Pushover, bad mother, selfish... Not so sure about that. If she stayed with her husband for the sake of her child, she would continue to live a miserable repressed life. Why should she condemn herself to that fate? She knew, as the family's little prince, her son would have everything needed to grow up with care and attention. She, on the other hand, didn't have the wherewithal to come close to that level of support. The court would never grant her custody. Gaining her freedom and arranging for visitation was the best she could do for her and him. Through these visits, her son would see his mother in her own environment without the oppression and influence of others. She would have the freedom to communicate sincerely and treat him in the manner she desired.
Living with grandparents could never make up for not having a mother. I was raised by my grandmother, who never cared if I came home on time or if I ate breakfast, lunch, or dinner. My mother couldn’t handle five kids, each just one or two years apart, so I hated her for years. But when I had surgery at 17, she stayed by my side, and from that moment, I began to love her.
@@1LuvDrama-w6ydo you even realize how conflicted you are? On one hand you defend a woman who acted like your mother and on the other you say that your mom is unworthy of custody.... 😢 Damn i feel sorry for your situation
To show that he was extremely disadvantaged but still raised them to adulthood and that despite what little he could do, they ended up in good colleges and jobs. He did his best and if it wasn’t for her pos husband the fl would have a great adult life.
She was trying to climb out of poverty, then trying to please the snobby household she married into only after his death regretted her choice to shun her father, but then her child did the same to her.
She's not a bad mother they poisoned her son against her, and she realized that he would be fine without her. There's a time to cut your losses and move on.
@@brightlight8852Nah, she's a terrible mother. She has no backbone & chose to run instead of standing her ground & taking back her child. Even if the family is powerful & rich, she still has a mouth & rights. What type of mother abandons her child after finding out he is being abused? She saw that he was scared, desperately pleaded with her to stay with him at least the night (because the poor kid was terrified), & saw that he was injured & in pain. He extended his hands because he needed HIS MOTHER. But she saw his gestures as "he & his father are working together to manipulate ME". Then she abandoned him AGAIN, when his father was sickly & when he died. Regardless of how much of a shitty husband he was, he was still a loving father. Her son would've been devastated & in need of HIS MOTHER. But instead, she jetted off with her new man to start a new life. She's a doormat wife, a weak women & a selfish & terrible mother. As a mom, I couldn't warm up to her character. I liked her less & less, as the story progressed 🤷🏻♀️
She neglected her kid too, when he most needed her. After finding out he was abused, she walked away knowing he was terrified & injured. He extended his hands towards her, because he needed HIS MOTHER. But she saw it as "he & his father are manipulating ME"😑. Then she abandoned him AGAIN, when his father was sick & after he died. Poor child needed HIS MOTHER the most then, but where was dear mother ? Jetting off with her new man, to start a new life. She left HER SON, with a father that abandoned his son & wife FOR MONTHS, & the grandparents that are spoiling him & raising him with no values. The same people that didn't notice the poor child was being abused, because they were all busy with their own lives. So I agree with you, she's a HORRIBLE mother👍🏼.
@@IfAllElseFails_Ctrl_Alt_Delit seems you deliberately ignore the fact that the wench the so called husband brought in turned the kid against his mother and seeing as the old rats didn't like the mother from the start it sounds like they didn't bother correcting anything. Even though the kid didn't understand what was going on one day his surviving family members will have to explain it and will likely kick himself for what he did even though none of this mess can not and should not be blamed on the kid. With that being said the solution she put with money and visitation is a good one. If any further abuse happens it would be on the fault of the family holding him. It's true that she could use the abuse to take the kid but as you saw the kid didn't want to leave his dad and the dad was using his kid as a tool to try to keep his wife . She was in the right to get away from that mess
I you for real, did you not get when he insulted his mother or show preference to the girlfriend. I knot it’s not his fault, but the child had been poisoned by his grandparents, dad and the other women. She was kidnapped trying to save him, but how did he as a child show appreciation.she was dirty because she went to save her child after the father abandon him for his mistress.her decision was right. It was time to cut her losses. That doesn’t mean she didn’t love her son.
But you respect a man who refuse to pay ransom for his wife because his mistress ask him not to. Slap her at her dad funeral for a mistress. She did what she had to do. Abuse by his parents but he did nothing to protect her. What the point of being married to a man when you can’t even get basic respect from your husband.
I have witnessed mothers whose husband shows them no respect are equally disrespected by their children.
Pushover, bad mother, selfish... Not so sure about that. If she stayed with her husband for the sake of her child, she would continue to live a miserable repressed life. Why should she condemn herself to that fate? She knew, as the family's little prince, her son would have everything needed to grow up with care and attention. She, on the other hand, didn't have the wherewithal to come close to that level of support. The court would never grant her custody. Gaining her freedom and arranging for visitation was the best she could do for her and him. Through these visits, her son would see his mother in her own environment without the oppression and influence of others. She would have the freedom to communicate sincerely and treat him in the manner she desired.
Living with grandparents could never make up for not having a mother. I was raised by my grandmother, who never cared if I came home on time or if I ate breakfast, lunch, or dinner. My mother couldn’t handle five kids, each just one or two years apart, so I hated her for years. But when I had surgery at 17, she stayed by my side, and from that moment, I began to love her.
@@1LuvDrama-w6ydo you even realize how conflicted you are? On one hand you defend a woman who acted like your mother and on the other you say that your mom is unworthy of custody.... 😢 Damn i feel sorry for your situation
These mistresses always want to meet the wife asking her to stop clinging to their husbands when the husbands are the ones prolonging the divorce .
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Why did she stress that the father was both deaf and mute?
To show that he was extremely disadvantaged but still raised them to adulthood and that despite what little he could do, they ended up in good colleges and jobs. He did his best and if it wasn’t for her pos husband the fl would have a great adult life.
She was trying to climb out of poverty, then trying to please the snobby household she married into only after his death regretted her choice to shun her father, but then her child did the same to her.
I think this triggered me to much
At last you became as cruel as Jason!
She was angry he neglected her child but didn’t bother fighting or trying to keep him. Bad mother
She's not a bad mother they poisoned her son against her, and she realized that he would be fine without her. There's a time to cut your losses and move on.
@@brightlight8852Nah, she's a terrible mother. She has no backbone & chose to run instead of standing her ground & taking back her child. Even if the family is powerful & rich, she still has a mouth & rights.
What type of mother abandons her child after finding out he is being abused? She saw that he was scared, desperately pleaded with her to stay with him at least the night (because the poor kid was terrified), & saw that he was injured & in pain. He extended his hands because he needed HIS MOTHER. But she saw his gestures as "he & his father are working together to manipulate ME". Then she abandoned him AGAIN, when his father was sickly & when he died. Regardless of how much of a shitty husband he was, he was still a loving father. Her son would've been devastated & in need of HIS MOTHER. But instead, she jetted off with her new man to start a new life. She's a doormat wife, a weak women & a selfish & terrible mother. As a mom, I couldn't warm up to her character. I liked her less & less, as the story progressed 🤷🏻♀️
She neglected her kid too, when he most needed her. After finding out he was abused, she walked away knowing he was terrified & injured. He extended his hands towards her, because he needed HIS MOTHER. But she saw it as "he & his father are manipulating ME"😑.
Then she abandoned him AGAIN, when his father was sick & after he died. Poor child needed HIS MOTHER the most then, but where was dear mother ? Jetting off with her new man, to start a new life. She left HER SON, with a father that abandoned his son & wife FOR MONTHS, & the grandparents that are spoiling him & raising him with no values. The same people that didn't notice the poor child was being abused, because they were all busy with their own lives.
So I agree with you, she's a HORRIBLE mother👍🏼.
@@IfAllElseFails_Ctrl_Alt_Delit seems you deliberately ignore the fact that the wench the so called husband brought in turned the kid against his mother and seeing as the old rats didn't like the mother from the start it sounds like they didn't bother correcting anything.
Even though the kid didn't understand what was going on one day his surviving family members will have to explain it and will likely kick himself for what he did even though none of this mess can not and should not be blamed on the kid.
With that being said the solution she put with money and visitation is a good one.
If any further abuse happens it would be on the fault of the family holding him.
It's true that she could use the abuse to take the kid but as you saw the kid didn't want to leave his dad and the dad was using his kid as a tool to try to keep his wife .
She was in the right to get away from that mess
I you for real, did you not get when he insulted his mother or show preference to the girlfriend. I knot it’s not his fault, but the child had been poisoned by his grandparents, dad and the other women. She was kidnapped trying to save him, but how did he as a child show appreciation.she was dirty because she went to save her child after the father abandon him for his mistress.her decision was right. It was time to cut her losses. That doesn’t mean she didn’t love her son.
Seriously 😐
She abandoned her kid? Evil
Kind of women i don't respect
But you respect a man who refuse to pay ransom for his wife because his mistress ask him not to. Slap her at her dad funeral for a mistress. She did what she had to do. Abuse by his parents but he did nothing to protect her. What the point of being married to a man when you can’t even get basic respect from your husband.
@@cjoh124Who cares about that man? Him being garbage doesn't make her a saint: she abandoned her kid no matter how much you try to whitewash her