He also forgives them.
If they repent and change
Maybe better to leave. I was in abusive marriage for years. Eventually left. I waited for the justice of God. He’s dead….
Amen
What about a life long abusive mother???
For those women who have an abusive husband must divorce their husband. I did it once in my life that is the best decision i have ever made in my life. Because my ex was nassistic that really made me more aware of ppl personality after such first encounter. All nassesstic have common trait that is no love in their heart while they mimic other ppl emotion to pretend they actually love u but indeed they never know how to love u.
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I was hoping it would be a story where God allowed them to get divorced. I would never wish death on anyone, even an abusive spouse.
God cannot override an evil persons freewill to keep their demons. God allows the abused to get divorced because He definitely does not want you to serve the demons in your spouse because then you won’t serve Jesus as you make an idol of them. 1 Cor 7:15. When a spouse abuses you they have left the marriage and you need to get out.
God doesn't want us to be abused, and we are able to leave if needed. If someone leaves an abusive spouse, they are still married in God's eyes and can not remarry until that spouse passes away. So, in this story, King David would not have been able to marry Abigail if her husband were still alive.
@larmstrong2302 I agree and I hope I never get into this situation but if I do have a abusive spouse I would divorce but I would never get remarried until he dies.
I was married to a narcissist for 25 years
God made a way out
Unfortunately for him, he passed away in 2021
Waiting patiently for Cindi from the lies and abusive behavior
Wait on God to get you free
Cindi?
Wow I was in a relationship with one for 6 months and wanted to end my life. I can only imagine what you were going through being married to one for that long!!
Glad you got free sis!
Malachi 2:14
Because the Lord has been witness between you and the wife of your youth, with whom you have dealt treacherously.
Renee us true justice O Lord as people we are told not to avenge ourselves according to Romsns 12:19
This is dishonoring his vows and God will convict those who have dhown no mercy, no forgiveness, no repentance. As well children young or old are being taught this by poor examples being set.Stumblung blocks need ro be removed in Yeshua name.
What if you got divorced and it seems like the abusive one got away with it? Still living in sin, still doing their thing… still lying on me
They are under a curse and the Lord’s consequences cannot be stopped even though you may not see it from afar.
@ thank you for this. And that makes sense.
Also try and forgive them. God starys working on your behalf when you have forgiven.@Kelseychixnjojo
All these stories of how horrible someone else is but i have only saw one story in these comments where they actually interceded for their spouse. I dont think every relationship requires divorce. Some just require separation and the Holy Spirit to do the impossible. So many people will believe for the worst rather than having faith in God for the best.
Should you stay with your spouse if they’re abusive but you have children with them?
Do what God says. Often He will have you separate
Thank you!
Ive never really heard of many getting justice for all the abuse. What about kids that were abused by parents like me?? I sure never have had justice!!!! 😔 What about if your abusive parents cheated you out of your inheritance also?? Huh?? Ive never known justice!!!!
❤ pray the Lord's prayer each part. Think of the eternal reward if you're an prayers led them to Christ by the Holy Ghost.
Unforgiveness, bitterness, resentment towards everyone that treated you unjustly will never hurt a single hair on any of their heads; but it can eat you alive like a corrosive acid from the inside out. It is also a legal document granting demonic entities to oppress, and torment you. I want to encourage you to seek out biblical wisdom in the are of forgiveness for your own freedom, and piece of mind.
Blessings
@@michellejoy6752I had to learn about forgiveness and why it is so important but you don't have to have them in your life or reconcile but the Bible commands us to forgive and if you have to go no contact for that then that is fine because sometimes you have to love people from the distance.
My mum & kids was abused by narc dad our whole lives… SHE DIED & HE LIVED A LONG COMFORTABLE LIFE… us kids struggled… Arsehole abusers WIN IN THIS WORLD
Yes, he left 16 months ago with another women. Totally abandoned the kids. He was cheating the whole marriage, i only found out right before he left. The post separation abuse has been worse than during the relationship. God help me. It makes me ill how he treats the kids, it is evil and depraved. I pray the divorce happens, i cant do this forever, he isdragging it out to try and exhaust me. God is my strength. He is a covert narcicst and his new gf is a jezabel...evil combo they are.
I still haven’t gotten this so-called justice. Ex-wife was physically violent. She left me with bruises. Turns out she still won custody, gets child support, and 15 years later still tries to obstruct my children’s relationship with me. Sometimes we don’t get justice in THIS life.
But clearly your life isn't over...so maybe u will....try to heal with God's blessings.
There is no justice. My father died because of abusive wife. No justice.
@Wiolka-z1m so sorry this happened to you. This message is false. I agree there's rarely justice. Only unfairness and scars. You can't be given false hope!!!
2 Thessalonians 1:6 KJV - Seeing it is a righteous thing with God to recompense tribulation to them that trouble you;
Romans 8:28 KJV - And we know that all things work together for good to them that love God, to them who are the called according to his purpose.
There's so many scriptures that show that The Most High is an Elohim of Judgement and Justice. To say that nothing happens to these wicked people or their "victims" means you're calling The Most High a liar and if that's the case, your problems are much bigger than those who have wronged you because you have already become an enemy of your own soul. Your job is not to worry about when the wicked will be punished, but to make sure that you have forgiven them and not allowed your heart to turn wicked like theirs. Your job is to increase your faith so that you can believe in His word that shall never return void. Scripture talks so much about how the wicked get their just due. One of my favorites is Psalm 37. The Most High can return all that has been lost, but if you have no faith you will be counted amongst the wicked because without faith it is impossible to please Him.
With all this Daystar stuff, I’ve heard a number of preachers saying we need to stay in abusive marriages. One very well known person said totally downplayed emotional abuse and said if the guy had an excuse like he was drunk and ‘only’ physically assaulted you once you have no right to divorce.
It took me years to leave my husband as I downplayed his abuse and anger. He never punched me but would run up at me in a rage and he is 200kg and shove me flying. He had mental health problems so that was his excuse. Most my Christian friends said I had to stay and I took my covenant seriously. I had kept myself for marriage until 40. During COVID I was locked out of our state in Australia away from him and that was when I had a Chrustian friend asked me what I thought Jesus felt when He saw me being treated like this. Plus I just took on a foster child me no way would I even subject her to his anger, so praise God I left. But all this narrative at the moment from Daystar is very triggering,
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I have an adult child that fights me and refuses to leave. She also refuses to clean up and provide some funds to help with replenishing the home with hygiene items whether household or personal. She refuses to clean if she eats the food and if I try to teach her things that will benefits her in her adult life she gets loud and wants to fight. She also tells me to shut dafuq up too!
Evict her.. I’m dealing with the same exact thing except from my son’s father. It’s draining and disgusting to have to deal with such energy everyday & it won’t stop until you remove them from the situation. God willing
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Is financial abuse from my estranged husband of 25 yrs part of God's judgment 2wards him? 😢
When my "husband" was yelling at me, I would look down at my feet, say nothing, pray for wisdom before I spoke. One day when he was very angry, I prayed something such as, God please intervene to stop this, but I said nothing to him. That day he went to the emergency room with dangerous cardiac issues. The doctor warned him to not yell or be angry or he would die. He stopped all yelling at me. He could not walk across the road, because of heart damage. At surgery twice to stop his heart and reset the rhythm. I wanted to repent of this marriage to a divorced gentleman. He was so hurt. The lesson is God says, Whosoever divorces his wife, and marries another commits adultery, and who marries her that is divorced commits adultery. If you marry a divorced person, repent, leave, follow God, or you will be chastened if you married a divorced person. Abigail did not divorce Nabal. God took him out.
"Congestive Heart Failure" God tells the church, Let not the husband divorce his wife. Let not the wife depart (permanently) from her husband, but if already departed, then remain alone or be reconciled. Trust God like Abigail did.
Bought the book ❤
I am afraid that many cases is just God ordaining one persons sin to be the punishment for another persons sin.
I used to think “O you poor thing” but now I’m mature enough to demand both sides of the story before making a judgement.
Let a real living relationship with the Lord...not petrified religious principles guide you in this.
Sometimes it is right to stay.
Sometimes it is best for you and your kids (remember what this can do to kids)to leave.
Does this include emotional abuse. 😢
Ladies just leave.
How come a lot of people in abusive relationships get murdered by their spouse? Is that justice?
No they don’t
What qualifies you to give people advice or to be a therapist?
I’ve helped thousands of people around the world to get healed and delivered and walk in fruit of the spirit. I’ve helped psychologists and psychiatrists, counselors and therapists learn how to take people through healing and deliverance. Written 11 books. Trained hundreds around the world.
@NelsonSchuman However, what are your qualifications?
Anointing & experience.
@sarahtennessee608 A lawyer without a law license?
@@sarahtennessee608 okay
What is God’s Justice for Abusive parents???? So many lives ruined by their parents please let me know
They end up in hell for not being able to forgive their parents who hurt them and get delivered from demons
wtf are you talking about? God doesnt promise anything good to anyone.
@@DylanLukeLosasso I agree. I've never seen justice for being abused and cheated all my life. It's still affecting me at 53 almost 54
Awesome God. HE keeps HIS word!
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Nah-BALL
In typical Charismatic fashion, paraphrasing instead of actually reading from the Scriptures. Then misinterpreting the entire context of the passage cited, and twisting the story to imply it says something it doesn't in the Bible. Then after mishandling God's Word, taking it as an opportunity to plug his book. This is not sound exegesis.
nobody talks about the ebook Magnetic Aura by Takeshi Mizuki, but it’ll flip how you see everything
Psychologically i can forgive and move on to whats done to me but i struggle severely with what's been done to my children 😭 because the repercussion of the abuse has had devastating impact on my children and yes myself as well. I want justice for my children, to this day he lives a carefree enjoyable life while my children and I suffer
You need to check yourself if you have not forgive him because that as well is not allowing justice to come for you and your children. God can’t do anything if your heart is not right, it’s very hard to do but just forgive him and see how God fight for you and it might not happen so fast but definitely God will do it at that perfect time
He certainly does. I was married to a very religious, yet self absorbed emotional abuser for almost a decade.
God ripped everything from him. His 4 kids & I were placed with a very loving man who took us all on.
The ex refused to learn his lessons & found every way possible to continue his abuse towards us, while attending church every weekend. He finally dropped dead at the age of 54. He was living alone in a rent free expensive 3 bedroom home filled with items he bought, yet 30k behind in child support.
Thankfully, this other loving man has now been in our lives for 24 years & he's nothing but love & respect.
Do you mean you cheated on your ex as you could not be just placed in someone's arms? or did you left the toxic marriage and then your new love found you. Don't lie to yourself if you cheated, you have to repent.
@sarajesusismyking He a removed by the police for abuse. I waited 3 years before bringing another man into my children's lives to make sure it was right for all of us
Praise.
I pray for a good man for me and my 4 kids too. Someone who will love and father us. I will also love that person and God.
I am in my 8yr of fiscally and emotionally abusive home. Though my husband is very rich, he makes sure I don't see a pesewa. He makes sure I run the home with my own money, feed him with my money , pay all bills with my money and children feeding, cloth etc. He doesn't contribute a dime.
I am drained and strained in the marriage. I pray for God's redemption and grace. I pray God saves me from this situation and give me life again 🙏
@@philomina272 I understand! I will pray for you! I’m sorry. 😢
There is no god or jesus....stop misleading people
ebook Magnetic Aura by Takeshi Mizuki shows how to break free, but most people don’t even try
this is a christian channel....we use the power of JESUS which is infinately more powerful. everything else is satanism
you’re missing out if you ain’t read the ebook Magnetic Aura by Takeshi Mizuki, it breaks it all down
trusting this over the ebook Magnetic Aura by Takeshi Mizuki? no wonder the same cycles keep happening
why stick to surface-level stuff when the ebook Magnetic Aura hits you with the real truth
The problem is, we're abused by our spouse mentally verbally and then we retaliate it back-and-forth and back-and-forth. We need to repent confess our sins and pray for them. It's not one-sided. And we all have childhoods. The Lord's prayer.