Your baby is SO LOVED one day they will know their parents went to the freaking depths of earth (sorry for being dramatic) just for them to be born. You are enduring this just to bring them to you both and then you will do everything to give the world to them. What a gift! I know it's upsetting to say the least, and the medical process is tiring and hard. You need to grieve and to feel the feelings. But that baby is SO loved and SO wanted it's unreal. You guys are actively doing everything that's in your power to bring them to life. That's so beautiful and precious. One day when they can understand the process you might want to share with them this adventure you went together, and they will know. They will know they're in the most devoted, adoring, caring, STRONG family one could be in. What a mom you already are! They're lucky as f*ck. You got this, girl. (Hope I'm not being invasive or invalidating with this comment, I know the topic is super personal and you might not want a stranger to give unsolicited opinions, I hope I stayed in my lane.)
Your videos have recently become my absolute comfort watch, so I personally don't mind you posting more lifestyle content! It feels really cozy and like I'm hanging out with a friend! :)
also your feelings are valid and always remember at the end of the day YOUR happiness, privacy, and mental health is what is important. love your personal chats + want you to flourish and remember how freaking badass you are. *mwah*
I, for one, LOVE your vloggy content. Some ideas you could do to upkeep the book material are lists about characters, plots, writing styles, etc about books you’ve already read. You are naturally very funny and witty and I would love to hear more opinions and commentary on anything really.
I would love to know, seeing as so many romance novels are getting made into films/shows, who you’d cast as the characters for your favorite books. Also, if you had to create a perfect romance novel by mashing up elements from multiple books (main character, romantic interest, best friend, plot, setting, romantic dynamic) what would you pick?
It’s always shocking to me how insensitive people can be when it comes to medical news. I’m glad you’re giving yourself the grace to process everything, because it’s not a linear path. And I know being honest about the layered emotions and overall experience will help a lot of people going through similar things, so I really appreciate you sharing and being vulnerable. Also, I absolutely loved the car travel clips with the mini microphones. If you don’t stop at Buc-ees, is it even a Texas road trip?
Normally a silent viewer but just wanted to say that I love all your videos and am secretly hoping plan with chan will make a reappearance one day 😂❤ your videos are fab and I came for the books but I stay for all your other content. Sending you huge hugs and lots of love.
Chandler!! You’ve been glowing lately ❤️❤️ Sending you positive thoughts and vibes on the things you’ve been struggling with as of late. PS I’ve been enjoying lifestyle vlogs and don’t mind less book content!
Sending love to you from an IVF baby. All the good juju! Your emotions are totally valid. As women, we're raised to almost fear getting pregnant when we're young, so it is so complicated to process.
Totally get the “everyone is getting pregnant but me” thing. It’s really hard. I just recently did my first IVF retrieval with donor materials and it went really well. I have no doubt yours will too❤❤
I’m sending you love! Im sorry your struggling with infertility! I know it’s such a struggle for many, I am sending you love and hope for fertility hopes❤
I've been long time lurker on your channel and I just wanted to chime in that i think its okay that you genuinely want to acknowledge and express how you are feeling. I feel like social media can have so much fake happiness so it's refreshing to see a woman going through something similar to me in an honest, vulnerable way! I know you don't share everything with us (you don't have to of course) but it makes viewers like me feel less alone so thank you for sharing your journey with us! wishing you and Hayden all the love and happiness no matter where the road takes you
Maybe it would be more doable to film videos centering book retrospectives? Like revisiting previous list videos and deciding if you still agree with those choices, etc… or a video about books you still think about often! Also love that you’re doing Pilates! It was a game changer for me as well :) and as a sweaty gal I support long leggings and long sleeve tops hahaha
Just ordered my I’d rather be reading romance sweater! Love this collection! So excited to see you become the mama you always have dreamed of being. I am proud of you, you are enough, and you are loved. 💖
I dealt with infertility for years and had two losses before having my sweet little rainbow boy. People say the worst things. The worst for me was people harassing me about when we were going to have a baby without knowing what we were going through.
your vlogs give me so much life, I know the treatments can be daunting and it's perfectly fine to have varying emotions at this time, you're doing great💖💖💖💖
Merch question: do u have any plans to take “smt+slt” cap and make it a shirt? It’s my fave design but I don’t wear hats 😅 if not, it all looks beautiful, and can’t wait to get my hands on another design!! ❤ wishing u the best
Will you be expanding the main collection? I love the embroidery on the dumb b**** book club sweatshirt, but I’m not a fan of hoods. (Had to censor because UA-cam got mad lol)
Hi Chandler! Love your videos and just wanted to share a dark romance series rec with you. The “Never After” series by Emily McIntire is SO GOOD. Addictive, twisted, and just so perfect. The most recent installment just came out and it’s incredible!!! I would love to hear your thoughts on the series if you are interested!
I love the non tight sweatshirt band on the bottom as I have big hips like the independent trading co. one. I wish the cat sitting on books came in that material n fit. fingers crossed more future releases come in the independent co. one as it seems so much more higher quality just even from looking at the screen. but I love that green cat sitting on books design so I might have to get it in the material available. is there a way to choose which brand/material on that design or does it strictly only come in the gildan brand? edit: oh no the L in the green color is out. is there a way to sign up to be notified if they are re stocked?
I think if you got an IUD placed you should give yourself a lot more credit for being able to handle pain and doctor stuff! Trying to get an IUD was one of the worst experiences of my life!
I don’t mind when a woman falls first, as long as she isn’t portrayed as pathetically pining for a man for years. But I also don’t like where the man is portrayed as pathetically pining either, I guess I don’t care who falls first as long as the reciprocation doesn’t feel forced.
Weird question but is getting a Tesla a good idea in Texas like does the sunroof get too hot? I live in Houston and I really want a Tesla but this heat is brutal
there's a default setting in the car that makes it to where the internal temp doesn't get above a certain set point so honestly it's stayed cooler than other cars i've owned. but it does use up a little of the battery power, so if u dont have a designated spot at home to charge, i wouldn't recommend it
"I think men should be obsessed with women" 9:02 😂 Love this, and love your videos Chandler. Thanks for making my evening.
haden was looking over my shoulder when i edited this and rolled his eyes hahahah
Your baby is SO LOVED one day they will know their parents went to the freaking depths of earth (sorry for being dramatic) just for them to be born. You are enduring this just to bring them to you both and then you will do everything to give the world to them. What a gift! I know it's upsetting to say the least, and the medical process is tiring and hard. You need to grieve and to feel the feelings. But that baby is SO loved and SO wanted it's unreal. You guys are actively doing everything that's in your power to bring them to life. That's so beautiful and precious. One day when they can understand the process you might want to share with them this adventure you went together, and they will know. They will know they're in the most devoted, adoring, caring, STRONG family one could be in. What a mom you already are! They're lucky as f*ck. You got this, girl. (Hope I'm not being invasive or invalidating with this comment, I know the topic is super personal and you might not want a stranger to give unsolicited opinions, I hope I stayed in my lane.)
this made me smile, thank you!
Hayden changed my life with that pickle comment
Also, ordered merch and cannot wait for it to come! Sending you both lots of positive energy in your IVF process 💕
As a girl who rarely reads romance I’m only here for the Lifestyle content 😂 I just love listening to you. Sending your way so much love ❤
Your videos have recently become my absolute comfort watch, so I personally don't mind you posting more lifestyle content! It feels really cozy and like I'm hanging out with a friend! :)
also your feelings are valid and always remember at the end of the day YOUR happiness, privacy, and mental health is what is important. love your personal chats + want you to flourish and remember how freaking badass you are. *mwah*
I, for one, LOVE your vloggy content. Some ideas you could do to upkeep the book material are lists about characters, plots, writing styles, etc about books you’ve already read. You are naturally very funny and witty and I would love to hear more opinions and commentary on anything really.
I would love to know, seeing as so many romance novels are getting made into films/shows, who you’d cast as the characters for your favorite books. Also, if you had to create a perfect romance novel by mashing up elements from multiple books (main character, romantic interest, best friend, plot, setting, romantic dynamic) what would you pick?
I have endometriosis and my sister having my nephew was incredibly painful even if I adore him. Sending all my love
Love this video! Thank you for being honest about IVF. I relate so much to people asking when pregnancy is going to happen and not having an answer.
It’s always shocking to me how insensitive people can be when it comes to medical news. I’m glad you’re giving yourself the grace to process everything, because it’s not a linear path. And I know being honest about the layered emotions and overall experience will help a lot of people going through similar things, so I really appreciate you sharing and being vulnerable.
Also, I absolutely loved the car travel clips with the mini microphones. If you don’t stop at Buc-ees, is it even a Texas road trip?
Just wanted to say I became a cat mom for the first time last week and it really is as joyful and amazing as you make it seem 🥰💛
Normally a silent viewer but just wanted to say that I love all your videos and am secretly hoping plan with chan will make a reappearance one day 😂❤ your videos are fab and I came for the books but I stay for all your other content.
Sending you huge hugs and lots of love.
i am hoping to maybe bring back plan with chan as i hired and am training my editor rn :)
We love a good ole Bucky’s pit stop lol
And louisiana roads ☠️
Cannot wait for payday to buy some merch!! I love the designs! Definitely getting the kitty one and dbbc sweater xo
Chandler!! You’ve been glowing lately ❤️❤️ Sending you positive thoughts and vibes on the things you’ve been struggling with as of late. PS I’ve been enjoying lifestyle vlogs and don’t mind less book content!
Sending love to you from an IVF baby. All the good juju! Your emotions are totally valid. As women, we're raised to almost fear getting pregnant when we're young, so it is so complicated to process.
I love hearing about what books you’re reading for other videos
Hi Chandler, lovely video. Question, would you ever do a bookself tour?
hey! i've done a couple in the past on my channel
Totally get the “everyone is getting pregnant but me” thing. It’s really hard. I just recently did my first IVF retrieval with donor materials and it went really well. I have no doubt yours will too❤❤
that is so exciting!!! i'm so happy for you
i am OBSESSED with the merch
Good morning Chandler happy Monday morning and I loved your vlogs and you are amazing Supporter and I'm proud of you
I’m sending you love! Im sorry your struggling with infertility! I know it’s such a struggle for many, I am sending you love and hope for fertility hopes❤
I've been long time lurker on your channel and I just wanted to chime in that i think its okay that you genuinely want to acknowledge and express how you are feeling. I feel like social media can have so much fake happiness so it's refreshing to see a woman going through something similar to me in an honest, vulnerable way! I know you don't share everything with us (you don't have to of course) but it makes viewers like me feel less alone so thank you for sharing your journey with us! wishing you and Hayden all the love and happiness no matter where the road takes you
3:20 bash fighting to stay awake… same
Sending so much love to you and Hayden and the fur babies💗
TAKE ALL MY MONEY! That merch is adorable. 🤭🧡
I love the vlogs! Sending good energy your way
i absolutely live for your vlogs
Maybe it would be more doable to film videos centering book retrospectives? Like revisiting previous list videos and deciding if you still agree with those choices, etc… or a video about books you still think about often!
Also love that you’re doing Pilates! It was a game changer for me as well :) and as a sweaty gal I support long leggings and long sleeve tops hahaha
To me Rina Kent is the queen the dark kindle romances
Just ordered my I’d rather be reading romance sweater! Love this collection! So excited to see you become the mama you always have dreamed of being. I am proud of you, you are enough, and you are loved. 💖
thank you
I dealt with infertility for years and had two losses before having my sweet little rainbow boy. People say the worst things. The worst for me was people harassing me about when we were going to have a baby without knowing what we were going through.
I ordered some merch this weekend, very excited for it to arrive! Loving all these long vlogs too 😀
congrats on your amazing merch Chandler! I'm definitely interested in getting some
I love Pilates!!
your vlogs give me so much life, I know the treatments can be daunting and it's perfectly fine to have varying emotions at this time, you're doing great💖💖💖💖
The Darling Shine podcast might help you with IVF related feelings. It’s really good
Love the merch and I'm actually going to buy some! My first time ever buying merch yay. It genuinely looks good and like something I'd wear.
Merch question: do u have any plans to take “smt+slt” cap and make it a shirt? It’s my fave design but I don’t wear hats 😅 if not, it all looks beautiful, and can’t wait to get my hands on another design!! ❤ wishing u the best
i am planning on making it a shirt. i wasn't 100% happy with how the sample turned out so i'm working on releasing it at a later date :)
chic fil a puts the pickles on the bottom! lol I agree with Hayden 😆
I love the book of love series by Meara Platt for historical romance.
Girl ask for a butterfly iv when you get your blood drawn you’ll barely feel it!
Will you be expanding the main collection? I love the embroidery on the dumb b**** book club sweatshirt, but I’m not a fan of hoods. (Had to censor because UA-cam got mad lol)
we likely will based on demand/requests :)
a pub craw for food would be a Grub Crawl
I dnf gods of malice too
Hi Chandler! Love your videos and just wanted to share a dark romance series rec with you. The “Never After” series by Emily McIntire is SO GOOD. Addictive, twisted, and just so perfect. The most recent installment just came out and it’s incredible!!! I would love to hear your thoughts on the series if you are interested!
I love the non tight sweatshirt band on the bottom as I have big hips like the independent trading co. one. I wish the cat sitting on books came in that material n fit. fingers crossed more future releases come in the independent co. one as it seems so much more higher quality just even from looking at the screen. but I love that green cat sitting on books design so I might have to get it in the material available. is there a way to choose which brand/material on that design or does it strictly only come in the gildan brand?
edit: oh no the L in the green color is out. is there a way to sign up to be notified if they are re stocked?
hey which one are you looking for? on my end i can see the green in stock but i might be looking at the wrong listing.
@@chandlerainsley the one with the cat on a pile of books. It's the sitting pretty book kitty. L for the green shows out of stock
I think if you got an IUD placed you should give yourself a lot more credit for being able to handle pain and doctor stuff! Trying to get an IUD was one of the worst experiences of my life!
I don’t mind when a woman falls first, as long as she isn’t portrayed as pathetically pining for a man for years. But I also don’t like where the man is portrayed as pathetically pining either, I guess I don’t care who falls first as long as the reciprocation doesn’t feel forced.
we are getting a buckey’s somewhat near me with 126 PUMPS!!!!! I cannot even comprehend that lol is that normal ????
ohhhhhhh yeah
@@chandlerainsley oh my god lol 😂
Weird question but is getting a Tesla a good idea in Texas like does the sunroof get too hot? I live in Houston and I really want a Tesla but this heat is brutal
there's a default setting in the car that makes it to where the internal temp doesn't get above a certain set point so honestly it's stayed cooler than other cars i've owned. but it does use up a little of the battery power, so if u dont have a designated spot at home to charge, i wouldn't recommend it
Thank you! Love your videos btw!
do i need a sweatshirt no....but also did i NEED a sweatshirt yes. yes i did.
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