Great advice 😊I went through 2 full fresh ivf/icsi cycles one was abandoned due to no fertilisation and I got pregnant on the 3rd transfer with frozen embryos, my twins are 8 months old and I still look at them and I can’t believe they are mine, after trying for 10 years with unexplained infertility I got my miracles in the end but I must say I put up a good fight and I never thought of giving up. To the ladies going through failed cycles Please don’t give up. It can take a few tries for it to work for some people. There is light at the end of the tunnel. X
Thank you for this video! I’m in the same boat. I just had my 3rd ivf failed... I really hoped this one will work. Everything was great! Even my dr told me that chances to gp are high. All bloodwork even AMH came back GREAT! Because of that, he said he had no problem trying with my own eggs. Don't understand why failure again... Well, actually I think it's because of my age. I'm 45, will turn 46 soon. I'm too old to try with my own eggs... It breaks my heart. But I'm not going to give up! I'm about to start mitochondrial donation. My chances are pretty high with it. I think I fit perfectly... 40+, multiple failed IVFs, wants to become a mother more than anything else! Wish me luck!
Just had my third failed cycle. It’s so hard. Though we do have a daughter from our first ivf cycle first transfer so we can’t figure out why it worked so good the first time and not the second. So grateful for our beautiful girl, the longing for her sibling grows every day. I would appreciate all the prayers in the world ttc friends x
Hello be the hope. I am in the same exact position. First fresh embryo worked and had my daughter. Then 2 failed frozen embryo transfers. It is really hard. My thoights and prayers to you and your family. I know you posted a year ago but just wanted to say hi.
@@houdalight wow this was one year ago!! Actually I have a 2 month old baby boy now, so it must have been the next one that worked for us after I had written this! Thank you so much for your kind words and thoughts. Praying for you and for a blessing of a child :)
My doctor cancelled my first cycle because I had one follicle that was growing faster than the others. So the want me to try again after my next period. Praying that the next one works.
I was so upset the first time it failed,then angry the second time. The third time I do believe they had implanted as I felt very sick at certain smells from about day 8,but ended up spotting before my period started. But mentally and physically I couldn't do it again. I have a lot of gynae pains and all the drugs had me in agony. But you are so right about keeping calm. Loving the twin journey. In fact if it had worked first or second time for you,you wouldn't have these gorgeous boys now. Same if it had worked for me I wouldn't have Harry. The only thing that use to make me mad was when people would say everything happens for a reason 😳I wanted to punch them as all I ever wanted was to be a mummy. When I was going through it there was no social media or anyone to talk about it,very lonely and anxious at the time. But I have me cheeky monkey now and I'm so grateful for him,even if he does push my buttons at times 😂😂. You are looking fantastic. Xx
Thank you so much. I just had my 1st ivf failed recently and i feel devasted i have blocked tubes . After watching this vidoe i feel so much better and feel positive. I just keep asking myself what did i do wrong. We will try again soon i just keep healthy and positive. Thank you again. :)
Hi Nikki. I’m currently almost 14 weeks pregnant with my rainbow baby and although I’m incredibly lucky to have conceived both of my babies naturally I feel a lot of this advice could be said to someone following a miscarriage too. It could be the hormones but when you said “dreams do come true” I instantly burst into tears. I’ve got a long way to go with my pregnancy but I feel positive that my rainbow baby WILL be in my arms next May. I’m a big believer in mindfulness, it’s an incredible tool and it’s helping me through my anxiety following my loss. Thank you for sharing your thoughts with us xx
Dear Nikki, this is an incredible important and powerful video for so many of us. I have a grown up baby now BUT I have added to my positive attitude in listening to you. Delighted for you and hubby in becoming parents to two lovely little ones. It’s just great and so hopeful for others going along the IVF path. Well done and thank you again. Xx hugs Karen xx
Thank you so much Nikki! It’s not an easy subject to talk about but really appreciate you sharing your experiences. We are about to start our third round of IVF after a miscarriage last time. 🌈 But as you said your journey give people like me hope. You’re an inspiration love and hugs X 😍😘
I just came across your video after getting my 2nd Fet has failed as it was my last embryo. Thank You for giving me the hope on keep going as I’m not giving up.
A brave video and unsurprisingly not as many views as other videos. It is such an intrusive process to go through and such disappointment when it doesn't work. I would recommend Jodie Day's book, Rocking The Life Unexpected for help and suggestions for dealing with failed IVF. Thanks Nikki for this video
This video finds me at the perfect time. I have been on fertility treatment for about 2,5 years. My first and only pregnancy thus far ended with losing my twins to water broken at 13 weeks and ever since it hasnt worked again. Now just finishing my first IVF cycle which failed. I'm gutted, but your video helped to comfort and be less pessimistic about the road ahead. Maybe it can work out after all. Thank you
Thank you so much for this video, it was very inspiring. I just had my first failed round of ivf and I’m taking some time off to implement some supplements and lifestyle changes before starting the second round. So this video was very affirming that I’m on the right track. I will watch your other video as well. Congratulations on your twins!
Hello this really help me a lot after a failed IVF . Thank you for all the positive advise and kind words. Really hoping for the best and try another cycle .
Just had a failed ivf. I was devastated the first day, still am of course, but I'm trying to not let myself fall into depression again. I bounced back, keep myself busy, still keep hope, and trust in God. I'm surprised at how well I've handled it, but I just know, I cannot lose faith and I can't allow myself to breakdown! One day my dream will come true and I'll have that lil baby in my arms. I'll never stop hoping nor fighting. Rooting and hope the best for you!
thanks for this... Our fail was in may, since then I just can not talk about it... I should be going again with second transfer in the next few days hopefully... Im going for my 10 days scan on thursday, so hoping We will be ready to follow with transfer soon. Its hard, really hard, but we belive it is going to happen this time;) Your boys are soooo cute
Thank you you have given me hope that this can work for me as well. I’m the same as you I’ve had two failed frozen cycles. Next year I’m going to start another frozen cycle . I’ve got 3 Frosties left. Last year was a difficult year as I run a restaurant but it’s true what you say about stress. I have cut down my hours and ready for the next cycle. I have found that you learn a great deal about your strength and the relationship you have with your partner etc. I am a similar age to you so you give me hope. Congratulations on your beautiful boys they are lucky to have a mummy like you xxx
I just had a failed Ivf cycle after a failed IUI. None of my embryos made it to blastocyst.. just got the news yesterday. And I'm so devastated... 😔😔 I don't have the funds to try again.. I don't know what to do.
I did exactly what you said you did .... I watched comedy's and felt the most chilled with visualising and mediating and went for walks and still failed I think it's my partner sperm not me and I dont know what to do
❤️Hello sister,use Dr Omo herbal medicine to unblock your tubes very active with no side effects he also help me shrink my fibroids, my baby is just 3months old🥰
❤️Hello ,use Dr Omo herbal medicine to unblock your tubes very active with no side effects he also help me shrink my fibroids, my baby is just 3months old🥰
Hi guys. I had my 3 Failed ivf cycle.I can't explain how sad i am.we r trying since 7 years for baby. Please everybody pray for me God give me baby..m sooo sad. I think i jus need prayers.😭😭😭
I’m completely heart broken and totally understand your Pain .i just cam back from Europe and did 3 egg retrieval’s and no embryos.im back in New York with no job and no more money to try again..I don’t know what to do .😔
After 6 years of unsuccessful trying to conceive naturally I went for IVF and today I received an negative result 😥 And I don’t feel that it could help me to take too anyone about it. I just give it up it didn’t meant to be for me.
+Liridona Berisha you might feel different after a few weeks lovely. It's a rollercoaster of emotions when you get a negative. Hang in there if you really really want a baby. It can happen, keep believing and get support xxxxxx
Dr canceled my ivf cycle bcz of low follicles count but i took medication for 5 days, now after 1 week i have spotting, is anyone know why is that and why i have that now ? Is that ovulation or what
Great advice 😊I went through 2 full fresh ivf/icsi cycles one was abandoned due to no fertilisation and I got pregnant on the 3rd transfer with frozen embryos, my twins are 8 months old and I still look at them and I can’t believe they are mine, after trying for 10 years with unexplained infertility I got my miracles in the end but I must say I put up a good fight and I never thought of giving up. To the ladies going through failed cycles Please don’t give up. It can take a few tries for it to work for some people. There is light at the end of the tunnel. X
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Thank you for this video! I’m in the same boat. I just had my 3rd ivf failed... I really hoped this one will work. Everything was great! Even my dr told me that chances to gp are high. All bloodwork even AMH came back GREAT! Because of that, he said he had no problem trying with my own eggs. Don't understand why failure again... Well, actually I think it's because of my age. I'm 45, will turn 46 soon. I'm too old to try with my own eggs... It breaks my heart. But I'm not going to give up! I'm about to start mitochondrial donation. My chances are pretty high with it. I think I fit perfectly... 40+, multiple failed IVFs, wants to become a mother more than anything else! Wish me luck!
+Tara Blane wishing you all the luck in the world xxx
I will pray to god to fulfill ur wish
Me too 2rd failed now next 3rd 🙏
Just had my third failed cycle. It’s so hard. Though we do have a daughter from our first ivf cycle first transfer so we can’t figure out why it worked so good the first time and not the second.
So grateful for our beautiful girl, the longing for her sibling grows every day.
I would appreciate all the prayers in the world ttc friends x
Hello be the hope. I am in the same exact position. First fresh embryo worked and had my daughter. Then 2 failed frozen embryo transfers. It is really hard. My thoights and prayers to you and your family. I know you posted a year ago but just wanted to say hi.
@@houdalight wow this was one year ago!! Actually I have a 2 month old baby boy now, so it must have been the next one that worked for us after I had written this! Thank you so much for your kind words and thoughts. Praying for you and for a blessing of a child :)
That is fantastic news! Im glad it worked out for you and you now have a baby. Thank you for your prayers. Very much needed at this moment 🙌
My doctor cancelled my first cycle because I had one follicle that was growing faster than the others. So the want me to try again after my next period. Praying that the next one works.
I was so upset the first time it failed,then angry the second time. The third time I do believe they had implanted as I felt very sick at certain smells from about day 8,but ended up spotting before my period started. But mentally and physically I couldn't do it again. I have a lot of gynae pains and all the drugs had me in agony. But you are so right about keeping calm. Loving the twin journey. In fact if it had worked first or second time for you,you wouldn't have these gorgeous boys now. Same if it had worked for me I wouldn't have Harry. The only thing that use to make me mad was when people would say everything happens for a reason 😳I wanted to punch them as all I ever wanted was to be a mummy. When I was going through it there was no social media or anyone to talk about it,very lonely and anxious at the time. But I have me cheeky monkey now and I'm so grateful for him,even if he does push my buttons at times 😂😂. You are looking fantastic. Xx
+Sharon Johnson Thanks so much and you're so right x
Thank you so much. I just had my 1st ivf failed recently and i feel devasted i have blocked tubes . After watching this vidoe i feel so much better and feel positive. I just keep asking myself what did i do wrong. We will try again soon i just keep healthy and positive. Thank you again. :)
Aww Zara please know you didn't do anything wrong at all. I'm so glad it helped. Have a watch of my other ivf ones, theres quite a few xxxx
@@NikkiRyan i wil watch them. Thank you :)
Hi Nikki. I’m currently almost 14 weeks pregnant with my rainbow baby and although I’m incredibly lucky to have conceived both of my babies naturally I feel a lot of this advice could be said to someone following a miscarriage too. It could be the hormones but when you said “dreams do come true” I instantly burst into tears. I’ve got a long way to go with my pregnancy but I feel positive that my rainbow baby WILL be in my arms next May. I’m a big believer in mindfulness, it’s an incredible tool and it’s helping me through my anxiety following my loss. Thank you for sharing your thoughts with us xx
+Emma Ellis my pleasure hun xx
Dear Nikki, this is an incredible important and powerful video for so many of us. I have a grown up baby now BUT I have added to my positive attitude in listening to you. Delighted for you and hubby in becoming parents to two lovely little ones. It’s just great and so hopeful for others going along the IVF path. Well done and thank you again. Xx hugs Karen xx
+Karen West thanks so much xxx
Thank you so much Nikki! It’s not an easy subject to talk about but really appreciate you sharing your experiences. We are about to start our third round of IVF after a miscarriage last time. 🌈 But as you said your journey give people like me hope. You’re an inspiration love and hugs X 😍😘
Good luck xx
+Katrina Smith Thanks so much. Sorry you've been through so much. I really hope it all works out xx
I just came across your video after getting my 2nd Fet has failed as it was my last embryo. Thank You for giving me the hope on keep going as I’m not giving up.
+Kelly G oh lovely. That's so so so hard. Xxxxxxx
A brave video and unsurprisingly not as many views as other videos. It is such an intrusive process to go through and such disappointment when it doesn't work. I would recommend Jodie Day's book, Rocking The Life Unexpected for help and suggestions for dealing with failed IVF. Thanks Nikki for this video
This video finds me at the perfect time. I have been on fertility treatment for about 2,5 years. My first and only pregnancy thus far ended with losing my twins to water broken at 13 weeks and ever since it hasnt worked again. Now just finishing my first IVF cycle which failed. I'm gutted, but your video helped to comfort and be less pessimistic about the road ahead. Maybe it can work out after all. Thank you
Thank you so much for this video, it was very inspiring. I just had my first failed round of ivf and I’m taking some time off to implement some supplements and lifestyle changes before starting the second round. So this video was very affirming that I’m on the right track. I will watch your other video as well. Congratulations on your twins!
So sorry to read this lovely. I’ll never ever forget that feeling! Sending so much love and strength xxxx
Hello this really help me a lot after a failed IVF . Thank you for all the positive advise and kind words. Really hoping for the best and try another cycle .
+Jacky Lou Alvero my pleasure lovely. Sending positive thoughts
Just had a failed ivf. I was devastated the first day, still am of course, but I'm trying to not let myself fall into depression again. I bounced back, keep myself busy, still keep hope, and trust in God. I'm surprised at how well I've handled it, but I just know, I cannot lose faith and I can't allow myself to breakdown! One day my dream will come true and I'll have that lil baby in my arms. I'll never stop hoping nor fighting. Rooting and hope the best for you!
I just had a failed IVF too and absolutely devastated. I hope 3 years down the road, you achieved your dream
Great video, so many fruitful information!
Thank you for doing this video xxx 👍🏽
thanks for this... Our fail was in may, since then I just can not talk about it... I should be going again with second transfer in the next few days hopefully... Im going for my 10 days scan on thursday, so hoping We will be ready to follow with transfer soon. Its hard, really hard, but we belive it is going to happen this time;) Your boys are soooo cute
+Jolka g78 great attitude hun. Fingers firmly crossed xx
Thank you 🙏 This really affirmed a lot of things for me especially taking time out 😌
It would be great to know what questions you asked as we are just not sure?
Thank you. I needed this so much! ❤️
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I literally did everything right. Was so positive. Manifested loads. Had pregnancy acupuncture..nope. 4th time!
Thank you for this.
I really needed all the advice
Thank you you have given me hope that this can work for me as well. I’m the same as you I’ve had two failed frozen cycles. Next year I’m going to start another frozen cycle . I’ve got 3 Frosties left. Last year was a difficult year as I run a restaurant but it’s true what you say about stress. I have cut down my hours and ready for the next cycle. I have found that you learn a great deal about your strength and the relationship you have with your partner etc. I am a similar age to you so you give me hope. Congratulations on your beautiful boys they are lucky to have a mummy like you xxx
+Sarah Chadwick Thanks so much Sarah. Sending lots of luck and positive thoughts xxxx
+Sarah Chadwick Thanks so much Sarah. Sending lots of luck and positive thoughts xxxx
I just had a failed Ivf cycle after a failed IUI. None of my embryos made it to blastocyst.. just got the news yesterday. And I'm so devastated... 😔😔 I don't have the funds to try again.. I don't know what to do.
I did exactly what you said you did .... I watched comedy's and felt the most chilled with visualising and mediating and went for walks and still failed I think it's my partner sperm not me and I dont know what to do
❤️Hello sister,use Dr Omo herbal medicine to unblock your tubes very active with no side effects he also help me shrink my fibroids, my baby is just 3months old🥰
My wife’s ivf round was unsuccessful. There was some sort of blockage. She needs hysteroscopy. Can anyone give me any advice please??
❤️Hello ,use Dr Omo herbal medicine to unblock your tubes very active with no side effects he also help me shrink my fibroids, my baby is just 3months old🥰
I just my failed first ivf transfer. I was so devastated n kept crying
Your videos make my day xxx
+Caitlin Bell That's so nice xxx
Has my first fresh transfer and it did not work.. been really upset :(
Hi guys.
I had my 3 Failed ivf cycle.I can't explain how sad i am.we r trying since 7 years for baby.
Please everybody pray for me God give me baby..m sooo sad.
I think i jus need prayers.😭😭😭
prayers for you
Please do stay strong and your dreams will come true
I’m completely heart broken and totally understand your Pain .i just cam back from Europe and did 3 egg retrieval’s and no embryos.im back in New York with no job and no more money to try again..I don’t know what to do .😔
After 6 years of unsuccessful trying to conceive naturally I went for IVF and today I received an negative result 😥 And I don’t feel that it could help me to take too anyone about it. I just give it up it didn’t meant to be for me.
+Liridona Berisha you might feel different after a few weeks lovely. It's a rollercoaster of emotions when you get a negative. Hang in there if you really really want a baby. It can happen, keep believing and get support xxxxxx
Nikki Ryan aka fopperholic thanks for your tips I really appreciate it 🙏
Good bless you 🌹
Dr canceled my ivf cycle bcz of low follicles count but i took medication for 5 days, now after 1 week i have spotting, is anyone know why is that and why i have that now ? Is that ovulation or what
Merci!!!
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I failed IVF my first time 😞
So sorry lovely. How you doing now? X
Doing good. 2rd failed pregnant next 3rd again