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Huda: Love Island Tell All (Full Episode)
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- Опубліковано 17 лип 2025
- You’re welcome x2
This episode includes discussion about domestic violence, suicidal ideation, and eating disorders. Please keep this in mind when deciding if, how, and when you’ll listen.
Huda: talking about how important her daughter is
Alex: HIDDEN VALLEY RANCH IS NOW IN A SQUEEZE BOTTLE
Lol😂😂😂
😂😂😂😂
Dyinggg
and i always thought it was in a squeeze bottle 😭😭
She's SUPER HYPE over that Hidden Valley Ranch!!!😂
She’s the definition of “you know her name, but not her story.” Such a strong woman.
This
Honestly it explains why she reacts the way she reacts she just seems extremely anxious and too confrontational
She’s not strong, she’s back stabbing, mentally unstable manipulative, sexually coercive/abusive and antiblack
I worry about the way she handles her relationships and treats her partners. Her constant need for validation, how she belittles people, curses them out, lies, etc. the way she handled things with Chris AND Jeremiah shows she self sabotages with the hopes of self preservation. its an issue. none of which she should be vilified for as its a product of her upbringing, but also should not be admired.
For reals!!
I am SOO GLAD Alex goes into personal development questions first!! Understanding someone’s psychology and the way they think helps so much to understand why they way they react. It doesnt make it okay, but it gives it more sense because we are literally all human.
Yes made me respect her so much! As someone who never watches CHD people’s behaviour always go back to how their child hood shapes them
@@bev-oz1okyes 💯 !!! Peoples behavior is a result of their upbringing, their childhood
@@hadassah22yes I studied psychology too and every class this was emphasized
Agreed. Your childhood is the biggest part of why you are the way that you are. I honestly feel as though everyone would have more empathy for each other if we knew each others story
fom what we saw on the show, the way she handles her relationships and treats her partners is undoubtedly worrisome. Her constant need for validation, how she belittles people, curses them out, lies, etc. the way she handled things with Chris AND Jeremiah shows she self sabotages with the hopes of self preservation. its an issue, none of which she should be vilified for as its a product of her upbringing, but also her behavior should NOT be admired. With that being said she should NOT be hated.
I worry for those who worship someone like this as well as those who judge and hate her (send her hateful dms). We should have empathy for her, but we also shouldn't idolize her behavior. two things can be true
reminder that trauma is an explanation, not an excuse and people still need to hold themselves accountable for their hurtful, unhealthy and toxic behavior regardless of what the root cause is
THISSSSS
That’s not how PTSD work
Thank you I thought I was the only sane one here 😂
Yes and that’s what Huda did. Gave her reasons about her behavior and took accountability
This is true and Huda literally has apologised and held herself accountable over and over again. She has explained her trauma - not used it as a defence. What more do you want from this girl? Y’all act like she stole Christmas.
this is a perfect example of never judge someone because you never know what someone’s gone through. I don’t agree w how she acted but who are we to judge her to the level that she has been judged
Exactly 😢
!!!
Exactly 😢❤
Just because her pain is understandable, it doesn’t make her behavior acceptable. She just has a lot of personal development and it’s understandable, she’s young.
So sad to hear her childhood trauma I never expected this 🥺💔💔💔💔💔
I really feel like many people forget how insanely edited Love Island truly is.
edit: I’m not defending Huda. Simply stating a fact. This applies to every single contestant on the show. Who are y’all to say she’s lying or not? What does it matter to you? And even if she is, I’m sure 99% of people have lied before as well. I certainly have. You don’t know her, you’ll never meet her. She will learn the hard way. Sending threats and hate shouldn’t be the answer.
Exactly… It’s crazy with the parasocial hate, these ppl needs to touch grass bc there’s no way they don’t know this… it’s concerning and ironic how they keep saying therapy when they’re the ones needed that
true but u can’t sit there and watch her call Jeremiah a pussy ass bitch and a bitch multiple times on camera and think “oh there was so much more to it”😭 nobody should ever talk to someone like that. I do understand tho like I think a lot of the season especially in the beginning was edited to make everything abt her look bad and it wasn’t fair and i wish we could see more especially in tense moments
Sure they edit each episode, but they aren’t editing words into the islander’s mouths or puppeteering their actions.
@@lilballas28and she owned up to that and said it wasn’t okay when she did it.
Exactly insane fan doesn’t understand how production manipulation work how they paint these islanders give edits to villainize them and show them in a bad light.
My heart sank when she said people don’t believe her about her dad. Poor baby. The little girl in her doesn’t deserve that.
SAME. The little girl in me who also wasn't believed broke for her...
I knew I resonated with huda for some reason but god I hate that it was this one😭 knowing that pain of not being believed and losing family over it is something a child or anyone should never have to feel😞
i relate to this so much as someone SA'd by a family member :/ .
I was SA’d as an adult and it was traumatizing. Can’t even bear the thought of that happening as a kid. My cousin spoke out when she was a kid about her mom’s bf and no one believed her. So I get it. Huda is misunderstood and so are we. I hope we can all one day fully live happily
@@briannewondra4552 I so agree as someone who had the same thing happen it sucks
with no bad intention of saying this, but she genuinely needs continuous therapy
she needs to be in prison 😂😂😂😂
@@tuckernevelum what?
@@tuckernevelliterally why, what has she done that she needs to be in prison?😭
She shouldn’t have gone on this show tbh
@@tuckernevelfor what exactly? 😭
Her talking about her dad BROKE ME, she went through so much
Yes bro, so sad
And she’s still going through so much😢
Me too started crying so hard
from what we saw on the show, the way she handles her relationships and treats her partners is undoubtedly worrisome. Her constant need for validation, how she belittles people, curses them out, lies, etc. the way she handled things with Chris AND Jeremiah shows she self sabotages with the hopes of self preservation. its an issue, none of which she should be vilified for as its a product of her upbringing, but also her behavior should NOT be admired. With that being said she should NOT be hated.
I worry for those who worship someone like this as well as those who judge and hate her (send her hateful dms). We should have empathy for her, but we also shouldn't idolize her behavior. two things can be true
@@lukeglantonstuntdrivernobody asked you to write all this, you clearly just needed something to say
Her explaining postpartum and not doing anything for yourself to make sure baby doesn’t cry 😭😭😭 thank you Huda, thank you for speaking on it. I know exactly how that was!!
Same currently going through it is so hard 😢
@monicahernandez4364 so sorry it’s so tough will pray for you ❤
I literally wanted to cry when she was talking about it, I was in the same boat and i thought i was going insane. Not many people talk about it
@monicahernandez4364Hang in there babe. Be gentle with yourself & know you are doing an amazing job. Every emotion you might feel right now it’s absolutely valid. I know it sounds cliche but time does fly, my daughter is now 13 years old & this teenager phase comes with different challenges I was not ready for. Sending you a big hug 🫂🫶🏼
@monicahernandez4364same
Huda shedding light on her childhood had me in tears. Huda & her siblings and especially her mom are incredibly strong for what they have been through
I was like damn I’m only 11min in and crying 🥲
I felt that, my heart☹️
Literally same. 13 minutes in I’m crying with her
It really puts into perspective some of the extreme reactions she had to feeling abandoned and rejected
Yes omg it was only 8 mins in and she got me tearing up 🥲
I don’t think she’s a bad person neither do I think she has bad intentions, she’s just very childish, she has a lot to learn on how real stable relationships work❤
this!!
Yes, we have to keep in mind she is only 24, learn and growing
@bellezal236524 with a child.
Don't we all! Everyone has room to grow as well as knowledge to learn. No one is perfect and we can all learn something new every day.
I do think that she’s been trying to get better and stuff and holding accountability for her actions, but I also think she can’t be better and hold herself accountable if she constantly defends her actions and has an excuse for everything she does. And I’m not trying to vilify her or whatever, it’s just my observation, especially knowing her past, she never got the chance to learn this stuff maybe
This was deep. Honestly, I wasn’t expecting to get emotional but the way you opened up about everything, it hit hard. You’re so brave for sharing all that, and I know it’s not easy. I really respect how real you kept it. You’re not just telling your story, you’re helping people feel less alone
Yeah hopefully huda gets help and stops mentally affecting other people in a negative way
@@JonathanMiamiibro what? How did she affect anyone else’s mental health? And regardless that’s such a weird thing to say about someone you don’t even know 😂
@@JonathanMiamii i think youre the one who needs help tbh
@@bayanne5159she literally said in the podcast she is aware of how toxic she is because of her childhood therefore she takes herself to counseling and therapy. I’m just repeating what she said and hoping she can continue to seek metal help. And she verbally abused jermaih and was known to be a bully in the villa.
@@JonathanMiamiishe literally says shes in therapy and has a psychologist.. you just want to hate
Huda having an abusive father makes so much sense. I can completely relate to her story. I’m in therapy and have been for 2 years. Healing takes a long time.
Yeah she just needs healing because the way she crashed out on tv was a big cry for help
And her own father abused her too
@@jellisocrazyTHIS
from what we saw on the show, the way she handles her relationships and treats her partners is undoubtedly worrisome. Her constant need for validation, how she belittles people, curses them out, lies, etc. the way she handled things with Chris AND Jeremiah shows she self sabotages with the hopes of self preservation. its an issue, none of which she should be vilified for as its a product of her upbringing, but also her behavior should NOT be admired. With that being said she should NOT be hated.
I worry for those who worship someone like this as well as those who judge and hate her (send her hateful dms). We should have empathy for her, but we also shouldn't idolize her behavior. two things can be true
Yet she refuse any accountability
(00:03) - Introduction and Discussion of Post-Villa Life
(05:05) - Childhood Experiences and Family Background
(10:06) - Abuse, Family Dynamics, and Personal Struggles
(15:01) - School Bullying, Self-Identity, and Emotional Challenges
(20:03) - Meeting the Father of Her Child and Early Relationship
(25:00) - Pregnancy, Relationship Challenges, and Family Reactions
(30:03) - Ending the Relationship and Becoming a Single Mother
(35:01) - Financial Struggles, Independence, and Moving On
(40:05) - Transition to Reality TV and Love Island Opportunity
(45:00) - First Impressions and Relationship with Jeremiah
(50:04) - Red Flags, Jealousy, and Relationship Dynamics
(55:00) - Sexual Tension, Past Relationships, and Villa Conflicts
(01:00:04) - Exploring the Dynamics of a Relationship and Love Bombing
(01:05:01) - Communication Breakdown and Emotional Reactions in the Relationship
(01:10:04) - The Impact of Betrayal and Emotional Distress in the Relationship
(01:15:03) - Reflections on Personal Behavior and Accountability in Relationships
(01:20:01) - Transitioning to New Relationships and Expectations
(01:25:04) - Navigating New Relationships and Misunderstandings
(01:30:06) - Balancing Friendship and Romantic Pursuits in the Villa
(01:35:01) - Challenges in a New Relationship and Personal Boundaries
(01:40:01) - Emotional Struggles and Disappointments in a New Relationship
(01:45:06) - Reflections on Past Experiences and Personal Growth
(01:50:06) - Closing Thoughts on the Experience and Future Outlook
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God bless you
no thank you!!
Doing the Lord's work ❤
You are the goat
Thank you cause gotdamnnn I just want the love island takes😅
Love Bombing is 1:21:00 is a real psychological thing that has a very specific definition and neither Huda nor Jeremiah have the right definition. Love bombing isn’t falling too fast (which yall both did) it’s a specific and intentional manipulation tactic that is meant to convince someone of something that isn’t true. Him doing too much too fast with Huda and Adreinna isn’t the same as Love bombing. It’s its own separate unhealthy issue.
He wasn’t genuinely interested in them. That’s him being dishonest. He made them believe he was. Manipulation. He was interested in staying in the villa. That’s motivation. Sound like love bombing to me, the smoke is narcissism.
He love bombed her. She wss crying and he sprayed her bed with his perfume knowing she was crying alone for him. The cast switched on a bad bitch bc they arent interesting without Huda being mentioned.
@@aprilfranklin8865he was def interested in huda he was still trying to make it work when he was coupled w iris
exactly
@aprilfranklin8865 its the intention behind it of what makes it manipulation. You can not 100% say that Jeremiah had no genuine interest because you are not him. You dont know his intention. You have no basis to make that accusation except a heavily edited tv show which has no credibility to prove what you believe about him.
Her saying the fakest in the villa was Cierra was so fucking satisfying give me MORE👹
with ZERO hesitation lmao
RIGHT UGH
🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉
which minute was it
What’s the time stamp pls!!
This is the first Call Her Daddy podcast I’ve ever watched, and I must say that Alex is great at being so impartial while still holding people accountable, and is overall a very effective interviewer. I can see now why she’s been so successful, I’ve never watched an almost 2 hr podcast through before but she asks all the right questions.
My first time as well ... Alex really have good energy❤
This felt like watching Huda talking to a therapist
Same here and I thought the same them added her on Spotify 😂
She’s terrible. She didn’t even bring up the definition of love bombing but let her call him a love bomber. Huda was the one who told Jeremiah “i love you” after their first conversation. Made sure he couldn’t talk to anyone in the villa then had sex with him expected him to do more than what he did previous to sex. He never did the cute shit like other guys did previous to having sex with her. He was consistent.
Impartial but calling Chris a motherfucker is NASTY WORK
she's so much better than nick viall i hate his podcast 😭
Her saying Cierra was the fakest in the villa without any hesitation 🤣🤣
Time stamp?
1:52:39
@@taylorwaggoner6427 1:52:37
No fr with the quickness 😂
We all saw it though😭
The drastic and dramatic transition to Hidden Valley Ranch commercial took me out 😂. Very deep and insightful.
Huda continues to be alot more relatable than we thought she would be. sending her sm love
Then pls learn the law about consent in relationships before you end up in jail 💗
@@SarahMary1232/10 rage bait
@@SarahMary123your weird
@@gloryshorty So a GROWN woman starting a countdown after a man says NO to having sex (confirmed by the party in question) with her or he’ll pay for it basically is not coercion? Pls explain
@@AnaliaLoaizago ahead, explain how threatening a man to make his day hell tomorrow if he doesn’t have sex with her In 3 seconds is not coercion? Or is it because she’s a girl so she can’t be an abuser ? And Chris confirmed that’s what she was asking for 😘
I didn’t expect to relate to her, but watching her story felt like a hug to the little girl I used to be. Parents divorced, dad cheated, left my mom heartbroken with five kids. I was bullied at school and hid my pain at home to protect my mom from even more heartbreak and sadness. My childhood had more storms than sunshine - but I’m still here, and for that, all glory to God.
❤❤❤❤
Omg I had the same life! Message me
@@christyyloven4687me tooooo😭
The way I've been STALKING your page for this interview!!!!!!!!
twins
SAME
FRRR
SAME !!
😂 same
No man can make her happy until she becomes happy with herself
An almost two hour long episode for Huda is crazy. She really is made for reality TV because love her or hate her, her entertainment value is crazy!!!
the engagement on her posts and videos is insane tbh
But you both sure watched it huh.
@@jasminenoell2136not sure how you took either comment as an insult they meant that in a good way😂
Reminds me of Kim K coming up in fame lol
@@jasminenoell2136they weren’t saying it as a dig lmao
I feel like Huda is currently in her healing journey. She’s going to do so many great things and will be sooo successful!!! Mark my words, this woman is going to be unstoppable ❤️🔥
I hope she really does heal. No shade I really think she could benefit from therapy.
I guess, she did since she mentioned in the live (w/ Amaya) about her therapist.
Yes she is and this shouldn't have ever included her being on such a huge show in her current journey.. at least not yet..she has so much healing to do first
@@Daniel-pd8gj I agree but she most likely wasn't as self aware about it until now. One of the good things that came from her being on the show in her own words are, "using it as an opportunity to grow from"
Praying she gets the professional help she deserves
the fact she kept crying and saying it was her period.. It’s okay to feel babygirl! it’s your life and your trauma! you’re safe here!
This… I feel like she’s always had to dismiss her emotions and have some kind of excuse instead of being allowed to cry when she feels sad. It sucks to watch.
For real. If I was in her shoes I would be bawling even more. She’s hella strong!!! 💪
yes it’s almost like if she’s always had to hide her tears! it’s okay to cry! it’s over now! I can’t wait to see what the future holds for her! may god bless her!
Except for the fact that these people love to tear her apart without hearing her story. If you can hate on someone without hearing their story, then God bless you when you go through something because it’s coming! The bullies of this show & fanbase will find karma eventually. This poor girl has been through it and is a young single mom, she doesn’t have to explain herself to any of us. She’s real when these other “characters” are not & never have been!
Ace wanted Huda, he was so jealous of her and Jeremiah
I think you need to watch back all episodes Huda !!!!
Wow this episode just fixed my attention span. Watched the full thing start to finish on normal speed and I still want a part 2. Omg I’ve never related to someone more in my life. Hudas emotions are soooo genuine and she got me crying, she didn’t deserve that childhood.
Sameee
Me too!!!! I can honestly say it's my first time completing a video without skipping!
@@kimpossible12 & Amayas lol the only two ive watched like if i was at the movies lmao
EXACTLY it really hit home
SAME
Just finished the interview and you can tell Huda is a nuanced person with so much depth, humor, and love. She’s 100% herself, right or wrong, and is continually trying to make the best of what she has been handed in life. I have so much respect, love, and admiration for this young woman. You can tell she won over Alex too.
💯💯💯
I wish we got the same type of interview with Amaya! I wanted to know more about her childhood too. But appreciate Huda being honest and sharing so much!
Realll I loved Amaya and her interview is bubbly and nice but she needs to be back on the show or something
I feel like Amaya expressed so much of that during the show though!! And as the winner too I’m sure there weren’t things she could get into and that wouldn’t have been conducive to her future success. I’m not saying Amaya never went through anything during childhood but as the winner, it’s a different vibe.
Alex did this to enable and victimize Huda’s narrative. That she’s always a victim. It was def calculated
When huda was talking bout her as a child i thought of Amaya talking bout her on a play ground inserting herself laughing spinning on a swing and huda was surviving and in some trauma and to me that really comes through in their current personalities
@@kierramarie5018the fact that you see it that way shows your lack of empathy and emotional intelligence… huda has been getting nasty hate for reactions that of course aren’t valid but this interview humanized her and shows why she is the way she is. she has a lot of healing to do, she is not perfect, and she is working on it. no one in this interview excused her reactions to anything, it was all addressed and taken accountability for like what more do people want? dial down the hate. like amaya said, if she’s not your cup of tea then don’t watch her solo interview? simple as that hope this helps 💖
I’m so interested as to why Alex doesn’t touch on all the inconsistencies between what Huda is saying and what DAMN NEAR ALL other Islanders are saying. Matter of fact, I’d love for Alex to bring Chelley in or someone else that has been on the receiving end of Huda’s behavior.
Would love to see Nick viall interview her. He asks the hard questions and pushes back when he needs to
Right. Playing victim, blaming everyone else, excuses, it’s always someone else’s fault. I have sympathy for her, but she seems to lack the ability to truly reflect.
She didn’t find love but she found herself. This show was necessary for her healing journey✨
I hope it was an eye opener for her to start some real and serious therapy
The greatest love of all ♥️
Yes 😢😊
No. It ruined my summer yet again. Stop the toxic BS.
Lol, did you not see the last episode same behavior?
She's already at 1.3 million views. This is going to be one of their top viewed interviews of all time.
No it’s not because she’s a hudrat and needs more class. Catherine Paiz video did numbers quicker
I have been watching this on and off since 11am est and it was at 850k then !!!!
Her Catherine mcbroom interview is at 10m views I wonder if this will surpass that
literally i’ve never watched chd and i haven’t watched this season of love island yet BUT here we are
@@LeahChristina95yes she 10m in 1months’ let’s see how huda get in a months
Huda needs to stop using her past as a free pass to be toxic. Everyone has a story - it doesn’t give you the right to disrespect, manipulate, or hurt people. Trauma isn’t a license to be a bad person. At some point, it’s not your past - it’s just who you’ve chosen to become.
she never ever used her past as an excuse. she was asked a question and replied.
this is also incredibly insensitive to say but whatever.
Of course because she's a narcissist and won't ever take accountability for her actions. She knew Jeremiah a week! He's practically a stranger, the way she abused him was crazy.
@@StrawHat-Sanshe never abused him, he was just as possessive as she was. they just both got into each other way too fast. but ofc yall are allergic to holding jeremiah accountable and baby him instead.
@@sb3937how she treated the other islanders was more than insensitive
@muhammadabdurrahim752the islanders themselves admitted they ganged up on her including nic who was one the main people to alienate her but sure.
Thank you alex for being the ONLY one to ask someone why they didn’t stand up for amaya! The silence was LOUD and no one can claim girl’s girl esp after that
YES FR
No seriously!
We need a part 2 IMMEDIATELY!!!! Best interview hands down Alex!!! You & Huda are a vibe and I'm soooo here for it!!
😂😂
Part 2 when?
Agreed! We love you Huda but please do a 30 hour binge and watch your season before part 2 and def before the reunion! Ace’s influence was the reason you started feeling Jer pull away. He also DID come to see you that night but you were in the shower and didn’t know it. Wish Alex remembered that. He heard you saying stuff about him and walked away. :( I really think you two are just misunderstood because so many people interfered with your relationship! Jer’s fault in allowing them get into his head about you…. It just spiralled from there. Much love, girl!!! ❤
@@ainhasri87idk if they are. But everyone is wanting a part 2!
@@itskayleeariayessss yesss yess! Say it louder for them ppls in the back ❤❤❤
Huda and Amaya are two young ladies that are connected to their spiritual side. They wear their emotions on their sleeve, and they had to navigate their emotions on Love Island. What a ride
Having no emotional regulation and wearing heart or emotions on your sleeve are sooooooo different 😭🤦🏼♀️ she has no emotional regulation skills
Clocked it as soon as she said she prayed for a fresh start and her bullies moved after. That's real manifestation right there ✨
You can feel their entire energy.? Like you know them personally.
@@averyhughes6090😭🤣 real manifestation or REAL DELULU
She grew up in an abusive environment and now she’s acting just like her abuser, and now we’re praising her for that? 😭
Your past doesn’t give you the right to be abusive.
No it doesn’t, but it gives a reason as to why they may be acting out and that is clarification to everyone else. Also, if u haven’t had that kind of trauma, it’s quite hard to relate to, especially in triggering scenarios.
@@piercewear1648 I feel like she is taking zero accountability that’s why I stated what I stated. She’s still dead wrong and abusive.
@@raremelanin6868I think you might wanna google what accountability is, because if you watched this video from start to beginning, you would see that she was accountable of her actions.
@@bouchratmohamed5697I disagree so you can move on.
@@raremelanin6868so your definition of accountability must be shame cuz she has taken accountability in this video multiple times
She really just needs someone to talk to. I love how open and real she is in this interview. It's beautiful ❤ Great job to the interviewer it's my first time here and it was an excellent experience
Shes got the world's attention for at least a year or 2 luckily.😂
huda opening up about her childhood + trauma made everything make sense. the way unhealed wounds have her clinging to men bc of her dad… that’s not “crashing out” that’s literal ptsd. ppl judge so fast off tv edits but never ask why. even the bullying she went thru in school shaped how she sees other women… that kind of pain sticks w/ you. i got so much respect for her being this raw on camera. she’s real for that.
I said to people it looked like a PTSD episode to me and they said she was manipulating me 😂 as someone who has similar trauma I knew wtf was happening.
THANK YOUUUU
What happened to her and what she went thru definitely not her fault but it is her responsibility to heal it and not project those unhealed wounds onto others 🫤
@@katalystttI agree, but Jeremiah isn’t healed either, their relationship was toxic because they had a very pull pull then pull push dynamic. Its triggering to anyone, but especially someone with trauma. I don’t think he was doing it on purpose, but it is hard to deal with whiplash. Shes in therapy for a reason though, she is trying to heal and I am sure he is too since he is also in therapy.
@@myafield4039Yup!! it was both of them, they weren't good for eachother. I hope they can both heal and grow from that experience.
her “thank you for asking” i can tell so few people ever ask her the whys behind what she does and it’s so important
unpopular opinion: your past doesn’t matter it’s how you treat people in the present that does matter. I’m sure plenty of people who’ve done. Terrible things have had dark things happen to them in their past like Trump or Andrew Tate. But that doesn’t matter in the context of how they treat people today you’re supposed to use your pass to remind you on why it’s important to treat people nicely not as a crutch to justify why you behave the way you do.
@@woahwoah3600 The past - especially negative experiences - is of enormous relevance to a person's development, both in the psychological, neurological and social sense. It acts like an invisible code that affects our perception, our behavior and our relationships.
@@Dr.miYagi-030Exactly people are ignorant af. The past ESPECIALLY unresolved childhood issues will shape how a person operates throughout their adult life. Like Carl Jung said until you make the unconscious conscious, you will perceive everything as fate. Integrating the shadow to become whole is the key!
@@Dr.miYagi-030 i believe it is a persons responsibility to take accountability of how their past affects them and how they operate in their relationships. You can talk about your trauma all you want but if you dont understand how your trauma is making you behave then you’re not using your trauma to help you change. I also have an extremely similar childhood to her and although ive never behaved in the same way as her, i have thought similarly to her at some points in my life.
@@woahwoah3600as a child if you went through something terrible it messes with your development and the way you think so. So the way they react may seem justified in their eyes or just the way it’s suppose to be.
She has a lot of personal issues she needs to resolve before she dates anyone else. She shouldn’t have gone to love island .
A lot of things explain behavior, but doesn’t excuse behavior. Her traumas definitely align with her behaviors, I really hope she gets the support she needs to heal.
That part!! There are tons of people who have trauma and don't do what she has done. And to continue the bully narrative against people of color doesn't sit right with me.
She said that though. She said “was that the best way to handle it, no.” She apologizes and takes accountability many times in this interview and also acknowledges that she has to heal, grow, and learn.
@@happybananapandaThis comment wasn’t written to start a debate. What this person said is true and should be heard and received. A rebuttal isn’t necessary. Huda’s past reflects the behavior she exhibits today and we all hope she heals because it’ll be better for her moving forward. The end.
@@happybananapandashe didn’t really apologize.she called jeremiah bitch and justified counting down 321 to chris while in bed. You are delusional
How many times does she need to take accountability for yall to shut up?
Her behaviour on the show was indicative of someone who experienced traumatic events, and it is also edited heavily. Six weeks is 1008 hours, and we only get about 40 of those. She is also someone who is clearly trying in ernest to grow. Respect doesn't even begin to explain what I feel towards her now. Huda has fought hard.
1000%. I saw my past self in many of those moments & immediately knew it was so much more deeper than that. Especially adding onto it as a single parent.
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@@Macncheeks21this right here . I knew I saw myself in her
i’m really hoping in the reunion they show us a few things that really shed light on the truth
Absolutely, but she struggles to acknowledge or apologize for her behavior until it's too late. I feel for her story, but I can't absolve her of the way she treated people in the villa.
I RESPECT HER FOR BEING SO OPEN. That’s got to be extremely hard for her to do
I know right?! I don’t think I would ever be able to open up again if that happened to me. She’s so strong 🥺🥺🥺
Now she is getting attacked
@@relaxaingsleepchannel8541because she is a manipulative person and yall are her fans so yall don’t see it
@@relaxaingsleepchannel8541 she’s not getting attacked people are just critiquing the fact that she has taken zero accountability and seems to have switched up on Chelley and Ola after just being up Nicolandria but.
@@keekssssshe never switched up. The girl was explaining Chris faking and this was how Chelley name came up.
When taking accountability there is no “BUT” ….
Truly do have empathy for her upbringing and trauma, I truly feel for her hearing her story BUT this is a prime example of why its so important to heal and get therapy. You may not be responsible for your trauma but you are responsible for your healing and behavior.
10000% like I understand she grew up in a bad household but I’m sure other cast members also have trauma but they didn’t project it on the show. We all make choices
& that’s if they even get to the point of understanding there’s a problem! I can tell you in my upbringing and family everyone was toxic, I was toxic until I was about 23-24 and only checked myself and grew because of my job training on trauma!!! Isn’t that crazy? It suck’s to think that no one in my life loved me enough to say hey this isn’t right,. You need help to heal.. or maybe they weren’t the best people either.. either way; not all people making bad choices just continue because they know and want to do it… some make bad choices because that’s all they were taught to do and it was “right” in their upbringing. That’s why we shouldn’t judge and we should try to HELP. some people genuinely don’t know any better.
@@haleyrraeyes because many of us have trauma but it’s not an excuse for our behavior. It helps explain it but it’s not an excuse. With all of that said I truly do hope she heals for her and her daughter’s sake because as mothers we model what love looks like, feels like, and the kind of love we accept.
They’re not gonna hear you about this, though in their eyes, she can do no wrong
Healing is never linear though, different experiences and people are going to bring up different emotions and reactions
damn 3 million views in under 24 hours!?!? that’s actually insane. love her or hate her y’all are seated 😭
every time 🤏🏼🤏🏼
True,,4m now ,we move ❤
Clock it !!! 🗣️
EXACTLY
God I just knew it. People who love her could feel her sorrow. She's so strong for being so honest and vulnerable with her story.
I had the same childhood she had and I am too middle eastern but I dont like her actions, u dont have to love her to see right through her as a person
@@Justina-qp3sm Okay Justina the middle eastern. Everyone processes trauma differently. Did you also have to raise a newborn with colic as a single teen mom? How many other traumas does she have that she didn’t get into that added to childhood experience?
Yeah that still doesn’t make her actions ok, she has a lot of trauma and she has a lot healing to do love island was not the place for this and she should’ve never been on it
from what we saw on the show, the way she handles her relationships and treats her partners is undoubtedly toxic. Her constant need for validation, how she belittles people, curses them out, lies, etc. the way she handled things with Chris AND Jeremiah shows she self sabotages with the hopes of self preservation. its an issue, none of which she should be vilified for as its a product of her upbringing, but also her behavior should NOT be admired. With that being said she should NOT be hated.
I worry for those who worship someone like this as well as those who judge and hate her (send her hateful dms). We should have empathy for her, but we also shouldn't idolize her behavior. two things can be true
@@idontwannahearitidontknow7223 Let me dumb it down for you ‘idontwannahearitidontknow7223’ trauma gatekeeper. I never dismissed her trauma, I said I’ve been through the same and I understand her. But understanding someone doesn’t mean excusing every choice they make or blindly loving them. That’s called critical thinking. So let’s not twist what I said just because you’re emotionally reactive to anyone. having trauma doesn’t automatically make someone lovable or above critique. and my comment wasn’t a cry for empathy it was a comment of clarity. Try reading it slowly this time. keyboard warrior😂😂😂
Huda would be a perfect podcast host I love listening to her talk
The thing that nobody talks about is that Jeremiah was ALL IN with Huda - until the boys started giving feedback and opinions on THEIR relationship. You can literally WATCH the switch happen for him when the boys insert their perception and then BOOM he starts acting cold to Huda. Why is nobody addressing this?!
I genuinely think they would have worked it out on their own, or moved on on their own. Naturally. But the whole house was insistent on being all up in their personal business.
And you can literally TRACK Jeremiah’s switch to treating her differently when he got the social cues from the boys that they disapproved.
Also to that point - YES Ace was light weight obsessed with THEIR relationship. Idk if it’s because he saw them as a threat to winning OR because he had a thing for Huda and wanted her from the jump and was rejected… or both. But he then went on a crusade to slander them and manipulated the rest of the boy crew to take on his opinions. Period.
The boys opened Jeremiah’s eyes to hudas red flag and manipulation. As days passed she exposed herself as well. Pretty simple
Its not slander when its true, nobody wants to date a crash out single mom 😂😂😂
Same thing with Chris. His biggest high point was playing ball with the boys FR? 😐
this
That is a valid point even Huda doesn't blame the boys for the pressure that they put on him not saying he is without blame but his experience was also ruined I think they would have worked or wouldn't have worked and maybe at least been friends if they would have been on a different season where they could have did things on their own their own way
After listening to the podcast and watching the full season, I’ve come to the conclusion that Huda is a heart-first person who still has a lot of healing ahead of her. She genuinely means well, but because her own emotional needs have never fully been met, she’s internalized the idea that love has to be earned. That’s why, when someone doesn’t treat her the way she would treat them, it feels like a personal betrayal.
The truth is, everyone comes with their own history, their own wounds, and their own way of showing up in relationships. Other people’s actions have more to do with them than they do with you.
I’ll admit, a part of me wanted to blame Jeremiah for the breakup at first. But the more I sat with it, the more I realized: Huda unintentionally set herself up for heartbreak by believing she had to perform for love. Hopefully, this becomes a powerful learning moment for her.
Love isn’t something you have to earn. You’re already worthy of it.
Beautifully said. I agree
Isn’t she like 24? I’m 34 and still working on this shit to some degree everyday.
@@Lamichladaliterally same! I’m 32 I think lol and I can even begin to explain how I was at her age specially relating to most of what’s she went through as a kid
This really touched me! Made me reflect about my own experiences as well🥹
She expects people to read her mind. Instead of asking for it. She yelled for taylor to get it and expected jerimah to get territorial and jealous. She told Chris to roll her yoga mat but was mad he didnt do it without asking
what’s crazy is how quick people were to judge about her sisters visiting her vs her parents. can’t judge a book on its cover! What a great mama ❤
from what we saw on the show, the way she handles her relationships and treats her partners is undoubtedly toxic. Her constant need for validation, how she belittles people, curses them out, lies, etc. the way she handled things with Chris AND Jeremiah shows she self sabotages with the hopes of self preservation. its an issue, none of which she should be vilified for as its a product of her upbringing, but also her behavior should NOT be admired. With that being said she should NOT be hated.
I worry for those who worship someone like this as well as those who judge and hate her (send her hateful dms). We should have empathy for her, but we also shouldn't idolize her behavior. two things can be true
@@lukeglantonstuntdriverDead ass what the fuck does anything you said have to do with the original comment. If you want to hate on this woman go somewhere and figure it out
too bad her one sister couldn’t go because she’s banned from flying for threatening to kill everybody on a plane she was in 💔
@@lukeglantonstuntdriveris it that people are worshipping her or just relating to her
@@rubyyy325good thing they are two completely different people 😓 (get a life hating on people yet keeping tabs on people you do NOT know)
it’s crazy because she’s so young still, so a lot of the stuff she’s speaking on was NOT long ago. it takes timeeee and experience to fully process trauma. and being a parent on top of it for a majority of those years, she’s focused on her child’s well being before her own. she’s not perfect but she’s trying and i commend her so much for showcasing herself to the fullest. people need to stop acting like we should only show the “perfect” moments or the “good times”. honestly majority of the islanders who were doing that were sent home…
Exactly! With that experience she should be 37 not 24 ugh!
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I love love love how Alex clocked Huda’s behaviors but in a respectful way. Say what you want about Alex but she was born to interview people
She was lowkey still biased
@@r0396well she's not going to go and attack the person she's interviewing in front of their face lol
@@r0396exactly ?
I thought she sounded more like a fan. Her questions almost provided excuses for Huda's behavior.
@@morganmiller7197 hmm not attack but a good interviewer is going to make you sweat at least a little. that's what makes a good journalist
I saw a younger me in Huda. I also was molested as a child. She’s 24, she will go to therapy and be ok. She will thrive. She has some growing up to do but she will mature. I’m 45 and just now able to talk about my abuse without crying. Therapist once described the lashing out as a PTSD response.
I wish more people would realize that isn’t something to just “heal” or “fix”. I’ve seen so many comments on Facebook saying everyone goes through things and shouldn’t be an excuse. While I agree that it’s not an excuse, we can’t ignore the fact that it’s not an overnight fix, but a journey.
@@bittersweetpandaaayes. I also give grace to the ppl making judgemental comments because their is a reason they are also they way they are. Life has a way of humbling all of us. They too will learn with time. We don’t have to condone what she does or says but we can voice our opinions without the horrible name calling. It’s definitely a journey. I do hope she goes to therapy she does seem like she wants to grow and learn.
Me too and I’m 25. It took having a stable relationship that brought up all my trauma to get me into therapy. Everyone heals so differently and at a different pace. It pains me that people are diagnosing her and making her out to be villain.
so sorry you went through that! she said she is in therapy in another interview and she would know, or her therapist, if she was mentally unstable, as people would call her.
Did huda actually say she was sexually molested?
Huda: He wasn’t doing enough.
Also Huda: I was loved bombed
Girl wth
That’s exactly what being love bombed is🤦♀️ they make you feel on top of the world in the beginning they shower you with affection, they tell you the things you want to hear, and when they’re done with you or get what they were looking for they take a complete 360. So yes, that is love bombing. That doesn’t answer wether it was intentional or not though
I think was she means is - she left loved bombed in a sense where his words did not match actions. He said a lot , but did not do any of what he said to her.
In a sense, yes it is love bombing
love bombed in the way he spoke to her, not doing enough actual physical effort wise.
Pls use your last 2 brain cells before commenting shit like this.
Girl understand what love bombing is then comment 😂
Being a mom was probably the best thing ever for her. She gets to share all this love for her daughter unconditionally that she needed. I love this! ❤ she is so strong and beautiful !
Raising another 304
@@NeygarzruinedAmericayou’re disgusting !!! 🤡 how do you talk about a 4 year old like that? You’re projecting
@@NeygarzruinedAmericadisgusting to call a FOUR year old a hoe. Get help.
YESSSS! Having notifications on is everything because I’m SATTTTTT!! Love me some HUDAAAAAA! Mamacita
i should’ve done that! i just got here 😭
“There was a point I got really scared.” As a victim of child SA and grooming, I understand that kind of fear the overwhelming sense that things are escalating and becoming more unsafe. That deep pit in your stomach feeling. Huda leaving her dad’s home that day may have saved her from experiencing something far worse than what she had already gone through. She’s still healing, and that’s why I love Huda she shows what it truly looks like to heal and move through those big emotions as a victim of Child SA/Grooming.
❤ wanna say you’re strong for sharing this and I hope you heal from all of the things you’ve been through and have only bright days ❤
Omg yes!! Being groomed/SA is already scary enough. Add on seeing the escalation and not being able to speak up is terrifying. As a girl that has experienced SA from a family member, I remember dreading being alone with the person bc of what has happened in the past. I cannot imagine living with them under the same roof. I see her totally different.
Her dad already wasn't living in the home when she moved out.
You are not going to be perfect and you have to give yourself grace but still hold yourself accountable and seek help. She is beyond big emotions she shows signs of a toxic abusive person as well. She counted down to someone as they better show affection towards her , that’s not okay.
This girl needs to fire her therapist 😭 whoever they are, they aren’t doing their job.
Literally 😂
theyre she literally said it triggered her alot being on the island
@@p014rb3arimo her mental healthcare provider should’ve just told her “don’t go on the dramatic, toxic dating show”. It would have been much kinder for her and probably for the other contestants 💀
This interview really humanized Huda and was desperately needed. By watching Huda’s behavior on the show, it was obvious she had childhood trauma that still has a hold on her. People are quick to judge others not knowing that everyone has a story. She doesn’t deserve the hate. I hope she works through her trauma and becomes better.
If roles were reversed tho and Jeramiah was the one acting that way yall would say he hits women behind closed doors and abuses people.
@@JonathanMiamiiwell boo people were saying CRAZY stuff ab huda being a “bad mother” and that shes abuses her daughter, so nobody cares ab the “what if the roles were reversed”
i do think that she should be given the grace given what she went through, BUT that never excuses or justifies the way she treats others. I just hope that she focuses on herself and her mental health before starting dating again.
@juliat.6261I agree
@@JonathanMiamiithe roles aren't reversed though are they? The whole internet gave this girl shit and defended 2 men from her even though both were being sneaky behind the cameras and playing pr on camera so they could win the audience and they succeeded! So stop with the "if the roles were reversed" card cz it's just not valid
Honestly I just don't think she was emotionally ready for a show like this. Learning about her childhood makes it make a lot of sense, with how toxic and attached she got
Literally. She was a lot more toxic than she let on here but I don’t blame her
@@GrunesGemuse the trauma she has aligns perfectly with the way issues she has, I just hope she gets help. It genuinely isnt fun to watch someone get triggered on reality tv
Totally agree. However, her reactions are due to the abuse she got ( yes, Jeremiah is a narc*iss*t) and Chris definitely plays with emotions, it drove Huda crazy. Poor girl. Yes, she needs healing, but those two guess abs the girls in the villa, bullies.
@@melodyquintana9988 Jeremiah was super immature, but he didnt love bomb her any more than she love bombed him. They were equally intense and she was extrmeely nasty to the bombshells over him. Chris is just a classic uninterested douchebag though. I dont think either of them were mature enough to handle Huda
That part and than there's there ones (me included) who understood her actions a little, not saying they were absolutely right, but we understood them. There was something a few of us watching resonated with without even knowing her back story. There was that connection. Regardless of race or color. I hope she gets amazing grand deals and heals from everything she's been through🥺
Huda talking about her childhood and dynamic with her dad , makes a lot of sense with how she is and she has a lot of healing to do. 😢
Yep. She is very unhealed.
@@JasmineBrianaYCMit’s crazy how many women are saying this young lady is unhealed. That’s so cringe.
@@asmmaliabdi no shade but counting down for a man to have s*x with you isnt okay so i really dont think saying that is crazy ( not trying to be rude)
@@imayex_rshe was asking him to CUDDLE HER. After he hit her hard as hell on the nose with the pillow.
@@JasmineBrianaYCM And there’s nothing wrong with that why do you all make it seem like its a crime to go through trauma?
You know how Big Brother has an “after dark” show where there are live streams? This season needed that.
1:47:00 CLOCK THAT. Some of us aren't idolizing her, we Recognize she's a human, and she's flawed,but we can see the hurt was deep. Honestly even as a viewer this experience was, wild, I thought we all needed a therapist afterwards, I can only imagine their experience.
Some are idolizing her and being racist and bullying everyone else in the process because everyone has some kind of trauma but hers is not more important than her bad behavior towards other people on live tv . Be fr
Y’all understand her but that no other person on the show is human
@@chibaby800THANK YOU !!!!
It’s weird why are all these comments saying “but there are people idolizing her and being racist to other people”… no baby they not idolizing Huda, Huda has never once been racist to others. Those people are people using huda name as an excuse for their own racist agenda. Every woman on that show except the white people have experienced racist comments from the outside world. Let’s stop blaming Huda and clock those racist individuals please! I’m not defending her actions in the beginning but she was never racist or was bullying people because their skin color or because she got off on doing it. She was reacting to peoples actions but she wasn’t right in no way. Almost Everyone on that show meaning the woman and man have done or said something out of control because of someone’s actions (even our favorite girl Amaya but she even apologized and we moved on). Like let’s hold people accountable without bullying. I love all these girls and they aren’t perfect but we see they are all friends and hang out so why are the fans so divided.
Yesss! I agree like we love Huda bc we can relate and we realize we don’t know her personally so why hate her ? ppl hate a girl they don’t know bc of actions she did to another person they don’t know while not realizing she’s STILL human and nobody’s perfect and even tho she went about it in a kinda toxic way she was still valid in the way she felt 💯
You know what hurt me, when she kept blaming her period for being sensitive because she’s afraid of being judged for being sensitive 😔😔
🙁🙁 feel so bad
😢😢
Soo sad
Some of us really aren’t that sensitive and are more sensitive on our periods. I think she wanted it to make sure no one took away a false perception of her.
I feel like that stems from her dad always asking her mom and the women in his house about their period for why they were so emotional
I am so glad she’s had the opportunity to tell her story straight out the villa to give perspective into her life apart from love island
Bruh she is so strong !
Getting love bombed,abusive dad,getting judged by 1000 people that didn’t know what you were going through I love that she is learning from her mistakes and working on her self ❤omg I LOVE THIS WOMAN😍❤️
One more thing, let’s be honest: if the roles were reversed and Jeremiah or Chris had shouted, belittled, and emotionally manipulated Huda on national TV, we wouldn’t be calling it “a rough patch” or excusing it as passion. We'd call it abuse - and we’d be right to. Young boys and girls are watching.
Yeah, she skated through and justified her horrible behavior. My 18 yr old nephew didn't watch the show and questioned how she didn't care about consent.
She said she does not lie and proceeded to lie, she said she does not care about a guys location but asked Jeremiah if he would share his location, she said if she does not like you she won’t pretend, she pretended to like so many girls in villa.
Are u even on social media??? Wtf, she HAS been called an emotional abuser and that jeremiah is a victim thats why everyone was hating her so hard and STILL ARE. Jeremiah was manipulative, stop coddling men.
That’s a different context though? Make arguments rooted in reality, not hypotheticals
Calm down
Out of all the love island people this is the best interview hands down
Yes 🙌🏽 it is
This is the only one that I watched all instead of just clips
@@Adrienne2018same
Amayas interview was good with Alex!! Made me love her even more lol
it’s because huda is 100% her genuine authentic self love or hate her
being a single mom doesnt mean your life is over. women can do what ever they want. i'm glad Huda can do things that she loves
exactly. most women think its being a bad mother. but they dont understand, at the end of the day. your kids wants a happy mom & im sure her daughter will be proud of her mom.
Only black women get bashed for being single moms everyone else get praised
Clock that 🤏🏾🤏🏾🤏🏾
@@aquarius-woman5364can you stop
She is a mom that is single. Her daughter is fortunate enough to have an active father
You ate this UP omg you let her express herself, validated her experience, while still pouring wisdom into her. THATS how you do it. that’s grace and accountability ❤ keep going!!
It was great until she started vilifying every black man on the show. Like why can’t both parties get grace. Why is Jeremiah and Chris so terrible while Huda is “relatable”
@@TheMentalMillennialsevery black man is crazy what’re you on??? She was asked abt them two and they were crazy too bye.
@@TheMentalMillennialsshe spoke on the two men she had a connection with it’s not huda’s fault that both men had bad experiences …… not everything is about race oh my goodness
@@Rachiesubswhere was the GRACE?! Why did the interviewer call Chris a “MOTHER FUCKER” because he didn’t say Huda was his “peak” at the family dinner?!
hate how people automatically assumed she was the daddy’s girl and was so spoiled.. just for her to reveal she went through an abusive childhood.
she almost became daddy's girl😭😭😭
I definitely never saw this from watching the show. I actually found myself wondering if she had any real positive male role models based on how often she fixated on “a real man would…” or “I want a man that…” speaks to more of never getting something and trying to figure out what and how a man should be or how it actually looks.
@@Shorty2xsthis is high-key fucked up and I can't believe im reading this but that's how crazy it is 💔
@@laudtv-3810she explained this. Her idea of a man came from how she saw men behave in romantic tv and disney and from watching other happy couples, but not from any of the men in her life
@@RoyalkGamesyes I caught that part. I was only speaking from my thought process while watching her on love island
Alex does such a good job at interviewing and knowing how to ask certain questions at certain times! Hudah is such a strong woman.
Yea but she left out a lot and wouldn’t bring it up for her to explain or react to. She had a lot of contradictions and the excuses she made for herself that could go for everyone else in the villa
I’m too old to have guys locations, I don’t even want that anymore yet asked Jeremiah to share his location with her day 3 together lollll
Because she actually liked him. He LOVE BOMBED AND MANIPULATED her. No wonder she liked him.
She is embarrassing 😭
@@Hellokittyyyy4563why are you here then lol
“Do not sin twice..” I balled😭
Right ? It was so touching. Great momma she is
dunked that
LITERALLY
sad af
Should’ve aborted tho lol
I hope she gets the support her soul needs… a lot of guidance and intense therapy. It hurts my heart to see how much pain she still lives with. You’re doing the best you can Huda ❤
She’s not doing the best she can tho. She literally hasn’t changed and isn’t taking accountability. She’s toxic.
@@earljay0.o259Rest🙄
Toxic people will remain toxic as long as you continue to tell them that they’re toxic behaviour is OK. We need to start telling people to heal. That’s how we can make a change in this world.
telling people are toxic IS the real toxic behaviour and tells more about YOU and your life. nobody is toxic. let the specialists do their job and focus more on your life.
You should heal ❤
Thank you!!
Too many people in the comments need healing and don’t even realize it smh
THANK YOU!!!!!!!!! I’m seeing ppl totally disassociate in the comments
@@MsJustChishe already said she’s taking the steps to heal and change her behavior, what more do ya want? Do you guys know that change doesn’t happen overnight cause if that’s the case, then everything would happen overnight . It’s okay not to like someone but give credit when it’s due. Ya asked for accountability, she gave that. Ya asked for changed behavior, she’s taking the steps. Stop acting like ya are so perfect and never made a mistake to where you had to take steps in order to change. I know I have, so I can definitely relate, understand and appreciate her honesty and realization in her behaviors.
The way you explained this is SO clear. Thank you
This is by far the best interview I’ve seen from call her daddy
LITERALLY
I’ve loved Huda from the moment she stepped into the villa, but after hearing her on that podcast, my respect for her has grown even more. I can relate to so many of the things she’s been through it’s heartbreaking how many women experience the same. She’s not only beautiful on the outside but also strong, real, and raw on the inside. That kind of honesty is rare and so inspiring. Wishing her nothing but the best and sending big things her way. She truly deserves it all. 💕
“I care care more about her safety and if she’s okay-“
“HIDDEN VALLEY RANCH NOW COMES IN A SQUEEZE BOTTLE-“
HAAHHAAHAHAHQ
I really appreciated how Alex brought up sensitive topics with lots of empathy-- she needs someone to hold her hand while they ask these tough questions to help her self-reflect without going into "defense mode". Huda is still very young and she is still learning how to navigate the dating world and how to build healthy relationships. Anyone that grew up the way Huda did (i.e. in a broken home with no example of what a healthy relationship should look like, being consistently cheated on multiple times in her FIRST real relationship) -- that will leave someone BROKEN with a ton of relationship issues. I have a lot of empathy for Huda -- her toxic behavior on the show reminds me of a lot of the things I would do when I was young and going through it-- the only difference is my crash-outs were not televised on national tv with the whole world judging me. Hopefully she watches the whole season and its a wake up call for her to do better.
Why do I already want part 2, I need more of Huda and Alex. I honestly loved how she interviewed her and about how was honest with Huda with some questions
This was honestly such a good interview, she went so much deeper with her than any other person she’s interviewed before I feel 😭
Yes!!! I was like yes please!! Let’s do another interview more please! I love her so much!!
They can never make me dislike Huda, her and Amaya are so real they literally can help it. The fact that she’s so genuine just makes her shine above all these PR trained ppl.
Sameeee
Exactly. With this we finally got the why she is the way she is and you really could tell she wasn’t having a „crash out“ just to have it there were very valid reasons for it. Not excusing it but UNDERSTANDING IT. And I am rooting for her so much.
She didn’t even mention that Amaya was always there for her… she said she was always alone she keeps victimizing herself
@@ivazzzz688crashing out is a behavior. She is valid for her feelings but her *behaviors* certainly were not valid and your comment reads to me as excusing them
Huda and her fans are racist this girl is so gross
I rarely ever watch CHD, but I watched the whole interview! Alex, you did such a great job and asked great questions. Huda, thank you for being vulnerable and sharing such private events from your childhood.
I'm getting to know who Huda really is and from her talking about her childhood and before Love Island, this is a fantastic interview
@@lukeglantonstuntdriver stfu why are you copying and pasting your comment under everyones comments fan ass
@@lukeglantonstuntdriverI really hope she does heal
@@lukeglantonstuntdriverwhile I agree with this I don’t believe the comment your replying to is idealizing her behaviour
@@lukeglantonstuntdriveryou have made this same comment 25 times. It’s extremely odd
omg i haven’t seen u in so long 🤣
3:08 to call CPS is horrible. The child was not in her care and it's abusing the system needed for children that ACTUALLY are in bad situations. I worked for CPS and those calls take a lot of time and it's a process to weed through them. Think before doing stupid things.
Im sure those were threats and not actually done
it was fake her father confirmed no one called CPS.
Are y'all listening she said it was a rumor. Meaning it didn't happen. She just went into detail on how she takes care of her daughter
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As someone who loves psychology, none of what Huda said was surprising. Abusers were usually abused. And sociopaths are made, not born. From the abusive father, saying she became more "convincing" (formed manipulation), "no one believes me" (formed insecurity). And it's sad. But here's the thing, once you start to target others or turn these traits onto others to solve your own emotions, YOU become the problem. Her Dad was the abuser. Well, I'm sure we could do a family study and sit here and listen to all the horrible things done to him as a child. Huda needs to get help so that she doesn't hurt others. It's not up to others to solve her emotional issues for her. And I appreciate her for being so honest and brave to open up about this, it seemed like she needed it. And it is always good for people in her situation to learn from it. Please, solve your internal issues instead of waiting for the world to solve it for you. You are the adult now. And it's up to you to soothe your own inner child.
This exactly
I agree you are 100% right. She truly needs help because others suffer from her reactions to situations in her life. It’s almost like she is also bi-polar. One minute she is crying, the next she laughs like nothing happened and then she puts the problem on the other person like it’s all there fault.
@@shelethahamilton3094as an outsider who is in therapy and has bpd her behavior strongly suggests she may have it, which isn't a bad thing. She just needs lots of therapy to cope and learn before entering relationships so that she can unlearn her abusive ways
You said this perfectly.
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A star is born! ✨loved seeing her personality shine here and hearing how far she’s come since her tumultuous upbringing. This girl was meant to be an entertainer! 🤏🏼♥️🫶🏼
" There was alot of times I was alone with my dad and there things that like my family doesn't believe me about" ....Huda baby😔
That statement broke my heart oh poor Huda
HEARTBREAKING!!
huda, you don’t understand how strong you are for talking about this. i had a similar childhood and im still figuring it out for myself and seeing you be able to speak on this and being strong about it gives me hope for myself and my future 🤍
Same and you will be able to heal it takes a lot of patience and love for yourself I hope you truly heal and find happiness and strength
Love this episode! She deserves a few badges of honor for all the bs she went through pre adulthood.
The jump scare with the Hidden Valley Ranch ad 😂😂😂
All the ads lol
Literally read you comment right as it started😂
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As if we haven’t been knowing about hidden valley ranch 😂
This woman made me watch Love Island for the first time. I saw her edits on TikTok and fell in love. Everyone constantly hating on her and I found out she’s only 24 and a mom. Yet they relentlessly keep attacking her rooting for her to breakdown. Very sad. She seemed so misunderstood. I’m rooting for her to proper. Huda and Amaya remain my favorites.
No hating on her but her actions are weird like her trying to sexually coerce chris
from what we saw on the show, the way she handles her relationships and treats her partners is undoubtedly worrisome. Her constant need for validation, how she belittles people, curses them out, lies, etc. the way she handled things with Chris AND Jeremiah shows she self sabotages with the hopes of self preservation. its an issue, none of which she should be vilified for as its a product of her upbringing, but also her behavior should NOT be admired. With that being said she should NOT be hated.
I worry for those who worship someone like this as well as those who judge and hate her (send her hateful dms). We should have empathy for her, but we also shouldn't idolize her behavior. two things can be true
@lukeglantonstuntdriver its easy to see it that way when the two men were also extremely manipulative and in my opinion exploited her emotional state for their own benefit.
@@lukeglantonstuntdriver this is also true but it’s so unfair everyone blaming only huda I agree she’s toxic and definitely need to work on herself. But people are hating solely on her and not the men especially Chris (I need your opinion on him 👀)
@@lukeglantonstuntdriverwhy are you watching this though ?
Honestly this was some insanely smart marketing and turnaround. The number of people you have up past their bedtimes is wild 😂 Taking notes
@@kindlykaren1313your slow asf 😂 not literally bro ppl been said this
@@kindlykaren1313LMAO man I’m from new york and have a baby deff past my old ass bedtime😂
@@JocelynDuran-k7olmao im in OH and have 5 kids, one which is a new baby, I am also DEFINITELY up past my bedtime 😂😂
@@kindlykaren1313it’s 2:12am est
I had a wild night at work and finally got to sit and calm down and sleep. I see this and I’m like ok never mind I’ll sleep later. It’s 2 am😂
Mood instantly lifted. Thank you for this
Perfect example why people should focus on healing their trauma or seeking therapy to learn how to have better relationships with others. This doesn't mean she doesn't deserve love while she heals, but her childhood trauma is bleeding into her relationship dynamics. Everything we go through will eventually mirror back to us so we can see ourselves more clearly. I hope she goes back to watch the season so she can begin her learning/healing journey.
Exactly and thank you for saying this without being weird
Realist comment I’ve seen so far
I agree. We all have the moments we live and learn unfortunately hers was broadcasted on a reality tv show for the world to see and judge. That’s why it’s important to extend kindness no matter what bc we all would value it if we were in her shoes.
Well said