I'm disappointed at my fellow men defending cheating saying its out biological drive, cheating is lack of moral not a drive if you want to be polygamous better state that to every party involved first cuz cheating could leave a mental stain in a persons brain that could harm the rest of their lives.
A lot of men believe it’s in their DNA to cheat this is why a lot of marriages are failing now. All the men in my family including my uncles and brothers cheated on good women smh but no one talks about that.
What does it matter my aunt and uncle have happily been together for 40+ years, no marriage or ring, yall don’t know jack shit and get suck into the media 😂
He is a hater that has always envied Drake. Just like the fans he has. They hate that he's light skin which is something they wish they had. They hate his impact and commercial success something they could never have because all they make is struggle music.
@@shanesmith-vn1ri Yeah I’m sure the guy who grossed 110 million off his last tour, has 17 Grammies, and a putlizer prize for writing is envious of the Canadian “Malibou’s most wanted.” Next. See you at the SB halftime show next Black History Month 🥳
He loved her but wasn’t in love with her anymore .. hardest thing you can go through In life .. especially when the person you’re no longer in love with didn’t do anything
So make 2 kids with her? Pretty soon y’all men gonna end up eunuchs not by choice but bc more women are over it. And the scary part for y’all is this statistically supported😂😂😂😂
I agree with you that that was probably his mentality/reason. I also think that “loving someone but not being IN LOVE” with them as an excuse to not marry or leave is tricky tho and can be used as an excuse to leave the commitment for other reasons tho and I’ll tell you why. Being a married woman for a while and together for even longer, I understand that the love that I had for my husband at the beginning and the love that I have for him now are two totally different types of love - I know he feels the same and the sentiment depending on what’s going on in our family or marriage causes the ebb and flow as well. Yes, we’ve discussed this before in moments of checking in but what we continue to walk away with is no matter how we may be feeling in a moment (bc you don’t always like your husband or wife we have to be real so what keeps you there right? lol) but both of us are very serious about the commitment we made to one another before God. THAT is what is our glue and life force the COMMITMENT. Most married couples can attest to this ebb, flow, and evolution in their marriage as well it happens in ALL relationships. Love and types of love for your partner change and morph as you age, as priorities change, etc. and it goes through so many moments of growth, change, etc. This is to be expected in a marriage or long term union. The problem I think younger generations face is, they don’t understand this and bc of that assume that fairy tale heart skippy beats goo goo eye love is what it’s supposed to be like all the time - forever - that is totally unrealistic. This is why in marriage the duty, love, and COMMITMENT are what you are agreeing to sustain and carry you through. If you talk to those who make it to 40 50 years or forever… they are committed to their significant other over EVERYTHING. I think if this generation and the younger generations really want long lasting marriages and unions, they need to read and research about how love changes and shifts throughout the life of a marriage and think about what that looks like. If damn sure don’t look like a Disney movie lol. It requires work, sacrifice and commitment. Maybe then people will be more inclined to do the work as they go through and grow through the changes and development of their marriage instead of jumping ship bc they for one second feel that they aren’t feeling the “same as they were in the beginning” bc if that’s the case, they will NEVER stay in a long term relationship. And if young men and women nowadays are chasing that first time feeling or that love at first sight flutter they may as well stay single and chase it bc that usually only lasts 3 months to about a year and a half. Long term tho - it’s unsustainable and unrealistic in the span of a long lasting marriage/union.
EVERY single male rapper cheats. Literally all of them at this point except MAYBE a select few. Yet ppl r more worried about women rapping about coochie. The women r jus rapping. The men are LIVING it
I think the problem with our society is that we put more pressure on the idea of marriage and having a nuclear family than having an actual healthy, functional relationship.
We fucking don't. We have a fucked up view on what constitutes a healthy relationship, we glorify ego and living for oneself, then we reject the idea of marriage because of that.
@@copyright8291 I think the swearing is rather unnecessary. We’re presumably two adults having a conversation. I understand your point and I agree, but what I’m more or less trying to convey is that, based on what I’ve seen from generation to generation, is that a lot of people jump into marriages because of the societal and cultural pressure, even when the relationship itself isn’t healthy or functional. Even when there is a lack of communication, trust, honesty, respect and support. And in a lot of cases even when there is abuse present. Edit: I think what constitutes a healthy relationship is entirely subjective. I also think there are many reasons why people might reject the idea of marriage. It’s not really linear.
Speak that truth. They have been together for however many years and the only thing people see is they aren’t married. Then when they marry people spend their time speculating on the state of the marriage and when they gonna split. SMH them 2 have figured out fame. Let people talk and live your life privately.
I’m not going to lie, I got turned off when I heard his song about green eyes. He really doesn’t seem to want a traditional relationship. Doesn’t seem like he wants to get married because why has it taken this long? I think he values the loyalty and stability she brings, but still wants to be out here in these streets.
@@chongochishimba6207 You consider being faithful having high expectations? Just because everyone does it doesn't make it ok. Look at Eazy E or Magic Johnson. But have at it. Just be honest about not wanting to be monogamous. It's not that hard.
@@DH-uw3us What he means is "Society" disproportionately gives few people high amount of options. So those people who society gives as much temptation will on average behave differently
So he made her a babymother after she held him down for 9 years NO ring 💍, she got the same blk man… I’m not judging his girl in anyway.. I’m just making an observation.
she made HERSELF a baby mama. Men don’t make women baby mamas. Women make themselves baby mamas when they choose to have children by men they aren’t married to. Having his babies prior to marriage was her choice because pregnancy is 100% preventable.
The emotional aspect is bad enough, but you also have to worry about potential diseases. It’s sad how many women prioritize a man over their mental and physical health.
Basically she got the same BM BW get. If she bought a wedding dressing at the beginning of the 9 years engagement, it’s probably ate up by moths by now 😂
@@ninawestlake5005exactly and the only reason why we’re so called “headaches” to bm is cause of their self hate if you hate being black ofc you’re going to hate the woman that looks like you
Yes he did she sounds so stupid trying to roast Whitney everyone knows how long they been engaged so wat no yea having ass Drake they do weird team Kendrick clucker
Stop the cap. Yall find a mf with money and put up with a lot of shit. I've heard women say this all the time. And yall prove it all the time. He got something that yall like and is hard to find anywhere else and yall ass is staying. Look at Beyonce. Always in another person's relationship telling them what they should do, but turn around and do the same shit as them.
I hate that people keep saying Whitney isn’t black. Her mom is half black, half white. Her dad is black. She’s more black than white. People need to stop speaking on what they don’t know.
@shaolandshinobi6288 She doesn’t have to marry him to take him to court for financial possession. Y’all always use not getting married as a reason a woman doesn’t have to get anything from you, and yet child support, etc exists. Health insurance, etc. some women think like this in terms of dealing with someone who won’t marry them. And your comment is telling of how men always cheat & that usually ends marriages and relationships
I wish her well and what i mean by that is she leave before he finds somebody else to leave her for. Love aint no joke especially when a man keeping you around for his convenience.
@@hamudiel1110Not marrying her, not following her on IG, not a single picture of them or their kids on his IG, not showing up at events with her (that I’ve seen). He’s getting the benefit of being seen as a family man while living the bachelor lifestyle.
Rap Is literally poetry, a reflection of the times and ones life perspective. To say he’s just talkin in his album and needs therapy doesn’t make sense. I’m all for mental health therapy but and Black ppl, especially black male rappers have historically turned to the pen & paper, to express and release trauma they have buried inside. Writing is therapeutic.
writing down your feelings is one thing. Reflecting with a professional that will hold you accountable is another. Black men need professional therapy. period
I’m not saying they don’t. I agree 1000% black men need mental health therapy- the right therapy. I’m acknowledging that poetry and music has ALSO historically been a healing outlet, not to replace additional professional support, but a path toward self expression, cathartic release and layers of healing. She’s saying “he’s just talking, this is not rap..he needs therapy.” minimizes what is even being talk about .. &the fact that this art form is a form of therapy AND he can take the self awareness he expresses in his songs to a therapist that can meet him where he is. To just say “period” on an issue that has systemic and generational roots that has desensitized black people from even being in tune with their bodies, let alone their emotions, minimizes the bigger issues we’re dealing with. And the fact that the western mental health industry which is feed by the pharmaceutical companies, is not the total end all solution to the issues black people deal with.
@@DivineSoulAngel Exactly with the history that black people have suffered through. I agree that he needs therapy. Your comment originally stated that writing was therapy when it is not. If it was... we would see rappers improving as people...but we don't. They need professional help and im tired of bw coddling bm when it comes to that. Period
9:14 being "best friends" is something this video is reminding me that ppl don't see as the honor it is. Ppl see it as lesser than when, if u really look at it, is *GREATER* . Friends tend 2 *STAY* friends much longer than "lovers" stay in love with each other. Friends tend 2 be much more honest with one another and less jealous/insecure because they genuinely always want what's best 4 *THEM* more than they want 4 themselves. Kendrick referring 2 her as his best friend isn't the red flag most make it out 2 be. I'm still waiting 4 the other shoe 2 drop.
Why black women, especially dark skinned black women go online to voice their frustration over bm and their dating life or preferences, i will never understand. If you hurt, why not hurt in silence? Giving power to the wrong people isn't a good look.
I agree but, I believe, it's because those B women do not want anyone else. They would rather settle for any quality of those men and they most likely do not have a good self esteem.
exactly you will never see black men voicing their frustrations abt BW dating WM because they don't give a shit. Plus they would rather be hurting in silence if they are hurting. White men are losing their white women year by year but you won't see then crying or whining abt them fucking the enemy or Worshiping the BBc.
Em and Kendrick are similar very introverted. But damn ....9 freakin years enagaged ? Thats crazy. If you have been with someone that long for your adult . You dont even know whats its like to be with someone else ..He needs to just marry her and do right by her
I think she deserves better honestly and I’m a dude and a Kendrick fan. At that point after nine years that is saying there is no commitment and Kendrick was in the streets. It’s beyond me why she stays loyal to someone like that
@@bizzyrizzy4075 how do we know they’re not married though? California also has a confidential marriage license, so they might be married and we just don’t know, much like Nelly and Ashanti got married and no one knew until they came out and confirmed it.
9 years -good lawd - that’s a red flag - and calling her his homie consistently and nothing else tells you what he thinks about her. Prayers up for everybody ,
@@deejones6446 oh yea i see, the older girl, but damn the boy, does really favor the dave free dude ... oh shit this is wild, the kid does look like his manager/body gaurd or whoever he is to kendrick .. damn this a cold world
There shall definitely be more to come with this...a 9 year engagement and two kids later...he's still "homies" with his ex and doesn't mention his bm in an affectionate manner... yikes... 😬 also, I hate that that woman tried to make Kendrick seem colorist just because of Whitney...he very well could be but we gotta give him way more of a chance to prove it first 😂
Since he has been with her since HS, I don't think colorism is his issue. He usually has nothing but dark-skinned black women in all of his videos. Just because he got with someone of a lighter complexion doesn't necessarily make him a colorist. We need more evidence.
She’s pretty. I know its been 9 years but she has a rock and lives a life of luxury as a stay at home mom in a Bel-Air mansion with a full staff. Things could certainly be a lot worst. But take a deep dive into Drakes sugar babys/BMs/relationships and this will look like a walk in the park lmao.
Yes, she’s privileged in many ways. However, a mansion can also feel like a prison when you’re with the wrong person. Let me give you some examples: Cassie when she lived with P. Diddy, Priscilla Presley when she lived with Elvis. We all know K Dot is better than these men but my point is that money alone is not enough for a happy relationship.
The concept of "Black" in America is a social construct, encompassing more than just skin tone. It's about shared history, culture, and struggles. Celebrating Black identity and loving someone of mixed race are not mutually exclusive.
As a man, I find it disturbing that many other men just don’t care about violence against woman. Just the fact that people aren’t even willing to be open minded about whether on not Kendrick beat Whitney, and are so quick to dismiss it because you like his music, it’s disgusting. Each and every one of you probably defended Diddy up until the second the Cassie video dropped. Y’all give us a bad name
Where’s the proof tho? Her own brother was out there each time bro literally dropped a diss on that pred😂 Drake said sum and you’re really believing it💀 you share the same brain cells as SpongeBob dawg 😂
Your opinion is the exact reason most men wont marry anymore, it offers nothing for a man and only benefits a woman. Child support is less of a burden than paying Alimony, Child support and half of your belongs in divorce. Risk mitigation is the sign of intelligence
I don't get what's to black women wanting black women to be alone when they are with someone. I guess misery loves company 😂😂. U don't know how happy she is spending his money and living the life he provided for her and his children. Just be quiet and find you one
This is one of the exact reasons niggas don't get married cuz some of yall goofball ass women say shit like this openly and proud. So what if he hasn't got married, that's his business. Yall love telling on yourselves. Bet u or someone u know in this situation right now lol
Also, we have to stop giving bad people a sob story to feel sorry for. The parent who walks away is ALWAYS selfish, pain does not cause someone to walk away.
Why are people so invested in other people’s lives? Especially celebrities….We don’t know what their life is like, we don’t know what they have decided to do. Marriage ain’t the same for everybody.
@@Itsoktoloveyourselfjust to spread an opinion on what they thought about this video?😂 people can share opinions on these comments. Why are you replying? Messy?
He did say he wasn’t no one’s savior. That’s the lesson I take from his recent album I think it should also be taken into consideration the message made in the song mother I sober before he says he was cheating with other women and why he needed therapy That being said, despite acknowledging his faults, 9 years engagement is nasty work, hopefully he fixes that. But we don’t know the insides of their life 🤷🏿♂️
Very hypocritical for him to say he is no one's saviour when he is out here wearing a crown of thorns that Jesus Christ wore during his crucification.... just put into consideration
Yall worried about a nine year engagement but some of yall were engaged and married with a year and was divorced 2 years later... They good.. Yall not apparently
That lady Instagram post is wrong what she posted about Kendrick. I wish we as Black people can unify and get off the light skin dark skin stuff please. Both of my parents are very dark and I love it. my mom made sure that we did not have a TV in my house growing up. We had nothing but books and the books that was the majority in our house was booked about. We are Black people and our inventions and our contribution to the world especially America. Everybody contributed to the growth in the beauty in the culture of our survival under horrific circumstances, and those people were dark and light skin Blacks. We are strong, intelligent, beautiful, classy, ambitious, talented, creative, and joy bringers. Black people truly Artist spice the spice of the Earth. That’s what we need to show every chance we get and love on each other.
Drake watched your vid for ammo😂😂😂
RRG is his ghostwriter 🤭
😭😭🥲🥲
@@rrg I'm not participating in your reindeer games Bestie. 🤣🤣🤣
He ate his ass up... the Black Messiah with a mixed queen. 💀💀💀 Like how that work?
He called him the Black Messiah with a mixed queen. 💀💀
I'm disappointed at my fellow men defending cheating saying its out biological drive, cheating is lack of moral not a drive if you want to be polygamous better state that to every party involved first cuz cheating could leave a mental stain in a persons brain that could harm the rest of their lives.
They only defending it cuz they're favorite rapper does it, lol. These niggas love rappers more than their wives.
A lot of men believe it’s in their DNA to cheat this is why a lot of marriages are failing now. All the men in my family including my uncles and brothers cheated on good women smh but no one talks about that.
You are the only man in the world who has ever had this thought, thank you for being 1 in a gazillion ❤
@@deejoseph6206 I'm sure not every man thinks cheating is cool, only veey flawed individuals really.
@@caasieu oh honey, I got news for you...
You see what negative relationships do to you? The CHEATER is the eff’d up one yet you’re the one seeking counseling.
💔💔💔
It's so sad.
She knows the type of man she’s dealing with yet chose to give him 2 babies. I don’t have an ounce of sympathy for her. Both of them are slow.
@@Laoriginal718😂😂😂
😂😂 I love this comment !! The definition of a toxic relationship.
He's playing her.
9 years engaged and 2 children later ma’am y’all never getting married. Start saving, get a job, and move on.
She does have a job
job ??? in my best soulja boy voice .
Getting/Being Married...doesnt define a person..Ease-up Yall😢😮🤗🤕👈
@@lisalewis7317 than why even get engaged ,it must mean something to one of them and more than likely it is her
@@TAKEOUTNEWS I hope she's saving her $$ until she can collect child support pymts after the breakup.
9 years of being engaged.....Now Kendrick you could have kept that ring and not played with Whitney like that.
They're married now
Riight
@@fartunyep4501right ? Bch they married with kids !
She played herself. Smh
What does it matter my aunt and uncle have happily been together for 40+ years, no marriage or ring, yall don’t know jack shit and get suck into the media 😂
Nobody safe from RRG.
🙅🏾♀️ Nobody!! 🙃
I love it
Chuuch
Love it 😂😭😂😭
And I like that cause the die hard kendrick fans are not in the comments kissing his tail
Kendrick being a recluse and the person who observes the room is the *exact* reason why Aubrey should’ve kept his mouth shut. Now look 🤣
👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
#1 rule. Don’t mess with the quiet person.
😂😂😂
He is a hater that has always envied Drake. Just like the fans he has. They hate that he's light skin which is something they wish they had. They hate his impact and commercial success something they could never have because all they make is struggle music.
@@shanesmith-vn1ri Yeah I’m sure the guy who grossed 110 million off his last tour, has 17 Grammies, and a putlizer prize for writing is envious of the Canadian “Malibou’s most wanted.” Next. See you at the SB halftime show next Black History Month 🥳
He loved her but wasn’t in love with her anymore .. hardest thing you can go through In life .. especially when the person you’re no longer in love with didn’t do anything
Awh yh poor lil nqqa 😢 🙄🤣
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So make 2 kids with her? Pretty soon y’all men gonna end up eunuchs not by choice but bc more women are over it. And the scary part for y’all is this statistically supported😂😂😂😂
I agree with you that that was probably his mentality/reason. I also think that “loving someone but not being IN LOVE” with them as an excuse to not marry or leave is tricky tho and can be used as an excuse to leave the commitment for other reasons tho and I’ll tell you why. Being a married woman for a while and together for even longer, I understand that the love that I had for my husband at the beginning and the love that I have for him now are two totally different types of love - I know he feels the same and the sentiment depending on what’s going on in our family or marriage causes the ebb and flow as well. Yes, we’ve discussed this before in moments of checking in but what we continue to walk away with is no matter how we may be feeling in a moment (bc you don’t always like your husband or wife we have to be real so what keeps you there right? lol) but both of us are very serious about the commitment we made to one another before God. THAT is what is our glue and life force the COMMITMENT. Most married couples can attest to this ebb, flow, and evolution in their marriage as well it happens in ALL relationships. Love and types of love for your partner change and morph as you age, as priorities change, etc. and it goes through so many moments of growth, change, etc. This is to be expected in a marriage or long term union. The problem I think younger generations face is, they don’t understand this and bc of that assume that fairy tale heart skippy beats goo goo eye love is what it’s supposed to be like all the time - forever - that is totally unrealistic. This is why in marriage the duty, love, and COMMITMENT are what you are agreeing to sustain and carry you through. If you talk to those who make it to 40 50 years or forever… they are committed to their significant other over EVERYTHING. I think if this generation and the younger generations really want long lasting marriages and unions, they need to read and research about how love changes and shifts throughout the life of a marriage and think about what that looks like. If damn sure don’t look like a Disney movie lol. It requires work, sacrifice and commitment. Maybe then people will be more inclined to do the work as they go through and grow through the changes and development of their marriage instead of jumping ship bc they for one second feel that they aren’t feeling the “same as they were in the beginning” bc if that’s the case, they will NEVER stay in a long term relationship. And if young men and women nowadays are chasing that first time feeling or that love at first sight flutter they may as well stay single and chase it bc that usually only lasts 3 months to about a year and a half. Long term tho - it’s unsustainable and unrealistic in the span of a long lasting marriage/union.
Your not the victim. Shutup .
The conscious rappers are just like the rest of them. They're all for the streets.
Right. I can’t think of any that aren’t.
Mos Def ex wife she would say the same thing.
@@Madame707Would love to see her speak out
A man
EVERY single male rapper cheats. Literally all of them at this point except MAYBE a select few. Yet ppl r more worried about women rapping about coochie. The women r jus rapping. The men are LIVING it
I think the problem with our society is that we put more pressure on the idea of marriage and having a nuclear family than having an actual healthy, functional relationship.
Yes, it’s called premarital counseling
An actual healthy functional relationship is marriage and a nuclear family..
We fucking don't. We have a fucked up view on what constitutes a healthy relationship, we glorify ego and living for oneself, then we reject the idea of marriage because of that.
@@copyright8291 I think the swearing is rather unnecessary. We’re presumably two adults having a conversation. I understand your point and I agree, but what I’m more or less trying to convey is that, based on what I’ve seen from generation to generation, is that a lot of people jump into marriages because of the societal and cultural pressure, even when the relationship itself isn’t healthy or functional. Even when there is a lack of communication, trust, honesty, respect and support. And in a lot of cases even when there is abuse present.
Edit:
I think what constitutes a healthy relationship is entirely subjective. I also think there are many reasons why people might reject the idea of marriage. It’s not really linear.
Speak that truth. They have been together for however many years and the only thing people see is they aren’t married. Then when they marry people spend their time speculating on the state of the marriage and when they gonna split. SMH them 2 have figured out fame. Let people talk and live your life privately.
Engaged for 9 years is giving he doesn't wanna marry her. He is wasting her time.
Or maybe she’s wasting his time 🤷🏾♂️💯
@@Dre.2397 HE proposed to HER…..if she’s wasting his time then he should leave…..not keep knocking her up. Tf
@@Dre.2397Are you kidding me? The more money a man has, the more options. That man has many options. He's definitely wasting her time.
Or maybe they are happy and dont need yalls validation
@@oredi2159 tell that to the law if something happen to him and she have no say in anything legally🤦🏽♀️🤦🏽♀️
Engaged for nine years is crazy 😂😂😂
She’s a placeholder
@@Laoriginal718, 😂
@@taylor4200_xxRight! Even 5 years is pushing it!
JHud was engaged for a decade🤷🏾♀️.
@alex2100_xx What?! No, baby- within 1 yr max!
Engaged to your supposed best friend for 9 years is just straight up diabolical
Just wasting time lol
They have 2 kids and are happily living there lives you jealous?
@@Flashy9824whos jealous of a gay serial woman better whos a bottom for diddy and drake
Tell that to Cr7 😏
I legit thought they were married. I thought that was his wife. He needs to do right by her
What's right by her? 😂 That LA bandit?
I thought they were married, too.🤦🏾♀️
Doing right by her may mean letting her go
Why? She has low standards. She should have done right by herself and left him. He looks like a dust mite.
@@Wisdomsmother 🎯
As a loner, we don’t need therapy we need to be alone 😂😂😂
Thank you. People need to learn that people like being loners
Exactly
Yep that's what some people just DONT get 😂
Especially creative types. Def true 👍 💯
@@tonimaric4867wow! That’s me! I be wanting to CHILL! by myself! Lol
I’m not going to lie, I got turned off when I heard his song about green eyes. He really doesn’t seem to want a traditional relationship. Doesn’t seem like he wants to get married because why has it taken this long? I think he values the loyalty and stability she brings, but still wants to be out here in these streets.
These guys r celebs 😂😂 i don't know yall have very high expectations from them....they all cheat😂 the temptations are crazy
Bro wtf it gotta do with you?
@@chongochishimba6207 You consider being faithful having high expectations? Just because everyone does it doesn't make it ok. Look at Eazy E or Magic Johnson. But have at it. Just be honest about not wanting to be monogamous. It's not that hard.
@@jacknapier6668 Sis, why tf do you care?
@@DH-uw3us
What he means is
"Society" disproportionately gives few people high amount of options.
So those people who society gives as much temptation will on average behave differently
NINE YEARS!!?? That’s a long engagement that usually ends in tears
🤣
No one knows if they’re married because California has a confidential marriage license so they might be married and we just don’t know.
@@Mro637 Purpose of secrecy if quietly married?
Ma’am, please don’t ever try to rap Kendrick’s lyrics again. Literally no justice. 😂😂
THE LYRICS ARE HARDLY INTERESTING ...BUT THANKS
@@muslimnerdsYou rather listen to predators.😂
@@muslimnerds "Hardly interesting" yeah cause Drake's kiddie lyrics are much better right? lol
Being engaged for nine years is nasty work 😂😂😂😂😂
Very Nasty Naughty wrk!!! 👏🏾🙃
🤯whewww
Girl, freak nasty twerk work😂!
Sad...I feel for the cute kids. Sure, they're comfortable financially yet children KNOW when there's tension. 😔
Some have been engaged for 20 years.. even longer
So he made her a babymother after she held him down for 9 years NO ring 💍, she got the same blk man… I’m not judging his girl in anyway.. I’m just making an observation.
Right. She was good enough to have his kids, but not good enough to make her his wife.
He is one of those Hebrew Israelite 🤡’s
Facts. That man ain't no prize lol
she made HERSELF a baby mama. Men don’t make women baby mamas. Women make themselves baby mamas when they choose to have children by men they aren’t married to. Having his babies prior to marriage was her choice because pregnancy is 100% preventable.
@@DH-uw3us yes……that’s exactly right. If she was good enough to be his wife she would have NEVER given him kids without being married first.
This page is just a nail salon gossip page 😂😂😂😂
"She erupts my emotions" "She makes my heart go skippy-di-doo"
Nothin' just homies,though😂😂
read this same time she said it 😂😂
y'all want Whitney to rush and take Kendrick's last name but y'all forget that ninjas last name is Duckworth lol
Whitney Duckworth would be hard
@@Christian-eq6pq lol right
🤣🤣🤣
Corny lol
😂😂😂😂😮
proposed in 2015 but don’t want to make her your actual wife
I'm guessing this wedding ain't happening, right?
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Bigpredatorfan0910😂 Drake loves them young
@@demarcuslewis1417 honestly he’s such a creep
Then this is all making plenty fuckin' sense to me
Ay, let that shorty breathe
Shake that ass bitch, hands on your knees😂
You wild for dropping this in the middle of the beef between him and Drake lmaooo!!!
Idk how some people can stay with a cheater. I would lose my shit staying with that lol.
The emotional aspect is bad enough, but you also have to worry about potential diseases. It’s sad how many women prioritize a man over their mental and physical health.
@@kunglaoshat1250 YES! It's scary
@@kunglaoshat1250
But kendrick is a important man
easy they stay and cheat next lol.....
Kendrick style of music aint for everyone that's for sure but personally he is one of my favorites
Growing Apart is a great song.
I’m going to have to agree. He is a lyrical genius
If you listened to his latest albums you wouldn’t need to break this down. He breaks down all the wrong things he’s done.
Some of us dont know his music so we need this breakdown
@Sugar_Fatale yh I'm not gonna slog through a bunch of songs I'm uninterested in when I can just watch a short video in 1.25 speed. 😂
@@no.6377right. All that spoken word no thanks
some of them slow. they dont want to hear from someone whos actually in the relationship.
Agree, I’m an avid fan of Kendrick and his last album was more like an audio diary. The people who get him get him and vice versa.
Basically she got the same BM BW get. If she bought a wedding dressing at the beginning of the 9 years engagement, it’s probably ate up by moths by now 😂
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Ate up by moths?!?! 😂😂😂😂😂
Because bw were never the issue.
@@ninawestlake5005exactly and the only reason why we’re so called “headaches” to bm is cause of their self hate if you hate being black ofc you’re going to hate the woman that looks like you
I hollered so loud 😂😂😂
Drake paid for this video
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They are both sellouts, the beef is staged but stay dense…
He is a cheater that fact won't change
I’m convinced cause this shit sound biased asf!
Yes he did she sounds so stupid trying to roast Whitney everyone knows how long they been engaged so wat no yea having ass Drake they do weird team Kendrick clucker
She looks like Queen naija
I know right...are they keen bruh 😮
@@YasminSimon-lv5ydcould be possible af
She looks like drake🤦🏽♀️
So nine year engagement and he cheating??? Lolll go be free girl
Right 💔
Like woman stand up 😭😭😭
I hope she makes better choices
Stop the cap. Yall find a mf with money and put up with a lot of shit. I've heard women say this all the time. And yall prove it all the time. He got something that yall like and is hard to find anywhere else and yall ass is staying. Look at Beyonce. Always in another person's relationship telling them what they should do, but turn around and do the same shit as them.
@@vincemack2042 getting mad and generalizing women as if we all think the same is HILARIOUS. Hope you find a good one.
I hate that people keep saying Whitney isn’t black. Her mom is half black, half white. Her dad is black. She’s more black than white. People need to stop speaking on what they don’t know.
Well if that's the case, then she's mixed, not black or white, but a combination of both.
if people didnt asspull that drake wasnt black none of this wouldn't have happened lmao
She still got white grandparents somewhere 🤷🏿♂️
@@justsaying2300 what?! her mom is mixed. Whitney is Black.
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She should have ended that relationship a long time ago. What a waste of life!
He's been rich for years, gave children she's actually good. He's doing sll husband things.
Kendrick Rich and famous y’all would’ve stayed too
He actually smart cause soon as he marry her it’s a wrap she taking all that cheese in the divorce that always follows marriage
Likely stayed for the coins
@shaolandshinobi6288 She doesn’t have to marry him to take him to court for financial possession.
Y’all always use not getting married as a reason a woman doesn’t have to get anything from you, and yet child support, etc exists. Health insurance, etc. some women think like this in terms of dealing with someone who won’t marry them.
And your comment is telling of how men always cheat & that usually ends marriages and relationships
Engaged for whattttttt!!!! I thought they were already married 😩 smh
Same friend!! Lol!! 9 yrs is a long time!
I thought they were married too 😩🥴🤦🏽♀️
Kenny ain't sh!t😂😂😂
California has a confidential marriage license. So they might be married and we just don’t know.
I wish her well and what i mean by that is she leave before he finds somebody else to leave her for. Love aint no joke especially when a man keeping you around for his convenience.
He’s been telling her and showing her in every single way that he doesn’t want her lol
At all lol
Typical rapper
@@Wyntah888 Typical bm
How? Elaborate.
@@hamudiel1110Not marrying her, not following her on IG, not a single picture of them or their kids on his IG, not showing up at events with her (that I’ve seen). He’s getting the benefit of being seen as a family man while living the bachelor lifestyle.
HERE WE GO! Here! We! Go!
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Rap Is literally poetry, a reflection of the times and ones life perspective. To say he’s just talkin in his album and needs therapy doesn’t make sense. I’m all for mental health therapy but and Black ppl, especially black male rappers have historically turned to the pen & paper, to express and release trauma they have buried inside. Writing is therapeutic.
writing down your feelings is one thing. Reflecting with a professional that will hold you accountable is another. Black men need professional therapy. period
I’m not saying they don’t. I agree 1000% black men need mental health therapy- the right therapy. I’m acknowledging that poetry and music has ALSO historically been a healing outlet, not to replace additional professional support, but a path toward self expression, cathartic release and layers of healing. She’s saying “he’s just talking, this is not rap..he needs therapy.” minimizes what is even being talk about .. &the fact that this art form is a form of therapy AND he can take the self awareness he expresses in his songs to a therapist that can meet him where he is. To just say “period” on an issue that has systemic and generational roots that has desensitized black people from even being in tune with their bodies, let alone their emotions, minimizes the bigger issues we’re dealing with. And the fact that the western mental health industry which is feed by the pharmaceutical companies, is not the total end all solution to the issues black people deal with.
@@DivineSoulAngel Exactly with the history that black people have suffered through. I agree that he needs therapy. Your comment originally stated that writing was therapy when it is not. If it was... we would see rappers improving as people...but we don't. They need professional help and im tired of bw coddling bm when it comes to that. Period
@@acaciapoteat2350🏆
@@acaciapoteat2350 his last album is literally him talking about going to therapy and…nvm. I can’t 😂. We have to stop talking when we don’t know much
Honey a nine year engagement means they just living together 😂😂😂😂
A wealthy man has nothing to gain with getting married but everything to lose. Marriage is for us regular people
Her relationship is longer than yours!
@@jamese5936Bruh
@@jamese5936 “for us regular people” is funny cause is so true LMAO
As For "just" it's Enough 🚮😂
My husband and I were engaged for two weeks and dated a year.
9:14 being "best friends" is something this video is reminding me that ppl don't see as the honor it is. Ppl see it as lesser than when, if u really look at it, is *GREATER* .
Friends tend 2 *STAY* friends much longer than "lovers" stay in love with each other. Friends tend 2 be much more honest with one another and less jealous/insecure because they genuinely always want what's best 4 *THEM* more than they want 4 themselves.
Kendrick referring 2 her as his best friend isn't the red flag most make it out 2 be. I'm still waiting 4 the other shoe 2 drop.
Exactly.
mf the big three…it’s just big RRG!
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Yes I read it in Kendrick’s voice! 😂😂😂
Okay so at this point, human relationships are a hot stinking mess lol
Exactly lol. Lost
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find an animal
Yup, at this point adopt an animal or start feeding squirrels 😂...hell anything besides human relationships.
Bingo!! Exactly! Majority of them are a mess!
Being engaged for nine years is insane.😅
KENDRICK: SHE'S MY HOMIE, MY BEST FRIEND
ME: YOU'VE BEEN FRIEND ZONED MA'AM...WITH CHILDREN.
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FRIEND ZONED... With Children. If only this were a sitcom.... 💀😄
Now yall gotta do a video on J.Cole😈😂
He’s absolutely never been faithful to his also silly wife
And drake
@@WistleWhileYouTwerkI dont even know what his wife looks like😂😩 She must be super low key
@@WistleWhileYouTwerkHow do you know that?
@@justlulu9115 you crazy
Drake doesn't have a girl😭😭
So this is what Drake been watching 😂
The same way Kendrick was watching vids of people talking about Drake being on stage with a teenage fan. 🤷🏾♂️🙏🏾
@@blackjesus6433 there's a video of him kissing a 16 year old I like them both but drake made it to easy 😅
Kendrick out here playing married while he still in the streets just in case he meet he's actually wife 😂😂😂😂😂😂
There's none.
Actual* you idiot 😅
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Do Jcole next. He be tryna hide his wife lol
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Not jermain cole 😂😂😂
J Cole is out there making Passport Bro jingles. Trash goblin
True!!!🤣🤣🤣🤣
Do him next, @RRG!
your baby mama captions always screaming save meeeeee!
Loser
Why black women, especially dark skinned black women go online to voice their frustration over bm and their dating life or preferences, i will never understand. If you hurt, why not hurt in silence? Giving power to the wrong people isn't a good look.
Because they are pickme$ and black male identified/wor$hippers.
This is not what Mary G Blidge did and she rich …
I understand it but it's often misguided. Like, his woman is black move forward on lol
I agree but, I believe, it's because those B women do not want anyone else. They would rather settle for any quality of those men and they most likely do not have a good self esteem.
exactly you will never see black men voicing their frustrations abt BW dating WM because they don't give a shit. Plus they would rather be hurting in silence if they are hurting. White men are losing their white women year by year but you won't see then crying or whining abt them fucking the enemy or Worshiping the BBc.
Em and Kendrick are similar very introverted. But damn ....9 freakin years enagaged ? Thats crazy. If you have been with someone that long for your adult . You dont even know whats its like to be with someone else ..He needs to just marry her and do right by her
I understand, I am introverted and a Gemini.
I think she deserves better honestly and I’m a dude and a Kendrick fan. At that point after nine years that is saying there is no commitment and Kendrick was in the streets. It’s beyond me why she stays loyal to someone like that
@@bizzyrizzy4075wdym she deserves better? Kendrick isn’t cheating on her he prolly doesn’t believe in marriage.
Bro stop hating u clearly sound like Drake…
@@bizzyrizzy4075 how do we know they’re not married though? California also has a confidential marriage license, so they might be married and we just don’t know, much like Nelly and Ashanti got married and no one knew until they came out and confirmed it.
who's here after the drake diss??? 😭
It was so dark man
Me 👏🏾
Guilty lol
Kendrick washed him
Kendrick buried him
Damn... The Ovo camps working overtime.
9 years -good lawd - that’s a red flag - and calling her his homie consistently and nothing else tells you what he thinks about her. Prayers up for everybody ,
damn he be calling her homie !! yo thats fucked up and she got a kid by him .. damn
@coolbydefault 2 kids actually
@@deejones6446 oh yea i see, the older girl, but damn the boy, does really favor the dave free dude ... oh shit this is wild, the kid does look like his manager/body gaurd or whoever he is to kendrick .. damn this a cold world
@@deejones6446 the 2nd one is Dave freeeeeee
"Sex addict" is the one label men use to play victim when they get caught cheating. women have 1000000 such labels
I’m ready RRG and Auntie Regina. Y’all better show out😂😂😂🎤
You caught me off guard with this one lol ❤
No loyalty in his DNA
9 year engagement? Girl bye. 👋🏽
Right! Like, what.. 9 yrs?!
RIGHT! I thought they had been married
It's good she didn't marry him. He still ain't going to be s*it if he was
@leelew.1462 So true, but she's with him.
There shall definitely be more to come with this...a 9 year engagement and two kids later...he's still "homies" with his ex and doesn't mention his bm in an affectionate manner... yikes... 😬 also, I hate that that woman tried to make Kendrick seem colorist just because of Whitney...he very well could be but we gotta give him way more of a chance to prove it first 😂
Since he has been with her since HS, I don't think colorism is his issue. He usually has nothing but dark-skinned black women in all of his videos. Just because he got with someone of a lighter complexion doesn't necessarily make him a colorist. We need more evidence.
He is a colorist though but them kids came out dark skinned like him damn😂😂😂😂
NOTICE RRG CHERRYPICKED LINES FROM THE SONG AND DIDNT MENTION THE OTHER NAMES HE REFERRED TO HIS WIFE AS.....
@@TheVerbalAssassinFAFOsounds like u making an excuse
Is that a Drake burner account 🤣🤣🤣
"Her big ass head!" Y'all are too much 😂😂😂😂
No because why did I think that too, I was like “she looks funny looking with short hair”, and I love short hair on women 😢.
Sounds like jealous females want to point out another woman’s flaws in your eyes
You Know Drake is watching lol
Right😂😂
No seriously 📝 😂
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I hope so 😄
Taking notes too📝 😂😂😂😮😮😅😅😅
She’s pretty. I know its been 9 years but she has a rock and lives a life of luxury as a stay at home mom in a Bel-Air mansion with a full staff. Things could certainly be a lot worst. But take a deep dive into Drakes sugar babys/BMs/relationships and this will look like a walk in the park lmao.
Omg.. Do You Hear Ya Self.? wtf.. all this real proof and you talking about rumors..
Yes, she’s privileged in many ways. However, a mansion can also feel like a prison when you’re with the wrong person. Let me give you some examples: Cassie when she lived with P. Diddy, Priscilla Presley when she lived with Elvis. We all know K Dot is better than these men but my point is that money alone is not enough for a happy relationship.
Man drake got 1 BM. And ain't engaged to a woman while hanging whites
His baby mom looks rich rich....but not you saying just take it because they're employed 👀
Another toxic, troubled black rapper with genius gifts smh
Aren’t we all troubled imperfect human beings? Or do you know of any perfect ones ?
@@RicchQualityMediaOne can be imperfect without being toxic and troubled.
Hahaha so true
@@so.many.obstaclesThis is well said. Conversation ends with your comment.
@@so.many.obstacleshe isn’t toxic
You know Drake is watching this video right now
Taking notes 💀
Lol
😂.. who do you think paid for this video to be made ?? 🤣🤣💀
@@boxingmonster886 lol
@@boxingmonster886 RRG is now OvO RRG?!? Oh my lanta.
My pastor stated if a man is not marrying you by two years, DUMP HIM! 🦋
Lol. 😂😂
And where was that in the Bible?
Should ask him what constitutes marriage in God's eyes next time
We don't care about your pastor
@@nikkis8102 whatever dweeb
Pastor probably cheating more than a dumb college student
RRG, please do a vid on J. Cole next
Damn y’all toxic smh
LEAVE HIM ALONE
Don’t ruin Jermaine!!! 😂😂😂
You mean J Fold
Y’all really want her to enter the rap battle…messy!😂
Macklemore winning those Grammys over Kendrick will never sit well with me 😒😒
Macklemore is a has-been now, and Lamar is a Pulitzer Prize winner. Sheesh... get over it!🤦🏾♀️
That was disgusting!
It’s messed up too because he was a good artist. It wasn’t like he made the choice to win a Grammy.
Wronged 2 musicians at the same time
Pure Racism Period
It is ironic how he raps about loyalty and yet he dogging snow bunnies while with Whitney
RRG, making everyone catch strays out here! No rapper, groupie,pastor is safe 😅
We all get the same black man (preferences included) 😅
This tho 😂
Yep, the preferences are learning quick.
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No. Y’all all PICK the same black men.
@@Laoriginal718m’am one don’t even want you stop 😂
Serious question why are assuming they are not married? Jcole was married and nobody knew.
Honestly, jcole keeps his family tight af. My nosy self cant even find a single pic of his family 😂 (good for him tho)
I quickly clicked to hear this hot stankin mess of a relationship. 😂❤
ME TOO FRIEND!!! Almost broke my damn finger!!! 😂😂😂😂
@@larhondaburchett3271😂❤
Engaged for 9 years is insane.😮
I'm always intrigued by the pro black men "I'm black yll, I'm black yll" always choosing white/mixed women
Well she’s his high school sweetheart. He can’t get a pass?
The concept of "Black" in America is a social construct, encompassing more than just skin tone. It's about shared history, culture, and struggles. Celebrating Black identity and loving someone of mixed race are not mutually exclusive.
See... See if kendrick Lamar would've just stayed quiet, minding his own business and making music, RRG wouldn't be talking about him and his wife 😂😂
That’s not his wife……that’s his baby mama
Painful fact.🥊😮💨@@Laoriginal718
Forever fiancé lol
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Always here for Friday afternoon mess!!!! 🥴🥴😌😌
Kendrick looks just like his Mom.
“Fans couldn’t help to notice her big ass head” 😂😂 what!! I nearly chocked 😭
RRG , with every upload, you make my heart go skippidydoo 😅
As a man, I find it disturbing that many other men just don’t care about violence against woman. Just the fact that people aren’t even willing to be open minded about whether on not Kendrick beat Whitney, and are so quick to dismiss it because you like his music, it’s disgusting. Each and every one of you probably defended Diddy up until the second the Cassie video dropped. Y’all give us a bad name
I agree. Well said
Well said !
Where’s the proof tho? Her own brother was out there each time bro literally dropped a diss on that pred😂 Drake said sum and you’re really believing it💀 you share the same brain cells as SpongeBob dawg 😂
@@demarcuslewis1417 Kendrick talked about that In his songs. He himself has admitted to hitting her and cheating on her in the past in his songs.
It’s not about proof it’s about keeping an open mind and not blindly assuming just because you’re a fan
Off topic but she looks like an older Northwest Kardashian
Whitney should just move on and get that child support and let him isolate.
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Your opinion is the exact reason most men wont marry anymore, it offers nothing for a man and only benefits a woman. Child support is less of a burden than paying Alimony, Child support and half of your belongs in divorce. Risk mitigation is the sign of intelligence
lol i was waiting 4 the money bag post lmao.....
I don't get what's to black women wanting black women to be alone when they are with someone. I guess misery loves company 😂😂. U don't know how happy she is spending his money and living the life he provided for her and his children. Just be quiet and find you one
This is one of the exact reasons niggas don't get married cuz some of yall goofball ass women say shit like this openly and proud. So what if he hasn't got married, that's his business. Yall love telling on yourselves. Bet u or someone u know in this situation right now lol
At this point, he's with her because of her loyalty to him. He got comfortable with her.
kendrick told us all this hiself lol
Also, we have to stop giving bad people a sob story to feel sorry for. The parent who walks away is ALWAYS selfish, pain does not cause someone to walk away.
Why are people so invested in other people’s lives? Especially celebrities….We don’t know what their life is like, we don’t know what they have decided to do. Marriage ain’t the same for everybody.
Thank you! You're probably the only one in here who said it. People fixated on others while their own lives falling apart. 😂
Why you click on the video then? Messy?.
@@Itsoktoloveyourselfjust to spread an opinion on what they thought about this video?😂 people can share opinions on these comments. Why are you replying? Messy?
@@demarcuslewis1417 and.....
@@Itsoktoloveyourself get a job
I will not tolerate Kendrick slander RRG😂😂😂
"Niiiiiine yeeeeeaaaarrrrs!" With Aunty Regina's slow mo voice.😅😅😅😅😅
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Ok, RRG! You caught me two hours before I clock out of work lol! Thank you bestie! 🤣👌🏾💜
Lol! The same! I can’t wait to get off and I am glad she uploaded this video.
@_haitian_barbie_ Girl, me too lol! Have a safe weekend, hun!
He did say he wasn’t no one’s savior. That’s the lesson I take from his recent album
I think it should also be taken into consideration the message made in the song mother I sober before he says he was cheating with other women and why he needed therapy
That being said, despite acknowledging his faults, 9 years engagement is nasty work, hopefully he fixes that. But we don’t know the insides of their life 🤷🏿♂️
Very hypocritical for him to say he is no one's saviour when he is out here wearing a crown of thorns that Jesus Christ wore during his crucification.... just put into consideration
Yall worried about a nine year engagement but some of yall were engaged and married with a year and was divorced 2 years later... They good.. Yall not apparently
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Fhey arent good.. 😂😂😂
this video is a disgrace.
Again……..what the heck does this have to do with them being engaged for nine years lmboooo still a mess
Lol, don't take it so personally. It's Kendrick's failed engagement, not yours.
Uh oh. Not Kendrick 😥
She makes my heart go skippity doo. Lottie Dottie she got more head than body 😂😂 lord I love this channel. Let me go buy some snacks
That lady Instagram post is wrong what she posted about Kendrick. I wish we as Black people can unify and get off the light skin dark skin stuff please. Both of my parents are very dark and I love it. my mom made sure that we did not have a TV in my house growing up. We had nothing but books and the books that was the majority in our house was booked about. We are Black people and our inventions and our contribution to the world especially America.
Everybody contributed to the growth in the beauty in the culture of our survival under horrific circumstances, and those people were dark and light skin Blacks.
We are strong, intelligent, beautiful, classy, ambitious, talented, creative, and joy bringers. Black people truly Artist spice the spice of the Earth. That’s what we need to show every chance we get and love on each other.
This was hilarious!!!! Thank you RRG always for the laughs and content!!!❤❤❤😂😂😂😂😂
They do an excellent job don’t they?!
I'm sorry, no shade but not too much about him screams a high level of dominance and so forth. I feel the same way about Drake 😂😮.
Weak