Interesting how she said, "Nobody cared enough to pay attention." As a mother, that's YOUR job to pay attention to your child and make sure that they are safe.
@@JaleelahBaise if he’s already been sat on once , why leave him there again 💀then he was left there long enough for someone to sit on him💀 common sense would say don’t put him there again but ok
Exactly. And then just name 25 excuses... And never answer the question after all that. She really exposed what kind of person she is with her non stop making excuses and snappy attitude with Steve simply for asking obvious questions.
@@meganmose You realise that there's a HUUUUUUGGGEEE middle ground between "perfect" and.... "newborn baby beating, criminal degenerate losers", right?
He's 100% right. If a pregnant woman calls the police and alleges DV... the guy is going in cuffs immediately is she has so much as a red mark. If there is ZERO evidence of anything whatsoever, they will force the man to separate and give her a card full of all the various FREE resource centers and organizations. This is because police use a horrible system called then Duluth model in dv cases, a system created by three women that have all admitted they explicitly lied and misrepresented or entirely made up data to create it. The system basically boils down to "always assume the female is the victim unless clear and compelling evidence suggests otherwise". Police departments still use this dumb system despite the fact that women are more likely to engage in one sided domestic violence than men. So unfortunately Steve is right. There's zero chance that she called police pregnant living in a car and alleged that the guy was abusing her and she couldn't get away from him. Even if there was ZERO evidence of abuse, they would have made him separate from her, gave her a temporary restraining order, and directed her to a free shelter for either abused or pregnant women. The only way things would have went the way she claims is if SHE was being abusive , called the police and the police basically did her a favor because she was pregnant and didn't arrest her.
I was gna say the same, but I live in the UK instead an it's jus as bad x my ex physically assaulted me, I managed to get him out, only coz he heard a car, I rang the police but no patrol , 5hrs later they turned up, after that I had to put up with constant verbal abuse and stalking for 3 months before he went to court an I got a restraining order, they never arrested him either but rather gave him a week to hand himself in, day befire this happened they knew I was in danger an said they would put a red alert on my property so If i needed police they would be straight there, haha yeh as if, sorry bout the life story, it's only so u could get the jift
She went full blown victimhood way too fast. I'm glad Steve applied pressure and didn't let off even at the end. It's not about her , it's about the baby.
100% don't make excuses, own up to your mistakes and learn from them and better yourself so you can be there to raise the child in a healthy environment
He was way too soft on her IMO. She continued to play the victim card when she should've been focusing on her child. And her very obviously fake and exaggerated crying really fking pissed me off not gonna lie. She may not have been "abusive" to her child, but she was EXTREMELY neglectful which is arguably just as bad.
@@JeremiahLOsborne Awareness of what? This woman is despicable! We all have problems we all have challenges She can't possibly expect sympathy given the horrendous injuries of a child on her watch. Outrageous!
@@madamvaudelune3298 she passed the almighty lie detector test, she already took parenting classes, and she is making progress. What more do you want from her? People like you are her biggest problem. Judgmental knownothings. You have no idea what her problems are. She was disowned by her mother, for the love of God. Did you miss that part? That's the kind of example that she had of how to be a mother to her own child.
My daughter is a year and I cannot even barely tell her no! What could an innnocrnt tiny baby do to deserve that! A baby cries he’s hungry tired or just wants affection!! And why wasn’t her baby sleeping in a crib/pack and play where the baby would be safe!! I keep a pack an play for my daugher at my moms my Mom in laws so she has a safe spot on each floor! It’s not fucking hard!
I should also say she has a crib upstairs as well! But I’m saying there’s no reason a baby should be sat on! A pack and play is something ppl would buy It for ur shower! She was selfish she’s a horrible mom
SAME!! I have a 3 year old & can’t imagine ever hurting her or anybody else hurting her. That’ll be the day I go to jail. Congratulations! 🫶🏽 Enjoy it, they grow up so fast. It feels like my Leilani was just born yesterday. 🥹
I was carrying my baby downstairs once and slipped...I threw myself onto my back and cluched him to my chest so I would take the impact not him...I was badly bruised but he was fine thank goodness.
Look how she stopped crying as soon as she changed the conversation with her mom from her to the baby. While she was talking about herself, she was sobbing. Once it went to the baby, the crying stopped.
Most people are super cautious around a new born. I don’t understand how a baby can be sat on once, never mind three times. I was expecting her to pass the lie detector, but that just shows her level of irresponsibility.
I was raising my daughter alone at 20. She graduates this year from high school and is going on to a prestigious college. It was tough the first 4 years of her life, but we made it. No abuse and zero neglect. But, I did meet my now husband when she was 3 and we became a family when she was 4, so from then on she had two parents. Every child needs both parents. That's why God made it so, or we would be laying eggs like a bird with no male input. Sometimes it takes a village. Or at least it should. Relationships with grandparents, aunts, and uncles are just as important. Not all of us have that. My kids haven't. My Dad passed before my daughter was 2.
It truly is horrible how people will have children and not protect them. and worse, lie about it, and fake their emotions. Children deserve better. Always.
Babies bones are still spongey. Theyre difficult to break hence why its usually always recorded as abuse if no decent reason for accidental breaking like high impact fall or car accident etc. I can't imagine sitting on him and getting quickly back up would cause this. Not unless you literally sat and squished about for a while or something
Sad story.. My heart breaks for her son & the pain he endured. As we’ve seen before (and here today), just because a parent has passed, doesn’t mean they weren’t neglectful etc….& it doesn’t make their mistakes any less... But I hope this was the wake up call she needed to see the severity of the situation & that she truly has gotten/is getting her life together the way she said.
She chose to stay with people in an environment that was unsafe for her child.. she's selfish. And, if we go with her bs story, she stayed somewhere where people were constantly sitting on her newborn baby. One sitting or roll over on a newborn can kill it.. 4 different occurrences, if you believe her..is BEYOND not caring about your baby..
If she really loved her son, then she would’ve done better. People have told me no a lot. And it’s not because they hate my guts. It’s because they love me.
If no one pays attention and kids are running around, then you don’t leave your baby laying around… I have four kids…. When the last one was a baby I would hold him or he would be safely in a bassinet or bouncer where rowdy kids couldn’t even accidentally harm him. When I showered the bouncer came into the bathroom with me…. When I did dishes he came into the kitchen with me…. Accidents happen but happening several times isn’t an accident anymore.
Exactly why wasn’t he in a safe spot? This happened multiple times. No swing or bouncer or bassinet? She trusted the wrong people. Who is to say she wouldn’t again? I’d be nervous giving her back her baby and it’s sad.
@@ericadean1787I understand her living conditions might not be perfect if she had no one to go too but u don’t just leave your baby unattended which is how I assumed they got sat on and possibly abused
It made me sick to my stomach when this "mother", instead of accepting accountability, uses HER past and a bunch of other excuses to justify her actions. Like, what does YOUR past have to do with your baby? Was your baby there when you were abused? You think YOUR past is an excuse to get your baby involved in a generational cycle? IT'S NOT ABOUT YOU, OR YOUR PAST; IT'S ABOUT YOUR BABY!!!! You don't use excuses! Take accountability instead! 😤😤 It baffles me on how many mentally unstable people think they're fit to be a parent when clearly they're not. 🤦♂️🤦♂️🤦♂️
Hey there, so my dad had married one of Tiffany’s sisters. So I know first hand a lot about these two and their family. Me and my sister were abused mostly by Tifany herself and her mother named Shelly. She ironically threatened to break all my families things, screaming it at me and my sister when I was 12 and my sister was 10. They are the reason we had to move away from my dad and move in with my mom. So this doesn’t exactly surprise me that some family members “accidentally” sat on the baby
Dear god.. Unfortunately, I’m all too familiar with horrible step/married situations. Hoping you & your family are healing, healthy & happy & away from their foolishness.
This reminded me of when my nephew was abused as a 3 week old baby. My cousin didn't know that her baby had 18 broken & fractured bones. Even as a first time mother she DID know that something was wrong with her baby but she had no idea what it was. He DIDN'T have any bruises or bumps. She took him to the doctor/hospital something like 20 times & the doctor's never SAW anything wrong with the baby. They just said he was colicky & sent her home all but the last time when they FINALLY did X-rays discovered the broken bones & took him away from her. My cousin did EVERYTHING the state asked of her & MORE. There was only a handful of people who was around the baby so the state only had to look @ a few people. My cousin, the father & the babysitter. What finally cleared my cousin's name was a lie detector test. They discovered afterwards that it was the father of the baby(my cousin's husband) who was abusing the baby EVERY time he was left alone with him !! The father was criminally charged with abusing the baby & only got f'ing probation !! THANK GOD that after ONLY a couple months my cousin got her baby back. A few years of going to college getting degrees specifically for child protection my cousin went on to WORK for the state's Department of Child's protection cause she wanted to make a difference in children's & parents lives. She(& the baby)found out the HARD way of what people are capable of doing !! She did an amazing job working for the state until after a few years she had to find a new line of work due to the horrible sites & conditions she saw children in. After about 10 years it mentally broke her & she had a nervous breakdown & couldn't do it anymore. God bless🙏 ALL of the children in this world🌎 !!
I'm so sorry about your nephew. I'm sorry the Dr's and hospitals kept letting her and the baby down. He must of suffered untill they did see the injuries. Breaks my heart. I am proud of her to go on and do so great and try and help others. I'm sorry it gave her a nervous break down. Her and her son are both in my heart and prayers. Please give them a hug for me. As far as that dad. Oh I can't say what id like to see happen to him. But I hope he's never around this sweet baby ever again. Sending love and prayers and hugs
@@donnayoung2150 Thank you for your very kind words & caring wishes !! I will definitely pass your message along to both of my cousin's !! My cousin immediately divorced the child abusing SOB & she NEVER let him see the baby or herself again !! They're both doing amazing🤩 now & I'm super proud of both of them !! I love 💕 them so much !! You have a very caring heart💗 & it shows by your message !! I hope you have an amazingly 😁day !!
@@donnayoung2150 P.s. I can't say what I'd like to do to the child abusing POS either but I think you & I are on the same page !! IF not we could always join teams to come up with a plan for the child abusers !!😉 I was abused as a child BUT NO WHERE NEAR as BAD as my baby cousin by my hatred of child abusers has ONLY gotten stronger💪 the older I get !!
@@sawme7772 your so very welcome sweety. I'm just so happy they are doing so good now. Thank you for going to pass on my message n don't forget the hugs. How old is the baby now? I wish the sperm thing was rotting under the prison for what he did to them both. I hope you are all having a beautiful life. Hugs
I have been babysitting newborn babies all the up to 7 years old since I was 13 and no child I looked after everyone got hurt. I watch to make sure when I sit, stand or go to walk that I'm not going to hurt the dog. I'm dumb founded 🤯. I hope that little boy is doing well and with a great loving family 🤞❤❤
I hate when steve says 'I don't wanna beat u up over it.. your a young mother... your a new mom.. first child." Bro when I was a young mom and had my first baby I was SO HYPER AWARE of everything with her... I didn't leave her with ANYONE. She was ALWAYS in my sight... she's 6 now.. she's never had a broken bone... she's only had a really 'bad injury' one time . And it was just a gash on her forehead When she was 4 and a half we had gone swimming.. we were in the change room. We changed into our street clothes to leave as we were going to leave she tripped over her own feet/on her own shoe and smacked her head into the corner of a metal door frame.. it cut open her head and knocked her out. And her dad and I ummediatly scooped her up and booked it to the closest hospital because the rec center refused to call an ambulance.. my daughter is my heart and soul. Same with her dad..... 25 broken bones on a baby and not knowing why ... is unacceptable.
STOP USING “YOUNG” AND “NEW MOTHER” AS AN EXCUSE! There are 15 year olds that are better parents than 50 year olds! Heck, look at your show 95% of the abusers on here are WELL over 30. And even if that wasn’t the case a 5 year old knows NOT to sit on, hit, or abuse a baby. Stop with the “I know it’s hard being a young new mother”. Young new moms know how to take care of their children, monsters can be any age.
Your not the victim. It was your job to protect your baby. That poor baby is. Its your place to make sure you lay ypur baby down in a safe place. Like a baby bed a playpen not on a couch or a bed. Its your fault. I hope and pray this baby is safe and getting the love and care he deserves.
Not all police are good! I was renting to a couple that just had a baby. I was walking by the cabin they were renting and I heard her scream and then ask him why he punched her when she was holding the baby. I called 911 and a female officer called me back and was on the other side of the county and didn't want to drive all the way to deal with it. I told her there is a 2 week old baby in that house. You need to come do your job. She refused to come out. Unfortunately not all cops will help I do actually believe she tried and the cop wouldn't do his job.
it is so crazy that people say "call the police" in an abusive situation, I called them, they REFUSED to take my house keys away from him, I had no money to change the locks, and when he got out of jail the next day, he came into the apt, and woke me up with "your going to die b*tch. The apt was in my name only, my abuser/ex-husband wasn't even on the lease, but when he got out the next day I paid for it bigtime. sorry but sometimes "call the cops, only makes it worse!"
They can't legally take his keys.... Usually of someone anyone stays in a place for 30 days you (or your landlord) have to do an eviction process 30 days and they legally live there (wether they are on the lease or not) she also more then likely didn't press charges.... Usually happens that way, been through it myself.... 3 years later my ex that almost killed me finally did like 90 days (I'm honestly not sure but I do know he finally went to jail) but the state picked up and charged him I didnt.... So it all depends, legal system sucks but they can only do so much themselves....
Stats say the police believe over 80% of DV victims are lying. In reality, it's under 10%. I wasn't believed either. Apparently I'm less reputable than a meth user. I'm standing there with a clearly broken bone, but the dude with the rap sheet and known violent tendencies would never do that. You eventually learn the police won't help.
Yes I had a daughter in law all drunk and on drugs punch through the glass in the door and thank God I thought fast and pulled her son behind me to protect him and had just laid her new born down and I got both eyes full of glass and had to go 3 times to the states big hospital for my eyes and had to get the cuts cleaned up. And cops were called they would not even take her to jail over it. Made me let her in my house.
Hey Steve, you're wrong on this one. All cops are not good, and yes, they DO let abusers stay without taking them to jail more often than you obviously think. Why? Laziness, cruelty, or personal bias. Your personal experience, morals, and sense of duty have made you blind to this fact.
THANK YOU!!!! While this woman definitely neglected her child/was not a good person like I want to make it clear I’m not justifying what she did Steve’s completely ignorant response was extremely disappointing. Women are abused, raped, and murdered by men on a daily basis and law enforcement does nothing for them. Literally women can be stalked threatened and harassed and police will straight up tell you “wellllll until he physically harms ya nothing we can do” 🤦♀️
@haleydavis6622 agree 💯 she's damaged, her pain explaining her situation to police and nothing was done I believe her. Police are supposed to protect us, but they fail women the most. Been there done that smh
I love Steve but I'm in agreement with you the police are not always on top of things even if not by intentional means they are human incapable of making mistakes or misjudgement.
This girl’s thinking explains why there’s ridiculous warning labels on things nowadays. Some people need to be taught that taking responsibility for your actions means “you never defend the behaviour again!” You can explain what happened, but you don’t defend it.
May you learn to love yourself and respect yourself your life heals. Pray that the baby only knows of love and peace i send healing to the baby's life dear soul.
I had three c sections and I took care of all my babies never once left them alone not even with family once I had my first child I went full momma bear on everyone and was/still am over protective of my babies, I was also young I’m now 29 and my youngest just turned 1 😊
This is probably the first time I've ever agreed with a guest when they tell Steve "give me a second to finish my answer when you ask me a question". Also, Steve hasn't been a police officer in like.. 10+ years? Things have DRASTICALLY changed in how the police handle domestic calls in 10+ years, I have definitely saw it where women were pregnant, called the police because their partner was abusive and the police "didnt have enough evidence to validate their story" and separate them for a NIGHT, which really doesn't help anything when you're stuck in a situation like that. It's REALLY easy to judge someone else's actions when we aren't in their shoes, but the world of policing isn't what it once was when Steve, who was an AMAZING police officer, was on the police force.
It's her own responsibility to look after her own child, not anyone else's. She's the mother. It's your job to look after it. She needs to stop blaming other people and take full accountability herself. She failed and neglected her baby. I hope they dont give her child back until she changes and takes responsibility.
Why would she even bring her child to a house with someone who's violent, and why would she continue to stay at that house after the first time someone sat on her son?
The tears were for herself. All her empty words were for herself. Pass or fail she’s guilty of negligence. That poor baby was suffering & in so much pain that would’ve been obvious to blind Freddy ffs. Sat on 3 times (that she was aware of) & she still had no problems leaving him in the ‘care’ of others while she took a bath. I’m sorry but I wouldn’t trust her to look after my dog! Smdh😡🤬😥
I wouldn’t be surprised as some of those family members that I know first hand are all messed on and on drugs. They abused me and my sister before my dad divorced Tiffany’s sister
3:26 Ma’am as someone who has been the mother to a new born while caring for my toddler niece and nephews. NOBODY EVER SAT ON MY BABY. I didn’t leave her on a fucking couch with a blanket to protect her. “ Nobody pays attention “ GIRL PAYING ATTENTION WAS YOUR JOB. If that house has people, pets and kids don’t put the baby where they sit!! 🤦♀️🤦♀️🤦♀️🤦♀️ it’s not rocket science.!
As a parent we are sometimes very disappointed in our kids,but being a Grandparent is GOLD, the baby didn't do anything why was he penalized. Who in the hell has a grandbaby that they don't see but twice? Being a Grandmother myself, there's NO WAY that I even want anyone else to keep my Grandson, I trust NO ONE. This Grandmother doesn't deserve the title.
Eh, not all cops care about your safety. Granted, I didn't have a child, thank god; the cops in my town came to "help" me and told me that I had no choice but to let my abuser stay in the house with me because it was his home. He was not on the lease, he had no belongings in the home and I was covered in bruises, knots and blood with my clothes half ripped off of me. They just assumed that I was on drugs, which I have never done drugs, because I was deathly ill from Hyperthyroidism and Graves Disease. Which the stress of my abuser triggered by the way. So yes, I'm sure there are lots of cops out there that want to help, but not all of them are as morally driven as you claim.
I'm at a loss . I hear so many stories about babies either being abused , neglected or murdered . What is wrong with these parents today in these times . A parent needs to be more aware of the people they are around , they are 100% responsible for that baby , no one else .
Our kids always pay for our mistakes. I’m glad she has her own place, hopefully she works hard to change and gets her son back. Idk why they didn’t give the baby to grandma in the meantime.
Wow her willingness to leave her child with people who have no regard for human life is scary, regardless if she did it or knew, she’s culpable for leaving her baby with such fools
That girl should not get back the child. SHE SHOULD NOT BE NEAR AN IMFANT. She acts like a spoiled child who cries to get her way and blames others instead of looking at her choice of friends
She did.. but one of the questions was if she knew how the baby got the fractures and she said no and passed.. so if she was telling the truth about the baby being sat on she wouldn't have passed that question 🤔 I'm so confused..
I was convinced she was guilty of shaking her baby or literally beating him. She comes off as guilty with those faux tears. She doesn't deserve to raise that baby because I see the baby having a horrible upbringing, judging from how, at only 2 months, the baby has 20+ broken bones and she has no idea how!! 😐
Sorry, I have to disagree with Steve on this one because when I was pregnant and also had 4 other kids, I called the cops after my then partner abused me trying to "bash the baby outta me" and then swung a stepladder at my head because he wanted to kill me. The cops came and told him to leave the house for the night, even though he told them outright that he wanted to kill me and that it was either the step ladder or the hammer, but he chose the ladder because he thought it would be "quicker and less messy" than the hammer. He got in his car and waited down the road until they left the house, and then he came back. He even stated that they drove past him, thats how he knew they had left. I called them again, and they said that they were going to send someone around, but no one showed. The next day, I went to the police station to obtain the police report so my kids and I could get emergency shelter, only to be told there wasn't one, not even an incident number despute being told to come and get it the next day by said police, so I had no choice but to stay for another 11 months while I snuck and hid money from him, which was bloody hard to do given the fact that he had complete control over the finances and my car, I wasn't allowed to have a job, he would take down the reading on the odometer and check the level of fuel in the car each morning before he left for work. I was basically his hostage. He slowly but surely isolated me from my friends and family over time, and if we had to go out anywhere, he had to drive. The only time I could leave the house was to go shopping, take kids to school, and appointments for drs. Being an ex-cop makes it so Steve can't see the tree through the leaves. He needs to realise that not every cop is a good cop or wants to help. Some cops are cops for the power that badge gives them.
He definitely gives the police FAR too much credit in domestic violence situations. Especially when it is a "he said/she said" and there are no obvious injuries.
Get her fixed so no other kids will get hurt. She has no right having that baby. Yeah she’s made a lot of mistakes but did she learn from them. I think not
I would not give that baby back to her if she was the last mom on thins earth. She obviously don’t give a crap. 3 time’s he gets sat on and 1ns rolled over on. Naw i don’t believe none of it. Them people over there tortured that baby and she was right there when it happened. I wouldn’t let her watch a rock.
Yeah that story was complete bs. Sounds like she jus didn't want to be a mom. Best story she could come up with still makes her look horrible.. but she passed for not knowing what happened so she DEFINITELY made the story up but idk it still doesn't make sense
@@texasmadehoney1523tommi has ALWAYS wanted to be a mom she’s never hurt a kid on her life. (Yes ik her personally) she was in the wrong spot at the wrong time. It happens ALL. THE. TIME. y’all are so quick to judge but yall don’t know sh*t about her.
@@autumnlynn3275 you don't continue to live somewhere where your baby is constantly being SAT ON by people unless you don't care enough as a mother to leave an unsafe environment. Here's an idea, watch your baby, stop leaving your baby places it can get sat on over and over again. At 2 months old you're still practically attached to your baby if you're mothering it properly. So please make it make sense.
3:27 apparently she didnt care enough either.. & everytime i took a bath my baby came with me too.. even when i had to pee.. id bring the swing or the doc a tot into the bathroom and put her next to me
Interesting how she said, "Nobody cared enough to pay attention." As a mother, that's YOUR job to pay attention to your child and make sure that they are safe.
RIGHT like she’s blaming everyone else for not caring and not herself when she could’ve prevented it in the first place🥴🥴🥴
Also if that’s the case , WHY PUT HIM WHERE PEOPLE SIT. Like cmon now
She says the stupidest shit ever
@@angell48u never put a baby down on a couch? 💀I have MULTIPLE times and they never got sat on so…
@@JaleelahBaise if he’s already been sat on once , why leave him there again 💀then he was left there long enough for someone to sit on him💀 common sense would say don’t put him there again but ok
“How did a baby get sat on” proceeds to cry about herself
Exactly. She’s trying her best to turn herself into the victim instead.
Notice how it's mostly white people
Exactly. And then just name 25 excuses... And never answer the question after all that.
She really exposed what kind of person she is with her non stop making excuses and snappy attitude with Steve simply for asking obvious questions.
@@amberjones9520 like I hope she is turning her life around like she says but the beginning yikes
@@SweetTooth8989 like I get it her life seems hard and stuff but the thing is about your baby not u
This poor child was born into the wrong family 🙏🏾
no they weren't they were born in a bad situation
So true, unfortunately. We can't choose our parents. Like Steve said before, it's always a roll-the-dice moment. 😪😓😞
As someone that was part of the family from marriage at one point, this family is messed up
No family is perfect
@@meganmose You realise that there's a HUUUUUUGGGEEE middle ground between "perfect" and.... "newborn baby beating, criminal degenerate losers", right?
As much as I like Steve, he really does give police too much credit.
I think so too
He's 100% right. If a pregnant woman calls the police and alleges DV... the guy is going in cuffs immediately is she has so much as a red mark. If there is ZERO evidence of anything whatsoever, they will force the man to separate and give her a card full of all the various FREE resource centers and organizations.
This is because police use a horrible system called then Duluth model in dv cases, a system created by three women that have all admitted they explicitly lied and misrepresented or entirely made up data to create it. The system basically boils down to "always assume the female is the victim unless clear and compelling evidence suggests otherwise". Police departments still use this dumb system despite the fact that women are more likely to engage in one sided domestic violence than men.
So unfortunately Steve is right. There's zero chance that she called police pregnant living in a car and alleged that the guy was abusing her and she couldn't get away from him. Even if there was ZERO evidence of abuse, they would have made him separate from her, gave her a temporary restraining order, and directed her to a free shelter for either abused or pregnant women.
The only way things would have went the way she claims is if SHE was being abusive , called the police and the police basically did her a favor because she was pregnant and didn't arrest her.
literally
I was gna say the same, but I live in the UK instead an it's jus as bad x my ex physically assaulted me, I managed to get him out, only coz he heard a car, I rang the police but no patrol , 5hrs later they turned up, after that I had to put up with constant verbal abuse and stalking for 3 months before he went to court an I got a restraining order, they never arrested him either but rather gave him a week to hand himself in, day befire this happened they knew I was in danger an said they would put a red alert on my property so If i needed police they would be straight there, haha yeh as if, sorry bout the life story, it's only so u could get the jift
@@kellywood354 sounds like you need to buy a gun
She went full blown victimhood way too fast. I'm glad Steve applied pressure and didn't let off even at the end. It's not about her , it's about the baby.
Exactly right 💯! Like, what does YOUR past have to do with your baby? 🤦♂️🤦♂️🤦♂️
100% don't make excuses, own up to your mistakes and learn from them and better yourself so you can be there to raise the child in a healthy environment
Exactly
He was way too soft on her IMO. She continued to play the victim card when she should've been focusing on her child. And her very obviously fake and exaggerated crying really fking pissed me off not gonna lie. She may not have been "abusive" to her child, but she was EXTREMELY neglectful which is arguably just as bad.
I hope she grows up. She’s a big baby herself
9:19 she plays the victim very well , it’s so strange how she can be in tears 😭 and then not be in tears all of a sudden….. truly strange …
**Like your comment**, the show is edited. You have no clue if the segments are in chronological order.
All the boo hoo hoo isn't fooling anybody.
@@madamvaudelune3298 your lack of awareness is unsurprising.
@@JeremiahLOsborne Awareness of what? This woman is despicable! We all have problems we all have challenges
She can't possibly expect sympathy given the horrendous injuries of a child on her watch. Outrageous!
@@madamvaudelune3298 she passed the almighty lie detector test, she already took parenting classes, and she is making progress. What more do you want from her? People like you are her biggest problem. Judgmental knownothings. You have no idea what her problems are. She was disowned by her mother, for the love of God. Did you miss that part? That's the kind of example that she had of how to be a mother to her own child.
Watching this with my 1 month old sleeping on my chest brought tears to my eyes. This is just horrible
My daughter is a year and I cannot even barely tell her no! What could an innnocrnt tiny baby do to deserve that! A baby cries he’s hungry tired or just wants affection!! And why wasn’t her baby sleeping in a crib/pack and play where the baby would be safe!! I keep a pack an play for my daugher at my moms my Mom in laws so she has a safe spot on each floor! It’s not fucking hard!
I should also say she has a crib upstairs as well! But I’m saying there’s no reason a baby should be sat on! A pack and play is something ppl would buy It for ur shower! She was selfish she’s a horrible mom
congratulations on your bundle of joy. wishing you and your family good health and happiness :)
SAME!! I have a 3 year old & can’t imagine ever hurting her or anybody else hurting her. That’ll be the day I go to jail. Congratulations! 🫶🏽 Enjoy it, they grow up so fast. It feels like my Leilani was just born yesterday. 🥹
I was carrying my baby downstairs once and slipped...I threw myself onto my back and cluched him to my chest so I would take the impact not him...I was badly bruised but he was fine thank goodness.
Look how she stopped crying as soon as she changed the conversation with her mom from her to the baby. While she was talking about herself, she was sobbing. Once it went to the baby, the crying stopped.
😂😂 yup
It seems abusive partners just do as they like
She is young no family support
like you know how she feels from the inside....
Most people are super cautious around a new born. I don’t understand how a baby can be sat on once, never mind three times. I was expecting her to pass the lie detector, but that just shows her level of irresponsibility.
She did pass 😂
I get the impression that she was living in a party house where everyone was constantly intoxicated.
25?!? WTF thats literal madness!
It's a hard 25🤦🏾♀️
I was raising my daughter alone at 20. She graduates this year from high school and is going on to a prestigious college. It was tough the first 4 years of her life, but we made it. No abuse and zero neglect. But, I did meet my now husband when she was 3 and we became a family when she was 4, so from then on she had two parents. Every child needs both parents. That's why God made it so, or we would be laying eggs like a bird with no male input. Sometimes it takes a village. Or at least it should. Relationships with grandparents, aunts, and uncles are just as important. Not all of us have that. My kids haven't. My Dad passed before my daughter was 2.
@@aprilpinketon2567 Plenty of birds have both a male and female coparenting. It's more common than not, in fact. Most birds pair, even within a flock.
More like WAY BEYOND literal madness
"I will cry in response to your questions but in-between I wont cry"
Noticed that too
A person can only cry so much lol. Plus videos are edited into segments as well
It truly is horrible how people will have children and not protect them. and worse, lie about it, and fake their emotions. Children deserve better. Always.
Babies bones are still spongey. Theyre difficult to break hence why its usually always recorded as abuse if no decent reason for accidental breaking like high impact fall or car accident etc. I can't imagine sitting on him and getting quickly back up would cause this. Not unless you literally sat and squished about for a while or something
Sad story.. My heart breaks for her son & the pain he endured. As we’ve seen before (and here today), just because a parent has passed, doesn’t mean they weren’t neglectful etc….& it doesn’t make their mistakes any less... But I hope this was the wake up call she needed to see the severity of the situation & that she truly has gotten/is getting her life together the way she said.
she's not convincing Steve.. and damn sure not us all... she better damn wake the hell up.. Steve's got it right.
Literally she kept crying about hard her life was when Steve asked about her baby
@@brennathecatlover4360with no tears
@@Denise.THer makeup was all down her face, but OK.
She should get another tattoo on her forehead: „IDIOT”- written in beautifully with butterflies around!
She keeps saying she loves her baby but who really believes her? I can't believe anything she says.
She chose to stay with people in an environment that was unsafe for her child.. she's selfish. And, if we go with her bs story, she stayed somewhere where people were constantly sitting on her newborn baby. One sitting or roll over on a newborn can kill it.. 4 different occurrences, if you believe her..is BEYOND not caring about your baby..
It's possible she loves her baby but also simply isn't a good parent.
Yea I hope she does change but it’s hard to believe she does love them and will change when she made some shitty mistakes that’s just common sense
If she really loved her son, then she would’ve done better. People have told me no a lot. And it’s not because they hate my guts. It’s because they love me.
If no one pays attention and kids are running around, then you don’t leave your baby laying around… I have four kids…. When the last one was a baby I would hold him or he would be safely in a bassinet or bouncer where rowdy kids couldn’t even accidentally harm him. When I showered the bouncer came into the bathroom with me…. When I did dishes he came into the kitchen with me…. Accidents happen but happening several times isn’t an accident anymore.
Exactly why wasn’t he in a safe spot? This happened multiple times. No swing or bouncer or bassinet? She trusted the wrong people. Who is to say she wouldn’t again? I’d be nervous giving her back her baby and it’s sad.
@@ericadean1787I understand her living conditions might not be perfect if she had no one to go too but u don’t just leave your baby unattended which is how I assumed they got sat on and possibly abused
*That baby is better off without her.*
She's clearly not fit to raise a child
EXACTLY!
She's clearly not fit. That is all
Not alone at least.
She needs to take parenting classes and learn to be by herself so she can actually focus on her baby
She did. Watch the video
She's like nine people, how TF is this continent of a human being supposed to be alone?
It made me sick to my stomach when this "mother", instead of accepting accountability, uses HER past and a bunch of other excuses to justify her actions. Like, what does YOUR past have to do with your baby? Was your baby there when you were abused? You think YOUR past is an excuse to get your baby involved in a generational cycle? IT'S NOT ABOUT YOU, OR YOUR PAST; IT'S ABOUT YOUR BABY!!!! You don't use excuses! Take accountability instead! 😤😤 It baffles me on how many mentally unstable people think they're fit to be a parent when clearly they're not. 🤦♂️🤦♂️🤦♂️
Hey there, so my dad had married one of Tiffany’s sisters. So I know first hand a lot about these two and their family. Me and my sister were abused mostly by Tifany herself and her mother named Shelly. She ironically threatened to break all my families things, screaming it at me and my sister when I was 12 and my sister was 10. They are the reason we had to move away from my dad and move in with my mom. So this doesn’t exactly surprise me that some family members “accidentally” sat on the baby
I believe you. Not taking away any fault of the daughter but the grandmother gives off red flags
I'm so sorry
Dear god..
Unfortunately, I’m all too familiar with horrible step/married situations. Hoping you & your family are healing, healthy & happy & away from their foolishness.
I'm so sorry for you and your sister. I hope your both doing better And I hope she did not get her baby back.
Uh huh sure
It's all about her, she has every excuse in the book.
The pain..oh the pain that poor little soul had in such a short life....all those broken bones...DP for anyone that harms a darling baby.
To be a good mom, she needed to have the SENSE not to leave her child with ANYONE SLIGHTLY untrustworthy. Clearly, she lacked that big time.
This !!
I’ve had two c-sections and I always brought my babies in the bathroom with me. As a mother I could not stand to be without my babies near me.
Same here.
7:51 that woman snapping her head omggg 😂😂🤣
Sitting on a baby one time is an accident, two times is extremely neglectful, 3 times is abuse.
After 4 I'd just call it a dill dough
As soon as they capitulate with repeated "sir's", you know they're lying.
Already can't stand her... poor baby
OMG.
This reminded me of when my nephew was abused as a 3 week old baby. My cousin didn't know that her baby had 18 broken & fractured bones. Even as a first time mother she DID know that something was wrong with her baby but she had no idea what it was. He DIDN'T have any bruises or bumps. She took him to the doctor/hospital something like 20 times & the doctor's never SAW anything wrong with the baby. They just said he was colicky & sent her home all but the last time when they FINALLY did X-rays discovered the broken bones & took him away from her. My cousin did EVERYTHING the state asked of her & MORE. There was only a handful of people who was around the baby so the state only had to look @ a few people. My cousin, the father & the babysitter. What finally cleared my cousin's name was a lie detector test. They discovered afterwards that it was the father of the baby(my cousin's husband) who was abusing the baby EVERY time he was left alone with him !! The father was criminally charged with abusing the baby & only got f'ing probation !! THANK GOD that after ONLY a couple months my cousin got her baby back. A few years of going to college getting degrees specifically for child protection my cousin went on to WORK for the state's Department of Child's protection cause she wanted to make a difference in children's & parents lives. She(& the baby)found out the HARD way of what people are capable of doing !! She did an amazing job working for the state until after a few years she had to find a new line of work due to the horrible sites & conditions she saw children in. After about 10 years it mentally broke her & she had a nervous breakdown & couldn't do it anymore. God bless🙏 ALL of the children in this world🌎 !!
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I'm so sorry about your nephew. I'm sorry the Dr's and hospitals kept letting her and the baby down. He must of suffered untill they did see the injuries. Breaks my heart. I am proud of her to go on and do so great and try and help others. I'm sorry it gave her a nervous break down. Her and her son are both in my heart and prayers. Please give them a hug for me. As far as that dad. Oh I can't say what id like to see happen to him. But I hope he's never around this sweet baby ever again. Sending love and prayers and hugs
@@donnayoung2150 Thank you for your very kind words & caring wishes !! I will definitely pass your message along to both of my cousin's !! My cousin immediately divorced the child abusing SOB & she NEVER let him see the baby or herself again !! They're both doing amazing🤩 now & I'm super proud of both of them !! I love 💕 them so much !! You have a very caring heart💗 & it shows by your message !! I hope you have an amazingly 😁day !!
@@donnayoung2150 P.s. I can't say what I'd like to do to the child abusing POS either but I think you & I are on the same page !! IF not we could always join teams to come up with a plan for the child abusers !!😉 I was abused as a child BUT NO WHERE NEAR as BAD as my baby cousin by my hatred of child abusers has ONLY gotten stronger💪 the older I get !!
@@sawme7772 your so very welcome sweety. I'm just so happy they are doing so good now. Thank you for going to pass on my message n don't forget the hugs. How old is the baby now? I wish the sperm thing was rotting under the prison for what he did to them both. I hope you are all having a beautiful life. Hugs
You can just tell this girl is nuts..
I have been babysitting newborn babies all the up to 7 years old since I was 13 and no child I looked after everyone got hurt. I watch to make sure when I sit, stand or go to walk that I'm not going to hurt the dog. I'm dumb founded 🤯. I hope that little boy is doing well and with a great loving family 🤞❤❤
That girl ain't no victim. She's a SUSPECT!!!
These people are treating a newborn child, the same way I treat my TV remote he just came home from the hospital. How do you accidentally sit on him?
When I sit on the remote it's not an accident
I hate when steve says 'I don't wanna beat u up over it.. your a young mother... your a new mom.. first child."
Bro when I was a young mom and had my first baby I was SO HYPER AWARE of everything with her... I didn't leave her with ANYONE. She was ALWAYS in my sight... she's 6 now.. she's never had a broken bone... she's only had a really 'bad injury' one time
. And it was just a gash on her forehead
When she was 4 and a half we had gone swimming.. we were in the change room. We changed into our street clothes to leave as we were going to leave she tripped over her own feet/on her own shoe and smacked her head into the corner of a metal door frame.. it cut open her head and knocked her out. And her dad and I ummediatly scooped her up and booked it to the closest hospital because the rec center refused to call an ambulance.. my daughter is my heart and soul. Same with her dad..... 25 broken bones on a baby and not knowing why ... is unacceptable.
I’ve never said this on The Steve Wilkos Show, but I gotta say it now unfortunately! I have absolutely no words for her episode!
STOP USING “YOUNG” AND “NEW MOTHER” AS AN EXCUSE! There are 15 year olds that are better parents than 50 year olds! Heck, look at your show 95% of the abusers on here are WELL over 30. And even if that wasn’t the case a 5 year old knows NOT to sit on, hit, or abuse a baby. Stop with the “I know it’s hard being a young new mother”. Young new moms know how to take care of their children, monsters can be any age.
Your not the victim. It was your job to protect your baby. That poor baby is. Its your place to make sure you lay ypur baby down in a safe place. Like a baby bed a playpen not on a couch or a bed. Its your fault. I hope and pray this baby is safe and getting the love and care he deserves.
I do not believe this baby was sat on I believe this poor baby was abused in the cruellest way 😢
I'm uh I'm still trying to figure out how the mother let her baby get sat on multiple times
Not all police are good! I was renting to a couple that just had a baby. I was walking by the cabin they were renting and I heard her scream and then ask him why he punched her when she was holding the baby. I called 911 and a female officer called me back and was on the other side of the county and didn't want to drive all the way to deal with it. I told her there is a 2 week old baby in that house. You need to come do your job. She refused to come out. Unfortunately not all cops will help I do actually believe she tried and the cop wouldn't do his job.
I want to know where all the tears are from all the crying..
She has a temper. Goes from talking all innocent and nice, then if someone doesn't buy her crap, she gets pissed
Steve we love you and we understand you were a cop but you definitely give the cops too much credit
it is so crazy that people say "call the police" in an abusive situation, I called them, they REFUSED to take my house keys away from him, I had no money to change the locks, and when he got out of jail the next day, he came into the apt, and woke me up with "your going to die b*tch. The apt was in my name only, my abuser/ex-husband wasn't even on the lease, but when he got out the next day I paid for it bigtime. sorry but sometimes "call the cops, only makes it worse!"
They can't legally take his keys.... Usually of someone anyone stays in a place for 30 days you (or your landlord) have to do an eviction process 30 days and they legally live there (wether they are on the lease or not) she also more then likely didn't press charges.... Usually happens that way, been through it myself.... 3 years later my ex that almost killed me finally did like 90 days (I'm honestly not sure but I do know he finally went to jail) but the state picked up and charged him I didnt.... So it all depends, legal system sucks but they can only do so much themselves....
Stats say the police believe over 80% of DV victims are lying. In reality, it's under 10%. I wasn't believed either. Apparently I'm less reputable than a meth user. I'm standing there with a clearly broken bone, but the dude with the rap sheet and known violent tendencies would never do that. You eventually learn the police won't help.
Yes I had a daughter in law all drunk and on drugs punch through the glass in the door and thank God I thought fast and pulled her son behind me to protect him and had just laid her new born down and I got both eyes full of glass and had to go 3 times to the states big hospital for my eyes and had to get the cuts cleaned up. And cops were called they would not even take her to jail over it. Made me let her in my house.
That woman cried more for herself than the child.
Like 3 mins in and she's crying and he's like "yeah but like not what I asked" and I love that
he’s too direct 😂
How do people not know they are about to sit on a baby, it's not exactly hard to miss
I mean.... You will notice eventually. After a big sneeze usually 😂
Hey Steve, you're wrong on this one. All cops are not good, and yes, they DO let abusers stay without taking them to jail more often than you obviously think. Why? Laziness, cruelty, or personal bias. Your personal experience, morals, and sense of duty have made you blind to this fact.
THANK YOU!!!! While this woman definitely neglected her child/was not a good person like I want to make it clear I’m not justifying what she did
Steve’s completely ignorant response was extremely disappointing. Women are abused, raped, and murdered by men on a daily basis and law enforcement does nothing for them. Literally women can be stalked threatened and harassed and police will straight up tell you “wellllll until he physically harms ya nothing we can do” 🤦♀️
@haleydavis6622 agree 💯 she's damaged, her pain explaining her situation to police and nothing was done I believe her. Police are supposed to protect us, but they fail women the most. Been there done that smh
U don’t know every single cop and she knew someone was violent but still let them around her kid so no wonder cps was called
I love Steve but I'm in agreement with you the police are not always on top of things even if not by intentional means they are human incapable of making mistakes or misjudgement.
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This girl’s thinking explains why there’s ridiculous warning labels on things nowadays.
Some people need to be taught that taking responsibility for your actions means “you never defend the behaviour again!” You can explain what happened, but you don’t defend it.
I recall many times I would bring my baby children into the bathroom with me to have a shower. Nothing is more important than the babies 😢
How do you leave a baby on the coach to take a bath ?
You think there's room for both of them in that bathtub?
May you learn to love yourself and respect yourself your life heals. Pray that the baby only knows of love and peace i send healing to the baby's life dear soul.
I had three c sections and I took care of all my babies never once left them alone not even with family once I had my first child I went full momma bear on everyone and was/still am over protective of my babies, I was also young I’m now 29 and my youngest just turned 1 😊
This is probably the first time I've ever agreed with a guest when they tell Steve "give me a second to finish my answer when you ask me a question". Also, Steve hasn't been a police officer in like.. 10+ years? Things have DRASTICALLY changed in how the police handle domestic calls in 10+ years, I have definitely saw it where women were pregnant, called the police because their partner was abusive and the police "didnt have enough evidence to validate their story" and separate them for a NIGHT, which really doesn't help anything when you're stuck in a situation like that. It's REALLY easy to judge someone else's actions when we aren't in their shoes, but the world of policing isn't what it once was when Steve, who was an AMAZING police officer, was on the police force.
Real
Facts. A lot of bad police officers out there that he doesn’t seem to understand
No way a baby endures all those broken bones n wasn’t crying out in agony, how does he get sat on multiple times !!!!????????
what,so now she's the victim? make it make sense,bruh!🙄
It's her own responsibility to look after her own child, not anyone else's. She's the mother. It's your job to look after it. She needs to stop blaming other people and take full accountability herself. She failed and neglected her baby. I hope they dont give her child back until she changes and takes responsibility.
Why would she even bring her child to a house with someone who's violent, and why would she continue to stay at that house after the first time someone sat on her son?
PLEASE..... She should never get the baby back.
The tears were for herself. All her empty words were for herself. Pass or fail she’s guilty of negligence. That poor baby was suffering & in so much pain that would’ve been obvious to blind Freddy ffs. Sat on 3 times (that she was aware of) & she still had no problems leaving him in the ‘care’ of others while she took a bath. I’m sorry but I wouldn’t trust her to look after my dog! Smdh😡🤬😥
Been waiting all day for a vid to drop.
I really dislike this girl. She plays the victim so very well, it’s sick. The victim is the child who can’t protect themselves.
She’s protecting someone
The lack of accountability is crazy. She admits she messed up but she blames everyone her besides herself.
who sits on a baby? really?
For real who in their right minds 🤷🏾♂️ smh that’s insane
I wouldn’t be surprised as some of those family members that I know first hand are all messed on and on drugs. They abused me and my sister before my dad divorced Tiffany’s sister
babysitters
@@rosemilkthyI see what you did there, but it's not funny.
@@shaneekabatty-cross i’m sorry it was just right there
All I hear is “ME, ME, ME”. Good grief.
7:48 she can’t take the heat no wonder she sounds too fishy
How do you "accidentally" sit on a baby??
3 different people, 3 different times.. and somebody else rolled over on it 🤔🤔 and the baby was barely 2 months old
3:26 Ma’am as someone who has been the mother to a new born while caring for my toddler niece and nephews. NOBODY EVER SAT ON MY BABY. I didn’t leave her on a fucking couch with a blanket to protect her. “ Nobody pays attention “ GIRL PAYING ATTENTION WAS YOUR JOB. If that house has people, pets and kids don’t put the baby where they sit!! 🤦♀️🤦♀️🤦♀️🤦♀️ it’s not rocket science.!
As a parent we are sometimes very disappointed in our kids,but being a Grandparent is GOLD, the baby didn't do anything why was he penalized. Who in the hell has a grandbaby that they don't see but twice? Being a Grandmother myself, there's NO WAY that I even want anyone else to keep my Grandson, I trust NO ONE. This Grandmother doesn't deserve the title.
Eh, not all cops care about your safety. Granted, I didn't have a child, thank god; the cops in my town came to "help" me and told me that I had no choice but to let my abuser stay in the house with me because it was his home. He was not on the lease, he had no belongings in the home and I was covered in bruises, knots and blood with my clothes half ripped off of me. They just assumed that I was on drugs, which I have never done drugs, because I was deathly ill from Hyperthyroidism and Graves Disease. Which the stress of my abuser triggered by the way. So yes, I'm sure there are lots of cops out there that want to help, but not all of them are as morally driven as you claim.
The results shocked me if I'm honest
Thats crazy how her brain works...
Does it?
25 broken bones that is crazy ah ah ah ah that’s bad 😳
I'm at a loss . I hear so many stories about babies either being abused , neglected or murdered . What is wrong with these parents today in these times . A parent needs to be more aware of the people they are around , they are 100% responsible for that baby , no one else .
Our kids always pay for our mistakes. I’m glad she has her own place, hopefully she works hard to change and gets her son back. Idk why they didn’t give the baby to grandma in the meantime.
I would not let her keep my dog,ever!!!!
I don't understand how a baby gets sat on once. Terrible mother.😒😡
"she had a C-section and was taking a bath"..... Yeah that's a big no no after surgery.
Wow her willingness to leave her child with people who have no regard for human life is scary, regardless if she did it or knew, she’s culpable for leaving her baby with such fools
Steve be giving the police way more credit than they deserve . There are some good ones but still 🤷🏾♀️
I have three children and not one of em ever got sat on. IMAGINE THAT. 🤨
Same here.
All that mother said was "I was, I was, I was, I was" All she is thinking of is herself.
Did the mother of the mom just say 'she knows the daughter knows 3 people that sat on the baby's EQUEZ ME!?!?!
How do you not know how your baby had 26 fractures? How is that possible? Please keep this baby away from her.
How the heck can you accidentally sit on an infant?! Jebus fudge
That girl should not get back the child. SHE SHOULD NOT BE NEAR AN IMFANT. She acts like a spoiled child who cries to get her way and blames others instead of looking at her choice of friends
Arms crossed, tears stopped...... Speaks volumes 😡😡
My head can't handle all her crying. I just don't feel like it's sincere. Did she pass?
She did.. but one of the questions was if she knew how the baby got the fractures and she said no and passed.. so if she was telling the truth about the baby being sat on she wouldn't have passed that question 🤔 I'm so confused..
@@texasmadehoney1523 , thank you.
I was convinced she was guilty of shaking her baby or literally beating him. She comes off as guilty with those faux tears. She doesn't deserve to raise that baby because I see the baby having a horrible upbringing, judging from how, at only 2 months, the baby has 20+ broken bones and she has no idea how!! 😐
“I, I, I, I” I am sensing a selfish pattern here
Sorry, I have to disagree with Steve on this one because when I was pregnant and also had 4 other kids, I called the cops after my then partner abused me trying to "bash the baby outta me" and then swung a stepladder at my head because he wanted to kill me. The cops came and told him to leave the house for the night, even though he told them outright that he wanted to kill me and that it was either the step ladder or the hammer, but he chose the ladder because he thought it would be "quicker and less messy" than the hammer. He got in his car and waited down the road until they left the house, and then he came back. He even stated that they drove past him, thats how he knew they had left. I called them again, and they said that they were going to send someone around, but no one showed. The next day, I went to the police station to obtain the police report so my kids and I could get emergency shelter, only to be told there wasn't one, not even an incident number despute being told to come and get it the next day by said police, so I had no choice but to stay for another 11 months while I snuck and hid money from him, which was bloody hard to do given the fact that he had complete control over the finances and my car, I wasn't allowed to have a job, he would take down the reading on the odometer and check the level of fuel in the car each morning before he left for work. I was basically his hostage. He slowly but surely isolated me from my friends and family over time, and if we had to go out anywhere, he had to drive. The only time I could leave the house was to go shopping, take kids to school, and appointments for drs. Being an ex-cop makes it so Steve can't see the tree through the leaves. He needs to realise that not every cop is a good cop or wants to help. Some cops are cops for the power that badge gives them.
He definitely gives the police FAR too much credit in domestic violence situations. Especially when it is a "he said/she said" and there are no obvious injuries.
Sat on him with fractures . Poor baby he must have been in so much pain
13:30 Lie detector test results.
14:52 HELL NAH!
Get her fixed so no other kids will get hurt. She has no right having that baby. Yeah she’s made a lot of mistakes but did she learn from them. I think not
I would not give that baby back to her if she was the last mom on thins earth. She obviously don’t give a crap. 3 time’s he gets sat on and 1ns rolled over on. Naw i don’t believe none of it. Them people over there tortured that baby and she was right there when it happened. I wouldn’t let her watch a rock.
Yeah that story was complete bs. Sounds like she jus didn't want to be a mom. Best story she could come up with still makes her look horrible.. but she passed for not knowing what happened so she DEFINITELY made the story up but idk it still doesn't make sense
@@texasmadehoney1523tommi has ALWAYS wanted to be a mom she’s never hurt a kid on her life. (Yes ik her personally) she was in the wrong spot at the wrong time. It happens ALL. THE. TIME. y’all are so quick to judge but yall don’t know sh*t about her.
@@autumnlynn3275 you don't continue to live somewhere where your baby is constantly being SAT ON by people unless you don't care enough as a mother to leave an unsafe environment. Here's an idea, watch your baby, stop leaving your baby places it can get sat on over and over again. At 2 months old you're still practically attached to your baby if you're mothering it properly. So please make it make sense.
@@texasmadehoney1523
Preach!! And OP is probably the woman in the video herself. 😏
3:27 apparently she didnt care enough either.. & everytime i took a bath my baby came with me too.. even when i had to pee.. id bring the swing or the doc a tot into the bathroom and put her next to me