How to Deal with Judgmental People & Criticism | Isabel Palacios
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- Опубліковано 27 лип 2024
- Today's video is about handling criticism, dealing with judgmental people, and just negative people in general. It's taken me years to grow a thick skin, and I have a different way of handling criticism and negativity thanks to years of dealing with negativity in my life. We forget that the ones who judge us have the same, if not more, faults than us. We can free ourselves from the opinions, judgments, and criticisms of those that wish to harm us. It's hard to just be yourself, do what we want, and be true to ourselves because society has conditioned us to care and value the opinions of others. We have this idea that others know more about us than we do. That is wrong. The only opinion of you that should matter is YOURS. Love you all so very much!
Summary:
1) Take nothing personally
2) Stay calm
3) Accept that you will not please everyone
4) The ones that judge you are human too
5) We can't control others but we can control ourselves
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Great video. 🙂 If someone hates on you, you have something they want but do not currently have. I love it if I get hated on, because it means I’m doing something right. A fundamental principle of the Law Of Attraction is to raise others up, and to be happy for what others have which we don’t currently have; when we are happy for what others have which we don’t, we communicate to our subconscious that we love success - and so we raise up. Those who put others down or hate for no reason communicate to their subconscious that success is bad, so their brain doesn’t give them the commands to carry out the actions to be successful; therefore, they stay where they are. Society tells us to be in a scarcity mindset and hate on others who are happy and doing well; but we have to be happy for others, as this communicates abundance to ourselves and the Universe. Keep up the awesome videos. ⭐️
Absolutely love this!
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Negative judgement comes from unhappiness, insecurities or lack of understanding. You can’t take any of those personally. 😌
Exactly!
Absolutely not! 💕
Zayda Cortez Thats Right !! It’s has nothing to do with us. It only projects their low self-esteem. 💕
yes, so much spicy, so much pain
@@F0reverblessed thats right how people treat you is about them how we react is about us.
I cried listening to this..
this is everything I’m going though right now at work. It’s a horrible feeling when all you do is help and have compassion and a huge heart and people just want to bring you down .. this give me peace of mind and bring peace to my heart.
Sometimes you just need someone to understand and have empathy.
Thank you ❤️
Natalie Godoy 💕 It’s soo bad that regardless of how good we are to other, they’ll continue to be themselves. Be yourself !
if you have this problem i promise you your doing everything right❤️ the other people have problems with themselves and are jealous if your abilities❤️
♥️I agree 100%
Haters are my biggest fans 😂, when they hate and talk bad. They're just punishing themselves and hurting their own hearts. So just stay calm and protect your energy 😁😁
Staying calm and forgiving people are POWERFUL. I can't tell you how many situations that I've been where people come to me with rage and leave more at peace.
Once a coworker came up and spit in my face and said she wanted to fight me, I wiped my face and calmly asked why she was upset and if she was okay. She seemed shocked and proceeded to calm down. Turned out she had heard a false rumour. If I had clapped back, like I may have in the past, I could have created a bigger issue and not found out there was someone making up stories about me. She became a good friend after that too.😊
Holly B Hats off to you! 💕
Wow
You are a phenomenal woman! I am so grateful to have come across your channel!!! You have definitely helped me on my journey to a better me! I love you so much!!🤗🤗
Thank you Deona!! That means the world to me. Love you!
Thank you Isabel. Being low key bullied by a group of people i thought were my friends and im usually such a positive bubbly person so the timing of this video was perfect for me x
Loulaa There’s nothing wrong with you!! They are the ones conflicted! Surround yourself with people that elevate and support you. 🤗💕
Thought it was only me who experienced this. Now I have no friends haha 🤣 maybe I’m just an easy target to borderline bully.
Miss Porteousxx Bullies want to make themselves feel good. It has nothing to do with you! Find new friends that elevator you! 💕
U need to remove them from your contacts and also from all your social media. Try to detach from them as much as possible
This is EXACTLY what i needed today. i'm ready to work on ME to not let everyone eLSE bother ME. I'm stronger than that. i'll be like oil, and they'll be like water. the judgment will slip right off without me even trying. THANK YOU!!
This video has came at the best time. I’ve been struggling with my people pleasing and trying to stop and not care what other think
Watching your videos literally stop me from taking my life and starting to love myself. Over and over people like this destroy me to the point of depression and anxiety when I didn't have no self esteem anyhow. For the first time I'm actually excited about moving on from my ex who try to destroy me as well as others. Only 16, I'm grateful for people like you. From my loving soul I want to say thank you. You just save a life! 💯💯
Girl, you just don't know how much I needed this! Thank you so much. All love and positive vibes from me to you.
I needed this. My parents shut down my passions and dreams and I cried so much. It made me even more sad because my dad would be so supportive of my creative passions but all of a sudden switched on me and told me I can be happy and make money at the same time. Having Narcissistic parents is hard. Thank you Isabel ✨
Janae Olivia ooo yes those Narcissist are such toxic people
Fisk your passion again. And do what makes you happy!! It’s ok for you to selfish sometimes ! Much success to you! 💕
❤️I agree 100%. I hate narcissistic people. My parents are.
I always remind myself that negative judgement and and criticism comes from a place of lack. I remind myself that I am not aware of what someone else is going through, and that their comments or actions are only a reflection of themselves. This keeps me going. Happy people will want to express nothing but love and positivity! Thank you for another amazing video! ❤✨ I'd love to see a video on your tips and tricks on eliminating overthinking (when it comes to relationships, bad experiences, etc.).
It is Good to be calm. But sometimes it is also good to express your feelings in a creative way..use your Words and show them who not to mess with or say something really smart to make them think the next time they are about say/do something stupid.
Agreed, but you can still express yourself and stay calm! I just think it's important to think before acting and saying something that will only escalate the situation. Stay calm and stand your ground. Most people attack because they want to illicit a reaction or bring you down. It's better not to feed into it!
Agreed. Sometimes you need to put your foot down. You can be calm and say no too.
I agree with you! 💕 Finding a better way to express yourself, shows growth on your behalf.
I can’t tell you how much I’ve been trying to protect my energy from negative peopel😑❤️
Ankita Nigam Don’t stop. Remember they don’t know you like you know yourself. The more you do it, the more natural it becomes. 💕
Ankita Nigam Just stay positive. Block them out of your life. If you have to let them go let them go.
chelsie romero I agree!
Opinions are like #*&% , everyone has one. It's so true! But as long as the opinions are based in fact and logic it's an intelligent and good opinion. Problem is, very few people have intelligent opinions.
Am going through a really tough work situation at the moment and this was absolutely perfect timing. Thank you 🙏💕
THANK YOU SOOO MUCH gorgeous!!! I NEEDED this!!!! literally seconds before i watched your video i was crying my eyes out because of negative comments/criticism and non support from my family. i love you! you have thee most beautiful soul and the best energy! you’re a phenomenal woman and i hope you never ever let anyone dim your perfect, glorious light!!! i consistently thank the universe for you in my gratitude journal 🧡🧡🧡
I thinking knowing that those same people who judge you are the same ones that will congratulate you when you succeed keeps me going. I love you Isabel!
TRUTH!
& it’s very likely they may want to follow your steps !! 💕
D.E.Y.A YAASS GIRL
You are such a good treat. Food for eye and soul, to be accurate. You look so good in yellow dress and pink makeup. You always slay in pink.
that skull in the back looks like voodoo though xD i need your shelf tour video too xD
Aww that is so sweet, thank you! And regarding the sugar skull.. it's literally Halloween decor from Target! hahhaa.. no voodoo here lmao
Isabel Palacios haha im sure it isnt. I love that unicorn.🌈 and YOU💙 thank you for replying, keep slaying ✨
Thank you so much for this! ❤ I am surrounded by too many people who try to tell me what to do (they are extremely judgmental and give such bad advice). I'm thankful that I have the wisdom to not do what they tell me to do, but it is still very uncomfortable. You just validated every one of my thoughts and feelings.
Valerie Murdock Great Job in not allowing their negativity become your reality !! Keep it up. You got this!!! 💕
D.E.Y.A Thank you so much! ❤
Valerie Murdock you are living in my shoes. Just stay positive and focus on yourself. Get involved in self care routines such as yoga, meditating saying positive affirmations etc.
I just want to say thank you! I found you in December of last year during a deep depression. Since then, I have learned to love every part of myself. The good and the bad. You have both taught me and inspired me to reach for my goals and be the best version I can. You have also taught me to focus on the good and not the bad. I have become a much stronger person than I ever imagined I could be. I cannot thank you enough. You are such an amazing person. I love you! ❤️
Know who you are, always follow your gut and keeping away from toxic people has made me happier & I made new friends and gained closer to people I never thought I be close too if you are in school and have horrible friends go to after school classes or do a hobby you enjoy within a club where you meet other people I've been bullied before and its not nice there is life once school is over your not going to be there forever :)
One thing that has made me strong against all odds is standing up again after being knocked down physically and mentally over and over and over and over again and pushing myself to be strong and productive and being Greatful and thinking about everything as a learning experience good or bad because I know that failing means a hell of a lot more than quitting or submitting to other people's negative belief's. I always repeat the phrase to myself "No, It's not over yet." And there are some really nasty people out there in the world but it's their choice to be that way. We have a job to do and that's making and accomplishing our goals, people are either with you or against you but in the end we, ourselves, have to pull that trigger. Great Video as always Isabel 💯
I am so paranoid with people around me. I guess I'm just over thinking, but when I observe how people look at me, I can understand what their eyes are saying.
People are all put in our lives for a reason; to teach us lessons. If something that someone does or says causes an upset in us, we need to ask ourselves why it upsets us so much and work on it.
U mentioned that people may not like your style well i do..i think ur absolutely beautiful and this video helped me so so so much. Thankyou because i have had so much judgement from my family and friends simply because they didnt think i could go after what i want..and it pulled me down and had me limiting myself for years..so i wanna thank u again this was so helpful to me. Much love sister😊
I went through the same thing but I learnt to let go, stay calm and be positive even to cruel people. It has changed my life.
chelsie romero thanks to isabel im learning to do the same
This is what I needed. Have reacted in the past and got into trouble. Staying calm is the best thing.
Thank you so much for this video, it’s exactly what I needed to hear today. A few days ago my confidence took a massive hit from the man in my life, the person I trusted, the person I thought understood, the person I thought had my back. Of course I was not going to accept his behaviour, but since then I’ve received the most beautiful comments from other people. I’ve learned even when I have a rough day, everything still ends up working in my favour.
Heidi Jorgensen So sorry that you had to endure that. Next time you go into a relationship make sure you make it your priority to get to the man before surrendering yourself to him. Get to know him by learning about the kind of man that he is for at least a year.
Learn to love and appreciate yourself more than anything. By doing that you will begin to have more respect for yourself and will look for a man who respects you also. It will also help you to look for red flags in a man and make it easier to leave him once you have recognised the red flags.
i love you isabel i really needed this. can you make a more in depth video about how to remain calm and tips on being peaceful and not harsh in fighting and arguments 😘
For sure my love!
From what I’ve learned.. many people listens to respond .. while a few listens to understand. When someone is talking to you from an emotional perspective ( I feel...it makes me feel) then you know they are being vulnerable but when they have using derogatory words it’s coming from a harmful place. Engage accordingly and remember not all comment deserves a respond. 💕
This is so crazy. I was talking to ny sister about some of ny negative "freinds" and how I feel the need to impress them then I saw this notification. You uploaded it just when I needed it! Thank you💜
I swear your videos always come at the perfect time! Thank you!
You are such a beautiful beacon of divine light
So interesting, I haven’t thought about the connection with power and influence. I know that negativity is mostly about the person spreading it (even if it’s hard to internalize and use that knowledge when I am in the situation), but them „wanting to bring somebody down so they’re not the only one feeling bad today“, that’s an eye opener!
You never stop surprising me! With every video I see of you I get more self aware. With you I'm understanding what is important and what is not. You're helping me more than you know and I'm so happy I have found your channel.So thank you for everything. You're the greatest! Never change! And I hope that anyone bring you down and bring your passion of help other down.
Love you. I needed this message . I wonder if something is in the air, but judgment and anxiety seems prevalent lately, so this is good to know 💕🧘♀️
I wouldn't doubt it, seems like there is negativity everywhere, but I think the Universe is preparing us for some wonderful times ahead
@@IsabelPalacios love u and your optimism ,lots of love from india❤
you are such a beautiful soul 🌸 this video could not have came at a better time, i’m currently trying to learn how to deal with a narcissistic mother in law and it’s been hell. thank u for your vide, imma apply your advice , much love ! 💗
In the past weeks I had a hard time bc of the haters and I want to thank you for this video ! Love you!
Thank you. I manifested this and I’m reaallllyyyyy grateful♥️
Your videos help me stay positive and focus on me n my family's and God I put god first 🙏🏾🙇🏾🙌🏾💜
Perfect timing, have been going through a really hard situation 🙏💕 thank you xxx
Thank you so much for sharing this!
You are right and it has taken me a long time to realise that you can't please everyone, so I'm just going to be the best me I can be. xx
Can't thank you enough for this video! This spoke volumes to me and inspired me so much it almost brought me to tears! Love you, Isabel! 😘💜 many blessings to you!
I definitely needed this girl! Thank you so much 🙏🏼💕 totally agree life is too short to care what other think of you! 💯
so touched by your insight and authenticity ! i was super brought down from mean comments now I mustered up courage to meditate on them!! thank u. bless u!
She’s like the older sister I *wish* I had! What’s cool about her is the advice she gives isn’t abrasive and harsh. It’s very true and something you can do but she says it in such a comforting way! And it heals...
thank you so much 💗💗💗
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Do happy I found your page!! You are so real and realistic.. thank you so so much
You are such a powerful soul. I'm so grateful for the experiences and messages you share. Thank you!
I’ve been needing this. Thankyou, it helped a ton ❤️
What you said is true to me because I wear oversized clothes and wear my hair up and makeup
Thank u so much for this video...was going through the same thing
Thanks for sharing this . I know it would be hard for you. I feel like your my positive/motivating/encouraging/spirituality wifey. I don't mean that in a weird way lol. I just love the positive/genuinely caring personality/energy you put out there. Sending positive energy and prayers xxx
Loved the video! I’m so excited that you are releasing a course! You inspire me so much & your podcast is LIFE!
i love your tarot🥺❣️
Thank You. You always make my mood better 💞💞🤗
Beautiful eyeshadow! 😍😍
First of all, you look amazing 🌹
You are a gem of a person. Love your thoughts and your way of seeing the world. It makes me believe in good. Thank you for this amazing video, needed it so much. ❤️
Your videos are so helpful and uplifting, thank you for making them
I am so glad that you trusted your own intuition, because you have helped me so much. You are hands down my favorite UA-camr 💝
Thank you so much ! You helped me as always with your video 💗🌻 Ly
That point they want to break you down when you are happy going person ! Damn Isabel each and every point is so true ! Beautiful you giving rock solid tips ,thanks !😍
Thank you very much girl .... I wish you all the best in life ....
Thank you so much my love! Much love and positive vibes!
Thank you Isabel ❤
This is beautiful. You are such an inspiration. And you're so lovely 😍
I was the same to a people pleaser. Now I have learnt my lesson. This is fab. U look beautiful here love ur make up 😘
You are so inspirational 😘my energy switched from 0-100 thank you 😊🤗
This was so helpful ✨ Loved it ❤❤
Thank you for being AUTHENTIC Isabel💓 I Love You So Much! You're honest and sincere and I can feel every word you said! You honestly give me the power to continue! I pray you'll always be glowing cause your light shines our paths and sometimes you're the only one person I listen to in my day!! Bless your soul💎
needed this, love you ♥
This is so fantastic. If they have a problem with you that's their problem! ❤️💪
I love to listening you. It’s like my inner voice is speaking through you 😘
This is a great reality check to evaluate and make changes to everyday life!
You are so right thank u so much i needed this
Why in the world would someone dislike this video
Great video and very relatable to me.💖
Thanks so much dear Isabel
So helpful ❤️❤️
Before you judge someone judge yourself think about your self before others
Thanks so much Isabel. This is exactly what I needed to hear. Could you make a video about developing and trusting your intuition?
Great video
Wise words
You look so sophisticated
I've learned not to care what other people think, but for some reason find myself borderline people pleasing every now and then.
Finding My True Love it’s ok... to do a little bit of people please if they deserve it and are supportive. Don’t beat yourself up. Be yourself! 💕
D.E.Y.A thanks!
Finding My True Love Of course! 💕
You are so awesome I love you, every time you upload I feel it’s meets my life situations, thank you keep doing these videos ❤️🤗😘
I love you❤️ your content is amazing and you’re gorgeous 😌✨💕
Thank you very much 💋💋
Thank you
Listening to you make me feel happy and positive hahah thanks for ur content
Love you Isabel ❤
Love you too!!
Love your background! xx
Thanks girl!
THANK you
Isabel you are truly inspiring ❤️ I love you so much ❤️ and this make-up look is absolutely gorgeous!
Thank you so much Sofia! Much love and positive vibes!
Thank you for replying! I want to follow the takingbackyourpower instagram account, but I don't have instagram. I think I'm going to create an account just to follow it and keep myself updated on the courses!
You are so wise Isabel! 🙂
Love this video ❤️
Love this
Love your videos❤️
This is exactly what I needed. I come watch your videos when I need some explanation to the things I do. I recently have not been in a good place because I feel like my friends aren’t really my friends unless I orchestrate get togethers. I went to go talk to my friend and ask what’s been going on and she basically said I have been inconsiderate and that’s not where my heart is at all and I feel like I am the most giving and caring person and that just hurt when she said she though I was inconsiderate after being my roommate for two years. I should t have asked for her opinion because I shouldn’t have mattered to me but I missed my “friends”. Did I do the right thing by asking?
So pretty 😍thank you for sharing
Love you !
pink eyeshadow suits you soo much
Timely❣️
I love You so much!!
I love your blouse. You look beautiful Isa! 💕