Hi guys! I just want to thank you all for watching. I did want to say when I refer to the term “haters” I’m not referring to those who didn’t support the go fund me or for those who have different opinions from mine. As I stated in the video we can all have a different view or opinion on something and all be right. When I refer to the term “hater” I’m referring to those who say horrible awful things that no one should ever say that aren’t worth repeating. I appreciate and value everyone’s opinion as well as constructive criticism. Xoxo 🤗
Kathleen Jamieson It’s not disrespectful at all. As she said in her video, it didn’t sit right with her and we need to accept that. Mindy is a kind person and maybe she felt bad initially saying no to the GFM. My opinion is that the “fan” overstepped big time in creating the GFM at all without her permission. Any heat that they’re getting is warranted and I don’t feel bad for them. I feel bad for Mindy and the hate she’s gotten over it. I respect her decision.
I’m sorry for what you went thru; people can be so rude. I started a channel last year, it’s been a learning curve as I previously had almost no experience using computers/camera or even social media. Someone left me the comment on one of my videos “THIS IS THE WORST VIDEO I’VE EVER SEEN”. Like, if you hate it so much, keep scrolling... why stop to hurt my feelings? SMH I deleted it because I don’t like the negativity and want to leave that space to be filled with the words that are constructive 🙂
Buying groceries and Target items is so much different than $20,000. There is nothing wrong with people wanting to help others towards their dreams. ☀️💕
I was thinking the same thing. They have to buy groceries and personal items. Doesn’t mean they have money laying around. Everyone has to buy that stuff to survive
My thoughts exactly !! I am also going through a TTC journey and my vehicle recently broke (motor blew) so I had to buy a new vehicle. Some people made a comment that I shouldn’t buy it because I need to do IVF. I live in a small northern town in Canada and I need a vehicle to get to work .. so sadly it wasn’t optional. I actually feel so bad Mindy had to feel guilt about this. People from all walks of life deserve help .. in all types of forms. Sending love your way !!
Mindy, remember what Dr Phil said, do not address or change your path because of the haters. You don’t have negative intentions and those who have watched you for a long time, know that. If bullies wanna group together and try to stop good in the world, let them try. You do you girl! I’m proud of you! God bless you and Larry!
You should stop giving the haters your energy. Just block them and move on. Most are not subscribers anyway. Jelousy is a serious disorder. Do you boo!!!
I agree, Maxine. As a subscriber, I don’t want to hear anything about the haters. Address them separately or block them. Don’t make the rest of us suffer or you will start losing subscribers.
Oh Mindy those who know you and who have actually followed you from the beginning know that all those negative things aren’t true! It’s so much different than buying things, groceries, doing small hauls then having 20,000$ for IVF! So different. It’s not like your doing hauls from Gucci and high priced brands and then saying you can’t afford it! I definitely understand what’s going on! I love you and I always will your a true soul and someone that doesn’t spread hate into the world 💜💜💜 love you all Mindy&larry&lexi&luna
Wow girl such a true post. Mindy is so sweet. How can people compare groceries and hauls to IVF. People are so rude. Like if 20,000 was so easy to get just like that.
Reminds me of that quote... “You can be the ripest, juiciest peach in the world and there are still going to be people out there who don’t like peaches.” I support you Mindy (and Larry!) and I think you’ve handled the situation really well. 💕
I honestly can’t believe people, everyone finds every little thing to send hate. You can’t please everyone. You do you, babygirl! You have those like us who do support you. I love your videos, even if they are sponsored or have ads because I do know this is your job. ❤️
Doing a grocery HAUL or buying clothing is WAY DIFFERENT than just dropping $20,000 for a very trivial procedure! Ppl really just want to judge and be bitter to influencers if they don’t post EXACTLY what that ONE viewer want to post. Be you and stay you Mindy. You are not selfish or being manipulative. You’re being honest and upfront with us. FORGET THE HATERS💖✨☀️
I absolutely love Mindy!!! The truth is...all of those thing like clothes, jewelry, coffee mugs, candles, make-up, and etc etc etc do add up very quickly and she could easily save the money. It’s not like she just very rarely spends money. She loves to shop and there is absolutely NOTHING wrong with that until accepting money from others.
you have no idea how much you help some of us just get through even a moment in a day that feels impossible. I won't go into details but please just trust you've helped someone of us more than you could ever know. please don't ever doubt yourself. hugs.
I’ve been a silent follower for a while but I absolutely love and enjoy watching your videos! One of the biggest reasons I love this channel is because y’all are real and genuine. Don’t let the haters have you doubting yourself. You and Larry are great people!
Follow Up: If anyone seriously thinks they don’t go into Target and buy stuff they don’t necessarily need, they’re kidding themselves. I live in Canada. I’ve gone to Target to buy EVERYTHING I don’t need when I’m in the states. YOU DO YOU.
Thats just shopping in America regardless. Unnecessary purchases have become so many peoples hobbie. Idk I shop for need. Not want. My finances love it too lol
This is my happy place. My life is watching four walls, day in, day out from my hospital bed at home. I have chronic illness with chronic damage & pain. Your videos are my escape and that means alot. 💕
I don't normally comment just cause that's not me, but I look at it like this, if you wanna buy whatever you want, then thats 100% fine, it's your money, it's your life, do whatever you want and people just need to get that or just move on, on a lighter note though, I watch every video cause it makes my days better, I get to check out of reality for a little bit while I watch your video, so thank you!❤
I am going to be completely honest. I love you as a UA-camr. The age gap drew me in but the genuine day to day, laughter and positivity kept me coming back. I did not agree with the GofundMe. I did not think you were begging for money(maybe others did), but it just didn't sit right with me and some of us expressed that. No issue with hauls ( in fact I love a grocery haul!) but the fan setting up (with best intentions) created something that, I think, made some of us question why someone, who shows us a comfortable lifestyle, would accept such a large amount from strangers when saving could have been done. I can see that it would have been hard to read and may have been construed as 'hate'. I think it was mainly frustration on the part of viewers who might not have expected the GFM outcome as it happened so quickly after the video. But as you said - you do you!
Thank you love and I completely understand 🤗 Yay haha so happy you love the grocery hauls those are one of my favorites to film. Xoxo thank you and I value your response❤️ Have an awesome weekend
I agree with everything you said. I really like Mindy’s videos, but the Go Fund Me thing definitely didn’t sit right with many of us non-haters as well. Mindy is CONSTANTLY shopping and going on trips, (which is totally fine and I actually love their trip and haul videos!) but seeing that makes it difficult for viewers to understand why they would need a Go Fund Me set up for them and why they would accept it so quickly. 🤷♀️ It’s clear that if they really wanted to, they could afford to do so on their own. Sure they might have to save for a while or get a loan, but it seems like they could do it if they really wanted to. There are many people truly struggling right now that it just seemed so tacky. This is the issue most of us “haters” had with the whole thing.
@@lacookie292 I think the UA-camr world is a very different place. They see those who adore them and then they see those who don't (constructive or not). I agree with you and it did not sit right with me either. I will continue to watch and 80%+ of what I see I will love, however if something doesn't sit right with me or I feel the need to express myself I will call it out (whether I am 'right' or not). Sadly the world is not all rainbows and I do believe UA-camrs should use their platform for the greater good (calling out the establishment, charities, BLM, progressive change). I would love to see Mindy build the courage to really show what it is to be kind and fight the fight for those who cannot fight it for themselves.
So just a side I feel people aren't considering: The same as a gift is received with gratitude and MUCH EXCITEMENT, by anyone of any statue. I believe everyone deserves the right to some friendly, kind-hearted....gifts. Just like if you were going through life and someone came out of no where and blessed you with $15,000 just because they'd seen your kindness poured out to someone. They were very capable of of blessing you, and wanted deeply to do so... again based off their appreciation for you. Would you refuse the gift simply because you were able to comfortably afford the coffee you drink or home you live in. I honestly don't feel like most people would. Most people would consider that uncommon kindness, but it doesn't make it impossible. Mindy and Larry were in no way begging or hinting at gestures of money (that I feel everyone can agree on). So I feel as though some of you are unwilling to accept that she, like anyone else, should be allowed to feel (ABUNDANT) Love, through gifts (words of encouragement, acts, or otherwise). They were not doing anything wrong by simply accepting someone's generosity. That is a human right. And for them to now not be able to receive that money, in that way, because of followers* who felt uncomfortable or more knowledgeable....seems a bit disappointing. Money is something we all need and use, but to try and weigh it out on a scale to make sure no one is getting more than they deserve in your eyes... I feel is more selfish and prideful than anything you all could notice in Mindy. At least just through a screen. You are not a hater and maybe you aren't really a supporter. You can view someone and judge them without feeling personally bad, but you should feel some responsibility for the pain you caused, the sting your words of judgment induced, and for metaphorically, guilting someone into believing (because of your view) they were unworthy or unjustly accepting the present they were just given...even though it was indeed a gift(something you don't have to do anything to deserve). So ending statement:Just because it ended in a way you agreed with.... doesn't mean you actually had the right opinion.
Long time viewer here just wanted to say I absolutely love your channel it has become a place of refuge for me! Whenever I'm sad or just want to pass the time I come hang out with you, Larry, Lexi and Luna 😌 Mindy never forget that you have so many subscribers who genuinely care about you and your happiness! For some of us it doesn't matter what you do we just enjoy getting a glimpse of your life! I hope the negativities of UA-cam don't take your creative spark away ❤️💕 Lots of love 🥰
You put your feelings over very well, dont take any notice of these people, you are a very nice person, Larry and your family are to. You didnt ask for contributions, as you say it was done in kindness of an individual. I love your videos, its good to see Florida, and other people away of life, very different from England, please don't stop filming it's great. Luv Barbara xx
Yasss. Could not agree more. Mindy- You have a beautiful heart. You and Larry are honestly some of the sweetest people. I hope all works out for you both. You deserve to have the family and life you want. People will always hate. People purchase products from influencers or those they recommend. I would see my money much more well spent going toward IVF for someone who brightens my days! You didn't set it up and you didn't beg for money. You did nothing wrong. If people don't like it, they should just move on. Why people feel the need to say such things to anyone, especially someone who is not a close friend/family member, I will never understand. We need more, love, caring, and understanding more than ever. If you don't have anything nice to say, don't say anything.
People are so quick to judge, and spew hate. There is no comparison of little hauls and the cost of IVF. Just know that many of us are like family to you. I for one, am willing to stand with you no matter what. You do you girl. Will forever support you, 100%! Love you, Larry, the kitties, and the whole fam.
I only discovered your channel about two weeks ago but I could tell from the very first video I watched that you and Larry are very kind and genuine people. I find your videos to be very relaxing and so much fun to watch with a cup of tea on the side! What happened recently made me quite sad as I was excited to contribute to something I genuinely support. I can imagine how you must have struggled to pick the camera up after that but I’m very glad you did!!!❤️
Sweet Mindy. 🥰 I found your channel a while back and have literally been binge watching your vlogs... Yes, even Vlogmas! Lol. You and Larry are absolutely freaking amazing, inside and out. Sucha sweet couple! Please never ever let those immature people get to you. Just like you said: “You do YOU boo!” Keep putting smiles on our faces and reaching for your goals. ❤️ Those of us who have fallen in love with you guys are praying for y’all! Thank goodness for notifications, cause I can now keep up with you! Lol. Hope you, Larry, and your sweet fur babies have an amazing weekend! Stay safe! Xoxo from Gunter, TX. 😘
Thank you for being open and honest. You don't hear of a lot of people who do UA-cam be as open and honest as you are, which is very refreshing and appreciated. I love your UA-cam videos, I look forward to watching your videos every week. ❤❤
My Sister Mindy: Because of you: -I excersise -My grocery shopping 🛒 is healthier; even though you are not physically with me; in my heart ♥️ I take you shopping 🛒 😂🤣😂 -I am eating better -Using Native deodorant (had arm pit surgery due to a mass) -Bought a kerguer coffee ☕️ maker🥰🥰 -Go to museums here in PR; -subscribed to Disney channel -try to be patient with hubby😣😖😫😩🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 -Because of you I have done so many amazing things......you are in inspiration to many of us....the rest don’t matter. “Pal carajo los demás “✊🏾🤭❤️🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 Love you guys....God Bless; Jessica...your número uno fan from Puerto Rico 🇵🇷 #lupuspatient #fibromaygialpatien #agegaprelationship20years
Mindy- Reading so many of the positive comments and support you have.....wow how wonderful. You are so brave to do UA-cam in the first place and we all enjoy you bringing us with you on your outings. It’s like hanging with my momma and sissy on our girls day. We just went thrift store shopping and then to Hobby Lobby, Dollar Tree and lunch. We’re all different and it’s ok to agree to disagree on our differences, but respectfully. Supporting each other is so important. Love you and what you represent! Don’t ever change....we got your back!
A wise person once told me...Don’t give control of your emotions to people who don’t matter 😀. You do you girl! Don’t let others bring you down! Sending you hugs!
You are love and light, Mindy, don´t worry about people who are so angry and unhappy that they take it out on you. They have to save themselves, all you can do is take care of yourself and your family. ❤️
I love you Mindy and I enjoy very much watching your videos. Thank you for being open and for sharing your life with us. You are an awesome human being. I’m so happy that you have your beautiful mama who loves you, Larry who adores you, your daddy and grandpapa. And we your fans and viewers love you so much. You do you and ignore the haters. ❤️
I always look forward to your vlogs. "You do you boo" 👏😄 Btw you weren't "taking" from people. You're a giver, we want to give too!! You are such a beautiful person Mindy. I hate that people bully cowardly behind their computer screens. We want to be apart of your journey in many ways. Don't let ignorant people who make it their "job" to bully others bring you down. They are just jealous. Continue living your best life girl, you only get one!! Y.O.L.O. lol. Much love. XOXO 😘
Love how strong u are to say "I AM going to show u what I got from Target despite what people might say" and even acknowledging that decision that your making on camera. Good for you💕
Mindy I think you did an absolutely perfect job opening up to us . I am also a very empathetic person and I take in so much from others. Sometimes I find it hard for my self to release and express my emotion. Thank you for being so transparent. You should be proud of yourself ! You are a bright young adult who I admire. I think I have about 10 years on you !! I watch all your videos and you just give off such a relaxing vibe you put me in my zen place . Keep doing what your doing your supports love you 💗❤️
It allows you to see both sides of the pasture on either sides of the fence. But you cant please everyone mindy. This is you're journey that you're being so sweet to share with us to help and guide others that are in the same boat.
Girlfriend, I wasn't apart of the GofundMe thing and was so confused when the story came out on UA-cam about the apology but when you addressed it and explained it in this video which I felt in my opinion like you shouldn't really of had too but I get where your coming from. People in this world are extremely ignorant and your the most genuine and ❤ loving person I know on UA-cam. Its almost like I know you in real life. I'm hoping I get to meet you one day for sure. But keep smiling 😃 and I'm going to keep watching you. I can't wait for every vlog you post because it feels like I get to watch an extended part of my family. Love you guys! 😘💜💯
As soon as I saw the NYC sweater, I just thought...a very Mindy sweater. Then I saw you buy it...I love collecting clothes from places I have travelled 💗🌍 😂😂
First off some people have too much time on their hands so they channel their frustration through chat rooms, youtube, etc.. I personally enjoy info i get from your channel regarding food. You eat healthy and I have taken some of your meal ideas and tried them myself. I try to extract the positive. I'm a dude so i'm not here for the clothes you picked up today no offense, but what i do get out of your channel is food ideas and a genuine couple who only care about their love for one another. It's like clean air for a change.
Thank you for being you! It’s what I love about your videos. It’s hard not letting people get in your head when you just want everyone to be happy. I deal with it daily and I’m happy your able to push through it.
I dont think any of those people making those comments were truly your viewers. You've gotten me through sooo much just by how honest and positive you've been. I love your channel. I love the hauls and I'd hate for you to feel bad about doing them.
Mindy ignore the haters! As I said in the fertility video comments, I'm someone who is also going through this and the financial set backs, but guess what, I STILL SUPPORTED THE IDEA OF YOU HAVING A GOFUND ME!!!! why??? Because YOU didn't set it up, someone else did out of the kindness of their heart! You DIDNT beg, you openly said "not in the budget now" so for all we know you might have started to cut back on spending because you needed to save up. I Personally never saw it as begging. Just being open, like you always are! And as someone going through it I never thought "ugh, not fair. She's so lucky" I thought "good for them! I'm so happy this will finally happen for them! I can't wait to watch her pregnancy journey, I bet she will be so open about everything during her experience! IGNORE THE NEGATIVES AND FOCUS ON US WHO ARE ALWAYS POSITIVE!!!! I love you all so much! Keep doing what you do!!!!! I love watching EVERY SINGLE VIDEO YOU DO! there's literally never been one that I've said "eh not interested" BRING ON THE FALL HAULS!
@Bella I absolutely believe that as well, most everyone who follows Larry And Mindy are great, loving, caring, giving people. But I, much like Mindy do not like to "take" I'm a giver like her and I would feel as if I do not deserve it and did not earn it. If I had a UA-cam and people sent stuff to a P.O. I'd gladly except gifts. But to just take money I couldn't do it.
@Bella I absolutely agree, I can just understand where she's coming from by not wanting to accept it. Honestly if someone had set me up one I'd feel a bit better accepting it, but I would never create one for myself.
@Bella I didn't say she created it. I know she didn't. And I think if people want to donate (weather she created it or not) is up to those people. If we are "living" a certain way due to job loss or whatever in this "hard" time, then guess what, DONT donate. As simple as that. I simply said I wouldn't create one for myself because you said "I bet if you create one" so I was simply stating I personally wouldn't create one... Because I see that as "asking for money" which I don't believe in, And I personally don't like gofund me, I feel there's better ways to collect donations (but I do think it was so sweet for the person to create it). Like I said before, I believe in earning money. But I in no way see this situation as Larry and mindy having asked for money. But as far as it being "right" or "wrong" that's for each individual to decide. Mindy felt it was wrong so she didn't. I personally would have felt it was morally wrong as well so I wouldn't have. Had she felt it was "right" or "ok" and accepted it she would still have gotten both negative and positive feedback. She did what she felt was the best option for her and her family. I wish Larry and Mindy would have accepted the donations, but they have their reasons not to and while I understand it makes the fans and donators upset everyone needs to respect their decision. If you still want to donate, send something to their P.O. BOX visa gift cards? Baby items (once she's pregnant I'm sure she would love to receive gifts) Everyone please be kind and while it can suck to have people not accept help just respect their decision and let them move on from this! Like I said before BRING ON THE FALL HAULS
@Bella no contradictions.. Yes, if I had fans and one set me up a gofund me I'd feel better about accept it. But no, I'm not a fan of GoFundMe, most people with GoFundMes are begging for money (but in casses like this, it's being used to help someone else) but what I mean by "I don't like it" is I would never set myself one up and there's other ways to make donations to people other than gofundme. Gofundme takes a portion of your money. There's other companies (don't know the names. But I know people who have used them before) that take none of it. But I would also never judge someone for making one. I absolutely believe they deserved that, if people are willing to give then I don't see how someone else has the right to tell them they can't. And no one has the right to tell them not to accept it. And yes the P.O. BOX. Maybe Mindy can state where to send stuff if people are interested. For people who might not know where to send items.❤️
Thank you for being so transparent & vulnerable. I think that is what makes you & your channel unique. The internet can be so toxic at times, please don’t let the negativity bring you down. Wishing you & your family well from Ohio.
Oh, Mindy. I’m so sorry people have been rude about your situation. People NEED groceries. Groceries are a normal thing to spend money on. And if you want to treat yourself occasionally, then do it! Spending few bucks here and there, or even hundreds, is NOT equivalent to $20,000. It’s almost impossible to save $20,000 up just from cutting back on occasionally spending money here and there. While people may have money for groceries or clothes or whatever, it’s not the same as having $20,000 lying around. That’s a lot of money and people should be able to help you out if they want because we all see that you’re a kind, beautiful soul. It shouldn’t of even been an argument. We love you so much, Mindy. We are here for you and appreciate you! I’m sorry you had to go through this, but it’ll make you stronger! XOXO, love
I'm glad that you are very open and honest on your channel because a lot of channels aren't that honest and open on there channels and it's great that you are using your channel to bring joy to people's lives. You are amazing and you have such a great channel and just keep doing what you are doing girl. I hope you have a wonderful day. I enjoy watching your videos and you are amazing .
Hey lady! I love you and Larry and I’m SO proud of you for speaking your piece on what happened. This is YOUR channel and you keep doing your awesome thing. I have to say...I’m not so sure anyone “hates” you. If they are watching and spitting venom, it’s because they are so JEALOUS of you! Some sad people just hate the success of others. Ps...those lip glosses are so pretty! Gettin me some! 😍🥰💗
Hey Mindy....you dropped this 👑 Please don’t stop doing what you love!!! You have an amazing soul and so many people (including myself) watch your videos as an inspiration! You are a queen ❤️
I love you and Larry. Thank you bothfor putting your real selves out there for us. I appreciate you guys so much. I've been watching your vlogs for so long i consider ya'll my family.💖
The only thing I have for social media is youtube I deleted all my social media and it is honestly the best thing Iv ever done it’s been a year since I ever had any it has definitely helped with my anxiety ❤️❤️ you go girl your a great person and make my morning with your videos lol
I rarely comment but just wanted to say I love you guys. I work from home and work has been pretty boring lately and so my UA-cam videos keep me company! So thank you for keeping me company and for being you and always bringing a positive message. It is much needed these days! I also watch thinking, "Could I do that????" And I'm sure there are many others who feel the same way and so again thank you!!
Happy Saturday to one of the greatest and most light giving people in the world!!! I love you, wonderful lady. Wishing you all the best each moment, and I pray you know what a blessing you are! 💗
Do not worry about them mindy! Live your life the best you can.... Life is beautiful....if some are rude, disrespecful....That is not your problem.. Always smile and be joyful! Take care of you and larry baby!
Loved seeing you. You are important, you are beautiful! No one can say you aren’t. You do you, because you rock being you. Hope everything will goes well for you and Larry. It is always lovely to see you happy. I feel as hard as you do, and learning how to deal with others emotions is really hard, but not impossible. Stay yourself, because you are perfect as you are.
What Ive learned in almost 33 years is that you won’t be able to please everyone. There will always be a Wendy Whiner that thinks they can depict your life better than you. People hide behind keyboards and think they are the stuff with handing out opinions when NO ONE asked for them. What your viewer tried to do was a sweet thing, you didn’t ask for that. IVF is FREAKING expensive!!! I know because of people that have gone through it. I’m sorry Target hauls won’t save you enough money for it 😂. I love you Mindy, you shared something with us that you didn’t have to and mean people had to tear you down for it. Keep on being your sun-shinning self 🤗
I think there's a general air of divisiveness and hatred in the air these days. People are looking for someone or something to air whatever their grievances are. It has nothing to do with you personally. It's all about them. Focus on being your authentic self as you have been, all the people that love you, and rock on, baby!❤ When you get older, you see none of this ish matters.
Please please don’t let those kind of people get you down! I love your honesty! Yours and Larry’s vlogs are such a calming presence during these tumultuous times. Take care of those sweet kitty girls and you and Larry. Sending nothing but good vibes!
Some humans are idiots. They hide behind a keyboard, typing things to hurt other humans. They do this because their own lives are horrible, and they need to create conflict in hopes it will give them some attention.
Kelli your so right! And I was telling my sister yesterday that people are getting worse yesturday I was at Walmart I asked the lady to double bag she said NO! Because our bags are made stronger now well my italuan temper surfaced and I told her I just spent 80 bucks and you are going to go nuts over 4 extra bags i told her you either double bag or keep your food she slammed my bananas in the bag and said ridiculous thats when I had enough the mananger was then called and I had to explain about the 4 extra bags he looked at her and said if she wanted 10 bags you give them to her and told her to go on a break! Unbelievable! People can SUCK and i truly don't know what makes them tic!! Hugs sweetie have a beautiful wk.end..☺✌❤👋
Hi Mindy, I've been watching 2 years...sharing your life to the public viewers is not easy to do. You are amazing human being...we are not perfect. I respect who you are and appreciate you sharing your life with us that do care for you🌻. Stay postive focus what you do🌻. Cause haters gonna hate no matter what you do. With ❤ to you and your family.
Sweet, kind, loving Mindy…you are a caring, loving person…which as you said can be good and bad. What you are NOT is a self-center person…every time I watch one of your videos…you make me laugh, smile and feel better about myself. Do not stop being the amazing, kind loving person you are! Sending you, Larry, Lexi & Luna lots of hugs and love. Theresa in FL… PS You did an amazing job addressing the negative comments. 😊
You and Larry do what makes you happy don’t let judge mental people ruin y’all’s happiness you’re real and you don’t have to hide anything!! At least you aren’t going out buying thousands of dollars of designer bags and clothes and millions of dollars of a mansion and crying out for help you inspire me just watching you and Larry I love you guys be you be real and no hold backs!! F the haters
All we need is love and positive vibes here ❤ To all the haters there's no room for you here😊 MINDY we love you coz we can see your beautiful heart you have bless you darling❤ dont worry about the haters 😏
I love your video's Mindy 💕 seeing you and Larry and Lexi and Luna makes me so happy and brings me joy as I love how wonderful you all are. You and you family are so lovely and I love the video's you make. I will always support your channel 💕 sending you all love 💕 x x
I never understood why the haters get so invested in someone they don’t like. It makes no sense?!?! Do they realize they are just making you more popular and paid 🤷🏻♀️🤣 We love you and support you mindy 🥰⚡️
I love all ur hauls! Ur grocery hauls and shopping hauls! & these type of vlogs! Entertaining while being stuck at home 24/7. Pure entertainment! Don’t let those that hate on ur work put you down! Love you minx!
I don't believe in people hating on you, or treating you badly, but I do say that I think the fan overstepped by setting up a GoFundMe. Like you said, it made you anxious. I know she meant well, but idk, it felt weird to me. Needless to say, I love you guys, and your job is to do hauls and show your life and it's okay to spend your money how you want. You are such a great person, ignore the haters. Much love to you!
@@kathleenjamieson1914 I also said I love Mindy and do not believe in people hating in her. The fan overstepped because she didnt know how Mindy would feel, and it made her uncomfortable. It's not me hating on anyone, just me stating that we should just support what Larry and Mindy decide to do. Much love to you and I hope you have a fantastic day!
@@rum4285 Thank you! I try to voice my thoughts in a polite manner. I thought my reply was respectful so thank you for agreeing! Positive vibes from me always ❤❤
Mindy, you are such a strong person. You and Larry are a light in all the darkness these days. I love seeing that you’ve posted new videos when I get off work and I’m exhausted. I grab my snacks and get cozy and watch your videos. Thank you for continuing! ❤️ you are a dork and I love it! The haters will never deserve you! I absolutely love your clean and crisp content. Keep doing you Boo!!! PS being empathetic is hard!!
I understand what you are saying, but allowing people to donate meant that you would take the option of not using a donor. As I mentioned before, since it’s not in your budget, I assume you did not save for this. Take low interest loan out on your home for $20,000. Sell items such as Harry Potter Collections, etc. Put the money from Larry’s UA-cam channel in a savings account since he is retired. Just others ways to consider!
J P Yep! Just save like everyone else has to. Nobody needs that many jumpers, tracksuit pants, clothes etc! I think that’s what got under everyone’s skin! She is extremely materialistic. People don’t begrudge them doing general shopping like groceries and buying a few things, it’s the fact that she makes money from her UA-cam channel, neither of them have to work (indicating they have ample money) and all the rubbish that they buy that makes people wonder why they cry poor! If you want something badly enough you save for it and prioritise your spending. Imagine how much money you could have saved buying only one jumper instead of half a dozen!!
I absolutely love Mindy and would watch her channel regardless. But I must agree on the saving issue. The shopping definitely adds up....coffee mugs, clothes, candles, trips, jewelry...it adds up fast. I’m a nurse who works very hard during COVID and am just trying to put food on the table and find the light at the end of the tunnel. There are some very hard workers out there that are busting their butts . She definitely loves shopping, and there’s NOTHING wrong with that until accepting money from others.
Lisa Layne Agree, even if the items are sponsored, she would be paid for those sponsorships and should have saved some of those funds. Also, the trips to Universal Studios and other trips I would consider excess if you were saving money. I agree that buying stuff & taking trips is normal, but not when you start taking donations or that it’s not in the budget! Thank you for service, being a nurse is hard work, but especially during these times it is physically, mentally and emotionally tough!! Prayers to you & your family! 💕
Comone guys. UA-cam is her full time job-not only 1 hour/week hobby. It takes hours and hours to film and edit. You need to show something that ppl like, something new. Part of the youtube is showing hauls/collections/travels. People like to watch it, thus you have to "invest" to create this content.. Many youtubers invested more than got from UA-cam (only if you really big with big partnerships it brings you money). More money brings partnerships with more "better" brands. To get thier interest, you need to first invest by yourself (and profile your chanel) in even much more expensive brands vs the ones Mindy shows. It is nothing bad, it allows you to focus on what you love-UA-cam. It's the only way to make it goest if you didn't inherit fortune. Mindy I think you should clarify it, becuse seems that people lives in imaginary world.
Hi Mindy. I just want to say that I love you and love your videos/following your journey. I’m following in live time but also watching your old ones currently as well. I am not in an age gap relationship but I want to thank you for being so open and honest. I truly admire that about you and will continue to follow you. Love you so much.
It's so bizarre to me that anyone had an issue with the GoFundMe. 20,000 dollars is a lot of money, and a couple of target hauls aren't going to make any difference. Those that wanted to donate would and those who didn't, didn't have to. It's a shame.
Mindy I love you and your kind heart. It breaks my heart that people can be so cruel and you do not deserve that at all! I’m praying for you and Larry and your future baby! I’m an empath too so I totally understand where you’re coming from! I wish I could give you the biggest hug! You are so so loved Mindy! Not because of what you do or because you please everyone, but because you are authentically you and that’s enough!
Those people must not understand how expensive fertility doctors are! Just because you are a UA-camr people think everyone automatically becomes a millionaire. I hope you cheer up! Virtual Hugs 💕
Mindy, everything you said in your *car therapy* segment is 100% truth. I genuinely can’t comprehend how some people just want to see others be put down. You and I are the same age and I can truly relate to your personality especially with the intent of always wanting to make others happy. I think as we mature we are starting to realize you can’t please everyone no matter how neutral or unproblematic you are. Sharing your life with us is so vulnerable and yet you have welcomed your viewers with open arms. You have such a safe space for us to zone out of what’s going on around us and just enjoy the coffee routine/ kitty moments/ seeing Larry and the rest of the fam and ending the day rewatching a GOT episode or Harry Potter movie haha. If there’s anything to take away from this I hope you view it as a marker that from here on out you just live your life and continue to kill it out there in UA-cam world💛
I'm so sorry that you and Larry were attacked and made to feel badly about living your life....that is horrible. You do not owe anyone any explanation as to why you're purchasing the items that you're picking up. I agree with another viewers comment ...having the $$$ to spend on daily life items and food is WAY different than not having $20,000 laying around to do IVF. You and Larry are such a beautiful, inspiring couple and bring nothing but beauty into our world ❤❤❤
Such a lovely gesture that the person did for you & Larry and so horrible it had to be ruined. I wish you all the best on your baby journey, whatever way it ends up happening. So grateful for what you do share with us. You are both upfront and honest, literally open your front door up to us all. Love your vlogs because they are authentic and not some filtered made up lifestyle. Screw the haters. Everyone send to their po box so it's a personal gift!! Ps, I am in an age gap relationship with children. Definitely understand your journey. Love from a subscriber in New Zealand🇳🇿🙃
There's a huge difference between having the money to go spend $100 at Target and having the money to drop $20,000 on IVF. Just because someone can spend money on clothing and other "non-essential" stuff doesn't mean they can afford something as expensive as IVF.
Mindy everything about u is just amazing your kind, honest, u have 1 of the most beautiful souls I've ever come across ❤ please please don't pay attention to the haters u and Larry are amazing people who have nothing but beautiful intentions i been here since the beginning and im so honored to b apart of ur lives and i know all ur supporters feel the same please just block amd ignore them love u and ur family so so much ❤❤❤
Girl that is what go fund me’s are. They are for people who NEED the help or need assistance. I don’t think you should have deleted it. We would love to be apart of this journey with you and Larry and even pitching in a dollar would make me feel so excited.
This too shall pass. All u can do is just continue being urself and continue living life the way that makes u happy. Love u guys so much and I can honestly say I've never had any negative thoughts towards u at all. Ur always u and I love it💜
I hope this didn’t affect your decision of using a sperm donor. Life pushed you in that direction for a reason, trust your decisions and most of us are here bc we enjoy your content and find joy in the 20 min escape you provide❤️
omg yes mindy!!! literally i love your videos and i look forward to always watching them, they help me out so much and i just always feel so good after watching your videos. just from watching your videos i can tell you’re a beautiful human being and i look up to you so much. no joke you’re literally my role model and yes i know we should all be ourselves and not anybody else but i aspire to be like you 🤍🦋 i wish you and larry luck with everything and i hope you have a really good rest of your day
Just finally got around to finishing this video and your words were really helpful. I had a horrible interaction with a patient at work today and I am also SUCH an empath so it's hard to just brush it off but I think I finished this today because I needed to hear it... Weird how life works sometimes! ❤️
So the viewers who did not support the Go fund me are "haters" (while some may be, I don't agree all are haters) she claims to be an "empath" but is so angry she decided to shut down the Go fund me she lacks the ability to understand why some thought the Go fund me was not morally right.
To be honest I seriously forgot about the Go Fund Me thing💁🏻♀️.. because quite frankly that was said done and resolved in my mind and my enjoyment of watching your videos carried on..☕️ Mindy simplykeep from goin down that road of negative comments and just keep listening to your ❤️! 🌺🌸🌼🌻🌺🌸🌼🌻🌺
Hi Mindy I watch your videos a lot and they definitely give me an escape from my work days. You're so sweet and kind in all your videos. Keep that crown up babe!!!!👑👑
Hi guys! I just want to thank you all for watching. I did want to say when I refer to the term “haters” I’m not referring to those who didn’t support the go fund me or for those who have different opinions from mine. As I stated in the video we can all have a different view or opinion on something and all be right. When I refer to the term “hater” I’m referring to those who say horrible awful things that no one should ever say that aren’t worth repeating. I appreciate and value everyone’s opinion as well as constructive criticism. Xoxo 🤗
Kathleen Jamieson It’s not disrespectful at all. As she said in her video, it didn’t sit right with her and we need to accept that. Mindy is a kind person and maybe she felt bad initially saying no to the GFM. My opinion is that the “fan” overstepped big time in creating the GFM at all without her permission. Any heat that they’re getting is warranted and I don’t feel bad for them. I feel bad for Mindy and the hate she’s gotten over it. I respect her decision.
girl no need to super simplify the meaning of a hater we totally get it and f them haters. we love you!!
We love you,larry and the kitties!!
I’m sorry for what you went thru; people can be so rude. I started a channel last year, it’s been a learning curve as I previously had almost no experience using computers/camera or even social media. Someone left me the comment on one of my videos “THIS IS THE WORST VIDEO I’VE EVER SEEN”. Like, if you hate it so much, keep scrolling... why stop to hurt my feelings? SMH I deleted it because I don’t like the negativity and want to leave that space to be filled with the words that are constructive 🙂
You are loved. Haters need to do bad things to feel better about themselves.
Madonna has a good quote, "If you don't like me, but still watch everything I do, you're a fan!" lol
Love this quote!
Exactly!!!! LOL! Love this! 🙌🏻😂❤️
That is awesome quote!
ha, Sarah that is an appropriate quote here!
@Tolkien!Fan I have read about 5 of your troll comments on here, I hope MIndy bans you
Buying groceries and Target items is so much different than $20,000. There is nothing wrong with people wanting to help others towards their dreams. ☀️💕
Yes! My sister owes 100K and sadly no success
Exactly this!
Amen!! I love this!! 🙌🙌🙌
I was thinking the same thing. They have to buy groceries and personal items. Doesn’t mean they have money laying around. Everyone has to buy that stuff to survive
My thoughts exactly !! I am also going through a TTC journey and my vehicle recently broke (motor blew) so I had to buy a new vehicle. Some people made a comment that I shouldn’t buy it because I need to do IVF. I live in a small northern town in Canada and I need a vehicle to get to work .. so sadly it wasn’t optional. I actually feel so bad Mindy had to feel guilt about this. People from all walks of life deserve help .. in all types of forms. Sending love your way !!
Mindy, remember what Dr Phil said, do not address or change your path because of the haters. You don’t have negative intentions and those who have watched you for a long time, know that. If bullies wanna group together and try to stop good in the world, let them try. You do you girl! I’m proud of you! God bless you and Larry!
Thank you love! We must not forget the wise words of Dr. Phil🤗
You should stop giving the haters your energy. Just block them and move on. Most are not subscribers anyway. Jelousy is a serious disorder. Do you boo!!!
Thank you gorgeous 🥰
I agree, Maxine. As a subscriber, I don’t want to hear anything about the haters. Address them separately or block them. Don’t make the rest of us suffer or you will start losing subscribers.
Maxine Brown great advice👍😊
Oh Mindy those who know you and who have actually followed you from the beginning know that all those negative things aren’t true! It’s so much different than buying things, groceries, doing small hauls then having 20,000$ for IVF! So different. It’s not like your doing hauls from Gucci and high priced brands and then saying you can’t afford it! I definitely understand what’s going on! I love you and I always will your a true soul and someone that doesn’t spread hate into the world 💜💜💜 love you all Mindy&larry&lexi&luna
Wow girl such a true post. Mindy is so sweet. How can people compare groceries and hauls to IVF. People are so rude. Like if 20,000 was so easy to get just like that.
You’re right it’s very different. Thank you for your love & support🥰 We love you too!
Natali Phillips thank you! 🖤
Mindy Minx always... 🖤
This is the perfect comment and she’s 💯 correct!
Reminds me of that quote... “You can be the ripest, juiciest peach in the world and there are still going to be people out there who don’t like peaches.”
I support you Mindy (and Larry!) and I think you’ve handled the situation really well. 💕
I honestly can’t believe people, everyone finds every little thing to send hate. You can’t please everyone. You do you, babygirl! You have those like us who do support you. I love your videos, even if they are sponsored or have ads because I do know this is your job. ❤️
Doing a grocery HAUL or buying clothing is WAY DIFFERENT than just dropping $20,000 for a very trivial procedure! Ppl really just want to judge and be bitter to influencers if they don’t post EXACTLY what that ONE viewer want to post. Be you and stay you Mindy. You are not selfish or being manipulative. You’re being honest and upfront with us. FORGET THE HATERS💖✨☀️
So true. Thanks love🤗
I absolutely love Mindy!!! The truth is...all of those thing like clothes, jewelry, coffee mugs, candles, make-up, and etc etc etc do add up very quickly and she could easily save the money. It’s not like she just very rarely spends money. She loves to shop and there is absolutely NOTHING wrong with that until accepting money from others.
you have no idea how much you help some of us just get through even a moment in a day that feels impossible. I won't go into details but please just trust you've helped someone of us more than you could ever know. please don't ever doubt yourself. hugs.
I’ve been a silent follower for a while but I absolutely love and enjoy watching your videos! One of the biggest reasons I love this channel is because y’all are real and genuine. Don’t let the haters have you doubting yourself. You and Larry are great people!
Mindy, you are such a beautiful person, don’t let these miserable people kill the fire in you.
you are also so beautiful
Follow Up: If anyone seriously thinks they don’t go into Target and buy stuff they don’t necessarily need, they’re kidding themselves. I live in Canada. I’ve gone to Target to buy EVERYTHING I don’t need when I’m in the states. YOU DO YOU.
Thats just shopping in America regardless. Unnecessary purchases have become so many peoples hobbie. Idk I shop for need. Not want. My finances love it too lol
Breanna Simmons preach, girl! Also a Canadian here, and I’ve done the same maaaaaany times. Ok, every time lol.
I love you guys somebody is always going to judge and I always have to get something I love to shop there’s nothing wrong with it
Omg I miss target sooooo much! I wanted to head over the border just to get into target but alas that won’t happen for a while
We all do this. You have to live a little 🙂
This is my happy place. My life is watching four walls, day in, day out from my hospital bed at home. I have chronic illness with chronic damage & pain. Your videos are my escape and that means alot. 💕
I don't normally comment just cause that's not me, but I look at it like this, if you wanna buy whatever you want, then thats 100% fine, it's your money, it's your life, do whatever you want and people just need to get that or just move on, on a lighter note though, I watch every video cause it makes my days better, I get to check out of reality for a little bit while I watch your video, so thank you!❤
I am going to be completely honest. I love you as a UA-camr. The age gap drew me in but the genuine day to day, laughter and positivity kept me coming back. I did not agree with the GofundMe. I did not think you were begging for money(maybe others did), but it just didn't sit right with me and some of us expressed that. No issue with hauls ( in fact I love a grocery haul!) but the fan setting up (with best intentions) created something that, I think, made some of us question why someone, who shows us a comfortable lifestyle, would accept such a large amount from strangers when saving could have been done. I can see that it would have been hard to read and may have been construed as 'hate'. I think it was mainly frustration on the part of viewers who might not have expected the GFM outcome as it happened so quickly after the video. But as you said - you do you!
Thank you love and I completely understand 🤗 Yay haha so happy you love the grocery hauls those are one of my favorites to film. Xoxo thank you and I value your response❤️ Have an awesome weekend
@@MindyMinx same to you and thank you for taking the time to reply. 😊
I agree with everything you said. I really like Mindy’s videos, but the Go Fund Me thing definitely didn’t sit right with many of us non-haters as well. Mindy is CONSTANTLY shopping and going on trips, (which is totally fine and I actually love their trip and haul videos!) but seeing that makes it difficult for viewers to understand why they would need a Go Fund Me set up for them and why they would accept it so quickly. 🤷♀️ It’s clear that if they really wanted to, they could afford to do so on their own. Sure they might have to save for a while or get a loan, but it seems like they could do it if they really wanted to. There are many people truly struggling right now that it just seemed so tacky. This is the issue most of us “haters” had with the whole thing.
@@lacookie292 I think the UA-camr world is a very different place. They see those who adore them and then they see those who don't (constructive or not). I agree with you and it did not sit right with me either. I will continue to watch and 80%+ of what I see I will love, however if something doesn't sit right with me or I feel the need to express myself I will call it out (whether I am 'right' or not). Sadly the world is not all rainbows and I do believe UA-camrs should use their platform for the greater good (calling out the establishment, charities, BLM, progressive change). I would love to see Mindy build the courage to really show what it is to be kind and fight the fight for those who cannot fight it for themselves.
So just a side I feel people aren't considering: The same as a gift is received with gratitude and MUCH EXCITEMENT, by anyone of any statue. I believe everyone deserves the right to some friendly, kind-hearted....gifts. Just like if you were going through life and someone came out of no where and blessed you with $15,000 just because they'd seen your kindness poured out to someone. They were very capable of of blessing you, and wanted deeply to do so... again based off their appreciation for you. Would you refuse the gift simply because you were able to comfortably afford the coffee you drink or home you live in. I honestly don't feel like most people would. Most people would consider that uncommon kindness, but it doesn't make it impossible. Mindy and Larry were in no way begging or hinting at gestures of money (that I feel everyone can agree on). So I feel as though some of you are unwilling to accept that she, like anyone else, should be allowed to feel (ABUNDANT) Love, through gifts (words of encouragement, acts, or otherwise). They were not doing anything wrong by simply accepting someone's generosity. That is a human right. And for them to now not be able to receive that money, in that way, because of followers* who felt uncomfortable or more knowledgeable....seems a bit disappointing. Money is something we all need and use, but to try and weigh it out on a scale to make sure no one is getting more than they deserve in your eyes... I feel is more selfish and prideful than anything you all could notice in Mindy. At least just through a screen. You are not a hater and maybe you aren't really a supporter. You can view someone and judge them without feeling personally bad, but you should feel some responsibility for the pain you caused, the sting your words of judgment induced, and for metaphorically, guilting someone into believing (because of your view) they were unworthy or unjustly accepting the present they were just given...even though it was indeed a gift(something you don't have to do anything to deserve).
So ending statement:Just because it ended in a way you agreed with.... doesn't mean you actually had the right opinion.
Long time viewer here just wanted to say I absolutely love your channel it has become a place of refuge for me! Whenever I'm sad or just want to pass the time I come hang out with you, Larry, Lexi and Luna 😌 Mindy never forget that you have so many subscribers who genuinely care about you and your happiness! For some of us it doesn't matter what you do we just enjoy getting a glimpse of your life! I hope the negativities of UA-cam don't take your creative spark away ❤️💕 Lots of love 🥰
Aw thank you so much love 🥰
This. 👏
You put your feelings over very well, dont take any notice of these people, you are a very nice person, Larry and your family are to. You didnt ask for contributions, as you say it was done in kindness of an individual. I love your videos, its good to see Florida, and other people away of life, very different from England, please don't stop filming it's great. Luv Barbara xx
Mindy is a refuge definitely. I do the same when I'm feeling crap. Watch all the old videos. It's garenteed to make me feel better 🤗
coffee in hand, and watching your vlog!!! best way to start the weekend☺️ Hope you and Larry have a great weekend!!!
Yay! Love it!
Me 2 girlfriend
Yasss. Could not agree more. Mindy- You have a beautiful heart. You and Larry are honestly some of the sweetest people. I hope all works out for you both. You deserve to have the family and life you want. People will always hate. People purchase products from influencers or those they recommend. I would see my money much more well spent going toward IVF for someone who brightens my days! You didn't set it up and you didn't beg for money. You did nothing wrong. If people don't like it, they should just move on. Why people feel the need to say such things to anyone, especially someone who is not a close friend/family member, I will never understand. We need more, love, caring, and understanding more than ever. If you don't have anything nice to say, don't say anything.
People are so quick to judge, and spew hate. There is no comparison of little hauls and the cost of IVF. Just know that many of us are like family to you. I for one, am willing to stand with you no matter what. You do you girl. Will forever support you, 100%!
Love you, Larry, the kitties, and the whole fam.
I only discovered your channel about two weeks ago but I could tell from the very first video I watched that you and Larry are very kind and genuine people. I find your videos to be very relaxing and so much fun to watch with a cup of tea on the side! What happened recently made me quite sad as I was excited to contribute to something I genuinely support. I can imagine how you must have struggled to pick the camera up after that but I’m very glad you did!!!❤️
Sweet Mindy. 🥰 I found your channel a while back and have literally been binge watching your vlogs... Yes, even Vlogmas! Lol. You and Larry are absolutely freaking amazing, inside and out. Sucha sweet couple! Please never ever let those immature people get to you. Just like you said: “You do YOU boo!” Keep putting smiles on our faces and reaching for your goals. ❤️ Those of us who have fallen in love with you guys are praying for y’all! Thank goodness for notifications, cause I can now keep up with you! Lol. Hope you, Larry, and your sweet fur babies have an amazing weekend! Stay safe! Xoxo from Gunter, TX. 😘
Thank you for being open and honest. You don't hear of a lot of people who do UA-cam be as open and honest as you are, which is very refreshing and appreciated. I love your UA-cam videos, I look forward to watching your videos every week. ❤❤
My Sister Mindy:
Because of you:
-I excersise
-My grocery shopping 🛒 is healthier; even though you are not physically with me; in my heart ♥️ I take you shopping 🛒 😂🤣😂
-I am eating better
-Using Native deodorant (had arm pit surgery due to a mass)
-Bought a kerguer coffee ☕️ maker🥰🥰
-Go to museums here in PR;
-subscribed to Disney channel
-try to be patient with hubby😣😖😫😩🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
-Because of you I have done so many amazing things......you are in inspiration to many of us....the rest don’t matter.
“Pal carajo los demás “✊🏾🤭❤️🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Love you guys....God Bless; Jessica...your número uno fan from Puerto Rico 🇵🇷
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This truly melts my heart and helps me realize that I’m making a positive impact 🤗❤️ Thank you so much for sharing this with me❤️ Xoxoxoxo
♥️; pa lante!!!; I will always have your back no matter what!!; keep doing what you do best; just being your amazing self. Te quiero mucho ♥️♥️
This comment is so sweet! It made me smile. God bless you ♥️
Mindy- Reading so many of the positive comments and support you have.....wow how wonderful. You are so brave to do UA-cam in the first place and we all enjoy you bringing us with you on your outings. It’s like hanging with my momma and sissy on our girls day. We just went thrift store shopping and then to Hobby Lobby, Dollar Tree and lunch. We’re all different and it’s ok to agree to disagree on our differences, but respectfully. Supporting each other is so important. Love you and what you represent! Don’t ever change....we got your back!
A wise person once told me...Don’t give control of your emotions to people who don’t matter 😀. You do you girl! Don’t let others bring you down! Sending you hugs!
I'm so glad you are on UA-cam, Mindy. After a stressful day, I love watching you and Larry. ❤️❤️❤️
I’m with the majority of people- I want to see you and Larry happy and succeed! 💗💗💗
You are love and light, Mindy, don´t worry about people who are so angry and unhappy that they take it out on you. They have to save themselves, all you can do is take care of yourself and your family. ❤️
To the person reading this:
You're amazing, stay blessed, stay safe and have an amazing rest of your day! - From a small UA-camr!
I love you Mindy and I enjoy very much watching your videos. Thank you for being open and for sharing your life with us. You are an awesome human being. I’m so happy that you have your beautiful mama who loves you, Larry who adores you, your daddy and grandpapa. And we your fans and viewers love you so much. You do you and ignore the haters. ❤️
I always look forward to your vlogs. "You do you boo" 👏😄
Btw you weren't "taking" from people. You're a giver, we want to give too!! You are such a beautiful person Mindy. I hate that people bully cowardly behind their computer screens. We want to be apart of your journey in many ways. Don't let ignorant people who make it their "job" to bully others bring you down. They are just jealous. Continue living your best life girl, you only get one!! Y.O.L.O. lol. Much love. XOXO 😘
Love how strong u are to say "I AM going to show u what I got from Target despite what people might say" and even acknowledging that decision that your making on camera. Good for you💕
Your laugh when it "touched your brain" lmao.
Mindy I think you did an absolutely perfect job opening up to us . I am also a very empathetic person and I take in so much from others. Sometimes I find it hard for my self to release and express my emotion. Thank you for being so transparent. You should be proud of yourself ! You are a bright young adult who I admire. I think I have about 10 years on you !! I watch all your videos and you just give off such a relaxing vibe you put me in my zen place . Keep doing what your doing your supports love you 💗❤️
You can buy and spend your money wherever you want. People are idiots
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It allows you to see both sides of the pasture on either sides of the fence. But you cant please everyone mindy. This is you're journey that you're being so sweet to share with us to help and guide others that are in the same boat.
Girlfriend, I wasn't apart of the GofundMe thing and was so confused when the story came out on UA-cam about the apology but when you addressed it and explained it in this video which I felt in my opinion like you shouldn't really of had too but I get where your coming from. People in this world are extremely ignorant and your the most genuine and ❤ loving person I know on UA-cam. Its almost like I know you in real life. I'm hoping I get to meet you one day for sure. But keep smiling 😃 and I'm going to keep watching you. I can't wait for every vlog you post because it feels like I get to watch an extended part of my family. Love you guys! 😘💜💯
Thanks love! I hope you have a great weekend🤗
As soon as I saw the NYC sweater, I just thought...a very Mindy sweater. Then I saw you buy it...I love collecting clothes from places I have travelled 💗🌍 😂😂
First off some people have too much time on their hands so they channel their frustration through chat rooms, youtube, etc.. I personally enjoy info i get from your channel regarding food. You eat healthy and I have taken some of your meal ideas and tried them myself. I try to extract the positive. I'm a dude so i'm not here for the clothes you picked up today no offense, but what i do get out of your channel is food ideas and a genuine couple who only care about their love for one another. It's like clean air for a change.
Aw you’re so kind. Thank you🤗
Thank you for being you! It’s what I love about your videos. It’s hard not letting people get in your head when you just want everyone to be happy. I deal with it daily and I’m happy your able to push through it.
I dont think any of those people making those comments were truly your viewers. You've gotten me through sooo much just by how honest and positive you've been. I love your channel. I love the hauls and I'd hate for you to feel bad about doing them.
Having my morning cofee☕️ and watching You is one of my favorite things to do on weekends. you're a beautiful person inside and out🤍✨👑
Mindy ignore the haters!
As I said in the fertility video comments, I'm someone who is also going through this and the financial set backs, but guess what, I STILL SUPPORTED THE IDEA OF YOU HAVING A GOFUND ME!!!! why??? Because YOU didn't set it up, someone else did out of the kindness of their heart! You DIDNT beg, you openly said "not in the budget now" so for all we know you might have started to cut back on spending because you needed to save up. I Personally never saw it as begging. Just being open, like you always are! And as someone going through it I never thought "ugh, not fair. She's so lucky" I thought "good for them! I'm so happy this will finally happen for them! I can't wait to watch her pregnancy journey, I bet she will be so open about everything during her experience!
IGNORE THE NEGATIVES AND FOCUS ON US WHO ARE ALWAYS POSITIVE!!!!
I love you all so much! Keep doing what you do!!!!! I love watching EVERY SINGLE VIDEO YOU DO! there's literally never been one that I've said "eh not interested" BRING ON THE FALL HAULS!
@Bella I absolutely believe that as well, most everyone who follows Larry And Mindy are great, loving, caring, giving people. But I, much like Mindy do not like to "take" I'm a giver like her and I would feel as if I do not deserve it and did not earn it.
If I had a UA-cam and people sent stuff to a P.O. I'd gladly except gifts. But to just take money I couldn't do it.
@Bella I absolutely agree, I can just understand where she's coming from by not wanting to accept it.
Honestly if someone had set me up one I'd feel a bit better accepting it, but I would never create one for myself.
YES!!!!😁
Added: BRING ON THE FALL HAULS!!
@Bella I didn't say she created it. I know she didn't. And I think if people want to donate (weather she created it or not) is up to those people. If we are "living" a certain way due to job loss or whatever in this "hard" time, then guess what, DONT donate. As simple as that.
I simply said I wouldn't create one for myself because you said "I bet if you create one" so I was simply stating I personally wouldn't create one... Because I see that as "asking for money" which I don't believe in, And I personally don't like gofund me, I feel there's better ways to collect donations (but I do think it was so sweet for the person to create it). Like I said before, I believe in earning money. But I in no way see this situation as Larry and mindy having asked for money. But as far as it being "right" or "wrong" that's for each individual to decide.
Mindy felt it was wrong so she didn't. I personally would have felt it was morally wrong as well so I wouldn't have.
Had she felt it was "right" or "ok" and accepted it she would still have gotten both negative and positive feedback. She did what she felt was the best option for her and her family.
I wish Larry and Mindy would have accepted the donations, but they have their reasons not to and while I understand it makes the fans and donators upset everyone needs to respect their decision.
If you still want to donate, send something to their P.O. BOX visa gift cards? Baby items (once she's pregnant I'm sure she would love to receive gifts)
Everyone please be kind and while it can suck to have people not accept help just respect their decision and let them move on from this!
Like I said before
BRING ON THE FALL HAULS
@Bella no contradictions..
Yes, if I had fans and one set me up a gofund me I'd feel better about accept it.
But no, I'm not a fan of GoFundMe, most people with GoFundMes are begging for money (but in casses like this, it's being used to help someone else) but what I mean by "I don't like it" is I would never set myself one up and there's other ways to make donations to people other than gofundme. Gofundme takes a portion of your money. There's other companies (don't know the names. But I know people who have used them before) that take none of it. But I would also never judge someone for making one.
I absolutely believe they deserved that, if people are willing to give then I don't see how someone else has the right to tell them they can't. And no one has the right to tell them not to accept it.
And yes the P.O. BOX. Maybe Mindy can state where to send stuff if people are interested. For people who might not know where to send items.❤️
Thank you for being so transparent & vulnerable. I think that is what makes you & your channel unique. The internet can be so toxic at times, please don’t let the negativity bring you down. Wishing you & your family well from Ohio.
Oh, Mindy. I’m so sorry people have been rude about your situation. People NEED groceries. Groceries are a normal thing to spend money on. And if you want to treat yourself occasionally, then do it! Spending few bucks here and there, or even hundreds, is NOT equivalent to $20,000. It’s almost impossible to save $20,000 up just from cutting back on occasionally spending money here and there. While people may have money for groceries or clothes or whatever, it’s not the same as having $20,000 lying around. That’s a lot of money and people should be able to help you out if they want because we all see that you’re a kind, beautiful soul. It shouldn’t of even been an argument. We love you so much, Mindy. We are here for you and appreciate you! I’m sorry you had to go through this, but it’ll make you stronger! XOXO, love
I'm glad that you are very open and honest on your channel because a lot of channels aren't that honest and open on there channels and it's great that you are using your channel to bring joy to people's lives. You are amazing and you have such a great channel and just keep doing what you are doing girl. I hope you have a wonderful day. I enjoy watching your videos and you are amazing .
Hey lady! I love you and Larry and I’m SO proud of you for speaking your piece on what happened. This is YOUR channel and you keep doing your awesome thing. I have to say...I’m not so sure anyone “hates” you. If they are watching and spitting venom, it’s because they are so JEALOUS of you! Some sad people just hate the success of others. Ps...those lip glosses are so pretty! Gettin me some! 😍🥰💗
Hey Mindy....you dropped this 👑
Please don’t stop doing what you love!!! You have an amazing soul and so many people (including myself) watch your videos as an inspiration!
You are a queen ❤️
You’re such a beautiful human inside and out! ♥️
I love you and Larry. Thank you bothfor putting your real selves out there for us. I appreciate you guys so much. I've been watching your vlogs for so long i consider ya'll my family.💖
The only thing I have for social media is youtube I deleted all my social media and it is honestly the best thing Iv ever done it’s been a year since I ever had any it has definitely helped with my anxiety ❤️❤️ you go girl your a great person and make my morning with your videos lol
I only have UA-cam too! I dont think I know of anyone else who doesn't have other social media. Good for you!
I rarely comment but just wanted to say I love you guys. I work from home and work has been pretty boring lately and so my UA-cam videos keep me company! So thank you for keeping me company and for being you and always bringing a positive message. It is much needed these days! I also watch thinking, "Could I do that????" And I'm sure there are many others who feel the same way and so again thank you!!
Happy Saturday to one of the greatest and most light giving people in the world!!! I love you, wonderful lady. Wishing you all the best each moment, and I pray you know what a blessing you are! 💗
Aw thank you love! Happy Saturday!
Do not worry about them mindy!
Live your life the best you can....
Life is beautiful....if some are rude, disrespecful....That is not your problem..
Always smile and be joyful!
Take care of you and larry baby!
It’s tough to be am empath. We really have to guard ourselves. This was tough to watch to see that you are hurting. Love ya ❤️
Loved seeing you. You are important, you are beautiful! No one can say you aren’t. You do you, because you rock being you. Hope everything will goes well for you and Larry. It is always lovely to see you happy. I feel as hard as you do, and learning how to deal with others emotions is really hard, but not impossible. Stay yourself, because you are perfect as you are.
What Ive learned in almost 33 years is that you won’t be able to please everyone. There will always be a Wendy Whiner that thinks they can depict your life better than you. People hide behind keyboards and think they are the stuff with handing out opinions when NO ONE asked for them. What your viewer tried to do was a sweet thing, you didn’t ask for that. IVF is FREAKING expensive!!! I know because of people that have gone through it. I’m sorry Target hauls won’t save you enough money for it 😂. I love you Mindy, you shared something with us that you didn’t have to and mean people had to tear you down for it. Keep on being your sun-shinning self 🤗
So thankful to have you Mindy Larry Lexi Luna and family in my life. Please just continue being the Beautiful person you are. Love you guys xxxx
I think there's a general air of divisiveness and hatred in the air these days. People are looking for someone or something to air whatever their grievances are. It has nothing to do with you personally. It's all about them. Focus on being your authentic self as you have been, all the people that love you, and rock on, baby!❤ When you get older, you see none of this ish matters.
Please please don’t let those kind of people get you down! I love your honesty! Yours and Larry’s vlogs are such a calming presence during these tumultuous times. Take care of those sweet kitty girls and you and Larry. Sending nothing but good vibes!
Some humans are idiots. They hide behind a keyboard, typing things to hurt other humans. They do this because their own lives are horrible, and they need to create conflict in hopes it will give them some attention.
Kelli your so right! And I was telling my sister yesterday that people are getting worse yesturday I was at Walmart I asked the lady to double bag she said NO! Because our bags are made stronger now well my italuan temper surfaced and I told her I just spent 80 bucks and you are going to go nuts over 4 extra bags i told her you either double bag or keep your food she slammed my bananas in the bag and said ridiculous thats when I had enough the mananger was then called and I had to explain about the 4 extra bags he looked at her and said if she wanted 10 bags you give them to her and told her to go on a break! Unbelievable! People can SUCK and i truly don't know what makes them tic!! Hugs sweetie have a beautiful wk.end..☺✌❤👋
That is so true!!
Camille Oestreich, that was unbelievable...I’m so glad you got a manager and he spoke to her that way. That was a great manager to say that!
Hi Mindy, I've been watching 2 years...sharing your life to the public viewers is not easy to do. You are amazing human being...we are not perfect. I respect who you are and appreciate you sharing your life with us that do care for you🌻. Stay postive focus what you do🌻. Cause haters gonna hate no matter what you do. With ❤ to you and your family.
You’re such a sweetheart Mindy and didn’t deserve any of that ❤️
Sweet, kind, loving Mindy…you are a caring, loving person…which as you said can be good and bad. What you are NOT is a self-center person…every time I watch one of your videos…you make me laugh, smile and feel better about myself. Do not stop being the amazing, kind loving person you are! Sending you, Larry, Lexi & Luna lots of hugs and love. Theresa in FL… PS You did an amazing job addressing the negative comments. 😊
You and Larry do what makes you happy don’t let judge mental people ruin y’all’s happiness you’re real and you don’t have to hide anything!! At least you aren’t going out buying thousands of dollars of designer bags and clothes and millions of dollars of a mansion and crying out for help you inspire me just watching you and Larry I love you guys be you be real and no hold backs!! F the haters
You do you baby boo 😘 I do watch your videos to de-stress, you and Larry are so peaceful to watch. Blessings! ❤️
All we need is love and positive vibes here ❤
To all the haters there's no room for you here😊
MINDY we love you coz we can see your beautiful heart you have bless you darling❤ dont worry about the haters 😏
I love your video's Mindy 💕 seeing you and Larry and Lexi and Luna makes me so happy and brings me joy as I love how wonderful you all are. You and you family are so lovely and I love the video's you make. I will always support your channel 💕 sending you all love 💕 x x
I never understood why the haters get so invested in someone they don’t like. It makes no sense?!?! Do they realize they are just making you more popular and paid 🤷🏻♀️🤣
We love you and support you mindy 🥰⚡️
You are a beautiful person Mindy and you don’t need to explain anything to anyone! Keep being you and don’t change for anyone! ❤️
"This is an unnecessary purchase, did I need it? No did I buy it? Yes" 🤣🤣 I love a good sarcastic comment to haters.
Loved the bit about the laundry detergent! 😂. I actually did LOL!!!! Hilarious 🤣
I love all ur hauls! Ur grocery hauls and shopping hauls! & these type of vlogs! Entertaining while being stuck at home 24/7. Pure entertainment! Don’t let those that hate on ur work put you down! Love you minx!
Idk why people think a target haul is equivalent to an ivf treatment. You do you Mindy, I love a good haul. ❤
I think those “haters” are SO jealous of Mindy. It’s pathetic. She’s the sweetest person ever
Jessica pure ignorance from people. We spent close to 100,000 on IVF treatment isn’t cheap.
People are flat out rediculous!! You two are real, raw and honest! We need more of that in this world. Keep on keepin on..You do you boo!! 😊
I don't believe in people hating on you, or treating you badly, but I do say that I think the fan overstepped by setting up a GoFundMe. Like you said, it made you anxious. I know she meant well, but idk, it felt weird to me. Needless to say, I love you guys, and your job is to do hauls and show your life and it's okay to spend your money how you want. You are such a great person, ignore the haters. Much love to you!
@@kathleenjamieson1914 I mean.. you're the one who responded to me in a cruel way, so maybe you should grow up? I stand by what I said.
@@kathleenjamieson1914 I also said I love Mindy and do not believe in people hating in her. The fan overstepped because she didnt know how Mindy would feel, and it made her uncomfortable. It's not me hating on anyone, just me stating that we should just support what Larry and Mindy decide to do. Much love to you and I hope you have a fantastic day!
Absolutely this! Well said Caitlin👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻
@@rum4285 Thank you! I try to voice my thoughts in a polite manner. I thought my reply was respectful so thank you for agreeing! Positive vibes from me always ❤❤
Mindy, you are such a strong person. You and Larry are a light in all the darkness these days. I love seeing that you’ve posted new videos when I get off work and I’m exhausted. I grab my snacks and get cozy and watch your videos.
Thank you for continuing! ❤️ you are a dork and I love it! The haters will never deserve you!
I absolutely love your clean and crisp content.
Keep doing you Boo!!!
PS being empathetic is hard!!
I understand what you are saying, but allowing people to donate meant that you would take the option of not using a donor. As I mentioned before, since it’s not in your budget, I assume you did not save for this. Take low interest loan out on your home for $20,000. Sell items such as Harry Potter Collections, etc. Put the money from Larry’s UA-cam channel in a savings account since he is retired. Just others ways to consider!
J P Yep! Just save like everyone else has to. Nobody needs that many jumpers, tracksuit pants, clothes etc! I think that’s what got under everyone’s skin! She is extremely materialistic. People don’t begrudge them doing general shopping like groceries and buying a few things, it’s the fact that she makes money from her UA-cam channel, neither of them have to work (indicating they have ample money) and all the rubbish that they buy that makes people wonder why they cry poor! If you want something badly enough you save for it and prioritise your spending. Imagine how much money you could have saved buying only one jumper instead of half a dozen!!
I absolutely love Mindy and would watch her channel regardless. But I must agree on the saving issue. The shopping definitely adds up....coffee mugs, clothes, candles, trips, jewelry...it adds up fast. I’m a nurse who works very hard during COVID and am just trying to put food on the table and find the light at the end of the tunnel. There are some very hard workers out there that are busting their butts . She definitely loves shopping, and there’s NOTHING wrong with that until accepting money from others.
Lisa Layne Agree, even if the items are sponsored, she would be paid for those sponsorships and should have saved some of those funds. Also, the trips to Universal Studios and other trips I would consider excess if you were saving money. I agree that buying stuff & taking trips is normal, but not when you start taking donations or that it’s not in the budget! Thank you for service, being a nurse is hard work, but especially during these times it is physically, mentally and emotionally tough!! Prayers to you & your family! 💕
Comone guys. UA-cam is her full time job-not only 1 hour/week hobby. It takes hours and hours to film and edit. You need to show something that ppl like, something new. Part of the youtube is showing hauls/collections/travels. People like to watch it, thus you have to "invest" to create this content.. Many youtubers invested more than got from UA-cam (only if you really big with big partnerships it brings you money). More money brings partnerships with more "better" brands. To get thier interest, you need to first invest by yourself (and profile your chanel) in even much more expensive brands vs the ones Mindy shows. It is nothing bad, it allows you to focus on what you love-UA-cam. It's the only way to make it goest if you didn't inherit fortune. Mindy I think you should clarify it, becuse seems that people lives in imaginary world.
Magdalena Z LOL
Hi Mindy. I just want to say that I love you and love your videos/following your journey. I’m following in live time but also watching your old ones currently as well. I am not in an age gap relationship but I want to thank you for being so open and honest. I truly admire that about you and will continue to follow you. Love you so much.
It's so bizarre to me that anyone had an issue with the GoFundMe. 20,000 dollars is a lot of money, and a couple of target hauls aren't going to make any difference. Those that wanted to donate would and those who didn't, didn't have to. It's a shame.
Mindy I love you and your kind heart. It breaks my heart that people can be so cruel and you do not deserve that at all! I’m praying for you and Larry and your future baby! I’m an empath too so I totally understand where you’re coming from! I wish I could give you the biggest hug! You are so so loved Mindy! Not because of what you do or because you please everyone, but because you are authentically you and that’s enough!
Those people must not understand how expensive fertility doctors are! Just because you are a UA-camr people think everyone automatically becomes a millionaire. I hope you cheer up! Virtual Hugs 💕
Mindy, everything you said in your *car therapy* segment is 100% truth. I genuinely can’t comprehend how some people just want to see others be put down.
You and I are the same age and I can truly relate to your personality especially with the intent of always wanting to make others happy. I think as we mature we are starting to realize you can’t please everyone no matter how neutral or unproblematic you are.
Sharing your life with us is so vulnerable and yet you have welcomed your viewers with open arms. You have such a safe space for us to zone out of what’s going on around us and just enjoy the coffee routine/ kitty moments/ seeing Larry and the rest of the fam and ending the day rewatching a GOT episode or Harry Potter movie haha.
If there’s anything to take away from this I hope you view it as a marker that from here on out you just live your life and continue to kill it out there in UA-cam world💛
I'm so sorry that you and Larry were attacked and made to feel badly about living your life....that is horrible. You do not owe anyone any explanation as to why you're purchasing the items that you're picking up. I agree with another viewers comment ...having the $$$ to spend on daily life items and food is WAY different than not having $20,000 laying around to do IVF.
You and Larry are such a beautiful, inspiring couple and bring nothing but beauty into our world ❤❤❤
Yessss!! 💜
Such a lovely gesture that the person did for you & Larry and so horrible it had to be ruined. I wish you all the best on your baby journey, whatever way it ends up happening.
So grateful for what you do share with us. You are both upfront and honest, literally open your front door up to us all. Love your vlogs because they are authentic and not some filtered made up lifestyle.
Screw the haters. Everyone send to their po box so it's a personal gift!!
Ps, I am in an age gap relationship with children. Definitely understand your journey.
Love from a subscriber in New Zealand🇳🇿🙃
There's a huge difference between having the money to go spend $100 at Target and having the money to drop $20,000 on IVF. Just because someone can spend money on clothing and other "non-essential" stuff doesn't mean they can afford something as expensive as IVF.
Yes! There is a HUGE difference. I think people also don't realize 20,000 covers 1 round of IVF. Its sad how judgey people are.
I think people also think IVF= instant baby and it’s just not true. At best it’s a 60-70% chance of success
Mindy everything about u is just amazing your kind, honest, u have 1 of the most beautiful souls I've ever come across ❤ please please don't pay attention to the haters u and Larry are amazing people who have nothing but beautiful intentions i been here since the beginning and im so honored to b apart of ur lives and i know all ur supporters feel the same please just block amd ignore them love u and ur family so so much ❤❤❤
Girl that is what go fund me’s are. They are for people who NEED the help or need assistance. I don’t think you should have deleted it. We would love to be apart of this journey with you and Larry and even pitching in a dollar would make me feel so excited.
This too shall pass. All u can do is just continue being urself and continue living life the way that makes u happy. Love u guys so much and I can honestly say I've never had any negative thoughts towards u at all. Ur always u and I love it💜
I hope this didn’t affect your decision of using a sperm donor. Life pushed you in that direction for a reason, trust your decisions and most of us are here bc we enjoy your content and find joy in the 20 min escape you provide❤️
omg yes mindy!!! literally i love your videos and i look forward to always watching them, they help me out so much and i just always feel so good after watching your videos. just from watching your videos i can tell you’re a beautiful human being and i look up to you so much. no joke you’re literally my role model and yes i know we should all be ourselves and not anybody else but i aspire to be like you 🤍🦋 i wish you and larry luck with everything and i hope you have a really good rest of your day
I’m having my morning coffee with you ❤️❤️
Yay! ☕️☕️☕️
I love you guys and watch you all the time,I wish you both a great journey and will keep praying for the Best❤
Baby girl leave them.....no send them like we Nigerians say. You lovely God is gotta answer your prayers.
Just finally got around to finishing this video and your words were really helpful. I had a horrible interaction with a patient at work today and I am also SUCH an empath so it's hard to just brush it off but I think I finished this today because I needed to hear it... Weird how life works sometimes! ❤️
When you get pregnant just know your going to get alot of cute things definitely from me your blessed mindy we all love you:)
We respect all your decisions Mindy. Like you said in this video it’s one life live your way. Wishing you all the happiness in the world.
So the viewers who did not support the Go fund me are "haters" (while some may be, I don't agree all are haters) she claims to be an "empath" but is so angry she decided to shut down the Go fund me she lacks the ability to understand why some thought the Go fund me was not morally right.
You are great person Mindy , and I wish you all the best ! I have been following you for a while , and I enjoy your videos very much . ♥️
To be honest I seriously forgot about the Go Fund Me thing💁🏻♀️.. because quite frankly that was said done and resolved in my mind and my enjoyment of watching your videos carried on..☕️
Mindy simplykeep from goin down that road of negative comments and just keep listening to your ❤️!
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Hi Mindy I watch your videos a lot and they definitely give me an escape from my work days. You're so sweet and kind in all your videos. Keep that crown up babe!!!!👑👑