STOP FORCING PEOPLE TO FORGIVE UNFORGIVABLE THINGS. The fact this nice lady articulated herself so well AFTER letting this monster into her home is enough. She’s a bigger person than I am cos this meeting would not have happened.
Wow it’s so unfortunate that there’s people who thinks they can take someone’s life and then comes to apologize and expect to be forgiven just like that. Nobody deserves to die like that life is too precious
She not apologising bcs she sory only bcs she got caught, no mother should hv to bury a child, and ppl heal their own time, she doesn't hv to forgive her if she doesn't feel like she has.....
"I trust in God because I don't have the strength." That's all she needs. One day he (God) will allow her to forgive but it's going to take time. If she's not ready to forgive telling someone she does will just be lying.
To those who want more details on the story. The lady's name (victim) is Dikeledi Mehlape, she was killed in December 2012 by this lady and her boyfriend. They then buried her in a mountain Ga-Thoka. You can google the story...
I think it's still early for forgiveness, she has not healed yet,I wish they would just let her b for now,I am praying one day she will be ready for forgiveness 🙏🙏🙏bless her
She must go rot in hell this evil woman. What forgiveness do she want now. Dikeleli's mum is speaking the Truth..... They didn't forgive her daughter so nowwwww what. Devil belong in hell
yes mama you cant please anyone by forgiving someone while you know that you are not ok inside.I respect you for that but you will heal as time goes on.
Eating samp at prison is not for everyone mate soon you will find yourself even missing the tiniest of things you never thought of while on the outside 😭😭
Imagine someone killing your child and come back to you to even do more damage by manipulating the situation and justice so you can't even get closure to bury your child! Whouuu ay shame! It's tough.
Shame this woman. 💔💔💔💔 She has to live through this pain for the rest of her life, if she gets to the forgiving stage. She will do it on her own. She is hurting and angry, this is just making it worse for her. If she wanted to do this, she would have done it on her own.
Zero compassion for killers ahh guys it takes a lot to kill a person l can imagine Dikeledi asking for forgiveness dying bleeding and stranded. The girl died a horrible death . One stab two stabs and you still continue. She can cry all she wants she is a sociopath she is only feeling sorry for herself not poor Dikeledi whom she killed
I regrets to watched that episode I cried to sleep well they strangled her after that they realized that she was still alive they took a knife they start stabbing her in her eyes and still she was alive then they stabbed her in the stomach until she stopped moving .I don't have a friends outside my family because of Dikeledi my sisters and cousins are my friends I'm sorry for my English😊
How can you forgive someone who stabbed you child repeatedly ,killed and dumped her Then she keep on checking you and says the Mini Cooper or her boyfriend took her.Nami ngeke bantu I'm sorry Dikeledis Mom fir what you went through
Ba2ng 4giveness is not an easy thing. We humans, We struggle in different areas , Christian or not. Ma Dikeledi lost a child here, she is still hurting, if she cnt 4give ds lady ryt nao, let her be, what is da use of saying u hv 4given sm1 whn u no in ur heart u hvnt?? I salute her 4 her honesty. She is a Christian yes, nd m sure she nos all da verses u guys are quoting on 4giveness but at ds moment she cnt bring herself 2 4give her daughter 's killer. so how baot instead of ur quotes, cry 2 God on her behalf 2 heal her broken heart nd eventually 4give da lady!
Looto Kay I won’t mind to pay black tax every month to the person who raised me to be a responsible woman today ,and for your record it’s not a black tax it’s called appreciation. To take care of your parents when u work it’s a sign of appreciation and love 💕. Surely u didn’t raise, feed and take care of your needs .
That girl in prison and her boyfriend killed her best friend Dekeledi after she found out that her boyfriend had a crush on her. They stabbed her multiple times, drew a heart shape on her tummy with a knife, then dumped her in the mountains.
@@thabipam5753 what do they mean? I've always wondered why people are named Matlakala and just thought myb it has some other meaning thn the ones I know
The late Dikeledi was yellow born very beautiful her best friend killed her ,I don't know weather is this demons or what but stabbing your friend with a knife and go to her mother sit with her for a tea and pretend to be innocent girl you are so evil 😈 but I'm glad her spirit haunted you until u confess God is powerful and you will get your own punishment This woman is in great pain 🙏 let heal only time will tell a tale she is not ready
May DK's soul rest in the everlasting peace...pelo yaka esale bohloko ka go hlokofala ga home girl yaka. It is hard to forget her image in my imaginations even today.
Ha ke batle ho le qhaza batho ba modimo, ha ke batle ho le kgahlisa, hona yanong ha kena space sa tswarelo mo pelong ya ka. # Straight Talker ......Mama Dikeledi
true, am glad she didn't want to please everybody by creating an impression of a true Christian. she kept it 100 and I hope one day when she's ready she forgives for her own peace and troubled soul.
Forgiveness should be spontaneous and never pushed down somebody's throat. Much has been said the mother should be left alone. This is a matter between her and God. At the right time she will because she's still grieving. It's not easy to lose your child especially as she was grown up
The thing is it’s hard to forgive someone who’s remorseful because they got caught. I bet had she not been caught she’d be twerking somewhere living her life. She is sorry coz she got caught!
Pain and pain and pain...it's hard to forgive but it is worhty at the end. It brings healing peace, good health. I went through it and I know it's very painful... pain pain pain...no human being will ever understand it unless u ddnt go through it but God is the Master Doctor...
I also thought the first day you arrive they cut your hair... I wasn't paying attention to the shirt, it's prison's... Is this not staged? Just thinking
Malibongwe Sithelo idk about staging but in some prisons i think they r allowed to do their hair am saying this because i remember my aunt saying that my cousin always looked good when she went to c her in prison with all the hair and other things. So idk
As humans we are sinful by nature ,that is why God gave us his sinless son to die for our sins if you want Jesu to forgive you ,you must forgive others no one is perfect sins are the same , forgive her ma.
I'll try to keep it short. This lady and her boyfriend seems like they are human muthi hunter's, so no one knew their whereabouts or anything but since this lady was pregnant ud not think of any harm ryt?.... I didn't know dikeledi that much but she grew up with zodwa as friends living in the same neighborhood since primary
1John 3:15 Anyone who hates a brother or sister is a murderer, and you know that no murderer has eternal life residing in him... She was supposed listen to the wise words of those old women now she's guilty of murder and unforgiveness.
The two ladies are right, Dikeledi's mother should forgive her so that she should be free. Since the lady has now asked forgiveness from Dikeledi's family, she should now ask forgiveness from God. She should then get delivered and born again (accept Jesus Christ as her Lord and Saviour). Once she gets saved, her name will then be written in the book of life. From there she should live the rest of her life following only the teachings of our Lord and Saviour Jesus Christ. This applies to those who read this comment as well.
You can’t expect her to forgive same time. Forgiveness is a process not even the Bible states in how long you should forgive. The good thing is that she says she leaves God to avenge. That’s forgiveness enough!!!
really she is still wearing weave,nails make up,rings aykhona kanti whats happening in our south african prison phela akusi sibotjhwa lesi yi slay queen.nanoma angaphuma usazokubulala
I understand her pain. We must not push her to do it when it's not yet time to do it. Time shall come, now that she spoke out her mind to the murderer, she will heal bit by bit.
It's easy to say she must forgive her wait until it happens to your daughter or son. You will do like wise as Mamadikeledi .You commit despeakable crime and say forgive me.
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STOP FORCING PEOPLE TO FORGIVE UNFORGIVABLE THINGS. The fact this nice lady articulated herself so well AFTER letting this monster into her home is enough. She’s a bigger person than I am cos this meeting would not have happened.
This is the sole reason, it is bullshit.
How dare she mention her 4-5 suicide attempts as if that vindicates her as a person.
It made me mad too,I don't think she did a good job of it otherwise we would be listening to this nonsense
Right? Nxa.
Exactly! No cares🤷🏽♀️ we know that she knows how to kill people so if she really wanted to be dead she would be
Never force forgiveness on mamaDikeledi, she will forgive in her own time.
Nompumelelo Mahlangu yes
Nompumelelo Mahlangu I agree at her own time she will but right now allow her to deal with her loss /pain the best way she knows how.😭😭😭
Don't force Likeleli's Mum for that.....she is hurt
This devil must rot in jail
Exactly.
Mama is still hurting, I feel her pain...I hope she finds healing
Wow it’s so unfortunate that there’s people who thinks they can take someone’s life and then comes to apologize and expect to be forgiven just like that. Nobody deserves to die like that life is too precious
You do not force people to forgive. I respect Dikeledi's mother. She is honest and realistic. Power to her! ✊🏾
She is right she is not ready to forgive....and she can't be forced
Honestly! Nothing can bring back her daughter😭💔she’s allowed to feel this way
She not apologising bcs she sory only bcs she got caught, no mother should hv to bury a child, and ppl heal their own time, she doesn't hv to forgive her if she doesn't feel like she has.....
Sthembile Msabala in actual fact she got caught because she confessed.
i admire the victim's mom for her HONESTY...
It Hurt so BAD...i cnt imagine forgiveness...not so simple
"I trust in God because I don't have the strength."
That's all she needs. One day he (God) will allow her to forgive but it's going to take time. If she's not ready to forgive telling someone she does will just be lying.
To those who want more details on the story. The lady's name (victim) is Dikeledi Mehlape, she was killed in December 2012 by this lady and her boyfriend. They then buried her in a mountain Ga-Thoka. You can google the story...
Anybody knows the full story of Dikeledi's murder? Any links to read?
when she said"I'm Lazarus,I'm licking my wounds"😢😢may she find healing....
Yaya Royalty 😭😭😭those words cut deep .These two were friends
I am proud of this lady. She spoke her truth and didn't allow them to guilty trip her. I hope she find strength and healing
What strength?
Which truth.. This aldy is an Animali mxx
"3 of you as a family " she referred to the unborn child Oh Lord...😢😩 But they can't force her to forgive.
Weave.....nails and make up .......she's slaying in prison....after that she wants forgiveness no this was a show off I don't believe her
"She's slaying in prison."
omg lol
Ash true cc she is not showing at all
Dibrazilian mama
I think it's still early for forgiveness, she has not healed yet,I wish they would just let her b for now,I am praying one day she will be ready for forgiveness 🙏🙏🙏bless her
You said it well , it is not easy to just forgive there n there .
She must go rot in hell this evil woman. What forgiveness do she want now. Dikeleli's mum is speaking the Truth..... They didn't forgive her daughter so nowwwww what. Devil belong in hell
It wasn't remorseful enough for me, I don't blame mama for not forgiving
yes mama you cant please anyone by forgiving someone while you know that you are not ok inside.I respect you for that but you will heal as time goes on.
She even mentioned the bread n polony
Eish wena.. its true what they say your friend o go motshepile is the one who will kill u.
Ya u right...truth said
Eating samp at prison is not for everyone mate soon you will find yourself even missing the tiniest of things you never thought of while on the outside 😭😭
That's heavy, beyond heavy.
Eix u right
I love this mother! I pray for her to find peace and wisdom!!!
Imagine someone killing your child and come back to you to even do more damage by manipulating the situation and justice so you can't even get closure to bury your child! Whouuu ay shame! It's tough.
Shame this woman. 💔💔💔💔
She has to live through this pain for the rest of her life, if she gets to the forgiving stage. She will do it on her own. She is hurting and angry, this is just making it worse for her. If she wanted to do this, she would have done it on her own.
Zero compassion for killers ahh guys it takes a lot to kill a person l can imagine Dikeledi asking for forgiveness dying bleeding and stranded. The girl died a horrible death . One stab two stabs and you still continue. She can cry all she wants she is a sociopath she is only feeling sorry for herself not poor Dikeledi whom she killed
Women have weaves in prison, must be nice...
Yoh bathong where can I see the whole story?
I regrets to watched that episode I cried to sleep well they strangled her after that they realized that she was still alive they took a knife they start stabbing her in her eyes and still she was alive then they stabbed her in the stomach until she stopped moving .I don't have a friends outside my family because of Dikeledi my sisters and cousins are my friends I'm sorry for my English😊
@@blossomtwo6402 why did they want to kill her so badly what happened that caused such a brutal murder!? 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭💔
Where cn i get de rest of de story
@@blossomtwo6402 🙊🙊🙊🙊Ds is so painful,
@@blossomtwo6402 🙊🙊🙊🙊Ds is so painful,
Thats crazy, dont forgive her until she goes through the same pain
The way she looks at her she'll never forgive her and I understand I wouldn't as well
How can you forgive someone who stabbed you child repeatedly ,killed and dumped her Then she keep on checking you and says the Mini Cooper or her boyfriend took her.Nami ngeke bantu I'm sorry Dikeledis Mom fir what you went through
Eishhhhhh this is painful mantswe a mma Dikeledi a boima ka nnete are yena a ka Se lwele Dikeledi, Dikeledi o tla lwela ke modimo WA gage 😭😭😭😭
They will haunt her forever. Whenever she looks at her child, it will always be a reminder. 💔💔💔
Honestly truth said
Amen
Ba2ng 4giveness is not an easy thing. We humans, We struggle in different areas , Christian or not. Ma Dikeledi lost a child here, she is still hurting, if she cnt 4give ds lady ryt nao, let her be, what is da use of saying u hv 4given sm1 whn u no in ur heart u hvnt?? I salute her 4 her honesty. She is a Christian yes, nd m sure she nos all da verses u guys are quoting on 4giveness but at ds moment she cnt bring herself 2 4give her daughter 's killer. so how baot instead of ur quotes, cry 2 God on her behalf 2 heal her broken heart nd eventually 4give da lady!
Well said Thabang!
Exactly
"You said she was in a mini copper ,kante ke thaba ya thoka😭i left everything to God's hands"you know she's never gonna forgive her
The pain of bidding a farewell to a daughter who you thought at some point of life was going to work and take care of you 😩😩😩🤭.
True but stop raising children to take care of you but raise them to be their own individuals. Break the cycle of black tax please.
Looto Kay I won’t mind to pay black tax every month to the person who raised me to be a responsible woman today ,and for your record it’s not a black tax it’s called appreciation. To take care of your parents when u work it’s a sign of appreciation and love 💕. Surely u didn’t raise, feed and take care of your needs .
@@lootokay6432 that is not the issue here , someone was murdered here , Dikeletsi 's mother is right , it is all up to God .
I think the victims mother need counseling and forgiveness must not be forced 😢
Well said ma Dikeledi , it is all in God 's hands .
Taba ye ebile bohloko kudu...I still remember the day her family came to Makgoka high school to tell us what happened...it was and still painful
What exactly happened here please someone can tell me the whole story her please
That girl in prison and her boyfriend killed her best friend Dekeledi after she found out that her boyfriend had a crush on her. They stabbed her multiple times, drew a heart shape on her tummy with a knife, then dumped her in the mountains.
@@molatelochokoe1867 wow
@@molatelochokoe1867 My Goodness, now that is unforgivable
It's unforgivable what she has done, may the Lord heal mme. I am too sad for her 😟
Phumzile Skosana true that mzitho
The name Dikeledi as a name should be abolished ay
True
why? tf
I agree we must give our kids positive names,,,(dikeledi,nontsokolo,matlakala) r not positive
Exactly.
@@thabipam5753 what do they mean? I've always wondered why people are named Matlakala and just thought myb it has some other meaning thn the ones I know
The late Dikeledi was yellow born very beautiful her best friend killed her ,I don't know weather is this demons or what but stabbing your friend with a knife and go to her mother sit with her for a tea and pretend to be innocent girl you are so evil 😈 but I'm glad her spirit haunted you until u confess
God is powerful and you will get your own punishment
This woman is in great pain 🙏 let heal only time will tell a tale she is not ready
Were they fighting or something?
All I know it that whatever happened at that mountains was evils spirit
@@kgethangmatloa5845 wow that's something else aah they heartless thle
this lady sure does look evil
lol how does being yellow born* equals to being beautiful.
May DK's soul rest in the everlasting peace...pelo yaka esale bohloko ka go hlokofala ga home girl yaka. It is hard to forget her image in my imaginations even today.
Y on earth did they kill her for
This is real sad sorry about that 💔💔😢
Ha ke batle ho le qhaza batho ba modimo, ha ke batle ho le kgahlisa, hona yanong ha kena space sa tswarelo mo pelong ya ka. # Straight Talker ......Mama Dikeledi
true, am glad she didn't want to please everybody by creating an impression of a true Christian. she kept it 100 and I hope one day when she's ready she forgives for her own peace and troubled soul.
Ko oolkkko
May dk's soul continue to rest in peace 🙏🙏🙏
Forgiveness should be spontaneous and never pushed down somebody's throat. Much has been said the mother should be left alone. This is a matter between her and God. At the right time she will because she's still grieving. It's not easy to lose your child especially as she was grown up
Nails painted, hair done, make-up and a ring?crocodile's tears mxm
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
It's not Crocodile tears...she must feel the pain at least she is still breathing and am sure what she did still haunt her
They must give mama time to heal she will forgive her
I dont think l can forgive someone who kills my own flesh n blood so ruthlessly .
Child loss is a hard thing to get over.. I feel her pain
Tumelo Sathekge , especially if the death was brutal and was at the hands of a friend .
@@mmulemotsamai-698 exactly the way in which she was killed.disgusting.Raped and mutilated.
Where can I see the full story?
Why are they forcing the mother to forgive this witch
They are crazy
Vele
The thing is it’s hard to forgive someone who’s remorseful because they got caught. I bet had she not been caught she’d be twerking somewhere living her life. She is sorry coz she got caught!
You can't blame the unborn child...
Pain and pain and pain...it's hard to forgive but it is worhty at the end. It brings healing peace, good health. I went through it and I know it's very painful... pain pain pain...no human being will ever understand it unless u ddnt go through it but God is the Master Doctor...
Mama is in pain 😭
Is she in prison slaying like that??
I also thought the first day you arrive they cut your hair... I wasn't paying attention to the shirt, it's prison's... Is this not staged? Just thinking
Malibongwe Sithelo idk about staging but in some prisons i think they r allowed to do their hair am saying this because i remember my aunt saying that my cousin always looked good when she went to c her in prison with all the hair and other things. So idk
I’m shocked
And even jewelry? 💍
ouma moraba I remember this story....they are allowed.....its not staged guys 😣
This is deep 😢😢....i hope Dikeledi's mom finds healing
I love you mmago Dikeledi, a murderer mustn't be forgiven. Salute mama.
Tears of joy satan
The mother is still hurt and she can't be forced to forgive.....I think I would feel the same
As humans we are sinful by nature ,that is why God gave us his sinless son to die for our sins if you want Jesu to forgive you ,you must forgive others no one is perfect sins are the same , forgive her ma.
as if it is that easy
Easy for you to say
Sithelo Ndebele I am sorry , but I believe in forgiveness because holding on to pain eats you to be free you forgive.
Thank you @ linki msiza
forgiving just because you're a Christian is wishful thinking at its best.
I feel sorry for the mother
Eish dikeledi was a friend to my girlfriend, this story really affected me and my girlfriend. This lady was cruel
how many years is she serving ?
Wat really happened y dd xe stab her?
What happened?
What's her surname?
I'll try to keep it short. This lady and her boyfriend seems like they are human muthi hunter's, so no one knew their whereabouts or anything but since this lady was pregnant ud not think of any harm ryt?....
I didn't know dikeledi that much but she grew up with zodwa as friends living in the same neighborhood since primary
I feel for the poor mother
I don't blame mama I feel her...don't force her to forgive her
This is deep.
Mantsu a mmago dikeledi o kwagala a kwele bohloko xem mma
U murder someone's child and expect to be forgiven,some people are cruel.
You kill my child and expect me to forgive,I won't forgive,nkaseke
This is a painful strory💔😭 that's why i don't have friends 😭💔
People are evil out there....watch the people you call friends
1John 3:15 Anyone who hates a brother or sister is a murderer, and you know that no murderer has eternal life residing in him... She was supposed listen to the wise words of those old women now she's guilty of murder and unforgiveness.
She for forgiveness with nail polish wig make up no girl u did it wrong
The two ladies are right, Dikeledi's mother should forgive her so that she should be free. Since the lady has now asked forgiveness from Dikeledi's family, she should now ask forgiveness from God. She should then get delivered and born again (accept Jesus Christ as her Lord and Saviour). Once she gets saved, her name will then be written in the book of life. From there she should live the rest of her life following only the teachings of our Lord and Saviour Jesus Christ. This applies to those who read this comment as well.
Amen.
Yoh the mother's words
Sad hle😭😭😭
Forgiveness is for God. Reap what you sow
This gal is so cool nothing wrong on her minds that is what I see.....
This is painful🥺
I feel the pain in mom's voice 😢
The pain of losing a child nje 😭😭😭
They are emotionally blackmailing Dks mom.... I am so sadden by guilt tripping her as a Christian
This is too deep let's leave Dikeled's mom to heal herself...😞😞😞
😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭
You can’t expect her to forgive same time. Forgiveness is a process not even the Bible states in how long you should forgive. The good thing is that she says she leaves God to avenge. That’s forgiveness enough!!!
really she is still wearing weave,nails make up,rings aykhona kanti whats happening in our south african prison phela akusi sibotjhwa lesi yi slay queen.nanoma angaphuma usazokubulala
Straight talk
Yoh 🙌🏿 people are wicked
Do not forgive mama izinjaa lez
Why did she kill dikeledi?
I love you very much mama for your honesty and clear articulation.
The time the Hani's forgive those who killed Chris is the day mama Dikeledi forgive her, wait mama until the right time
It might happen that Dikeledi is pretending, because she did that before when the mother ask her
Not Dikeledi I mean the murder
I mean the killer
Why did she kill her?
I understand her pain.
We must not push her to do it when it's not yet time to do it.
Time shall come, now that she spoke out her mind to the murderer, she will heal bit by bit.
This is heartbreaking
Yah neh emhlabeni
THIS IS SO PAINFUL 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭
It's easy to say she must forgive her wait until it happens to your daughter or son. You will do like wise as Mamadikeledi .You commit despeakable crime and say forgive me.
Healing takes time. May Dikeledi's find peace and healing.
Everyone deserves a second chance.
Iyooo o sehlogo sesi wa mokhupetsa ka lesasa
Tjo this is so sad 😭😭😢
No one deserves to die like this
#They r not in her shoes....
Let her heal in her own timing please✋🏾
Uxolo awulenzi ngenkani yekani umama.futhi ukufelwa yingane akusiwo umdlalo
she is slaying in jail ? kanjani...looking all pretty
Why did she kill her?
Ontop of being stabbed,she was raped and mutilated,breasts cut off.
Anyone who thinks taking someone's life is a forgivable offense need to get their heads examined