Why are sugar daddy relationships so common now?
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jumpscare moment: 0:00
part one: what is a sugar daddy? 6:25
part two: aoki lee simmons and her pre-historic fossil 16:15
part three: problematic rise of sugar Daddies 23:02
part four: experiences with sugar daddies: 35:41
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I understand but why target all men? As you demonstrated other types of men?
lets just call it out for what it truly is: legalized prostitution
100%
Yup
It's not prostitution if there's a relationship. The main difference is knowing them or not. Legalized prostitution exists and this isn't it.
Like marriage for benefits, it's a relationship for benefits.
@@squirrel670 sugaring is definitely a form of sex work. And no because escorts can have regulars.
@@yourfavoritenetcitizen6525 it can be similar but the sugaring relationships vary by a lot. Some only have accompanying on dates, like how you can rent a grandma or such.
I'd rather be broke than have to give my body or myself in any way..Ladies stay safe and stirr off sugar daddies..
I hear you! It’s very easy to be taken advantage of in these kind of relationships! So I think it’s best to avoid them… but depends on your situation
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I’m currently reading a book “au bonheur des dames” /ladies paradise - about 1800 Paris classes and consumerism, one of the main character is a poor girl from the province, that’s given the advice to “take a lover” that supports her with money so she can support her younger brothers and not have to work through the night to be barely able to live
Every other girl has a lover (or more) as they don’t make enough money to support themselves
So glad times have changed (in most countries), I couldn’t imagine
@NkirukasWrld both are having fun. Kind of hard to be taken advantage of when the whole reason you're dealing with this person is financial. They have a name for this skill set.
emphasis on IN ANYWAY WAY!!!
I’m 21, my father is 66. I CANNOT imagine kissing nobody his age. What has the world come to?!😭
Daddy issues, my love! Daddy issues could be a factor!!!
I used to think it was a stupid excuse, but a friend of mine who never lived with her biological parents, but grew up in the home of relatives, always feeling neglected and struggling with serious esteem issues. She mostly never crushes on young guys. But falls head over heels, and dates men in their 50s and 60s.
I and other friends have teased and harassed her for this till it clicked one day💡- daddy issues!
I confronted her, but she claims(till today) that it's just her nature.
But I perceive very strongly that she's this way because she didn't have a loving father presence while growing up.
Desperation bcs gave you seen these prices
was definitely a sugar daddy for Aioki
Come to ? This always happened, before males were even more encoraged to be interested in young girls...and propaganda that older men are "better" was always there too
As a french canadian, I loved that you used Emanuel Macron bcs his wife is a weirdo!! She literally married her daughter highschool crush. WHY as a grown ass adult are you attracted to a teenager?? This definitely should be illegal.
I'm actually French 😭😭I didn't know American knew Emmanuel macron et Brigitte LMAO
Basically a pedophile
WAIT WHAT, REVERSE ALL THAT, you said she married her daughter's crush WHATTTTT
@@KamariaNias As an american yes ik them and i alw found their relationship messed up... she was literally his teacher and knew him when he was a teen. She's literally old enough to be his mother like wtf
@@azeezathusein1346 RIGHT? Even I was shocked. That's definitely grooming.
I honestly used to think being a sugar baby was the best thing in the world, now I know that it’s not just rainbows and sunshine and it’s a very tough and difficult process
lol I’m not sure if this is satire 😭😭😂😂
It’s called “romanticizing” for a reason. On social media they make everything odd or unrealistic a possibility if you just act like a mean girl UWU.
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Same. I considered doing it in highschool, and a senior I knew was a SB. Her SD even requested they meet up in her school uniform. She introduced me to apps, and talked to me about the gifts she got.
I used to think it was a one way ticket to financial stability. But after researching the topic I realized it had a much darker side than advertised.
@@Tyler-he4pfyou was probably gonna get kidnapped fam
i genuinely hate this entire thing
i remember going to a restaurant with my dad when i was like 16-17 and a waitress deadass thought we’re sugar dating and brought me wine instead of a lemonade
i was traumatized
sick world we living in
ewwww
wtf??
no but like why didn't the waitress stfu like yk that your assumption or daily observation is not applying to children lmao. the carelessness iuw
i look exactly like my dad that would be sooooo weird
Me too, my dad goes around everywhere introducing me as his daughter bcs people tend to give me the stink eye when we hang out (which is messy and upsetting bcs in sugar baby-sugar daddy scenarios they should be doing that but to the predator instead of to the v1ctims). We look very much alike. We share most facial features but people still assume the worst.
Gotta keep in mind that Net Worth does not equal liquid cash. Even if Aoki is worth $55M , that’s just her worth in assets. Not necessarily money she has access to presently.
Yeah 55m in assets is still being worth a lot. she can sell something and have 1m In liquid cash in a heart beat. Selling herself is wild she don’t need to do that.
@@itsnaya9916 I agree! But who knows maybe it’s held in trust that she doesn’t have access to? I’m just saying we don’t know her financial situation ………………. Also who knows? Maybe she really is just in love with that man? 🙊 (I doubt it, I’m just sayin)
They are not more common now, just more visible and ladies no longer being embarrassed or ashamed of them.
Our grandmas were "sold over" or given to arranged marriages with older wealthier men back in the day.
This is so true!!! Women have been forced to get with older men for financial reasons literally FOREVER through history, even as old as ancient china and Greece. Women couldn’t even own a bank account until the 70s lol. This does NOT justify it obviously, it’s better that women can more often CHOOSE to partake in these relationships if they want to, but it’s still very weird and predatory.
While it happened extreme age gaps were never actually common. It was usually reserved for moments of extreme financial duress such as a father dying or being injured and not having the funds to feed another mouth. Census records in the 1500s in Europe show the average age of marriage for women was in their mid-20s. Not exactly the young teenagers old novels have you believe was the norm.
Ok let’s keep it a buck, having a sugar mummy or daddy is basically modern day prostitution. The Aioki situation surprised me because this was a girl who was juggling modelling, and Harvard premed, even though she was younger than me i was inspired by her worth ethic and resilience. She’s someone who comes from wealth so i don’t know what possessed her to go for a man who has grandchildren older than her
She’s doing the same thing her mother did. Plus we already know her dad cuts them off from time to time. She’s looking for security and found it him. I hope she’s alright, she’s probably in the wrong mindset 😢
I don’t think we should take away her accolades and accomplishments because of the men she associates with. She’s still influential and an intelligent woman. Her worth isn’t determined by the man she’s involved with.
It’s really not. It’s a relationship with the man being the breadwinner who just so happen to be older. This isn’t something new at all. It’s no different than a marriage where the woman is a stay at home wife and the husband brings in the money. Prostitutes most of the time don’t focus on just one person but whoever wants their services. People bring up the topic that age don’t matter once you’re an adult but when you see someone younger with someone older it’s an issue. Both are consenting adults in such a relationship and not all SD SB relationships is 100% sexual. What she’s doing isn’t illegal do there’s really no problem in it. It’s just not socially acceptable for many.
I went to high school with this kid named Michael, & he had about 3 sugar mamas. One of his sugar mamas would only take him out on dates & give him money for it b/c she just wanted the company (nothing s*xually intimate). While, one of his other sugar mama wanted to get s*xually intimate with him. He ghosted on her after she suggested s*x b/c he wasn’t comfortable with that, but keep in mind he was a 16-year-old kid 😬.
That’s literally a predator 🤢 good thing he didn’t go for that
the first lady just sounds like someone who wished she had kids/grandchildren to spoil aha
@@nunugirlswag109 sure, Jan
@@HenryLee666 it’s still weird, trust. But honestly I think about my grandma on my dads side and she’s young at heart so she’s always trying to hang with us teens and young adults lol but never the kids because they have TOO much energy for her lmfaooo
@@nunugirlswag109 i don't think you can compare hanging out with the young people of your family and friends to paying for the company of a teenager.
Dysfunction is socially acceptable. Aslong as you have an entertaining way of displaying truama all is well apparently
That’s a very good point 😭personally I cope with traumatic with humor, I guess that explains why I’m a very unserious person lmao🤦🏾♀️but when you think about is the world is literally dysfunctional so I guess all we can do is laugh sometimes😭
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You cooked with this one!!! Because if it's Britney Spears running amuck people are concerned but if it's someone hypersexualizing themselves(as a form of coping) then no one bats an eye.
This 🙌🏽
This...u can have the medal🥇
I do believe that age matters. Especially when age gaps are in play. Like, if your argument for dating is „oh, yeah, but it’s legal“, then that’s not really the flex some people think it is. In some countries it’s legal to marry 11 y.o. That doesn’t make it right. These laws are often just arbitrary numbers and often enough way too low when it comes to age of consent or being an adult
finally someone said it!
fr, especially in the uk where its 16, japan where its 13 and brazil where it's 11 like wtf...
@@diahoney_ and this is why the "as long as they are consenting adults" argument is illogical and meaningless
The glamorization of this is what’s scary. As a teenager i used to think hypergamous relationships were aspirational but was met with harsh reality. If a man can take a woman who loves him for granted imagine him seeing u as a bill, no different than objects he uses. Also as the “sb” it’ll warp ur mind seeing everything as transactional, it’ll ruin genuine connections. I grew out of this materialistic thinking with age, u just realize what’s important and these troubled girls and pathetic old men just look like fools to u 🤷♀️ also young boys are being groomed to think this is cool and fulfilling but these old playboys are just as unfulfilled. The sd jokes are funny tho 🤣
Trust meeee, growing up I was aspiring to be a sugar baby because of the content I was seeing 🤣🤣plus being a sugar baby prevents you from developing real and genuine connections which I agree with too, and those genuine connections are such an important part of life that I hope everyone can experience!
Also the sugar daddy jokes r so funny on TikTok tho 😂I can’t even lie or maybe my humor is messed up lmaooo
Yup
Men use women for sex so I never understood why we lie to ourselves into thinking men want a genuine connection with you! 😂
sounds pretty risky for women, getting vulnerable with a stranger and allat
So is hooking up….and you don’t get paid….but that’s a conversation the community isn’t ready to have.
@@namedrop721 True 😂
This economy got people acting people doing crazy stuff and it depresses me.
Ugh! From legalizing illegal drugs, to the pandemic, then most recently the solar eclipse. People are losing time lapse, sense of direction and sanity. Then the economy lapse again, I really can't.... Anyways, just a a couple of days after the solar eclipse one of my customers asked me if I had WhatsApp. We could video chat and "communicate". I told him that I had the damn App once and creepy people were sending me some iffy pictures, even Facebook is filled with creeps! I unsubscribed from all of it. EEWWW! Why do you even have WhatsApp I asked him. He stopped smiling and walked out of the store. He never bothered me again. 😂
Insanity, insanity, immaturity, most def immaturity... some men mature beautifully and have class, others stay teenagers most of their lives and think they can date young girls again. No. No,sireee!
Dubai porta potty literally scarred me. I fully regret seeing it
That wasn't a sugar mama relationship tho
I don't want to see it but how did you manage to be exposed to that 🤢
@@Lisette121 My sister's boyfriend sent it to me 😂He meant it as a joke tho
@@JellyK lol ok
One thing about “sugar babying” that does annoy me is how many sugar babies try to draw hard lines in the sand between themselves and prostitution or other forms of sex work. If you strip, you are a sex worker, if you create nude or pornographic content on onlyfans, you are a sex worker, if you are an escort you are a sex worker. NO shame in the game. It just seems like sugar babies have this idea that they’re somehow better than or different from prostitutes as a way to cope with engaging in this lifestyle for survival. Even the most well-paid sugar babies aren’t doing it for fun… deep down they fear going back to a life that they can’t support if they stop doing this work. If we started using “sex work” to describe what sugar baby dynamics are we would be giving women a much more realistic portrayal of what the lifestyle is off of Instagram. Basically a long-winded answer to your question is no because sugar dating is *inherently transactional* and not a “relationship”
Some OF models do the same thing when it comes to p*rnstars. You guys literally have the same job, except one is contracted to an industry!
Imagine being a 'sugar daughter' where older men who want to treat you as a daughter just to talk and go to events together innocently.
That sounds actually good!
They don't. They are looking to smash.
@@user-xv1zq3nl6ryeah men who never got the chance to have kids and who don’t want to risk having a brand new baby at an old age
@@barbaramay9288 You're right! Platonic Sugar Mommy or Daddy sounds pretty cute and wholesome.
that doesnt make any sense..
The person who said “well you know how 21 year old boys act” thought they ate 🤣🤣 then 15 years olds crying bc they can’t get a sugar daddy…..I’d just like to say how grateful I am for my parents lol
All men ain’t nothing to want anyways so might as well get a successful one 😂
Nah, cause I'm only 20 and an old head man tried to get my number. I felt weirded out. It was a really weird moment for me, but respectfully, I refuse to be one of their targets/victom and I especially don't want to be a sugar baby
LOOL😂 as a french, seeing you using Macron and Brigitte is so freakin funny. I France this couple is kind of like : we know they exist but we prefer not to talk about it 😂😂
As an american I always thought their relationship was weird asf and was curious how people in french thought of it lol, that perspective is funny and understandable haha
@@cosmari245 I feel the same too... Did you know that Macron is the same age as his wife's daughter ??
😭 Honestly we just ignore them because it's sooo weird, it's like the teacher student trope. 😭
@@Yoongi10269 No, I didn't know that. It just gets worse... imagine your mother marrying a guy the same age as u?? Crazy, I would ignore them too lol if I was a french person I think I would get sick of them
@@cosmari245 ikr ?!! Brigitte was the teacher of Macron, and he was in the same school as Brigitte's daughter bro... This whole story is so creepy.
I'm honestly really disgusted about that, and I'm not the only one... It's just so weird to just think about it.
Vraiment lol 😂 j' ai plein de gens sur tik tok utiliser la chanson teacher's pet 😂😂
It might seem like sunshine and rainbows to not have to work a traditional job and have someone else take care of you financially, BUT that also means you’re surrendering your financial stability to someone else.
Most people don’t show the sugar baby lifestyle off responsibly, it’s usually “glitz and glam”. SAVE and invest extra money if you’re getting it. Don’t waste it all on “stuff”. If you’re going to be a sugar baby, be smart and plan for the FUTURE.
I just feel bad for her because can you imagine all of your 21 year old mistakes being broadcast for the entire internet to judge. Part of me is so glad that social media is just now becoming extremely prevalent.
I really loved that you talked about this. I too fell for the Sugar Baby aesthetic. I didn't realize how much time and effort I had put in to trying become one, not to mention the psychological impact. I thought it would be a quick way of getting some money fast. I ended up exposing myself to a world full of disceptions, disingenuiness and also lost some of my innocence. I didn't like that my perception of romantic relationships changed to one of being transaction and not whether I truly liked and cared about the person.I couldn't tell anyone about it cause I was low/high ashamed of what I was doing.But the perception of getting some money made me stay in it longer than I should have. It also impacted my relationship with God. I stopped praying and only thought of how I could get the guy to give me more money. But by God's grace, he changed my way of thinking and got me out. Its a slipeery slop to be in and i wouldn't recommend any girl or guy to enter into a transactional love/engagement. And for any believers out there, don't do it. I know life can be hard sometimes but we have a father in heaven who will get us through it. Wait on the Lord. God bless! ☺️
I've always struggled with understanding a 10+ year age gap, even thought both pairs of my grandparents have it
But yeah, what does a 17 and 35yo can even talk about??? I'm 24yo woman working as an English tutor and my students come from different age groups. And I tell you what, brains of 13-16 yo shuts down once you start asking questions about their life experience BECAUSE THEY DON'T HAVE ANY 😭 like girl they only go to school and maybe extra curriculum class after, who but their peers can hang out with them
This is what I think too! It's extremely sad and inappropriate. There may be other influences that make people think a particular way, including but not limited to false ideas accepted as true or physiological or mental or traumatic issues that may be at play. I can't see why someone would desire this dynamic.
Yikes ! Sugar dating is def mockable and not healthy .. mentally and spiritually.
I agree
How so? Dating younger broke struggling men is… healthy then? Cause tho the only alternatives 😂
@@ayaebony4461hear me out…not dating men
@@ayaebony4461agreed but at a young age when you date someone close to your age- I feel there could be little to no imbalance of power dynamics involved, you treat relationships as being with someone you love.. instead of it being transactional. Just my two cents!
Why is that even an option? Or to use guys for money? 😅
Fun fact: After around 2mths most sugar daddy's will leave if you don't... its a very challenging game which often results in resentment, confusion and either party feeling used and/or abused..
Sugar "relationships" are note relationships but a business partnership bruh.
You’re right, - business with enhanced closeness compared with clients in different industries.
More like you don’t need a sugar daddy you need money lol. I will always be for women to have a marketable skill that keeps you employed and pays well. When you have your own money you won’t become desperate in dating men for money to take care of you. You have the privilege of dating because you want to not because you need to for survival.
I so love how NK is always so respectful but still perfectly honest. THIS IS WHY WE LOVE HER!
A sugar dady that don' t want no sugar, are you sure we aint just lying? are you sure we aint just trying to save face? i dont buy it lol
Wow. This video needs to have over a million views…. It’s a huge issue….
I think it’s terrible the glamorization of sugaring and sw especially on OF so many freshly 18 year olds are starting it the day they turn 18 it’s insane the realities of these lifestyles is far different from what these young kids think to clarify I have no problem with sw and such but I do have a problem with people promoting it to such young people
u explaining whatsapp like it’s a foreign concept is soooo funny to me as somebody from a country where it’s the main communication app
She is such an important inspiration in the world and not just for women but men
I don’t aspire to be an inspiration to certain men lmao
Most definitely slay girl 💅🏾
While I'm also not fond of relationships with huge age gaps, I'm capable to tolerate them as long there is actual love and it has 2 adult people involved and not with someone who is not even in their 20s. However what I don't stand is ageist hypocrisy especially when there is middle aged couple with woman being little bit older and suddenly it is seen as mother and son relationship. Gonna give example from The Walking Dead fanbase, Carol and Daryl Dixon, characters who are wildly shipped and are canonically in their 50s on show with actors Norman Reedus being 55 and Melissa McBride being 58, soon to be 59 in May, so just 4 year age gap in real life and there are people who refer them as mother and son because Melissa is older and has gray hair... but it is ok to ship Daryl, guy in his 50s with Beth and while her actress Emily Kinney was 25+ so legally adult, Beth was canonically between age 16-18 before she died on show and yet somehow this is ok and not seen as father and daughter relationship. It is both shocking and hypocritical to me how in our society such relationships with man being in his 50s with younger and virginal woman who is not even in her 20s is ok but when there is relationship of 2 middle aged people with naturally beautiful woman being just little bit older and with gray hair, it is seen as mother and son. And also in real life for example Keanu Reeves and his partner Alexandra who is bit older than Keanu and has gray hair, tabloid media and society refered her as mother to him when you can tell these 2 are equal to one another.
Thank you for pointing this out ... When a old man does it , they call it biology and cool but when old woman does it , it's bad
There's so much wickedness in the world and this typa relationships are one of them😂
word!
My ex is 10 years older than me and I loved him- but the ex wife’s and the many kids is just not worth it. Regardless if stability. And it’s how u would think it would be. It’s like seeing a 28 year old with an 18 year old. Interests are different, and y’all are at 2 different points in life. Like no it’s not worth it at all
U were emotionally involved. That’s like rule number one don’t fall in love.
As someone who went on dates with older men for financial support it was hard to go back on dates with people my age because at least with older men the terms of the relationship are already set and in a way that protects my feelings, I also feel like I don’t have to impress them and can talk about anything without judgement bc there are just there to enjoy the company and conversations as a way to wind down from their work/family lives. Men my age string me along manipulate you to sleep with you and I gain nothing but shame and embarrassment from falling for it. Plus their unrealistic beauty standards due to social media and p*rn consumption that doesn’t really affect older men as much
Most of these older men are biggest pervert and cheaters... It's good you had a safe experience but let's be honest an old men just want to talk to girl decades younger than him is biggest lie lol.. if they wanna talk they can find ladies of their age... But most of them are actually married and cheating... And these men are worst than younger dudes as they have audacity to creep for girls of their daughter age
Your description is so raw.
Great insight, - as a middle aged lady who dated and dabbled in sb business a few years ago ( married now, 😅 to a good one) -
I am reminded of how true your observations are. I can gauge the young guys now are porn polluted, how terrible.
@@RavingAgave thank you ! Glad you found a good one they are definitely rare these days 😆 I feel like a lot of people think that most sd will act like a lion at the sight of meat but it is actually the young ones doing so lately and for free ! lol
So you ex escorte
Someone on fb asked me to be their sugar baby and declined and really got upset I declined😭
Maybe it’s the fact that it’s becoming much harder to startup for young people who are trying to become independent that is making sugar baby situations so appealing and not so much tic toc promoting it
yeah let all ppl stricken by poverty get on the s. daddy site then ig 💀
I moved out right when I turned 18 and I was a sugar baby for 2 years. Had my own apartment, bills paid, everything I needed except my dignity and self worth. Which really took a toll on me. Thankfully I ended that lifestyle. I couldn’t handle how I’d feel after having to do my part and give him “sugar”. Now I’m 22 a waitress and making the same amount or honestly more money than I was when I was a sugar baby. That lifestyle definitely isn’t for everyone and please be careful if you really wish to do that. The toll it takes on your mental is terrible. Stay safe and do what you think is best for you
@LerzMerz well with my tips that I make I make really good money. But yeah hourly I get fucked working as a waitress. And by my sugar daddy I was getting $1,000-$2,000 every week. Depending what I did for him
@LerzMerz well I make good money with the tips I bring in 😅 definitely not because of my pay. I make $1500-$2000 a week
I love the thing you started doing with the questions because it really leaves you thinking about the topic even after the video is over. I love watching your rise on youtube and I really think its time to give people fame who are actually deserving of it. Hope you make it to 100k!
its so popular because people are wanting comfort and luxury quickly without having to work for it, they think “50/50” is broke mentality and it can be if there is not mutual gain from it but realistically its building with someone and in this economy most people don’t have the money to just spend on others alot of people don’t realize it takes alot of time, energy, and attention to give to sugar daddies and mostly your body its a draining thing to do if you’re not actually into the older person because you’re trying to chase a bag and they know that you’re not getting that easily!
I think most modern people aren’t worth investing your time or life into cause this generation is shitty in ESPECIALLY the Men and women! Men today are Garbage in standards so I can understand why women aren’t tolerated that and just skipping the drama and just getting their own bags from them.
my best friend and i are our own sugar daddy/mummy. i buy him canteen food (when i'm not broke LMAO), and he buys me canteen food in return to pay me back. thats about as experienced as we are and that we're gonna get on the topic of sugar daddies/mummies 🤣💸
That's not sugaring
Just came across this page and I'm loving every single content, keep it up queen
We in a recession/depression and the money is lowww babess
that cash register story was so hilarious 😂😂 when you lowkey being funny but that damn old man being serious for once lol
I really love watching your videos💗💗 please never stop making them✨
you need to upload more ive been dying for another video thanks for it I;ve nev er seen this topic before thanks for informing me.
Luv your videos! Keep up the good work!❤
I’m a sugar baby. I have always preferred older men as romantic partners. The extra money has helped me toward building my small business. If you both have great chemistry and mutual respect, you can create a lot of fun experiences. It takes time to find a good one and I vet pretty extensively. Probably why I have had a positive experience. It just works for me at this time in my life. ❤
I'm addicted to your videos😢❤😂
Awwww thank you! I’m really appreciative of you watching! 💕 it’s a healthy addiction so it’s fine😂🤣
One word about these kinds of relationships: disgusting
NK you are a stunner!! I loved you modelling the "Missguided Bardot Shirt Dress"... A Godess
Great video and such an important topic to talk about! To be honest, I had a hard time watching it though because this topic DISGUSTS me so much, people really need to be more critical about it...
This reminds me of this one time we went to a restaurant and my dad was talking to the person in the front so he could find my sister. He meant to say “my other daughter” but it came out as “my other wife.” We all laughed hysterically. I hope to every god in every religion that that wasn’t a Freudian slip because I love him and my mom would BURY HIM 😭
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I wonder who informed paparazzi that they were even there to take the photo; it’s like it was set up😅
I'm just gonna say it loud: ONLY IN THE WESTERN COUNTRIES. AND TECHNICALLY DEVELOPED COUNTRIES. THEY LITERALLY ROMANTICISE THAT SHIT. 👀
Righttt bc other places it’s literally arranged marriages. Both are bad
She doing the same thing her mama did. Not surprised.
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It’s all DISGUSTING 🤢
That’s why it’s best to do long distance where they can just cashapp you once u have enough u block em and dip
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Honestly21and65 it's not sugar dady thing it's sugar grandpa 44 year gap damn
I have a sugar relation ship but he is only 9 years older, we’ve been together for four years, it’s just we know who we are and what we want in each other, he loves to spoil me and see me happy and support me in whatever I ask, and I love to make him feel like a big strong man, that’s just my take, and of course, everyone is entitled to their own opinion, but if they are consenting adults why should we care if women are “selling their body” ? Btw I mean women already in their 20s and older, it is suspect when they’re still 18-19
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What's sick about this Serafina connection is that Serafina through the mid 90s and early 00s was VERY popular in NYC. Their restaurant is right around the corner from Bad Boy, and it was a hot spot for many in the Hip Hop world to been seen, and for everyone to go and be seen in general.
It was COMMON to see Diddy there, Simmons there, and all the other names back in the day. I've dined there, the food was good.
Anyways, this is to say that I can imagine that Simmons brought his wife and kids there at some point, so who knows if this guy could have even met her as a kid. And that to me turns my stomach when I think about this whole situation even more.
Her momma yanked that sh*t because she probably met the dude and was mad as hell 😂.
So, I’m gonna be a hater here.
Aoki just graduated from one of the most prestigious universities in the world. Her family name can literally open doors. She has the privilege of being a nepo baby.
As much as I don’t like her father, she is an adult. He is no longer obligated to sustain to her needs financially.
So I truly find it difficult to understand this move right here, despise doing that to spite her father. But even that…
Everything is expensive nowadays. It makes sense, unfortunately.
My cousin was in the street life when she was 18 years old ( sex worker) she is now 21 years old and her John (trick) who is in his late 40’s saved her from that life and she stopped doing SW and now lives with him in his home. At first she made it seem like it was good because he took care of her and bought her things. Now she’s pregnant and is seeing that the honeymoon phase is over and now she has to deal with his financial problems he has kids older than her that don’t like her and has to deal with the ex wife and now they are bringing a baby into this drama. I think age gap relationships and the whole sugar baby situation should be short term and you never settle down with your trick. Once they save you the excitement is over and they’re out looking for the next damsel in distress to save. I wish my cousin just got out of the SW life and went back home to her mother because she didn’t need to sell her body for money she just didn’t want to live at home because she was abused in her household by her mother’s old boyfriends
Wait, her mom’s boyfriends were abusing her? Yeah that sounds like a really safe and necessary environment to go back to. Her mom failed her and now you are.
Gross disgusting behavior! Leave a young girl to her fate with predators in her mom’s home, then to predators on the street, now to be a cow to someone and then talk about how you’re better to everyone.
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If you gave one single shit about her you wouldn’t be spreading her business online and would help her, certainly before now. Help her now, hypocrite.
You cousin is ex hoe 😂😂😂😂
Honestly some younger boys just lay low and don’t show themselves too much that doesn’t mean they are “useless” you just need to meet normal people and have real expectations because an adult wanting to keep a sugar baby is also very not normal
ngl im 22 now but since i was like 14 i always liked really older men like in their 40s up so as someone who likes daddys in general i feel like the sugar part kinda comes with it even if its not your intention. not saying shes not doing it for money but i feel like its really not that deep. the problem its selling that type of relationship as something perfect and with only benefits for both parts. in my opinion.
Calling a 65 year old a senior citizen is wild lol. The older I get the older old seems. I remember being 14 thinking that 50 was old. And now that I’m in my 30s 65 doesn’t seem old. However it’s still too old to be with a 21 year old
19:41 Why am I from the Caribbean and I didn't even know that island existed💀
Having a "sugar daddy" sure does seem like an easy out.. Thing though is you're trading a lot more than your body for that leisure.
true!
Every single sugar baby I met refused to accept they were selling an aspect of self for money. One of them was even in a DA situation and stayed because of the $$$. To each their own but could not be me. It’s not sunshine, lollipops and rainbows like their IG would lead you to believe.
DA?
I am 21 and I believe that there must be something psychological going on in the young woman when such relationships arise. It is not normal at all
It’s because the economy is shit and we’re all broke and damn near morally bankrupt out of necessity. Hate the game.
Girlll, as a sugar baby, I can definitely confirm it’s not all Cartier and vacation in Milan. Heck, I never came crossed someone as rich as this….but then again, someone as rich as this would probably want a beautiful gorgeous woman a la Anok, Zendaya or Iman. Not as plain and dumb as me.
Unless the problem is that all these rich men who can afford yatch, bugattis and birkin bags are all situated in specific locations like LA or Europe….God when will it be my turn??
Zendaya is not a sugar baby she's in a relationship with Tom Holland who's exactly the same age as her!
@@fatimahanwaar306 I don’t think you understood my comment 💀.
@@anyaaa2801 find better examples and understand that attractiveness is subjective!
@@fatimahanwaar306 Girl, I don’t see how you’re confused. I think you need glasses lol.
HAS ANYBODY SEEN TH SCENE FROM BRIDGETON (the version of the queen idk the name) there was a scene where she had to do it with an older black man and that scene just describes what it is for sugar babies
I ALWAYS THINK OF THAT SCENE OMG. It traumatized me the way he DIED LIKE WHAT 😭
@@waterfall5660 omh yess that was disgusting
Nothing wrong with aging. We're gonna age too if we remain al1ve but yes, I have a HUGE issue with old people preying on the young.
ETA: I get that sugar babies have the right to make the choices they wanna make, but the older people with money have all the power in the relationship and they're taking advantage of that.
Before I met my partner I was 24 and on dating apps. Most people my age weren't interested in me for a romantic relationship, presumably bcs I'm fat, autistic and have a hard time keeping myself from info dumping on people.
I went on three dates and the 3 of them said they would rather have me as a friend. At least they were nice about it.
But I got a fvck ton of messages from older men every single day. Some of them were super cringe, they kept on saying I looked like a teenager which is very concerning on its own. And they were very obviously lying about their real ages. Some looked old enough to be my grandfathers and they were claiming to be 35. Yeah, right...
One of them was kind of ev1l, he sent a long AF message, and among other things he said he had daughters around my age and that I looked like them so "that would make it safe to go out in public". The audacity and shamelessness of that man. Gross.
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I was 26 when I married my 45 year old husband (we met when i was 23). We never intended on loving each other, but after a while we finally confessed to it. We were both skeptical about the age difference but we both realised life's too short to not be with the person you love.
Me and him make around the same amount of money, so it's not a sugar daddy relationship whatsoever. He also is quite naturally young looking, when my friends first met him (he was 45) they thought he was no older than 30-35. It's actually just great genes, which our sons have inherited aswell😅
Now i'm 34, he's 53. He's still young looking and barely anyone notices in public 😭 We have two sons, a seven year old and a two year old. My seven year old looks exactly like his father, and I don't regret marrying my husband with a big age gap, at all.
It's good to hear about ur experience... But I always have genuine question or doubts ... I'm currently 23 yr old and I'm from a culture where we are taught from young age to view people who are even only decade older than us as a elder respected person who cannot be dated , so it's kind of shock me to core about age gaps ... I know not all old men are bad but I always had a question, why old men will go after younger women only rather then women of their own age group... Like even if a older men wants a genuine relationship but why a woman decades younger than him... Its always some how point towards the society mindset than old or young men will want always younger women bcz older women who are even of their same age are like undesirable to them... This actually creates a narrative that women especially after 40s are not even seen desirable bcz older men fetish younger women bodies... But I have seen many older women in their 40s are not going after young men in their 20s , they are always finding someone of their age ... How much we try to romanticize these things but we know the reality... I know sometimes love happens without warning or without any control but I'm talking about the the common occurrence in which older men are always going after younger women, like someone who can be of their daughter's age ...
@@anime2315 I totally understand that aspect causing doubts, and I think the idea of older people going for people specifically decades younger is a little unsettling. For my situation, my husband never particularly went for younger women, and even once realising he had feelings for me he was very hesitant to act on them. I also, was always against the idea of dating older men, as I felt like the mental differences would be very out of place. However, everything just clicked between us and it was what it was. Age was never something which determined our love, it was more a setback than anything else because he won't be around for our sons as long as I will, and then there was problems for infertility a few years ago, and even now I have issues with his and my family around the subject.
He even dated older women in his 20's, like women in their late 30's. So his choice on dating younger doesn't concern me.
I understand why people are confused though, so thanks for asking instead of judging 😊
that's not a huge age gap
@@jt305 19 years is usually considered a large age gap
@@reallizziebennet oh ok it is. I'm currently dating a guy it's 32 years age gap, he did lie about his age saying he's younger. But it's too much will look at other options
it happens all the time with so many well-known celebrity power couples in Hollywood and people are romanticizing them (it doesn't matter how old the women are)
I need like 100k dollars
First of all EWWWWWW, second of all, HUHHHHHHH?!?!?
the have a serafina in PR and its sooooo good
Everything seems like Courtreezy, your intros, your Thumnails, hairstyle, girl you're a doing well.
I'd say sugaring is so much better than dating someone who isn't very attractive, no talent in bed, and won't give you anything anyway. With an SD, at least you get some cash from the wasted effort. But the real deal is to be independent, be happy with friends, family and oneself, and stop seeing men as saviors. Go get cash, but be wary and be safe.
You dont need "talent" in bed you just need to be compatible with your partner. If you like SD thats okay but it's not for everyone. I don't want cash from my romantic relationships
and if I don't have a sugar daddy who's going to pay for the therapy
Good point, cuz therapy not cheap 😭😭but having a sugar daddy too might make you need therapy lmao😂
You’d need therapy either ways lol
If you get a sugar daddy you'll need even more therapy ☠️
escort?
How is this different than regular ol’ $ex work? They also sometimes just offer companionship
I really don’t think the sugar baby/sugar daddy lifestyle is any different than the traditional belief of gender roles and heteronormativity. Men = money
Women = sex
Is this not apart of a certain agenda?
It’s just sex work. Higher class but still sex work
"they just do it to be weird" 😂😂😂
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I could never… he’s 12 years older than me and I’m 22-he’s 34 but anything over that… ugh couldn’t do it
38:59 what an interesting point because people who tend to have this viewpoint on sugar dating say the same thing.
But as a younger dude we process this as betrayal. It’s PROVEN past generations we’re more successful because they had their peer-aged women’s support.
I feel that sugar baby/mommy/daddy relationships are cheating (on your peers) and I love the highlight on “things I want now” because trust me, she will get the things she wants now but later it will have the opposite effect.
Those who waited for the younger men to mature will see their stability and finances improve while she will struggle to attract and maintain relationships with these younger men.
As a religious person, i find pre-marital sex to be immoral, however, if you're going to do it, you may as well get something out of it. That's why i think the sugar babies are smarter than any girl giving sex for free. Like at least make him pay for dinner first!
Same here, lol! All forms of fornication are sin. So sex work is sin, but having sex with someone who you aren't married to for romantic love, fun, or pleasure is also sin. At least the SWs are getting paid (not saying that them fornicating is right, but at least they are being smarter about it).