Autistic Kid Refuses Dental Drilling
Вставка
- Опубліковано 2 жов 2024
- Our little guy just wasn't having it. Does your loved one on the spectrum struggle with dental visits, especially anything involving a drill? Let us know and leave any tips that helped you. Thanks everyone!
#youtube #autism #dentist #help #tips
Autism Family Merchandise:
autismfamily.m...
Other links:
/ autismfamily
www.facebook.c...
Autism non-profit we are a part of: theautismallia...
Our other channel (Nostalgia Fix): / @nostalgiafix81
Hi folks! A lot of you are asking about headphones and sedation. With sedation they wouldn’t allow him to take that riskier option on a small cavity filling. With headphones he was using some while watching the ceiling TV (not shown on video) and by the time the dentist was going to drill, Alistair refused any headphones because he was already overwhelmed. Thanks everyone for your support!
He will be better as he is getting older.🙏
Also, headphones wouldn't block out the sound as the worst of it will be conducted through the bone.
He hates the drill
I’m on the autism spectrum and knowing ahead of time what a dentist is going to do to you is important. Had my last baby tooth extracted a few months back and had a while to prepare. In the end it went well with no laughing gas/sedation just a quick shot to numb and get it yanked out.
Did you cry?
Nope it wasn't bad at all@@Cimorelli102
well done you!!!
Me too
My son has been diagnosed of autism spectrum since childhood and has battled with it all his life. But recently taking Dr Oyalo herbs have helped him get rid of it completely
I feel and sympathize with your pain Alistair. Nobody likes the drill, even 29 year old men like myself.
U got this and can stick this out. With you till the end. Your Brave!
👍 👍 👍 👍 👍 👍 👍 👍 👍 👍 👍 👍 👍 👍
My son has been diagnosed of autism spectrum since childhood and has battled with it all his life. But recently taking Dr Oyalo herbs have helped him get rid of it completely
He's gonna be scared cuz he's still young like most kids are so this doesn't surprise me at all, it's normal. Try the sedation dentistry if it's a option, it goes so much easier. Goodluck guys!!
My son has been diagnosed of autism spectrum since childhood and has battled with it all his life. But recently taking Dr Oyalo herbs have helped him get rid of it completely
Poor Allistair, he's such a sweet kid. Big Hugs bro... 🫂
I am autistic. When it comes to shots and dental things. I do so much better when the dentist or the person giving a shot says this is going to hurt real bad but only for a few seconds or 30 seconds or whatever . The moment someone lies to us and says it's not going to hurt and it does. We are devastated... Saying something's going to hurt like hell for just a few minutes and then having that experience that is truthful to what we've been told makes it so much less painful and so much less unknown. We don't trust medical providers when it comes to saying something's not going to hurt. Just be real. It hurts. Is this true for anyone else on the spectrum? Usually the unknown aspect of these situations is where the pain lies. So being up front and removing the unknown just makes everything so much better.
Like imagine telling him getting your cavity done, it's going to hurt, the noise is going to drive you crazy. It's going to be a real difficult time. But as soon as it's done you're going to feel so much better. For me anyways it works wonders. The unknown is very painful. Knowing you're going to be in pain is less painful than unknowing
Great point
@@AutismFamilyChannel My niece is very much spectrum. I told my sister to try that with her when she got her shots. They sat her down and were like do we need three people to hold you down this time, or are you okay knowing it's going to hurt? Real bad but just for about 15 seconds. She put her arm out and cried for about 5 seconds and then was like that was 15 seconds. 😂 Not sure if that's a common outcome. I'd love to hear from others.
I'm autistic too and I agree. I can't understand why some people lie to kids about things like that. I have a memory of getting a cavity filled and being told "it doesn't hurt, it doesn't hurt" when it absolutely did hurt. I felt so violated and angry.
My son has been diagnosed of autism spectrum since childhood and has battled with it all his life. But recently taking Dr Oyalo herbs have helped him get rid of it completely
I have autism too, and I understand how he feels. I can take everything else like shots and everything but if it’s a tool going up my nose or unmentionable other holes I literally can’t do it. I remember when I was seven. I got UTIs and they had to try to put a catheter in my tract and I seven doctors holding me down, and I literally was fighting for my life.
My son has been diagnosed of autism spectrum since childhood and has battled with it all his life. But recently taking Dr Oyalo herbs have helped him get rid of it completely
He is so brave right now, seeing Alister cry about the drill almost makes me feel sad for him, I don’t like seeing kids upset. He doesn’t like the sound of it, because it hurts his ears. That’s a good reason for him. I hope your son gets the filling put in his tooth, he will be ready by the next dental visit.😢😢😢
Something to be said about the old cable and pulley dental equipment, while the drilling was slower and you could feel the vibration with a coarse drill bit the noise was much less - just a variable speed electric motor and the barely audible sounds from the cables. I had tons of cavities even with fluoridated water (less when I moved away 🤔) when I was young... and novacaine doesn't make a difference, a needle in my gums or eyelid is painful but in my arm or elsewhere is not an issue. Now I don't mind the scream of the current highspeed dental drills.
My son has been diagnosed of autism spectrum since childhood and has battled with it all his life. But recently taking Dr Oyalo herbs have helped him get rid of it completely
I am a dentist with an autistic teenage son. Please ask the dentist to use a slow speed drill instead of a high speed one, if possible. It doesn't "shoot" that much and the sound is lower. My son can't take gas or local anesthetic shot, but we did 4 fillings successfully.
Maybe he can wear noise cancelling headphones for the sound as well. Headphones seem to help autistic kids with some sounds.
@courtneycurcio-zn1ev Yes, certainly that's possible. In my son's case, it wasn't the sound that triggered the reaction, it was the taste in the mouth that he couldn't handle.
My son has been diagnosed of autism spectrum since childhood and has battled with it all his life. But recently taking Dr Oyalo herbs have helped him get rid of it completely
I worked at my former orthodontist’s office where I had braces as a sterilization tech (cleaning and sterilizing all things used for patients). I have a friend that is autistic that I know personally that was starting to get braces one day. Before the appointment, I told the doctor and clinician that I knew this patient personally and that he is autistic. I told them to explain everything before proceeding, as well as explaining it slowly. Since he knew that I was going to be at the office, I sat in with him during the entire appointment and he felt really comfortable the entire time. He also did treatment on a day that was originally closed, but opened up for just starting braces only - meaning the office only had two other patients present at the time. That worked well because it was quiet and less distracting. Of course, a dental office is much different than an orthodontist’s office. In the end, our patient with autism did very well and allowed us to go into his mouth, which has been hard for other patients with special needs, and he left the office satisfied.
My friend does not have any issues with loud noises or textures, he just likes to know what things are going to be done in advance, so that worked out great. I also had added to his chart for future scheduling that all appointments needed to be at least 30 minutes long. This way, if he needed a break mid-appointment, it would not throw our whole schedule off and we wouldn’t have to rush. I have to say, though, the doctor, clinician, and I all thought he did very well the entire time, and I told him that if he needed a break to raise his hand or say when 😊
My son has been diagnosed of autism spectrum since childhood and has battled with it all his life. But recently taking Dr Oyalo herbs have helped him get rid of it completely
My daughter is 13 and just got diagnosed. 🙏🏽 it’s a learning process
I'm on the autism spectrum and I was brave having my filling done
I can totally relate to this little guy, I hate being touched on my face and I’m lucky that the Dentist I visit is a lovely and understanding lady.I have had several autistic shutdowns because of being extremely anxious and overwhelmed by my anxiety with regarding dentist appointments
Since the final taking of your herbs, my son has been speaking well and responding to his name Thank you for saving my son
I recently found out I am on the spectrum. Going to the dentist and brushing my teeth are so, so challenging. I found that unflavored toothpaste and a variable speed Oral B has made a big difference and both can be found on amazon. I have an emergency dental appointment in a couple of days because I only go when the pain is worse than my anxiety and fears. Now that I know I'm autistic I am preparing myself and bringing some tools that help with the drilling, bright light, and anxiety. Plan to use stimming and inform my new dentist of my sensitive mouth and the things that make me anxious. Feeling prepared really helps.
Don't be scared, Alistair. The Dental drills won't hurt as long as you stay still.
I know you mean well but for an Autistic person it's not that simple. If he's sensitive to the noise or how it feels. Then it CAN indeed hurt. As someone who is on the spectrum, I wouldn't want to be told this. First: Because it feels like a lie because it does hurt me. Second: Because it feels like a lie, I feel invalidated and my struggles unheard. So please don't say this to an Autistic person or anyone with sensory sensitives(I don't like saying issues because it implies that something's wrong)
I have Asperger's, which is the high functioning end of the spectrum. When I was younger, going to the dentist may not have been easy on occasion. Luckily however, I always made it through every single appointment, which I always enjoyed going because it always worked out in the end and left my appointments feeling happy
Since the final taking of your herbs, my son has been speaking well and responding to his name Thank you for saving my son
dentist visits for me felt the same, I would have so much anxiety because one of the things doing xrays i hated because i have bad memories from choking on them (they put it in the side of your jaw, deep down) and I get really scared doing it still, but I push through the best I can, I do use my coping stuff when I have to do healthcare as a patient like headphones with music, holding a plush, etc.
P.s. unironic i know but I work in healthcare as a janitor too lol, I used to have problems with dealing with the environment but i am used to it now thanks to project search helping me out!
I feel the same, I’m sure you saw my comment, but I have anxiety and music is always my way to go wherever I end up heading to, especially the dentist. The X-rays were a terrible and terrifying thing.
The shot is definitely the worst part.
Poor kid 😢 good job Alastair for doing that you did awesome❤ and I am on the autism spectrum too and I had to have that done it did not feel great
Alistair has gotten so good at communicating his feelings and emotions.
I haven’t had any dental fillings, root canal’s, of wisdom teeth extractions yet. But I feel with the help of this gas, the needle and drill would hurt less. I’m sensitive all the way because I’m autistic. Autism doesn’t make my life easy.
I know what it is like to be afraid of something and not wanting to confront it. I am on autism spectrum disorder as well. When I was very young, I was afraid of the car wash so much that right in the middle of it I got out of the vehicle and exited the car wash area. I have fortunately got over my fear of car washes.
My son has been diagnosed of autism spectrum since childhood and has battled with it all his life. But recently taking Dr Oyalo herbs have helped him get rid of it completely
I had meltdowns at the dentist. I have a developmental delay. Not autism. But id get sooo overwhelmed and overstimulated
I can definitely relate to this. I’m a teenager who may be autistic (waiting for an assessment) and the dentist has always been bad for me just due to all the noises, I had a couple of cavities that had to be filled a while back and I was put on laughing gas since I knew I was going to have anxiety, and I ended up having 2 panic attacks, so that was fun
I’m autistic too and when I was a kid I used to be put to sleep when getting fillings because I absolutely HATED the dentist
When I was much younger one of my baby molars fell out on its own.
Best tooth extraction ever!
I had two cavity fillings. It was not a plesent experience. Even as an Autistic adult the dentist can be a bit of struggle. Used to have a habit of not brushing my teeth.
Treating kids in general is difficult, let alone kids with autism. As an oral health therapist whose main job is working in dentistry with kids on a daily basis, I personally think he did really well lying down on the dental chair. You can clearly tell that he understood what was going on and tried his best. Not many kids his age without a medical condition can do what he did, so well done to him and to you. Don't beat yourself up. I hope you found an alternative way to treat his cavity.
Since the final taking of your herbs, my son has been speaking well and responding to his name Thank you for saving my son
I had the thpe if think happen to me but i had to havve all of my top row of teef removed because of pearants miss treating me and stufit was not fun at all (the pearants thing is sorted now luckeyly)
Sorry about the spelling
I am on the Autism Spectrum, it took me over 30 years before I got a filling 2 on the same day. When I found out I had Cavities right after healing having a Wisdom tooth remove. I was scared about the fillings and mad at myself for not taking better care of my teeth but after that I do take better care of my teeth and started flossing with Oral-b glide floss because my teeth are too close together. After getting the fillings I was afraid to chew gum for about a year and chewing is one of my stims.
I'm on the spectrum too, and i understand the pain from the fear of the dentist. I'm 25, and i hate the sound of the drill, too. It might be best to sedate him completely so that he isn't awake during the procedure and can take a nap. It might minimize his fear and panic, and he won't even remember what happened!
Since the final taking of your herbs, my son has been speaking well and responding to his name Thank you for saving my son
Yeah that noise is really annoying I try my best to not pay attention to it
That’s not an exuse he needs to learn it only one fillings
Maybe noise cancelling headphones with his favorite music or show or movie on Netflix or Disney plus. & if he has a team of therapists discuss them making a social story for him about what to expect with filling appointments
Bless him, that’s so hard. I know what he means that feeling inside the mouth it dose feel like the drill is going right through the top of my head, I know it’s not, but it feels like it is. My new dentist is the best I’ve had so far, she understands my Autism explains everything she doing and gives me time. I’m 62 and it’s still hard, I’m impressed how hard Alistair tried. It’s such an uncomfortable feeling and the sounds inside your head. Not nice.
Thank you for sharing That you 62. I'm newly diagnosed at 68 and feel encouraged by your story
My dentist is horrible, they lied and did things at my appointments that were not discussed. I’m not autistic, but I feel with Alistair.
I’m on the Asperger’s spectrum, I was like moderately feared about the spray that tastes like cherry cough candy, and the syringe, which makes me look like I was in a horror movie with an evil dentist. 🦷💉
Taking my 11yr old son next week to the dentist and hoping he does well!!
My son doesnt even get to that point lol he can’t stand the needle lol. Thomas gets anxiety so going to the dentist is impossible. ❤
Sensory issues is truly an unpleasant and most certainly distressing part of autism, I hope he managed to do well after his fright at the dentist :((
Same with my middle brother. He's absolutely *terrified* of the dentist at 17 years old because he wasn't numbed enough at our old one and he felt everything they were doing. He's a little bit better, but the dentist still scares him. My mom was so angry when she found out
My son has been diagnosed of autism spectrum since childhood and has battled with it all his life. But recently taking Dr Oyalo herbs have helped him get rid of it completely
I doesn’t get that much better when you get older. Nobody, autistic or not, likes shots or the sound of that drill rattling around their skull. I’m 36 and I take an anxiety ball into the dentist with me because that stuff is unpleasant! And nobody likes having their teeth messed with. It’s just something you have to do. Frankly one dose of real toothache will make you love your dentist! You have to realise it’s a bit of minor pain now to avoid major pain further down the line. 10 minutes and it’s over. I tell myself this every time I’m in the waiting room. And every time it’s true.
I'm very likely autistic and don't mind the shots or the drill so much, but the epinephrine (basically adrenaline) in the anaesthetic gives me an anxiety spike, and work on my upper molars makes breathing through the nose difficult. For any medical procedure that involves general anesthesia the concept of being put under sets off a deep, irrational fear. Not the mask or the IV, the concept that I'm about to be knocked out.
I had to get my first drilling and filling recently from a fractured enamel caused by chewing on stuff i shouldnt. I agree that the drill is one of the worst sounds you can hear, its very painful to the ears. (im 28 and autistic and severe sensory processing issues). What helped me was being allowed to have my airpods in with music i liked or a video i knew really well word for word, and taking a pill like Xanax. my dentist also let me hold this swishy ball like that has stuff inside and told me to "try to break it open" which was very distracting cause of the texture of the ball
hugs
I have high functioning autism but have NEVER gotten any cavities
The dentist still makes me nervous as I'm under the mild spectrum
That’s hard to see Alistair like this. Hope he isn’t in a lot of pain ❤
This is relatable
Sorry for him he is ok
I feel so sorry for Alistair as I have autism just like him. I hate the drill too!
Thank you so much 🙏🏽💕 This is very helpful for families with children that have autism. ALOHA 🌺
The last dentist I went to didn't have a sedation mask, so I had to feel the needles in my mouth every time for anesthesia, just to either pull a tooth or drill one, I could still feel some of the pain while numb, and having the dentists hand in my mouth while trying to extract my tooth was very uncomfortable, felt like I was being choked.
One joke from a sitcom: this needle will stop you from feeling pain. What's gonna make me not feel the shot?
I think the dentist I had as a kid, if a toothache from a baby tooth, that dentist would just pull the tooth out, kind of painless to lose one when you're a kid.
As my dad would say, "All we need is the pliers from my toolset, & it'll be over quickly."
Can Alistair not go to a dental facility where they can send him to sleep for the procedure? That's what a dentist would arrange here in the UK.
They don’t do that for a small filling here in the U.S. 😉
@@awfurfracksake I totally agree.
When I was little, they put me to sleep.
Does still Alistair have level 3 autism ? Since age 3, he made lots of progress.
Great video
Hi autism family I subscribed to your UA-cam channel Alistair, Ian, Connor, Rob, Brittany
Poor Alistair 😢
I know that feeling all too well.
It’s ok Alistair the dentist is trying to help you feel better it will be okay stay strong and if you get through it you will get better so you don’t have to worry about it anymore it’s ok
Couldn't he be sedated or go to the hospital and have a general anaesthesia for the cavity?
hey,can u tell how u made ur children into reading and mixing sounds from initial to advance.can u please help.i am struggling .waiting for ur replay.
Hi. My name is Rebekah and I am 21 years old with autism. I totally understand what you are going through Alastair. All of the cleaning tools and the suction, I really don’t like the noises of them as I am sensitive to sound. I usually cry at the dentist. You did such a great job.😄👍🏾🩷
Third. And I’m back sorry I have been busy getting ready for my holiday on Monday I am going to Disney world in Florida. As you know with my high chance of ADHD, Autism and OCD etc I have this same problem I hate anything that involved touching my hair,mouth, body etc, I like personal space and get really annoyed when I have to go to the dentist. I also have severe social and normal anxiety which impacts the visits as well. I’m very excited for Sunday as it is my birthday and I am turning 15!
Me too I was at the dentist and I was getting annoyed with the bib thing and water was spraying all over the place
@@TVTIME-be8ze it’s so annoying though dentists are my places of regret.
@@superdrawerandsuperanimal8779 I had my wisdom teeth taken out, and it literally was nothing. It happened so quick I didn’t hurt that much and I didn’t even get dry socket.
@@TVTIME-be8ze that happens sometimes for me but dentists lies to me frequently. I went to the dentist (bare in mind they have no clue about my special needs) and told me they will numb it and pull it out normally but they numbed it, gave me 2 injections in the gum and pulled it out very hard. I prefer to be told in advanced what will happen and when etc and that triggered me a lot.
@@superdrawerandsuperanimal8779 wow
This is not news, when I was 9, I screamed (yes screamed) for a whole full hour. There were three doctors in my room. I had a root canal 😢 and yes I wasn’t diagnosed back then. I am still scared of the dentist now😅
I went to the dentist a few weeks ago, and I have no cavities!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Thanks for sharing ❤ appreciate your channel so much 🎉
I feel like they sould have ear plugs cause it hurts the head sometimes and that's a Risck of pukeing I puked in my moth when they were filling from the pain.
I’m on the autism spectrum and I get scared when I see things that scare me like he does, what you guys can do is that you guys can ask them if they can put him to sleep, so they can do whatever they need to do for him. I had to get my teeth pulled many times as a kid because I was having tooth pain even tho I didn’t have cavities, they put me to sleep so they can pull it out and when i woke up, I didn’t remember anything
I'm not autistic and feel the same even as adult lol .. can't imagine how hard it must be for an autistic child but it's relatable.
I could understand how he feels
You know Alastor from Hazbin Hotel used drill in his teeth and nothing went wrong with him.
Hi! Did you all find a dentist that is good with people with disabilities? Did the cavity get fixed?
He might benefit from a dentist who uses either Solea or Waterlase. All lasers = no shots, no drills, no noise! 🦷
Look up some videos of the Solea in action. I would have linked my favorite video of it here but then it would just look spammy.
I dont like any doctors appointments it stresses me out i dont like being touched i let them know that and they are pretty good about letting me know they are about to touch me
Take away his stuff if he don’t wanna get his teeth fix
I used to be like that when I was younger because of my autism.
Awareness.
HI I was diagnosed with autism at the age of Three
My dentist knocks me out and im not on the spectrum ❤
I have spd adhd and autisim I have trouble with loud noises I’m scared of drills I anyways ask to wear headphones!
I have aspergers i go to a special care dentist they had to knock me out completely for extractions but i can handle a filling now as long as i have my music
Blue Wave Touchless Wash
All kids hate the dentist
When I was in 7th grade I had to get teeth pulled and I was terrified of the laughing gas bc when I was little I had some trauma with the mask and I totally understand how alister feels.
I hate when they drill, last time, I asked to listen to my music, blasted my favourite band very loud in my isolating headphones did help a little, but still that vibration was extremely hard to forget (I'm ASD as level 1)
I watched what to prepare for before going to the dentist it’s helps. But tell Alistair if you don’t brush your teeth really well you can get more cavities it’s better to fix it now instead of later when you have several. When I was his age I had one cavity. At nearly twenty I have 13 that have to be fixed over several appointments. I brushed everyday but I didn’t floss because of sensory issues. And I still have a lot of cavities because of sugar. When I eat food it hurts . Tell him it’s going to feel like being pinched in the mouth each time you eat something crunchy. I think he might require sedation like my autistic brother has to have done.
I guess ideas on being (or not being) able to refuse to have a procedure done at that age have changed since I was growing up back in the 1980s. Whenever I had a cavity when I was growing up not having it filled was absolutely not an option. By law my parents could have made the decision for me any time before age sixteen.
I wonder if his dentist or oral surgeon is worried about possible infection if he doesn’t get the tooth drilled and filled. An infected tooth can become very serious in short order. I remember hearing in an episode of Dr. G. Medical Examiner that a cavity can become a dental abscess and that in a matter of days the infection can spread to other areas. You really don’t want that. I wonder if his oral surgeon or other dentist thinks that antibiotics of some kind at some dosage for some period of time might help to prevent this in addition to good tooth brushing, flossing, etc.
That’s good stuff to know is that alaster. When they do cavetys. They put the gas thing on me
Have you tried bone conduction headphones paired with earplugs? It'd be hard for him to hear you, though.
I hate the drill as well. Got three cavities filled at one time which wasn’t fun. I’ve gotten them filled more than once
Iv sedation needed gas and air doesn’t do anything I’m with him on that one. Poor kid. Yes it’s a needle but it’s so quick compared to the drill and you literally can’t remember or aware of anything.
I know how you feel little one. I'll be 63 in a couple of days. I can't handle the shots in my mouth. Shots hurt in thr first place. 😢 but the ones in you're mouth are really bad.
He needs to mature and be told to just relax at the dentist. Get his mind off the drilling and bring him noise canceling headphones 🎧. Buy him a toy, if he gets his tooth(s) drilled.
I’m an adult and get so anxious just for a simple cleaning, with fillings I’m worse. I get it and understand that fear. As a child my parents gave me Valium sometimes just to get me into the car for a dental visit. Now I go first thing, almost the first appointment of the day, before I eat or drink anything. It helps so I don’t worry the entire day, and after the appointment I go get a treat at Starbucks! But the Valium did wonders for me as a kid, now as an adult I have to find other ways to handle my fear and dental anxiety, sometimes taking headphones and playing my own music that I find comforting. Hang in there, in time it does get better.
i have sound sensitivity and can definitely empathize with some noises driving me crazy. having chronic pain only adds to the frustration. i would agree that getting sedated or put to sleep can really help, but many dentists do not offer such choices or refuse to take insurances like medicaid. However, sometimes you can find a hospital dentist who has an anesthesiologist or crna available to put people to sleep.
Would headphones work i have sensitive hearing and I need headphones in order to listen to music I don’t like the drilling noise either but I find headphones keep me calm and relaxed or holding my hand also helps too
I’ve always found bringing a comfort item helps
so there's 3 kids with autism at my church and i sat with one and she kept asking me " it done?" when i nodded to her the first time, i was wondering if they do that if they don't get a verbal answer or is it just a autism?
I struggled with shots period as a kid. The moment I feel a finger on me I flip. Many rescheduled appointments. It has to be in my strong arm and I have to see it
if i were getting this done, i would want that anesthesia ASAP. then after I fall asleep, carry on with the procedure.
Hey I’m autistic as well you guys might want to try dental surgery at hospital I go to the hospital to get any dental thing done it helps
He’s braver than me! I only had one early development of a cavity in my life & I was bawling!