DIL DHADAKNE DO Movie Reaction Part 4/4! | Anil Kapoor | Shefali Shah | Ranveer | Priyanka | Anushka
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Dil The Duckney Doo ❤️
😂
Bhut hard 🤣
I can hear him like that after i saw this 😂😂😂
😂
🤣🤣🤣
Personally, I was satisfied with the ending. The romances aren't the focus of the film, it's more about the main family coming together and finally working towards something together.
At first for a few seconds I was disappointed😂. But then I realised what this movie is about.
I couldn't focus on the movie i was with my family 💀
Right? I totally forgot about anushka at one point until Ranveer comes to check on her. I would have been happy if they ended it when Anil Kapoor throttled Rahul Bose.
@@Dr.0203 if they had ended there, then the family would’ve been united on a negative basis (hating Rahul Bose). The entire movie was a journey of the family coming together so it was necessary for the family to come together for something positive (Ranveer’s love) to give a truly satisfying ending. But yeah, even if they had used some other device other than Anushka’s character, it would’ve still been fine because even I had forgotten about her since she’s not the focus of the movie. She’s just the device, which could’ve also been something else.
Nah I’ll be honest on first reaction obviously you would be a little disappointed to not see the romance build out. But after you let it settle in you realize
That “one scene” you’re looking for was in the beginning of the movie. Priyanka talks to her husband about how she felt bad that her parents didn’t put her name on the invitation card. He dismisses her and basically doesn’t allow her to feel how she felt, even though she tells him her brother is on her side. If her husband wasn’t able to see how someone else hurt her, how do you think the conversation would go when she tells him that he is hurting her?
You also have to keep in mind that such a scene isn’t really needed. We are looking at their relationship toward the end of their marriage. They have been married for years at this point, maybe 6-7 years based on her saying she was married at 21. I think it’s safe to assume that in the beginning she did tell her husband that his words and actions hurt her, and she probably even asked him to speak up for her when his mom is taunting her. But he never does. I don’t think this is something she should have to ask him to do but I’m sure she did communicate this to him and after being dismissed multiple times she stopped asking. This can be assumed because she was still unsure of telling her Parents she wants to split up, she knows that she may be shunned by her parents for doing so. She probably tried her best to not end up in the situation of asking for a divorce. Some of this can be assumed just because of the culture she comes from.
And to you this may be something expected in a movie, her leaving him. You wanted something different and to you that would be them working it out. But in Indian Cinema, this is one of the few movies that actually show a woman leaving. Most movies I’ve grown up watching ends with the woman staying, even if the husband cheated, or is disrespectful. They might show a woman leaving an extremely abusive man but even that was rare. I’ve seen way too many of these movies. DDD and Thappad are a few of the exceptions that show that yes, you can leave if you’re disrespected or unhappy. It doesn’t have to be only if there’s cheating or violent. It’s actually refreshing to see this being normalized!
That's what I'm shouting while watching this
At this point Jaby is just trolling with that
"Dil DaDuckney Doo" 😂😂😂😂😂😂
Edit : okay okay! It was kinda sus if he did pronounce it wrong deliberately for the lighthearted amusement. If so, congrats! It was delightfully funny..... 😄😄😄
Atleast he tried ❤️
Yeah😂😂😂
Also, Achara reacted to him at first but she just accepted it afterwards😂
I did the openings and closings before we watched the film
@@CineDesi My Holy Goodness!!!! I actually got a reply!!!
Aaaaaaaaaaaaa!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Thanks!!!! 😅😅😅
Rahul Bose wasn't really shown as a two dimensional character...it was clearly established from the start that he was a controlling and insecure husband. It is established that Priyanka tried her best to adjust with him and also love him back because of family pressure. Family pressure is a huge thing in India especially for women. Rahul also ignored the subtle insults his mom inflicted on Priyanka's character. Their love waned slowly. Basically, it was very clear that Rahul's family didn't value Priyanka's character at all...and about the communication part, there are many things which are communicated by body language and emotions...its not necessary to have dialogues all the time..I loved Zoya's choice of conveying the message through body language...
Iiiiiiii get what you’re saying that a lot is communicated through body language and subtleties… but men need to be told point blank. If you don’t know that you will probably learn that at some point. It’s a thing.
@@CineDesi If you need to be told "point blank" that you need to respect and value your partner, you're just a douchebag.
@@CineDesi we are only seeing the last moments of their marriage. They have been together for years. It’s quite possible she tried to communicate to him when she first started seeing that he keeps belittling her and disrespecting her. But when he didn’t stop, she probably stopped trying.
You can see it in the beginning of the movie when she shared with her husband that she felt bad about her name not being on the card and her husband basically brushed it off and didn’t allow her to feel how she felt. Her brother on the other hand understood and even went and told their parents that she felt bad about it, which shows him validating her feelings. There are many scenes like this where other men have understood her better than her husband. It’s not because of lack of communication, it’s the kind of person he is.
@@CineDesi And???? Women aren't your relationship tutors. Play stupid games win stupid prizes. It's a thing.
@@CineDesi Not all men are like that. Some are more sensitive to emotional cues and body language from women. Especially if they've grown up around a lot of women- sisters/cousins etc. Also if you are married you should be able to understand your partner well. It's not like they'd just met and been on a few dates. In marriage one should make an effort to pay attention to their partners, not just on a physical level but emotional as well. They were clearly not in a marriage like that.
There ISNT supposed to be a redemption arc for Rahul Bose's character. He is supposed to be that typical man whose misogyny is something that simply goes unnoticed or is willfully ignored. He never stood up for his wife when his mom constantly belittled her, never appreciated how she'd built her business from the ground up (lets not forget that it was also mentioned that Ayesha started her business selling her own jewelry, so there was no financial support from him either) AND he truly believed that he was a big man for "allowing" his wife to work. He is an example of the nice guy syndrome and according to me, the side of him that we see when he tells Ayesha "Dont make me force you to come with me" is who he actually is.
also during that final showdown, Rahul Bose's mother literally calls Ayesha an "investment" HOW can you actually want her to make it work with a mother and son duo like THAT who just think of her as their property who should do her job and give them a child.
Yes, exactly! This is the primary reason Priyanka's character isn't in love with him, and not just that she was in love with someone else. We see how sincere, dutiful, and responsive she is as a person; treated with due affection and respect, I imagine a loving relationship would've blossomed between the two.
Lol Rahul Bose's character can't have internalised misogyny, he's not a woman. It would be plain old misogyny.
Yes!! Great point catching that she sold her jewelry to start the business. This shows that she probably asked her husband for money and he either didn’t think she should do it (didn’t want her to work), didn’t believe she could be successful (didn’t have faith in her), or simply didn’t want her to succeed (didn’t want her to become financially independent or more successful than him). But she did it anyway and succeeded and yet he still didn’t give her credit for her hard work, never said he was proud of her. Which you can clearly see when she got emotional after sunny said he was proud.
People forget that fact that no one is born misogynist, your upbringing matters a lot , what if no one taught him that it's not okay whatever he was doing, its easier to blame a man of being misogynist without knowing the context of their life
zoya is such a good director! always manages to perfectly encapsulate human emotions and complexities in her work.
Best Indian director
@@adichatterjee in my opinion likh do aage XD
Not zoya alone . Reema was also a director of this movie. Why does zoya get all the praise?
Indian women are compelled to hold on to their marriage no matter how toxic it is. They have been put under tremendous societal pressure to stay in the marriage as they believe that is what makes them a tolerant, pleasant and perfect woman. Most of them are financially dependent on their husband and even they start earning their career is considered mere hobby and her full time job in priority is family. This movie has held mirrors to the prevailing conditions with very less drama
This is surely changing though !!!!
True but in a way same with men. They are also expected to hold on to the marriage for the sake of family and future generations. People talk about women being compelled but never about the men and how much they are also compelled despite not being happy with their partner. And think that despite all this majorly the men still earn for the family and wife.
@@mtk3755 goes both ways but atleast us men don't have to distance ourselves from our family if we don't want to. Women don't even have that option.
See, THAT isn concerning to me. And that is not what I am rooting for. What I am rooting for is an improvement in communication and empathy… with empathy open-mindedness on both parts. Through that, I hope we collectively improve. Perhaps leaving IS the only way forward, but I naively hope that there are other options.
I totally understand Jaby's point about the communication in relationships etc. But in this movie that's not really what was highlighted because that wasn't they main issue,it was a part of it. Even if Aisha had communicated with her husband she would have been labelled as "Too woke" "too dramatic" "typical empowered woman". It has been hinted multiple times in the movie that her opinions were never really given importance to. Even with the scene where her family stood up for her, they didn't do anything until her husband raised his hands at their daughter. Any type of mental frustration is to be endured by women and men in our society its " not something to be made fuss about", Aisha didn't have the courage to speak up until the moment she was shown the mirror of how low her husband held her in his eyes and how much she was just enduring for the sake of society and "log kya kahenge".
Shefali shah is a stellar actress. That Chocolate scene hurt me so much!
Great reaction guys. Wish you make Steph see Udham Singh and you guys watch Barfi.
That's me every evening. Lol.
Jaby has watched Barfi, he posted a review of it on the channel.
@@advait35 there is a watchalong for it then? 😍 thank ya
Udham Singh 🔥 Already did
@ANIKET PAHAN steph hasn't. She's a sweetheart, and she will be so moved by the performance.
23:20 to 23:30 is the answer to the fact that Jaby kept bringing up as to why dont these people just talk to each other. He kept saying just talk to the person. Just tell them what they feel
Here Achara is making a very important observation and explaining to a point that Jaby raised. And the response is that Jaby was searching on IMDB. Her point totally lost and he absorbed in his analysis.
I am not saying he is wrong or right. But the fact remains that we try to speak, it just depends on is the other person listening. You keep trying and somewhere if you do not get the attention that you covet, you just stay in silence. A conversation is a 2 way street.
Absolutely!
How free are you people seriously.. don’t you have anything else to do in life ?
@@luigi6132 good to see atleast someone getting hurt.. actually happy for you ..
@@luigi6132 yes I am sad but still happy you’re getting hurt coz you’re replying again and again ..
@@prabalbhadoria5398tell me without telling me it takes you a long time to express basic opinions.
Shefali's screen presence is just amazing
One of the things that is really scary about the movie is … Manav(Priyanka’s husband ) is potrayed as an average guy and that his behaviour with Priyanka is chalked up to ‘oh they’re not suited to each other’.
The crux of the matter is that he is an average Indian man and imagine the scary part of him being the standard for an average Indian man , who is so sweet , well mannered and seems to be a “good husband” , in reality he has so many micro aggressions - of him wanting to be in control , him being okay with everything as long as it works for him , seeing his mom as the superior being and putting her on a pedestal and he actually believes he is a good guy, it’s only when loses control of the situation he’s driven to show Priyanka who he is and that’s when Priyanka’s family and the whole world see him for himself , he is not a good guy
I love all the dialogues of Kabir. Just plain hilarious and Ranbir delivered effortlessly, subtle yet impactful. His comedy timing is brilliant.
*Ranveer
Ranbir was originally casted for Kabir's role though, and they couldn't get him because of schedule conflict
“Dil Dhadak Ne do” means “let the heart beat” not “every heart is different”.
And not “DaDuckney” it’s “Dha Rak Ne” ❤❤❤ loved watching it with you guys . Kirk gets it all 😍
I watched with them on Patreon, Netflix translation were not great. Its translated as let every heart beat differently there, that's why Achara said that
I think every heart is different is the English title for the film
Jaby, it's strange that you only thought Bose's character was a jerk when he got violent. His mother is constantly belittling his wife throughout the movie and he never defends his wife or stands up to his mother even once. I guess that was too subtle for you. No woman should stay with a guy like that. Just my opinion.
Exactly 💯
If you think the only option is to leave, that’s probably why we don’t see eye to eye.
@@CineDesi Leaving is the only option, when there was no love to begin with. It's all a Facade , and his mother makes it a more difficult facade to continue with 😅
Then it’s good we don’t see eye to eye here. His true nature showed when he put his hands on her. It was clear from beginning how dominating he was in the relationship despite both of them being of equal caliber. Maybe you are looking at the issue with ur preconceived notions but it’s not possible to communicate with such a person. The first sequence where he told Ayesha why her name was not on the card, it was a clear depiction of how he was as a partner. How can u communicate to a grown ass man that he can’t say that. He is not child dude. Maybe u don’t know but men in this country don’t enjoy receiving opinions on their bad behaviour. It make things worse. Or in most cases the family especially the mother gets involved. Then starts the taunting and belittling of the wife. Ultimately she is accused of breaking the family just because she expects better behaviour from her husband. Not every woman in india has the choice to leave. When she told her father she wants divorce. He told her clearly that she is not a part of his family anymore cuz they married her off. Ayesha is the EXCEPTION!
@@CineDesi U need to understand that in the movie only a portion is shown on how passive aggressive behaviour the mother and Rahul are shown.Obviously they can’t show thier whole life in 2-3 hrs movie
Hearing the problems that Jaby had with the treatment of Rahul Bose's character in this film, I really think he would love Sanjay Leela Bhansali's "Hum Dil De Chuke Sanam". Jaby would definitely love Ajay Devgan's character in that!
Yes, that would be a perfect movie to follow this. Depicting two different generations of Indian filmmaking. Plus Aishwarya in her prime 😍
Yes
I feel he would root for Salman though.
@jaby please review him dil de chuke sanam.
@@aditisk99 yes jaby just goes for the opposite thing to what is happening in the movie
Listen, for Bollywood to show a 'happy ending' where a married woman opts to end her marriage to be with someone else who she wants to be with was actually not the norm until like a couple of decades ago. They always showed happy endings where they end up saving the marriage even if the woman had to compromise in order to do so. This is why Kabhi Alvida Na Kehna was such a huge deal. If you haven't reacted to it, you really must.
But Kank is such a horrible role model. Like wtf can u take away from that movie? U can cheat on your spouse if u are unhappy????
@@druvacitrix8552 no somehow I don't feel they got what they deserved. In real life, to move on from being cheated takes more courage and energy. In the movie, preiti and abhisheik moved on. But in real life, people are scared to commit. The victims suffer more than the cheaters because the ones who cheat get together and live happily.
That's the reason why I don't find the movie positive at all. It has lots of negative vibe
@@druvacitrix8552 KANK is a bad movie. the main leads literally acted like jerks to their spouses who did literally nothing wrong. Shah rukh is such a horrible character in the movie and so is Rani (characters only). Its Okay for main characters to have flaws, but these two are Sierrag Burgess level characters, not only are they horrible as leads but their co leads are much better than them (once again as characters) and I don't know if the mnessage in the movie was good.
@@jessyjane4465 no. That movie is not a role model at all. It's just real. It shows the main roles as flawed humans, like we all are. Both Dev and Maya are grey characters. It was a brave attempt. They did not glorify cheating. Those scenes make you feel uncomfortable and sad. When you see Dev and Maya heading towards the hotel, your heart screams, noooo. There were consequences to that and both Maya and Dev suffered those. That scene where Rani's character confessed to Abhishek's, I think that was Abhishek's best performance to date. Every time I watch that scene, I forget to breathe. It is heartbreaking. It is a bold concept for a movie and this is how you tell a good story. It has you on a rollercoaster and till the end, you do not know what will happen. It has you hooked and at the edge of your seat. It was definitely one of KJ's best movies.
@@druvacitrix8552 The movie seriously messed up when Shah Rukh and Rani got together in the end. That is what ruined the whole movie.
I had watched it when I was a teenager and it was relatable then but watching it again and having the similar irl context (was introduced to this "high society" due to my sister's marriage last year) made it 10x more relatable as I watched the bits and pieces (picture in picture) with you guys. These people are REALLY like that lmao. I think the film did a fantastic job at capturing that.
Fun trivia about the movie titles produced by Excel Entertainment (Farhan Akhtar's Production company).
Zindagi Na Milegi Dobara (basically means YOLO) is a lyric in a song from the movie, Rock On.
Dil Dhadakne Do (Let the Heart beat) is a song from the movie, Zindagi Na Milegi Dobara.
Kho Gaye Hum Kahan (Where we lost ourselves) is a song from the movie, Baar Baar Dekho.
Jee Le Zara (Live a little) is a song from the movie Talaash.
So, it's interesting how they use the song lyrics as the titles for their successive movies and it fits perfectly with the narrative as well! I love their creative instincts!
I think the whole Priyanka storyline was to try normalize the idea that relationships might not work out in a society where divorce is (sometimes detrimentally) considered taboo. Like, her parents were willing to disown her even though she tried for so many years to make it work. As if she hadn't been trying to the entire time. In societies like this, it's "what will people think?" It's "You just have to make it work." It's "just have a baby, everything will work itself out." It's always the fault of the person seeking the divorce for giving up.
The scene that really stood out for me was when Ayesha tells Manav she wants a divorce and instead of talking it out with her, he goes crying to his mom and then calls her family to talk sense in to her. It told me so much about his character without having to spell it out.
He tells Ayesha earlier that she's not part of Mehra family anymore, yet his attitude through this scene is that Ayesha's parents should fix her defects. At no point is he trying to speak to his wife directly to understand what the issue is. That has clearly been his problem right from the beginning, that he's never seen Ayesha as a person. Just an object that was transferred from the Mehra family to the Sangha family. He's never noticed that she's unhappy, which is why it comes as a surprise to him that his wife wants a divorce.
It's true that he could have married someone else more suited to him. But it never occured to him to check for compatibility because he didn't think his wife would have a personality of her own.
The BEST review Zoya Akhtar could have asked for!!! Hands down 🙌🏼
You guys killed it!! I mean the attention to detail, the little nuances that caught your eye (the supposedly self harm scene by the mom). Amazing! Loved hanging out with you guys!! Love you both Jaby and Achara ♥️
Completely agree with y'all, everyone was great but Shefali Shah stole the show.
Fr she was outstanding
Jaby when Rahul Bose's character behaves in a myriad misogynistic ways: "I don't understand what the problem is here ... Priyanka's character should at least communicate with him ...".
Jaby when Shefali's character feels humiliated at her husband's open flirtations with another woman at their anniversary: "What else does she expect!? She rejected him!" -- Anil's character shouldn't have first chosen to communicate about his feelings with his wife, Jaby? In any case, it's made clear from early on that he's the one who's been cheating on her for decades, which has caused her to increasingly shrink in shame -- it's telling what you did and didn't notice, Jaby.
🙂
I noticed all of that. The reason I said what I did about Anil’s flirting is because of how it’s set up and paid off. We see him get rejected and it’s not made clear why until later. The thing is, we see him try and get rejected. So man or woman, if that happens enough times, the partner might look elsewhere. When the deeper history is revealed, then we go back to the conversation about communication. I can’t remember all the dialogue in the film. But in that moment when he was rejected would have been an opportunity to say why she’s rejecting him. He had no idea. So as far as he can tell, he is trying and she just doesn’t want him anymore. He is completely oblivious (as I think a lot of men are) to what he is doing wrong. Often times, men need to be told directly or they don’t know. For ages, conflict arises between the opposite genders because men investigate with the ways they know and women think men should just know or they think they have somehow said it when they haven’t. Some men just pay less attention than they should. Could be a combination of the two.
@@CineDesi men aren't babies to be taught shits wtf.
Explains why you have got so many exes tbh
No. A guy named Virat found her 🙂
👏😁
I loved how Achara deduced the entire storyline cleverly ❤️
Why does jaby relate to and feel bad for misogynistic jerks is beyond me
Because clearly I am one too. Right? Is there any other possibility here? I feel like I’ve been talking about it ad nauseam.
It is an obvious pattern.
Brilliant observation and clear cut description of each character of the film. Love you guys.
Despite the characters in the movie being rich they do portray what goes on in most families which makes it so damn relatable! And I would really love to see Jaby and Achara or Jaby and Steph watch Hasee Toh Phasee! It's a heartwarming romcom.
Zoya perfectly captures emotions to make you feel something. I've always found her films relatable to some extent. And yeah, Shefali Shah stole the show for me too!
Also, please consider reacting to Tamasha next!
How about Highway?
Jaby rahul bose's character insight is through his mother's behaviour also.she is very conservative & raised him likewise.he is a mummy's boy who never supported, defended or understood his wife always subtly moulding her into his mothers expectations.she was stifled by his chauvinism & controlling nature.this story seems light on the surface but it tackles deep relationship dynamics with humor.the entire cast was stellar & turkey gorgeous,but pluto stole the show on the cute meter.zoya did a brilliant job.have u watched the making?love this movie.the title means ,' let the heart beat' great reaction by u 2.
Basically in the end they're chasing love (Anushka's character) which is a journey and not the destination.
One of my favourite movies .. can go back to it anytime .. the main cast is just the right fit .. each one of them had such natural acting .. the nuances in their acting in every scene .. just an amazing job done by everyone (even the supportive cast) .. and achara is right ,it's not about how the romantic angle played out, it's more about the shift in the family dynamics ..
At what point will Jaby and Achara find out Pluto is voiced by Aamir Khan ? I hope they already know !
They find out around 23:30
i just commented it
honestly, I kinda don't think that it represents just that 1% living in India because every Indian family in spite of status or the financial barrier naturally has dysfunctionalities. and the true problem with all of us is that we don't listen lol it may sound weird but it's true everyone in our families love talking, and kids hardly get to make any "choices" or "opinions". The only solution to most of the problems that parents give us is educated, marriage, or having a baby. And that's exactly what the movie was trying to focus on But having said that your opinion is also valid. Also, I think because Zoya and Reema both come from a privileged/rich background, they made the story in the "rich" setting because that's what their experience might be... IDK for sure but just guessing. and if you compare it to any other movies/tv shows like k3g, Made in heaven or ZNMD core always revolves around some sort of escapism which we all want at one point in life lol so maybe that's why many people liked or resonated with this movie.
P.S: if you love shefali watch delhi crime s1&2
Yeah I would rather have Zoya make movies with stories depicting lives of 1% than make poorly unrelatable middle class setting that they don't actually understand and have experienced. Themes can be relatable even beyond the classes.
The movie name is "let the heart beat". ❤️
Dill Duckney Doo
Fun fact: Ranbir and Kareena (real life cousins) were approached first, for the roles played by Ranveer and Priyanka respectively. The dates didn't work out, but it would have been fun to see those two powerhouse actors sharing screen space together, and being directed by Zoya who's an absolute genius.
i don't know how might affect the movie but that's really interesting.
Another Fun Fact: Madhuri, Sridevi and Raveena Tondon were first choices for Shefali Shah's character but they all turned the film down.
First Ranbir opted out because of filming conflict and then Kareena opted out as Ranbir left. Both did not left at the same time.
I just noticed it now, but they all were on a cruse with people who there afraid would judge them and were apart and hating each other.
But at the end they are one a small lifeboat with no luxury/comfort and not judging crowd etc, but they are together and happy.
Wondering what I’m gonna look forward to once you guys are done watching all these favorite movies of mine. It’s like that Sunday evening feeling.. :)
That’s cute ☺️
2:18 love that Jaby felt the emotion of that scene! The father-son love!❤
Dil Dhadakne Do Means Please Just Let The Heart ❤️ Beat..🥂
Answer to Achara's Question
Happy you guys liked the movie!! Love the way jaby pronounces the movie title. 😂😂👍👍😁😁😁
The thing with Rahul Bose's character was that he wasn't exactly a BAD guy but his ideologies were pretty misogynistic. I think he didn't realize the problematic nature of his behaviour, like many Indian guys think they're being progressive but they've got the wrong idea. The sudden violent turn his character took was a bit strange though.
I think we should've seen it coming. Him and his mother were clearly living 10-15 years back to their present time.
Eg His mom not being fond of Ayesha talking to her brother in front of her.
Him "allowing" Ayesha to work after marriage.
And priyanka was at fault too for not communicating, but I think if Priyanka wasn't doing it, Rahul Bose's character could have initiated the conversation too.
Him grabbing her was quite a realistic moment imo, cuz I've seen that happen both in high/middle income families
His violent turn of character wasn’t unexpected. It fits to his patriarchal character that expects a wife to listen to her husband.
I blame it on Priyanka's Character. She must have told him earlier. Although Violence can't be appreciated. He did have a misogynistic ideology.
Nope all the little things he did with his ideology makes it completely obvious that he WILL get violent when crossed. That was not at all surprising.
@Winter yeah maybe you're right, i guess i just saw him as a patriarchal guy but progressive enough to never raise his hand on ayesha.
Zoya Akhtar's movies are just so entertaining .. Love how her movies are so different than the other .. Just hate the fact that she doesn't make more movies .. Can't wait to watch her new movies
The song was 1 take no cuts. Brilliant!
1 take for crying out loud!!!
It's a cultural aspect that Jaby is not getting. There are enough subtext throughout the movie subtly showing that the husband is abusive. But one has to get the Indian family dynamics to understand that. Priyanka's character doesn't speak out as it's not encouraged for women to speak out. Things are now changing in the society, but I still know enough women who cannot express their feelings to their partners. And also, an abusive person is always abusive. Expecting a person to change their personality overnight is unrealistic. I understand Jaby is a hopeful optimist, but unfortunately the world doesn't work like that
The “cultural aspect” was the same excuse I was told when I was frustrated Sridevi didn’t leave her husband in English Vinglish.
@jaby koay In both movies, the husbands were emotionally abusive. But the situations of the two women were different.
While Sridevi's character leaving the marriage could have been an alternate ending and a good one at it. However, she had kids to think about. Her MIL was lovely and supportive. She didn't reciprocate the French guy's feelings. She communicated her feelings through her speech (& her happiness around her friends) which made her husband and daughter understand her perspective. Guilt was written all over their faces. She wasn't herself confident before because of the demeaning attitudes of both her husband and daughter. As she realized her self-worth she could communicate, yet decided to stay back. She made a choice.
In this movie however, Priyanka's character was unhappy first of all because she didn't marry for love. It was like a business deal. They were incompatible. Her husband and MIL considered her their property. Plus the MIL had her own passive-aggressive way of belittling the DIL, which he is never shown objecting to. He was controlling and he was insecure. He brushes her off on many occasions and the movie subtly shows him as a misogynist. Remember he thinks she needs his "permission" to work, even though she sold her jewellery to start a business. He wanted a child because he saw it as the next obvious step in marriage. Imagine how suffocated his wife was that she couldn't tell him a simple thing that she isn't ready for a baby. He became aggressive when she shared what was on her mind and since he disagreed with the possibility of a divorce being a man. She had no support system staying back with him. She had no kids and she was doing everything in her might to avoid the pregnancy. She hesitated to take the step for so long because she saw no support from her parents either. Finally, she chose to move out of this unsatisfying marriage.
At the same time, we see her parents patching even though the father had a history of cheating. That's more problematic rather than Priyanka's character seeking a divorce!
@@druvacitrix8552 I agree with most of your points. Respect is paramount in any relationship, so Sridevi had an option to move away from the marriage in an alternate ending. Her choice to give her husband and marriage a chance also made sense in her situation. Thanks for sharing your thoughts.
@@CineDesi wow! I got a reply from Jaby and I didn't notice!!!
The difference between the two screen husbands as Indian understanding goes is of being emotionally abusive and flippantly dismissive. Another point is we Indians expect older women who belong to a "different generation" to be much more submissive to societal norms. It's not fair, but it's an unfortunate fact. Also a genuine apology for being dismissive goes a long way, than being an ass till the last moment. The other comments in this thread have explained this much better than I did.
Did you know the last song Dil Dhadakne Do was actually sung by Priyanka and Farhan.
This movie is literally peace ✌️ so understanding and at the end family is the most important part and don't afraid to dream you do what you do ☺️
Beautiful review. Jaby & Achara's empathatic quality is 100.
About time! Watched the last episode again while constantly refreshing to check if this one's up yet.
And the concept of international vacations , life style privilege etc is no more just 1 % , there is a jump in graph of entrepreneurship, gen z Indian is an evolved gen and they are changing the financial dynamics really fast !!
It is unbelievable how our life styles have changed in last decade compared to 50 years before that !
About Jaby's confusing comparison with English Vinglish ending and this one wrt Priyanka's character........
In both movies, the husbands were emotionally abusive. But the situations of the two women were different.
While Sridevi's character leaving the marriage could have been an alternate ending and a good one at it. However, she had kids to think about. Her MIL was lovely and supportive. She didn't reciprocate the French guy's feelings. She communicated her feelings through her speech (& her happiness around her friends) which made her husband and daughter understand her perspective. Guilt was written all over their faces. She wasn't herself confident before because of the demeaning attitudes of both her husband and daughter. As she realized her self-worth she could communicate, yet decided to stay back. She made a choice.
In this movie however, Priyanka's character was unhappy first of all because she didn't marry for love. It was like a business deal. They were incompatible. Her husband and MIL considered her their property. Plus the MIL had her own passive-aggressive way of belittling the DIL, which he is never shown objecting to. He was controlling and he was insecure. He brushes her off on many occasions and the movie subtly shows him as a misogynist. Remember he thinks she needs his "permission" to work, even though she sold her jewellery to start a business. He wanted a child because he saw it as the next obvious step in marriage. Imagine how suffocated his wife was that she couldn't tell him a simple thing that she isn't ready for a baby. He became aggressive when she shared what was on her mind and since he disagreed with the possibility of a divorce being a man. She had no support system staying back with him. She had no kids and she was doing everything in her might to avoid the pregnancy. She hesitated to take the step for so long because she saw no support from her parents either. Finally, she chose to move out of this unsatisfying marriage.
At the same time, we see her parents patching even though the father had a history of cheating. That's more problematic rather than Priyanka's character seeking a divorce!
"Dil Dhadakne do" means "Let the heart beats" 😊
Lol at first ,almost everyone were disappointed with the ending as they wanted to know if Kabir and Farah got a closure or not , but soon later ,they realise that the story was not about them but the family . 😂
Archara is so smart... She understood the conclusion of the movie so brilliantly
I think you guys should definitely check out Monsoon Wedding (2001) if you want to watch more of Shefali Shah.
It's funny how it took Manav to inflict some level of physical abuse for Jaby to not sympathize with him. Him treating his wife poorly was not enough. That explains why he justified cheating as well.
I LOVE ZOYA . Jaby don't worry about every one pulling your legs over the mis pronounciation it's endearing and kinda cute ,we love it in fact !
"Keep your heart alive" Dill dhadakne do means
You guys have got to watch 'Luck By Chance'. Zoya Akhter's directorial debut. In my opinion, her best work.
I don't know why I'm laughing every time jaby says Dil Dadakne doo 😂😂
I loved that Achara and Jaby watched it..!!
"Entertainment", "Jab we met" and "Housefull 4" ..I'm waiting for you both to watch these three.. and I saw your reactions on some evergreen Indian classic movies but trust me guys there is no classic without "Hum aapke hai kon?" and "Hum sath sath hai".. Achara is must for these two masterpeices..and it would be a treat to watch confused Jaby😅 Please 🥺🙏
Ranveer Singh was an active, responsive listener in this film- just like Kajol in Dilwale Dulhania Le Jayenge
i really wonder when I realise Priyanka & Ranveer acted in DDD & Bajirao Mastani in the same year. such a brilliant performance as Bro-Sis & Maratha Husband - Wife 🥰
Till the doctor can doo🤣😂 when captions are turned on ...at 0:06
"kaise kaise!!! Zindagi guzar gayi apki yeh kehte kehte, Amrish uncle!" 🤣🤣🤣 Absolutely love Manoj Pahwa. Subtitles don't do justice to the humour involved
One of my favourite movies and a great reaction + review Jaby & Acharya ! 🧡
However, I was a little upset with the subtitles, they really weren't on point & you actually missed quite a bit because of this.
Like for instance the very last dialogue - "aur kya chahiye" means "what else do we need" and not "that's all we need".
It really changes the essence of the dialogues & its meaning to some extent.
But other than this, loved this choice of movie & your thoughts on it ! ❣️
I was relieved when you guys found out that Pluto was voiced by Aamir Khan. Up untill that point i'm like, pay attention guys pluto has Aamir's voice. 😂
We need a watch along for Luck By Chance. Now you guys are ready for it because you have been following Indian Cinema for long enough to get the references. Please do one watch along for it ASAP.
Dil dhadakne do literally means "let the heart beat" which can be translated to mean, "let the heart be free"
okay, I just feel that this movie is a reflection of what happens and goes on in Indian high-class society. I think a lot of the emotions and nuances where kind of lost for jaby and achara and it's not their faut. The subtitles were not quite apt (as per me) but I am glad regardless of everything, they liked the film just goes to show how wonderful of a director zoya is.
React to more!!! Luck by Chance,Rock On, Kapoor and Sons, Life in a Metro, Ae Dil Hai Mushkil are all gems
The girl understands movies really well
*Let the heart beat 💓*
Rahul Bose has worked in many good movies like Jhankaar Beats, Mr. and Mrs. Iyer,................. i think he was also captain of Indian rugby team
HE'S A VERY GOOD ACTOR
@@aniketpahan3574 i agree !!!!!!!!!!!!!
These kinda movies are so good but sadly not commercially popular so they r often not regular but once in a while some pple make an effort to proceed with a project like this.. hopefully they will take the center stage soon
I'll recommend you to watch The Sky Is Pink its really great staring Farhan Akhtar and Priyanka Chopra
“Dil dhadkane do” means let every heart beat (freely)!
Dil Dhadakne do - Let the Heart Beat
They subbed it as "every heart beats differently"? I like the literal translation better _let [the/your] heart beat_
If this movie was any longer, jaby would have probably called it 'Scooby Dooby Do ' towards the end.
dil dhadakne do means "let the heart beat" (freely)
I watch it whenever it comes never get bored by this movie 😀👍
Dil Dhadakne Do..... Literally translates to 'let the heart beat'......
Dil Dhadakne Do ---let the heart beat
Can someone please back me up on this but I really really want Jaby and Achara to watch JAANE TU YA JAANE NA …it’s literally my fav movie and I’m sure you guys are going to love it !!
First of all I want to appreciate jaby for trying to stay consistent with his logic of communication>divorce in a marriage. Because it was pretty similar to his argument with thappad also.
But i MUST point out, that in my humble opinion, maybe there was a reason Aysha never felt comfortable with manav(rahul bose). When you get into a 'forced' arranged marriage there is no responsibility of any partner to stay in that relationship if its not working out. Despite that she has tried to love him but shes just not happy with his 'companionship'. Not to mention the fact that manav was comfortable getting physical with Aysha in front of her parents which means he might have been forcedul or violent at some other points of their marriage also in private settings if 'she upset him'. We have also had a very good foundation laid down in the beginning by that small conversation at manav and Aysha 's house where Aysha 's mother in law passive aggressively expresses her displeasure with Aysha's relatively modern life. And if SHE has such values, then her mama's boy, manav probably does too: where they value quiet, docile, dutiful homemaker women. If you get stifled with such remarks every day and have a husband who flips when hes angry and wants to stay married to you despite your absolute displeasure purely for business reasons, i dont think its worth staying in such a marriage. Especially when it wasnt a choice of love.
In thappad on the other hand, tapasee pannu's character had a love marriage. They decided to stay together through thick and thin out of love . But she never fought for it. And she knew who he was well before marrying him too.
Which is why i think in thappad your argument of communication wouldve made sense. But here there are enough hints to show that manav is not a great person to be married to. Especially if you have a kind and caring childhood sweetheart.
Thappad was arranged marriage too its just they were 'happy' also tappsee didnt know he'd hit her. Here pc was never happy.
Please watch Dil de chuke Sanam after this. You will get to watch a totally different perspective about Indian families.
Great pronounciation jaby godse 🤣🤣🤣
The main point of the movie was the familial relationships. The romances were secondary.
Dil Dhadakne Do means Beat the heart
The movie translates in English 'Let the heart beat.'
I suggest that the end review of the movie should have time stamps and be divided into parts like acting, background score, etc etc and then have a overall rating from you guys out of 10 which would make it more interesting 🤗
It means " let your heart beat "... Basically stop restraining your heart...
Do 'Khakee' (2004) next, guys. Great movie with a talented ensemble cast: Amitabh Bachchan, Akshay Kumar, Aishwarya Rai, Ajay Devgan and Atul Kulkarni. Ta. 🧡
Nah not gud suggestion
Make good suggestions man, not craptastic masala.
Okay, honestly I was not paying attention to his pronunciation but you guys 😂🤣
Dil dhadakne do means let the heart beat
Dil Dhadakne Do - “Let The Heart Beat”
It's like Flintstone shouting, "Yabba Dabba Doo...." 😀
Achaara understands the hindi movies well
Please watch the making of the film, its sooo interesting!