Omg, my ex did that. I broke it off after 12 years and he married someone only 2 months after our breakup. He said he did it out of spite. They got an annulment 1 year later. So lame!
He will never admit it. It is what it is. I radically accepted not receiving an apology and I have moved forward for good. My true flame is on his way.
I hear that. Found myself subconsciously waiting on an apology for almost two years and am working on really accepting that I don’t need anything else other than to keep going forward. The lack of the apology is even more of a reason to keep going, in all actuality.
This explains a lot. I couldn't put my finger on why this type of man cultivates so many relationships with females and acts like a player even if it's platonic. Ugh never again. Thank you Jess.
A player has always a harem that he plays with, and he definitely has commitment issues. A woman who challenges him will become his worst enemy and the object of his revenge, once his ego is bruised. He will use all these other females to attack the woman who bruised his ego. Weak cowards work this way.
Omg girl you are on point. Yes, those lady threaten me, because I had told him he has to stay away from any other woman. And yes, he was never there for me and gaslighting me and was always making excuses every time I set a date to meet him. He also got upset with me because I was not interested in his money, so to make him happy I had to tell him that I also like him for his money but truthfully I fell in love with him for his kindness not for his money or his look but for who he showed me at the beginning of the relationship. Yes, I question him all the time about anything I didn’t understand or wasn’t feeling that he was treating me fair and I would speak up and he would get upset and use things I told him about me against me.
We weren’t married but he definitely felt like he owned me! So on the money about his mother- his father was extremely strict and angry alcoholic who took him and his brother away from his mother. There was a weird relationship with his mum. She would see them in secret behind his father’s back. He could do no wrong according to his mother. She died in 2018… and he’s really not coped with having no one that loves him no matter how awful he is to people.
I prayed for this message... yup this id!ot threw these ugly heuxs in my face.. and now hes playing the victim because I chose to walk away because he was disrespecting me.. he takes no accountability for anything... this happened a year ago, me walking away, i came back... and now he is blaming me to no end instead of recognizing what he did to mistreat and push me out of his life... i want to show him your messages but he's stubborn so I doubt he will listen smh.. Thank you Jess... ❤ also.. you are accurate down to eerie details... his mom acted like my bf was her partner smh this is crazy....
I'm glad you said Venus is not a pushover, it's actually something I have been meditating on. Venus keeps Mars in check, there must be balance with the passion that Mars brings or it will just create suffering. In the tarot it's Libra who wields the sword, but the scales take precedence because it's where the heart is weighed.
@@Ascensionshealingtarot333 Although I may be in a better position spiritually, I'm still stuck and dependent on him financially. We have a special needs child, and I am a full time stay at home/homeschool mom. I've been trying to break free for over a yr now since I found out about his double life.
@javalily O man mama, prayers your way. I understand having a special needs child AND being a stay at home/homeschooling mother. You have your hands full, and every day is a struggle to move forward. That time and place WILL come. Hold steady and keep the faith. You are wanted, you are needed, you are valued, and you are loved. ❤️
These types of guys usually turn out to be ... not be attracted to women at all... Definitely with these guys who go through woman after woman, and those who become "passport bros".
Wow. This just clarify’s what I have questioned. Mother is elderly and in poor health and he refuses to be a caretaker. Now she is in assisted living and he still refuses to help with her care. I’ve told him until he forgives her for her inability to love him the way he needed to be loved growing up. She will live till he does. And this makes me so sad for him. And because of this I let him treat me poorly.
Absolutely resonates! Mother in Law held inappropriate attachment and codependent relationship with Son. It was obvious and ultimately, led to her being responsible for the ending of our marriage after she and he participated in an assaulted against his pregnant wife, rendering her defenceless.
I believe this is mine. I am Venus. I am the Empress. I’ve said goodbye and I meant it. I’m done with confusion and heartbreak. I am moving into my future and am taking nothing from the past with me but my lessons, my dog and my now grown children only if they treat me with respect, honesty and reciprocity. Thank you Jess. Namaste❤
I will never appoligize as l was betrayed and l am the empress l chose to protect my space including my children in order to detach away from his dirty space and his karma that he induced upon himself from not cleaning grounding or clearing and cleaning up his past I am venus and l will never ever be open to competition or be options with others He is not a victim as he did the damage
Yes..and it is crazy and at the same time relief to know how many of us has gone through same dynamic and same story with different people in different parts of the world..
This is EXACTLY what he tried to do this man has spent 2 YEARS trying to destroy my life simply because I WALKED AWAY🙄…I just keep ignoring and leveling up🙏🏽💯❤️👑…I took that pain and alchemises it…into POWER new career,, new cars relocated and bought a new home ALL IN 2 YEARS💯❤️💰…YES his mom was very abusive he told me this …I HAVE NEVER in my life met a more abusive toxic dark manipulative man in my life💯….i felt like I was dating a 👿 DEMON….i left him behind broke and running through women….im still healing but he WONT see me break and those women he threw in my face are only going to be left feeling broken …but they don’t have my strength…HE IS DAMAGED AND TRIED TO DAMAGE ME💯..BUT GOD🙏🏽
I thought the confusion meant that perhaps it was a huge misunderstanding, he thought I didn’t want to hear from him, and that I was in the wrong for getting defensive when he ghosted…but he could’ve been clearer, I’ve been putting my pride on the line over and over again through the years to seek that clarity. But he never wanted to give it, so who is really in the wrong?
In order for it to work, you have to give a shit. We all have mommy n daddy issues. Doesn't make anybody special. Work on yourself? Or don't. Time waits for NO man.
Your readings are so accurate for my particular situation... Daddy issues where in his Dad was a work acholic and never told his son he loved him even when he was on his death bed. He had 3x times in 30 years to get it right with me. 3 strikes your out.
Wow! Thank you for putting what I was experiencing into words! I knew everything I was seeing but you helped me put it into perspective. Thank you! Venus OUT! 🥰
Is this divine feminine aware of what it is that he thought was done to him? If not, wouldn’t that be a sign that he might be mistaken? I once had a man in my life who held a vengeance against me for years and retaliated against me in really inhumane ways, because he jumped to conclusions about something that wasn’t real at all, that didn’t even align with my values or who I was. We finally cleared the air about ths misunderstanding after 7 years. I hope the same isn’t happening to this empress, whichever of his women that she is.
I’ve said for 5 yrs get sober & come correct. Now why would I apologize? He got the drugs, alcohol, fraud schemes & all the low class girls he wants. That’s his life choices. I left all that sad shit behind. 😂🎉
This was my ex trying to get me back while also trying to put me in competition with an old high school flame who makes a lot of money now but who at one time had also pretended to have cancer to ghost him lmao. I was triggered very briefly but saw through it and was just like “great you deserve each other”
I left because I was disrespected daily, by him, his mother, and his entire family. Now that I am taking my power back, he's obsessed and will not leave me alone. Funny thing he did through me in a mud puddle when we're kids.
Ooooofffff. Though he knows he was wrong, he also believes I am wrong too. He believes I left him and choose a 3rd party. Though he is not wrong, he is also not correct. A soulmate was handed to me based on my twins' actions. His pride will keep him waiting for an apology I do not believe I need to give, but one I deserve to hear. I won't step off my thorn to meet a man at a level that is beneath me. I have no pride to admit my wrongs, however, I won't butter someone's biscuits with flattery and lies. Step up. Come get me. Or risk losing me over and over and over again. His pride was wounded so he thinks he is the victim.
This is about my brother and his ex(his bm) I love my brother but I love his bm too, she’s the mother of my nephew and at the end of the day im all about growing up spiritually and my girl is not going for his bs and I love that. I tell my brother all the time to listen to subliminals and change his life, if he don’t want to listen oh well.
My cousin wife played his mother figure who because he is her husband friend who is my cousin. She played that while secretly having a secret sexual relationship. His real mother passed away 5yrs ago, she would be appalled at this minister who let him homie wife play mother figure while secretly having relations with him.
Y’all really don’t see that this “reader” keeps y’all stuck in this loop. How is hearing about this toxic crap every single reading helping your spiritual development or healing. Y’all need to wake up to what’s truly keeping y’all stuck.
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I will never apologize for standing up for myself calling him out for the abuse he put me through for absolutely no reason
Me neither
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Same
Same same 💯
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Confusion is his tool ! He is not dumb or confused , that’s his game !
TRUTH
Exactly ❤
I would never want to be the woman that a man married to get revenge on another woman!
Omg, my ex did that. I broke it off after 12 years and he married someone only 2 months after our breakup. He said he did it out of spite. They got an annulment 1 year later. So lame!
He will never admit it. It is what it is. I radically accepted not receiving an apology and I have moved forward for good. My true flame is on his way.
Yup, same. After multiple efforts of communication I concluded that I’ve done all I can, accepted that it’s all in his court now. Moved on
I hear that. Found myself subconsciously waiting on an apology for almost two years and am working on really accepting that I don’t need anything else other than to keep going forward. The lack of the apology is even more of a reason to keep going, in all actuality.
This explains a lot. I couldn't put my finger on why this type of man cultivates so many relationships with females and acts like a player even if it's platonic. Ugh never again. Thank you Jess.
He’s not confused he knew what he was doing
Enabling manipulation due to patronizing is dangerous. This is a prime example. Thank you for shedding light again, Jess❤😊
Yup. Resonates. Makes me sick..
Not waiting for an apology just moving on from the situation
A sigma female is a woman who is independent, analytical, and resilient, and who is not defined by social conformity
A player has always a harem that he plays with, and he definitely has commitment issues. A woman who challenges him will become his worst enemy and the object of his revenge, once his ego is bruised. He will use all these other females to attack the woman who bruised his ego. Weak cowards work this way.
Totally resonates! Vengeful scorpio rising Sagittarius with a narcissist mother and unhealed childhood sexual trauma. Thank you for your clarity! ❤🙏
He's immature and toxic. And yes, his relationship with his adoptive mother is weird. His adoptive dad died when he was a teen (iirc).
It resonates. Im a venus w/cancer asc. Double fire sign. Yes, i will see him in court.
There will be no apologies from me he’s always the victim not playing his games
Omg girl you are on point. Yes, those lady threaten me, because I had told him he has to stay away from any other woman. And yes, he was never there for me and gaslighting me and was always making excuses every time I set a date to meet him. He also got upset with me because I was not interested in his money, so to make him happy I had to tell him that I also like him for his money but truthfully I fell in love with him for his kindness not for his money or his look but for who he showed me at the beginning of the relationship. Yes, I question him all the time about anything I didn’t understand or wasn’t feeling that he was treating me fair and I would speak up and he would get upset and use things I told him about me against me.
We weren’t married but he definitely felt like he owned me! So on the money about his mother- his father was extremely strict and angry alcoholic who took him and his brother away from his mother. There was a weird relationship with his mum. She would see them in secret behind his father’s back. He could do no wrong according to his mother. She died in 2018… and he’s really not coped with having no one that loves him no matter how awful he is to people.
I prayed for this message... yup this id!ot threw these ugly heuxs in my face.. and now hes playing the victim because I chose to walk away because he was disrespecting me.. he takes no accountability for anything... this happened a year ago, me walking away, i came back... and now he is blaming me to no end instead of recognizing what he did to mistreat and push me out of his life... i want to show him your messages but he's stubborn so I doubt he will listen smh.. Thank you Jess... ❤ also.. you are accurate down to eerie details... his mom acted like my bf was her partner smh this is crazy....
I'm glad you said Venus is not a pushover, it's actually something I have been meditating on. Venus keeps Mars in check, there must be balance with the passion that Mars brings or it will just create suffering. In the tarot it's Libra who wields the sword, but the scales take precedence because it's where the heart is weighed.
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Good read!
If you cross people People will cross you
The nuances you express are so accurate. Very gifted.
Nothing but LOVE here in THIS SAFE SPACE!!! 🙏🏼❤️🔥🕊️💯😎🧿
13 yrs wasted on a DL narc.
@@javalily NOT wasted.
Everything was done with a purpose.
Look at you now.
@@Ascensionshealingtarot333 Although I may be in a better position spiritually, I'm still stuck and dependent on him financially. We have a special needs child, and I am a full time stay at home/homeschool mom. I've been trying to break free for over a yr now since I found out about his double life.
@javalily O man mama, prayers your way. I understand having a special needs child AND being a stay at home/homeschooling mother. You have your hands full, and every day is a struggle to move forward. That time and place WILL come. Hold steady and keep the faith.
You are wanted, you are needed, you are valued, and you are loved.
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@@Ascensionshealingtarot333 Thank you. Trying to heal from abuse, while still being abused and living with your abuser is tough.
@@javalily I understand more than I should. 💔
These types of guys usually turn out to be ... not be attracted to women at all... Definitely with these guys who go through woman after woman, and those who become "passport bros".
Wow. This just clarify’s what I have questioned. Mother is elderly and in poor health and he refuses to be a caretaker. Now she is in assisted living and he still refuses to help with her care. I’ve told him until he forgives her for her inability to love him the way he needed to be loved growing up. She will live till he does. And this makes me so sad for him. And because of this I let him treat me poorly.
Absolutely resonates! Mother in Law held inappropriate attachment and codependent relationship with Son. It was obvious and ultimately, led to her being responsible for the ending of our marriage after she and he participated in an assaulted against his pregnant wife, rendering her defenceless.
In my situation communication is sorely lacking. It took a long time for me to figure most of this out.
That's the story of my life. The injustice he caused me hurt me deeply. I left without looking back
This is my life last night and today!
He can feel what he put so many people in ❤ 😢it sucks
I believe this is mine. I am Venus. I am the Empress. I’ve said goodbye and I meant it. I’m done with confusion and heartbreak. I am moving into my future and am taking nothing from the past with me but my lessons, my dog and my now grown children only if they treat me with respect, honesty and reciprocity. Thank you Jess.
Namaste❤
There will be no apologies from me! He's always the victim! Not playing his games!!
He lies to himself about me every day!
V accurate ❤. He runs bk to Moon energies for sympathy
If I have to defend myself I will
I will never appoligize as l was betrayed and l am the empress l chose to protect my space including my children in order to detach away from his dirty space and his karma that he induced upon himself from not cleaning grounding or clearing and cleaning up his past
I am venus and l will never ever be open to competition or be options with others
He is not a victim as he did the damage
I am sorry. Let's move forward and be healthy together. To him, I am sorry. We all have a unique point of view.
Thank you. I know there's no point in giving any more kindness. The unjudge takes too long now.
I'm speechless, always on point as this story is mine. More of it please thank you.
Yes..and it is crazy and at the same time relief to know how many of us has gone through same dynamic and same story with different people in different parts of the world..
On spot. Thanks! Very healing
Nailed it and I’m shook! Libra/Venus here! Message received baby and I could neverrrrr go back and disrespect myself like that.
Why can’t he take accountability? I don’t understand it
Thanks Jess always. God bless
I loved your reading, it resonated completely😊😊
exactly what happened
I'm so over this misogynistic manbaby.
Lol how I've been feeling
I wont come back especially not crying 😂😂😂😂
I am gone!
Thats what he wanted....😂
Damn
Spot on again! I am the divine that this was done upon…
Thank u ❤ I really hope hes not waiting on me apologising for him betraying me and doing what he done 😢 cause that would be silly
Yes exactly. That is accurate.
This couldn't be more accurate! Thanks 😊
You’re welcome 😊
I am this Divine feminine- I just don’t know what to do. This is so ridiculous and heartbreaking 💔
This is EXACTLY what he tried to do this man has spent 2 YEARS trying to destroy my life simply because I WALKED AWAY🙄…I just keep ignoring and leveling up🙏🏽💯❤️👑…I took that pain and alchemises it…into POWER new career,, new cars relocated and bought a new home ALL IN 2 YEARS💯❤️💰…YES his mom was very abusive he told me this …I HAVE NEVER in my life met a more abusive toxic dark manipulative man in my life💯….i felt like I was dating a 👿 DEMON….i left him behind broke and running through women….im still healing but he WONT see me break and those women he threw in my face are only going to be left feeling broken …but they don’t have my strength…HE IS DAMAGED AND TRIED TO DAMAGE ME💯..BUT GOD🙏🏽
I thought the confusion meant that perhaps it was a huge misunderstanding, he thought I didn’t want to hear from him, and that I was in the wrong for getting defensive when he ghosted…but he could’ve been clearer, I’ve been putting my pride on the line over and over again through the years to seek that clarity. But he never wanted to give it, so who is really in the wrong?
In order for it to work, you have to give a shit. We all have mommy n daddy issues. Doesn't make anybody special. Work on yourself? Or don't. Time waits for NO man.
I don’t even know what to do with this anymore? 💔
Your readings are so accurate for my particular situation... Daddy issues where in his Dad was a work acholic and never told his son he loved him even when he was on his death bed. He had 3x times in 30 years to get it right with me. 3 strikes your out.
God will teach him.. surrender in his feet ..
Yet we can change for the better Always
My my ...how did find out all that????
Wooooooow so accurate
brooo the thumbnail is on point!
Jess, this I'd specifically resonating situationally, affirming my intuition and I'm connecting the dots.
Thank you 🥰💗🙏
And this man is a divorced Gen X er...behaves like a teenager. He wants a quality woman, but hangs with idiots.
I camt talk for him but this is exactly what happened
This man needs to grow up in devilspeed instead of godspeed because that can be slow! But temptation speed can come fast :)
Wow! Thank you for putting what I was experiencing into words! I knew everything I was seeing but you helped me put it into perspective. Thank you! Venus OUT! 🥰
Is this divine feminine aware of what it is that he thought was done to him? If not, wouldn’t that be a sign that he might be mistaken?
I once had a man in my life who held a vengeance against me for years and retaliated against me in really inhumane ways, because he jumped to conclusions about something that wasn’t real at all, that didn’t even align with my values or who I was. We finally cleared the air about ths misunderstanding after 7 years. I hope the same isn’t happening to this empress, whichever of his women that she is.
Narcissist
I’ve said for 5 yrs get sober & come correct. Now why would I apologize? He got the drugs, alcohol, fraud schemes & all the low class girls he wants. That’s his life choices. I left all that sad shit behind. 😂🎉
This is so on point. Thank you so much you your helpful and confirming insight. I appreciate fully. 🙏🏻💕🌞🕊
You are so welcome!! 💜
I’m not going to embarrass myself in front of my children for him . I don’t care for anyone’s approval outside of whom I owe any to .
This was my story I’m divine feminine
This was my ex trying to get me back while also trying to put me in competition with an old high school flame who makes a lot of money now but who at one time had also pretended to have cancer to ghost him lmao. I was triggered very briefly but saw through it and was just like “great you deserve each other”
I left because I was disrespected daily, by him, his mother, and his entire family. Now that I am taking my power back, he's obsessed and will not leave me alone. Funny thing he did through me in a mud puddle when we're kids.
He never had a revenge plot. He never even knew that they were competition... He was used to being abused not the other way around
gotdamn if that’s 100% how it be
Ooooofffff.
Though he knows he was wrong, he also believes I am wrong too.
He believes I left him and choose a 3rd party. Though he is not wrong, he is also not correct.
A soulmate was handed to me based on my twins' actions.
His pride will keep him waiting for an apology I do not believe I need to give, but one I deserve to hear.
I won't step off my thorn to meet a man at a level that is beneath me.
I have no pride to admit my wrongs, however, I won't butter someone's biscuits with flattery and lies.
Step up.
Come get me.
Or risk losing me over and over and over again.
His pride was wounded so he thinks he is the victim.
Sounds like my story...
Never gonna happen! 🤮
Who wants to continue living a lie
This is about my brother and his ex(his bm) I love my brother but I love his bm too, she’s the mother of my nephew and at the end of the day im all about growing up spiritually and my girl is not going for his bs and I love that. I tell my brother all the time to listen to subliminals and change his life, if he don’t want to listen oh well.
LOL. The title. Isn’t that just the way.
This is exactly my ex wife.
My cousin wife played his mother figure who because he is her husband friend who is my cousin. She played that while secretly having a secret sexual relationship. His real mother passed away 5yrs ago, she would be appalled at this minister who let him homie wife play mother figure while secretly having relations with him.
Spot on but the third parties will be leaving them and taking their money for the karma
Projecting is what your doing rite now
What is a jerk.. we had a longterm relationship and he failed to launch. When push came to shove he ran.
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Oh my God ,,, so on target with that title !!!
Poor polyamorous baby 😮
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Omg he slept with his sister n his mum
😂you’re wrong
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Lol...
Y’all really don’t see that this “reader” keeps y’all stuck in this loop. How is hearing about this toxic crap every single reading helping your spiritual development or healing. Y’all need to wake up to what’s truly keeping y’all stuck.
One of the videos you said downlow and you stop . Please can you make video is he gay ?