A Single Mother In China Is Shocked That No Man Is Willing To Raise Her Child With Her
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- Опубліковано 21 жов 2024
- A Single Mother In China Is Shocked That No Man Is Willing To Raise Her Child With Her
In this eye-opening video, we explore the real-life challenges faced by single mothers in China, focusing on the remarriage difficulties they encounter. Our story follows a single mother who is shocked to discover that no man is willing to raise her child with her. We delve into the complex journey of divorced women trying to find new partners, as well as the struggles they face in the marriage market for single-parent families.
The video sheds light on whether single mothers need to remarry, the marriage expectations of divorced women, and the reluctance of men to raise non-biological children. We also examine the struggles of remarried single mothers and whether they can find happiness again. Through this woman's story, we aim to provide a fresh perspective on relationships and remarriage in China.
If you're interested in learning more about the real-life issues faced by single mothers in China, their standards for marriage, and the difficulties they endure when trying to re-enter the marriage market, don't miss this video.
A Chinese man with an annually salary of 500k yuans would NOT want a single mother. He has endless options.
she was sounding reasonable until she got to that point.
@@pauldwalker so true, I though. Hey some reasonable person this time? And was all for naught
@@BlueBirdgg yeah i thought that too, she's not that unreasonable until she got to the 500k yan part lol
A single man of any income and age should not want a single mother - ever!
@@associatealpha1166 , Dating single parents isn't the real issue.
Single mother's requirement for men: makes a lot of money, tall, very good looking, good personality, young, not married, good with kids, good job, no children, not poor, not ugly... etc etc... Men's requirement for single mothers: Don't be a single mother🤣😂
ahahahah facts~~~~
Men's requirement for single mothers: Does not even compute. The requirements does not exists. Single mother not eligible for 99 % of men.
You are missing: don't be overweight, younger than 35, don't be bisexual, and body count less than 3.
@@chithiennguyen1371 35?? you mean 25
@@chithiennguyen1371 nah bodycount less than 1
The reality is dating a woman with a child is like eating a stranger's cold hot-pot with spit in it, and then having to pay for it.
💯 percent correct; no single mothers, I recommend that young men don't even date in 2024 ( I m 55) It's just a waste of time and money.
These women are the ultimate used car salesmen.
Charging £1m for a 30 yr old Lada - and then wonder why no one is interested.
😂
@@largedoglover99not quite a million quid but brand new Porsche prices for a very used 15 year old Corolla with new paint job. These women are delusional. As with western women.
Lada!!!!
Over 1 milione km. Great replica man
@@fteoOpty64correct, or maybe even an old Datsun 180 B from the late 70 s: These gals are delusional af: I ( stupidly) lived in China for a while, I know what they are like.
They are just all looking for their retirement plan... but can offer nothing in return.
Woman, your retirement plan, you pay.
Correct…
I'm 40 at my peak of earning potential. Couple months ago I got introduced a single mum with 17 year old daughter.
They think I'm a cuck to help raise someone's child. 😅
Never kuk yourself !
Wait 1 year..marry the daughter
women already delusional, single mothers are the most delusional of all
@@iruwild this
@@iruwildThat's a better option but the daughter won't be much good either. She'll have learned from her single mum.
Pretty faces because of fake up and filters but really black hearted.
But on the bright side, I'm glad they all use makeup and filters, otherwise we will be staring at the catfish on the screen 😂
What looks good on them is their makeup not the good character.
All their phones have so much filter on it its not even funny
No marriage
No protecting and providing women
No military service
No saving society
Go your own way.. Be a free man... Live for yourself brother...
Well said!
100 agreed. Every Free man for himself! free from all of it.
💯 percent! MGTOW 2024!
And no relationships
Manchild way of living. Don’t let the crabs pull you down.
The first woman wants a man without children, but she wants him to accept hers?
That alone is asking too much. It's a double standard.
Red 🚩......blood red 🚩
It had more red flags than a CCP parade.
No more playing "Captain Save a Ho"
The matchmaker in the beginning is a wonderful person for removing gold diggers.
Yeah she was savage😂
I love the matchmaker's straightforwardness. No sugar-coated truth was told !👍😊
Her ex husband must be a former simp, he was stupid enough for making her his wife, thanks god he wakes up and leave her, hopefully he warned his friends and families about that kind of woman
I love the part where she said. You should go next door and make a wish at the church...
I think she also deserves credit for being one of the few that gives a logical real solution, which is getting with a retired man. I never thought of that before it makes more sense. He may be looking for company but he would also want a woman with an actual housewife nurturing nature. This woman would get free rent and father figure while demanding she not have to do the dishes or any housework.
Divorced men bad, divorcem women good. WTF?
feminism takes yet another massive L
Any divorce always the men's fault.
women's logic
@@GameFuMaster Supported by Injustice System, Media, Government, Society, Woman's Friends and Family..
"I'm just a matchmaker. If you want to make a wish, go directly to a temple next time."
I fucking croaked
Lol, "this is a matchmaking service, not a temple."
that was vicious lol
I cracked up at that too
Actually I started to like the match maker at that point !!
Even the GOD will run away like Usain Bolt, on hearing little EXPECTATIONS.
Rabid 😂😂😂
I'm sorry ladies, man don't care if you "look" young. you need to "be" young.
Correct, 40 years old and pretty is still 40 years old.
So basically, she brings nothing to the table except for her desperation. And she actually expects a man who is better than her to jump at the chance to dig her out of her hole.
They're so focused on what they want, they don't realise that they're offering nothing but burden to the man.
What these women are saying is, "It's so hard to land that 2% of men who make 500k, are 1.90 tall, want to cook and clean for me, pay for all of my children purchases, never ending plastic surgery, mental counseling with my bipolar drama."
Also I need a better lawyer to fight with my ex-husband..
u said that already
They don't say 1.90 tall, but usually 1.75 and 1.80 tall, which is above the average in China top 25%.
@@chithiennguyen1371 they'll take a circus midget if there's enough money there... 🤡
woman: me, me, me, me, me, uhhh, oh me
And don't forget her kids
@@freeagent.87Her kids are only used to extract money from her ex-husband, after they turn 18 they will be thrown away to become a new generation of community garbage. 🤦🏻♂️
Yes, selfish and greedy, just like Western gals!
"Go to temple, to make a wish" 😂
I don't know why any man earning 300k would go for this woman with lot of baggages when there is young fish 🐠🙈....also their terms & conditions 🤕
Single mother can have an opinion but others can't have an opinion.
*men - can’t have an opinion or preferences apparently.
Woman can have opinions, men make decisions.
It's "The Opinion" ! :)
Men get things done, women just whine and complain and play the victim.
Cats....lots of cats. This is what these women need.
They eat the cats
7:14 at this point, I'll date your daughter when she's old enough and you can be a mother in law instead lel
😅I love it
LMFAO!!!
It's sad to be 40 in this situation and still think like a teenager
@RoadieSanchez because simps exist, so they can afford to. Plus toxic positivity from friends.
However, Chinese males seems less simp.
why marry a singlemom who chose to be divorced, when you can wait for her daughter to become an adult.
" anticipation " is killing me .
ironic that a single mother doesn't want a man with children.
Single mother - someone else's problem.
They're single mom for a reason.
"She hopes to find a man to marry so they can share the financial pressure" 😄 meaning so she can transfer some of her financial burden onto him.
All of the financial burden and many others as well.
@@associatealpha1166 Yes, of course, after all marriage has to make HER happy, otherwise what's the point of marrying, right?
Truth and Accountability is Women’s Kryptonite.
I am a british man retired living in the Philippines. My younger filipina partner has three children. Shr is a widow. Her 2 sons are adults now. Her one son is 12 years old. We have lived together a long time. I would suggest that Chinese men look for partnere outside of China. Love should not be transactional.
A widow? That means her husband died?
Young men around the world this goes out to you, do not date single mothers, they are incomplete families typically, the only thing that you should actually think about is if she is a widow, or if you know for sure that her past relationship what's violent not on her Part... Not that she just tells you that it was violent you need to see documented proof. But even in that instance you should take extreme caution... In my estimation I would say 95% of the time she just left for a selfish reason, it's not worth the risk.
She should go back to her baby daddy and work every thing out with him and she is stupid if she doesn’t
Imagine having an old car (40 years) with a new paint job. Would you buy the car as if it was new? No way, it's still old with high mileage.
Woman charges virgin prices for clearly non-virgin hardware.
Delusional lol
Old car with many miles , and damage. But want new price tag. 😂
The press of reality constantly holds men accountable.
But never fear, as TIME eventually holds women accountable!
Wisdom for women usually arrives after it's too late, yet before it arises, they know and... have the answer for everything!
She does not look young she looks 40
Imagine how these women look without the makeup and filter.....lord have mercy.
Just thinking about it made me an atheist.
And for how long they remain in this state...
The fact is, men live better lives unmarried in every way. Women dont understand they need to sell us on marriage.
Why don't those women try looking at the person instead of their situation. Example: One woman said she doesn't care about money, but then she said he needs to make 500,000 a year. She doesn't make since. It doesn't matter if a person makes 50,000 or 500,000 if that person is not good. Those women keep looking at what a man has, instead of looking at the man. If he's a good man and doesn't make a lot of money, he will love her and help her with her child. Two people can come together and are a happy life if they truly love each other. Stop looking at what someone has. Look at the person. 😮😊
Maximum love level of a wahmen is Pragma (Greek, 2000 years old) - pragmatic love.
She asks for 500,000 yuan, which is 71,000 UDS per year, which is reasonable in the US, but the top 5% in China. Average Chinese make like 70,000 to 100,000 yuan, which is 10,000 to 15,000 USD per year.
Wow the entitlement and delusion are off the charts.
Yeah I sense a disturbance…
Social media has rotted their little brains.
Men should not date nor marry a single mother. It does not matter how the woman became a single mother. It is foolish for a man to raise a child that is not related to him by blood! Of course, there are exceptions like adoptions or raising children of a relative, but that's about it.
Widows too
@@yaadythommo5548 , Yes! Widows, too!
Like wantung to eat a bubble gum chewed by someone else before.
raising someone else's child is like having to clean up after and pay for a party you weren't invited to.
First of all, you wouldn't eat it, it'd be borrowed as long as you pay for it, and it was most certainly chewed by many guys before.
Платить выкуп за 41 летнюю женщину с ребёнком которая разрушила предыдущий брак к тому-же ещё и высокомерна , кто в здравом уме на это согласится , когда кругом полно молодых и красивых девушек.
All these women all say, what they want and demand, but never say, what they offer. GD
They think they look young for their age. A high profile man should be honored to have her.lol
Women is a bad investment lol
Women never were an investment, lol 😂
Why would that be a shock for single mother? It is universal men prefer to have his own kids.
The introduction from any single mother looking for a BF or husband should begin with something like this: "I realize I've made serious mistakes in the past that caused me to be a single mother. However, I have learned from them, worked hard to change my behavior, and grown beyond those mistakes...etc.". Then she should talk about how she is now a responsible person and what proves that. If she does this, her probability of being considered goes from 0% to about 20%. Such a woman that demands, off the bat, that a man meet her stringent critera goes from 0% to whatever is infinitely less than 0%.
Beggars cannot be choosers.
Yup. But the problem with these women is, they don't know they're beggars and are delusional enough to think they're still the catch (even in their 40's and with kids).
These beggers chose sorrow.
thing is, they see themselves as princesess
OMG, these women need to turn those damn filters off!
Not sure why Chinese women are so hard in rejecting divorced men. Those can be the best, as they understand relationship better than any. Anyway, no man will want to raise other's child, regardless how beautiful the woman is. For fun: yes, for relationship: hell no.
"For fun: yes, for relationship: hell no."
TRUE
Because Chinese have just broken away from the traditional values of divorce aversion for a few years, and people are generally stricter with men, Chinese women usually maliciously speculate that the divorced man must be a bad person or that there is something wrong with him.
Old car with many mileage. Worn out paint and damage. But want a new price . 😂 I’m glad men are opening their eyes and seeing the scam.
delusion of these single moms is off the charts
Only men with very few choices would marry a single mother. A single mother's intention is always questionable because it is always influenced by financial support to the child who is not even the man's.
Social media is revealing just how exploitative and cutthroat human nature really is. We just casually objectify each other while under the delusion that what we're doing is perfectly moral. Everyone's a self-interested psychopath with no sense of charity. But this is why we need Jesus.✝
Why are there more single moms than single dads?🤓🤓
I think they need perspective. I am financially low earning man but had plenty of success with women in life. In online dating I skip over even the hottest SMs imaginable unless they're just looking for a hook up. So if I have enough self esteem from having attracted in the past to skip them, then why in the world would a man ( who is no stranger to women) with lots of money with unlimited options be looking their way unless he is super old and just wants the company? Its not even personal its just internally something tells you bad idea unless they want to be the breadwinner and pay you to be the father to their child, lol.
Most men in the world don't have the same success with females as you, so they simp for SM.🤣
OMG that firs lady, Bingo 👏👏👏 😂😂😂😁😁
She didunt be hold back.
She had me LOL
😂😂😂😂😂 She runs a failed beauty business. She doesn’t run a beauty business anymore. No man is in their right mind. It’s gonna take her. She’s gonna be single with cats.
First I thought the woman on minute 6 ist quite decent. But than I asking myself, 500000 yuan so around 70000 US$.
Girl we are in China. Indeed there are a lot of rich ppl. But normal guys don't make 70000 US .
Bwletzer you go to Switzerland
She asks for 500,000 yuan, which is 71,000 UDS per year, which is reasonable in the US, but the top 5% in China. Average Chinese make like 70,000 to 100,000 yuan, which is 10,000 to 15,000 USD per year.
Single mothers are the same all over the world ! It will be a hard NO for me !
A single mother isn't even attractive
Has no one told these ladies that they hold no value in the dating market being a single mother especially post wall women in their lat 30s. Plus the men they look for has all the options why would the men take on another man's responsibility.
So is not only a western problem 😅
Chinese women are low key very promiscuous.
Her mind and her idea are not beautiful. She is not an ideal woman for anyone to marry her that is why she is single forever.
The USA and China are in a similar boat 😮.
That second woman has her act together…too bad I don’t speak Chinese!
sad become a mother single better focus yourself look after the child.
Buying a used car without shock absorbers. Going to be a rough ride! Count me out!
They not looking for love. They are looking for a sponsor.
@youngjohn5076 ATM instead of sponsor. Sponsor have rules.
To the 31 yo who wants a man with normal teeth. Have you looked in the mirror?
Plenty of Captain SaveAHos in the US.
Play stupid games, win stupid prizes 🎉🎉🎉
Pure delusional…she’s in her 40 with a child looking to get married but not offering the man anything,you can’t make this up..
My uncle ❤❤❤ used to say Son, who last marry grama will definitely going to be the one to buries her. Secondly marrying a single mother or woman age from 25 upwards, it's like BUYING A USED CAR WITH HIGHER MILEAGE .
Sheng nu.
Something...woman.
Unwanted single women and divorced women should and must pay dowry to find and get their husbands. If the husband divorce his wife he must pay back double the dowry. If the wife divorce the man after paying the dowry to get a husband she forfeits the paid dowry.
There is little to no incentive why a man would want to take care of another child which isnt theirs especially when they are few years olders already. Unless he is sterile and unable to have children. Furthermore, there is no benefit for him if the woman does not want any child with him. Only retired men will probably consider it. Some of the women do not sound that bad in terms of their requirements, while some thinking divorce men are all bad, that is a major red flag to avoid her at all cost.
I think that these Chinese women are living outside the reality……I’m not surprise that they are alone or divorced. Men don’t want to raise a child from an other guy….
No wonder why they are divorced. Funny how they all feel that they are attractive and younger than their real age. Expected a man to want them and their kid but don't want to have a kid with the new husband. Wanting a rich man only. Well hate to break it to these gold digger but a rich single man will never want to marry a divorce with a child. No matter how you think of yourself others may not see the same. Not saying it can't happen. If you don't have a kind and gentle heart, but a gold digger heart. No one will want you. As if gold digger on your resume wasn't bad enough, you have a kid, divorced, demanding too much of the future husband, not giving anything back. Even marriage won't be possible in your dreams.
This is one thing I actually want to see in the west.
G.P.S. is too strong in this era of "equality"
ahahahahah
That's my first time seeing that phrase on UA-cam, lol, worlds are colliding.
For the uninitiated, he means golden Pu$$y syndrome where they think their snatch is magic and deserves as little wear and tear as possible.
5:34 she started off so well. Then she went full gold digger reveal despite saying money isn't everything 😂 get the f out of here!
She asks for 500,000 yuan, which is 71,000 UDS per year, which is reasonable in the US, but the top 5% in China. Average Chinese make like 70,000 to 100,000 yuan, which is 10,000 to 15,000 USD per year.
@@chithiennguyen1371 average american makes like 30k USD a year
@@karsaorlong3761 how do you calculate that? I thought American made on average $5,000 per month.
@@chithiennguyen1371 nevermind your numbers are correct, i think i was looking at different demographic, yeah the average for males is like 65k
Well, considering the state of Western economies right now, out of control inflation and debt, I doubt many men are making more than 100 K a year. I know I m certainly not!
Smart men
That first woman gotta be trolling
Wow. 2:06 nothing to do with love and everything to do with $$ ! Stay clear of this thing .
They all say. "Oh it's about personality. Never believe that."
They opened their legs. Have a kid, it's over. No successful person will have used goods. 😮
500,000 yuan is $71,293 USD doable but a stretch. At 36 years old with a child what does she bring to the table?
Women can get a robot. Robot can be programmed to do what these women want. Haha!
These women whose divorce should not have high requirements.
All i hear from them all is "i'm lazy and i don't wanna do this and that.. i want a man to do it for me because i'm a woman" blah blah .. lol
Bad investment on single mother definitely. Why would I dump money into someone else child that is not mine ?
This is how single mother thinks, doesn't matter where you from.😂
Single moms have so little to offer in a relationship. Yet they somehow have the highest expectations and non-negotiables such hight and financials.
"im looking for an ATM"
Greedy , arrogant, vamp..😅
LOL😂, I come here only to Laugh . Those old women should be stand up comedians. They would be great to Laugh at while they present their delusions
3:39 This lady is spot on! OooooohWe She cold ! She told her the truth about everything and the other lady got mad but word for word she told her the truth!
Is there a Chinese version of "The Brady Bunch"? At the very least, you'd think a man with a child would be a good sitcom or something. Single Mom Seeks Single Dad at least makes sense!
“I’m just a match maker, if you want to make a wish go directly to a temple next time” lol daaaamnnnn
Anyways, single mother's are giving mistress and concubine vibes.
im 44. been single 3 years. downed tools, had work break. didnt realise how long, its been nice. im looking to date a 25 year old. restart a business. its how it is now. im at my peak earning now for 10 years then retire somewhere possibly with kids. men in my position need flexibility in a woman. both with time and resources while i work, and that body too after. 😊
It's a trend in China when people see a woman listing unrealistic criteria for choosing a mate, they will say to her, "If you want to make a wish, go to the temple or go to the wishing well."