I have always struggled with anger , resentments, and unforgiveness. I have been working on it with a therapist and 12 step sponsor, and it is getting better. I was told that resentments only hurt you, not the wrongdoers. I had to write down my resentments and how they affected me to see the damage to motivate me to let go. I also had to write down my part in the resentments so I could see where i was in the wrong, make amends, change behaviors, build my character and reconcile relationships if appropriate. Obviously there are some situations you don't play a part like if you were abused. I really get into psychology and human behavior so I like to understand why people act how they do for example mental illness. It helps to have compassion on them and to wish them well. This is NOT justifying or condoning it just helps to understand, have compassion, and wish them well. Its also not good to get revenge, not only because of consequence but they will get their karma and there will be justice. If it motivates them to change and make amends be happy for them.
At least the two of you value your marriage enough to get help together to address issues & move forward as a unit. I hope I find a spouse someday who will do the same. 🙏🏼
I just finish watching this podcast , it helps me to realise that I really want to make it work with my partner , and move on together. Much love for you both
REPENT FOR THE KINGDOM OF HEAVEN IS AT HAND, TURN FROM SIN AND TURN TOWARDS RIGHTEOUSNESS THROUGH CHRIST JESUS JESUS CHRIST IS COMING BACK SOON AND WE MUST BE READY FOR WHEN HE COMES BACK
I have always struggled with anger , resentments, and unforgiveness. I have been working on it with a therapist and 12 step sponsor, and it is getting better. I was told that resentments only hurt you, not the wrongdoers. I had to write down my resentments and how they affected me to see the damage to motivate me to let go. I also had to write down my part in the resentments so I could see where i was in the wrong, make amends, change behaviors, build my character and reconcile relationships if appropriate. Obviously there are some situations you don't play a part like if you were abused. I really get into psychology and human behavior so I like to understand why people act how they do for example mental illness. It helps to have compassion on them and to wish them well. This is NOT justifying or condoning it just helps to understand, have compassion, and wish them well. Its also not good to get revenge, not only because of consequence but they will get their karma and there will be justice. If it motivates them to change and make amends be happy for them.
At least the two of you value your marriage enough to get help together to address issues & move forward as a unit. I hope I find a spouse someday who will do the same. 🙏🏼
I just finish watching this podcast , it helps me to realise that I really want to make it work with my partner , and move on together.
Much love for you both
Thank you and thanks for watching!!
Let me just tell you, these episodes with Dre and Bre are deep and anointed. More please
Thank You! 😌
this is insightful
some really great nuggets here ❤
REPENT FOR THE KINGDOM OF HEAVEN IS AT HAND, TURN FROM SIN AND TURN TOWARDS RIGHTEOUSNESS THROUGH CHRIST JESUS
JESUS CHRIST IS COMING BACK SOON AND WE MUST BE READY FOR WHEN HE COMES BACK
Can you please send over black therapist that you recommend. Thx