Select & Connect: How to Create the Ultimate Relationship
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- Опубліковано 9 гру 2012
- Your ultimate happiness in life depends on your ability to find and connect with another person, and to sustain and grow that relationship over time. Unfortunately, doing this successfully is one of life's greatest challenges. The goal is really to figure out how you can partner with the person you are in a relationship with to create and enhance the level of love, compassion, respect, trust, passion, enjoyment and fun you feel, so that both of your needs are met at the highest level.
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I personally believe that as a man in a relationship that you must be the same man you were when you were trying to win her love . If you take that part and your asking yourself why your relationship has failed then you only have to look in the mirror and remember the part where you pretended to be someone you are not in the beginning of the relationship. Honesty and mutual respect are paramount when building a relationship. Be yourself and treat her the way you did when you wanted her more than anything in the world everyday and always. Call me crazy but I truly believe in this .
This isn’t crazy just wish most men were like this
It's true, a man is the farmer, a woman is the garden
I think he means happiness in the relationship context,cause happiness in life actually comes from inside you and you share it with others not the opposite..my humble opnion :)
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This is pure gold as always
Tony you are AMAZING!
tony you rock your mind is so sharp,thanks for giving.
connecting emotionally with that special person, 'cements the deal'.
Thankx so much Tony😊
Thanks you
Soul purpose is the first. Passion for the life purpose. Passion and respect for each other and our ‘joint’ life purpose. We stand by each other…perhaps all the same thing 😂
This video seems to end before it has finished. Is there a longer(fuller) version of this?
Great tips 👌
So true
i agree also.
If you do not put in the work, what attracts you may ultimately tear you apart.
Loved this video!! ❤💯💪🏼🤓
Hi Tony, you are right, however according to me if we know the pain and gain area of customer or any individual and if we pay attention with active empathetic listening and understand him we can have better relationship...
I love you
"Satisfied customers leave..." :)
I!!!!!!!!!!
Great talk (as always) but I got a bit lost with the Apple vs Microsoft analogy to make a point of raving fans. Although the 10% (his guestimate) of the room cheered for Apple, still the winner of the largest marketshare is Microsoft - which was boo'ed. This seems to tell me that raving fans AREN'T a key component to market share. But not to throw out the baby with the bathwater - the talk was good and he made some good points (just drop the analogy imho) - cheers, m
The Apple analogy is good. Microsoft might have the largest marketshare but Apple has a greater market cap. Why? Microsoft products are like tools - they function. The purchase and use of a Microsoft product is a function. Apple products create an emotional attachment creating fans. However, it is Samsung which is taking the fandom to a new level... hitting Apple (smartphones, tablets) and Sony (tvs) out of the ball park...
Are there any examples of what to want/not want in a personal relationships? I would really appreciate a detail example. I can imagine that the list Tony had created in the past came from his many years of experience in the personal relationships and from his deep knowledge of human relationships in general, due to his extensive self education. Many of us, in my opinion, would need help identifying what we should want / not want.
Personally, a MUST have, is monogamy.
Dating-The system/process by which we learn through experience what we must have, must NOT have, & all the while growing our patience. Last page is a list of personal growth which is needed before "that" person will accept us.
Wants- blonde/blue physically fit. Virtuous,
Must not have- Type A females, aggressive, argumentative, etc.
Anybody know where can i find the full video ?
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Nice little devil horn hand symbol right at the beginning. 😩
Did he say "satisfies customers beliefs"? at :50?
"leave"
Maybe I don't quite get what he meant, but how can 95% of your happiness you will experience in life comes from who you select as your partner?
Maybe you could ask what it is he is saying instead of dismissing the part you don't understand - why are you in such need of him dropping the analogy anyway? I'm not totally sure I understand either, but I think he was saying something about why Apple survived that low point. And why would your relationship survive its low point without a raving fan?
????? 95% of the happiness you experience in life comes from the mate you select??? Sorry single people your life is only 5% happy....
Nope if you are single you have essentially chosen yourself as your partner. So, then the next question would be do you like the person you are? If not, then working on your own personal development to be the person you wish to become is the next step. No doubt it is when you are your ideal self that a partner will show up in your life... and if not you will be the best version of yourself so who cares?
100% agree with you :)
YEAH ;)
...and if you get stuck, you have to help each others to roll away the stones, together, not exscuse yourself via protecting everything you are, and dive.... from the fears that may always come up in new relationships. You either build together, or destroy. And it needs both´s brave enough to share openheartedness to come closer, to Give and
Recieve in equal share, make all that recides inside a person feel welcomed. Otherwhise, nothing ever grows, only strangles the happiness we could get from relating. And these advices, relates not only in partnerships in love, it goes for friendships too.
Men and women don't give the same
@@dogstick12 I do think that has to do with which culture one has grown in or have cultured in oneself. Not so much what gender one is.
Both men and women have many different ways of being throughout life. Otherwise I wonder if change even is possible, as maturing needs change to occur in relations. It has not much to do with difference in giving, all of us are both different and in the core of us, need the same, maybee, it has more to do with where do we meet and find the middleway... If we have a willingness or not.
feken acromegalic big jaw.
i hope he sacked his hair stylist
It was fashionable at the time.
i just had to fart.. nothing to do with this video.. please thumb up, mothers of age to come