The Best thing you can do for your kids is be there for them emotionally. Guide them with love and not anger or fear. They grow up either knowing love, anger, hate, resentment or fear depending on the environment you've exposed them to. Sometimes, life is not easy and we find ourselves bashing at them but also learn to say sorry if need be. This affects their growth and future with their kids and partners, in one way or another. However, I trust and believe you're doing the best that you can. Sooner or later, they will be your greatest investment. Sending you love and light ❤️🙏🏼❤️
@dianabahati please bring your dad in one of the vlogs we need to hear from him too.Maybe he was going through a lot.Wangapi wanataka Dee atuletee dad✋✋
I lost my daughter 😒img unaona mtoto anakufa but kindoda ya C's haiwezi kubali umshike juu ya uchungu I cried,cried Yani nililia😭waaah..coz alikuwa ashakunyua maji kwatumbo na bado alikuwa amepupu alikuwa anatolewa na pipe 😭😭imgn pipe inaingiziwa kwa mdomo inatoka na damu aki kalisuffer kalilia nikikumbuka vile nilijipeleka hosi asubuhi wakanifukuza nafaint Mara tatu coz nilikuwa nimepitia na wiki..but ni life 😇nilifanyiwa C's March 2019 na April 2019 nikapata mimba ingine nikajifungua January 2020 now am a mother of 2-1=1 Bwana yesu asifiwe wapendwa🙏
It's good to see people opening up nowadays. My siblings and I also grew up in a very dysfunctional home with toxic parents. We used to think we were abnormal because our home was in such turmoil while everyone else's looked put together. Those were the days when no one talked about such things. So we each internalized our pain in different ways and it came back to haunt us in our adulthood and relationships. It's only now that we've began talking and exploring our pain only to realize our problems were not unique and the healing has began. Like you Diana we've started seeing our parents in a different light (we grew up hating them) though not excusing their behaviour. Holding on to the pain doesn't help. There is no shame in talking about these things. It's life. Hopefully you become self aware of your own shortcomings and break the cycle with your children.
Dee My mum died in the year 2017....since then life has been soo hard for me ...I am the first born am now 23 ..we were then left with our dad,now our dad used to spent money with women ,being drunk everyday then akafutwa job...since afutwe job he has been very violent to us ...he even chase us out of home and mistreating my younger siblings.....I even don't know if I have a parent as we talk...my dad doesn't care ...I am traumatized for real.. Dee pray for me🙏
Salute to Dad for taking care of three beutiful girls now all grown and married. Mom must be proud to see daina being mom to her two girls Val and mitchel akuna kisicho kua na mwisho no more torn matress no more mende lastly praying for everyone going thru stuff they can't even talk about it shall be well some day May Mama Soul Rest in peace.
Having an absent dad, I will salute your dad💯% he just didn't know how to handle all this but the fact that he raised you 3 alone,he must have had a veeeery tough time,he was definitely depressed. I feel he's the best he deserves the best. Some of our dads don't even know if we are alive or not😭😭
This story really took me back.. Lost my mom when i had just joined high sch too, just like mitch i had really waited for the 1st visiting day acome but that never happened 💔 and in 403 i lost my dadd too, my life was dark, family became small all i had was me to survive seing other kids being visited mimi nabaki kwa class 💔💔upto date i pray God anieke my kids wasipitie what i did.... Losing both parents that young its alot. Mungu yuko na milango itanifungukia i have faith my story is going to be great cause he's on the throne 🙏
I guess mitch was the favourite kz hadi vile alipata mtoi juzi dad visited but all in all i love how u stay together supporting each other having shoulders to lean on for each other.. thanks to God now you can tell it as a story...continue loving each other and may God always be with u guys together with your families
I always miss your mum dear, I can remember she was my mum's best, we used to kupitia tukitoka church. This lady was super good and had a big heart. May she continue dancing with angels. Take heart dear ones all is well.
I miss my mom so much. she suffered for so many years and died so young. I'm still in denial, earth is just a sad place now. I'm sorry for you Dee. You are not alone. Much ❤
One thing have learnt from this story is that nothing takes forever...in His time God will make everything beautiful....I'm certain ones day, I'll tell a story and this time it will be tears of joy..... Sorry Dee for what happened ♥️
Hugs my sweet Dee ❤️🤗 we learn from you every day, sorry about everything you went through during your childhood your mum is super proud of you and your amazing sisters 😊❤️🤗
childhood Traume is real and if not dealt with, it can be very detrimental. lost my parents when I was young. The environment I grew up in was hostile and it involved a lot of anger as a flight and fight defense mechanism. Without self-awareness, the healing of the Holy Spirit, and Therapy( if you can access it), it's hard to have meanful relationships or even family if the childhood anger is not resolved. I think my story and Diana's story are relatable and every time I pray, I ask God to bless me with a partner who will understand me as Bahati understands you. If childhood wounds are not resolved it's hard to have a family of your own. All in all, I am grateful to God for even revealing to me that I had childhood trauma that needs healing, and where there is awareness, there is healing.
My dad's current situation,,but inshaallah one day l will make it in life and l will make my dad's life better its not easy watching my dad fighting depression,,anxiety all above God.. this is so inspiring 🙏❤
Talking about something that hurt or broke you is the first step to healing, let go and let God take the lead... You two look amazing, the hair and the makeup is lit👌
Having my own kid in a few months and just stabled on this. Being a parent is scary especially remembering how your childhood wasn't a ride in the park. I never wanted to settle down nor have kids for that matter given what we went through and how I saw my parents struggled and we'd get the bitter taste of what they were going through. Long story short I feel like I've failed my kid even before he/she is born because I've found myself in the same situation . I pray we all get the chance to be better people , better children, better siblings, better parents and better spouses. It's not easy at all, but with God nothing is impossible. Thanks for sharing your stories Dee and Michelle it's healing to a lot of people.
I lost my mum two months after reporting to campus,,and my reporting day was the last day we saw each other, nothing hurts most than being called from school for mummy's burial,
Me being raised by a step mother life was hard my mother past when I was 5yrs my father remarried when I was 7yrs,life was hell for me,through my primary I wore two pairs of shoes from class one to class eight.I rem one day nilifukuzwa shule cz of ksh50 kufika home I asked my step mom for that 50 Bob but she told me"kuja ukate hii matako yangu upeleke shule"those words hurts me until today,I wish my mum was alive
Dee mamaaa you're a real heroe . you played a mom roll at a very young age and you're still at it and the best one ever 🙌🙌🙌 you earned my respect.......and that is why God got your back and give you full blessings that you deserves dear ,I really got emotional on this Dee a really cried with you guys , Mich is so very strong woman too .I saw how much she holds the pain and the tears back inside her heart , sorry for what you guys past through and please forgive Dad ,He was passing through marriage separation trauma and it's damaged him emotionally so he didn't know how to control it he's a human ,and that's why he was putting it on you his kids , because he didn't have anywhere to put them , sorry and I love you all 3 of you , I've subscribed to your both channel from today I belong to the family , watching you guys from Washington DC USA
Thanks Dee for encouraging me. Imagine 90% of your story is directly corresponding to our background currently 😭😭.kutoka kukopa kwa duka,kufungiwa hao,dad kuwa violet, neglect from our neighbors etc I pray that one day God will come through.
I am so sorry for your loss Diana may she continue resting in eternity,Your mum is so proud of guys irregardless of what happened in the past you are strong 💪,just look at you now you are best mother any kid would wish to have,may God protect and guide you and your sisters always........ IT IS WELL Diana Hugs Hugs
I shed tears😭😭😭. May God bless my parents and give them long life and good health. I really thank my mum for staying even when she had all the reasons to leave😭❤️. I love you mama!
Watching you talk about your mom just reminded me of mine...there is little I can say about her...may her soul rest in peace..I just know I loved that woman..she was a fighter.
I just love you Dee to be honest 🥺🥺❤️❤️ You are just real and I always learn alot from you...thank you for talking this out and encouraging many people out here...You are a Blessing ⭐💫❤️
I feel inspired everytime I watch your videos..I see God every time I see and think of you... Thankyou for encouraging me I also lost my mom at my young age it's usually a challenge to me but I tap your blessings always may God bless me like you..love you Dee♥️🥰
Thanks Dee and Mish for sharing your story..we also went through the same thing my dad was also hash and used to bit us vibaya hadi tunatoroka..I find myself shouting at my kid na sazingine Niko na hio anger bcs that's what I use to see just like u've said..it's something am still praying about.. I want to give my kids all love in this world and be the best mum ever
Its so painful to lose a parent and especially at a young age. Bt I believe God knows better. Look at you now Dee, glowing, living your best life,giving your children the life that you never had and also inspiring so many people out here. I'm sure your mama is happy for you as well as your sibling. You are one of the strongest women I know Dee and I love you so much ❤️ ❤ ❤❤ Blessings to you and your family😘😘😘
I don't know how many of as we are buh Diana the truth is each time I listen to you I really break down 💔 in to tears ...it never takes me seconds even in your happy moments I just see my self shading tears all I have realized is that have gotten alot of much love for you .... always stay blessed I love you
Your story is not far from mine too 😭😭 but we keep pressing on. Am now 25years old and all i can say is Thank you God, i have seen Him work it out for us. Too bad mama is not here to see us glow
Watching this video puts so much into perspective given how silent you were growing up and how Val was .......It's great seeing the women you have all become and continue to be 👏👏 God bless!!
Dee i know your Mom is more than happy, seeing the girl she gave birth to, she turned to be an inspiration to everyone... Dee you have blessed so many pple and with that God blessings will keep on showering you... Nakupenda bure MamaHeav💕💕💕💕
Some situations prepare one mentally to be strong ...look at you now... stuff happen for a reason and tbh I believe in guidance from our lost ones she's definitely watching you and your family including your sisters....we love you♥️we might never fit to be in your mum's position bh as you're fan we'll be there for you through thick and thin...much love
Dee you such an inspiration to us young growing generation the way you bring up your kids is a blessing to them.What you went through is a past and does not define who you are or who you will be.Its my prayer that you may live long to give more and inspire many people❤.
Hope you gals have forgiven your dad now that you understand he did whatever he did not out of hate but frustration, he was taking it out on you not knowing he was instilling fear and resentment in you guys. Hope you do have or have ever had a candid conversation with him to hear his side of the story. Glad you're passed that now and living your best life now.
Pain is inevitable 💔 😪 but again bad times never last . We not promised when things are really gon be okay but we live in believe that we'll eventually smile . Dee you my greatest inspiration, my role model and that I wouldn't lie . I need these long talks with you . Am going through a lot 😪 Just a little talk with you so I can share a lot that am holding back am afraid depression would take the better part of me 😭😭😭😭
Diana is such a pure soul, her heart is so beautiful. Diana and her sisters are very beautiful girls, so for real and I enjoy watching their content. God is the best healer of all our emotional pains, I love the fact that you are breaking the cycle of generational wounds by being the best parents to your children. You people are just special, so many people are going through a lot in their families by sharing your story you are helping so many people out there.
Uweh🥲hio part ya your dad loosing his job hits me hard manze🥲God is faithful🥳i love this far God has brought you...for me I just remember 2007 .I hope one day i will be able to stand out and talk it off
I feel your pain Dee and your sisters. Continue being strong for your families. It is well.....we all go through pain at some point in life. And it's true you don't have to be a reflection of your pain. Also had a very painful childhood....but I chose to be a best friend to my babies
I have always watched you tell this story and every time i learn something new about the kind of parents you had / have. Michelle seems still bitter with your mum and it's understandable, she was young to understand anything, but gals, your mum went through a lot, for her to even leave you behind (which was a huge mistake - because if it was bad for her then it was definitely bad for her children) your dad on the other hand expressed his bitterness towards her through you people but that you have lived to forgive them is such a beautiful thing
Everyone has story to tell,sweet and bitter story of their lives,I love you Daina, you are a very strong girl,you always touches my heart everytime,keep going babes 😍
What l have come to learn every family have a series of background behind them. Wow Dee and your siz you are the best of combination this show was cool l love it the better part of it was figured out family is the best bravo to you❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
This is the best episode of kavagara God is still on the throne no matter our situations....am so happy for u guys having the strength to share this a lot of ppl are going thru broken homes loosing hope but am sure this can heal a soul or even restore a family....and know that good family can be created its a matter of right choices! Thank u so much ladies I pray that I will have my perfect family in future as yours. God bless u!
This story reminds me alot about my past too.i really had a tough dad like ata ningekua na issue singeongea I die with my pain...I remember kwanza my dad burnt my thighs just because I lost a new kofia at school...like mimi I used to run away from home almost daily coz ukikosea kidogo unapigwa ni kama you were mistakenly born... mimi ata ni ngumu I go home nikikumbuka what I passed through ata mtoto wangu simpelekangi home coz I fear..😭😭
Oh dear,,never mind and one thing you have to keep in mind is that you are where you are because of where you have been and also you are what you are because of what you went through..may God help you to make peace with your past...Love you
@@Sheilakariuki129 I do try alot but I have scurs that I see everytime I take a shower which always remind me everything..but I try alot to forget...sometimes I used to see how good he was to my brothers but me as a girl child only daughter he really hated me
THIS ONE WAS ONE OF THE MOST INSPIRING ENCOURAGING AND MOTIVATING STORY 💯💯💯💯YOU HAVE REALLY GONE THROUGH ALOT BUT GOD HAS SEEN YOU THROUGH THE HARD TIMES AND SMILED UPON YOU🙏🙏🙏I BELIEVE YOUR PARENTS ARE SUPER PROUD OF YOU RIGHT NOW AND ARE HAPPY PARENTS 🥰🥰💯💯💯MAY GOD KEEP ON SMILING UPON YOU AND YOUR SISTERS AND MAY YOU KEEP STRONG FAITH AND THE BOND BETWEEN YOU IS SO STRONG 💯💯💯💯I REALLY ADMIRE YOU ALOT FOR THE FAR YOU HAVE COME AND YOU WILL ALWAYS BE MY MENTOR NA NAWAPENDA SANA❤️❤️❤️❤️
This is so inspiring dee.i grew up in such an environment with my mum sick till date but there's God in heaven who heals.🙏I've been having this feeling that I should be inspiring other people through what I went through while growing up but no-one to support me.What am sure of IPO siku.
I understand wht u hve been passing through even me I was raised by single parent and it's very hard bt I never hated my mum bcz I now she was passing through alot it's was not easy for her to raising for children without a stable job I love u mum ur the best bcz u never give up on us 💕💕💕😍
Hey Dee from all your cook and reveal edition this has really touched me personally... it gives me a reminder when I lost my mom and i had to take care of my sibling.... You are really brave Dee....kudos to you❤❤
I just love your sister, mitch... i see her on your videos and click on it promptly.. She is really fun to listen to, has something in her that will pop and shine so brightly and take her to the highest levels. Am a big fan of both of you...
I lost my mum who was a single mum. I'm taking care of my siblings....my sister is in form 1 and my bro is in college. IT'S OVERWHELMING!! My bro is driving me crazy 😢😢😢
Diana you really are a mentor to be my role model.. I wanna be the wife and mother you are.. You are just awesome.. You are changing lives out here.. Continue being blessed
This reminds me of loosing my parents at a time I believed it was a turning point of positive energy, Being in school with my young brother in the same cube in the dormitory, I really struggled to even break that news to him , but all in all we soldier on #God is the giver and taker of life ☺
You are a super woman💪i know its pain loosing your mum and relatives 😥your mum is happy of you in heaven🤗seeing you fighting your own battles and winning💥❤you are a strong woman💪may your mum rest in eternal peace🙏
Way wah wah this story has touched me immensely; thank you so much Diana and Michelle for opening up about a subject still spoken about in hushed tones and embarrassment; I salute you all❤️❤️❤️❤️🔥🔥🙏
am late to watch this but have shed tears.mother ar golden creators in children presences.just b strong.but say thanks to almighty you have made it. kudos queen
The Best thing you can do for your kids is be there for them emotionally. Guide them with love and not anger or fear. They grow up either knowing love, anger, hate, resentment or fear depending on the environment you've exposed them to. Sometimes, life is not easy and we find ourselves bashing at them but also learn to say sorry if need be. This affects their growth and future with their kids and partners, in one way or another.
However, I trust and believe you're doing the best that you can. Sooner or later, they will be your greatest investment. Sending you love and light ❤️🙏🏼❤️
Very true
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U are right ,,,,
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Wow ,!!!! I love the strong en encouraging words from u mama heaven
@dianabahati please bring your dad in one of the vlogs we need to hear from him too.Maybe he was going through a lot.Wangapi wanataka Dee atuletee dad✋✋
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Huskii n Simba I think they fear him
Haa anafaa amlete tumuone
I lost my daughter 😒img unaona mtoto anakufa but kindoda ya C's haiwezi kubali umshike juu ya uchungu I cried,cried Yani nililia😭waaah..coz alikuwa ashakunyua maji kwatumbo na bado alikuwa amepupu alikuwa anatolewa na pipe 😭😭imgn pipe inaingiziwa kwa mdomo inatoka na damu aki kalisuffer kalilia nikikumbuka vile nilijipeleka hosi asubuhi wakanifukuza nafaint Mara tatu coz nilikuwa nimepitia na wiki..but ni life 😇nilifanyiwa C's March 2019 na April 2019 nikapata mimba ingine nikajifungua January 2020 now am a mother of 2-1=1 Bwana yesu asifiwe wapendwa🙏
amen
It's good to see people opening up nowadays. My siblings and I also grew up in a very dysfunctional home with toxic parents. We used to think we were abnormal because our home was in such turmoil while everyone else's looked put together. Those were the days when no one talked about such things. So we each internalized our pain in different ways and it came back to haunt us in our adulthood and relationships. It's only now that we've began talking and exploring our pain only to realize our problems were not unique and the healing has began. Like you Diana we've started seeing our parents in a different light (we grew up hating them) though not excusing their behaviour. Holding on to the pain doesn't help. There is no shame in talking about these things. It's life. Hopefully you become self aware of your own shortcomings and break the cycle with your children.
Dee My mum died in the year 2017....since then life has been soo hard for me ...I am the first born am now 23 ..we were then left with our dad,now our dad used to spent money with women ,being drunk everyday then akafutwa job...since afutwe job he has been very violent to us ...he even chase us out of home and mistreating my younger siblings.....I even don't know if I have a parent as we talk...my dad doesn't care ...I am traumatized for real.. Dee pray for me🙏
Salute to Dad for taking care of three beutiful girls now all grown and married. Mom must be proud to see daina being mom to her two girls Val and mitchel akuna kisicho kua na mwisho no more torn matress no more mende lastly praying for everyone going thru stuff they can't even talk about it shall be well some day May Mama Soul Rest in peace.
Unlearning the habits of our parents is the toughest journey to embark on. But that self awareness is a gift.
Having an absent dad, I will salute your dad💯% he just didn't know how to handle all this but the fact that he raised you 3 alone,he must have had a veeeery tough time,he was definitely depressed. I feel he's the best he deserves the best. Some of our dads don't even know if we are alive or not😭😭
Pole sana. Take heart ❤❤❤❤❤
True
Ukweli kabisa....sometimes the ones we call "villains" were also victims of circumstances...
Recognising the hurt helps in healing and forgiving.
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Exactly...
From kukopa kopa tu kupeana freely with no strings attached. 😊😊💗💗
This story really took me back.. Lost my mom when i had just joined high sch too, just like mitch i had really waited for the 1st visiting day acome but that never happened 💔 and in 403 i lost my dadd too, my life was dark, family became small all i had was me to survive seing other kids being visited mimi nabaki kwa class 💔💔upto date i pray God anieke my kids wasipitie what i did.... Losing both parents that young its alot. Mungu yuko na milango itanifungukia i have faith my story is going to be great cause he's on the throne 🙏
it will be great...
Take heart mama❤❤ God will see you through
I guess mitch was the favourite kz hadi vile alipata mtoi juzi dad visited but all in all i love how u stay together supporting each other having shoulders to lean on for each other.. thanks to God now you can tell it as a story...continue loving each other and may God always be with u guys together with your families
This reminds me of my mom😭😭😭💔💔.. May they Rest In Peace Always🙏❤️💜
It is well ❤❤❤❤❤
I always miss your mum dear, I can remember she was my mum's best, we used to kupitia tukitoka church. This lady was super good and had a big heart. May she continue dancing with angels. Take heart dear ones all is well.
@@carolinemuthonimathenge9519 Aaaawwh that is very true. Thankyou dear🥺🥺🥰💜
D is daddy's photocopy
The fact that you can look back at laugh of those past issues girls your strong and you won 🎉🎉🎉 nothing will strip you down
Thaannkk youu ❤❤❤❤❤
Diana looks like mum check
I miss my mom so much. she suffered for so many years and died so young. I'm still in denial, earth is just a sad place now. I'm sorry for you Dee. You are not alone. Much ❤
@UC0Ki_VCXDrPFL69zRWyvcSA 🤗🤗🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
Hugs❤️
Hugs❤️
Dis is really me huh but let's be greatful 🙏 to God for da gift ov life
That's what my mum went through too.May you rest in peace Mum 😭😭
Am overwhelmed 😭😭
Aki I miss my mum a mil😭
Seeing her in hospital changed me bana 😭
Take heart Daphney ❤❤❤❤❤
One thing have learnt from this story is that nothing takes forever...in His time God will make everything beautiful....I'm certain ones day, I'll tell a story and this time it will be tears of joy..... Sorry Dee for what happened ♥️
God makes everything beautiful at his own time. Keep pushing ❤❤❤❤
@@Diana_Marua thanks mommy ♥️
@@Diana_Marua diana please can I talk to you🙏🙏🙏 ave been following you all along can i talk to you
I lost my mum this year in April am still in the process of healing. Seeing you and your sister strong has encouraged me that am not the only one.
Hugs my sweet Dee ❤️🤗 we learn from you every day, sorry about everything you went through during your childhood your mum is super proud of you and your amazing sisters 😊❤️🤗
This is the story of many people currently I refuse this poverty you are my inspiration Dee
Your mum is so proud of you wherever she’s 🥰🥰let her soul continue resting in peace🕊
childhood Traume is real and if not dealt with, it can be very detrimental.
lost my parents when I was young. The environment I grew up in was hostile and it involved a lot of anger as a flight and fight defense mechanism. Without self-awareness, the healing of the Holy Spirit, and Therapy( if you can access it), it's hard to have meanful relationships or even family if the childhood anger is not resolved. I think my story and Diana's story are relatable and every time I pray, I ask God to bless me with a partner who will understand me as Bahati understands you. If childhood wounds are not resolved it's hard to have a family of your own. All in all, I am grateful to God for even revealing to me that I had childhood trauma that needs healing, and where there is awareness, there is healing.
My dad's current situation,,but inshaallah one day l will make it in life and l will make my dad's life better its not easy watching my dad fighting depression,,anxiety all above God.. this is so inspiring 🙏❤
Hi Diana it is well, I lost my mum last week to stomach and colon cancer and we buried her yesterday it was devastating pray for us
May God give you peace and strength 🙏
All will be fine ☺️🙏
I love the fact that you guys had a difficult life, but the union stayed strong.
Dee you really need to bring Val kwa show too
Talking about something that hurt or broke you is the first step to healing, let go and let God take the lead... You two look amazing, the hair and the makeup is lit👌
Thanks Dee may God protect and lift you
Having my own kid in a few months and just stabled on this. Being a parent is scary especially remembering how your childhood wasn't a ride in the park. I never wanted to settle down nor have kids for that matter given what we went through and how I saw my parents struggled and we'd get the bitter taste of what they were going through. Long story short I feel like I've failed my kid even before he/she is born because I've found myself in the same situation . I pray we all get the chance to be better people , better children, better siblings, better parents and better spouses. It's not easy at all, but with God nothing is impossible. Thanks for sharing your stories Dee and Michelle it's healing to a lot of people.
I lost my mum two months after reporting to campus,,and my reporting day was the last day we saw each other, nothing hurts most than being called from school for mummy's burial,
Pole sana
Wooi hki pole
I'm sorry Dee your mom is so proud of you 💕 You have come from far and you inspire us alot !!!boss lady !! God chose the best momma for your babies
You are such an inspiration, true hardships and seasons don't last forever,but GOD is faithful
Me being raised by a step mother life was hard my mother past when I was 5yrs my father remarried when I was 7yrs,life was hell for me,through my primary I wore two pairs of shoes from class one to class eight.I rem one day nilifukuzwa shule cz of ksh50 kufika home I asked my step mom for that 50 Bob but she told me"kuja ukate hii matako yangu upeleke shule"those words hurts me until today,I wish my mum was alive
Dee mamaaa you're a real heroe . you played a mom roll at a very young age and you're still at it and the best one ever 🙌🙌🙌 you earned my respect.......and that is why God got your back and give you full blessings that you deserves dear ,I really got emotional on this Dee a really cried with you guys , Mich is so very strong woman too .I saw how much she holds the pain and the tears back inside her heart , sorry for what you guys past through and please forgive Dad ,He was passing through marriage separation trauma and it's damaged him emotionally so he didn't know how to control it he's a human ,and that's why he was putting it on you his kids , because he didn't have anywhere to put them , sorry and I love you all 3 of you , I've subscribed to your both channel from today I belong to the family , watching you guys from Washington DC USA
Thanks Dee for encouraging me. Imagine 90% of your story is directly corresponding to our background currently 😭😭.kutoka kukopa kwa duka,kufungiwa hao,dad kuwa violet, neglect from our neighbors etc I pray that one day God will come through.
he will come through.. keep trusting in him
Shedding love and light❤️ hugs
it gets better
He will definitely come through just have hope and faith and keep on praying and trusting God
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Thank you so much Dee and Mitch. God bless you
🥰🥰🥺be blessed Dee and mitch for opening up and encouraging broken souls out here.lesson learnt its darkest before the dawn.🤗.🥰
I am so sorry for your loss Diana may she continue resting in eternity,Your mum is so proud of guys irregardless of what happened in the past you are strong 💪,just look at you now you are best mother any kid would wish to have,may God protect and guide you and your sisters always........ IT IS WELL Diana Hugs Hugs
I shed tears😭😭😭. May God bless my parents and give them long life and good health. I really thank my mum for staying even when she had all the reasons to leave😭❤️. I love you mama!
It's so emotional but God has been so faithful to you people I love you all more blessings from yahweh
Watching you talk about your mom just reminded me of mine...there is little I can say about her...may her soul rest in peace..I just know I loved that woman..she was a fighter.
I just love you Dee to be honest 🥺🥺❤️❤️ You are just real and I always learn alot from you...thank you for talking this out and encouraging many people out here...You are a Blessing ⭐💫❤️
I feel inspired everytime I watch your videos..I see God every time I see and think of you... Thankyou for encouraging me I also lost my mom at my young age it's usually a challenge to me but I tap your blessings always may God bless me like you..love you Dee♥️🥰
Thanks Dee and Mish for sharing your story..we also went through the same thing my dad was also hash and used to bit us vibaya hadi tunatoroka..I find myself shouting at my kid na sazingine Niko na hio anger bcs that's what I use to see just like u've said..it's something am still praying about.. I want to give my kids all love in this world and be the best mum ever
Thanks for sharing Dee and Mitchell
Am passing what you passed through hope one day i will be in a position to tell people my testimony like you guys are🙏🏽
We need a part two with Val. Diana you’re such a good inspiration I love your content God bless you.
And the current relationship status with the dad.Need some encouragement
I can't stop my tears enymore for your but take heart God is greatful
Strong woman you are🙏,may God contiy lifting you higher
Its so painful to lose a parent and especially at a young age. Bt I believe God knows better. Look at you now Dee, glowing, living your best life,giving your children the life that you never had and also inspiring so many people out here. I'm sure your mama is happy for you as well as your sibling. You are one of the strongest women I know Dee and I love you so much ❤️ ❤ ❤❤
Blessings to you and your family😘😘😘
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I don't know how many of as we are buh Diana the truth is each time I listen to you I really break down 💔 in to tears ...it never takes me seconds even in your happy moments I just see my self shading tears all I have realized is that have gotten alot of much love for you .... always stay blessed I love you
Dee, I always feel like I want to share my life history on your interviews
This is touching. Am happy even in the difficult moments you had hoped it was going to pass. Just like it is said joy comes in the morning.
Your story is not far from mine too 😭😭 but we keep pressing on. Am now 25years old and all i can say is Thank you God, i have seen Him work it out for us. Too bad mama is not here to see us glow
Touching story, from zero to hero, from nothing to something 🙂He's a God of unmerited favor 😘❤❤🙏🏼🙏🏼for sure you're a living testimony ❤❤❤❤
You deserve the best Dee for the inspiration to many of us,,just be strong 💗💗💗💗
Truly waiting on God, thanx for ur encouragement!
Watching this video puts so much into perspective given how silent you were growing up and how Val was .......It's great seeing the women you have all become and continue to be 👏👏 God bless!!
Dee i know your Mom is more than happy, seeing the girl she gave birth to, she turned to be an inspiration to everyone... Dee you have blessed so many pple and with that God blessings will keep on showering you... Nakupenda bure MamaHeav💕💕💕💕
Some situations prepare one mentally to be strong ...look at you now... stuff happen for a reason and tbh I believe in guidance from our lost ones she's definitely watching you and your family including your sisters....we love you♥️we might never fit to be in your mum's position bh as you're fan we'll be there for you through thick and thin...much love
Very mature conversation..I loved it
Waohhh much love Dee....and Amen I can't wait for that day God💓💓💓💓
I’m speechless 😩😭 but I’m so proud of you guys ♥️
Dee you such an inspiration to us young growing generation the way you bring up your kids is a blessing to them.What you went through is a past and does not define who you are or who you will be.Its my prayer that you may live long to give more and inspire many people❤.
You are a strong woman Dee that's why God keeps on blessing you day after day
I cried, crode when watching this video. Love and peace to Diana and your sisters.
Hope you gals have forgiven your dad now that you understand he did whatever he did not out of hate but frustration, he was taking it out on you not knowing he was instilling fear and resentment in you guys. Hope you do have or have ever had a candid conversation with him to hear his side of the story. Glad you're passed that now and living your best life now.
Pain is inevitable 💔 😪 but again bad times never last . We not promised when things are really gon be okay but we live in believe that we'll eventually smile . Dee you my greatest inspiration, my role model and that I wouldn't lie . I need these long talks with you . Am going through a lot 😪 Just a little talk with you so I can share a lot that am holding back am afraid depression would take the better part of me 😭😭😭😭
Diana is such a pure soul, her heart is so beautiful. Diana and her sisters are very beautiful girls, so for real and I enjoy watching their content. God is the best healer of all our emotional pains, I love the fact that you are breaking the cycle of generational wounds by being the best parents to your children. You people are just special, so many people are going through a lot in their families by sharing your story you are helping so many people out there.
Uweh🥲hio part ya your dad loosing his job hits me hard manze🥲God is faithful🥳i love this far God has brought you...for me I just remember 2007 .I hope one day i will be able to stand out and talk it off
I feel your pain Dee and your sisters. Continue being strong for your families. It is well.....we all go through pain at some point in life. And it's true you don't have to be a reflection of your pain. Also had a very painful childhood....but I chose to be a best friend to my babies
So proud of you Dee and Mitchelle❤
This is encouraging dee❤️... Mum is proud of wherever she is... May mum's soul rest in peace.
I thank God you girls healed.surprise Mr omatch one of these days jameni🙏❤️
I have always watched you tell this story and every time i learn something new about the kind of parents you had / have. Michelle seems still bitter with your mum and it's understandable, she was young to understand anything, but gals, your mum went through a lot, for her to even leave you behind (which was a huge mistake - because if it was bad for her then it was definitely bad for her children) your dad on the other hand expressed his bitterness towards her through you people but that you have lived to forgive them is such a beautiful thing
Everyone has story to tell,sweet and bitter story of their lives,I love you Daina, you are a very strong girl,you always touches my heart everytime,keep going babes 😍
What l have come to learn every family have a series of background behind them. Wow Dee and your siz you are the best of combination this show was cool l love it the better part of it was figured out family is the best bravo to you❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
This is the best episode of kavagara God is still on the throne no matter our situations....am so happy for u guys having the strength to share this a lot of ppl are going thru broken homes loosing hope but am sure this can heal a soul or even restore a family....and know that good family can be created its a matter of right choices! Thank u so much ladies I pray that I will have my perfect family in future as yours. God bless u!
This story reminds me alot about my past too.i really had a tough dad like ata ningekua na issue singeongea I die with my pain...I remember kwanza my dad burnt my thighs just because I lost a new kofia at school...like mimi I used to run away from home almost daily coz ukikosea kidogo unapigwa ni kama you were mistakenly born... mimi ata ni ngumu I go home nikikumbuka what I passed through ata mtoto wangu simpelekangi home coz I fear..😭😭
sending you love and hugs hunie. I hope you try to do better with your kids❤️❤️❤️forgive him
Oh dear,,never mind and one thing you have to keep in mind is that you are where you are because of where you have been and also you are what you are because of what you went through..may God help you to make peace with your past...Love you
@@Sheilakariuki129 I do try alot but I have scurs that I see everytime I take a shower which always remind me everything..but I try alot to forget...sometimes I used to see how good he was to my brothers but me as a girl child only daughter he really hated me
@@beatricekhainza6795 thanks hunny I love you too
Swts pole aki... To heal lazima you forgive your Daddy, n God will give you peace....
THIS ONE WAS ONE OF THE MOST INSPIRING ENCOURAGING AND MOTIVATING STORY 💯💯💯💯YOU HAVE REALLY GONE THROUGH ALOT BUT GOD HAS SEEN YOU THROUGH THE HARD TIMES AND SMILED UPON YOU🙏🙏🙏I BELIEVE YOUR PARENTS ARE SUPER PROUD OF YOU RIGHT NOW AND ARE HAPPY PARENTS 🥰🥰💯💯💯MAY GOD KEEP ON SMILING UPON YOU AND YOUR SISTERS AND MAY YOU KEEP STRONG FAITH AND THE BOND BETWEEN YOU IS SO STRONG 💯💯💯💯I REALLY ADMIRE YOU ALOT FOR THE FAR YOU HAVE COME AND YOU WILL ALWAYS BE MY MENTOR NA NAWAPENDA SANA❤️❤️❤️❤️
Aaaaaaaw thank you for your kind words. I appreciate. Tunakupenda pia ❤❤❤❤❤
@@Diana_Marua Your most welcome 🥰🥰❤️
Am so encouraged,may God bless you 🙏
This is so inspiring dee.i grew up in such an environment with my mum sick till date but there's God in heaven who heals.🙏I've been having this feeling that I should be inspiring other people through what I went through while growing up but no-one to support me.What am sure of IPO siku.
Loosing a mum at an early stage is so painful ,up to know I still feel that pain
MUM IS PROUD OF YOU ❤️💯 YOU ARE STRONG WOMAN SENDING HUGS 🫂🫂❤️❤️❤️
Uuuuiii aki hawa warembo si ni wasupuu ... Mitchell I like your hair hebu twambie inaitwa aje
Oh this so encouraging that people can go through alot and be blessed later,God is with you gals
I understand wht u hve been passing through even me I was raised by single parent and it's very hard bt I never hated my mum bcz I now she was passing through alot it's was not easy for her to raising for children without a stable job I love u mum ur the best bcz u never give up on us 💕💕💕😍
Hey Dee from all your cook and reveal edition this has really touched me personally...
it gives me a reminder when I lost my mom and i had to take care of my sibling....
You are really brave Dee....kudos to you❤❤
Your story inspires me ,,I really love your hard work and the way you vibe with everyone 🥰
Mambo hubadirka Dee,am super proud of the beautiful soul, and success lady you've become
I just love your sister, mitch... i see her on your videos and click on it promptly..
She is really fun to listen to, has something in her that will pop and shine so brightly and take her to the highest levels.
Am a big fan of both of you...
She is our fev
I lost my mum who was a single mum. I'm taking care of my siblings....my sister is in form 1 and my bro is in college. IT'S OVERWHELMING!!
My bro is driving me crazy 😢😢😢
Be strong Lucy you will make it through ❤❤❤❤❤
May God provide for you
Keep the Faith Dear.God is on the throne
Diana you really are a mentor to be my role model.. I wanna be the wife and mother you are.. You are just awesome.. You are changing lives out here.. Continue being blessed
This reminds me of loosing my parents at a time I believed it was a turning point of positive energy, Being in school with my young brother in the same cube in the dormitory, I really struggled to even break that news to him , but all in all we soldier on #God is the giver and taker of life ☺
You're a strong woman Diana,And you're an inspiration to many people out here.May God bless you so much ma'am...♥️
You are a super woman💪i know its pain loosing your mum and relatives 😥your mum is happy of you in heaven🤗seeing you fighting your own battles and winning💥❤you are a strong woman💪may your mum rest in eternal peace🙏
Way wah wah this story has touched me immensely; thank you so much Diana and Michelle for opening up about a subject still spoken about in hushed tones and embarrassment; I salute you all❤️❤️❤️❤️🔥🔥🙏
You guys endured alot,you deserve the very best 💙🤍
Hugs Dee... This happened to me in 2019 my dad passed in my arms, The negligence in this public hosi 😭
am late to watch this but have shed tears.mother ar golden creators in children presences.just b strong.but say thanks to almighty you have made it. kudos queen
This is so emotional Dee,and i agree that God comes through our toughest times.
This is so heartbreaking💔💔 😭 😭 😭 plus how you still remembers everything like it was yesterday... May her soul continue resting in peace
Ameeeen 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏