The title makes it sound like the ex-husband and girlfriend are both trans and the husband is the one who's going to be carrying the baby. I've read it a few times and I don't know if I'm misreading it or the title is wrong.
Unfortinatly too many women are bisexual or lesbian thess days, thats why Im scared to date women because she might turn out to be more attracted to women
Can y'all retrain the person who does captions for these videos? It says, "My Ex-husband Is Having My Girlfriend's baby." Shouldn't it say: *My Girlfriend Is Having My Ex-husband's baby.* ???
And the sweet confused little boy, when asked by the pregnant one " we hit it off, didn't we buddy?" No response, looking so confused, then shaking his head no. Seems to me Social Services needs to investigate the abnormalities of children's living conditions
@@cathybt hey Cathy! I heard that part but he can still be active parent and move out. My parents are divorced and I love both. I find it odd he agrees to not only live with them but be a sperm donor to his ex new kid. My thoughts that’s all
@@cathybt As another commenter said he can move out and still be an active father with 50/50 custody. Regardless, I’m sure he has other reasons like maybe not being able to afford a place of his own, still attached to his ex, etc. The kids for sure aren’t the only reason cuz any sane person would have moved out by now.
@@ChurchBasementSpaghetti lmao you’re one of those peoples who spreads hate and shields on children when they don’t really care about children. So sit down.
It works for US? You mean it works for YOU. Feels like the Husband had NO CHOICE but to ride along with it because i'm sure he still LOVES YOU and felt like this was the only way that he could still be with you in some way. NO S**T I would be happy too if I could have everything go my way lmao Poor dude investing 9 years with someone who he thought he would be with FOREVER and even had kids with you but then to hear TIK TOK was the reason she changed lmao I have ZERO problems with the situation IF ALL THREE people involved were 100% FINE with it. IDK from the video it just seems like the Husband was put in a Lose lose situation and just choose to put his life on the back burner while she gets to enjoy all the rewards. The fact that they even asked him to be a sperm donor too is crazy like damn dude she ends the marriage and then wants you to have a kid with the person who she ended the marriage for lmao
I agree. If all the adults were ok with it, and kids weren’t brought into the mix this wouldn’t be an issue. It’s just odd that they spend so long together and then the mom drastically changed without considering that her husband isn’t really ok with her personal choice.
If he did, I could picture them being in another episode called “my new girlfriend fell in love with my ex and her girlfriend” or something like that, and just have the cycle continue over and over until her has a small community of mini-me’s because all his exe’s want his kids.
It just weird because they are living together still and he is not all happy like he is portraying I don’t buy it. I wonder if the wife still would be happy if he decided to leave and take the kids with him
For all we know, she's only bi. This tends to be the case often when husbands are very masculine. This isn't a knock on him but women do rate masculine as more intimately preferred. Some try women out of a desire for just more intimacy. Very different from a woman whom always hated the male appendage.
She used marriage and kids to secure herself financially. She gonna leech him and is using the second woman to duck more out of him. The same thing Eva from top model just did. She is completely in the closet and only used her ex for money. She even got him to adopt her baby from that R&B singer
Society is in such a scary place, I feel awful for her children and for the father he actually seems like a good dude he doesn’t deserve to have a wife like that.
I am queer and attracted to women mainly been my preference…however I can’t imagine ever doing this dynamic and/or situation as ultimately someone is potentially going to serve a purpose and once that purpose is not needed they will be taken out of the equation plus I can’t help thinking that guy looks very unhappy through a put on smile as if he is putting on a brave face, the ladies seem more about there two happiness than the guys 😢
Very true. Deep in our souls I think we can almost all see that this isn't right at all. He probably didn't want to do this, but he felt like he "had to". Probably has very low self-esteem and guilt issues. Sigh. Can relate.
He probably feels like if he stays, it’s more time with his children. If he left the household, he wouldn’t see them as much, and he looks like a pretty “hands on” father.
The husband encouraged her to go on that date while he stayed home and watched the kids....bruh...a lack of self respect from the husband and a lack of respect from the wife.
Linda is literally dating the female version of her ex. Also this isn't a "mature separation" because that comes with the full commitment of starting new without the comforts of your old life.
So you've never heard of an amicable breakup or co-parenting? What position are you in to dictate how someone "should" live their life in a manner that doesn't personally affect you? Who says a person can't have comforts from their old life? According to who? Where is that written? Who came up with these imaginary "rules" that obviously don't exist nor apply to everyone?
This is some next level foolery going on here. If my spouse decided that their true sexual preference was the same sex. I would respect that hurt and all. The children would still have time with that parent just not living with the new partner and us in the same house 🤷🏾♀️
@@poncho520nyc9 I agree, but the girlfriend and ex boyfriend are also Erving some type of benefit. The ex boyfriend gets to stay in a house and be with his kids, and the new girlfriend gets a sperm donor and gets the befit of having a woman and man support her and her baby. Thought the ex-boyfriends is definitely getting the short end of the stick.
I had an ex tell me she's also in to women. I broke up with her a couple of weeks later. men start having some respect for yourselves. don't let these women use You. if they break up he will be on the hook for child support. it's not worth it
Just tell us you’re a homophobe and insecure, it’s better to admit it than beat around the bush so to speak. You’ll find yourself pretty disappointed with the amount of women who like both.
Let this be a lesson in low confidence & low self esteem. He has both unfortunately smh No person with any amount of self respect would allow themselves to stay in this situation when its not benefiting them AT ALL. He's defintely not helping his kids because kids can tell when a parent is unhappy. Moving out and rebuilding his life while staying in their lives would've been the better move & is going to have to happen one way or another. He's just not realizing that it's over and him staying close is not going to get her back. Even if she does comeback she wont be the same person she was when they fell in love. Move on & move out bro.
She loves spinelessnss. Her need for manipulation and control is psychotic. They both won't stand up to her so she is playing with them like a girl plays with dolls. She will eventually leave both or and more to her cult
The wife said her ex husband, they didn't get devorced so they are still legally married. I feel for the husband he is stuck in the middle of this arrangement and he isn't being truth to himself. And he is the third wheel. I think he loves his wife and children but will do anything to make her happy, what happened to his happiness.
Hahah, I laughed at that too, but I suspect he doesn’t understand what ‘hit it off’ means - I certainly wouldn’t have at that age. Although perhaps I’m biased as that’s not a term we would have used so much here in the UK 35 years ago…
I love how the comment section literally exposes: 1) potentially violent men with fragile masculinity and misogynistic comments. 2) misogynistic women 3) people who shield their hate beneath children when they don’t really care about children in the first place 4) people who try to sound smart and educated but they used psychiatric terms and type about statistics when they can’t even cite sources right.
I'm a trans guy and I literally thought that yet some other trans guy was having a baby and it wasn't even so. This was so confusing. This whole thing also is unhealthy and sucks for that poor dude. Even though he cucked himself on his own accord. Still feel bad for him.
I must have missed how long the soon to be ex-wife and her gf have been dating. I think if you plan to bring more kids into this, the dating period should be a good amount of time. If the ex-wife decides down the road that she's no longer lesbian, yes, this actually happens, than it could get complicated with more children involved. "We can borrow my husbands swimmers!". Or maybe the husband could turn out to be the very rare lesbian only attracted to male. His part in all of this seems to be up in the air. Hopefully everything turns out to where everyone is perfectly happy.
I hope the husband finds someone he seems like a good guy. No matter how you feel about it, it’s respectable for them to create a happy household. Many children with divorced parents have to go back and fourth to different houses and have to deal with their parents conflicts. It’s nice to see a family that makes a happy home for them and their kids
Unfortinatly too many women are bisexual or lesbian thess days, thats why Im scared to date women because she might turn out to be more attracted to women
You cannot have a happy household with this type of environment. It will end in disaster and ultimatly the husband is at fault. A real tragedy for these poor babies.
I love that this guy cares for his ex and her girlfriend, but I kinda have the feeling that he thinks he has to and that he isn't completely over her... it's great that they still have a friendship. Beneficial for the kids. But having a kid with her new girlfriend makes it kinda confusing. And also, is the guy gonna act like the kids dad? Or will the kid just have 2 moms? Or 2 moms and a dad. Probably gonna be confusing for the kid too.
It won't be, some kids have divorced parents and their spouses who are involved in their lives, it'll be the same for this couple and their surrogate, are we just going to pretend like he isn't the father of his ex's two kids, I doubt he would disown his kids because the relationship didn't work out with his ex
Well he's a surrogate donor, I doubt they did the deed because she's a lesbian , I mean wouldn't you want the donor to be someone that you're familiar with rather than a stranger? I can agree that it's surprising that he actually consented to being his ex's new partner's donor, people can grow and change, I doubt he's still heart broken over this
@Blixxie .12 tbh, no i wouldn't want a donor who I know and most certainly not close to. Would only make it confusing and harder. If I had a relationship with a woman and I want children with her I want her and me to be the mothers and not the donor to be a real father to the child. May sound a bit weird, but he's a donor just because 2 women can't have kids naturally. And if I wasn't the one carrying the child it would just feel like he's taking my place. That's just my opinion on it tho
@@Mrcleanfrfr It might also depend on what you prefer. Carroted swimmers are the subject of concern today. Pure is worth is weight in gold. Hope that's all worked out too for all their sakes.
First, to watch one video about one family and assume this is how the entire country is…you sound dumb and ignorant. 2: if this works for them, then cool. I can’t see how this effect you in any shape or form. 3. How is this madness? How? Because it doesn’t align with your view, values and beliefs. 4. Nobody is telling you your relationship is right or wrong. This is their modern family. They make it work for them. But…yah, we have like 1 or 2 heterosexual married couples in the US too. I m sure you knew that😂😂😂😂
So what happens when the guy decides to move on and get remarried? Is the new wife moving in? Is he moving out? Is he paying child support for his sperm donor baby?
Yes this was Linda plan from jump. Three kids under her control will provide a nice amount to step off with and she gonna take the house. The ex can't kick the lady out because she lives there
This woman is selfish beyond belief. The whole situation is Gross! Did they seriously make her husband knock up a lesbian!? And to call this toxic mess a “blended family.”
Not a chance that man is actually happy inside. Lose your wife of 9 years, have sex a few times with her new butch girlfriend, and then help them raise the kids as a sexless roommate.
Probably did just to get her pregnant. That route would be way way cheaper than IVF, going to a clinic, and all of that. Probably put her in doggy style on her most fertile day and boom. And once she got pregnant never again. That's my guess 🤣🤣🤣🤣
I can’t recall needing your opinion. :) the world has become a better place for those who need love support and protection and guess what? You’re not included and you’re not welcome :) 😊
We normalize wickedness in everything nowadays. They seem like nice people and probably would set out to hurt a fly but this is wrong on many levels. God help us!
your heart should break for orphans and poor kids in horrible situations, kids with abusive parents, sick kids, kids raised in shitty divorces, there are millions of these kids in this world, on the other hand, these kids look well fed, have parents who are on good terms, they are going to have step siblings from a good person who plays with them, why is your heart breaking on the confusion part? there are so many positive things these kids will be raised with
I honestly get what you meant. Some people just refuse or even want to understand what you meant. Its sad to see the father has no balls and for his wife to shake them in his face. As a husband myself , I would refusr to be apart of this confused mess.
I really don't understand all the hate that this is getting. It's not as if she did this on purpose. She realised something about herself and rather than hide it she decided to live her truth and did so in a way that will harm the people around her the least. If the situation is making people around her unhappy then they need to communicate that to her and make sure they protect themselves as well. I really don't understand why someone wanting to keep the love and support in a family whilst also pursuing happiness themselves is seen as such a bad thing? All the hate comments I'm reading are just saying it's bad rather than actually explaining why they think it's bad.
It's not like they are a big happy family. How would you feel if your husband or wife decided to divorce you and replace you and the new husband or wife moves into your house? You're supposed to be OK with that and stay together for the kid's sake? You decide to date and move on, but how is the new person going to feel about you living with your ex? But, this is somehow all acceptable because it's a same sex relationship?
Yeah. If anything they brought their relationship issues to the kids. Cuz I’m sure they see how miserable their dad is with this arrangement. I think it’s odd how people aren’t seeing this issue.
Ok I thought this was going to be another weird trans thing where the trans man gets pregnant and it’s uncanny valley. Title is confusing for no reason other than clickbait. A lady realized she was a lesbian during her marriage and is still close enough with her ex to ask him to donate sperm so she can have another child with her current partner. That’s not so weird, just feel bad for the ex husband for wasting time on a relationship that was ultimately going to end. I’m sure he’s more hurt than he appears, but it’s nice they’re friends.
He's still in love with her and would rather third-wheel than lose her. I totally get it. Why the ex-wife lets him stick around is another story... Maybe they're just genuinely good people who wanted to follow through with the commitment they made by having kids. In that case, I applaud them. They seem more respectable than most.
So *he's* essentially a third wheel and he'll have kids with basically you both?! He needs to get divorced and move on. He def shouldn't have agreed to impregnate the lesbian girlfriend either. He's basically stuff for life genetically -
I fail to see what the guy is getting out of this. And I have a hard time imagining the girls being ok with it when he brings another girl home one day.
The guy is terrified OG being seen as the bad guy. His parents taught him to consider others before himself and he is in the clutches of a psychotic woman who is building a cult
Typical beta-male and egotistical woman who doesn't know what she wants and puts her selfish needs first even if it means destroying her marriage and family. I feel bad for the guy since he got dragged into her nonsense. God knows, if he had a girlfriend move in she wouldn't accept it. All the best for them though!
Wow, these were my neighbors at one time. They always seemed happy and in love with each other. Never saw this coming. As long as their happy and content as they claim to be, then that’s all what matters
Tik Tok made her a lesbian. I understand at the base level its not exactly what she meant, but with everything happening around the world I wouldn't be surprised if all of this craziness just stems from the algorithm feeding us
if this man is happy then we need to be happy for him. one day he will meet the person he's meant to spend his life with ❤ right now hes focused on being a good dad
Ooooh no 😂 I am a latebloomer lesbian too, my ex fiancé and I broke up because I am into women, but I honestly couldn't imagine my future wife to have my ex's kid's too 😂 But then again, I wouldn't be with a woman who still is married to her ex and lives with her ex. Each to their own ofcourse, if it works for them, that's great! It just looks like he isn't happy with it.
Unfortinatly too many women are bisexual or lesbian thess days, thats why Im scared to date women because she might turn out to be more attracted to women
@@CL-ew7wh That is just hilarious 😂 We, queer women, have a tiny dating pool in comparison to you, a hetero guy. Most women just are straight. You have it so much easier, but you still act like a minority 🙃 Male logic
People feel sorry for the soon-to-be ex husband, but he chose to be a part of this arrangement? He's an adult man. When you think about it, it is very unusual, but however others choose to live their lives is completely up to them and I personally don't see a problem if they are happy with their lives.
He had no choice in the part. His wife was going to take his boys and rise them with her girlfriend while he pay child support. This man is being abused.
Unfortinatly too many women are bisexual or lesbian thess days, thats why Im scared to date women because she might turn out to be more attracted to women
Soooo I’m just going to venture out and say he isn’t donating sperm the expensive way, but rather the free way. I’m not so sure this is a “modern” family. This is still very clownish
@@MrDdub619 😂 People are so weird, I swear. I wonder how long this family will last when the lesbian relationship falls apart? Then they’ll be a bunch of kids and parents that hate each other
"You were searching for a feeling"...one day your going to realize it was God you were seeking. ...you're looking for outside things to make the inside happy.
This is the part of social media andthe Internet that's a problem. Back in the early days and there was no social media or Internet and she only had that one man that would have most likely provided everything she needed in life including security to her hearts content. We have aged as a society with some going in the wrong direction wanting instant gratification.
Nope. This stuff happened even with our social media it was just more hidden. The past was rampant with affairs, secret families, and children born out of wedlock much like how it is now.
I am extremely feel sorry for the man, hope he’ll find the love of his life.
Yeah.. He is a faithful man
@@4lcats57 simp sorry for that man
I don’t feel sorry for that weakling (disgusting)
Don’t feel sorry for him. He’s geeked everything he deserves.
He’s having her gfs kids yo talk about faithful 😂😂
The title makes it sound like the ex-husband and girlfriend are both trans and the husband is the one who's going to be carrying the baby. I've read it a few times and I don't know if I'm misreading it or the title is wrong.
The wife’s girlfriend is having the wife’s husbands baby
Same I was confused
He might as well carry the baby if u ask me .
A husband can not carry a baby. It's biologically impossible.
@@CaptchaNeon more confusing
I hope he finds an amazing girl too. That' s all.
I feel so bad for the husband. I don't understand why he is putting himself in that situation. It won't last long..
This is NOT a modern family. This is a very selfish woman and a man in a bad situation.
Exactly. That man goes to sleep holding himself everynight knowing his wife and her girlfriend can kick him out and take his kids anytime.
The new normal.
This is narcissistic behaviour from her.
Unfortinatly too many women are bisexual or lesbian thess days, thats why Im scared to date women because she might turn out to be more attracted to women
Change is hard
Can y'all retrain the person who does captions for these videos?
It says, "My Ex-husband Is Having My Girlfriend's baby."
Shouldn't it say:
*My Girlfriend Is Having My Ex-husband's baby.* ???
Click bait
This is sick 🤢 they need Jesus
Right I'm confused
@@kellymcfalls1458correct
A fully grown mother scrolls through tiktok and is attracted to "hot girls", leaving her man to be with a lesbian more masculine than her man 😒🤦
This is comical and sad
@@shakebake3846 no its u thats is sad , haters all ways find a reason for their issues
And the sweet confused little boy, when asked by the pregnant one " we hit it off, didn't we buddy?"
No response, looking so confused, then shaking his head no.
Seems to me Social Services needs to investigate the abnormalities of children's living conditions
She fell out of love….i understand that part. What I don’t understand is why he would stick around?
He clearly stated "to be with his children"
@@cathybt hey Cathy! I heard that part but he can still be active parent and move out. My parents are divorced and I love both. I find it odd he agrees to not only live with them but be a sperm donor to his ex new kid. My thoughts that’s all
@@MHS-ql7ee a good point
@@cathybt As another commenter said he can move out and still be an active father with 50/50 custody. Regardless, I’m sure he has other reasons like maybe not being able to afford a place of his own, still attached to his ex, etc. The kids for sure aren’t the only reason cuz any sane person would have moved out by now.
He’s a masochist
Sucks for the guy he let his ex walk all over him and now she is leaving him for a girl which he’s also going to be the father
She did it so smooth. Blame it on ticktoc. The sad part is he has no rights over his 3rd child.😅 I see why they will ban that app.
they might as well peg the dude on both ends, his wallet is gonna take a rinsing too
F😮😢😮😅😅W2
@@bleepbloop7039 Not gone lie. He looks like he gets pegged. His ex is definitely more masculine than him
Wait till they want him out of the picture that child support about to be crazy
If this is a modern family, then this is terrible 😢
4:57 "We hit if off well, right?" Kid: Hesitates, looks at the camera, and then shakes his head.
That says everything.
@@ChurchBasementSpaghetti lmao you’re one of those peoples who spreads hate and shields on children when they don’t really care about children. So sit down.
too freedom...a society without shame and controls turns into this.
@@martinvanburen4578 thats such an immature statement.
@@alexrauff7669 only to a ignorant buffoon
It works for US? You mean it works for YOU. Feels like the Husband had NO CHOICE but to ride along with it because i'm sure he still LOVES YOU and felt like this was the only way that he could still be with you in some way. NO S**T I would be happy too if I could have everything go my way lmao Poor dude investing 9 years with someone who he thought he would be with FOREVER and even had kids with you but then to hear TIK TOK was the reason she changed lmao I have ZERO problems with the situation IF ALL THREE people involved were 100% FINE with it. IDK from the video it just seems like the Husband was put in a Lose lose situation and just choose to put his life on the back burner while she gets to enjoy all the rewards. The fact that they even asked him to be a sperm donor too is crazy like damn dude she ends the marriage and then wants you to have a kid with the person who she ended the marriage for lmao
EXACTLY MY THOUGHTS
Psychotic. The children will be so confused and embarrassed. Super selfish mom
that’s a lot of stuff you just made up
and the kids also did not give them any choice 😢
I agree. If all the adults were ok with it, and kids weren’t brought into the mix this wouldn’t be an issue. It’s just odd that they spend so long together and then the mom drastically changed without considering that her husband isn’t really ok with her personal choice.
Most polyamorous situations just seem like 2 people in love while the others are just too codependent to leave. So sad how narcissism is accepted now.
Indeed it seems like a heartbreaking situation to be in really.
Thank you. A Marc will always make the significant other into the side person
this isn’t polyamorous. it’s a couple and one persons ex who’s choosing to be here. where’s the narcissism
I haven't finished the video but if they said they're polyamorous, they are VERY wrong, this is not polyamory.
@@molotochnik.i there’s platonic love as they’ve stated. But you’re a little bit lacking understanding.
It'll be interesting when he meets someone and introduces her to this modern family.
If he did, I could picture them being in another episode called “my new girlfriend fell in love with my ex and her girlfriend” or something like that, and just have the cycle continue over and over until her has a small community of mini-me’s because all his exe’s want his kids.
@@tiahnarodriguez3809 😂😂😂😂
What in the Jerry Springer going on here they're taking "it's complicated" to another meaning 😄
This didn't age well, RIP jerry
It just weird because they are living together still and he is not all happy like he is portraying I don’t buy it. I wonder if the wife still would be happy if he decided to leave and take the kids with him
For all we know, she's only bi. This tends to be the case often when husbands are very masculine. This isn't a knock on him but women do rate masculine as more intimately preferred. Some try women out of a desire for just more intimacy. Very different from a woman whom always hated the male appendage.
She used marriage and kids to secure herself financially. She gonna leech him and is using the second woman to duck more out of him. The same thing Eva from top model just did. She is completely in the closet and only used her ex for money. She even got him to adopt her baby from that R&B singer
@@gwhite7136 No, the ex being bi has nothing to do with the husband. If masculinity was the issue she would have dumped him for another man.
Society is in such a scary place, I feel awful for her children and for the father he actually seems like a good dude he doesn’t deserve to have a wife like that.
Because of Tiktok, she decided to leave her husband? 💀💀💀💀
😅😅😅😅
Bro I was like are you serious right now that guy needs to run because eventually TikTok going to impose some other unsavory mindsets on her smh crazy
Guy looks so uncomfortable
He's screaming inside.
@@bannedmann4469 Fr. Probably questioning where it all went wrong too.
That man has way more heart than me.
Praying for this man. This is high level simping.
Whole nother level. Mans worst nightmare.
He's lost in the sauce. Not even a real man. Not worth feeling sorry for.
No need to pray for him, he intentionally got himself in and he’ll have to get himself out
He need to be careful. This is a dangerous situation
Next we know he'll be paying child support and doing it gratefully. What a beta.
I am queer and attracted to women mainly been my preference…however I can’t imagine ever doing this dynamic and/or situation as ultimately someone is potentially going to serve a purpose and once that purpose is not needed they will be taken out of the equation plus I can’t help thinking that guy looks very unhappy through a put on smile as if he is putting on a brave face, the ladies seem more about there two happiness than the guys 😢
Very true. Deep in our souls I think we can almost all see that this isn't right at all. He probably didn't want to do this, but he felt like he "had to". Probably has very low self-esteem and guilt issues. Sigh. Can relate.
Womyn moment
With all due respect, I feel like little thought was given for the husbands feelings.
Yes! It is not beneficial for all, just the 2 girls.
He did it to himself by appearing in this video, and first by allowing this relationship to go on with him in the picture.
@@DesertVox he don’t seem to enthusiastic and it seems like he’s doing it for his kids but fair point
He probably feels like if he stays, it’s more time with his children. If he left the household, he wouldn’t see them as much, and he looks like a pretty “hands on” father.
Husband ?? I see 2 kids, another on the way and 3 wives...
The husband encouraged her to go on that date while he stayed home and watched the kids....bruh...a lack of self respect from the husband and a lack of respect from the wife.
it sounds Like Christopher hates Linda and tell her go dating someone else
Linda is literally dating the female version of her ex. Also this isn't a "mature separation" because that comes with the full commitment of starting new without the comforts of your old life.
She is just using this guy and he has zero backbone
So you've never heard of an amicable breakup or co-parenting?
What position are you in to dictate how someone "should" live their life in a manner that doesn't personally affect you?
Who says a person can't have comforts from their old life? According to who? Where is that written? Who came up with these imaginary "rules" that obviously don't exist nor apply to everyone?
@@poncho520nyc9
She was married to him for almost a decade, 9 to 10 years.
How is she "using" him all of a sudden?
This is some next level foolery going on here. If my spouse decided that their true sexual preference was the same sex. I would respect that hurt and all. The children would still have time with that parent just not living with the new partner and us in the same house 🤷🏾♀️
Exactly. This guy is a beta. His wife walking all over him while taking care of his boys.
I think the wife is dominating both of them and playing with them like toys
@@poncho520nyc9 I agree, but the girlfriend and ex boyfriend are also Erving some type of benefit. The ex boyfriend gets to stay in a house and be with his kids, and the new girlfriend gets a sperm donor and gets the befit of having a woman and man support her and her baby. Thought the ex-boyfriends is definitely getting the short end of the stick.
@@poncho520nyc9 exactly like she in control of it all
Truly disappointing
Once upon a time we used to have Jerry Springer. Now we have Truly.
I had an ex tell me she's also in to women. I broke up with her a couple of weeks later. men start having some respect for yourselves. don't let these women use You. if they break up he will be on the hook for child support. it's not worth it
Just tell us you’re a homophobe and insecure, it’s better to admit it than beat around the bush so to speak. You’ll find yourself pretty disappointed with the amount of women who like both.
Did you break up with her just because she liked women too or because she wanted to open the relationship?
@@aprilsummers6447 Just because she liked women. It goes against my morals values and what I'm looking for in a woman.
@@MrSivram28 how long were you dating her for?
Let this be a lesson in low confidence & low self esteem. He has both unfortunately smh No person with any amount of self respect would allow themselves to stay in this situation when its not benefiting them AT ALL. He's defintely not helping his kids because kids can tell when a parent is unhappy. Moving out and rebuilding his life while staying in their lives would've been the better move & is going to have to happen one way or another. He's just not realizing that it's over and him staying close is not going to get her back. Even if she does comeback she wont be the same person she was when they fell in love. Move on & move out bro.
Linda seems to have an attraction for a specific type or quality because Chris and Maddie both look like they can be siblings lol
Cause they both wear glasses 😅 I guess she is attracted to astigmatism 😢 (just jokes I wear glasses too )
She loves spinelessnss. Her need for manipulation and control is psychotic. They both won't stand up to her so she is playing with them like a girl plays with dolls. She will eventually leave both or and more to her cult
The wife said her ex husband, they didn't get devorced so they are still legally married. I feel for the husband he is stuck in the middle of this arrangement and he isn't being truth to himself. And he is the third wheel.
I think he loves his wife and children but will do anything to make her happy, what happened to his happiness.
The little kid shaking his heD when the pregnant girlfriend said we hit it off didn't we😂
Little man be spilling his family’s tea 😂
Hahah, I laughed at that too, but I suspect he doesn’t understand what ‘hit it off’ means - I certainly wouldn’t have at that age. Although perhaps I’m biased as that’s not a term we would have used so much here in the UK 35 years ago…
I love how the comment section literally exposes: 1) potentially violent men with fragile masculinity and misogynistic comments. 2) misogynistic women 3) people who shield their hate beneath children when they don’t really care about children in the first place 4) people who try to sound smart and educated but they used psychiatric terms and type about statistics when they can’t even cite sources right.
I had stroke reading the title lol
I'm a trans guy and I literally thought that yet some other trans guy was having a baby and it wasn't even so. This was so confusing. This whole thing also is unhealthy and sucks for that poor dude. Even though he cucked himself on his own accord. Still feel bad for him.
I must have missed how long the soon to be ex-wife and her gf have been dating. I think if you plan to bring more kids into this, the dating period should be a good amount of time. If the ex-wife decides down the road that she's no longer lesbian, yes, this actually happens, than it could get complicated with more children involved. "We can borrow my husbands swimmers!". Or maybe the husband could turn out to be the very rare lesbian only attracted to male. His part in all of this seems to be up in the air. Hopefully everything turns out to where everyone is perfectly happy.
I hate this planet.
just because you're now a lesbian, doesn't mean you now have to look like that.. is that the starter pack hair cut??
Aww man poor kids, my heart breaks for them!
I hope the husband finds someone he seems like a good guy. No matter how you feel about it, it’s respectable for them to create a happy household. Many children with divorced parents have to go back and fourth to different houses and have to deal with their parents conflicts. It’s nice to see a family that makes a happy home for them and their kids
He a simp living in a nightmare.
Unfortinatly too many women are bisexual or lesbian thess days, thats why Im scared to date women because she might turn out to be more attracted to women
You cannot have a happy household with this type of environment. It will end in disaster and ultimatly the husband is at fault. A real tragedy for these poor babies.
What if the lesbian couple decide to breakup? Now you have a very strange situation and a lot of confused kids.
@@webiplus well Maddy will realize that Linda is hook her ex husband for money and will ended up leaving her
Lord have mercy..
Indeed
I love that this guy cares for his ex and her girlfriend, but I kinda have the feeling that he thinks he has to and that he isn't completely over her... it's great that they still have a friendship. Beneficial for the kids. But having a kid with her new girlfriend makes it kinda confusing. And also, is the guy gonna act like the kids dad? Or will the kid just have 2 moms? Or 2 moms and a dad. Probably gonna be confusing for the kid too.
It won't be, some kids have divorced parents and their spouses who are involved in their lives, it'll be the same for this couple and their surrogate, are we just going to pretend like he isn't the father of his ex's two kids, I doubt he would disown his kids because the relationship didn't work out with his ex
Well he's a surrogate donor, I doubt they did the deed because she's a lesbian , I mean wouldn't you want the donor to be someone that you're familiar with rather than a stranger? I can agree that it's surprising that he actually consented to being his ex's new partner's donor, people can grow and change, I doubt he's still heart broken over this
@Blixxie .12 tbh, no i wouldn't want a donor who I know and most certainly not close to. Would only make it confusing and harder. If I had a relationship with a woman and I want children with her I want her and me to be the mothers and not the donor to be a real father to the child. May sound a bit weird, but he's a donor just because 2 women can't have kids naturally. And if I wasn't the one carrying the child it would just feel like he's taking my place. That's just my opinion on it tho
@@Mrcleanfrfr It might also depend on what you prefer. Carroted swimmers are the subject of concern today. Pure is worth is weight in gold. Hope that's all worked out too for all their sakes.
I feel like the dad is more like the babysitter and the two moms are parenting sadly
How is she in to women than dates a women more manly than her husband the confusion is real!
She likes poosy
How is she mainly?
The madness in US is mind boggling 😢
First, to watch one video about one family and assume this is how the entire country is…you sound dumb and ignorant.
2: if this works for them, then cool. I can’t see how this effect you in any shape or form.
3. How is this madness? How? Because it doesn’t align with your view, values and beliefs.
4. Nobody is telling you your relationship is right or wrong.
This is their modern family. They make it work for them. But…yah, we have like 1 or 2 heterosexual married couples in the US too. I m sure you knew that😂😂😂😂
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@@dukeofothaya5039 excuse me sir, do you have permission to complete me?
Blame it on Tick Toc.😂😂😂
This proves children should not be on tiktok!
So what happens when the guy decides to move on and get remarried? Is the new wife moving in? Is he moving out? Is he paying child support for his sperm donor baby?
This is what I don't get.
Yes this was Linda plan from jump. Three kids under her control will provide a nice amount to step off with and she gonna take the house. The ex can't kick the lady out because she lives there
This woman is selfish beyond belief. The whole situation is Gross! Did they seriously make her husband knock up
a lesbian!? And to call this toxic mess a “blended family.”
"make him" 😂
The alphabet people are selfish and entitled... are you surprised?
Knocked up isn't the right term, he's just a donor
@@Mrcleanfrfr how do you know?
@@MHS-ql7ee I do dumbass, there's this thing called surrogacy, not to mention how's she's a Lesbian and that would dehumanize her
They look exactly like how you'd expect them to look.
happy
Not a chance that man is actually happy inside. Lose your wife of 9 years, have sex a few times with her new butch girlfriend, and then help them raise the kids as a sexless roommate.
I hope Chris finds himself a nice boyfriend too.😢
he's straight
😂😂😂
😂😂😂😂
He’s a babe and I hope he finds his happiness
So does the husband get to shack up with a new chick in the house also? It’s only fair! 🤣
Probably did just to get her pregnant. That route would be way way cheaper than IVF, going to a clinic, and all of that. Probably put her in doggy style on her most fertile day and boom. And once she got pregnant never again. That's my guess 🤣🤣🤣🤣
what has this world come to anymore.... smh. 🙄😒
😂😂🤣
I can’t recall needing your opinion. :) the world has become a better place for those who need love support and protection and guess what? You’re not included and you’re not welcome :) 😊
Y’all ever notice how in these situations and scenarios the man is ALWAYS the one taking the L?
We normalize wickedness in everything nowadays. They seem like nice people and probably would set out to hurt a fly but this is wrong on many levels. God help us!
@@user-uk2qi6xi4d let's pray we can renew the minds or others and turn from our wicked ways.
My heart breaks for the kids. Pure chaos and confusion 💔
your heart should break for orphans and poor kids in horrible situations, kids with abusive parents, sick kids, kids raised in shitty divorces, there are millions of these kids in this world, on the other hand, these kids look well fed, have parents who are on good terms, they are going to have step siblings from a good person who plays with them, why is your heart breaking on the confusion part? there are so many positive things these kids will be raised with
@@g.aloysie8439 amen! These kids have 3 parent, some dont even get 1. They will also grow up with open minds.
@@rrhodes4433 same
Too bad that they have parents 😭
I honestly get what you meant. Some people just refuse or even want to understand what you meant. Its sad to see the father has no balls and for his wife to shake them in his face.
As a husband myself , I would refusr to be apart of this confused mess.
The comments here are horrible. These people are hard-working, drug-free, violence-free, who contribute to society. But go ahead and pass judgment…
So this is the definition of modern family now. Two friends having kids together n dating other persons with no values n commitments to be COOL
Feels like something that would happen in a Sims playthrough lol
I really don't understand all the hate that this is getting. It's not as if she did this on purpose. She realised something about herself and rather than hide it she decided to live her truth and did so in a way that will harm the people around her the least. If the situation is making people around her unhappy then they need to communicate that to her and make sure they protect themselves as well. I really don't understand why someone wanting to keep the love and support in a family whilst also pursuing happiness themselves is seen as such a bad thing? All the hate comments I'm reading are just saying it's bad rather than actually explaining why they think it's bad.
This not of God
It's not like they are a big happy family. How would you feel if your husband or wife decided to divorce you and replace you and the new husband or wife moves into your house? You're supposed to be OK with that and stay together for the kid's sake? You decide to date and move on, but how is the new person going to feel about you living with your ex? But, this is somehow all acceptable because it's a same sex relationship?
Yeah. If anything they brought their relationship issues to the kids. Cuz I’m sure they see how miserable their dad is with this arrangement. I think it’s odd how people aren’t seeing this issue.
*My ❤ breaks for the husband. He does not look happy at all.*
Just imagine... He losts his wife.
This is so wrong. I'm so sorry, man. You deserve better
She said she's a modern family now. This is gross and not normal. These woman are using him and he seems to b played.
Why do lesbians always cut their hair short when they come out?!
Ok I thought this was going to be another weird trans thing where the trans man gets pregnant and it’s uncanny valley. Title is confusing for no reason other than clickbait.
A lady realized she was a lesbian during her marriage and is still close enough with her ex to ask him to donate sperm so she can have another child with her current partner.
That’s not so weird, just feel bad for the ex husband for wasting time on a relationship that was ultimately going to end. I’m sure he’s more hurt than he appears, but it’s nice they’re friends.
You mean she asked her ex so she can take child support money instead of actually going to a sperm donor facility 🤣🤣🤣🤣
Exactly! 🙌🏼
I love this family...let's just hope DAD finds a woman who will appreciate the situation he's in and love him just the same....
What women going to do that????😅
If you consider this to be acceptable then I hope you never ruin a child's life by having one.
He's still in love with her and would rather third-wheel than lose her. I totally get it. Why the ex-wife lets him stick around is another story... Maybe they're just genuinely good people who wanted to follow through with the commitment they made by having kids. In that case, I applaud them. They seem more respectable than most.
@Jake Yeah no I doubt it. She's a raging lesbian. Body language says that she clearly cares for the other woman more than him.
So *he's* essentially a third wheel and he'll have kids with basically you both?!
He needs to get divorced and move on. He def shouldn't have agreed to impregnate the lesbian girlfriend either. He's basically stuff for life genetically -
This is our world..oh Lord...👀
To put it in short: As long as it works
I fail to see what the guy is getting out of this. And I have a hard time imagining the girls being ok with it when he brings another girl home one day.
The guy is terrified OG being seen as the bad guy. His parents taught him to consider others before himself and he is in the clutches of a psychotic woman who is building a cult
Fr. This is not a happy family imo.
It says everything that the man wasn’t the one to say “this works for us.”
That man is unhappy! He still loves her and is too codependent to leave her. He deserves love too and I pray he finds it soon.
the poor kid "we just hit it off" kid:*shakes head*
Typical beta-male and egotistical woman who doesn't know what she wants and puts her selfish needs first even if it means destroying her marriage and family. I feel bad for the guy since he got dragged into her nonsense. God knows, if he had a girlfriend move in she wouldn't accept it. All the best for them though!
Let this man go and find love! So he gets nothing but kids to pay for out of this dreadful he needs someone to kiss and love him. also!
When she asked the kids we hit it off well then the kid shook his head side to side as in no then looked down as she began to laugh
Hes still hurting
“Our relationship was platonic before the kids “ dude a simp for marrying /staying with her .
Wow, these were my neighbors at one time. They always seemed happy and in love with each other. Never saw this coming. As long as their happy and content as they claim to be, then that’s all what matters
How'd the second one get pregnant? Naturally?
Yeah I want to know this too
Tik Tok made her a lesbian. I understand at the base level its not exactly what she meant, but with everything happening around the world I wouldn't be surprised if all of this craziness just stems from the algorithm feeding us
I’m sorry I support but the guy is clearly hurt
Absolutely bonkers 🙁 poor children.
happy and well cared for kids receiving resources and love from 3 people! They are fine.
@@paulallen2919 I doubt it but we will have to agree to differ!
Why do you doubt it, can't just make statement without explaining, you look stupid
Agreed!!
if this man is happy then we need to be happy for him. one day he will meet the person he's meant to spend his life with ❤ right now hes focused on being a good dad
This is sick.👎
When holy scriptures expressed disgust and condemnation about Sodom and Gomorrah, that's exactly the acts they were referring to.
I know it's for the kids but that man doesn't have to miserable for the kids sake.
Ooooh no 😂 I am a latebloomer lesbian too, my ex fiancé and I broke up because I am into women, but I honestly couldn't imagine my future wife to have my ex's kid's too 😂 But then again, I wouldn't be with a woman who still is married to her ex and lives with her ex. Each to their own ofcourse, if it works for them, that's great! It just looks like he isn't happy with it.
Don't worry, ma'am. You're just normal.
Unfortinatly too many women are bisexual or lesbian thess days, thats why Im scared to date women because she might turn out to be more attracted to women
@@CL-ew7wh That is just hilarious 😂 We, queer women, have a tiny dating pool in comparison to you, a hetero guy. Most women just are straight. You have it so much easier, but you still act like a minority 🙃 Male logic
Dude is being used for his money obviously, but, it’s his fault so he gotta live with it. He needs confidence in his life.
Thats what i was thinking she was a waitress when they meet... Look at that house! lol
Thank God I wasn't born in this family 🙏🏻
😂😂😂😂😂 same
People feel sorry for the soon-to-be ex husband, but he chose to be a part of this arrangement? He's an adult man. When you think about it, it is very unusual, but however others choose to live their lives is completely up to them and I personally don't see a problem if they are happy with their lives.
He had no choice in the part. His wife was going to take his boys and rise them with her girlfriend while he pay child support.
This man is being abused.
Unfortinatly too many women are bisexual or lesbian thess days, thats why Im scared to date women because she might turn out to be more attracted to women
This modern family seems more like a nightmare, to me.
Soooo I’m just going to venture out and say he isn’t donating sperm the expensive way, but rather the free way. I’m not so sure this is a “modern” family. This is still very clownish
He said i think we are done after that😅😅. No bro your done.
@@MrDdub619 😂 People are so weird, I swear. I wonder how long this family will last when the lesbian relationship falls apart? Then they’ll be a bunch of kids and parents that hate each other
This is going to mess this guys head up bad! He's going to end up resenting them both
She wanted a new girlfriend but she also wanted more kids. "Hey, I have an idea, my ex can be a donor that way all my kids are siblings"
Maddy will ended up treating Linda like Crap and Christopher will probaly grew sicked tired of Linda horrible personality
Exactly she using the new girl to burn the bridge with the ex husband. She will discard them both eventually
@@poncho520nyc9 Maddy and Christopher will ended up abandoned Linda because of her narcissist and toxic personality
"You were searching for a feeling"...one day your going to realize it was God you were seeking. ...you're looking for outside things to make the inside happy.
This is the part of social media andthe Internet that's a problem. Back in the early days and there was no social media or Internet and she only had that one man that would have most likely provided everything she needed in life including security to her hearts content. We have aged as a society with some going in the wrong direction wanting instant gratification.
Nope. This stuff happened even with our social media it was just more hidden. The past was rampant with affairs, secret families, and children born out of wedlock much like how it is now.
feel really bad for chris and the children they look miserable
The poor guy. There’s a lot of selfish and narcissistic behaviour going on in this family…and it all seems to come from 1 person.
I AGREE