According to bell hooks, genuine love is a combination of: • Care • Affection Recognition • Respect • Commitment • Trust • Honest and open communication Duly noted. Thank you for sharing sis!
Usually when you upload it takes me a minute to listen to the episodes bc I’m not ready to hear the message😭 finally listened and I’m glad I did. As cliche as it is you cannot love someone when you don’t love yourself. When you are not healthy to yourself you cannot truly be healthy to others. And love is truth. I encourage everyone to read Rock My Soul by bell hooks it really changed my life. In rock my soul she defined love as care, commitment, knowledge, responsibility, respect and trust. It ain’t love if it ain’t based on trueness! Thank you always Charlie.
Also when you talk about the consequences and how people react to boundaries I think of my fear of abandonment and rejection. I was/am so wrapped up in using things outside of myself to feel whole or alive and without external factors I don’t feel whole so I avoid boundaries and being true to myself. I’m learning that rejection is not that big of a deal I will be okay and people have a right to reject me. It’s okay!
According to bell hooks, genuine love is a combination of:
• Care
• Affection
Recognition
• Respect
• Commitment
• Trust
• Honest and open communication
Duly noted. Thank you for sharing sis!
No problem! An amazing framework that I use for all of my relationships.
Usually when you upload it takes me a minute to listen to the episodes bc I’m not ready to hear the message😭 finally listened and I’m glad I did. As cliche as it is you cannot love someone when you don’t love yourself. When you are not healthy to yourself you cannot truly be healthy to others. And love is truth. I encourage everyone to read Rock My Soul by bell hooks it really changed my life. In rock my soul she defined love as care, commitment, knowledge, responsibility, respect and trust. It ain’t love if it ain’t based on trueness! Thank you always Charlie.
Also when you talk about the consequences and how people react to boundaries I think of my fear of abandonment and rejection. I was/am so wrapped up in using things outside of myself to feel whole or alive and without external factors I don’t feel whole so I avoid boundaries and being true to myself. I’m learning that rejection is not that big of a deal I will be okay and people have a right to reject me. It’s okay!
Love this so much ! Definitely sharing. Thank you.
Happy to hear it!
I loved this! Thank you!
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Really great listen just what I needed to hear
Happy you loved it!