I'm a firm believer that we don't always have to "fall in love" but rather "grow in love." Just because you're not attracted to someone the minute you meet them, it doesn't mean an attraction can't grow. Doug is such a sweet guy and I'm glad she eventually opened up and let the process work for them. They were matched for a reason and I'm happy they nurtured that and now they are madly in love with a baby girl and another on the way. I'm sure Jamie finds him very attractive now because she knows what a great guy he is on the inside too. Yes, physical attraction is important, but that can come LATER after you get to know someone for who they really are. I love them!
I needed this 😅 I’m watching it for the first time and felt so awful for Doug since he was trying so hard and she was clearly, COMPLETELY not into him.
She's not shallow for not liking him. She shouldn't marry someone just because that would be the nice thing to do for him and his family, but then again why even sign up for the show...
zenigel She's probably freaking out because she's about to MARRY some guy she just met and is not attracted to. If you were about to marry a total stranger who you weren't attracted to, you'd probably do the same thing. Look what happens when you're honest, you get called shallow and other unflattering names for females.
zenigel She's probably freaking out because she's about to MARRY some guy she just met and is not attracted to. If you were about to marry a total stranger who you weren't attracted to, you'd probably do the same thing. Look what happens when you're honest, you get called shallow and other unflattering names for females.
Let's be honest, I don't think she's unattracted to him per se, I think it's probably that the boils on his face scare her, but you can't say that because then you sound mean and shallow. Overtime she'll get more comfortable with them.
I wasn’t attracted to my husband when he walked up to me🤷🏻♀️ once I fell in love, I saw him different and it was easy for me to be attracted to him💕💋🥰
He looked bad on the wedding day but improved every day more but most of all it was beautiful how they fell in love with each other as they got to know each other. 🥰
Just got the chance to watch this show. It's pretty interesting; I'm gonna continue watching it. Jamie not being attracted to Doug right from the start is not a bad thing. Physical attraction is important, but of course, personality matters a lot too. If you look at the preview for what happens during the rest of the season, you can see that Jamie ends up really liking Doug.
One of my favorite episodes. She was not shallow for not finding him attractive. Attractiveness is a percentage of what people use to find their spouse. The fact that she is still with him shows how wrong you guys were.
I agree a show like this is crazy. ....but all in all he's really not bad looking at all. Theres a sweetness to him. He seems to have really kind eyes. I think hes handsome. ...
I would just like to point out that she is NOT shallow for wanting to be attracted to the man that she's going to be with for the rest of her life! I personally want to be able to look at my man and be turned on. Of course it's not all about the looks, but looks definitely play a role! Your brain analyzes attraction whether you know it or not. You're attracted to your friends in some way and you're attracted to your mate. I think my boyfriend is hot, and his feelings are reciprocated, it's important to see each other that way if you ever want to marry.
I agree Kimberly. She doesn't find him attractive but did make mention of his big family and how beaming they were. In her interview she said she wanted a family. This family seems very willing to welcome a new family member and will give her what she has needed most of her life, a loving and caring family. I am hoping she gives him and them a chance to show her what love is. If she doesn't, if she judges this man solely on his looks and nothing else, she is setting herself up for the same sort of judgment down the line when she finds the handsome one she IS attracted to who will not be interested in the baggage she carries from being raised by the hair of her head in a trailer park by a drug addict mom to raising her siblings. This mans family seems willing to accept her as she is, she needs to tear a page out of their play book and be willing to give the guy a chance.
In the Interview Jamie said that she wouldn't care what her partner looked like, but he had to be funny and family oriented like she is, because she has custody of her siblings .I understand that you can't control who you are attracted to, but I also believed that she didn't want to look shallow during the interview about what she would prefer her partner to look like. She should have told them the truth that she has preferences. Now she's just breaking Doug's heart, or the very least his ego- seeing how she laughed and cried her way down the isle.
Ohhhh okay so there can be a reality TV show where 2 people have never met. never even seen eachother, and will probably divorce within a month can get married, but if a gay couple who has loved eachother for years and years gets married, it will ruin the sanctity of marriage. Got it.
I did not want to make this about gay relationships . I just find shows that try and insult our intelligence with realllly tryyyy to make us think a couple who at first sight I can tell he or she has NO chemistry at first glance. A great show is Millionaire Matchmaker on Bravo channel - now the matchmaker gal patti - matches up gay and straight couples - I like her approach and respect. good luck to you - most of all just have some fun in life ( good fun ) .
Ashley H They are getting married for gods sake. If it doesnt work out physically it definitely wont work out. We are first attracted to looks and then brain. Im sorry, thats how all humans work. At least they should get the first part down so they arent set up for COMPLETE failure.
WHY IS THIS EVEN A TV SHOW. This should not even be an option for these people to have. Do these people who make the show and who are on the show realize THEY'RE GETTING MARRIED. This is not supposed to be taken lightly and it frustrates me that this exists
NaturalEmblem26 I'm an adult but thanks x) lol I know I look young. But it's kind of messed up how her focus is just on the way he looks. Like that's really crappy. He doesn't know her, she isn't all that attractive but he seemed optimistic!
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You'd think with all the hell she went through on the Bachelor they could have at least given her someone decent looking. Thank God it all worked out in the end! It doesn't surprise me because nine times out of ten a women will overlook lack of physical attraction if they feel an emotional connection with the guy. Her deep desire to get married and her strength of character is no doubt what gave her the ability to push through.
Everyone does realize that she would have to MARRY this guy? To those saying give to just him a chance; what if she does but makes the wrong decision? Marriage is different from dating. You're pledging to be with that person for the rest of your life. I don't think he's a bad looking guy, but if she feels unsure then saying "I do" would be the wrong decision. And even though looks aren't everything, there has to be some physical attraction, but she has zero for him. Then again, she did sign up to be on this show, which I think is a stupid idea in the first place. I almost can't take it seriously.
well...she DID sign up for this show so she knew what she was getting into. she stated that she wasnt attracted to him, if she was attracted to him she would not be saying that ..shes shallow. and its not like hes ugly! he seems like a really nice guy and she seems stock up and shallow. the first thing she says is that she wasnt attracted to him and then started to freak out...
Well as you said. She IS putting rest of her life to him. How do you know if he is the right man for her? He may seem so nice in the tv show but I dont think that's his everything. Marriage is very important. If you marry the wrong person, rest of your life is ruined.
Why is everyone freaking out about this? Would YOU wanna get married to a stranger you're not attracted to? No. But still this looks stupid. Don't make stupid TV shows about marrying strangers, instead make same sex marriage legal in all 50 states.
The first impression is how I will always see a person. If I'm attracted to them and become emotionally attached, I will stay attracted to them even if they eventually let themselves go. But if I originally see them as unattractive, that will never change for me, even if they were to become more attractive later on. It is possible to be emotionally attracted to someone... but only having that will lead to intimacy problems. And even though relationships aren't all about sex, it's the glue that holds relationships together. After all, the whole purpose of dating, in truth, is to find someone to breed with.
Not that he smoke, but he hide it from her even swore on his mother’s grave that he didn’t smoke when she called him out on that behavior. Plus, she probably doesn’t wanna deal with a secondhand smoke and wants to have a family with kids and don’t want to subject the kids to smoking.
Beauty and the Beast! The best love story yet! 💜 I love how this shows that even though he may not be the best looking guy.. personality is the be all and end all
I was not initially attracted to my husband, i friendzoned him, but after a year of being besties he was turning me on suddenly 🤣 and i was getting chills when hed touch my arm or anything. It was crazy how attraction works
I think the premise of this show is great. The experts have done all the important leg work. Honestly, dating and getting to know people wear me out at times. I would definitely be up for a challenge like this especially because you have the choice of whether to stay or call it quits after a few weeks. I think that at least two of the couples will make. I'm pulling for Doug and Jamie as well. He's a great guy and he's handsome as well. Looking forward to next week. BTW...is there an official discussion group for this show? If not, there should be.
She isn't a bitch for not being attracted to him. Everyone can't be attracted to every single person they meet. I do agree that this show is a dumb idea and whoever decides to be on it is stupid. But what if she did marry him and their life turns to hell. Some people change and show who they really are on the inside after they get married. She doesn't even known this man so she has the right to be scared. If she doesn't feel attracted to him that's her opinion.
zenigel Not exactly. Though I'm not the biggest fan of her personality. If she didn't like the way he looked she has the right to say no, but he also has the right to say no. I really feel that this show is a bad idea. Not because they're being brought together by match makers, but becuase the people won't know the person's personality for themselves. Only just from other people. Some people have different judgement.
What is more important is the inside of a person we focus on the outside but realize the inside is horrible. Besides I’ve been watching since it started I can’t find the blue rug on the unfiltered show!
They got through all the hardships of their relationship. They have a beautiful baby in heaven, a earthside daughter and son and are currently pregnant with twins!!!
I've seen the first two episodes and let's just say I had a fucking panic attack the entire time watching them. LOL. Naw, but really it is truly, truly intense, especially when all three couples get to the alter. Just to reiterate, THIS IS THE VERY FIRST TIME THAT THEY MEET EACH OTHER AT ALL. THEY DON'T EVEN KNOW THE PERSON'S NAME, HOW THEY LOOK, BACKGROUND, FAMILY, FINANCES, ETC. They solely are relying on the experts to match them with their potential partner. Insane, yet interesting to watch.
Seems like most of the commentors are taking this show literally. It's a show that's meant to capture your attention, but I doubt an actual marriage will ever come from it. It's reality TV. It's scripted. Plus she's from the Bachelor. Calm down
Attraction isn't the only thing important but it still is important. If she doesn't know the guy she shouldn't marry him. Maybe try dating him awhile and get to know him and maybe she'd feel different. No one should have a blind marriage. That's just idiocracy.
He looks much better without the moles. And yes it does look bad initially but obviously you get past such things of you're not shallow. Anyone would be hesitant just being shocked like that. I know I would. And if I had those all over my face I'd be understanding if someone didn't find that attractive until AFTER they got to know me. We're human
I don't blame her that guy has warts on his face and I don't think the fact that his family all have those shit eating grins on their faces helps at all, it seems like one of those horror movies and the family is planning on the bride being the main course at the reception lol
I don't get why she wasn't attracted to him! I think he's handsome and all around a sweet guy... that was kind rude of her to not be attracted to someone... the heart is more important but i love how she came around and learned that they are compatible
Hey.. u guys realize that there WERE arranged marriages back in the day right? And still going on in some places today. And I'm sure all of those marriages didn't end in disaster... just sayin
Um actually a lot of arranged marriages back in the day also had abusive and cheating spouses and in most cases huge age gaps. Marriages were arranged to benefit the family financially and to produce children, not so much the case anymore.
Like I said. There were arranged marriages. . Not all of them ended with people cheating. . I actually knew a couple and they loved each other. . Now a days it's not as popular yet people still get divorced.. right?
Not saying they are all horrible, each case is unique. My great grandparents had an arranged marriage but my grandmother resented her husband because she felt she was married to an old man.
It's the scruff.....the scruff makes him like so much better and distracts you from the moles. Cuz when I first saw pics of him with her I thought oh he's kinda cute...but he looks not so great here. weird!!
Hahahahaha If this show actually has longevity, I'm waiting for the episode where a bride/groom says in confessional, "Seriously?! I can't marry him/her. She/He is black." Don't love racism, but that episode, being a black person myself, would be priceless.
In addition, this is simply arranged marriages for people who are tired of trying and failing. I don't have a problem with this. I got married very quickly, it was hard, but it is worth it once the effort is made.
The purpose of this show is to try a social experiment. For those of you who don't know this is how people used to get married in the past. Dating is only around 150 years old.
***** What proof do you have that arranged marriage ruins people? Do you have any Statistics/Data to back up these claims? Men took women as there wives for many reasons. "Selling them away" as you claim was a lot deeper than that. The women wanted to be married to a King. She oftentimes had a hand in it. For the most part Marriage has benefited Women and made them happy. Not, the other way around.
vze21gwa It is not so simple to get divorced. If there is no prenuptual agreement he gets screwed. It is a long process to have to endure just for a moment of bliss from love at first sight.
Aww brunette Barbie was expecting Ken, but got a real man instead. I feel bad for the guy because he looks like he would be an awesome hubby. How much are they paying these people to be on this show?
As long as they are straight (real man with penis and real woman with vagina), I have nothing against the marriage at all. I think it's brilliant and educational. Jesus would enjoy watching this, and who am I to judge the show? American TV at its finest!!
I mean... I don't blame her, it actually feels sort of unfair that out of the probably thousands of guys they could have chosen they had to have known that she probably wasn't going to be attracted to him, and attraction is a part of any relationship.
she should have thought about the risks before she went and got married at first sight! looks aren't the worst part about a person.... they are scientifically perfect for each other but his appearance is a deal breaker? live with it!!!
She is beautiful and he is NOT attractive in any way. She wants to say no so bad! I feel so bad for her. But they are still together and they have children, so something worked out ok.
Why does any of this have to come back to gay marriage? All of you who brought it here need to just let it go (and feel free to sing along). Not everything has to come back to that. We can all agree that weddings and marriages are completely different from each other... this is just a wedding. Marriage is the fulfilling of the vows. Yes, she's shallow, but she's also a beautiful woman who has different priorities. If she doesn't marry him, he'll probably go find an amazing woman who would love him as he deserves. If she doesn't marry him, she'll probably end up in and out of relationships and marriages for the next ten years and end up a single mom and wishing she married a guy who can cook... and for that matter has a stable income and a kind and loving family.
I really hope Jamie &.doug make it they ate seem to be the mature ones Of the 3.couples.and with their.looks i know they Will have beautiful children.plus i like the way they take it slow getting to know each Other!.doug is handsome especially with a.beard.but most handsome inside.really hard too find a man who is good on the inside.i really really hope they stay married i know a couple whos hubby is not attrative on the outside but she got to know him.and.he ended being.a very financially well to do man so you reallt.cant judge a book by its cover.
I'm a firm believer that we don't always have to "fall in love" but rather "grow in love." Just because you're not attracted to someone the minute you meet them, it doesn't mean an attraction can't grow. Doug is such a sweet guy and I'm glad she eventually opened up and let the process work for them. They were matched for a reason and I'm happy they nurtured that and now they are madly in love with a baby girl and another on the way. I'm sure Jamie finds him very attractive now because she knows what a great guy he is on the inside too. Yes, physical attraction is important, but that can come LATER after you get to know someone for who they really are. I love them!
I really don’t like this couple, but I completely agree with what you said nice way to put it!
This us cringe worth
Agreed and I love
Them too!
Love them. And now they just announced that they are on baby number 3 ❤🎉🎉
@@piecesofmeejust had identical twin boys 🥰
Really happy these two are still together (+ 2 kids) as of 2023!
They just had twins!!!! Love this story ❤
I love to rewatch this now that they’ve been married for 4 years and have a daughter together 💖
6 years now with a daughter and son 😭❤
3 kids now
@@kyfmeta7252no they have two kids now, and are Pregnant with twins
@@kyfmeta7252just had twins three days ago so 5 kids now! Amazeballs
Currently Pregnant with their 3 and 4th child. Twins! Congrats to them! I love this couple!
They’re very in love today with a baby ! They’re a cute couple
I needed this 😅
I’m watching it for the first time and felt so awful for Doug since he was trying so hard and she was clearly, COMPLETELY not into him.
Two babies 💜
They're expecting twins now too
Well, according to Wikipedia they both stayed married and had two kids.
they actually they’re just expecting their 2nd child because Jamie’s second pregnancy ended in a loss
Twins on the way
Love that they are the only ones still married with 2 kids and expecting twins
Well I guess the show wasn't completely a failure. I didn't know this because I only keep up with them
She's not shallow for not liking him. She shouldn't marry someone just because that would be the nice thing to do for him and his family, but then again why even sign up for the show...
zenigel She's probably freaking out because she's about to MARRY some guy she just met and is not attracted to. If you were about to marry a total stranger who you weren't attracted to, you'd probably do the same thing. Look what happens when you're honest, you get called shallow and other unflattering names for females.
zenigel She's probably freaking out because she's about to MARRY some guy she just met and is not attracted to. If you were about to marry a total stranger who you weren't attracted to, you'd probably do the same thing. Look what happens when you're honest, you get called shallow and other unflattering names for females.
She was also on the Bachelor and Bachelor Pad. Let that sink in.
Amber then she shouldn't have done this stupid thing
JayJay B She was looking for that tv spotlight
Let's be honest, I don't think she's unattracted to him per se, I think it's probably that the boils on his face scare her, but you can't say that because then you sound mean and shallow. Overtime she'll get more comfortable with them.
Trueeeeeeee
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Well they're still together today 2021 2 kids still married like 8 years later🤯🥰Incredible!!
I wasn’t attracted to my husband when he walked up to me🤷🏻♀️ once I fell in love, I saw him different and it was easy for me to be attracted to him💕💋🥰
But when ur done with him can I have him?
@@coolbro8102 😂 she's in love so probably no.
This is everday life in India. ..
After they got into bed she found out there was "a lot" more about him to love and they lived happily ever after!
LMAO!
hahaha
Lol like more moles to mentally over come
@@deez583 ya he needs to get them removed
They have
He looked bad on the wedding day but improved every day more but most of all it was beautiful how they fell in love with each other as they got to know each other. 🥰
But ugly is a better way to put him.
I think the show did that on purpose no make up hair not tidy it was for ratings
I agree! He looked horrible on the wedding day but the rest of the time you see him, he’s cute!
Just got the chance to watch this show. It's pretty interesting; I'm gonna continue watching it. Jamie not being attracted to Doug right from the start is not a bad thing. Physical attraction is important, but of course, personality matters a lot too. If you look at the preview for what happens during the rest of the season, you can see that Jamie ends up really liking Doug.
One of my favorite episodes. She was not shallow for not finding him attractive. Attractiveness is a percentage of what people use to find their spouse. The fact that she is still with him shows how wrong you guys were.
We all know why she stayed
they have a daughter and a son on the way. so happy for them!
It's very funny and sweet how the woman sort of hate him at first and ended up falling deeply for him later😌
She "settled"
She's happy
I agree a show like this is crazy. ....but all in all he's really not bad looking at all. Theres a sweetness to him. He seems to have really kind eyes. I think hes handsome. ...
I would just like to point out that she is NOT shallow for wanting to be attracted to the man that she's going to be with for the rest of her life! I personally want to be able to look at my man and be turned on. Of course it's not all about the looks, but looks definitely play a role! Your brain analyzes attraction whether you know it or not. You're attracted to your friends in some way and you're attracted to your mate. I think my boyfriend is hot, and his feelings are reciprocated, it's important to see each other that way if you ever want to marry.
And now they've had a beautiful baby together ❤️
she actually married him, n last I checked, they are still together. n they're in love
I'd purposely trip while walking down the isle and break my nose just to immediately have to be rushed off to the hospital
Or you could just say no.
No but really, the guy seems really sweet. I feel bad for him
Yes but the story turned out so amazing!!!
I agree Kimberly. She doesn't find him attractive but did make mention of his big family and how beaming they were. In her interview she said she wanted a family. This family seems very willing to welcome a new family member and will give her what she has needed most of her life, a loving and caring family. I am hoping she gives him and them a chance to show her what love is. If she doesn't, if she judges this man solely on his looks and nothing else, she is setting herself up for the same sort of judgment down the line when she finds the handsome one she IS attracted to who will not be interested in the baggage she carries from being raised by the hair of her head in a trailer park by a drug addict mom to raising her siblings. This mans family seems willing to accept her as she is, she needs to tear a page out of their play book and be willing to give the guy a chance.
In the Interview Jamie said that she wouldn't care what her partner looked like, but he had to be funny and family oriented like she is, because she has custody of her siblings .I understand that you can't control who you are attracted to, but I also believed that she didn't want to look shallow during the interview about what she would prefer her partner to look like. She should have told them the truth that she has preferences. Now she's just breaking Doug's heart, or the very least his ego- seeing how she laughed and cried her way down the isle.
Well, to be fair - I've met my husband-to-be, I know I'm attracted to him and I'm probably still going to laugh and cry my way down the aisle.
I almost had a panic attack watching this damn show. Very interesting concept.
Now married for 7 years with 2 children.
He actually looks more attractive now 10 years later
Ohhhh okay so there can be a reality TV show where 2 people have never met. never even seen eachother, and will probably divorce within a month can get married, but if a gay couple who has loved eachother for years and years gets married, it will ruin the sanctity of marriage. Got it.
I did not want to make this about gay relationships . I just find shows that try and insult our intelligence with realllly tryyyy to make us think a couple who at first sight I can tell he or she has NO chemistry at first glance. A great show is Millionaire Matchmaker on Bravo channel - now the matchmaker gal patti - matches up gay and straight couples - I like her approach and respect. good luck to you - most of all just have some fun in life ( good fun ) .
***** both are wrong this show AND gay marriage
Not anymore...yay!!
In God's eyes it is
They are such an amazing couple now, glad she didn't give up 🙋🏾♀️😁🙋🏾♀️
Doug is Dom "Woogie" Woganowski from There's Something about Mary.
I love that they are still together
9 years later 1 girl 2 boys bc baby Jonathan is in heaven and they’re trying for their fourth. I absolutely love them and followed them since day one.
I wart....I mean I do. Lol dude 😂😂
Wow. He seems like such an amazing man & all she can think about is how he isn't attractive? I think he's very handsome.
They should at least ask the contestants if they think the other person is at least decently attractive though
read500 what would be the point in asking?
"Seems" is an important word here.
Ashley H They are getting married for gods sake. If it doesnt work out physically it definitely wont work out. We are first attracted to looks and then brain. Im sorry, thats how all humans work. At least they should get the first part down so they arent set up for COMPLETE failure.
thats your opinion and there has to be physical attraction
WHY IS THIS EVEN A TV SHOW. This should not even be an option for these people to have. Do these people who make the show and who are on the show realize THEY'RE GETTING MARRIED. This is not supposed to be taken lightly and it frustrates me that this exists
No one is forced to be on the show lol
Fernando Herrera lol no way thanks for clearing that up!! -_- that was my point kid
NaturalEmblem26 I'm an adult but thanks x) lol I know I look young. But it's kind of messed up how her focus is just on the way he looks. Like that's really crappy. He doesn't know her, she isn't all that attractive but he seemed optimistic!
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Im not one for reality TV but Actually gave this a chance and it is very entertaining. I hope something good does come out of it.
Did you catch her on Ben’s season of the Bachelor, or her behavior on Bachelor Pad? She has grown so much since then.
This is so ironic given they are still married with two kids😍😍
I basically did this, but without the TV camera crew. Best decision I ever made!
how \was it like emotionally
***** Amazing. Whirlwind romance.
***** $0.00
Best troll post. 10/10 would troll again.
Laitharex Just being real.
You'd think with all the hell she went through on the Bachelor they could have at least given her someone decent looking. Thank God it all worked out in the end! It doesn't surprise me because nine times out of ten a women will overlook lack of physical attraction if they feel an emotional connection with the guy. Her deep desire to get married and her strength of character is no doubt what gave her the ability to push through.
😂😂
Everyone does realize that she would have to MARRY this guy? To those saying give to just him a chance; what if she does but makes the wrong decision? Marriage is different from dating. You're pledging to be with that person for the rest of your life. I don't think he's a bad looking guy, but if she feels unsure then saying "I do" would be the wrong decision. And even though looks aren't everything, there has to be some physical attraction, but she has zero for him.
Then again, she did sign up to be on this show, which I think is a stupid idea in the first place. I almost can't take it seriously.
I think all that logic goes out the window when you attempt to marry someone you have never met
almost?
Correction: You're pledging to be together for the rest of your life, or until you're ready to take all his money.
well...she DID sign up for this show so she knew what she was getting into. she stated that she wasnt attracted to him, if she was attracted to him she would not be saying that ..shes shallow. and its not like hes ugly! he seems like a really nice guy and she seems stock up and shallow. the first thing she says is that she wasnt attracted to him and then started to freak out...
Well as you said. She IS putting rest of her life to him. How do you know if he is the right man for her? He may seem so nice in the tv show but I dont think that's his everything. Marriage is very important. If you marry the wrong person, rest of your life is ruined.
I wasn't going to watch this show but I think that it will give me a good laugh...
Why is everyone freaking out about this? Would YOU wanna get married to a stranger you're not attracted to? No. But still this looks stupid. Don't make stupid TV shows about marrying strangers, instead make same sex marriage legal in all 50 states.
Olivia Grace It's not really the same thing.
The first impression is how I will always see a person. If I'm attracted to them and become emotionally attached, I will stay attracted to them even if they eventually let themselves go. But if I originally see them as unattractive, that will never change for me, even if they were to become more attractive later on. It is possible to be emotionally attracted to someone... but only having that will lead to intimacy problems. And even though relationships aren't all about sex, it's the glue that holds relationships together. After all, the whole purpose of dating, in truth, is to find someone to breed with.
Doug is a good guy, even if he secretly smokes !
Not that he smoke, but he hide it from her even swore on his mother’s grave that he didn’t smoke when she called him out on that behavior. Plus, she probably doesn’t wanna deal with a secondhand smoke and wants to have a family with kids and don’t want to subject the kids to smoking.
And now they have a beautiful baby girl 💕
Beauty and the Beast! The best love story yet! 💜 I love how this shows that even though he may not be the best looking guy.. personality is the be all and end all
Naw... looks are very important too. There has to be chemistry. You cannot deny this.
Surely the guy knows he has multiple giant growths on his face. Why wouldn't you get those damn things burned off??
wtfgoogle expensive
They literally sell kits at walmart for 10 bucks.
She needs to love and accept him warts and all
@@angb1672 no she doesn't. But they are still married with 2 kids
"I think I just made the worst decision of my life" lol what do you expect???
I was not initially attracted to my husband, i friendzoned him, but after a year of being besties he was turning me on suddenly 🤣 and i was getting chills when hed touch my arm or anything. It was crazy how attraction works
He's like "Yeeaaahhh Buddy!" And she's like "Ewww...bumpy...." Lol what a joke this show is.
They're still married and have a baby girl.
And pregnant again!!!!!
I think the premise of this show is great. The experts have done all the important leg work. Honestly, dating and getting to know people wear me out at times. I would definitely be up for a challenge like this especially because you have the choice of whether to stay or call it quits after a few weeks. I think that at least two of the couples will make. I'm pulling for Doug and Jamie as well. He's a great guy and he's handsome as well. Looking forward to next week. BTW...is there an official discussion group for this show? If not, there should be.
She isn't a bitch for not being attracted to him. Everyone can't be attracted to every single person they meet. I do agree that this show is a dumb idea and whoever decides to be on it is stupid. But what if she did marry him and their life turns to hell. Some people change and show who they really are on the inside after they get married. She doesn't even known this man so she has the right to be scared. If she doesn't feel attracted to him that's her opinion.
zenigel Not exactly. Though I'm not the biggest fan of her personality. If she didn't like the way he looked she has the right to say no, but he also has the right to say no. I really feel that this show is a bad idea. Not because they're being brought together by match makers, but becuase the people won't know the person's personality for themselves. Only just from other people. Some people have different judgement.
They're still happily married with kids
What is more important is the inside of a person we focus on the outside but realize the inside is horrible. Besides I’ve been watching since it started I can’t find the blue rug on the unfiltered show!
They got through all the hardships of their relationship. They have a beautiful baby in heaven, a earthside daughter and son and are currently pregnant with twins!!!
And now they are probably the most in love couple ♡♡ with precious baby Henley Grace and another on the way ♡♡♡♡
I've seen the first two episodes and let's just say I had a fucking panic attack the entire time watching them. LOL. Naw, but really it is truly, truly intense, especially when all three couples get to the alter. Just to reiterate, THIS IS THE VERY FIRST TIME THAT THEY MEET EACH OTHER AT ALL. THEY DON'T EVEN KNOW THE PERSON'S NAME, HOW THEY LOOK, BACKGROUND, FAMILY, FINANCES, ETC. They solely are relying on the experts to match them with their potential partner. Insane, yet interesting to watch.
Seems like most of the commentors are taking this show literally. It's a show that's meant to capture your attention, but I doubt an actual marriage will ever come from it. It's reality TV. It's scripted. Plus she's from the Bachelor.
Calm down
I love this show!!!!!
Attraction isn't the only thing important but it still is important. If she doesn't know the guy she shouldn't marry him. Maybe try dating him awhile and get to know him and maybe she'd feel different. No one should have a blind marriage. That's just idiocracy.
she's gorgeous
Moley moley moley in Austin Powers voice. Lmao
That show is crazy.
This show was so much better back then but no one knew what the show was like because they were the first ones.
Sorry for what may be a dumb question..I just stumbled upon this video on fb..do they actually get marriage in the end? Or this is just for show?
I want to see the whole video
To watch full episodes go to www.fyi.tv/shows/married-at-first-sight# ... Happy watching!
+FYI Television Network ok thanks
+FYI Television Network it says it's not available in my location
did you found any way..to watch it?
+Saman Firdaus Chishti no
He looks much better without the moles. And yes it does look bad initially but obviously you get past such things of you're not shallow. Anyone would be hesitant just being shocked like that. I know I would. And if I had those all over my face I'd be understanding if someone didn't find that attractive until AFTER they got to know me. We're human
I don't blame her that guy has warts on his face and I don't think the fact that his family all have those shit eating grins on their faces helps at all, it seems like one of those horror movies and the family is planning on the bride being the main course at the reception lol
Lol, you’re so mean
Omg you are going to the hot place. 😧
I don't get why she wasn't attracted to him! I think he's handsome and all around a sweet guy... that was kind rude of her to not be attracted to someone... the heart is more important but i love how she came around and learned that they are compatible
This is the dumbest comment I’ve seen for this video!
Hey.. u guys realize that there WERE arranged marriages back in the day right? And still going on in some places today. And I'm sure all of those marriages didn't end in disaster... just sayin
Um actually a lot of arranged marriages back in the day also had abusive and cheating spouses and in most cases huge age gaps. Marriages were arranged to benefit the family financially and to produce children, not so much the case anymore.
Like I said. There were arranged marriages. . Not all of them ended with people cheating. . I actually knew a couple and they loved each other. . Now a days it's not as popular yet people still get divorced.. right?
Alex Dowling My friends parents were arranged and they are very happy.
Not saying they are all horrible, each case is unique. My great grandparents had an arranged marriage but my grandmother resented her husband because she felt she was married to an old man.
Who is the wedding minister? She's really cute.
So basically it's just like a normal marriage except they're fast forwarding to the part where the woman wants a divorce.
LOL this is hilarious
did she sayyy yess ??
I'm confused...he actually looked better after this (or now)? why are the moles so noticeable here but not in the other pics Ive seen of him.
It's the scruff.....the scruff makes him like so much better and distracts you from the moles. Cuz when I first saw pics of him with her I thought oh he's kinda cute...but he looks not so great here. weird!!
In later episodes he does look a lot better. For the wedding he just wasn’t styled right and was sweating a bit too much.
All of you saying just give him a chance clearly don't know that divorces aren't free
Why didn't you show what happened instead of cutting it off? that was do wrong!
Just me that likes this program? Ok 😅
The moles
Hahahahaha If this show actually has longevity, I'm waiting for the episode where a bride/groom says in confessional, "Seriously?! I can't marry him/her. She/He is black." Don't love racism, but that episode, being a black person myself, would be priceless.
In addition, this is simply arranged marriages for people who are tired of trying and failing. I don't have a problem with this. I got married very quickly, it was hard, but it is worth it once the effort is made.
why is she doing this?? this is crazy!
LOL!!!! Damn that sucks xD
The purpose of this show is to try a social experiment. For those of you who don't know this is how people used to get married in the past. Dating is only around 150 years old.
***** What proof do you have that arranged marriage ruins people? Do you have any Statistics/Data to back up these claims? Men took women as there wives for many reasons.
"Selling them away" as you claim was a lot deeper than that. The women wanted to be married to a King. She oftentimes had a hand in it.
For the most part Marriage has benefited Women and made them happy. Not, the other way around.
+vze21gwa It ruins people because they don't have time to get to know each other and if they end up incompatible then it is too late.
Tulip
No they can always get divorced.
vze21gwa It is not so simple to get divorced. If there is no prenuptual agreement he gets screwed. It is a long process to have to endure just for a moment of bliss from love at first sight.
Ok the way tv is heading I wouldn't be surprised if they made another spinoff show about the divorces.
Aww brunette Barbie was expecting Ken, but got a real man instead. I feel bad for the guy because he looks like he would be an awesome hubby.
How much are they paying these people to be on this show?
Update: they are still married to this day and have children
Sooooo did she day "I do" ?
As long as they are straight (real man with penis and real woman with vagina), I have nothing against the marriage at all. I think it's brilliant and educational. Jesus would enjoy watching this, and who am I to judge the show? American TV at its finest!!
I mean... I don't blame her, it actually feels sort of unfair that out of the probably thousands of guys they could have chosen they had to have known that she probably wasn't going to be attracted to him, and attraction is a part of any relationship.
This same couple now has toddler daughter and upcoming 2nd child, and will be celebrating their 6-year wedding anniversary March 2020
she should have thought about the risks before she went and got married at first sight! looks aren't the worst part about a person.... they are scientifically perfect for each other but his appearance is a deal breaker? live with it!!!
Hes not even like ugly or anything. He actually looks alright
She's upset because she thought they would hook her up with Ryan Reynolds twin or something because it's reality tv. That's what I think, anyway.
Lilith Fair hahahahha wonder bread
This video has some of the most hardcore commenters.
She is beautiful and he is NOT attractive in any way. She wants to say no so bad! I feel so bad for her. But they are still together and they have children, so something worked out ok.
Why does any of this have to come back to gay marriage? All of you who brought it here need to just let it go (and feel free to sing along). Not everything has to come back to that.
We can all agree that weddings and marriages are completely different from each other... this is just a wedding. Marriage is the fulfilling of the vows.
Yes, she's shallow, but she's also a beautiful woman who has different priorities. If she doesn't marry him, he'll probably go find an amazing woman who would love him as he deserves. If she doesn't marry him, she'll probably end up in and out of relationships and marriages for the next ten years and end up a single mom and wishing she married a guy who can cook... and for that matter has a stable income and a kind and loving family.
Hey the Indians do it all the time with arranged marriages. Sometimes it works and sometimes it does not.
I felt sad for Doug. But Jamie was real
Wow just wow if she said yes that would be stupid.
I really hope Jamie &.doug make it they ate seem to be the mature ones Of the 3.couples.and with their.looks i know they Will have beautiful children.plus i like the way they take it slow getting to know each Other!.doug is handsome especially with a.beard.but most handsome inside.really hard too find a man who is good on the inside.i really really hope they stay married i know a couple whos hubby is not attrative on the outside but she got to know him.and.he ended being.a very financially well to do man so you reallt.cant judge a book by its cover.
It makes me upset seeing this. Gay marriage is not okay at all, but marrying someone you have never met before is?
How can you even compare the two?? They’re totally different.