Such a wonderful series. I was lucky enough to have doctors who were concerned about my fertility so I got tested around your age which showed results which were fortunately good. Now pregnant at 33 with my first however I have many friends struggling to fall pregnant.
Hie Nicole Ellis, this is a really insightful series. It's really brave of you to do this. I am encouraging all my female friends to watch this. I suddenly have a whole different perspective on fertility and parenthood. Good luck to you, I hope you get all that you have dreamt of.
Hi Nicole. I Found this video-article accidentaly here at UA-cam and I've got really moved by your story. I went through the same thing last year finding out a lot of scary things about my reproductive system. It was so disappointing and I don't know yet what I'm gonna do about it but it was really, really good to watch these videos and see another young women, with a great career ahead of her, passing for the same thing. I wish you find the best way to deal with this and I'm sending thanks and a lot of love from Brazil.
This is something that should be researched further. My grandson is one of these test tube babies because my new daughter in law wanted to be a mom at 45. Now they are finding that these children often do not have a mature digestive system. Will this child be in pain the rest of his life? No one knows how things will pan out. I am a chef. If given the choice of fresh corn or frozen you always get better results. If I cook from scratch the food is always better than if I microwave it. Just because you can do something does not mean you should. But that is just my opinion. Everyone has to live with their own choices.
So, are you going to put this same comment on every video that she posts? Does your son know how his Mom is leaving disparaging comments about his child and wife for the WORLD to see?
@@jones2277 the world says we are the same. we can all work all hours of the day and chase careers but the truth is that there are certain reproductive limitations that exist for women which do not exist for men.
@@jones2277 I'm not sure where you live but in the Western world, as well as much of Africa, women are very career-oriented to the point where they are not thinking of marriage and kids until its usually too late. Men can struggle with fertility but that would be due to different reason, not because they are over 35 or so? A man in his 80s can sire a child. This is an impossibility for women.
@@africanindiaspo2895 then you've got to look at why marriage is undesirable to women in Africa. maybe it's because they grew up seeing how horrible it was for their mothers and the women in their families. maybe you don't make good husbands. maybe your poor decisions have led to the failed states across Africa and women are deciding to step up. have you ever considered that if you become better partners in your marriage, women might be able to achieve their dreams while also pursuing motherhood and/or marriage?
@Tia Bear Believe it or not but men, when they look for wife material, do look for your "number" as an indicator of your "value". Women look for things like status and wealth, men look for physical attractivnes and low number of previous sexual partners. We are differient genders and we have differient indicators for most desirable partners for lifetime.
Does having a child at 42 mean it will have Asperger syndrome/ autism? I’ve met many autistic kids with young mothers .... I think Cuzzo is blaming herself and should read/watch on Hulu “Far From the Tree” & seek counseling for grief... geez Louise
Paul Archibald I don’t think she’s a scientist or has conferred with specialist in statistical evidence on the subject. I think she’s blaming herself for things beyond her control & needs counseling because this is challenging either way.. Lose the condescending tone if replying directly
@@resilience4lyfe331 No condescending just telling the truth and I don't think I called her a scientist I was just talking when it comes to having children later on in life in general most would have to deal with this is all I'm saying..
Thank you for putting this together! This was extremely informative and insightful.
what is it with this family and amazing cheekbones!
Thank you so much for these beautiful videos and sharing your story... You're helping me a lot x
Such a wonderful series. I was lucky enough to have doctors who were concerned about my fertility so I got tested around your age which showed results which were fortunately good. Now pregnant at 33 with my first however I have many friends struggling to fall pregnant.
Hie Nicole Ellis, this is a really insightful series. It's really brave of you to do this. I am encouraging all my female friends to watch this. I suddenly have a whole different perspective on fertility and parenthood. Good luck to you, I hope you get all that you have dreamt of.
Thank you for making this series!
Hi Nicole. I Found this video-article accidentaly here at UA-cam and I've got really moved by your story. I went through the same thing last year finding out a lot of scary things about my reproductive system. It was so disappointing and I don't know yet what I'm gonna do about it but it was really, really good to watch these videos and see another young women, with a great career ahead of her, passing for the same thing. I wish you find the best way to deal with this and I'm sending thanks and a lot of love from Brazil.
Nicole, I cried with you. I hope the best for you.
This is something that should be researched further. My grandson is one of these test tube babies because my new daughter in law wanted to be a mom at 45. Now they are finding that these children often do not have a mature digestive system. Will this child be in pain the rest of his life? No one knows how things will pan out. I am a chef. If given the choice of fresh corn or frozen you always get better results. If I cook from scratch the food is always better than if I microwave it.
Just because you can do something does not mean you should. But that is just my opinion. Everyone has to live with their own choices.
So, are you going to put this same comment on every video that she posts? Does your son know how his Mom is leaving disparaging comments about his child and wife for the WORLD to see?
i was like "wasnt this comment on the last video?"
Ashley ashley me too. 😂😂😂
Sometimes I think that this story is made up.
Comprar óvulos no es ser madre.
@@odetochef Está diciendo la verdad. La mujer del hijo no es la madre delnniño, compró óvulos. Ella, sí es la abuela y sufre por su nieto.
her family could pool the funds to help her pay for it instead of sitting around and talking about themselves.
Women were never prepared for the reality of doing what a man can do...
what does that mean?
@@jones2277 the world says we are the same. we can all work all hours of the day and chase careers but the truth is that there are certain reproductive limitations that exist for women which do not exist for men.
@@africanindiaspo2895 the world doesn't say we're the same. where did you hear that? and do you think only women have fertility issues?
@@jones2277 I'm not sure where you live but in the Western world, as well as much of Africa, women are very career-oriented to the point where they are not thinking of marriage and kids until its usually too late.
Men can struggle with fertility but that would be due to different reason, not because they are over 35 or so? A man in his 80s can sire a child. This is an impossibility for women.
@@africanindiaspo2895 then you've got to look at why marriage is undesirable to women in Africa. maybe it's because they grew up seeing how horrible it was for their mothers and the women in their families. maybe you don't make good husbands. maybe your poor decisions have led to the failed states across Africa and women are deciding to step up. have you ever considered that if you become better partners in your marriage, women might be able to achieve their dreams while also pursuing motherhood and/or marriage?
Oh well roasties. You can't argue against Nature.
The wall remains undefeated!
They laugh when young and cry later because mother nature has the last laugh when they push it behind the limit line
@Tia Bear
Believe it or not but men, when they look for wife material, do look for your "number" as an indicator of your "value". Women look for things like status and wealth, men look for physical attractivnes and low number of previous sexual partners. We are differient genders and we have differient indicators for most desirable partners for lifetime.
@@LigmaFrank lol. women look for physical attractiveness too.
Your family can be understanding and supportive but your eggs still be dying 🤷🏾♂️
Does having a child at 42 mean it will have Asperger syndrome/ autism? I’ve met many autistic kids with young mothers .... I think Cuzzo is blaming herself and should read/watch on Hulu “Far From the Tree” & seek counseling for grief... geez Louise
She's only talking about the majority and in science that's all.
Paul Archibald I don’t think she’s a scientist or has conferred with specialist in statistical evidence on the subject. I think she’s blaming herself for things beyond her control & needs counseling because this is challenging either way..
Lose the condescending tone if replying directly
@@resilience4lyfe331 No condescending just telling the truth and I don't think I called her a scientist I was just talking when it comes to having children later on in life in general most would have to deal with this is all I'm saying..
actually older sperm raises the risk of ASD.
excited to see what's next