Coping mechanism. Most women are helpless and they guilt trip men into doing everything and the emotional abuse is a protecting mechanism to maintain the upper hand by the EXPLOITATION of love.
She told me that she cheated on all her exes and I asked her what made me special. I later found out I wasn't special. Guys, all the warning signs are there, ignore them at your own peril. After the breakup, she confessed to cheating to with four men while she was with me. 7 years of lies. I knew it deep down but I ignore the signs.
@@dariusmitchell8427 not all women do it and it's not 'in their nature' unless they choose to do it. Whether it's a male or female, its disrespectful and inconsiderate. If you don't believe it's a red flag, you may enjoy it when it happens to you 😬
not all pretty women are terrible I'm sick of men avoiding me bc I look pretty a man is who told me that's what's happening, then my manfriends confirmed it. women approach me in public to tell me I look good, otherwise I get attention mainly from arrogant d-bags, so something didn't compute wtf is wrong with y'all? go talk to pretty women, some of us are so friendly & funny & just want ppl to treat us like real ppl with human flaws, not decorative objects
@@mn0g0nmHis comment didn’t state not all pretty women but don’t let that be your deciding factor in falling for a woman the holy scriptures even state this that charm is deceptive and beauty is fleeting. Obviously you want to be attracted to your partner but if physical attraction or lust is the foundation of the partnership then it’s inevitably going to end and typically it does in the worst. I’m an example of only falling for a pretty face without determining who she is on the inside.
To the young men out there ages 18-23 you should be appreciative that these videos exist. Granted I’m 28 but felt as if I didn’t have these videos growing up. These type of videos could potentially save you from making life altering mistakes. Take notes 📝
10 years ago there were Mistery, David Deida and all the other gurus. Even the german movement was up. This was a great time. Maybe you were just lazy bc these information wasn't available at youtube so you had to dig for it.
I ignored a lot of red flags & honestly I wasn’t happy in the relationship. She always was the victim whether it was with her family, friends or co workers. After watching this video I realized I was only holding on to her because I didn’t want to be alone. She really didn’t add value to my life despite me paying for things and taking her on trips, it was always WHATS NEXT. She was very entitled and always said she deserved the “princess treatment” even though all she did was work at a dispensary, smoke after work and doom scroll on social media all day. When I’d ask her to do the smallest thing like drop a package off at the post office up the street, I mean the box would already be taped up with the label on it & she still would get a bad attitude about it. My peace and sanity is worth way more than just having someone around for the hell of it. I was definitely set free from my last relationship. No more dead weight. 🙌🏾
I've ignored some red flags also from a woman that my supervisor pointed out when I mentioned certain things afterwork one day. But I've been set free from that now.
Similar to my ex also. Dead weight and brought zero additional value to my life aside from some s3x (and s3x was 6/10 at best). She brought ton of negativity, entitlement, lies, criticism, blame, pressure, disrespect etc Not worth it, guys
Im a seventeen years old and turning eighteen tomorrow, as a young black man I love your videos and thay you incorporate religion into your teachings, thank you!
All great points! I've dated a lot of damaged goods and you are 100% on point with your analysis. You can't fix a woman who doesn't want to be fixed herself and do the work to heal herself. Much better to kick back and see which women add value to your life.
I love the fact that men out there all over the world stick together and try to help each other. You're doing gods work there mate. The world can become a better place ✌🏻
Crazy how timing works out.. I watched one of your previous videos like this last year when i was conflicted about breaking up with my ex at the time & majority of the signs were there to let her go, then i decided she was not for me and pulled the plug on the relationship. Even after the breakup i found out more she wasn’t for me which had me relieved because sometimes you don’t know how much it drained you until it’s over & actually applying your boundaries, knowing when it’s time to leave really helps you grow in the long run… Much love & blessings to you stephen 🙏🏻❤️
I knew it was time to dip on my ex when we had a disagreement, she threatened to call my job and make up false allegations. At that point i disconnected emotionally and knew i could never have a future with that woman
Dont fall victim of being the host of women's ideal of romanticism. One of the 1st things you should vette for. If she's delusional, then she's capable. She'll be in love with the idea, not you, and they're constantly looking for a host. Subtle, but very dangerous women.
The question is if its even still worth looking for a woman in this toxic world? It’s such a draining experience.. being aware, looking for redflags all the time ppfff give me a break
You know the type of women who behave this way is usually the bread winner in the relationship. Women who make more money than her man will never have respect for him.
I’m setting boundaries with my sons mom it hurts to let it go we broke up and I was trying to get my family back but instead she lead me on and kept telling me “idk what I want” “I want to be with you but…” then finally 5 months down the road she told me she just cant give me that…but she told me she had 2 other guys she had a connection with and once I feel like I’m treated like an option I’m gone. She thought I was going to wait around til she made up her mind but I told her those two guys just want one thing but she will figure that out down the road and I won’t be there to take her back…I can’t.
So glad that you fought for your family but even better that you exercised your ability to draw the line and let that wicked woman go. She just does not want you and that's fine. There are better options out there.
3 years later, she barely pays for herself on dates, comes to my place 4 days a week and "works from home," eats all my food and contributes nothing towards my household. She is a nice person but other than that, this ain't it. I wish there was some reciprocating other than cooking my food.
Is she servicing you when she stays at your place four days a week? Three years later? If it's not working for you set her free... have you given her any more of a commitment? Unfortunately if she's not your wife I don't blame her for not acting like a wife... you wouldn't want to date me. I act accordingly.
Always good advice. 1. How entitled is she. Big one. Does she have abnoxious feminist ideology. Is she fair with contributions. Has she been through endless relationships or weird relationships. 2. Does she respect your things, space and specially your time. 3. Is she in control of her finances,credit, house career, life or is she a royal mess at 30+ that lives like a teenager. Has she been in the sex industry. Big red flag. 4. Does she really listen to your needs and make good attempts at meeting your needs ( sexually, looks wise chores, ...) 5. Lastly does she come in a relationship to bond or to get something out of you ( passport, a cheap place, someone to help with kids.)...run!
omg, thank you for this there's so much truly awful dating advice for men out there, but this is all so accurate (aside from the submitting concept, we want ppl to submit to the needs of relationships, not the will of another person, & that distinction is important) but these are clear, succinct, _nuanced_ instructions on how to identify a decent person who is also a woman, feels like I found the secret shangri-la of the internet where things are beautiful & hope exists if you're still reading this, I hope you have a great day 🌞 _edited for spelling derps_
One thing i look at is how she talks to her father. If she can be disrespectful to the most important man in her life at the time what do you think shes going to do once the honeymoon phase is over?
Love listening to your content, it's educational, eye opening and assist in dealing with issues in a mature way. It brings out the Emotional Intelligence from within, and assist in dealing with difficult issues better. I dated a man for two years, was very much inlove, however he was not reciprocating that energy. We broke up. This video assist in handling a man to avoid misinterpretation of your actions...keep up the good work😊
I just wanted to say thank you for what you do! 🙏🏼 Dating is in a better perspective. I get to understand sides of different women and address things in a better way although some women will not see my efforts on properly addressing things and taking it the wrong way.
I recently stopped talking and blocked females that felt entitled, one from Chicago and another that took off to Pennsylvania, and God has blessed me for doing that.
☑️ on all points. My most recent relationship was 6 months of good and then the mask started coming off in a big way. After 18 months I had to call it and cut my losses. The lying and gaslighting became unbareable. She couldn’t understand why I called it off?? Hahaha. Yet, her behaviour was appalling, disrespectful and outright shocking. Are there any good, solid and balanced women out there? They say so… and I see solid and healthy relationships around… but in my mid-40’s and I have yet to be in a relationship with a good woman.
This man just described most modern western women. Selfish entitled and mean but demands everything from you. I pity most single men out there trying to find a mate these days..
I'VE BEEN WITH MY FRIEND FOR 3 YEARS AND WE TALKED RIGHT OFF...I TOLD HIM THERE WERE BOUNDARIES I HAD TO PROTECT MYSELF. I ASKED HIM THAT WHEN CALLS ME DON'T CONVERSATE WITH PEOPLE IN THE BACKGROUND... THAT'S DISRESPECTFUL! WHY CALL ME IF YOU'RE GONNA TALK TO EVERYONE EXCEPT ME? THAT'S JUST ONE PET PEEVE. WHEN I SEE CERTAIN THINGS THAT I DISAGREE WITH I LET HIM KNOW RIGHT THEN ...I DON'T SWEEP ANYTHING UNDER THE RUG ...I ADDRESS IT HEAD ON! MY FRIEND DOES THINGS DELIBERATELY TO UPSET ME.... HE'S CHANGED A LOT BUT HE STILL HAS AREAS HE NEEDS MATURE IN. I LOVE HIM...HE KNOWS THAT. SOMETIMES GUYS WILL TEST YOU TO SEE HOW YOU WILL REACT. DON'T TEST ME AND DON'T PLAY WITH ME!
You are so spot on about the exposing part. I played the expose part by being vurnerable once to see how she would react. I told myself, her reaction will tell me everything I need to know. I blocked her and never looked back. Saved me allot of time.
She introduces me to her best friends yet tells me we are no longer together. I told her “why do that it only hurts?” She said well they would know sometimes people break up. I was really negative and depressed at the start now months later she is extremely cold. Even when I try she rips me apart even for the small things.
I tell them all, You get one chance to disrespect me when they test that I'm out no contact no nothing....and guess what they all come back in a few weeks with a different attitude
Guys. No matter how long the relationship, once the woman decided to cheat, she will cheat. Don't forgive her just to be cheated again. Speaking from my experience. 😑😑😑
they get to a point where the have to destroy. self destruction is a big part of their being. drama is a big bi product of self destruction; their drug of choice.
*If she repeatedly disrespects your boundaries or makes you feel unworthy, it’s a huge red flag. Don’t ignore the signs; a relationship should lift you up, not bring you down.*
I don't think you can judge a woman for not offering to pay on a first date a man invites her to? I don't agree with you on this. I think a woman can show appreciation without offering to pay for part of the date. You invite me out? And expect me to cover part of the date? And if I don't offer I'm selfish? Not at all. Don't invite me on a date, If you can't pay for it.
My reason for becoming distant: when the man decided to ghost (create an argument with you every other week in order to leave and come back again) because he had a full relationship with another woman for 31 years. She was there during his marriage before his wife decided to have an affair with her church's pastor's son. The same woman had an affair with him while he was married, and she stayed after he cheated on her several times. She calls herself the main chick. I feel that creates the man to think it is okay to have several sidechicks. Why do women think they are the main chick because they stayed for thirty one years?
What about woman who are sensitive and constant reassurance? Is that normal? Am i insensitive or just an a.h for not being able to constantly reassure her what I say isn’t what she thinks…etc?
That’s manipulation…she know what she doing. She just wrapping herself around you to change you…and as soon as you do she goin eat you alive. You won’t recognize yourself.
It's just dawned on me. I felt sorry for a friend's sister. She drinks on her own, hides in her room, a bit of a mess. I wanted to cheer her up and give her a boost. Lol, it has been taken the wrong way, and she's thinking there is something not right with me. I'm in abundance and success. Pass it on, I foolishly thought. My humility and virtue have been taken as weakness. 🤦♂️ Now, I have to walk away.😂😂😂 I can laugh about it, and that's life.
Our mindset (perspective) shape how we hear things and see things. If that’s all you heard, it might be worth taking a look at yourself and see why that’s all you heard. Blessings to you on your journey.
I just broke up with my girl who was genuinely a decent woman and I’m torn because I’m not sure I made the right decision. The negatives were she posted provocative pics on IG and she would defend them to the death when I said it made me uncomfortable or that I don’t want friends and family to get the wrong idea. She also had baby daddy drama and would tell me she hates him but would be joking with him and sending funny memes. It really confused me and made me feel like something was off. The positives were that she was affectionate, passionate, caring, understanding (mostly) and wanted a family. My guess was she did want a family and home but also wanted the benefits of a single woman. Idk maybe I’m just missing her and I’m only thinking of the good times
Is it asking too much to want a woman who is modest on social media? I’m all for lady in the streets and freak in the sheets but I don’t want my woman marketing herself as a hoe online
SO grateful for the narcissistic behaviour shown to light, how are you telling women to be grateful for being cheated on, mentally... abused and neglected...
27:36 8 years is forever in relationship years brother. And how many different men did she have to get drunk to sleep with to gain financial benefits? Sounds like a streetwalker to me.
In a 15 month relationship with this girl. She thinks I should ditch all my friends (some are girls) but they are people I respect they often seek my counsel and pre-date our relationship. I don't want to lose her but she is the kind of person who doesn't have friends and hardly ever go out, not very communicative and have trust issues because of childhood trauma. I'm really wondering if she's worth the trouble. What can I do?
If you have done all that you can do…or if you have done all that you’re willing to do in order to make it work, then it may be time to move forward without her. If you’ve still got some fight in you for the relationship, keep fighting for it. Give her and yourself some grace. Communicate about what it is that both of you need, and make those things crystal clear.
Annoying when instead of getting constructive criticism about the bedroom they just never say a word and one day when bringing up divorce they say that’s a big issue. Would have been nice to have had something said about that. But I think she was emotionally engaged with another man which is unacceptable. Funny my ex always hated that I left the room to talk but I’ve done that for most of my life. My family will vouch for that one lol
What about a woman who has been physically violent with you and then says she will ruin your life after even though u have a baby together in the same household what should i do
You do these things for a woman and and you don't get the proper response reciprocation consistency appreciation then they have the nerve to say well I didn't ask you to do those things or I'm not about material items
I slightly disagree with "she doesn't bring you into her world" because I've brought men I was dating around my inner circle and they started acted weird and they eventually ghosted. It became exhausting and embarrassing having to explain to my inner circle about what happened and why we're no longer dating. After a guy did that to me, I didn't bring any men around my family or friends until I was actually sure.
Sounds like that’s a you problem. Pick better men or treat them better so they don’t ghost you. Or find friends who don’t make him hate you, or you hate him, and don’t talk shit about him to your friends.
you sound really negative sir, she has no control over how he sees her friends. he is dating her not them, men do ghost when they are not ready not just when he is cheating or insecure…. sounds like he felt they were an extension of her that she’s hiding….. that was a communication issue; not a her issue
I have a man that has done every one of these things. Never watched a video that addressed everything to a T. Have no idea what the guy wants or is doing after 6 years busting my ass. Goodbye
can’t bring all men into your circle because the judgment will be you are who you’re friends with and i was in entertaining industry and marketing. As you know in business you will know interact and work with a vast selection of humans. No way to know everything about everybody and one of my potential clients was a porn worker and i don’t care but since my dude watches porn he assumed i was sleeping with the guy and embarrassed the shit out of me started yelling at me and has not been back to himself since… And my brunch friends became hoes in his eyes because they were with multiple guys so he assumed i was cheating aswell leave the insecure and nervous. homebody man at home; don’t take him anywhere it will ruin him worse than what he is already. The only man i ever experienced that with and it’s draining depressing and HORRIBLE AF😢
It’s crazy when you do so much for a woman and then when there’s a disagreement she acts like she never needed you and that she’s independent
I dealt with a woman like this. Believe them when they get mad. It shows how they really feel
You are 💯 percent correct dear, thats exactly situation am going through.
Coping mechanism. Most women are helpless and they guilt trip men into doing everything and the emotional abuse is a protecting mechanism to maintain the upper hand by the EXPLOITATION of love.
@@Ekjunior-y7v I warn you, you will meet your Doom if you don't walk away now
@@hillelisreal2983no it doesn’t. Everyone gets angry & says things they don’t mean.
She told me early on all her ex’s were narcissistic. Then, she started to call me the narcissist.
She's probably not telling you the Truth
Yup same here
Why is that they say that? Then they use terms such as gaslighting.
She told me that she cheated on all her exes and I asked her what made me special. I later found out I wasn't special. Guys, all the warning signs are there, ignore them at your own peril. After the breakup, she confessed to cheating to with four men while she was with me. 7 years of lies. I knew it deep down but I ignore the signs.
That was deep " Sometimes you don't lose a relationship but you were set free from it"
If she regularly interrupts you or talks over you while you're talking 🚩 🚩
You have been warned.
75% disagree. Simply because all woman or a Vass majority does it. Friends or not. That's just women nature.
@@dariusmitchell8427 not all women do it and it's not 'in their nature' unless they choose to do it. Whether it's a male or female, its disrespectful and inconsiderate.
If you don't believe it's a red flag, you may enjoy it when it happens to you 😬
@@dariusmitchell8427yes and no, we may like to talk a Lot but talk over others or interrump is unrespectful...
Would she do that to her supervisor? A pastor at church? Her mother? Father? If so, theres other problems.
Basically that's 90% of American women and 99% of black women
Fellas, he’s speaking facts! Don’t fall for the pretty face. This generation’s modern women are moving differently, act accordingly.
not all pretty women are terrible
I'm sick of men avoiding me bc I look pretty
a man is who told me that's what's happening, then my manfriends confirmed it. women approach me in public to tell me I look good, otherwise I get attention mainly from arrogant d-bags, so something didn't compute
wtf is wrong with y'all? go talk to pretty women, some of us are so friendly & funny & just want ppl to treat us like real ppl with human flaws, not decorative objects
Bro we all look to be paired up and we all will be destroyed again agnd again. It just happened to me despite all effort. Life becomes meaningless.
@@mn0g0nmur for social and economic activities
@@mn0g0nmHis comment didn’t state not all pretty women but don’t let that be your deciding factor in falling for a woman the holy scriptures even state this that charm is deceptive and beauty is fleeting. Obviously you want to be attracted to your partner but if physical attraction or lust is the foundation of the partnership then it’s inevitably going to end and typically it does in the worst. I’m an example of only falling for a pretty face without determining who she is on the inside.
🎶 ‘I dare not trust the sweetest frame, but wholly lean on Jesus’s Name’ 🎵
Sir Edward Mote
Deceit always leaves clues
To the young men out there ages 18-23 you should be appreciative that these videos exist. Granted I’m 28 but felt as if I didn’t have these videos growing up. These type of videos could potentially save you from making life altering mistakes. Take notes 📝
I’m 30 these type videos been around but this is well put together and righteous
10 years ago there were Mistery, David Deida and all the other gurus.
Even the german movement was up.
This was a great time.
Maybe you were just lazy bc these information wasn't available at youtube so you had to dig for it.
I am 52 and have to agree with you 100%
I literally just went through this at 24 I am happy I am learning now. Sorry you had to go through anything like that at a later stage brother!
I ignored a lot of red flags & honestly I wasn’t happy in the relationship. She always was the victim whether it was with her family, friends or co workers. After watching this video I realized I was only holding on to her because I didn’t want to be alone. She really didn’t add value to my life despite me paying for things and taking her on trips, it was always WHATS NEXT. She was very entitled and always said she deserved the “princess treatment” even though all she did was work at a dispensary, smoke after work and doom scroll on social media all day. When I’d ask her to do the smallest thing like drop a package off at the post office up the street, I mean the box would already be taped up with the label on it & she still would get a bad attitude about it. My peace and sanity is worth way more than just having someone around for the hell of it. I was definitely set free from my last relationship. No more dead weight. 🙌🏾
I've ignored some red flags also from a woman that my supervisor pointed out when I mentioned certain things afterwork one day. But I've been set free from that now.
Similar to my ex also. Dead weight and brought zero additional value to my life aside from some s3x (and s3x was 6/10 at best). She brought ton of negativity, entitlement, lies, criticism, blame, pressure, disrespect etc
Not worth it, guys
That's my ex too
All facts I can relate 💯
Lmao whats doom scroll?
And that's exactly why people with trauma should not be dating anybody if you know you ain't shitt don't bring nobody into your mess
We live in a fallen world...
Im a seventeen years old and turning eighteen tomorrow, as a young black man I love your videos and thay you incorporate religion into your teachings, thank you!
I truly appreciate that🙏
Happy birthday, young man!
Happy Early birthday young man!
BLESS YOU and Happy 18th, sir
Happy birthday🎉
That's why I just leave them alone, honestly women arent worth it. It's good to keep my distance and just mind my business.
On that same route… not worth it at all unless fallen in hands just for you. But , otherwise? Just focus on your journey 🙏🏿🤞🏿✊🏿💯
All great points! I've dated a lot of damaged goods and you are 100% on point with your analysis. You can't fix a woman who doesn't want to be fixed herself and do the work to heal herself. Much better to kick back and see which women add value to your life.
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I love the fact that men out there all over the world stick together and try to help each other.
You're doing gods work there mate.
The world can become a better place ✌🏻
This video describes my entire life right now 1000%
Crazy how timing works out.. I watched one of your previous videos like this last year when i was conflicted about breaking up with my ex at the time & majority of the signs were there to let her go, then i decided she was not for me and pulled the plug on the relationship. Even after the breakup i found out more she wasn’t for me which had me relieved because sometimes you don’t know how much it drained you until it’s over & actually applying your boundaries, knowing when it’s time to leave really helps you grow in the long run…
Much love & blessings to you stephen 🙏🏻❤️
You’ll find their true character when they aren’t getting exactly what they want.
Yeah I'm going through it now we have no affection and I'm feeling miserable for sure lost sad empty 🤦🏿♂️🙏🏾
I knew it was time to dip on my ex when we had a disagreement, she threatened to call my job and make up false allegations. At that point i disconnected emotionally and knew i could never have a future with that woman
Easy to say to just forgive and forget. When they done ripping your heart out, ruined you emotionally, financially, mentally
Wow. With someone for 8 years just for the money. Don't even like them and have to get drunk. That's a screwed up situation.
It was 🙏
It’s more common than you think
@@darriuspeterson9165very common indeed
Dont fall victim of being the host of women's ideal of romanticism. One of the 1st things you should vette for. If she's delusional, then she's capable. She'll be in love with the idea, not you, and they're constantly looking for a host. Subtle, but very dangerous women.
I did it for a few months that was bad enough
Stop focusing on women fellas! Just get your money up and have a rotation the moment they are acting funny 🥂
To all of the 51 thumbs up to this comment, this is the reason why women don't trust...
@@andrealouisabasile8529it’s 58 and counting now ..🤷🏿♂️
men like you are part of the problem
Just don't focus on women, focus on yourself. Don't spread yourself thin fellas
@andrealouisabasile8529 you might be right...but in the end...it's what works best....women will need men b4 men need women
The question is if its even still worth looking for a woman in this toxic world? It’s such a draining experience.. being aware, looking for redflags all the time ppfff give me a break
You know the type of women who behave this way is usually the bread winner in the relationship. Women who make more money than her man will never have respect for him.
Wrong
Trust me you are wrong brother
I’m setting boundaries with my sons mom it hurts to let it go we broke up and I was trying to get my family back but instead she lead me on and kept telling me “idk what I want” “I want to be with you but…” then finally 5 months down the road she told me she just cant give me that…but she told me she had 2 other guys she had a connection with and once I feel like I’m treated like an option I’m gone. She thought I was going to wait around til she made up her mind but I told her those two guys just want one thing but she will figure that out down the road and I won’t be there to take her back…I can’t.
Don't do it
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So glad that you fought for your family but even better that you exercised your ability to draw the line and let that wicked woman go. She just does not want you and that's fine. There are better options out there.
3 years later, she barely pays for herself on dates, comes to my place 4 days a week and "works from home," eats all my food and contributes nothing towards my household. She is a nice person but other than that, this ain't it. I wish there was some reciprocating other than cooking my food.
Is she servicing you when she stays at your place four days a week? Three years later? If it's not working for you set her free... have you given her any more of a commitment? Unfortunately if she's not your wife I don't blame her for not acting like a wife... you wouldn't want to date me. I act accordingly.
Fr bro this the first convo I can hear you on....Preach
Always good advice.
1. How entitled is she. Big one. Does she have abnoxious feminist ideology. Is she fair with contributions.
Has she been through endless relationships or weird relationships.
2. Does she respect your things, space and specially your time.
3. Is she in control of her finances,credit, house career, life or is she a royal mess at 30+ that lives like a teenager. Has she been in the sex industry. Big red flag.
4. Does she really listen to your needs and make good attempts at meeting your needs ( sexually, looks wise chores, ...)
5. Lastly does she come in a relationship to bond or to get something out of you ( passport, a cheap place, someone to help with kids.)...run!
If you feel in your intuition she is going cold or has gone there? Move on, because it's probably not going to get any better.
Facts
omg, thank you for this
there's so much truly awful dating advice for men out there, but this is all so accurate (aside from the submitting concept, we want ppl to submit to the needs of relationships, not the will of another person, & that distinction is important)
but these are clear, succinct, _nuanced_ instructions on how to identify a decent person who is also a woman, feels like I found the secret shangri-la of the internet where things are beautiful & hope exists
if you're still reading this, I hope you have a great day 🌞
_edited for spelling derps_
One thing i look at is how she talks to her father. If she can be disrespectful to the most important man in her life at the time what do you think shes going to do once the honeymoon phase is over?
You will see her true colors after the honeymoon phase is over.
Love listening to your content, it's educational, eye opening and assist in dealing with issues in a mature way. It brings out the Emotional Intelligence from within, and assist in dealing with difficult issues better. I dated a man for two years, was very much inlove, however he was not reciprocating that energy. We broke up. This video assist in handling a man to avoid misinterpretation of your actions...keep up the good work😊
some women will lie about everything till the very end keep that in mind also.
I just wanted to say thank you for what you do! 🙏🏼 Dating is in a better perspective. I get to understand sides of different women and address things in a better way although some women will not see my efforts on properly addressing things and taking it the wrong way.
Thank you 🙏
How she treats her family is the most important thing I believe.
Dude is smart I was waiting for this on his channel keep the growth up bro
Cheeds brother.great timming
I leave to god
Or better still, don't deal with them. More peace out there.
Excellent video! I love it! ❤️👏🏼💯
This is so true.
I recently stopped talking and blocked females that felt entitled, one from Chicago and another that took off to Pennsylvania, and God has blessed me for doing that.
" i didnt grow up with a affectionate family was something that i heard, the sex with her was more porn like than love making, got to move on.
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Hey Stephan… 🗣️keep speaking for men!!! 💪🏽💪🏽🎯💯💯💯💯
Yes yes yes ! she does all that but I still listen .
Suscribed! Very well said about how a woman treats others. You will most certainly see that side of her as well
Good video Tru facts 💯
☑️ on all points. My most recent relationship was 6 months of good and then the mask started coming off in a big way. After 18 months I had to call it and cut my losses. The lying and gaslighting became unbareable.
She couldn’t understand why I called it off?? Hahaha. Yet, her behaviour was appalling, disrespectful and outright shocking. Are there any good, solid and balanced women out there? They say so… and I see solid and healthy relationships around… but in my mid-40’s and I have yet to be in a relationship with a good woman.
NOW YOU TELL ME‼️
I WAS STILL SEEING HER REPRESENTATIVE ‼️
very good video. I enjoyed every bit of it
Thank you 🙏
This man just described most modern western women. Selfish entitled and mean but demands everything from you. I pity most single men out there trying to find a mate these days..
They usually gotta drag themselves b4 waking up, love em with the door open & as an oldtimer told me..... enjoy it until it ain't.
I'VE BEEN WITH MY FRIEND FOR 3 YEARS AND WE TALKED RIGHT OFF...I TOLD HIM THERE WERE BOUNDARIES I HAD TO PROTECT MYSELF. I ASKED HIM THAT WHEN CALLS ME DON'T CONVERSATE WITH PEOPLE IN THE BACKGROUND... THAT'S DISRESPECTFUL! WHY CALL ME IF YOU'RE GONNA TALK TO EVERYONE EXCEPT ME? THAT'S JUST ONE PET PEEVE. WHEN I SEE CERTAIN THINGS THAT I DISAGREE WITH I LET HIM KNOW RIGHT THEN ...I DON'T SWEEP ANYTHING UNDER THE RUG ...I ADDRESS IT HEAD ON! MY FRIEND DOES THINGS DELIBERATELY TO UPSET ME.... HE'S CHANGED A LOT BUT HE STILL HAS AREAS HE NEEDS MATURE IN. I LOVE HIM...HE KNOWS THAT. SOMETIMES GUYS WILL TEST YOU TO SEE HOW YOU WILL REACT. DON'T TEST ME AND DON'T PLAY WITH ME!
I don't need them in my life at this moment.
Here come the great information about women thanks again Memphis tn
You're welcome 🙏
I am a woman but its good you address some women behavior very very bad
You are so spot on about the exposing part. I played the expose part by being vurnerable once to see how she would react. I told myself, her reaction will tell me everything I need to know. I blocked her and never looked back. Saved me allot of time.
Nowadays, you’re better off not even getting involved with them Period you don’t have to let go of them women these days ain’t nothing but trouble
Curious about this. Im in courtship phase, and havent been with a man since a while, dont desire to mess up things...
This video is so epic it supposed to reach 1M view.
Make that 4B!
These are FACTS BRO!!!
Wow 🤯 I really don't want to leave my boyfriend, but I don't know what to do anymore.
May I ask why ? If you can break it down in one word like , he’s controlling or mean
She introduces me to her best friends yet tells me we are no longer together. I told her “why do that it only hurts?” She said well they would know sometimes people break up. I was really negative and depressed at the start now months later she is extremely cold. Even when I try she rips me apart even for the small things.
Well stop trying. Focus on you and learn to not take crap.
Stop trying!!! She running over you now. Belittling you and not appreciating you trying.
if she doesn’t answer your many calls, and then gives the excuse “i wasn’t holding the phone”
I tell them all, You get one chance to disrespect me when they test that I'm out no contact no nothing....and guess what they all come back in a few weeks with a different attitude
Guys. No matter how long the relationship, once the woman decided to cheat, she will cheat. Don't forgive her just to be cheated again.
Speaking from my experience. 😑😑😑
they get to a point where the have to destroy. self destruction is a big part of their being. drama is a big bi product of self destruction; their drug of choice.
*If she repeatedly disrespects your boundaries or makes you feel unworthy, it’s a huge red flag. Don’t ignore the signs; a relationship should lift you up, not bring you down.*
I been needing this
I don't think you can judge a woman for not offering to pay on a first date a man invites her to? I don't agree with you on this. I think a woman can show appreciation without offering to pay for part of the date. You invite me out? And expect me to cover part of the date? And if I don't offer I'm selfish? Not at all. Don't invite me on a date, If you can't pay for it.
That isn't what he said
Great info very your wise sir !!
SEEN thankyou it helped me understand what was happening.
Recommend people look up attachment theory as well.
My reason for becoming distant: when the man decided to ghost (create an argument with you every other week in order to leave and come back again) because he had a full relationship with another woman for 31 years. She was there during his marriage before his wife decided to have an affair with her church's pastor's son. The same woman had an affair with him while he was married, and she stayed after he cheated on her several times. She calls herself the main chick. I feel that creates the man to think it is okay to have several sidechicks. Why do women think they are the main chick because they stayed for thirty one years?
@tracysnipes2144 Yes, if they can be forthcoming with the truth, there will be less confusion and heartaches.
She did too most women cheat
One that thinks she’s right about everything and makes it like your stupid that’s mental abuse run far away
What about woman who are sensitive and constant reassurance? Is that normal? Am i insensitive or just an a.h for not being able to constantly reassure her what I say isn’t what she thinks…etc?
That’s manipulation…she know what she doing. She just wrapping herself around you to change you…and as soon as you do she goin eat you alive. You won’t recognize yourself.
my man is like that
It's just dawned on me. I felt sorry for a friend's sister. She drinks on her own, hides in her room, a bit of a mess. I wanted to cheer her up and give her a boost. Lol, it has been taken the wrong way, and she's thinking there is something not right with me. I'm in abundance and success. Pass it on, I foolishly thought.
My humility and virtue have been taken as weakness. 🤦♂️
Now, I have to walk away.😂😂😂
I can laugh about it, and that's life.
Thanks fir the balance
Beautiful...
Wow, I only heard Him bash Men!
Our mindset (perspective) shape how we hear things and see things. If that’s all you heard, it might be worth taking a look at yourself and see why that’s all you heard. Blessings to you on your journey.
Don't come talking to me no more unless you trying to beef
I just broke up with my girl who was genuinely a decent woman and I’m torn because I’m not sure I made the right decision. The negatives were she posted provocative pics on IG and she would defend them to the death when I said it made me uncomfortable or that I don’t want friends and family to get the wrong idea. She also had baby daddy drama and would tell me she hates him but would be joking with him and sending funny memes. It really confused me and made me feel like something was off. The positives were that she was affectionate, passionate, caring, understanding (mostly) and wanted a family. My guess was she did want a family and home but also wanted the benefits of a single woman. Idk maybe I’m just missing her and I’m only thinking of the good times
Is it asking too much to want a woman who is modest on social media? I’m all for lady in the streets and freak in the sheets but I don’t want my woman marketing herself as a hoe online
You made the right decision bro
@@dlil89fully agree, he made the right choice
I needed this
SO grateful for the narcissistic behaviour shown to light, how are you telling women to be grateful for being cheated on, mentally... abused and neglected...
Whatever you tolerate will dominate.
You speaking facts!!!
I wish I would’ve watched your videos sooner smhh
I appreciate the compliment 🙏
27:36 8 years is forever in relationship years brother. And how many different men did she have to get drunk to sleep with to gain financial benefits? Sounds like a streetwalker to me.
What if you wanna let go because she was your WIFE also the Mother of your child
In a 15 month relationship with this girl. She thinks I should ditch all my friends (some are girls) but they are people I respect they often seek my counsel and pre-date our relationship. I don't want to lose her but she is the kind of person who doesn't have friends and hardly ever go out, not very communicative and have trust issues because of childhood trauma. I'm really wondering if she's worth the trouble. What can I do?
I’m pretty much in the same boat…. Ask yourself if you are willing to go through the ups and downs
She's right about the female friends, but HER lack of female friends is a red flag. She might not be socially calibrated.
If you have done all that you can do…or if you have done all that you’re willing to do in order to make it work, then it may be time to move forward without her. If you’ve still got some fight in you for the relationship, keep fighting for it. Give her and yourself some grace. Communicate about what it is that both of you need, and make those things crystal clear.
Dude, she's damaged and you can't fix her. Have some self respect.
@chancimoore4865 shes damaged. He can't fix that.
Gosh I sure dont want to be a bad women.
Annoying when instead of getting constructive criticism about the bedroom they just never say a word and one day when bringing up divorce they say that’s a big issue. Would have been nice to have had something said about that. But I think she was emotionally engaged with another man which is unacceptable.
Funny my ex always hated that I left the room to talk but I’ve done that for most of my life. My family will vouch for that one lol
What about a woman who has been physically violent with you and then says she will ruin your life after even though u have a baby together in the same household what should i do
Reading a book 📕 we can move to the next page 📃
You do these things for a woman and and you don't get the proper response reciprocation consistency appreciation then they have the nerve to say well I didn't ask you to do those things or I'm not about material items
So true about that
I slightly disagree with "she doesn't bring you into her world" because I've brought men I was dating around my inner circle and they started acted weird and they eventually ghosted. It became exhausting and embarrassing having to explain to my inner circle about what happened and why we're no longer dating. After a guy did that to me, I didn't bring any men around my family or friends until I was actually sure.
Sounds like that’s a you problem. Pick better men or treat them better so they don’t ghost you. Or find friends who don’t make him hate you, or you hate him, and don’t talk shit about him to your friends.
@@user-ri4vb4zi6l 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
you sound really negative sir, she has no control over how he sees her friends. he is dating her not them, men do ghost when they are not ready not just when he is cheating or insecure…. sounds like he felt they were an extension of her that she’s hiding….. that was a communication issue; not a her issue
I have a man that has done every one of these things. Never watched a video that addressed everything to a T. Have no idea what the guy wants or is doing after 6 years busting my ass. Goodbye
I agree with you 💯 my man same mind set
Unless she’s a covert narcissist.
Never be surprised about what a woman will do because of course she did will save your mindset.
can’t bring all men into your circle because the judgment will be you are who you’re friends with and i was in entertaining industry and marketing. As you know in business you will know interact and work with a vast selection of humans. No way to know everything about everybody and one of my potential clients was a porn worker and i don’t care but since my dude watches porn he assumed i was sleeping with the guy and embarrassed the shit out of me started yelling at me and has not been back to himself since… And my brunch friends became hoes in his eyes because they were with multiple guys so he assumed i was cheating aswell
leave the insecure and nervous. homebody man at home; don’t take him anywhere it will ruin him worse than what he is already. The only man i ever experienced that with and it’s draining depressing and HORRIBLE AF😢