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  • Seekah Lytess - Doghouse
    The reason why I asked Seekah if I could direct and star in this video is because I got tagged a lot in it on Instagram and when I listened to it, it really connected to what my struggle was and what my addictions were putting my family through. I believe that this video will connect with a lot of lads going through similar struggles and what their families have to deal with. Please follow my boy Seekah and the videographer Leon, their handles are below. I love the work!
    ‪@SeekahLytess‬ / seekahlytess
    Produced by ‪@LOFProductions‬ / lofproductions_
    Directed by ‪@DapperLaughs‬ / dappersinstagram
    Video by @vxwavey / leonxwavey

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  • @jamesmoney3431
    @jamesmoney3431 9 місяців тому +12

    Most annoying thing is how little views this has🤦🏼‍♂️ like this represents so many and it’s only on these views😕 I’ve been clean from coke for over a year and watching this now clean it all makes sense it’s mad how that was the normal life we lived. Congratulations to anyone staying sober or even if your not and your trying to I hope you get there! Addiction sucks and there’s no shame in asking for help ❤

  • @harjdadrah9490
    @harjdadrah9490 Рік тому +22

    Don't have to be on the lash every night to be addicted, it's when you just can't say no, no matter how frequent or infrequent. Stay strong anyone out there trying to help themselves.

    • @iamzsaph2644
      @iamzsaph2644 Рік тому

      Don't think ist the point of the song but thanks

    • @nicktaylor1725
      @nicktaylor1725 9 місяців тому

      appreciate the song my dawg

  • @ryanp1992
    @ryanp1992 Рік тому +13

    It’s crazy to think in this moment when your anxious, you can feel your heart beating out of your chest, your praying to a god you usually don’t think exists asking him not to kill but you even still feel alone. There is a full generation of young men who struggle and feel this every single week “I know I can’t win this game I’m in but nothings stopping me from playing” this lyric just sums it up perfectly because even though you know it’s wrong and it’s gone to far your at it again and again. I spent the best part of 10 years doing this and in those ten years I’ve lost my best friend to coke I’ve lost relationships I’ve lied to family but I still put a smile on my face for the lads in the boozer - my “friends”. I’ve been sober 3 weeks now and I realise they’re not friends. And I just like many of you have spent years with these lads who don’t get me wrong are just like me good lads deep down but we need to learn to put ourselves first moving forward. We need to build a generation of lads who support each other and guide each other not lads who are best mates for a night in a kitchen then are never to be seen again we need mates for life. And I believe dapper and this movement can help us change not only ourselves but this whole game we have all played for many years.

  • @fishfish7177
    @fishfish7177 7 місяців тому +3

    Relate to this hard my son died 2 years ago , no resposbilty anymore got nothing to live for anymore i wanna be a dad again 😞

    • @scouse1m747
      @scouse1m747 3 місяці тому +1

      Sorry to hear about this bro but you will always be a dad if he’s here or not remember that champ

  • @josep6310
    @josep6310 Рік тому +45

    Video perfectly shows how grim this life style actually. Don’t miss the crippling anxiety and self hatred it causes!

    • @au10666
      @au10666 Рік тому +12

      the moment you try to go to sleep, the next few days from there are hell, never again.

    • @garethohaire6850
      @garethohaire6850 Рік тому +5

      @@au10666 very true, that's why I tried to stay awake for as long as I could, because you know the misery that's coming, once the sesh is over🥵

    • @menacetosobrietypodcast
      @menacetosobrietypodcast  Рік тому +2

      So glad you could relate and understood

  • @menacetosobrietypodcast
    @menacetosobrietypodcast  Рік тому +53

    Few months ago I was getting tagged in this song loads, then I listened to it and it really connected with me. It’s the sesh.
    I contacted Seekah and asked if he’d let me direct & feature in the music video as I really wanted to share it with my audience, it struck a chord with what my struggle was and what my addictions were putting my family through.
    I believe that this video will connect with a lot of lads going through similar things and what their families have to deal with, not being able to say no, regretting it, being stuck in that cycle.
    We put load of work into this so please share and show your friends, was lovely to get down to Ipswich and meet all Seekahs pals, they all feature in the film, all really welcoming.
    If this connected with you please show ya pals and share.

    • @garethohaire6850
      @garethohaire6850 Рік тому

      Great job lads, keep up the good work 🙌🎶

    • @jamiehall8188
      @jamiehall8188 Рік тому

      Fuck me boi thats bang on!

    • @chrisbee487
      @chrisbee487 Рік тому +1

      I relate to this track 😂

    • @jodieleggett7623
      @jodieleggett7623 Рік тому +2

      Wow first of all.. I applaud you for doing this and acting out all things that used to be your life and triggering so 👏👏👏 and big up the ipswich massive !! Can't wait to see you there on 30th March

  • @Crobbo93825
    @Crobbo93825 Рік тому +6

    12k views is actually insane! Im 29 and I was in this life from the age of 16 … I now have a family, and have luckily escaped this cycle, but it’s a huge part of uk society right now, and it doesn’t get mentioned enough!

    • @Crobbo93825
      @Crobbo93825 Рік тому +1

      Absolute masterclass! And the video was a masterclass too! Well done for showing the reality of what life is like for a lot of people

  • @jodiec9999
    @jodiec9999 Рік тому +19

    THIS JUST HAD ME IN TEARS AT WORK! WOW! What a masterpiece

  • @dazrudge176
    @dazrudge176 Рік тому +5

    Relevant. 65 days 🙌

  • @roadrunnerairsoft4933
    @roadrunnerairsoft4933 3 місяці тому

    Love this tune! Almost as much as the sesh. Better as memory's ❤

  • @nikkis9292
    @nikkis9292 Рік тому +4

    What a real reality video and song , the stories been broke down beautifully the sesh has ruined many a man , broke up many families and plenty of men have lost good woman .

  • @user-gz6hp7ef6w
    @user-gz6hp7ef6w 4 місяці тому

    This perfectly captures the feeling of fun excitement and being completely lost and questioning why you keep doing it. The sesh!

  • @nicolahardesty-gray
    @nicolahardesty-gray Рік тому +6

    Have watched this over and over. It took me back to a time I remember all too well. Congratulations on your sobriety and everyone thinking or trying, you have this. It's a cycle that is so hard to release from. The song. Wow! All to real 👏🏼

  • @bigpabz5684
    @bigpabz5684 Рік тому +6

    The video gave me that horrible feeling I used to get when I knew the sesh was coming to an end. Just confirmed to me that I will never drink or sniff again.

    • @menacetosobrietypodcast
      @menacetosobrietypodcast  Рік тому

      Glad you related to it mate

    • @bigpabz5684
      @bigpabz5684 Рік тому

      @@menacetosobrietypodcast well done to you mate for taking that step. Like yourself I'm from a city ( Liverpool ) were your the odd one out if you don't get on the sesh so it's a major lifestyle change to put an end to it.

  • @dannymckenna-SmIles4Miles
    @dannymckenna-SmIles4Miles Рік тому +10

    Real talk 🔥🔥🔥 this is when rap becomes an art when it makes you listen and it tells a story!! Proper tune 💎🔥💎

  • @RK-zt2vy
    @RK-zt2vy Рік тому +2

    3 days sober gotta keep this going. thanks for this danny!

  • @shoetownmc
    @shoetownmc Рік тому +3

    Dan honestly great work gave me goosebumps so much love brudda ❤

  • @JayJay-le7cb
    @JayJay-le7cb 6 місяців тому

    I still can't believe this hasn't got more traction

  • @louiseb6459
    @louiseb6459 Рік тому +7

    Grateful I’m sober this morning ❤

  • @Tommygreycj1990
    @Tommygreycj1990 Рік тому +1

    Been me on meny diffrent nights...I stopped sniffing gear and now can drink and not want it....thats taken me the best part of 8 years but worth it...nomore morning anxiety and mood crashes

  • @garethohaire6850
    @garethohaire6850 Рік тому +3

    Absolutely brilliant, and so true, every bit🙌I got me 90 days clean and sober again yesterday after a few slips. I'll just keep trying until I get it. That was defo me in that video every weekend on the sesh for 3 or 4 days, missing work all the time and ruining relationships, didn't give a fuck at the time. Thank god I'm able to be a good dad to my 2 year old daughter today🙏

  • @mattbwfc6125
    @mattbwfc6125 Рік тому +2

    Oh my how much I can relate to this guy I did all this with my mates thankfully I reeled it in but sadly a couple took their own lives. Don’t get me wrong we still have a blow out now and then but we grow up at some point but sadly some can’t walk away from the madness 💙

    • @Priest92
      @Priest92 Рік тому +1

      That's shit mate. Were they depressed

    • @mattbwfc6125
      @mattbwfc6125 Рік тому

      @@Priest92 coke booze and depression

    • @Priest92
      @Priest92 Рік тому

      @@mattbwfc6125 sorry man

  • @radicalsini
    @radicalsini Рік тому +1

    YES!!!! I found this on spotify and its been forever since a song has made me cry, so glad it's on youtube too

  • @rummers101
    @rummers101 Рік тому +3

    Boys it's so true, thankyou for your podcast, it's truelly helping me through this battle!!! So fucking hard tho man. Who ever is going through the same stay strong, there's such a better life out there. 💪

  • @matty832
    @matty832 Рік тому +5

    “I knew I couldn’t win this game I’m in but nothings stopping me from playing” how true is this such self inflicted pain. Fairplay to dapper for doing this video must have been hard for him, also what an actor he captured the emotions of anxiety, self hatred, paranoia, coming down etc perfectly could really see my old-self in him. Was scary how relatable this was to me.

    • @menacetosobrietypodcast
      @menacetosobrietypodcast  Рік тому +1

      Thank you Matty

    • @adeebiqbal5297
      @adeebiqbal5297 Рік тому

      How long did it take for you to be "normal" again. Even though I've been sober for a month, them feelings are still there just lingering x

    • @matty832
      @matty832 Рік тому +1

      @@adeebiqbal5297 To be honest I would say it took me a year to not crave the sesh but I guess everyone is different. My advice is to keep persevering, you will never wake up in the morning thinking I wish I got on the sesh last night, but the opposite is true.

  • @jordhamilton9420
    @jordhamilton9420 Рік тому +2

    Thank you for this !!
    I'm 3 days into rehab and on the road to recovery.
    This track sums it up for me and hopefully others watching/listening to this can relate enough to push them in the right direction.
    Class !

  • @Shiney514
    @Shiney514 Рік тому +2

    This video and song is so true I think everyone who has it had drug issues can relate to this. I’m now 98 days clean from the packet and you and your videos have played a big part in that 🙏🏻

  • @liltripperlem5725
    @liltripperlem5725 4 місяці тому

    Been watching you since Tick-tock always miss your lives because of the Australian UK difference but hopefully that you’re still going well ❤

  • @youngpirlo7742
    @youngpirlo7742 Рік тому +1

    So so accurate. Well done everyone involved! Authentic.

  • @bennettchimp
    @bennettchimp Рік тому +2

    Yeah, that just about sums it up

    • @menacetosobrietypodcast
      @menacetosobrietypodcast  Рік тому

      It does don’t it

    • @bennettchimp
      @bennettchimp Рік тому

      @@menacetosobrietypodcast yes mate, 100%. We’ve all been here, 1 million times not me anymore thank God ….. 10 years free from all that completed London Marathon last year as well. If you’re on the hamster wheel of doom, this is exactly what it’s like.

  • @au10666
    @au10666 Рік тому +5

    Damn this feels way to real, thank god i never got addicted to the sesh... the older I got, the more I realised the body can't take it anymore, some habits die hard.

  • @darbyogill8383
    @darbyogill8383 Рік тому +3

    I think dans acting hits alot of lads in this video this is the reality of snorting gear the trailer is slways better than the movie. Wat a depressing way of living life 35 days clean today

  • @tommywilliams6189
    @tommywilliams6189 Рік тому +1

    How many men have actually experienced this. So true to many of us

  • @jake_c2365
    @jake_c2365 Рік тому +2

    Wow that just hit home baddddd!!!
    Amazing 👏

  • @thelonesomewanderer8359
    @thelonesomewanderer8359 Рік тому

    wow, this just perfectly sums up what its like being out.. get called out if you want to go home then pressured into staying and it just spirals from there

  • @edhall97
    @edhall97 Рік тому +1

    Been here more times most men should, doing good work bro.

  • @CaptainEggcellent
    @CaptainEggcellent Рік тому +1

    This is brilliant, both the song and the video.

  • @sonnyboy4749
    @sonnyboy4749 Рік тому +1

    Man i really really do not miss them days I’d rather die than go through that shit again

  • @dannymckenna-SmIles4Miles
    @dannymckenna-SmIles4Miles Рік тому +1

    Bang on my man!!! All the best mush “the song is saying what every sesh head is thinking” much love Daniel 💙❤️💙❤️💙

  • @jamespowell3910
    @jamespowell3910 Рік тому +1

    Like looking in the mirror been there so many times finally think ive got a handle on it as ive got older and had a daughter, powerful song and message great work 👏

  • @sadie-jolytesswestgate8814
    @sadie-jolytesswestgate8814 Рік тому +1

    Great Video which complements an Amazing song/lyrics.
    Brilliant 🙌🏻🙌🏻👊🏻👊🏻👏🏻👏🏻💚💚

  • @MrSmid888
    @MrSmid888 Рік тому

    The Ronnie Pickering line was truth!! Always one. Every f king time

  • @Podders1991
    @Podders1991 Рік тому +1

    This video actually gave me anxiety. What a masterpiece. Unreal 👏

  • @flymofoisthebest3885
    @flymofoisthebest3885 Рік тому

    Whattttt brap brap brap this is
    Too on point

  • @Mandy-nw6dv
    @Mandy-nw6dv Рік тому +1

    Love the song. Bloody clip is mind-blowing 🤯

  • @TheRealSinden
    @TheRealSinden Рік тому

    Makes me realise i do NOT miss it one bit!

  • @Foodlikeachef
    @Foodlikeachef Рік тому +1

    Dapper your killing it man. I tip my hat to you.
    Seek, your capture the reality with your words effortlessly.
    Match made in heaven..

  • @GB-yr1tc
    @GB-yr1tc Рік тому

    Amazing stuff. The amount of music out there glorifying this lifestyle to the youngsters is criminal. This song gives you a real insight into where it leads..... proper music, proper video, love it lads well done

  • @Lsi581
    @Lsi581 Рік тому +1

    Watch this when I feel like getting on it and it stops me, brilliant stuff!

  • @michaelowen8721
    @michaelowen8721 7 місяців тому

    Can relate to this so muchhh 🤔🤷‍♂️

  • @royalchris90
    @royalchris90 Рік тому

    Woah so true many of times its been me actually amazing to watch sober for 13 months…but i don’t regret it i have some of the best memories with past an present friends from my time partying. Ive just closed that chapter. An starting a new one .. fair play dapper ❤

  • @benmoore88m5
    @benmoore88m5 Рік тому

    This needed to be done!! Very true words 👍👍

  • @Marknh66
    @Marknh66 Рік тому

    It gives Chills, absolute Quality! .

  • @Bigrozay1
    @Bigrozay1 Рік тому +2

    This hits home
    About how I used to be before my son was born ! If this is you just know you can get through this and there is more to life than a sore head and a empty wallet every weekend ! It took for my mrs to get pregnant for me to sort it out ! The Friday bug would get me and that went into Saturday and kept going to Sunday until the alarm hit Monday morning then it’s back to work . Just know you can do it !

  • @ifeelallfidgetyandwarm6098
    @ifeelallfidgetyandwarm6098 Рік тому

    solid. honestly you could build a boat the amount of nails youve been hitting on the head from so many unexpected angles with your posts on this channel. thank you

    • @ifeelallfidgetyandwarm6098
      @ifeelallfidgetyandwarm6098 Рік тому

      i realise hitting nails from unexpected angles probably isnt how you build good boats but you catch my drift lol everything has been captivating and full of useful information i didnt know i/we all struggle so much without

  • @LeeRow19
    @LeeRow19 Рік тому +1

    Powerful and relatable 👏💯

  • @nicolesmallman5337
    @nicolesmallman5337 Рік тому +1

    Great video for a quality song, smashed it guys well done 👏xx

  • @ashleysullivan2028
    @ashleysullivan2028 Рік тому +2

    I was literally about to go and meet mates pulled up to car park seen everyone and I went back to this video to see how night would pan out and decided to go back home felt like a cunt for not showing but everyone else has a stop button where as I don’t and 1 night of a sesh is followed by 4 days of anxiety and fear of life so thanks ,love listening to all your podcasts aswell

  • @123Embryo
    @123Embryo Рік тому

    Absolutely incredible!! 👌

  • @jodiegunner
    @jodiegunner Рік тому +1

    Was such an amazing day! Great video for the song 😊

  • @samh.k.r2225
    @samh.k.r2225 Рік тому +1

    Wow this I like liking back in time 😮

    • @menacetosobrietypodcast
      @menacetosobrietypodcast  Рік тому

      Yeah had a few people say that! Mad init

    • @samh.k.r2225
      @samh.k.r2225 Рік тому

      @@menacetosobrietypodcast yeah cause everything down to the kitchen scene and u thinking fu k that I’m staying out then been laid on ur mates Flor thinking what the fuck was I thinking all the shit this is gunna cause because I wanted to act like a single teenager again with my mates 😂sososo trueeee

  • @TheRealSinden
    @TheRealSinden Рік тому +1

    Amazing song! Truly touched 😇

  • @islab10
    @islab10 Рік тому

    Proper that is !! Can relate to every second was in a bad way 15 years ago , me aunt t had a boozer in MitchAm I thought I was untouchable, look back I was a mess . Well done with this mate ❤

  • @bettyBoopx
    @bettyBoopx Рік тому

    Really really good a very powerful message, 👌👏👏👏

  • @Queester
    @Queester Рік тому

    Love this!

  • @Nevinhattle
    @Nevinhattle Рік тому +1

    Fucking me man i swear to god kind if left that life behind but sometimes it comes back for me and I'm too old and done too much damage, love the collab and tune is just the best

  • @EnglishHeart1987
    @EnglishHeart1987 Рік тому +1

    Loving this.

  • @washbrook87
    @washbrook87 Рік тому +1

    Fantastic stuff 👏

  • @meganpaterson7610
    @meganpaterson7610 Рік тому

    Love this

  • @mariefrench916
    @mariefrench916 Рік тому

    Powerful ❤️

  • @Stevie8ball
    @Stevie8ball Рік тому

    Thats heavy ❤️‍🩹

  • @Fenetikmusic
    @Fenetikmusic Рік тому +1

    Class man ❤

  • @Fenetikmusic
    @Fenetikmusic Рік тому

    Great time for this to premier. Stop the lads getting on the sesh early doors 😂

  • @rebecca5518
    @rebecca5518 Рік тому

    Brilliant acting.. Its as if you've actually lived it. Oscars and Brit awards all round 🏆

  • @garryharkin575
    @garryharkin575 Рік тому

    🔥 - been there too many times man. Mad triggers watching this.

  • @simonb1410
    @simonb1410 Рік тому

    Really hits ya what guys get into, nice piece mate

  • @alexmcneil5684
    @alexmcneil5684 Рік тому

    So true 🙈🙈

  • @markrobinson2561
    @markrobinson2561 Рік тому

    I’ve had some fantastic times on the sesh and I have some fantastic memories.
    But it’s not sustainable because those good times are only fleeting and the more you do it the more it moves from something that starts as social and then becomes habit.

  • @connorhodgson5744
    @connorhodgson5744 Рік тому

    Can relate to this wow madness this track

  • @EJWEST333
    @EJWEST333 Рік тому

    This is beautiful man 🎉❤

  • @cantstopwontstop-zp2ep
    @cantstopwontstop-zp2ep 7 місяців тому +1

    Its hard to watch. When yoh have it all in life and you give it all up for the packet, its a crazy crazy stuff. Ruined 10 years of my life.
    My kids are my savour. Peace and lifht dan. Hope you keep on the path. I battle daily. I am like your mate kirk helpless. But we carry on. Day by day week by week.
    ✌️

  • @deanharris8310
    @deanharris8310 Рік тому +1

    F****** brilliant

  • @gxhhher3896
    @gxhhher3896 Рік тому

    jesus that really hits home

  • @Electronicvr725
    @Electronicvr725 Рік тому

    Woof woof a little more my doggies. What is that shit lol 🤣🤣🙈🙈

  • @gavey100
    @gavey100 Рік тому

    Amazing mate

  • @robertshepherd2260
    @robertshepherd2260 Рік тому

    Relate to every word in that. Why do we do it to ourselves 🤦🏻‍♂️

  • @Doc____
    @Doc____ Рік тому

    This is deep

  • @matthewroberts1340
    @matthewroberts1340 6 місяців тому +1

    I must of listened and watched this 12 tines today

  • @NobodyzE
    @NobodyzE 11 місяців тому

    Utterrly beautiful but yet far from it if anything it's the only thing holding you back FEELING THIS.

  • @marklivingstone3121
    @marklivingstone3121 Рік тому

    Really catchy song.

  • @chapter6ix
    @chapter6ix Рік тому

    Wicked

  • @nickjamesmartins560
    @nickjamesmartins560 Рік тому

    The message I got from this was "don't be friends guys like Bobby."😅

  • @boxerjp8276
    @boxerjp8276 Рік тому +1

    This is spot on apart from having the fit Mrs at home

  • @usingtime8990
    @usingtime8990 Рік тому

    I'm glad Dapper Laughs is sober. Stay clean brother.

  • @brandonanderson168
    @brandonanderson168 Рік тому

    Im in the u.s. if ya ever make it over, im in illinois...hmu

  • @matthewmckenzie6744
    @matthewmckenzie6744 Рік тому

    Deep

  • @garethrobertson20
    @garethrobertson20 Рік тому

    Wow that's fucking deep

  • @ntssolutions5751
    @ntssolutions5751 Рік тому

    The sesh is real

  • @Artbywilliampollard
    @Artbywilliampollard Рік тому +1

    Wow

  • @craigo6361
    @craigo6361 Рік тому

    Sesh gremlins know it 😊