This video feels like when you sleep over at your best friend’s house for the first time and you’re talking at night about all the personal stuff you didn’t know about them yet.
u r actually me - the way u explain ur love life is 100% relatable - speaking in a different accent randomly - anxiety - lack of confidence when talking to ppl - ariana grande stan - overthinking a lot - laughing when ur nervous - “ignorance is bliss” (10 months later edit: im cringing reading this comment myself lol)
The devil is your spirit animal that is why you act like that you need to get right with god and want to change and seek him and all emotions would go away
me too! i can 100% assure u that even though u feel like ur alone, ur not. I got thru the same things. My extroverted family members make fun of my comfort zone and stuff like that. i’m working on overcoming anxiety and improving my mental health etc, but i definitely feel most comfortable in my room reading a book instead of out w friends u know?
m what makes me feel really insecure is that I don’t really have anyone that I can genuinely call my friend you know? Like someone I can talk to freely without feeling the need to put up an act? 😪
Unknownx me too i feel the exact same way. like i have a group of friends and i know ppl but like i can never feel truly like myself and if i try to be myself i feel like i’m being judged :/
Hearing Kennedy talk about her sexuality was literally me when I was her age. I thought I was asexual for a time but could never label myself because it just scared me so much. But then college came and I started having relationships that were so different from my high school relationships (which were very not serious and always ended after two months every time because I always pushed them away). I’ve been in a relationship now for a year and when I was 18 (hell, even last year when I was only 22) I never would have imagined this life I have now. For Kennedy, it could be asexuality or it could be just a matter of time before relationships just start to click for her. I hope she figures it out, because it’ll make her so much happier.
I mean asexuality is just sexual attraction, she can be asexual but still have a romantic attraction to someone. Maybe she just haven't found that romantic attraction yet or she could be aromantic too. Or she could not be asexual and just haven't found the one. So many possibilities lol
Personnally, I am 18 and I know I haven’t found the one lol. But I also know I have never felt any sexual attraction or need toward anyone (celebrity or person I know) but I do like the idea of dating someone, loving them, but the whole concept of sex is icky to me 😅 it’s like I have never out grown that feeling from when you’re a kid.. anyways it’s so hard to accept what i am because I am also panromantic.. so yeah if anyone has had a similar experience I’d love to know about it because I have been feeling so lonely regarding this
For me I feel like I just had to meet the right person. I wasn’t interested in anybody for a long time until I met someone and everything changed. Before I didn’t understand why people liked dating and kissing and stuff but when it happened with this person everything changed and I suddenly understood
8:29- 9:05 is your Concern. You answered this concern at 12:26-12:48. The two things i noticed you said: when things get serious you back away and that your very nervous when it comes to new people. You said you overthink your responses and wish your were more confident, especially with strangers. Like you said your working on your confidence and have built it up to where you can love yourself and I think this is where the source of the anxiety stems from. When you get into a relationship, its not just about loving yourself, You're going to have to open up and let them love you for you and I think that thought terrifies you. You said that your sensitive and its hard for you to not take something personal and that's why it scares you. What if after all that work you put in to getting to love yourself, you open up, and it's not enough? I'm sure just thinking about this happening would crush you. One solution to this is something you eluded to in 12:22-12:24. I'm not saying you need to tell your self that your perfect and there is nothing wrong with you but you need to believe and tell yourself that you would be an enrichment to someones life and you have a lot offer someone, that is valuable and meaningful. Just from what i gleaned from this one video alone: Your Attractive, Honest, Compassionate, you express your feelings plainly, even if your not sure what it is your feeling. You consider the feelings of others and want to do right by them and your not afraid to point out things about yourself that your not too happy with, but you do it in a humorous way. I don't know you but i hope you do get to read this and just think about what i'm pointing out here. I don't presume to know everything about you and i don't intend to offend you in any way but, in order to have any productive discussion that can lead to progress, we have to risk doing that. I wish you all the best in the world to you and your family.
I relate to this :( The thought of being vulnerable and being seen as pathetic or not good enough terrifies the shit out of me. Its because i grew up with a judgemental narcissistic parent so its hard to stop the cycle of thinking this way because it was embedded in me at a young age. Thanks for posting this, it helps other people who relate aswell as kennedy
@@dimmacommunication Doesn't need to be that, they probably have sexual desires but probably their anxiety and shame in that department overwhelm everything to not to do any action about it, idk i think that's at least with Kennedy issue.
@@davolthe1261 Some people have low libido cause of hormonal or other issues not only psicological , when I was super stressed about the job I wasn't thinking about sex
It might be a defense mechanism Kennedy, that you don’t like someone when they like you back. I used to be that way when I was in highschool and I found out it was because I was subconsciously worried about things going wrong if we got together.
Kennedy’s experience with pulling away as soon as someone shows serious interest really resonates with me. It’s the most frustrating thing to want love and happiness but never being able to do it when an opportunity actually comes along. Without people like her, I’d be convinced that I’m the only one.
Someone tell Kennedy there's a whole spectrum for asexuality. There's even partial asexuality. Which means you can be sexual but only after having deep emotional connections with somebody else, otherwise you can be lonely and still be perfectaly comfortable with that
4:06 it can be also that you have anxious-avoidant attachment style. If you ever had been depressed before? Abandoned as a child? Longed for fathers love , it could be it too. I love you girl, love is our there you need the right kind :)
Her parents are divorced. And her dad i guess wasn't there for her upbringing. I think she is scared to get close to people. That's why she has this attachment
You’ll find someone. I fell in love at 21 for the first time and before that I thought I had a form of antisocial personality disorder... because not only did I never have emotions towards someone but I couldn’t care less if someone felt that way about me. When the right person falls into your life, you’ll know. You will never get tired of them. You’ll always want to be around them. Always want to talk to them. When they express affection towards you, you won’t run away and will want more of it. If you never feel this way it’s possible you’re asexual or aromantic or both! Which is totally normal. As far as sexuality as far as bi/straight/gay etc.... you don’t need to have a label. Like at all. I have and would date a girl. I’ve dated men. But I think that if someone’s mind appeals to me, thats it. I don’t call myself pan/gay/bi anything. As dumb as it sounds I hate labels, its an impulse by human nature and completely unnecessary.
Being asexual is not normal. Lastly the LGBT++binary whatever community invented these stupid labels. Normal people are straight, so why would they need nor create labels when it is just one thing...
Totally agree. Took me a long time to actually care for a person. I think it requires meeting the right person AND being ready to care about someone outside of yourself/family...
I feel like you pushing away all of your crushes just means you weren’t ready yet. Everyone moves at different paces and I wasn’t ready for a real relationship until I was like 20
When I was her age omg I would get anxiety after I found out a boy liked me. Even tho I liked him too. Now I’m 23 and I don’t get anxiety anymore and my first date was with a 36 year old and it just felt comfortable. Not saying date older but I was super picky now I’m dating outside of what I expect. :)
I'm 23 and still feel the same way and sometimes I feel bad like if there is something wrong with me especially when people ask " do you finally have a boyfriend now?" It makes me so uncomfortable so I totally understand Kennedy
4.07 it means you have an anxious attachment style, means that you are needy for attention from people who don’t give it and you like to conquer the attention but you don’t want it given, the desire for neglect is like a drug
I think you are one of the first persons I've heard saying that they've never been in love or had a real life crush, and I'm so happy and relieved right now!! Thank you for your honesty
I have never related so much to a person until now. I'm 24 and having to deal with anxiety, stress, overthinking, relationships etc etc sucks in every day life. I'm a total introvert and I am okay with being like that which I wouldn't be years ago. Being a total extrovert would be so tiring for me and I don't have the energy haha. Thank you for always being honest and open where you want to be. Not everyone is the same and that's okay. If us humans were all the same than it would be boring and a weird world. Some of have to accept our battles. It's a strugle but we overcome it :). Keep being you and personal growth will always improve
this is literally me. i’d say i’m probably ambiverted. i love spending time with people but eventually my mental battery runs out lol and i definitely feel most comfortable by myself in my home. my family tries to convince me that this is bad but it makes me feel safe, and it’s like an escape from the world. i try my best to get out of comfort zones, but it’s difficult for me and so mentally exhausting. i don’t have a problem with staying in that comfort zone, but i’m working on it :) we are in this together!
It would be so cool to have a group page to talk to you guys. I feel like I’m struggling with all of these issues alone. I recently got accepted for the navy and I’m scared my anxiety could make me fail but I’m trying so hard to push through!! ❤️
She is just so AAAH. I feel so identificated, she is so cute and makes me feel like im not alone in this awkward self situation. LIKE EVERYTHING SHE SAYS I FEEL IT. I spiritually relate to you.
@@aj_1207 and? So what if she's five, she can feel how she wants to feel. Just because someone is young doesn't mean they don't have feelings and it doesn't mean you shouldn't respect their feelings.
It’s so cool to see someone so open and honest, you’re awesome Kennedy and don’t let anyone “especially yourself” tell you otherwise. I’d love to be able to hang with you and try my best not to kill your vibe
There is a "branch" on the aromantic spectrum where you want romance in media or in theory, but not in real life when it comes down to experiencing it yourself. I feel this way a LOT and consider myself pretty aro. I definitely fluxuate on the aspectrum and my feelings change day to day. Not labeling you AT ALL because there are infinite ways to feel, but what you said really resonated with me!
I love your channel!! And thank you for your transparency in this video. You film like you're talking to a friend and it's so refreshing! It would be awesome if you made a video of some of your favorite books! ❤️
Girl I truly think that you’re my alter ego. I’ve spent the last couple of days watching all of your videos and the more I “know” about you the more I’m surprised with how close with how I feel about the world, relationships in general, myself ecc ecc you are. Plus I was born in 2000 too just a few days after you.. idk I think it sounds a little bit stupid as I’m writing this but it just blows my mind how similar we are, watching you makes me feel less “weird” or lonely so idk love you!
pls see this kennedy!!! i was watching psycology videos and getting turned off by people who are interested in you is a deep rooted issue. insecure people (not just physically) get repulsed by the idea of someone liking them. they assume the person interested in them must have bad taste/low standards without even realizing it
A friend of mine functioned this way, it was confusing for those who she expressed feelings for, cause one moment she’d be interested and then when they’d express interest back she’d peace out reaaal quick.
Yes I don't mind if it is only ones a month a good book recommendation. Maybe she can say like I'm gonna read this book next so we can read it at the same time and discuss all the goods
You are the most relatable person! I can relate to you more than anyone in my life including family and close friends, specially when you talk about you anxiety and relationships and now having kids as well lol
You talking about not understanding your sexuality because you’ve never been emotionally attached to someone is something i relate to sooo much. Even though you think you aren’t making sense, to me (as someone who is going through the exact same thing) it really made me relate.
Never found anything more relatable than this, "I just love to sit outside, but I just don't like being around people, they just ruin my vibe" And believe me, they really do
yoooo this hit so hard. like the part about when somebody reciprocates feelings back and all of a sudden, you're OUT. that's literally me!! It's nice to know I'm not the only who experiences that.❤️
Amalia Lardas I’m the same about this! And I always end up (well not hating) but i don’t wanna see the person anymore lol guess I’m just scared (of what idk lol)
alice5753 yeah swear! It’s like I get scared or it’s just too uncomfortable. It annoys me cause I’m always wishing to be in love or something and then when a guy is into me I’m not into them at ALL
literally happened to me in the last month and i had to stuggle to explain to my friends why i suddenly wasn’t attracted to this boy i’ve been talking about for months LOL
This video made me shake ( lightly ) and cry as much as it is relatable. Knowing that you're not alone is such a relieve... I actually had to quit the video at some point.
thank you for wording your thoughts on your own sexuality the way you did, that’s almost exactly how I feel and I always feel like an idiot attempting to explaining it.
@@laurriiieec2074 lol I was extremely shy person and constantly shaking when I talk to ppl,, until 5 days ago where I decided to work at mcdonalds, surprisingly I managed to overcome my fear of ppl which I never thought would happen
I literally struggle so much too with social interactions with strangers. I overthink everything and after an interaction I CANNOT stop thinking about how uncomfortable and awkward I was and how much I hate myself about it. I thought I was the only one ily
I really appreciate you being honest about relationships and such, like keeping it in the video. Its probably really helpful for ppl. Felt sweet moment
@@ChiminieChimmy You're telling her that her nose is beautiful but here you are hiding your own nose behind a filter. If you want her to feel better about herself, then you should do that as well. Actions speak louder than words so maybe you can remove that filter and all that makeup to really let people hear what you have to say. Now Im only saying this about you because youre trying to influence people and Im just saying how you can be more effective. Besides there are so many liars nowadays so seeing a profile pic without a filter would really persuade us
@@daudmowsumi I do have a lot of insecurities about myself too, doesn't mean I can't compliment her. She is actually stunning and I could never imagine being that beautiful. Seeing her getting sad over little things like her nose when it doesn't look bad at all made me sad as well. Because everyone can see she's perfect. That being said, I put this pic a long time ago becuz I thought it was cool, I like this pic, that's why I put it there. I have millions of selfies on my social media. Never really cared enough abt UA-cam. Thank you for your concern about me.
@@ChiminieChimmy Oh I'm sorry... I didn't know. I think it's great that you have pics on your social media despite having insecurities. I used to have insecurities too (still do but not as many) but I read somewhere that if you faked living the reality that you want then it'll eventually become true. So pretending that I'm perfect even though I'm not has really helped me to come out of my shell. I realized that even if I were the most prettiest girl in the world, I would still have insecurities because it's in my head. And also even if you're deemed beautiful now, the next year you may not be because beauty trends are always changing. If you're happy with how you are on the inside then how other's perceive your outer appearance will be unimportant. Thanks for being positive even though my comment wasn't. I was kidding though literally all my comments aren't serious. I'm just wasting time lol
I had the same experience with love and crushes like you. I thought I was crazy and stupid and I felt desperate. And because of how you spoke about it I would really recommend reading up on compulsory heterosexuality. It opened up so much about how you can experience crushes and how you somehow "choose" men to crush on just to crush on someone but run when they like you back. It's okay not to be sure and to explore new labels and identities, it is a big part in finding yourself. You're amazing Kennedy and as long as you are happy with your own identity then nobody else need to know.
Lovedddddd this video !!!!! Really showed how spontaneous and adorable you are, you showed the real you, and how deep you are for real. Loved you so much 😭💛 even though I’m a new subscriber, I really feel that my soul is totally attached to yours.. you’re deeper than what I thought, it really showed in your answers .. keep being you 💛 I hope seeing you always happy and always doing your best to be happy.
I watched this back when you first posted it, so watching it back now is soo nostalgic... just the fact that I am now older than you were back then is just so weird for me haha it kinda feels like we grew up together a little bit... thanks for being my comfort youtuber, I appreciate you a lot
kennedy, you remind me a lot of myself when i was younger (i'm 23 if it matters). i basically spent my teenage years shutting myself off from the world and using tv shows and books as a coping mechanism. tv shows in particular created a sort of idealized version of what the perfect boyfriend and my relationship with him should be like, that nobody in real life could compare to. just like you, i never even crushed on real life people because of the unrealistic standard i set BY MYSELF. people would always act surprised that i didn't have a boyfriend and that i had never had one. whenever someone showed interest in me i didn't know how to act. i always panicked and pushed them away, then later i'd end up regretting it when i felt all alone. i craved attention but also feared it. my advice would be to stop stressing so much about the boyfriend and just focus on learning how to be more social. this is the harsh truth - you need to socialize. i know it's very hard and draining for someone who is introverted but i can promise you that it's worth it and it gets easier. i look back and regret all the years i wasted alone in my room instead of going outside, experiencing things, making memories, etc. nobody says you need to party all the time or anything but just PHYSICALLY being outside increases your chances of meeting someone. that someone isn't going to just knock on your door, you need to put yourself out there. what helped me personally was working a job that kind of forced me to be more social, for better or worse. it was very stressful at first but later i relaxed and learned how to be more comfortable around people. simply changing my attitude made interacting with people much easier because people can sense your attitude. i noticed that sometimes for girls being shy and socially awkward can make you seem kind of stand-offish and maybe even mean (the prettier you are the worse the effect is), whereas being laid back and friendly makes you more approachable. i've noticed that i get more complimented and hit on when i'm in a good mood. so i guess my final advice is: focus on yourself, get out, make friends, don't stress it. you're bound to meet someone. for me it happened when i least expected it.
Amen! hope she sees your comment. Also, Kennedy obviously isn't going to get a job but maybe she could volunteer at the Humane Society or a local animal shelter? It's a good and "safe" way to socialize because there's a purpose and activities for you to do with people. I feel like that structured environment kinda cuts down on the anxiety and scariness of meeting people out somewhere where you have to think of things to do and say. Hopefully that makes sense! Plus, Kennedy loves kitties so she'll also be doing a good deed which is really fulfilling emotionally. It'd be a win-win-win really :)
"I dont like being around people, they ruin my vibe" well same.....
Stop Yelling!! YASSS I stan Shawnnnnn ❤️
@@clarissar6181 mendesarmy everywhere ,huh? Love you girl❤
YES GURL MENDESARMYYY
Wow I never thought I’d find any of my family in here
@@amnaalbalooshi9486 we're everywhere
"My anxiety makes me feel really sick and feeling sick gives me more anxiety" This is the most relatable shit I've ever heard
Roshni Mohan just reading this gave me rabbit heart
okay me
I hate that people think mental illness should be romanticized and relatable.
Marley Lehman romanticised ?
Marley Lehman and people that actually has it are suddenly the liars
"my anxiety makes me feel sick. feeling sick makes me even more anxious" i felt that
Reading that made my stomach jump ._.
I get stomach aches and nauseous when I get anxious, but then I have emetophobia which is fear of vomit. So..... Those 2 don't clash very well
@@rachi908 I felt that strongly:(
Rachi omg same like i would rather die then throw up
@@rachi908 same :(
"Dont do drugs, read books."
-Kennedy Walsh 2019
they're basically the same thing
the comment I was searching for
Why not both
Reading books is you looking at a dead tree while hellusenaiting🤣🤣
To
This video feels like when you sleep over at your best friend’s house for the first time and you’re talking at night about all the personal stuff you didn’t know about them yet.
Julia Neff true 💯
omg exactly
Julia Neff I love nights like that tho. Ngl 😁😅
omg so right
Julia Neff i literally did that yesterday lol
u r actually me
- the way u explain ur love life is 100% relatable
- speaking in a different accent randomly
- anxiety
- lack of confidence when talking to ppl
- ariana grande stan
- overthinking a lot
- laughing when ur nervous
- “ignorance is bliss”
(10 months later edit: im cringing reading this comment myself lol)
this is me
WAIT WE ARE ALSO THE EXACT SAME
The devil is your spirit animal that is why you act like that you need to get right with god and want to change and seek him and all emotions would go away
Me
Okay. No one asked.
The fact that her nose is literally perfect has me like WTF!!!
Ehh I wouldn’t say perfect...
@@jalmighty6319 I would
@@jalmighty6319 oh shut up
Lizard Poo no...I don’t think I will
Jalmighty you’re just like what she’s talking about, a miserable person
“I like somebody and if they don’t like me back, I like them more. Then if they do show any sign of liking me back, I’m gone.” MEEEEE
hello is it me youre looking for damn that’s kinda kinky
Mee too gosh i thought that i was the only person in the worldd
Literally me I can’t believe someone has the same issue I thought I was just being weird lol
@hello is it me youre looking for wow yes that'd be perfect
thats totally going to get u partner😕
"don't do drugs, read books."
please put that on a t-shirt
omg can somebody please do this!!
on it!!
Bella Rose sounds like something forever 21 would put on a crop
Don't do books, read drugs 😩👍
Bella Rose ,, merch idea 💡
“ I’m very close with my mum and sister”
Brandon: “Am i a joke to you?”
She makes me feel okay about how insecure and bad socialising I am. It’s really comforting in a way.
me too! i can 100% assure u that even though u feel like ur alone, ur not. I got thru the same things. My extroverted family members make fun of my comfort zone and stuff like that. i’m working on overcoming anxiety and improving my mental health etc, but i definitely feel most comfortable in my room reading a book instead of out w friends u know?
m what makes me feel really insecure is that I don’t really have anyone that I can genuinely call my friend you know? Like someone I can talk to freely without feeling the need to put up an act? 😪
Unknownx me too i feel the exact same way. like i have a group of friends and i know ppl but like i can never feel truly like myself and if i try to be myself i feel like i’m being judged :/
m it’s so sad. Even thought there are people around you you feel so lonely and I literally have no idea to make myself stop feeling this way
Unknownx i feel you. it’s really difficult. it sounds scary but i actually went to therapy for it, and it helped me so much.
Kennedy: * beautifully articulates her answer, explaining perfectly what she's trying to say *
Kennedy: *~I suCk aT anWsErinG qUeStioNs~*
Thats anxiety for you
"Although I may not like her,,
she *_is_* my nose."
_A quote from Kennedy Walsh, 2019_
zewdae felt that 😔👊
@@mehyras 😔🙏🏽
Hearing Kennedy talk about her sexuality was literally me when I was her age. I thought I was asexual for a time but could never label myself because it just scared me so much. But then college came and I started having relationships that were so different from my high school relationships (which were very not serious and always ended after two months every time because I always pushed them away). I’ve been in a relationship now for a year and when I was 18 (hell, even last year when I was only 22) I never would have imagined this life I have now. For Kennedy, it could be asexuality or it could be just a matter of time before relationships just start to click for her. I hope she figures it out, because it’ll make her so much happier.
I mean asexuality is just sexual attraction, she can be asexual but still have a romantic attraction to someone. Maybe she just haven't found that romantic attraction yet or she could be aromantic too. Or she could not be asexual and just haven't found the one. So many possibilities lol
zZz zZz Exactly! But only time will tell and I hope she finds that person :)
Yeah like i still am i mean idek whther i am asexual or not. I literally dont know myself like i do relate to her so much
Personnally, I am 18 and I know I haven’t found the one lol. But I also know I have never felt any sexual attraction or need toward anyone (celebrity or person I know) but I do like the idea of dating someone, loving them, but the whole concept of sex is icky to me 😅 it’s like I have never out grown that feeling from when you’re a kid.. anyways it’s so hard to accept what i am because I am also panromantic.. so yeah if anyone has had a similar experience I’d love to know about it because I have been feeling so lonely regarding this
For me I feel like I just had to meet the right person. I wasn’t interested in anybody for a long time until I met someone and everything changed. Before I didn’t understand why people liked dating and kissing and stuff but when it happened with this person everything changed and I suddenly understood
8:29- 9:05 is your Concern. You answered this concern at 12:26-12:48. The two things i noticed you said: when things get serious you back away and that your very nervous when it comes to new people. You said you overthink your responses and wish your were more confident, especially with strangers. Like you said your working on your confidence and have built it up to where you can love yourself and I think this is where the source of the anxiety stems from. When you get into a relationship, its not just about loving yourself, You're going to have to open up and let them love you for you and I think that thought terrifies you. You said that your sensitive and its hard for you to not take something personal and that's why it scares you. What if after all that work you put in to getting to love yourself, you open up, and it's not enough? I'm sure just thinking about this happening would crush you. One solution to this is something you eluded to in 12:22-12:24. I'm not saying you need to tell your self that your perfect and there is nothing wrong with you but you need to believe and tell yourself that you would be an enrichment to someones life and you have a lot offer someone, that is valuable and meaningful. Just from what i gleaned from this one video alone: Your Attractive, Honest, Compassionate, you express your feelings plainly, even if your not sure what it is your feeling. You consider the feelings of others and want to do right by them and your not afraid to point out things about yourself that your not too happy with, but you do it in a humorous way. I don't know you but i hope you do get to read this and just think about what i'm pointing out here. I don't presume to know everything about you and i don't intend to offend you in any way but, in order to have any productive discussion that can lead to progress, we have to risk doing that. I wish you all the best in the world to you and your family.
you are so right.......
you've touched my heart.
I relate to this :(
The thought of being vulnerable and being seen as pathetic or not good enough terrifies the shit out of me. Its because i grew up with a judgemental narcissistic parent so its hard to stop the cycle of thinking this way because it was embedded in me at a young age. Thanks for posting this, it helps other people who relate aswell as kennedy
Thank you kind sir for this comment.
Generic Channel omg me too that’s why i’m scared of therapy even tho i have anxiety and a lot of stuff i’m dealing w lmao
A philosopher once said, "Dont do drugs, read books."
- Kennedy Walsh, 2019
Yen Verga WE NEED MERCH. A hoodie with that quote would be everything i‘d live in it
did anyone else think after she said "douchey" i just thought straight up
" JAKE PAUL "
Samee
DUDE
Literally came to my miiiiind
oh fuck i really did lmao
Same
About your 'sexuality' : you exactly answered like I would have, it's incredible... I never found someone as lost as me, thank you
Sooo ... you don't have sexual desires ? isn't it an hormone imbalance ?
Gaeeya C I feel exactly the same
@@dimmacommunication it's way deeper than tht andrea
@@dimmacommunication Doesn't need to be that, they probably have sexual desires but probably their anxiety and shame in that department overwhelm everything to not to do any action about it, idk i think that's at least with Kennedy issue.
@@davolthe1261 Some people have low libido cause of hormonal or other issues not only psicological , when I was super stressed about the job I wasn't thinking about sex
It might be a defense mechanism Kennedy, that you don’t like someone when they like you back. I used to be that way when I was in highschool and I found out it was because I was subconsciously worried about things going wrong if we got together.
„I don‘t think anyone has ever hit on me.“ GURL LOOK AT UUU
It's actually pretty common for really pretty girls to not get hit on. It makes them nervous lol
The boys get nervous, I mean haha
Mary Jane you’re right !
Mary Jane they probably think they don’t have a chance anyway haha
exactly!
Kennedy’s experience with pulling away as soon as someone shows serious interest really resonates with me. It’s the most frustrating thing to want love and happiness but never being able to do it when an opportunity actually comes along. Without people like her, I’d be convinced that I’m the only one.
me too.
literally.
me too, it’s reassuring to know i’m
not alone in this
Same
same😭
Fan: Do you wanna have kids?
Kennedy: I mean I want cats...
Its pretty much the same thing just less expensive
Someone tell Kennedy there's a whole spectrum for asexuality. There's even partial asexuality. Which means you can be sexual but only after having deep emotional connections with somebody else, otherwise you can be lonely and still be perfectaly comfortable with that
That's not being asexual, that's being demisexual.
@@justananonymousboy4782 Asexuality is a spectrum and demisexuality falls into that spectrum
She may be bisexual and demisexual or a biromantic asexual or just doesn’t want a label
I lived with my mom and my sister for my entire life...and my cat can’t forget her”
*forgets Brandon
Sydney Douglas maybe he lived with their dad?
Brandon is like 6-7 years older than her. And he could have lived with his dad
@@psychoe9066 brandon is 4 years older than her I believe
5 years older she said that
She lives with Brandon in florida so she mentioned just her sister and mom
“I don’t want to make this video about my sexuality”
Thumbnail: my sexuality!
Same
Emily Jayne MOOD
DIY mizo slime kidzz Vanhmingliani Tochhawng . Slime died
@@mona-ou9sc ik
It's because of the coin yk
4:06 it can be also that you have anxious-avoidant attachment style. If you ever had been depressed before? Abandoned as a child? Longed for fathers love , it could be it too. I love you girl, love is our there you need the right kind :)
I think she would fix this with simply talking with a therapist. She needs it (not in bad way obv!)
Her parents are divorced. And her dad i guess wasn't there for her upbringing. I think she is scared to get close to people. That's why she has this attachment
It could also be ADHD. In my own life, the majority of lithromantics I know either have severe ADHD or avoidant attachment issues.
Oh also some lithromantics are actually truly aromantic but for religious or societal reasons they make up crushes in their head to fit in.
You’ll find someone. I fell in love at 21 for the first time and before that I thought I had a form of antisocial personality disorder... because not only did I never have emotions towards someone but I couldn’t care less if someone felt that way about me. When the right person falls into your life, you’ll know. You will never get tired of them. You’ll always want to be around them. Always want to talk to them. When they express affection towards you, you won’t run away and will want more of it.
If you never feel this way it’s possible you’re asexual or aromantic or both! Which is totally normal.
As far as sexuality as far as bi/straight/gay etc.... you don’t need to have a label. Like at all. I have and would date a girl. I’ve dated men. But I think that if someone’s mind appeals to me, thats it. I don’t call myself pan/gay/bi anything. As dumb as it sounds I hate labels, its an impulse by human nature and completely unnecessary.
Being asexual is not normal. Lastly the LGBT++binary whatever community invented these stupid labels. Normal people are straight, so why would they need nor create labels when it is just one thing...
joihnn mulrow I don’t care to get in a stupid argument with you over the nuances of labels and sexuality. Take your bigotry elsewhere. 👹
Totally agree. Took me a long time to actually care for a person. I think it requires meeting the right person AND being ready to care about someone outside of yourself/family...
or maybe even frayro (romantic attraction at first, but fades when a bond is formed)? idk
omg this is so me :((( i’m 21 and still very single 😔😔
I feel like you pushing away all of your crushes just means you weren’t ready yet. Everyone moves at different paces and I wasn’t ready for a real relationship until I was like 20
Same thing for me. i was 21 but it was really worth the wait.
So true
I'm 23 and I still feel the same way everytime
When I was her age omg I would get anxiety after I found out a boy liked me. Even tho I liked him too. Now I’m 23 and I don’t get anxiety anymore and my first date was with a 36 year old and it just felt comfortable. Not saying date older but I was super picky now I’m dating outside of what I expect. :)
I'm 23 and still feel the same way and sometimes I feel bad like if there is something wrong with me especially when people ask " do you finally have a boyfriend now?" It makes me so uncomfortable so I totally understand Kennedy
“Don’t do drugs, read books” :)
-Kennedy Clair Walsh 2019
momo.p Lover I need this on a sweater
how does she know if books are better than drugs? I wonder
4.07 it means you have an anxious attachment style, means that you are needy for attention from people who don’t give it and you like to conquer the attention but you don’t want it given, the desire for neglect is like a drug
That would be an anxious-avoidant attachment style
I think you are one of the first persons I've heard saying that they've never been in love or had a real life crush, and I'm so happy and relieved right now!! Thank you for your honesty
"don't do drugs, read books."
kennedy walsh - 2019
skz
what's the difference
drug bad book good
Okay but why is this short blond hair the cutest hair you've ever had 😍😍😍😍😍
I have never related so much to a person until now. I'm 24 and having to deal with anxiety, stress, overthinking, relationships etc etc sucks in every day life. I'm a total introvert and I am okay with being like that which I wouldn't be years ago. Being a total extrovert would be so tiring for me and I don't have the energy haha. Thank you for always being honest and open where you want to be. Not everyone is the same and that's okay. If us humans were all the same than it would be boring and a weird world. Some of have to accept our battles. It's a strugle but we overcome it :). Keep being you and personal growth will always improve
this is literally me. i’d say i’m probably ambiverted. i love spending time with people but eventually my mental battery runs out lol and i definitely feel most comfortable by myself in my home. my family tries to convince me that this is bad but it makes me feel safe, and it’s like an escape from the world. i try my best to get out of comfort zones, but it’s difficult for me and so mentally exhausting. i don’t have a problem with staying in that comfort zone, but i’m working on it :) we are in this together!
It would be so cool to have a group page to talk to you guys. I feel like I’m struggling with all of these issues alone. I recently got accepted for the navy and I’m scared my anxiety could make me fail but I’m trying so hard to push through!! ❤️
this is so amazing of you, when you described literally everything I understood you because it is relatable. you are a very smart person. thank you x
*Kennedy Walsh*
*2019*
*"Don't do drugs, read books."*
Nobody:
Literally no one:
Kennedy: *starts talking in a British accent*
Zakerya Donni 😂😂😂😂😂
666 likes...
Me: always talks in a British accent
Me:
*is British*
When did she start speaking in British accent? I can't spot it xd
I don't know why literally everyone is obsessed with others sexuality. Most are just uncomfortable talking about it still others don't get it.
For real
She is just so AAAH. I feel so identificated, she is so cute and makes me feel like im not alone in this awkward self situation. LIKE EVERYTHING SHE SAYS I FEEL IT. I spiritually relate to you.
ME TOO OMG i feel the same way, like i’ve never had a relationship but i still feel like that
Douchy?? Am I the only one who thought of Jake Paul
Dulce Galarza I thought him and his brother 😂
Logan is more douchey, def him
Lmao immediate thought 😂
same lmao
I was about to comment this😂
She makes me feel normal, for like all my insecurities and problems and worries..
Just me?
same!!!
Same
You're literally 5
@@aj_1207 and? So what if she's five, she can feel how she wants to feel. Just because someone is young doesn't mean they don't have feelings and it doesn't mean you shouldn't respect their feelings.
Omg same
when she realizes that she likes to have really hot showers bcs the feeling of hot water replaces the touch of human heat
That’s nonsense most of the people like really hot shower bc it’s really relaxing the touch theories are nonsense
@@tata-ng2ko r u a psychologist?
JustABadTime not yet but I studied psychology
@@tata-ng2ko when u r talk then
JustABadTime I don’t understand can you say again?
"I like to sit outside... not around people" SO RELATABLE! I LOVE U KEN ❤️❤️❤️
imagine being able to ride a bike at night alone and that *soothing* your anxiety
To me that just sounds like even more anxiety..
it sounds like more anxiety to me as well but everyone copes differently :^)
Lolol omg legit all her coping mechanisms make my anxiety worse. i was like we could not be more different
Caroline Grace lol same. If I were to do that where I live someone would steal me or my bike 🙃
especially in tampa bro
You should do a "Turning myself into Marylin Monroe" video. That would be SO fun
GIRL YES!
Mili Ametrano It’s a must!!!
Wow that’s a great idea
YESS!! And recreating her iconic photos
its way too easy for me all the boys on the block like sesame street yeah danie back at it again yeah danie back at it again diva on it
when u said, that u don't like your nose I lost my shit lol
I literally love ur nose so much it's so beautiful
"I just don't like being around people, they really ruin my vibe" THAT'S ME.
drink a glass of water every time kennedy says "i dont know"
stay hydrated kids 💦
lmao ur comment w that profile pic
👌🏽😫 a fuckin package, dude
I'm actually doing that rn
So should I drown myself?
Change it to shots of vodka
Stay wasted kids
Her nose looks so freaking good idk what is she talking abaout
But if she doesnt like it im all in if she wants to change it, whatever makes her happy
@@yuu227 Im just saying that I love her freaking nose and if she wants to change it, its her freaking business
I love her nose too its so cute!
bora army not whatever makes her happy somethings don’t need to be done lol
right i would die to have her nose lmao
It’s so cool to see someone so open and honest, you’re awesome Kennedy and don’t let anyone “especially yourself” tell you otherwise. I’d love to be able to hang with you and try my best not to kill your vibe
"don't do drugs, read books" 😂
her avoiding eye contact with the camera the whole video was oddly comforting
okay but imagine being THAT beautiful like??? wow I can’t relate
You're beautiful as well girll🤗💓
Marija Divic I second that
There is a "branch" on the aromantic spectrum where you want romance in media or in theory, but not in real life when it comes down to experiencing it yourself. I feel this way a LOT and consider myself pretty aro. I definitely fluxuate on the aspectrum and my feelings change day to day. Not labeling you AT ALL because there are infinite ways to feel, but what you said really resonated with me!
I love your channel!! And thank you for your transparency in this video. You film like you're talking to a friend and it's so refreshing! It would be awesome if you made a video of some of your favorite books! ❤️
DUDE I THOUGHT I WAS MENTAL FOR HAVING THE SAME THING WITH RELATIONSHIPS
like once they like me my stupid ass is just like “this shi boring” 😭🤦🏽♀️
@@zapweus Same, but I can't explain why. It's really annoying tho
Meee toooo
SAME
maria alsharif DUDE, SAME!!! I haven’t really met anyone who’s the same!
You don’t understand how normal this makes me feel. I’ve been stressing about stuff that was discussed in this video for months!!
literally every single you thing is so relatable, i wanna be your best friend 😭
especially the romantic stuff, and the crush thing!!
ok why is she literally a mood. she is such an underrated youtuber.
Lauranette Robertson she has 1 mil subscribers y do u think she underrated lmao
No one:
Literally no one:
You: omggggg she is soooo underrated
Undeterred for 1mil people
She literally has over a million subs lol
you dont have any rights to judge her
Please do a "Turning myself into Sabrina Spellman with Salem" video. Please, please, it's your destiny to do this video. Lol.
YES
I would like but it’s at 69
YASSS
@@savvj4780 YASSSS
YES
Girl I truly think that you’re my alter ego. I’ve spent the last couple of days watching all of your videos and the more I “know” about you the more I’m surprised with how close with how I feel about the world, relationships in general, myself ecc ecc you are. Plus I was born in 2000 too just a few days after you.. idk I think it sounds a little bit stupid as I’m writing this but it just blows my mind how similar we are, watching you makes me feel less “weird” or lonely so idk love you!
this is genuinely the most relatable video i watched in my ENTIRE life i literally felt alone having these kind of thoughts ??
I can’t wait to see you in 1-3 years in a happy relationship finally finding the love you deserve ❤️💕
omg hi taylor!! i love your videos!!
Emma * aw thank you so much Emma!! ❤️
honestly its better to get to a place where ur happy alone than being dependent on another persons love giving u happiness
this makes me cry :< 💕
Taylor Laios this is a very cute comment 🥺 Kennedy it’s a beautiful person out and inside, she deserves someone who really really loves her ♥️
Kennedy: I don’t know my sexuality
Me: SO ARE YOU SAYING THERES A CHANCE 😂
Lmao me
big luk lmaooooooo me
I was ab to say the same thing 😂
sameee ;)
SAME
You’re really speaking out of my soul with this whole love thing…
this was the most relatable video. You got my feelings and thoughts in a nutshell. you made me feel better about them. thank u girly
pls see this kennedy!!! i was watching psycology videos and getting turned off by people who are interested in you is a deep rooted issue. insecure people (not just physically) get repulsed by the idea of someone liking them. they assume the person interested in them must have bad taste/low standards without even realizing it
A friend of mine functioned this way, it was confusing for those who she expressed feelings for, cause one moment she’d be interested and then when they’d express interest back she’d peace out reaaal quick.
oof this is me... which videos? can you link me to some 😂
me lmaooooooolinkthevideopleaseooooooo
I FUNCTION THIS WAY. I've been trying to figure it out and work through it for 6 years now
Lol this is me I have issues
Tbh I’d be down if you started talking about books on your channel. I really want to see what you read. Give us the good book tea!
omg same
yessss
Yes I don't mind if it is only ones a month a good book recommendation. Maybe she can say like I'm gonna read this book next so we can read it at the same time and discuss all the goods
yes!!
transform Kennedy into a booktuber yesssssssss
You are the most relatable person! I can relate to you more than anyone in my life including family and close friends, specially when you talk about you anxiety and relationships and now having kids as well lol
You talking about not understanding your sexuality because you’ve never been emotionally attached to someone is something i relate to sooo much. Even though you think you aren’t making sense, to me (as someone who is going through the exact same thing) it really made me relate.
Imagine if kennedy recreated Emilia Clarke’s photos 😩😍
Yes!!!!!
Sara Shijaku omgg yess
Oh sht yes pleaseeeeee
Sara Shijaku nude?
Maybe she should recreate Olivia O’Brien since everyone keep saying she looks like her lately 😃
Omgggg why is Kennedy’s hair so cuteeeee? 😍😍
"I don't see myself producing one and raising it ".. I really really felt that
Never found anything more relatable than this,
"I just love to sit outside, but I just don't like being around people, they just ruin my vibe"
And believe me, they really do
this is the most relatable video i’ve ever seen omg what
YES
Because she isnt saying something fake😂
literally what she talked about hit me
nice profile pic; I like Danny Phantom too
Ikr
This is how many people like Kennedy’s blonde hair
👇🏻
Ugh stop begging for likes ur just annoying
Megan Chan omg I got it from 666 likes to 667 ur welcome!!
@@colleenb5536 it's 748 😂 😂
Pink Pastel literally lmao
Sara Loscalzo why so that
No one:
Kennedy : * refers to nose as a separate person *
I LOVE HER.
when u said that when u have a crush on someone after getting attention from them u just push them away really hit hard🥺🥺
yoooo this hit so hard. like the part about when somebody reciprocates feelings back and all of a sudden, you're OUT. that's literally me!! It's nice to know I'm not the only who experiences that.❤️
Amalia Lardas I’m the same about this! And I always end up (well not hating) but i don’t wanna see the person anymore lol guess I’m just scared (of what idk lol)
alice5753 yeah swear! It’s like I get scared or it’s just too uncomfortable. It annoys me cause I’m always wishing to be in love or something and then when a guy is into me I’m not into them at ALL
literally happened to me in the last month and i had to stuggle to explain to my friends why i suddenly wasn’t attracted to this boy i’ve been talking about for months LOL
You are just affraid of taking the next step and sabotaging yourself, or you didn't like that guy at all.
@@taylorsmells lmaoo same
“i just find small things that make me happy, even if it’s temporary” i felt that
This video made me shake ( lightly ) and cry as much as it is relatable. Knowing that you're not alone is such a relieve...
I actually had to quit the video at some point.
"If you can't love yourself then how the hell are you gonna love somebody else" -Rupaul
thank you for wording your thoughts on your own sexuality the way you did, that’s almost exactly how I feel and I always feel like an idiot attempting to explaining it.
Me too
Same
same tbh
I feel exactly the same and it's just so confusing aagh!
I related to what she said so hard & I’ve never been able to articulate it either
How to be less sensitive: work in retail until you become tough
Thumbnail or fast food lol
Laurriiiee C I can imagine that’s even worse because people are hangry
@@laurriiieec2074 lol I was extremely shy person and constantly shaking when I talk to ppl,, until 5 days ago where I decided to work at mcdonalds, surprisingly I managed to overcome my fear of ppl which I never thought would happen
hi taeng aww congrats ! 💗
or healthcare when you have extremely combative and rude patients
I literally struggle so much too with social interactions with strangers. I overthink everything and after an interaction I CANNOT stop thinking about how uncomfortable and awkward I was and how much I hate myself about it. I thought I was the only one ily
I really appreciate you being honest about relationships and such, like keeping it in the video. Its probably really helpful for ppl. Felt sweet moment
Your nose fits your face perfectly and I've never seen anybody more beautiful
@@daudmowsumi im sorry but what does my filter have to do with anything?
@@ChiminieChimmy You're telling her that her nose is beautiful but here you are hiding your own nose behind a filter. If you want her to feel better about herself, then you should do that as well. Actions speak louder than words so maybe you can remove that filter and all that makeup to really let people hear what you have to say. Now Im only saying this about you because youre trying to influence people and Im just saying how you can be more effective. Besides there are so many liars nowadays so seeing a profile pic without a filter would really persuade us
@@daudmowsumi I do have a lot of insecurities about myself too, doesn't mean I can't compliment her. She is actually stunning and I could never imagine being that beautiful. Seeing her getting sad over little things like her nose when it doesn't look bad at all made me sad as well. Because everyone can see she's perfect. That being said, I put this pic a long time ago becuz I thought it was cool, I like this pic, that's why I put it there. I have millions of selfies on my social media. Never really cared enough abt UA-cam. Thank you for your concern about me.
@@ChiminieChimmy Oh I'm sorry... I didn't know. I think it's great that you have pics on your social media despite having insecurities. I used to have insecurities too (still do but not as many) but I read somewhere that if you faked living the reality that you want then it'll eventually become true. So pretending that I'm perfect even though I'm not has really helped me to come out of my shell. I realized that even if I were the most prettiest girl in the world, I would still have insecurities because it's in my head. And also even if you're deemed beautiful now, the next year you may not be because beauty trends are always changing. If you're happy with how you are on the inside then how other's perceive your outer appearance will be unimportant. Thanks for being positive even though my comment wasn't. I was kidding though literally all my comments aren't serious. I'm just wasting time lol
@@daudmowsumi bro it's just a filter-
" i don't know how to answer it because I don't have an answer" -kennedy walsh 2019
Reminds me of Jungkook
I had the same experience with love and crushes like you. I thought I was crazy and stupid and I felt desperate. And because of how you spoke about it I would really recommend reading up on compulsory heterosexuality. It opened up so much about how you can experience crushes and how you somehow "choose" men to crush on just to crush on someone but run when they like you back. It's okay not to be sure and to explore new labels and identities, it is a big part in finding yourself. You're amazing Kennedy and as long as you are happy with your own identity then nobody else need to know.
“I’m outta there” 😂 so accurate wtf 😂😭😂😂🤷🏻♀️
1:10 omg I cant believe Jake Paul hit on you
C M that was literally my exact thought
Lmfao same
I was think about the Dolan twins they aren’t really douchy but she said "them" so idk
Nicole Vasquez she was using them in a singular gender free way i’m pretty sure bc she does that a lot i love it. but yeah i think it was singulr
C M OMG😂😂I thought that but I was like... nahhhh
damn kennedy, the way you described your sexuality is just how i feel about mine. i just don’t know but i guess it’s ok
The best thing is you don't really need to know either, just live life and you'll stumble upon the right person sooner or later.
aromantic? 🥀
Rt
Same but like I love the idea of romance an relationships but when it comes to me, I can’t see myself in one, like idk, I’m confusion
@@cindyakachuchi5424 saame
Lovedddddd this video !!!!! Really showed how spontaneous and adorable you are, you showed the real you, and how deep you are for real. Loved you so much 😭💛 even though I’m a new subscriber, I really feel that my soul is totally attached to yours.. you’re deeper than what I thought, it really showed in your answers .. keep being you 💛 I hope seeing you always happy and always doing your best to be happy.
You're so relatable...so glad I found your channel
Kennedy : “I don’t think anyone has ever hit on me”.
Guy: Hi!
Kennedy: “ew”
Relatable
i thought she was wearing a backpack.
*now i can’t unsee it*
Sameeee lol
Girl
Why'd u do that to meeee
Now I see it 😂😓
Omg
I watched this back when you first posted it, so watching it back now is soo nostalgic... just the fact that I am now older than you were back then is just so weird for me haha it kinda feels like we grew up together a little bit... thanks for being my comfort youtuber, I appreciate you a lot
MAN ive never related to a person more than to kennedy like wtf in absolutely everything
Question: name a UA-camr who has hit on you
Kennedy: just think douchey
Me: OMG JAKE PAUL HIT ON HER
Pamela Miller the accuracy-
Literally my first thought
Legit my first thought... a Paul brother.
i thought of bryce hall lmaooo
That’s who I thought toooooo
kennedy, you remind me a lot of myself when i was younger (i'm 23 if it matters). i basically spent my teenage years shutting myself off from the world and using tv shows and books as a coping mechanism. tv shows in particular created a sort of idealized version of what the perfect boyfriend and my relationship with him should be like, that nobody in real life could compare to. just like you, i never even crushed on real life people because of the unrealistic standard i set BY MYSELF. people would always act surprised that i didn't have a boyfriend and that i had never had one. whenever someone showed interest in me i didn't know how to act. i always panicked and pushed them away, then later i'd end up regretting it when i felt all alone. i craved attention but also feared it. my advice would be to stop stressing so much about the boyfriend and just focus on learning how to be more social. this is the harsh truth - you need to socialize. i know it's very hard and draining for someone who is introverted but i can promise you that it's worth it and it gets easier. i look back and regret all the years i wasted alone in my room instead of going outside, experiencing things, making memories, etc. nobody says you need to party all the time or anything but just PHYSICALLY being outside increases your chances of meeting someone. that someone isn't going to just knock on your door, you need to put yourself out there. what helped me personally was working a job that kind of forced me to be more social, for better or worse. it was very stressful at first but later i relaxed and learned how to be more comfortable around people. simply changing my attitude made interacting with people much easier because people can sense your attitude. i noticed that sometimes for girls being shy and socially awkward can make you seem kind of stand-offish and maybe even mean (the prettier you are the worse the effect is), whereas being laid back and friendly makes you more approachable. i've noticed that i get more complimented and hit on when i'm in a good mood. so i guess my final advice is: focus on yourself, get out, make friends, don't stress it. you're bound to meet someone. for me it happened when i least expected it.
Amen! hope she sees your comment. Also, Kennedy obviously isn't going to get a job but maybe she could volunteer at the Humane Society or a local animal shelter? It's a good and "safe" way to socialize because there's a purpose and activities for you to do with people. I feel like that structured environment kinda cuts down on the anxiety and scariness of meeting people out somewhere where you have to think of things to do and say. Hopefully that makes sense! Plus, Kennedy loves kitties so she'll also be doing a good deed which is really fulfilling emotionally. It'd be a win-win-win really :)
Thank you so much
Thank you so much for this advice. It really helped me♡♡♡
You said everything I wanted to say !! I had the same experience as you, and your advice is the best!
S 100%! This is so true. Love this advice