She will make a great side chick. She only wants to see you once or twice a month, doesnt want to meet your family, doesnt want to cook, etc She is a great side chick
@@luvoshun that's an advertisement she put out but none of her past relationships when that easy. I think she's going to have a man that she can audition in control. Most men ain't going for that that's why she single
She's almost 60 out here calling herself a Boss & sharing her body with a man she wouldn't even share her life with. Plus she wants a serious relationship with a man she's not even willing to do laundry for, or see regularly...but expects him to be faithful. She just needs to keep hooking up with that other guy. No guy in his right mind making 100K will take what she's offering. Which isn't much.
I swear! She sounds so detached from what the realities of what a relationship means. Committed without commitment. Only in her mind this sounds right but if you're a real woman you'll immediately know this reeks of bs and selfishness to the highest power! 😂
I am not 50 and I understand what she's asking for and saying. This is what a lot of mature people desire both Men and Women. She was very nice in her explanation and Kendra was acting like she didnt understand. I respect what she's saying.
@GeeGeeTheJuice exactly!! She spoke very well with her expectations. I understood it fully as well. Not sure why Kendra and some other confused people acting like she was coming from a different planet. She was expressing what a lot of mature, independent, adults want until they are certain of what the next level will like. Some people just tries to make it over complicated.
She definitely needs a 70yr old 😂. She’s like the person that goes to a job interview telling the interviewer what they’re NOT gonna do if they get the job
Wow so when you turn 56 which is not really old ! You would date a 70 year old ! Lol 😂 come on now! You can’t dictate what age a person should have! Most younger men like older ladies, im sure she could get a man in their 40’s or early 50’s
@@pinkbuttercup2023 nah it’s not her age that makes me say she should get a 70yr old. It’s the fact that she’s really not even trying to have sex. That’s the main draw of a new relationship and she’s telling a man from the jump it’s not happening that often lol. If she gets an older gentleman she can have her perfect relationship like Morgan Freeman and the lady in Driving Miss Daisy lol
Kendra needs to start asking people if they have anyone on a sexual retainer. It's dangerous to walk into a situation where a man / woman has been sexually available to someone else for months or years. She just causally shared that bit of information. Maybe it's just me, but that's a big deal.
You don’t know whether the person is being honest or not. How many times have you heard a person say that they haven’t been intimate in a year and you said to yourself, they lying?!!? So, vet that person yourself.
Well she does ask “when we’re you last intimate with someone?” It’s asking wayyy tooo much from KG Upto YOU to vet wisely and ask the proper questions We are all adults no babies here 😎😎
I don’t know why this is confusing. Most women who were formally married who are over 50 do not want to become a maid or a nurse to some dude who has not taken care of her her whole life. She’s done the wife gig before and she doesn’t wanna do it. Why does she have to be wrong for that? Older women and men by and large just want to enjoy their life
She's not delusional. There are plenty of men and women that have this kind of arrange. It's called LAT(Living Apart Together) couples/family.They can be married/unmarried, with or without children. I think this woman is at a stage in her life where she's looking for a companion, but she's not looking to take care of any man! Those days are over and she's trying to enjoy this stage of her life transitioning into retirement. I dont blame her... Furthermore... there are men that are the same way. They dont want a woman up in their space.
Makes sense what she is looking for, she wants a life partner to do the fun things in life such as traveling, for company and occasional sex etc. She has a right to what she desires, not everyone is looking for a traditional relationship, as long as she communicates and presents herself as authentic and transparent I see no harm. Not everyone wants to be a wife, have the load of “house duties” such as cleaning and cooking. Good luck to her!
It made sense up until she stated that they'd see each other twice a month and he must stay faithful...While that request is not impossible ,it is indeed highly improbable....I wish her all the best though....I hope it happens for her..
She’s looking for just a good time … no more room for growth just only a casket 🤷🏾♂️🤦🏿… people really have became content with abnormality … sad but true 🙏🏿
What y’all don’t get is she’s ok with being ALONE cause that’s more peaceful than having a man who doesn’t meet her needs while she’s constantly meeting his. She has a backbone I love her.
Kendra really doesn’t understand this woman saying she doesn’t want to cook and clean all the time, and be required to do so? Why is that such a ridiculous requirement? EVERYTHING she said made complete sense to me. I’ve had what she’s looking for, and it went great!
She might as well get with Street Pharmacist Dr. Pookie and his assistant Ray Ray. They make 100k, they are happy to live in separate locations, and they're certainly not soft men. A perfect match for her!
That's me and my guy...we are happy going on 7 years, and we have our own places, it so good to have your space, when you get a certain age (not remarrying). Also, no, we can't be seeing other people...if we want to do that, then we will just not be together. Plus, someone that age should be making a good amount of money, i totally agree with that.
I don't know if I agree with everything she is asking or expecting from a man but I promise you, I've seen women like this and they do have men that they see who have the same expectations. They both have their own home and live separate but yet are together. There are marriages that live apart by choice. They were all over 50. To each is own.
There are lots of older women who are looking for this same type of situation. I hear it all the time. They enjoy their freedom and are just looking for good companionship. They've done their time... I get where she's coming from. She's ready to cruise. Not take care of another person.
Exactly. The people in the comments don't understand. At my age I don't want to cook and clean for no man. I love men who cook and clean and see it as a shared responsibility when living with a lady.
Why on earth did this seem so difficult to understand? I don't get it. She explained it very well. She does not want to have to go through the "let me prove how good I am for you by cooking, cleaning etc.". She's tired of auditioning. She's over it; likely because she got the short end of the stick of that. Half the folks (especially the women) are the main ones downing her and haven't got a clue what its like dating when older. I'm 36 and understood her the very first time. LMAO. She seems like she does well and still likes to have fun. All the best.
It’s not an equal comparison…most women money (financial security) is a top priority…most older men have that. I’m 41 but I could still manage to pay a bill or two or three if need be. I’m not wealthy but iam well off…that’s desirable to not just older women but younger women also…so the competition amongst women is much stiffer. Men not so much…not too many 25 or 30 year olds that have what a middle aged man has.
to each it’s own. She honestly made total sense to me. I promise there’s a man out there who wants this as well. And I don’t necessarily believe they would cheat. People who know what they want don’t cheat. I think it could work even if it did seem like she’s looking for a needle in a hay stack.
My husband lives in Paris, and I live in London, we have homes in both countries, Every Thursday afternoon, either I travel via the Eurostar for 1.45 hour, to Paris and we have a blissful time until Sunday night, or he travels to London. It works for us! When we see each other we are so excited that we do not waste time arguing about trivial things. During the lockdown, we were together at our home in London, and he had his man cave and I had my space; it was wonderful.
As a married woman, I enjoy being a nurturer and making sure my family is taken care of; HOWEVER, I get what she’s saying. She wants a man to want but not need her. Most men don’t technically need a woman to do any of what she mentioned. They just expect it under gender roles 🤷🏽♀️I think she’ll find someone but depending on the man even in older age, the non-consistent sex may cause him not to be as “committed” as she would like.
@Ruby W. LMFAO!!! No.....she wants a relationship on HER TERMS only, which is crazy. Somehow she's found someone to have sex with, she needs to stay friends with him. Because she'll still be looking when she's 66.
@Junior Leslie LMAO! I didn't "suggest" anything. I specifically spoke on THIS WOMAN'S delusion. I have no idea what modern women are doing. But MANY women call Kendra's show with her same delusion. But....SHE'S CRAZY! And it will be highly difficult for her to find the man she's looking for. Facts.
@buffalo.black Do people who live in the same house not get cheated on? I'm sure most of them wanted monogamy. And most men, like most people, don't really have "resources." You live check to check.
Living separately is one thing but separate states, don't wanna meet his family, wants a "secret reply", doesn't want to be required to do anything, sex a couple times a month...
😂😂 they either looking for "Young bucks" they can rule and get their backs blown out by from time to time or either a "hoochie daddy" that's gon spend it on em, these women ain't slick lol
It is odd that in 2023 people are still associating task such as cooking and cleaning with women. If you’re “traditional” male provider and female dependent then okay… but I see this even in 50/50 relationships also. Should be equally shared tasks.
You better preach! Cause I’m a career oriented woman, contributing to the household, so hubby can wash and fold his own clothes and he can cook and clean too! Definitely should not be “the wife’s job” and ain’t no way a lady should be washing clothes and cooking daily and working full time living with a guy and they not married! Nope he would definitely be washing his own clothes and cooking sometimes
I just find it funny that most comments are calling this women delusional because of her certain requirements.not everyone is going to have the same standard of dating preferences
Exactly, like isn’t that the point of the show! Nothing wrong with her not wanting to wash a man’s clothes! Her request are not unreasonable because if he was washing his clothes and cooking with he met her then he can continue and would continue if he is feeling her and feels those things are not important to him
I don’t think She’s delusional, she knows what she wants. Yet this was not the show to call in on and be critiqued. She just isn’t as needy as some people. She is okay not being self less and giving her entire life and all Or get energy over. Do you sis!
Exactly and Kendra started talking about well I cook for my man because…….! It’s crazy that she was giving so much pushback regarding this lady’s wants, she should know that people are different and just because her requirements or her vision of a relationship is different that does not make this woman delusional! I felt that it was ridiculous was Kendra to keep saying well why don’t you date them! Smh obviously there is reason, they didn’t click or something but I see nothing delusional about this woman! And she is pretty and is well spoken
@@lomaxlomax6152 she is delusional.shes 56 years old which is too old for men around her age.she won't get the same treatment as women in their 20s and 30s.
She CURRENTLY has an intimate partner that she sees on a regular basis but she is SEEKING serious relationship with a person itshe doesn't want to be with him a couple of times a month. 🤔 Please... can someone explain? I'm confused 😕
This woman was all over the place emotionally! Her brain is so scattered, with complicated and delusional requests. She is stuck in her ways and most likely will not compromise. Her last relationship was in 2017. It definitely damaged her! 😮She needs to heal from that last relationship.She’s trying to set a new standard on what she requires, however, she needs to get out of that situationship the present random man that she’s having s*x with....🧐🤨😳 She is not going to find a older man that will put up with that nonsense! Not to mention, last time I checked old men want a home cook meal, because they’re afraid to go out and eat. Their immune systems are not the same. They need home cooked meals and someone to help them clean!😣👀🙄 She comes with too much drama and no one signing up for that! 😱😬😐✌🏽❤️⭐️🙏🏽🙏🏼
@@tam6011 What you should say is they can't get it up with YOU. You told on yourself when you said, "a lot of 50 and older ..." Sounds like a lot of older men are not turned on by you. They may be performing just fine with something that is young and sexy. Some older women show up with 2 and 3 stomachs and wonder why their man isn't aroused.
We don't eat in my house if I don't cook!!! I remember I was sick for a week...and wasn't shyt cooked in here for an entire week...so I feel her...being the required person is ALOT!
I feel her 100%. Being a good wife is a lot of work and that's okay for people to feel that way, they don't have to get married if they do not want to or shack up and be pretend wifey. Nothing about that is shameful. Especially if they have been there and done that. If the married women who are your friends like cooking all the time kudos to them. I loathe it, but I do it anyway and push my feelings aside everyday. Doesn't mean people like me don't love our families. Everyone is different, not everyone loves the stereotypical female tasks. I never had an interest in cooking, when I was on my own I worked all the time, created web designs, art, music and I barely ate and I was happy that way. But my family does care and needs food, so I do what's required because I do care about their well being. If I was in her shoes, I don't think I would want to be a wife again either, I would be somewhere trying to relax in peace and quiet.
Why? I know several women in there 50s not married & they happy. They have friends but they don’t even want relationships. After most women divorce at 40/50 they don’t want to be in a relationship again.
@@daniella8400 oh no sister.. not the “I know some” dialogue. It’s a terrible idea to plan your life to be a single woman in your 50’s.. especially IF you are wanting to date.
@@waltwash no one plans to be single in their 50’s. But then again marriage is not everyone’s cup of tea. Some people enjoy the solitude. That includes me.
@@lizettemuna3234 there is a reason why people don’t plan it.. it’s a bad idea and not a good way to life/relationship/family plan. We should not do the “but I know someone” thinks in general conversation around this stuff.
@@waltwash I understand your point of view. I am single with no children and husband by choice. Who’s to say when I should be married or single? It’s my life and my choice. Marriage is not for everyone. I am living my life and found what’s best for me. I own my choices.
On behalf of all 50 year old men, let me just say, I can get it up more than three times a month. 😆😆 And if I get that blue pill in me, you better clear your schedule.
I see absolutely nothing wrong with her wants! She is right, you shouldn’t be looking for a woman to wash your clothes! If a man is looking for a homemaker then this is not the woman for him simple as thats. Absolutely nothing wrong with not wanting to be around someone 24/7
Just so everyone knows, the poverty line in the Bay Area is $76K to $114K (as defined by the local counties) depending on the specific location. So asking for $100K there really isn't asking for much.
I’m glad you mentioned this. Someone living in an area where there’s a very high cost of living is not being unreasonable with asking for someone who makes $100K. $100K in the New York City metro area is the equivalent of $50K in the Orlando metro area.
Wait a minute I don’t disagree with her because I am a 50-year-old woman and I have a partner but I’m getting to the point of my life to where I’m doing all the cooking and cleaning. I don’t need to do it cause I can take care of myself I don’t mind doing something for you, but at this point I’m over the wife deal.
I'm so glad that I saw this comment because when it comes to that part of her interview, she sounds just like all of the older, single women that I know. All of the older women who've either been married or had a long-term relationship with a man and raised their children aren't much interested in being in a relationship anymore. Some of them are happy with zero dealings with a man, and the others enjoy some occasional companionship, but they'd never go full time and live with a man again. They've BEEN over it and enjoy being to themselves, in their own space, for the most part. Shoot, the older married women that I know don't even want their situation anymore, they're just dealing with it because they've been together with their husbands for so long. They'd love to be completely single or just have occasional companionship. Lol. She definitely did have her cringe moments, but what she wants seems pretty normal for that age group.
@@brwnserenity2351 I hear that but then why go to the trouble of calling in to a dating show? She wants sex a few times a month and a travel companion, she's already sleeping with someone so what is she really trying to find through Kendra's show. Is the man she's willing to sleep with not good enough to fulfil her minimal requirements?
Thats all well and good. Sounds like women in yall situation just need occasional peen. So with that, his finances, number of children or whether he can travel should be irrelevant…
I’m 33 and I feel the same way. This life is mine. I’m not gonna spent it meeting somebody son’s needs. How bout I meet my needs and you meet yours and we link up and have fun sometimes?? At the end of the road we all gon die so we all have to live the way we see fit. No regretting it.
Thats why she's still out here playing these getting laid games, cause someone will still hit. Won't be love, won't be companionship, but some1 will still hit.
When she was asked “when was the last time you been intimate with someone” and she smirked and said I’m not gonna answer that..she gave me sugar mama vibes
Doesn’t want to cook or clean….. Wants a man who makes 100k …. Wanna live separately… Yo my homie can do all of that for you AND he makes billions per year! His name is Uncle Sam 😁
@@R.Yvette.X. just a weird question but do you watched every videos? You seem to comment on every single I’m seeing and I’m not even watching half of the videos 😂
If she’s serious, her best bet is to find an older man (over 65) who wants companionship but doesn’t want to remarry or live with a woman. Kendra’s facial expressions are hilarious. The audience knows EXACTLY what she’s thinking with her facial expression.
@@Midnight65883 Its okay you dont have to believe it. Brookings has you on average at 65. Black men die four years earlier than white men. Life expectancy at birth and at age 65. I know hard pill to swallow but thats the truth. That stat is of last year 2-26-21.
@@Midnight65883Unfortunately for y’all it’s true, yes black women demographic are 80% are obese but black males demographic are 70% obese and I think you guys deflect from that by focusing on black women’s health instead of your own. Not to mention the major heart issues, rip Kevin Scamuels
I know men in her age range that wouldn't mind living separate and make 100k with their retirement. My mom had that type of arrangement with a guy she's no longer dating but I see it with her group of friends so what she's asking for is out there🤷♀️
Shahrazad Ali wrote a book in 1989 when she said most black women share men. The gentleman your mother is entertaining is entertaining other women with the same arrangement that he has with your mother. What your mother and her friends are doing is nothing new.
@J. Daniels they were committed to each other and he actually wanted to get married but my mom said no. When I say her friends, that includes men. Her group of friends showed me that not all 6 fig men want a bunch of women but the right 1.
She's asking for a bit too much and she came on a dating show. I think she wants somebody she's a call a man when she needs them but there's more to it she's probably too tired to start adding more requested you as relationship goes on what she said in the video doesn't hold true for long
Kendra three of your married friends can't speak for all of married women 😂😂😂😂😂 some married women have to work more than 40 hours and that is showing how they care
I don’t think people understand 100k is not a lot in the Bay Area in CA. I know it doesn’t sound like it but she’s actually being modest about that part tbh
She will make a great side chick. She only wants to see you once or twice a month, doesnt want to meet your family, doesnt want to cook, etc She is a great side chick
The great side chick with AARP benefits oh, you trying to get senior movie discounts
Damn you’re right 😮
@@luvoshun that's an advertisement she put out but none of her past relationships when that easy. I think she's going to have a man that she can audition in control. Most men ain't going for that that's why she single
Baby I’m confused
So she wants to be a 56 year old side piece
Got it
She wants a MAN WITH BENEFITS..... She does not want a RELATIONSHIP PERIOD.
She already has a side dude (10:50)..
Right!.....which makes her delusional, narrow-minded and crazy. No one wants her! FACTS
If she doesn't want a relationship it's nothing wrong with being single until you want one
Kendra should stop entertain delusional individuals, the show is getting big a comedic reputation at this point
Right... sometimes it seems scripted.
Exactly!! I swear I thought I was the only one!!
It was like that from day 1
It’s a government Psyop to make Black people look stupid
I agree. I've lost interest in the show because too many people are just looking for attention.
She's almost 60 out here calling herself a Boss & sharing her body with a man she wouldn't even share her life with. Plus she wants a serious relationship with a man she's not even willing to do laundry for, or see regularly...but expects him to be faithful. She just needs to keep hooking up with that other guy. No guy in his right mind making 100K will take what she's offering. Which isn't much.
Facts !
I swear! She sounds so detached from what the realities of what a relationship means. Committed without commitment. Only in her mind this sounds right but if you're a real woman you'll immediately know this reeks of bs and selfishness to the highest power! 😂
@@JustMe-zg7qo RIGHT!!! All I heard was pure foolishness. We should strive for wisdom as we age. Not just out here getting old with a stunted mindset
If her name was different,I would swear this was my aunt 😳🤣
@@rogers5622 😂😂😂
If he doesn’t live w/ her and instead he lives by himself, why does he need to make $100,000?
Because he would need to be able afford a certain lifestyle.
Good point because a dude making 40k could easily afford to see a women twice a month
Exactly! He could work at KFC, and afford 2 dates per month 😂
So he can afford to live on his own!
Travel
The fact she feels comfortable with her request speaks volumes to our society
Well Kendra did say her request is fair so its no surprise.
Kendra says fair to most of this garbage people say. She’s trying to increase viewership and subscribers.
This lady wants a rotation!
She is basically like a child at dinner time. They only want to eat the dessert, but not the peas and carrots.
It speaks volumes that setting standards is unusual to the blk community. That is actually very sad and disturbing
She’s delusional. She’s basically trying to sell a used 1970 Honda for 100K 🤣🤣🤣
Lol!! 😂😂
Actually, it is a 1967 Honda. 😂
😂😂🤣🤣 y’all ain’t shit 😭
But this Honda got low miles baby! #classic
Wow lololol
I am not 50 and I understand what she's asking for and saying. This is what a lot of mature people desire both Men and Women. She was very nice in her explanation and Kendra was acting like she didnt understand. I respect what she's saying.
She didn't come across well. What does she want? And what does the man get out of it? And why doesn't she just stick to her current casual partner?
@GeeGeeTheJuice exactly!! She spoke very well with her expectations. I understood it fully as well. Not sure why Kendra and some other confused people acting like she was coming from a different planet. She was expressing what a lot of mature, independent, adults want until they are certain of what the next level will like. Some people just tries to make it over complicated.
Delusional 😂😂
The bitch is lost in translation.
All she had to say was I'm looking for companionship....a lover....not a full serious relationship at this time. Simple!
Kendra gets less patient every week 😂
She really does, and I don't like it, but I get because these ppl watch her show on a regular basis and then come on with the foolishness
@@harvemedharvemed7796 She’s slowly absorbing that KS ideology lol
🤣🤣🤣
Imagine when she starts doing the daily shows lmao 😆😆 her therapist is probably exhausted
@@user-id3bu4vn8q . 😀
She got a better chance at choking the air, then finding the man going for her bullshit. 🤦🏽
😂😂😭
LOL, never heard that one. She's delusional enough to believe she can choke air.
😂😂😂😂
Hmmm....I wanna see someone try that....🤔
Lmaoo 😂
She definitely needs a 70yr old 😂. She’s like the person that goes to a job interview telling the interviewer what they’re NOT gonna do if they get the job
💯
Wow so when you turn 56 which is not really old ! You would date a 70 year old ! Lol 😂 come on now! You can’t dictate what age a person should have! Most younger men like older ladies, im sure she could get a man in their 40’s or early 50’s
@@pinkbuttercup2023 nah it’s not her age that makes me say she should get a 70yr old. It’s the fact that she’s really not even trying to have sex. That’s the main draw of a new relationship and she’s telling a man from the jump it’s not happening that often lol. If she gets an older gentleman she can have her perfect relationship like Morgan Freeman and the lady in Driving Miss Daisy lol
Are you suggesting that she doesn't want to be hired for the job?.
@@juniorleslie4804 sounds like it lol
Kendra needs to start asking people if they have anyone on a sexual retainer. It's dangerous to walk into a situation where a man / woman has been sexually available to someone else for months or years. She just causally shared that bit of information. Maybe it's just me, but that's a big deal.
You can ask that on your own...
It’s disgusting. That means she’s promiscuous. Red flag 🚩.
You don’t know whether the person is being honest or not. How many times have you heard a person say that they haven’t been intimate in a year and you said to yourself, they lying?!!? So, vet that person yourself.
Well she does ask “when we’re you last intimate with someone?”
It’s asking wayyy tooo much from KG
Upto YOU to vet wisely and ask the proper questions
We are all adults no babies here 😎😎
@Bryan grow up! Learn how to vet are you a baby? 🫣🫣
I don’t know why this is confusing. Most women who were formally married who are over 50 do not want to become a maid or a nurse to some dude who has not taken care of her her whole life. She’s done the wife gig before and she doesn’t wanna do it. Why does she have to be wrong for that? Older women and men by and large just want to enjoy their life
Then buy a dog
I agree.
Exactly!!!
What rational woman wouldn't want a partner to share ,build ,& take care of one another in their old age... ? She seems damaged?
Indeed. Let the ignorant ppl deflect.
The men she’s looking for is checking for her daughter lol
Gross
I wonder if her daughter is also delusional
Granddaughter too...
@@R.Yvette.X. probably
Right😂
She's not delusional. There are plenty of men and women that have this kind of arrange. It's called LAT(Living Apart Together) couples/family.They can be married/unmarried, with or without children. I think this woman is at a stage in her life where she's looking for a companion, but she's not looking to take care of any man! Those days are over and she's trying to enjoy this stage of her life transitioning into retirement. I dont blame her...
Furthermore... there are men that are the same way. They dont want a woman up in their space.
She better find an average earning man then
Makes sense what she is looking for, she wants a life partner to do the fun things in life such as traveling, for company and occasional sex etc. She has a right to what she desires, not everyone is looking for a traditional relationship, as long as she communicates and presents herself as authentic and transparent I see no harm. Not everyone wants to be a wife, have the load of “house duties” such as cleaning and cooking. Good luck to her!
Present yourself to her as an option then😂😂😂😂, if u say you are a female what's wrong with women dating women this is 2023😂😂😂
It made sense up until she stated that they'd see each other twice a month and he must stay faithful...While that request is not impossible ,it is indeed highly improbable....I wish her all the best though....I hope it happens for her..
Kendra look like a video game character that sends you on a pointless mission 😂😂😂😂
Carmen Santiago 💃🏽💃🏽
😂😂😂😂
That bay area weed will fuck you up
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Sending you in mission to buy cheesecake, which she won't even eat
She wants a Holiday relationship
Making enough money to travel and maybe drop by and fix something and lay up sometime
She’s looking for just a good time … no more room for growth just only a casket 🤷🏾♂️🤦🏿… people really have became content with abnormality … sad but true 🙏🏿
Sounds like fwb to me
What y’all don’t get is she’s ok with being ALONE cause that’s more peaceful than having a man who doesn’t meet her needs while she’s constantly meeting his. She has a backbone I love her.
So hit her up you lesbian 😂
Thank you and I don't need validation from a man...I don't have a lack of attention ❤
I feel very similar to her and I don’t have a problem getting a man. Some men are givers and prefer to spoil their woman 💯
@DJ Baby $: correct me if I’m wrong, she doesn’t need OR require a husband, she simply needs a distant boyfriend??
@@done5060 ask her she’s on this thread lol
These delusional old women are responsible for raising these delusional young women. This sounds absolutely ridiculous
*Absolutely Ridiculous!!!*
Definitely past the wall 😂
Kendra really doesn’t understand this woman saying she doesn’t want to cook and clean all the time, and be required to do so? Why is that such a ridiculous requirement? EVERYTHING she said made complete sense to me. I’ve had what she’s looking for, and it went great!
She might as well get with Street Pharmacist Dr. Pookie and his assistant Ray Ray. They make 100k, they are happy to live in separate locations, and they're certainly not soft men. A perfect match for her!
But..but.. They for the skreets!!!
She lives in the Bay Area, 100k is not crazy
That's me and my guy...we are happy going on 7 years, and we have our own places, it so good to have your space, when you get a certain age (not remarrying). Also, no, we can't be seeing other people...if we want to do that, then we will just not be together. Plus, someone that age should be making a good amount of money, i totally agree with that.
Why are woman hesitant to say their age once over a certain age.?. The man who has an issue with your age isn't for you.
They dont want to come out of fantasy land
Lol most of men don’t want them at their age with their nonsense.
Embarrassed to be old. I know a woman in her 70s that lies. Her son doesn't even know her correct age 😂
@@mama2flythesidehustlequeen164 😂😂😂
I'm 100% with this lady and totally understand where she's coming from.
That’s why y’all single lmao
@@Kyle97492 when will y'all get it thru your thick skulls that it's not 1970 anymore and that's no longer an insult to woman??? 😂😂😂
@@tee7954 buy a dog!
@@tee7954 I can smells plants in your house
@@Kyle97492 not an insult either. Try harder.
I don't know if I agree with everything she is asking or expecting from a man but I promise you, I've seen women like this and they do have men that they see who have the same expectations. They both have their own home and live separate but yet are together. There are marriages that live apart by choice. They were all over 50. To each is own.
There are lots of older women who are looking for this same type of situation. I hear it all the time. They enjoy their freedom and are just looking for good companionship. They've done their time... I get where she's coming from. She's ready to cruise. Not take care of another person.
Exactly. The people in the comments don't understand. At my age I don't want to cook and clean for no man. I love men who cook and clean and see it as a shared responsibility when living with a lady.
I get your point. I’m trying to understand why any one would want to do all of that after a certain age. It sounds desperate!
I’m only 32 and I understand. Been with my spouse for 16 years. Shoot we need a housekeeper bc this ain’t it.
Yeah and they'll die alone just like her. Men with money ain't settling for them
Sounds like friends with benefits.
She's looking for a WEEKEND lover 🤫
More like companionship at a certain age I’ll say I want a companion
Okkkaaay Jamie Foxx "weeeeekkkkennnd lovvvverrrr"
Why on earth did this seem so difficult to understand? I don't get it. She explained it very well. She does not want to have to go through the "let me prove how good I am for you by cooking, cleaning etc.". She's tired of auditioning. She's over it; likely because she got the short end of the stick of that. Half the folks (especially the women) are the main ones downing her and haven't got a clue what its like dating when older. I'm 36 and understood her the very first time. LMAO. She seems like she does well and still likes to have fun. All the best.
Ma’am, ummm, no. At best, a bus driver who needs you to give him his insulin shots awaits you
True 👍 😂
Lmao you are so stupid I read that and nearly died! 🤣
Nahhh a bus driver needs dinner when he gets home
Omg I laughed so hard I had to lay on the floor to catch my breathe.💀
😂😂😂😂😂😂
56 and playing like she 19. Very obvious why she still alone.
My thoughts exactly!
And men do the same thing at the same age. Sad on both sides.
@@harvemedharvemed7796 lol
It’s not an equal comparison…most women money (financial security) is a top priority…most older men have that.
I’m 41 but I could still manage to pay a bill or two or three if need be. I’m not wealthy but iam well off…that’s desirable to not just older women but younger women also…so the competition amongst women is much stiffer. Men not so much…not too many 25 or 30 year olds that have what a middle aged man has.
BW are psychologically childish.
to each it’s own. She honestly made total sense to me. I promise there’s a man out there who wants this as well. And I don’t necessarily believe they would cheat. People who know what they want don’t cheat. I think it could work even if it did seem like she’s looking for a needle in a hay stack.
My husband lives in Paris, and I live in London, we have homes in both countries, Every Thursday afternoon, either I travel via the Eurostar for 1.45 hour, to Paris and we have a blissful time until Sunday night, or he travels to London. It works for us! When we see each other we are so excited that we do not waste time arguing about trivial things. During the lockdown, we were together at our home in London, and he had his man cave and I had my space; it was wonderful.
True I know one and he would perfect for hecause that's what he wants and I was not that girl!
Only goofy people talk like this
@@arthurjennings5924 thank you, I’m surprised by so many of these ignorant comments
As a married woman, I enjoy being a nurturer and making sure my family is taken care of; HOWEVER, I get what she’s saying. She wants a man to want but not need her. Most men don’t technically need a woman to do any of what she mentioned. They just expect it under gender roles 🤷🏽♀️I think she’ll find someone but depending on the man even in older age, the non-consistent sex may cause him not to be as “committed” as she would like.
I swear if I was a man I wouldn’t tolerate nothing and would guard my seed with my life! These women are literally crazy.
She is not crazy. She is older. She is not trying to build a family. She only wants company sometimes.
@Ruby W. LMFAO!!! No.....she wants a relationship on HER TERMS only, which is crazy. Somehow she's found someone to have sex with, she needs to stay friends with him. Because she'll still be looking when she's 66.
Are you suggesting that modern women are crazy?
@@mkmeabeliever And the man she’s having sex with can’t have sex with any other women! Chile… 🙄
@Junior Leslie LMAO! I didn't "suggest" anything. I specifically spoke on THIS WOMAN'S delusion. I have no idea what modern women are doing. But MANY women call Kendra's show with her same delusion. But....SHE'S CRAZY! And it will be highly difficult for her to find the man she's looking for. Facts.
I know plenty of people have issues with a lot of what this woman has said, but living separately sounds kinda nice.
Then just don’t expect monogamy or commitment or access to his resources. You’re on your own.
@buffalo.black Do people who live in the same house not get cheated on? I'm sure most of them wanted monogamy. And most men, like most people, don't really have "resources." You live check to check.
Yeeeees! I must agree!
It keeps the spark going ✨️
Living separately is one thing but separate states, don't wanna meet his family, wants a "secret reply", doesn't want to be required to do anything, sex a couple times a month...
She wants a FWB who only committed to her but is faithful? I don’t know anymore
Yep she wants an exclusive FWB.....its a thing.
@@alp.9672 that's what I was thinking too lol
@@alp.9672 While she has a dude on the side..
Yelp
She ushered herself into the “only for late night fun” category.
It's almost summer time and these older jazz festival women be on the prowl!!!
Gahddem
😂😂 they either looking for "Young bucks" they can rule and get their backs blown out by from time to time or either a "hoochie daddy" that's gon spend it on em, these women ain't slick lol
LULz "older jazz festival women".
They be out thick on Jefferson St here in Nashville. I think the fest is in June. 😂
😂😂😂 the description is spot on!
She lost at 57 wow...100k man wants a baddie not an oldie
Kendra, this is one you could’ve deleted 😒
Right she delusional and Aggy
So true this was a wasted post.
Shes basically saying she doesnt want to be held accountable for anything, with someone
Right.....which is delusional and ridiculous.
She wants a friend with benefits.
Correct!😂
It is odd that in 2023 people are still associating task such as cooking and cleaning with women. If you’re “traditional” male provider and female dependent then okay… but I see this even in 50/50 relationships also. Should be equally shared tasks.
You better preach! Cause I’m a career oriented woman, contributing to the household, so hubby can wash and fold his own clothes and he can cook and clean too! Definitely should not be “the wife’s job” and ain’t no way a lady should be washing clothes and cooking daily and working full time living with a guy and they not married! Nope he would definitely be washing his own clothes and cooking sometimes
I agree with her 100% 😂 I’m only 28 but I’m done w the cooking and the cleaning Chile.
Right😂
Period.
And y’all gone be right where she is a 50 lmao
@@coalworldz that’s where I wanna be. In PEACE. I don’t desire marriage or children.
@@AminahMightthey ALWAYS THINK SOMEBODY NEED THEIR RAGEDY ASS! LOL
I completely understand what she’s saying and I’m married 🤷🏾♀️ seems more like a friend with benefits
If nothing else Shelly looks great!! I would have never guessed she was 56. She looks to be in like her mid 40s.
Yea, she takes care of herself for sure looks mid 40s like you said.
This is what taking care of yourself looks like? Man I wish I would roll over and look at this bullshit in the morning. I would just masterbate.
Stop the cap🧢. she looks her age
It's clear to me that The women that come on the KG show, don't take the time to read the comment section. 😂. We are your conscious speaking!
Don’t do no type of research. It’s like they just want the attention and backlash.
I just find it funny that most comments are calling this women delusional because of her certain requirements.not everyone is going to have the same standard of dating preferences
Exactly, like isn’t that the point of the show! Nothing wrong with her not wanting to wash a man’s clothes! Her request are not unreasonable because if he was washing his clothes and cooking with he met her then he can continue and would continue if he is feeling her and feels those things are not important to him
She's delusional
I don’t think
She’s delusional, she knows what she wants. Yet this was not the show to call in on and be critiqued. She just isn’t as needy as some people. She is okay not being self less and giving her entire life and all
Or get energy over. Do you sis!
I agree
Exactly and Kendra started talking about well I cook for my man because…….! It’s crazy that she was giving so much pushback regarding this lady’s wants, she should know that people are different and just because her requirements or her vision of a relationship is different that does not make this woman delusional! I felt that it was ridiculous was Kendra to keep saying well why don’t you date them! Smh obviously there is reason, they didn’t click or something but I see nothing delusional about this woman! And she is pretty and is well spoken
@@lomaxlomax6152 she is delusional.shes 56 years old which is too old for men around her age.she won't get the same treatment as women in their 20s and 30s.
exactly!
Yeah she's delusional if she thinks a man would settle for her
Sheiiittt I don’t want to cook and clean for a man I don’t live with either. I don’t want to audition for a man’s respect, care and love.
She just conducted a class on “How to price yourself out of the market”
😂😂😂😂
As my Nasty Azz stepfather would say "In a New York Minute"
I bet my social security check this month her daughter is a baby mama with multiple baby daddies.
👍🏿👍🏿
Please cashapp me, I am not a grandmother and my daughter is in a healthy committed relationship.....so keep your coins for a rainy day!
Girl get a puppy
🐶🐶🐶
Hell no get a grown dog if you give her a puppy it’ll be dead within the week
@@TyroneLangam 😂😂😂😂😂💯
😂😂😂
I feel her She just looking for a companion not a serious relationship. That's Cool!
She CURRENTLY has an intimate partner that she sees on a regular basis but she is SEEKING serious relationship with a person itshe doesn't want to be with him a couple of times a month.
🤔
Please... can someone explain?
I'm confused 😕
He’s a broke pookie she wants a wealthy simp
She’s confused as well!
She wants a companionship without the traditional relationship. It’s crazy. I know. She absolutely is double minded.
The foolery of it all! This is just asinine .
she needs to adopt a pet it seems.
This is embarrassing. This woman is just a few years younger than my mother, but acts this way.
Sounds like you should call your mom and tell her thank you ❤️😂
What your Momma look like tho'?
acts what way tf
@@GeeGeeTheJuice she acts like she's 16, not 56. And actually more 16 y/o's have more wherewithal than she does
This woman was all over the place emotionally! Her brain is so scattered, with complicated and delusional requests. She is stuck in her ways and most likely will not compromise. Her last relationship was in 2017. It definitely damaged her! 😮She needs to heal from that last relationship.She’s trying to set a new standard on what she requires, however, she needs to get out of that situationship the present random man that she’s having s*x with....🧐🤨😳 She is not going to find a older man that will put up with that nonsense! Not to mention, last time I checked old men want a home cook meal, because they’re afraid to go out and eat. Their immune systems are not the same. They need home cooked meals and someone to help them clean!😣👀🙄 She comes with too much drama and no one signing up for that! 😱😬😐✌🏽❤️⭐️🙏🏽🙏🏼
This is starting to feel like a maury Jerry springer channel instead of dating.
This lady is pushing 60 talking about “i dont wanna see my man everyday”
I don't blame her
Men over 50 can’t perform more than 3 times a month??😂😂😂 My husband is 56 and can go and go and go!! I’m tired😂😂😂
😂😂
Who told her that every man is different I'm 50 and I still can perform she is cute and pretty to be 56❤
That’s good but there are a lot of 50 and older that can’t get it up. They got bad back and knees. Cant see but I know exactly what she means.
@@tam6011 What you should say is they can't get it up with YOU. You told on yourself when you said, "a lot of 50 and older ..." Sounds like a lot of older men are not turned on by you. They may be performing just fine with something that is young and sexy. Some older women show up with 2 and 3 stomachs and wonder why their man isn't aroused.
Thanks for giving me hope...I'm glad it is not true for everyone
We don't eat in my house if I don't cook!!! I remember I was sick for a week...and wasn't shyt cooked in here for an entire week...so I feel her...being the required person is ALOT!
I feel her 100%. Being a good wife is a lot of work and that's okay for people to feel that way, they don't have to get married if they do not want to or shack up and be pretend wifey. Nothing about that is shameful. Especially if they have been there and done that. If the married women who are your friends like cooking all the time kudos to them. I loathe it, but I do it anyway and push my feelings aside everyday. Doesn't mean people like me don't love our families. Everyone is different, not everyone loves the stereotypical female tasks. I never had an interest in cooking, when I was on my own I worked all the time, created web designs, art, music and I barely ate and I was happy that way. But my family does care and needs food, so I do what's required because I do care about their well being. If I was in her shoes, I don't think I would want to be a wife again either, I would be somewhere trying to relax in peace and quiet.
I fully understand this quest... Grown ass woman
She clearly doesn’t want anybody if she thinks anyone will put up with that mess
Delusional
😂😂😂 I don't know why that was so funny! That ain't no mess that's some straight bs!
This is why you should not be a single woman in your 50’s.
Why? I know several women in there 50s not married & they happy. They have friends but they don’t even want relationships. After most women divorce at 40/50 they don’t want to be in a relationship again.
@@daniella8400 oh no sister.. not the “I know some” dialogue. It’s a terrible idea to plan your life to be a single woman in your 50’s.. especially IF you are wanting to date.
@@waltwash no one plans to be single in their 50’s. But then again marriage is not everyone’s cup of tea. Some people enjoy the solitude. That includes me.
@@lizettemuna3234 there is a reason why people don’t plan it.. it’s a bad idea and not a good way to life/relationship/family plan. We should not do the “but I know someone” thinks in general conversation around this stuff.
@@waltwash I understand your point of view. I am single with no children and husband by choice. Who’s to say when I should be married or single? It’s my life and my choice. Marriage is not for everyone. I am living my life and found what’s best for me. I own my choices.
On behalf of all 50 year old men, let me just say, I can get it up more than three times a month. 😆😆 And if I get that blue pill in me, you better clear your schedule.
Hey!!! 😂
😂😂😂
😂😂
Hence your name ?? 👀👀👀👀
@@zouk-uo9dn 😆😆
Over 50 and moving like a teenager.
I see absolutely nothing wrong with her wants! She is right, you shouldn’t be looking for a woman to wash your clothes! If a man is looking for a homemaker then this is not the woman for him simple as thats. Absolutely nothing wrong with not wanting to be around someone 24/7
Just so everyone knows, the poverty line in the Bay Area is $76K to $114K (as defined by the local counties) depending on the specific location. So asking for $100K there really isn't asking for much.
Thank you for adding this. Normally I roll my eyes at these high income requests, but in the Bay Area…Hawaii…etc, the cost of living is astronomical.
Wow...thank you for the information
That’s what I was thinking🥴
Thats for a household!! TWO WORKING PEOPLE. Big difference from one person making 100k
I’m glad you mentioned this. Someone living in an area where there’s a very high cost of living is not being unreasonable with asking for someone who makes $100K. $100K in the New York City metro area is the equivalent of $50K in the Orlando metro area.
Wait a minute I don’t disagree with her because I am a 50-year-old woman and I have a partner but I’m getting to the point of my life to where I’m doing all the cooking and cleaning. I don’t need to do it cause I can take care of myself I don’t mind doing something for you, but at this point I’m over the wife deal.
I’m 32 And I’m definitely over it
Have you communicated that with your partner?
I'm so glad that I saw this comment because when it comes to that part of her interview, she sounds just like all of the older, single women that I know. All of the older women who've either been married or had a long-term relationship with a man and raised their children aren't much interested in being in a relationship anymore. Some of them are happy with zero dealings with a man, and the others enjoy some occasional companionship, but they'd never go full time and live with a man again. They've BEEN over it and enjoy being to themselves, in their own space, for the most part. Shoot, the older married women that I know don't even want their situation anymore, they're just dealing with it because they've been together with their husbands for so long. They'd love to be completely single or just have occasional companionship. Lol. She definitely did have her cringe moments, but what she wants seems pretty normal for that age group.
@@brwnserenity2351 I hear that but then why go to the trouble of calling in to a dating show? She wants sex a few times a month and a travel companion, she's already sleeping with someone so what is she really trying to find through Kendra's show. Is the man she's willing to sleep with not good enough to fulfil her minimal requirements?
Thats all well and good. Sounds like women in yall situation just need occasional peen. So with that, his finances, number of children or whether he can travel should be irrelevant…
“Petco, where the pets go. WOOF!”
Meow??? 🐈⬛🐈🐱
@@R.Yvette.X. lmao according to her, you’ll only hear meow 1-2 times a month 😂🥴💀
@@nmmboy LOL. 😂😂😂
I’m 33 and I feel the same way. This life is mine. I’m not gonna spent it meeting somebody son’s needs. How bout I meet my needs and you meet yours and we link up and have fun sometimes?? At the end of the road we all gon die so we all have to live the way we see fit. No regretting it.
She’s more selfish than my aunt Jalissa. That’s why my aunt is always getting cheated on.
😂😂😂😂
Omg we almost have the same name 😅
😂🥶
Cheating is never an excuse. Walk out of the relationship- don’t cheat.
She looks good for her age ❤
That is what I was thinking.
shoot your shot
Thats why she's still out here playing these getting laid games, cause someone will still hit. Won't be love, won't be companionship, but some1 will still hit.
Her attitude looks bad for every age.
My auntie is living this exact life travel and companionship.She’s in her 60s and her man is 60 something. They’re both retired
She doesn’t want a relationship… she wants an acquaintance that she can sleep with or a situationship.. real relationships require more depth
She’s already sleeping with someone. Get that guy to be all of what to don’t need…
I didnt realize old people still did situationships smh...sad
Getting good with your questioning Kendra 👍🏾
She doesn’t need a man. She needs a sybian 😂😂😂😂
I had to look sybian up 😮whew chiile! 😂
Hahaha but the sybian would have to print out 6 figures a year in addition to rocking her boat
😂😂😂
I had to look it up also, 😂
I've got to finish reading these comments before I look up "sybian"!🤣🤣🤣
And this is why she's 56 never married. 😮
When she was asked “when was the last time you been intimate with someone” and she smirked and said I’m not gonna answer that..she gave me sugar mama vibes
She is the rep of so many of these types of females, men listen and learn
Shelly too old to be having immature demands💁🏽♂️
Doesn’t want to cook or clean…..
Wants a man who makes 100k ….
Wanna live separately…
Yo my homie can do all of that for you AND he makes billions per year! His name is Uncle Sam 😁
Uncle Sam for the streets though!!! 😂😂
@@R.Yvette.X. EBT Eddie
@@R.Yvette.X. just a weird question but do you watched every videos? You seem to comment on every single I’m seeing and I’m not even watching half of the videos 😂
@@R.Yvette.X. Slanging iron worldwide lol
@Kankala Not all. This is one of my favorite channels, so I'm here a lot.
She is nothing but a side chick.. she is definitely NOT marriage material..
This show is a snapshot into how different people think about themselves and how they show up for others.
If she’s serious, her best bet is to find an older man (over 65) who wants companionship but doesn’t want to remarry or live with a woman.
Kendra’s facial expressions are hilarious. The audience knows EXACTLY what she’s thinking with her facial expression.
How many men over 65 and travel. Tbh black men are dying at 60.
@@Midnight65883 Its okay you dont have to believe it. Brookings has you on average at 65. Black men die four years earlier than white men. Life expectancy at birth and at age 65. I know hard pill to swallow but thats the truth. That stat is of last year 2-26-21.
@@tam6011it’s about 69-70
And if that’s what she wants and the man lives by himself, why does he need to make $100,000?
@@Midnight65883Unfortunately for y’all it’s true, yes black women demographic are 80% are obese but black males demographic are 70% obese and I think you guys deflect from that by focusing on black women’s health instead of your own. Not to mention the major heart issues, rip Kevin Scamuels
To sum it up: she wants companionship, basically. I don't know why she just didn't say that!
Nothing more troubling than a confused person who is convinced that they make sense….
She want a man that doesn’t need her at all not even for a booty call 😅😅😅😅😅
Make it make sense
She’s an older Capricorn woman. Wow I feel her. I’m empowered. 😊
I know men in her age range that wouldn't mind living separate and make 100k with their retirement. My mom had that type of arrangement with a guy she's no longer dating but I see it with her group of friends so what she's asking for is out there🤷♀️
Is that what women will want? A dude to mess with until it's over and she's single again? Why not just stay single and enjoy solitude?
Shahrazad Ali wrote a book in 1989 when she said most black women share men. The gentleman your mother is entertaining is entertaining other women with the same arrangement that he has with your mother. What your mother and her friends are doing is nothing new.
@J. Daniels they were committed to each other and he actually wanted to get married but my mom said no. When I say her friends, that includes men. Her group of friends showed me that not all 6 fig men want a bunch of women but the right 1.
She's asking for a bit too much and she came on a dating show. I think she wants somebody she's a call a man when she needs them but there's more to it she's probably too tired to start adding more requested you as relationship goes on what she said in the video doesn't hold true for long
Those men aren’t looking for 56 year old women with masculine energy
In 2023 if you are past 50 and are not making 90K and up. Something is wrong
“ uh uh, get somebody else to do it” is basically what she’s saying.
I will never dating a 50+ woman like this. 😂
Here for the comments 😂
Ain’t no way she’s serious..
She works for the government, I guess they tought her how to be a BSer
Especially at her big age! Can’t make this up. It’s actually quite sad.
@@TyroneLangam She drive buses for Muni.
😂🤣😅
🖤❤️💚
Omg she looks soooo good ! I thought she was younger! You go girl
YOU A DAMN LIE😂
shoot your shot then
That’s a gahdeamn lie.
She’s a disaster and a very selfish one at that. She thinks men are toys, to be enjoyed and put away when not in use. She’ll find out the hard way.
If by she look younger you thought she was 48 then maybe
She want a new link up 🤣
Bottomline
Age used to come with wisdom and self awareness...
Now it comes with "Yes Kween!" mentality 🙄
Kendra three of your married friends can't speak for all of married women 😂😂😂😂😂 some married women have to work more than 40 hours and that is showing how they care
I don’t think people understand 100k is not a lot in the Bay Area in CA. I know it doesn’t sound like it but she’s actually being modest about that part tbh
This woman was once in her 20s, and the mindset has probably been the same all these years.
😂
What is she smoking? I need it to get through this work week.