The 5 people: Cheerleader - believes in you and supports you even when you don't believe in yourself Mentor - Your primary guide and teacher Coach - helps you step outside your comfort zone and reach your potential Friend - Is there for you Peer - Understands your career/position and helps you navigate socially
I was in tears watching this. Realizing that my depression was triggered by the passing away of my cheerleader was so overwhelming for me. I miss him beyond words.
Sorry to hear that you lost someone important to you and you've been experiencing prolonged sadness as a result. Just remember the things he said to support you and imagine him saying them to you when you miss him. His spirit is still cheering for you
Damn... I've been binge watching ted talks between homeworks the whole evening. I skipped this video for like 3 times in a row and it still ended up automatically playing after another one. For real, it's the best one i've listened to tonight.
4:18 happiness. true, bona-fide, authentic happiness 5:38 optimism 6:10 relationships impact happiness 6:36 the five people 8:05 the toxic people 9:11 looking outside, while you're stuck in adversity/ your head/ not ideal circumstances 9:37 1) cheerleader 10:56 2) mentor. ONE mentor 12:49 3) coach 15:15 4) friend 15:33 5) peer
Wow your words are so true. I thought about how I don’t have those 5 people, but I have one and I’m super happy. So I started to doubt her theory about those 5 persons and look for someone who does, too, before I realised that she’s right nonetheless. My husband is all of these people :)
Beautiful!!! I too am part of the young mother crew, had my son when I was 15. My son is 18 now and I am wrapping up my last semester at USC for my Masters in Social Work as I work a full time job at my county’s Bureau of Victim Services. The one person who encouraged me to go to college was my 7 th grade History teacher.
Sunday, I'm 78. Due to a malfunction, this marks a year being bedridden. I live with a knindly caretaker who is a little older than me, who cannot keep a sanitary, clean house. I can tolerate messy, but not unsanitary. I supply all grocery expense which is shopped by the caretaker and my online orders. There are no other people in my aquaintence, but family and former fellow employees and a few living friends are in the others life, but none on a close level. From observations over the years, most we aged people experience this isolation. We need the same 5 supporters given here, yet connecting and major living and death changes prove daunting obstacles. Thank you for this inspiring moment, Sttacey
You can tell that the words that people told her that were negative still hurt even though she has healed. See that 1 teacher is all she needed to make that change in her life!!
This was such an inspiring speech. So many people believe happiness is accidental, but it require the intention and actions. thankful for finding those five people and hoping that more people find their Factor Five. Continue to spread this beautiful message Stacey.
I am my cheerleader, my mentor, my coach, my best friend and my peer. Whether I have this people in my life or not, I'm still a healthy person and I can always be the best version of myself for me and for others. People come and go, especially when you evolve and grow. So thanks to all the people who were these at some chapters of my life and for those who will be, but I gotta keep going whether I have someone in my life or not. I'm with God, and God is in me. That's the most important thing at all 💯
I love that and I couldn't agree more. It's so true people do come and go even when you have the best of intentions toward them. Transformation begins from within!
I have followed Stacey for over a year here on UA-cam but am finally getting to see her walk her purpose. Stacey has documented a very RAW, but inspiring, journey to get out of a pretty hefty debt, most of which is her post-grad education. She follows Dave Ramsey’s program and has proven SO many people wrong in her success. She was making $800/month, working part-time and working through childhood trauma...and now she’s making GREAT money and doing precisely what she was meant to do. She is also one of the most transparent people that I’ve seen on UA-cam. I hope she continues to walk this beautiful path of hers, and I will be celebrating with a glass of champagne once she pays off that very last debt.
Five key people that you need in your life: »A cheerleader. People that always support you when you're feeling down. »Mentor. Their primary role is to mentor you in the right direction, and willingness to share information. »A coach. He is meant to make you a little bit uncomfortable and maximize your potential and reaching your goal. »A friend. You need this person to know your true-est heart desire. »A peer that helps you in the social situation and always keep your heads up!
Ms. Flowers, you are beautiful -- on the inside as well as on the outside. And..you are wise. Thank you for your encouraging talk. I also had a baby when I was in high school. Back in those days, that particular school would not permit young women to complete their studies once they'd had a child. (Of course, the young fathers were allowed to continue!) I was ostracized by most friends. There were no cheerleader, mentor, nor coach. I did have a friend, though -- as well as a peer. Truly Divine gifts for which I am forever grateful. I am SO happy that you had the opportunity to meet up with your cheerleader and mentor. You will surely bring tremendous healing to the world. In my mind and heart, you are the star, not Beyoncé!
Lorraine you are a star and winner for going through all that... and all that you have said here about Ms. Flowers applies to you too... you are beautiful inside and outside
I only clicked on it because she is so beautiful. Amazing woman. We need 5 people in your life to connect and catch happiness. Cheerleader, mentor, coach, friend, a peer. Children to teen parents are 80% more likely to go to prison, be poor. Cheerleader believes in myself. Mentor points you into the right direction: willing to share information and point you into the right direction, in one direction. Coach: makes you uncomfortable, puts you into the right place. The one friend who knows your heart's desire. Not in same industry. Peer: in social situations. Peer keeps your head in the game. To lick your wounds.
I am on vacation and struggling with a break up two days before. I’m so glad I came across this video. She helped me put a few this in perspective and now I feel like I can enjoy Hawaii. 🥰Thank you
This was great. I'm a teacher, so she grabbed my attention immediately with the story of her guidance counselor. We really can succeed despite the obstacles.
I love everything about this woman! She is so brave, strong and intelligent, she's worked so hard and achieved so much, her energy is mind-blowing and to top it all she looks gorgeous!
Wow!!! This TEDx talk is life-altering. Thank you for helping me to change my narrative. You are beautiful inside and outside. You are so articulate, eloquent and extremely smart. The world is yet to experience what you have to offer. You must be nothing short of celestial. I’m inspired all the way from Durban in South Africa. 🇿🇦
You are the average of the five people you choose to associate with the most! ..usually you get video titles of Joy and Happiness, but here is Ms. Flowers taking us on a redefined HAPPY tour. Refreshing..
This TED talk is so important. I think we have this misconception in society that we need to be self made and independent. in reality we all need someone to believe in us, to point us in right direction, to tell us no, to be supportive. I love this!
This is Amazing. But, one caveat; If you’re someone who has struggled to find those 5 people in your lives life. Take a step today and find one. Also, be a cheerleader for yourself if you can; I know it’s hard at time. But, you’re worth it. The speaker has been truly blessed tto have found these people. It will be my goal to manifest the people I need in my life. Let’s remember to encourage each other everyday. You could be anyone of those people to someone and not even know it. 🦋
Absolutely loved this video! I had a very dysfunctional childhood, left home at 15, and got myself through two mental breakdowns in my 20's. Rock bottom brought around many changes, and by the time I started my family (weeks before my 30th birthday) I was in a great place. Ten years of family life have been super challenging, for many reasons, but I have stood firm in my belief that because I have surrounded myself with excellent people, I have overcome two, three lifetimes worth of problems. Living in echo chambers will get us no where. Ditto only having "yes" people in our lives, and ditto x100 those hundreds of facebook friends, who very much are NOT your friends. Listen to this lady, she knows what she's talking about!!
cheerleader - can tell you that you can do it mentor - has willingless to share information, and can point you in the direction that you want to go coach - can maximize your potential and make things happen friend - will always be connected to your truest heart's desire peer - will always keep your head in the game
I am 60 and I have learned these things slowly. I wish I had heard you 40 years ago. I have a good life and I do the things you talk about. I love giving people a better day. You are life and goodness and beauty.
Everything about this talk shined! Her presence, her talent, and her message were pure light. And the concert story reminded me of the power of joy for joy's sake, and the need to make those moments happen in your life.
So many times we get mad at a friend, because we expect him/her to be our cheerleader, mentor, coach etc... Thanks for this, now I know what to look for and what to give to others too xx
Stacey I've never watched a TED talk this exciting! Thank you for letting me know that I need a Beyoncé moment but better yet a cheerleader, mentor, coach, peer and friend. Currently in search for the right mentor that's in alignment with my purpose. Thank you💜
When you get married it's all negotiable. Negotiations before I do. A relationship is not supposed to be difficult or one sided. Or a big challenge. Planning together.
🙌🏾 I was not seventeen but twenty-one & scared. Scared that I may of been a statistic instead I had people who believed in me. They motivated & pushed me now my eldest daughter is thirteen. So thank you for reiterating.
This broke my heart because recently I lost someone in my life who I saw as a mentor (someone to point you in the right direction) and a cheer leader. I knew them my whole life but we did not talk for most of it because he was a friend of my grandmother. After my grandmother passed away I reached out to him to talk about my spiritual path our two hour long conversation changed my life. He was one of the only people in my life who I could talk to about what I was feeling and give me some perspective that I could use. The path I was on was a bit esoteric so generally people were unwilling to talk to me about my experiences even when they were in the community. When I heard he'd passed away I cried for a few days and felt an huge sense of loss even though we hadn't spoken in years. When people asked who he was to me I couldn't articulate it. No one as in not connected by blood but everything because of the confidence he afforded me.
"Happiness happens before success" EXACTLY! Find your happiness in you and everything you think you need to be happy will happen...job, partner, friends etc.
What is interesting is that you can apply all these people to different aspects of your life, career, social, physical etc. Some will probably over lapse, thank god cause you can only maintain so many relationships
Only just half way, I already was taken by her honest to goodness speech, her voice , her and her message.. Lady, I truly like you. More power to you. God bless .
This video helped me realise that what I'm missing more than anything is a peer. I used to have one but we've drifted apart and I've since forgiven a lot of bad friends some serious flaws in an effort to try and replace him. I truly do think this is key to my happiness and career right now.
These words are so powerful, she speaks so much truth i am crying. i cannot tell you how many teachers connected with me in terms of my interests and my god that has fueled me for years and years.
OH MY GOD STACEY I"M SO HAPPY YOU SHARED THROUGH A TEDx TALK! I've been following you for so long, i've left this comment before even watching the video :)
Couple mins after liking the video I reached for the like button again, forgetting that I can only like once. I can relate to her story and it resonate well with me. Society beats down too much on teenage mothers. Most family and friends literally write off your life making it very difficult to bounce back on your feet but with strong determination you will achieve your goals one day.
Traducido de Maakhe: "La felicidad viene antes que el éxito!" Los 5 "primeros" como yo los entiendo. 1. Animador: Para que crea en vos cuando luchas por creer vos mismo. 2. Mentor: para señalarte la dirección correcta cuando te sentís perdido 3. Entrenador: para sacarte de tu zona de confort y que puedas maximizar tu potencial 4. Amigo: para escuchar tus sueños y deseos más profundos 5. Compañero: para mantenerte enfocado en la tarea en cuestión
I think it's also just as important to make sure you are at least one of these type of people for someone else... Pay it forward.
I feel like I'm all of these things, for different people:)
That's a great point. I need to be that for my friends.
Jacquie Kudolo i just a 5 monute comerical i was tgumbs upong
I love this comment a 💯times
Girl...Amen
SHE IS SO BEAUTIFUL, so charismatic and inspiring!!!! *.*
She has a UA-cam channel about budgeting, happiness, and saving
She is gorgeous
@@OcarinatOfSquids como se llama el canal?
Omg! She’s graciously beautiful 😍
@@salomonsalfate8329 Stacey Flowers
The prettiest girl in the world
There are many pretty girls in the world, but she is definitely one gorgeous girl.
what you even mean? i had to increase my phone brightness to see her
Hinemoa GREAT JOB BRO
I am DEAD. 🤣🤣🤣🤣
Is meeeee!!😎😎😜😜
I love the pace and energy she speaks with
Thank you sooooooo much!
You are welcome, thanks for this awesome framework.
SAMMME!!!! It’s SOOoOO easy to follow.
Me too!!! ❤
i was thinking the same thing the whole time!
The 5 people:
Cheerleader - believes in you and supports you even when you don't believe in yourself
Mentor - Your primary guide and teacher
Coach - helps you step outside your comfort zone and reach your potential
Friend - Is there for you
Peer - Understands your career/position and helps you navigate socially
I was in tears watching this. Realizing that my depression was triggered by the passing away of my cheerleader was so overwhelming for me. I miss him beyond words.
@Josephine Bournes ikr💜
Realization is a start to making a move....
Sorry to hear that you lost someone important to you and you've been experiencing prolonged sadness as a result. Just remember the things he said to support you and imagine him saying them to you when you miss him. His spirit is still cheering for you
{{{hugs}}} to you, @ms mrs! You are still loved
Give gratitude for the times you shared.
Not only is she eloquent, well spoken, and fiercely intelligent but good Lord this women exudes beauty!
Damn...
I've been binge watching ted talks between homeworks the whole evening. I skipped this video for like 3 times in a row and it still ended up automatically playing after another one.
For real, it's the best one i've listened to tonight.
I HAD EXAMS THIS WEEK AND BEEN BINGE WATCHING TED TALKS AS WELL!
agreed 🖤
Ivan Laplante me too!!!!!😂
Right
It hooked me lol
Jesus, she is stunning and brilliant. My GOD.
AMEN sista, AMEN!!!
4:18 happiness. true, bona-fide, authentic happiness
5:38 optimism
6:10 relationships impact happiness
6:36 the five people
8:05 the toxic people
9:11 looking outside, while you're stuck in adversity/ your head/ not ideal circumstances
9:37 1) cheerleader
10:56 2) mentor. ONE mentor
12:49 3) coach
15:15 4) friend
15:33 5) peer
Thank Uuuuu
Thank you so much
"Happiness must happen before success."
Imagine being so gorgeous that you can pull off a bald look
There are people who are lucky enough to find those 5 persons in their life but there are some that even luckier to find all 5 of them in one
Wow your words are so true. I thought about how I don’t have those 5 people, but I have one and I’m super happy. So I started to doubt her theory about those 5 persons and look for someone who does, too, before I realised that she’s right nonetheless. My husband is all of these people :)
and others who can't find anyone
That's very true!
my mom is all of them in one for me
coonect to the right people, ur cheerleader 😊mentor, coach, friend, peer, 😊
Beautiful!!! I too am part of the young mother crew, had my son when I was 15. My son is 18 now and I am wrapping up my last semester at USC for my Masters in Social Work as I work a full time job at my county’s Bureau of Victim Services. The one person who encouraged me to go to college was my 7 th grade History teacher.
Adriana Tabares congratulations 💝
Wow, amazing 🤍🤍🤍🤍 future MSW here💙
Congratulations! Very happy for you! 💪🏽
Sunday, I'm 78. Due to a malfunction, this marks a year being bedridden.
I live with a knindly caretaker who is a little older than me, who cannot keep a sanitary, clean house. I can tolerate messy, but not unsanitary.
I supply all grocery expense which is shopped by the caretaker and my online orders.
There are no other people in my aquaintence, but family and former fellow employees and a few living friends are in the others life, but none on a close level.
From observations over the years, most we aged people experience this isolation. We need the same 5 supporters given here, yet connecting and major living and death changes prove daunting obstacles.
Thank you for this inspiring moment, Sttacey
You can tell that the words that people told her that were negative still hurt even though she has healed. See that 1 teacher is all she needed to make that change in her life!!
The difference between friend and peer just blew my mind. That distinguish gave me so much perception. Major key sis! Thank you!
This was such an inspiring speech. So many people believe happiness is accidental, but it require the intention and actions. thankful for finding those five people and hoping that more people find their Factor Five. Continue to spread this beautiful message Stacey.
+My Fab Finance Thank you so much! I will and you continue to do the same with all your excellent work!!!!
@@StaceyFlowers a 5g u my night
she is just so beautiful inside and out, didn't expect to feel that way
I am my cheerleader, my mentor, my coach, my best friend and my peer. Whether I have this people in my life or not, I'm still a healthy person and I can always be the best version of myself for me and for others. People come and go, especially when you evolve and grow. So thanks to all the people who were these at some chapters of my life and for those who will be, but I gotta keep going whether I have someone in my life or not. I'm with God, and God is in me. That's the most important thing at all 💯
I love that and I couldn't agree more. It's so true people do come and go even when you have the best of intentions toward them. Transformation begins from within!
Ms. Stacey Flowers is one of the most beautiful humans I have ever seen.
My mom is all 5 of them
IKR MY MOM IS LIKE 3/5
This was my first thought 😂💕
I love moms 😊💕
i was just gonna say that 💕
you're very lucky
I have followed Stacey for over a year here on UA-cam but am finally getting to see her walk her purpose. Stacey has documented a very RAW, but inspiring, journey to get out of a pretty hefty debt, most of which is her post-grad education. She follows Dave Ramsey’s program and has proven SO many people wrong in her success. She was making $800/month, working part-time and working through childhood trauma...and now she’s making GREAT money and doing precisely what she was meant to do. She is also one of the most transparent people that I’ve seen on UA-cam. I hope she continues to walk this beautiful path of hers, and I will be celebrating with a glass of champagne once she pays off that very last debt.
it's not the other people that can help you catch happiness; it's yourself
Boom!
Five key people that you need in your life:
»A cheerleader. People that always support you when you're feeling down.
»Mentor. Their primary role is to mentor you in the right direction, and willingness to share information.
»A coach. He is meant to make you a little bit uncomfortable and maximize your potential and reaching your goal.
»A friend. You need this person to know your true-est heart desire.
»A peer that helps you in the social situation and always keep your heads up!
Ms. Flowers, you are beautiful -- on the inside as well as on the outside. And..you are wise. Thank you for your encouraging talk. I also had a baby when I was in high school. Back in those days, that particular school would not permit young women to complete their studies once they'd had a child. (Of course, the young fathers were allowed to continue!) I was ostracized by most friends. There were no cheerleader, mentor, nor coach. I did have a friend, though -- as well as a peer. Truly Divine gifts for which I am forever grateful. I am SO happy that you had the opportunity to meet up with your cheerleader and mentor. You will surely bring tremendous healing to the world. In my mind and heart, you are the star, not Beyoncé!
Lorraine you are a star and winner for going through all that... and all that you have said here about Ms. Flowers applies to you too... you are beautiful inside and outside
@@anusivaNilavu Thank you 🙏🏻
I only clicked on it because she is so beautiful. Amazing woman.
We need 5 people in your life to connect and catch happiness.
Cheerleader, mentor, coach, friend, a peer. Children to teen parents are 80% more likely to go to prison, be poor. Cheerleader believes in myself. Mentor points you into the right direction: willing to share information and point you into the right direction, in one direction. Coach: makes you uncomfortable, puts you into the right place.
The one friend who knows your heart's desire. Not in same industry. Peer: in social situations. Peer keeps your head in the game. To lick your wounds.
Wow she’s really strikingly gorgeous
I am on vacation and struggling with a break up two days before. I’m so glad I came across this video. She helped me put a few this in perspective and now I feel like I can enjoy Hawaii. 🥰Thank you
This woman is truly astonishing! She has more insight then I dared dream when I clicked!
She has shown the path to all of us who listened to the talk, but we all have to discover our 5 ourselves.....
This was great. I'm a teacher, so she grabbed my attention immediately with the story of her guidance counselor. We really can succeed despite the obstacles.
I love everything about this woman! She is so brave, strong and intelligent, she's worked so hard and achieved so much, her energy is mind-blowing and to top it all she looks gorgeous!
Wow!!! This TEDx talk is life-altering. Thank you for helping me to change my narrative. You are beautiful inside and outside. You are so articulate, eloquent and extremely smart. The world is yet to experience what you have to offer. You must be nothing short of celestial. I’m inspired all the way from Durban in South Africa. 🇿🇦
I made myself happy, so that proves to me that no one else is needed for happiness :)
I saw her and started clapping immediately. She's stunning, passionate, intelligent, and honest about her humanity. Inspiring!
She speaks with so much passion, speaks from the heart such a talented and gifted speaker
The way she says “lightbulb” is sooo cute.
You are the average of the five people you choose to associate with the most!
..usually you get video titles of Joy and Happiness, but here is Ms. Flowers taking us on a redefined HAPPY tour.
Refreshing..
HAPPINESS COMES BEFORE SUCCESS - THANK YOU!!! REAFFIRMING WHAT I SHOULD HAVE KNOWN A LONG TIME AGO
This TED talk is so important. I think we have this misconception in society that we need to be self made and independent. in reality we all need someone to believe in us, to point us in right direction, to tell us no, to be supportive. I love this!
Damn she is gorgeous. She need to be on the big screen or cover of magazines. That is my kind of lady super gorgeous.
This is irrelevant to her talk
This is Amazing. But, one caveat; If you’re someone who has struggled to find those 5 people in your lives life. Take a step today and find one. Also, be a cheerleader for yourself if you can; I know it’s hard at time. But, you’re worth it. The speaker has been truly blessed tto have found these people. It will be my goal to manifest the people I need in my life. Let’s remember to encourage each other everyday. You could be anyone of those people to someone and not even know it. 🦋
Absolutely loved this video! I had a very dysfunctional childhood, left home at 15, and got myself through two mental breakdowns in my 20's. Rock bottom brought around many changes, and by the time I started my family (weeks before my 30th birthday) I was in a great place. Ten years of family life have been super challenging, for many reasons, but I have stood firm in my belief that because I have surrounded myself with excellent people, I have overcome two, three lifetimes worth of problems. Living in echo chambers will get us no where. Ditto only having "yes" people in our lives, and ditto x100 those hundreds of facebook friends, who very much are NOT your friends. Listen to this lady, she knows what she's talking about!!
Her energy is limitless!
cheerleader - can tell you that you can do it
mentor - has willingless to share information, and can point you in the direction that you want to go
coach - can maximize your potential and make things happen
friend - will always be connected to your truest heart's desire
peer - will always keep your head in the game
I am 60 and I have learned these things slowly. I wish I had heard you 40 years ago. I have a good life and I do the things you talk about. I love giving people a better day. You are life and goodness and beauty.
inner beauty is real yall
Everything about this talk shined! Her presence, her talent, and her message were pure light. And the concert story reminded me of the power of joy for joy's sake, and the need to make those moments happen in your life.
“Most of us can’t catch happiness because we’re not connected to the right people to inspire us to go after it and get it”
So many times we get mad at a friend, because we expect him/her to be our cheerleader, mentor, coach etc... Thanks for this, now I know what to look for and what to give to others too xx
first of all this was amazing second of all HER SKIN HONEYYYYY
I try not to comment on people's looks too much, but Stacy looks like she could be a goddess
Stacey I've never watched a TED talk this exciting! Thank you for letting me know that I need a Beyoncé moment but better yet a cheerleader, mentor, coach, peer and friend. Currently in search for the right mentor that's in alignment with my purpose. Thank you💜
+Kelechi Onyeuku You are sooooooooo very welcome! Thank you so much for watching!!!!!
Ms. Flowers is stunning and her words are beautiful. Thank you! Cheerleader, Mentor, Coach, Friend & peer.
Authentic happiness- Unleashing God given talents to positively influence this world.
I like this definition.
Her voice, her speech style, face, and body. Everything about her is perfect 😍😍
ok hol up she's like one of the most beautiful people i've ever seen like i clicked because i was like woah
It takes one person cheerleading you to give you that strength and passion and courage to believe that you can do it, you go Stacey, inspirational
When you get married it's all negotiable. Negotiations before I do. A relationship is not supposed to be difficult or one sided. Or a big challenge. Planning together.
The thing with this is that people change... You have to prepare for that beforehand
🙌🏾 I was not seventeen but twenty-one & scared. Scared that I may of been a statistic instead I had people who believed in me. They motivated & pushed me now my eldest daughter is thirteen. So thank you for reiterating.
From one uneducated mother to another. We made it. I'm me first.
Yes, creating value for others creates happiness. Contributing to others who are helping others creates happiness.
You had me crying, laughing, dreaming and understanding in under 20-min! 😭😮😩 Stacey, you are magical. Thank you for being a vessel!
@staceyflowers
What an amazing speaker you are... loved to hear you and always will...
Wow. This woman is stunning.
So many people have already commented about her beauty. Well... I'm no difference. She is gorgeous 😍
A marvelous speaker with bright concepts and ideas, an inspiring story, plus she's absolutely gorgeous!! Loved this.
I am so impressed by her mix of intelligence, eloquence and beauty. Great Talk Stacey!!
Who else is crying at ten minutes about the cheerleader story
Me here
I am
Stacey Flowers!
You are truly stunning!
Your speech is greatly inspiring!
*i’m changed* after this.
thank you, stacey; thank you. ❤️
This broke my heart because recently I lost someone in my life who I saw as a mentor (someone to point you in the right direction) and a cheer leader. I knew them my whole life but we did not talk for most of it because he was a friend of my grandmother. After my grandmother passed away I reached out to him to talk about my spiritual path our two hour long conversation changed my life. He was one of the only people in my life who I could talk to about what I was feeling and give me some perspective that I could use. The path I was on was a bit esoteric so generally people were unwilling to talk to me about my experiences even when they were in the community. When I heard he'd passed away I cried for a few days and felt an huge sense of loss even though we hadn't spoken in years. When people asked who he was to me I couldn't articulate it. No one as in not connected by blood but everything because of the confidence he afforded me.
Gorgeous and an awesome speaker! You can actually feel the excitement vs the transition back to earth. Stop with 18 mins, give her an hour
"Happiness happens before success" EXACTLY! Find your happiness in you and everything you think you need to be happy will happen...job, partner, friends etc.
She is absolutely GORGEOUS! ❤️❤️❤️ Inspiriting TedTalk for sure Queen 👑
What is interesting is that you can apply all these people to different aspects of your life, career, social, physical etc. Some will probably over lapse, thank god cause you can only maintain so many relationships
Absolutely gorgeous!! Brava Ms. Flowers. What a gift to find you, thank you❤
Stacey Flowers please continue PREACHING !!! I love this TAlK!!
everything about her is beautiful wow like even her voice
Only just half way, I already was taken by her honest to goodness speech, her voice , her and her message.. Lady, I truly like you. More power to you. God bless .
Thank you sister girl..this need to be seen million times over and over. I took notes✅✅🙏🏽
This video helped me realise that what I'm missing more than anything is a peer. I used to have one but we've drifted apart and I've since forgiven a lot of bad friends some serious flaws in an effort to try and replace him. I truly do think this is key to my happiness and career right now.
This woman is 30 years old. Let's that sink in.
she barely looks 25 T-T
…so…?
This was so inspiring. What resonated with me was that we think success will lead to happiness, however, it is happiness which will lead to success.
Perhaps if I had these 5 relationships, I wouldn't feel so alone. 🤔 Time to do something about it.
here if you need me to be one of those.
These words are so powerful, she speaks so much truth i am crying. i cannot tell you how many teachers connected with me in terms of my interests and my god that has fueled me for years and years.
OH MY GOD STACEY I"M SO HAPPY YOU SHARED THROUGH A TEDx TALK! I've been following you for so long, i've left this comment before even watching the video :)
Beautiful exciting, amazing loving inspiring talk. Thank you, bless you. All your dreams come true.
I'm super happy with myself (cheerleader), sun (mentor), fruit (coach), & 2 chihuahuas (friend & peer). lol.
Stacey blooms just like a flower. So beautiful, strong and inspiring!
I’ve been following you for your minimalist/budgeting videos and this is the first time I’ve seen your Ted talk! Love you even more now!
Couple mins after liking the video I reached for the like button again, forgetting that I can only like once. I can relate to her story and it resonate well with me. Society beats down too much on teenage mothers. Most family and friends literally write off your life making it very difficult to bounce back on your feet but with strong determination you will achieve your goals one day.
One of the best best ted talks I've seen so far. Thank you for these truly inspiring words from such a bright, strong and intelligent woman!
This is probably a life changing TED talk for me. She was able to change my perspective. Amazing
She is awesome! She should be on the main stage at Ted!
This woman is stunning! She has a magnetic personality and an awesome message. Thank you for sharing.
Traducido de Maakhe:
"La felicidad viene antes que el éxito!"
Los 5 "primeros" como yo los entiendo.
1. Animador: Para que crea en vos cuando luchas por creer vos mismo.
2. Mentor: para señalarte la dirección correcta cuando te sentís perdido
3. Entrenador: para sacarte de tu zona de confort y que puedas maximizar tu potencial
4. Amigo: para escuchar tus sueños y deseos más profundos
5. Compañero: para mantenerte enfocado en la tarea en cuestión
I hear you Stacey. This will be acted upon. And shared. Thank you.
So happy I came across this. At this junction in my life it was right on time.
wtf she's not only gorgeous but she's super well-spoken and an engaging speaker like WOW