I shed a few tears watching this. Having an aries IC and two aries parents, my childhood was so dynamic. I never got to settle down and even when I did, mentally I was under attack. Yet, outside, I never wanted this to show. It hurts, but it's reality.
This is the most accurate description of libra midheaven i've ever listened to... I'm in shock. I had an intense and violent childhood, and now as an adult I seek everybody's approval, always trying to look and behave perfectly..
Cappie, sag rising, libra midheaven and gemini moon. I've always felt like the black sheep, and yes I've always felt like I've been in survival mode...childhood wasn't the kinda of childhood that would be acceptable today. But here I am, trying to change for the better of myself
i just was frowning and frowning cuz it hit like a truth bomb. my aries IC is rough man. im new to the midheaven existence this week, so this is very eye opening to me
I have MC in Libra as well. So interesting when you put it that way and add the Aries IC. What I learned and has helped me was working and healing my inner child as well as Reparenting. Reparenting helps you set boundaries instead of being such a people pleaser and depleting your energy to give to everyone. And reparenting also teaches you self-compassion and teaches you how to give the love you so desperately needed as a child to yourself. It is a freeing feeling to know that you can give yourself all the love you so desperately need. Also helps you have healthier relationships with people. Just my thoughts on this, you can be your own healer and feel safe emotionally. Inner Child Work & Reparenting are amazing for people that related someway to this video and the concept of the Aries IC. Best wishes to all. Great video.
Spot on. I'm a sag rising. I spent years working my butt off by myself but I'm tired now and would like some help. Also, there was love in my childhood but it was also volitile. I was / am always in survival mode.
Holy shit… my boyfriends MC is Libra and he’s a Sag rising… he grew up in a home where there was domestic violence…. He always talks about how he just tried to escape, mentally or psychically.
Yep lots of violence and yelling in early family home. Astrology is so amazing. But ruler of libra, venus, is in none other than my aries 4th house so make that make sense 😅
when I was a child we moved multiple times due to my father's mental illness. Fend for yourself definitely describes my childhood. At home I am very energetic, often engaged in fitness/dance/projects. I live alone. I'm a library supervisor for my career. I do depend on people liking me, both above and below. There is a lot of conflict resolution and going back and forth between upper management and employees. Your description of cardinal signs being able to move in whatever direction they need to, very apt. My passionate hobby is zouk social dance. I fantasy about a career in dance--that seems very Libran. Connected, totally about partnership, beautiful, harmonious, musical, creative, artistic. But also fed by my energetic Aries ic. Thinking about my mom--she was very Aries like. She never sat still! Always moving. She would dash to the store any time she needed one ingredient. I am kind of similar.
I definitely felt alone, isolated, different, not belonging and weird in my own ambitions compared to everyone and I’ve always desired and craved connection and friendship and belonging and harmony
My mom has this. She's blunt/harsh with her family, but if anyone brings it up, she'll bring up how all her coworkers say she's kind and that we're too sensitive lol. I feel like that encapsulates this axis pretty well
all week ..I have been reflecting that I had an unsafe emotional life and peeped into my chart a little and seen my IC Aries placement and didn't know what it meant. Now I understand my outburst of anger because I never felt safe or felt I had a voice which has made me entirely unlikeable and unpleasant in the past.. now I yes do want to bond with people and not be known for keeping people at bay because of that...so glad I found this explanation. Yes I am getting tired of fending for my safety and trust. It all makes sense now.
I can totally feel it on a body level too. It's like a fight flight freeze reaction in the body. Often it's flight and then if I don't be aware fight...
I completely agree! Im a sag rising with aries IC and libra MC, however my childhood was very similar to the Capricorn Rising however i do have my Capricorn Venus in my first house, it begIns in sag but ends in Capricorn
Yay! I have Libra MC/Aries IC and I have SO MANY THOUGHTS. The Aries IC bit about feeling safe or rested at home - I didn't even realize that I could feel safe at home until a couple years ago when I left a long live-in relationship (which I was very known for - I met most of the people I know in my current city because of my ex). So in my experience of Aries IC home life as a child, I did experience some violence from my brother, which brought out a distinct lack of protection from my mother - she'd excuse his behavior because he's a little bit younger than me & was just basically no help ever - so I had to provide my own armor. (My armor was generally avoidance & shutting myself in my own room where I could have a little bit of peace with my own energy.) In regards to my Libra MC, I absolutely feel like my dyadic relationships are my work - that's where most of my energy goes, that's what I'm willing to sacrifice my own well-being for (like staying up late & losing out on sleep to talk to my friends). During my 7-year relationship with my ex, so many people knew me as "(Name Redacted)'s girlfriend" and I kind of became his public image manager - like I would post things on my own social media that would cast him in a good/fun light, and that always got so much more engagement than anything I posted that was just about myself. It took me a long time to leave that relationship in part because I felt like I had to be willing to alienate & disillusion everyone who knew my ex and potentially lose all the connections that he'd brought into my life. And a Libra convincing themselves to invite the stink-eye of most of their social community takes A While, lol.
All true. Point for point. I always thought the violence was there for a reason, as the youngest each violent event is seen as once,twice or 4 times thing from Dezzi who went mad, he dont realize that the child gets not only the 4 times if Dezzi's madnes but it torals up to 4x 15 fam members from all the rest. Dezzi moved on to calmer waters while you stayed stuck to live through 65 more of such. And it doesnt end there, you carry it with you to experience your own throughout life. Consrantly in survival mode so much so that you could teach the milirary instead of them training you.
wow. sag rising, pisces ruled 4th house but Aries IC and Aries in Saturn in 4th house. this was good. thank you. it’s definitely more related to partnership and creating a power couple rather than public approval. gemini moon, aqua stellium as well.
I love beautiful things and money And rising in sagittarius All I know is everyone likes me but the thing is not my family 😢 I know people like me because my friend says everyone likes me but like I need to be successful and wanting to work hard
in the month of 20 jan to 20 feb alone, iv had more action walking the streets than patrolling in a vehicle. Count of 25 violent incidents, of which 12 reported and recorded each happening at my arrival or just after my arrival at filling srations, motels, traffic lights and just generally walking the streets making use of public transport trying to mind my own business, prooved impossible to do. Then people ask why i sometimes isolate.
Ic spot on. Thank you. Never understood my mc in libra really. Well i want to be liked but status or glamour is not me at all. Sun in scorpio with my gang mars, uranus, mercury and north node. 11th house modern western. Moon in pisces third house and sag rising with neptune and venus
I have mars in libra and saturn in aries, and they're in opposition :'D Never felt safe with my family. They never treated me with respect and always used me when they needed my help. But I'm thankful for my huge aquarius stellium 😂
I got Capricorn as my ascendant. Have mars and Pluto conjunct in Libra and Aries in my ic. Saturn is also in my Libra but in my 9th house. It's very interesting how my life has been and as I've gotten older. I've dealt with people who are in power like state workers and had people served, and taken people to court. I'm not even a lawyer, but I act like a very very cold stubborn Capricorn like Saturn confronting someone and not taking someone's bs. I've had narcissistic state workers tell me I can't do things, and they have found out the hard way that one's "Will" is the law. I've had state workers get out of my business real quick and mad that I'm not just an easily swayable individual. I'll be honest, I don't really care if people like me or not. Not really feeling loved when I was a child and being raised by narcissistic parents was not ideal, but certainly helped me able to deal with those types of people and not care if those types of people liked me or not. I've had people ask me don't you care about others feelings first? I've had to think on that for a bit, and I do and I don't. To me number 1 always comes first.
Actually as an Aries IC, I sometimes get perceived as agressive and to in conflicts or stressy situations. Its kind of a blind Spot. I dont know if it also has to do with lilith in the 1st house. I actually gain a lot if inner peace from nurturing myself and others, listening actively to others and organising people and making sure that there is harmony. But still got tjis very determined sometimes " agressive" sie that I sometimes still feel ashamed of, because These to sides have such a big contrast, that sometimes seems that I actually can just be one those persons...Im really on it to understand my more loud and determined side as well. I made the experiences that is less accepted than the " libra side" of me.
Hello, you are very well read on these subjects, this hit home for me all the way through and into my questions of both signs and houses Thank you. Darlene of Darlene and Barry
Just finding this video, and would love to hear more about the MC / ascendant relationship when it’s not the natural ascendant. I have the Libra MC but a Sagittarius ascendant!
The worst thing one can do with this combo, especially with pluto now in aqua having soent years in cap if you have those two signs, is to look for justice, pitty, understanding or loyal alliances. Not to say there wont be any support or alliances, but the best is to prevent disappointment on top of everything to avoid self pitty and looking for anyone who would pitty you by lowering your expectations if everyone in everything. Your own blood will sell you out and sacrifice you, if they dont, its just a bonus. In my experience, we always refer to bible stories such danial and tge lions, noah and the flood, job in saccloth and ashes, the prodical son, and joseph in the pit. We live in extreme times where in we took some bible stories to further heights. Joseph was thrown into a pit once, sold by his brothers once and lived through a famine once as 2nd in command. I must have been thrown into a pit at least ten times and sold out at least 30 times. Just dont reach the point of 2nd in command.
Impatiently waiting for Taurus MC…watching this in the meantime (kinda relate w/ Aries having my Scorpio Mars in the 4th house…with Pluto…which is heavy) and my Libra moon (Venus in Capricorn) kinda relates to the Libra MC…can’t wait for Taurus 🌚
In Western whole house system, my MC is in the 11th house in Libra and the house as you know directly across from that is the 5th.......It even says libra MC at the bottom of the chart. My fourth house has no planets, but Pisces is the cusp. What's it mean when the MC is in the 11th house then?
What happens if i was born on 23rd sep 2007 and my time of birth is 2:14pm and i have Libra sun Aquarius moon Capricorn ascendant and Libra or scorpion mc what happens
The “feel like an individual in your home rather than a part of the family” hits different lol
Facts!
Damn ❤ facts
I shed a few tears watching this. Having an aries IC and two aries parents, my childhood was so dynamic. I never got to settle down and even when I did, mentally I was under attack. Yet, outside, I never wanted this to show. It hurts, but it's reality.
This is the most accurate description of libra midheaven i've ever listened to... I'm in shock.
I had an intense and violent childhood, and now as an adult I seek everybody's approval, always trying to look and behave perfectly..
Cappie, sag rising, libra midheaven and gemini moon. I've always felt like the black sheep, and yes I've always felt like I've been in survival mode...childhood wasn't the kinda of childhood that would be acceptable today. But here I am, trying to change for the better of myself
i just was frowning and frowning cuz it hit like a truth bomb. my aries IC is rough man. im new to the midheaven existence this week, so this is very eye opening to me
I have MC in Libra as well. So interesting when you put it that way and add the Aries IC. What I learned and has helped me was working and healing my inner child as well as Reparenting. Reparenting helps you set boundaries instead of being such a people pleaser and depleting your energy to give to everyone. And reparenting also teaches you self-compassion and teaches you how to give the love you so desperately needed as a child to yourself. It is a freeing feeling to know that you can give yourself all the love you so desperately need. Also helps you have healthier relationships with people. Just my thoughts on this, you can be your own healer and feel safe emotionally. Inner Child Work & Reparenting are amazing for people that related someway to this video and the concept of the Aries IC. Best wishes to all. Great video.
Thank you for this comment! I hope that anyone with an Aries IC who needs to hear this sees this!
@@NinaBAstrology I hope so too. ♥️
Spot on. I'm a sag rising. I spent years working my butt off by myself but I'm tired now and would like some help. Also, there was love in my childhood but it was also volitile. I was / am always in survival mode.
I felt that
Holy shit… my boyfriends MC is Libra and he’s a Sag rising… he grew up in a home where there was domestic violence…. He always talks about how he just tried to escape, mentally or psychically.
Yep lots of violence and yelling in early family home. Astrology is so amazing. But ruler of libra, venus, is in none other than my aries 4th house so make that make sense 😅
when I was a child we moved multiple times due to my father's mental illness. Fend for yourself definitely describes my childhood. At home I am very energetic, often engaged in fitness/dance/projects. I live alone. I'm a library supervisor for my career. I do depend on people liking me, both above and below. There is a lot of conflict resolution and going back and forth between upper management and employees. Your description of cardinal signs being able to move in whatever direction they need to, very apt. My passionate hobby is zouk social dance. I fantasy about a career in dance--that seems very Libran. Connected, totally about partnership, beautiful, harmonious, musical, creative, artistic. But also fed by my energetic Aries ic. Thinking about my mom--she was very Aries like. She never sat still! Always moving. She would dash to the store any time she needed one ingredient. I am kind of similar.
I definitely felt alone, isolated, different, not belonging and weird in my own ambitions compared to everyone and I’ve always desired and craved connection and friendship and belonging and harmony
My mom has this. She's blunt/harsh with her family, but if anyone brings it up, she'll bring up how all her coworkers say she's kind and that we're too sensitive lol. I feel like that encapsulates this axis pretty well
all week ..I have been reflecting that I had an unsafe emotional life and peeped into my chart a little and seen my IC Aries placement and didn't know what it meant. Now I understand my outburst of anger because I never felt safe or felt I had a voice which has made me entirely unlikeable and unpleasant in the past.. now I yes do want to bond with people and not be known for keeping people at bay because of that...so glad I found this explanation. Yes I am getting tired of fending for my safety and trust. It all makes sense now.
Let me read your chart for you, Nicole, please.
I can totally feel it on a body level too. It's like a fight flight freeze reaction in the body. Often it's flight and then if I don't be aware fight...
I completely agree! Im a sag rising with aries IC and libra MC, however my childhood was very similar to the Capricorn Rising however i do have my Capricorn Venus in my first house, it begIns in sag but ends in Capricorn
Yooo we're twins 😂 I'm a 29° sag rising with a Cap Venus & Cap moon in my 1H and my MC is Libra and IC is Aries and I’m also an Aquarius lol
@@realanthonycameron woah! That is neat! You should hit me up! What other plate forms do you have?
I have these same placements
@@realanthonycameron you’re my twin
Danke!
Yay! I have Libra MC/Aries IC and I have SO MANY THOUGHTS.
The Aries IC bit about feeling safe or rested at home - I didn't even realize that I could feel safe at home until a couple years ago when I left a long live-in relationship (which I was very known for - I met most of the people I know in my current city because of my ex). So in my experience of Aries IC home life as a child, I did experience some violence from my brother, which brought out a distinct lack of protection from my mother - she'd excuse his behavior because he's a little bit younger than me & was just basically no help ever - so I had to provide my own armor. (My armor was generally avoidance & shutting myself in my own room where I could have a little bit of peace with my own energy.)
In regards to my Libra MC, I absolutely feel like my dyadic relationships are my work - that's where most of my energy goes, that's what I'm willing to sacrifice my own well-being for (like staying up late & losing out on sleep to talk to my friends). During my 7-year relationship with my ex, so many people knew me as "(Name Redacted)'s girlfriend" and I kind of became his public image manager - like I would post things on my own social media that would cast him in a good/fun light, and that always got so much more engagement than anything I posted that was just about myself. It took me a long time to leave that relationship in part because I felt like I had to be willing to alienate & disillusion everyone who knew my ex and potentially lose all the connections that he'd brought into my life. And a Libra convincing themselves to invite the stink-eye of most of their social community takes A While, lol.
Wow, thank you so much for sharing your experience!
So relatable
I relate soooo much with my ex as well!! 😮
All true. Point for point. I always thought the violence was there for a reason, as the youngest each violent event is seen as once,twice or 4 times thing from Dezzi who went mad, he dont realize that the child gets not only the 4 times if Dezzi's madnes but it torals up to 4x 15 fam members from all the rest.
Dezzi moved on to calmer waters while you stayed stuck to live through 65 more of such.
And it doesnt end there, you carry it with you to experience your own throughout life.
Consrantly in survival mode so much so that you could teach the milirary instead of them training you.
This was spot on about my childhood
wow. sag rising, pisces ruled 4th house but Aries IC and Aries in Saturn in 4th house. this was good. thank you. it’s definitely more related to partnership and creating a power couple rather than public approval. gemini moon, aqua stellium as well.
The explanation from 11:23 is sooooo golden. So many ah hahs!!!!!!!
I love beautiful things and money
And rising in sagittarius
All I know is everyone likes me but the thing is not my family 😢
I know people like me because my friend says everyone likes me but like I need to be successful and wanting to work hard
i just cried!!! how accurate wow!
in the month of 20 jan to 20 feb alone, iv had more action walking the streets than patrolling in a vehicle.
Count of 25 violent incidents, of which 12 reported and recorded each happening at my arrival or just after my arrival at filling srations, motels, traffic lights and just generally walking the streets making use of public transport trying to mind my own business, prooved impossible to do.
Then people ask why i sometimes isolate.
It is so me. I'm Capricorn rising and have north node in aries and south node in libra. Also IC in Aries and MC in libra
Ic spot on. Thank you. Never understood my mc in libra really. Well i want to be liked but status or glamour is not me at all. Sun in scorpio with my gang mars, uranus, mercury and north node. 11th house modern western. Moon in pisces third house and sag rising with neptune and venus
Really enjoyed your interpretation! Thanks Nina. Loved that you threw in the Aries IC, definitely resonated!
I have mars in libra and saturn in aries, and they're in opposition :'D
Never felt safe with my family. They never treated me with respect and always used me when they needed my help. But I'm thankful for my huge aquarius stellium 😂
Mine are also in opposition idk what that means but probably not great lol
Very good channel. Love your work!
I got Capricorn as my ascendant. Have mars and Pluto conjunct in Libra and Aries in my ic. Saturn is also in my Libra but in my 9th house. It's very interesting how my life has been and as I've gotten older. I've dealt with people who are in power like state workers and had people served, and taken people to court. I'm not even a lawyer, but I act like a very very cold stubborn Capricorn like Saturn confronting someone and not taking someone's bs. I've had narcissistic state workers tell me I can't do things, and they have found out the hard way that one's "Will" is the law. I've had state workers get out of my business real quick and mad that I'm not just an easily swayable individual. I'll be honest, I don't really care if people like me or not. Not really feeling loved when I was a child and being raised by narcissistic parents was not ideal, but certainly helped me able to deal with those types of people and not care if those types of people liked me or not. I've had people ask me don't you care about others feelings first? I've had to think on that for a bit, and I do and I don't. To me number 1 always comes first.
Omg this made me cry
My personal saying is ‘roll with the punches’.
Actually as an Aries IC, I sometimes get perceived as agressive and to in conflicts or stressy situations. Its kind of a blind Spot. I dont know if it also has to do with lilith in the 1st house. I actually gain a lot if inner peace from nurturing myself and others, listening actively to others and organising people and making sure that there is harmony. But still got tjis very determined sometimes " agressive" sie that I sometimes still feel ashamed of, because These to sides have such a big contrast, that sometimes seems that I actually can just be one those persons...Im really on it to understand my more loud and determined side as well. I made the experiences that is less accepted than the " libra side" of me.
Hello, you are very well read on these subjects, this hit home for me all the way through and into my questions of both signs and houses Thank you. Darlene of Darlene and Barry
Just finding this video, and would love to hear more about the MC / ascendant relationship when it’s not the natural ascendant. I have the Libra MC but a Sagittarius ascendant!
The worst thing one can do with this combo, especially with pluto now in aqua having soent years in cap if you have those two signs, is to look for justice, pitty, understanding or loyal alliances.
Not to say there wont be any support or alliances, but the best is to prevent disappointment on top of everything to avoid self pitty and looking for anyone who would pitty you by lowering your expectations if everyone in everything.
Your own blood will sell you out and sacrifice you, if they dont, its just a bonus.
In my experience, we always refer to bible stories such danial and tge lions, noah and the flood, job in saccloth and ashes, the prodical son, and joseph in the pit.
We live in extreme times where in we took some bible stories to further heights.
Joseph was thrown into a pit once, sold by his brothers once and lived through a famine once as 2nd in command.
I must have been thrown into a pit at least ten times and sold out at least 30 times.
Just dont reach the point of 2nd in command.
Hey that's my placement
Wow this is me🤦♀️Rightt on,Thanku👍
If you have these placements and you had to write a book of your life, what would the title be??......…..
Impatiently waiting for Taurus MC…watching this in the meantime (kinda relate w/ Aries having my Scorpio Mars in the 4th house…with Pluto…which is heavy) and my Libra moon (Venus in Capricorn) kinda relates to the Libra MC…can’t wait for Taurus 🌚
Taurus MC comes out on Wednesday, hope it doesn’t disappoint!
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In Western whole house system, my MC is in the 11th house in Libra and the house as you know directly across from that is the 5th.......It even says libra MC at the bottom of the chart. My fourth house has no planets, but Pisces is the cusp. What's it mean when the MC is in the 11th house then?
Hello, i am libra in heaven, planning to do a pottery business, will it align with me?
my ac is 17 Sagittarius, Midheaven at 9 Libra, and IC 9 Aries. I don't have Capricorn rising, so what does that mean?
I tried to fit in a community but I couldn't.
I have Libra midheaven but Pluto in scorpio in the 10th... what would you say about it? Thank you
has anyone told you that you look like Brendon Urie?
What happens if i was born on 23rd sep 2007 and my time of birth is 2:14pm and i have Libra sun Aquarius moon Capricorn ascendant and Libra or scorpion mc what happens
legendary 💜♠️💜
Oh my God! I feel like a gold digger hahahahahah ( which I'm not).