If a guy asks a girl out 1-on-1 that is a date. It's sad that she didn't think that. That guy probably thought she was into him because he asked her out and she said yes, that's the signal to him that she's interested and he probably went for the kiss after she had her drink and they were laughing together. This is why I always make it clear "It's a date" because I wouldn't want to waste my time with some girl who agrees to go out with me and then think the whole time "We're just friends"... Poor guy. As for me, I wouldn't go for the first kiss the first time you meet her or first date. I strongly recommend holding her hand first, if she rejects that, then you'll know if she wants to kiss you or not.
Actually, here's an idea for another video: "How to know if you're on a date". Especially useful for people from countries where there's no word for "date" in their language (like in Spanish, for example)
Building tension is an important in ingredient in many situations. Creates anticipation, keeps things interesting, exciting. Used in movies, music, novels, etc, etc. Keeps you coming back for more.
I was with my crush yesterday and of course im in the friendzone and i know it so i did not go for the kiss but when we said goodbye i did get a hug. Can a get like for skill?
Striker- ZQ your probably friendzoned because of your age. I used to like a girl who was older than me but it didn't work out because I was 14 like you and she was 16 (same situation) if your friendzoned it's usually because you didn't make a move earlier. So I suggest try and find someone new. Make a move on them and usually girls who friendzoned you get jealous because you converted your attention to someone else. If it doesn't work out with someone else then try again.
This is useful information, don’t have the luck other guys do with women when I finally get a first date I want to kiss her and it’s like she’s not feeling it I have seen a lot of attractive girls I just feel like I’m going to mess it normally I never get past the first date. I’m to the point if I meet that special girl one day I’ll know it it’s so frustrating I don’t walk up and ask girls out because I feel like I’m going to be blown off by them, I want that one beautiful woman that’s made for me.
Kenneth Warren I feel for you. So its ok. Just take your time an don't rush it. It will come some point. Theirs always that special someone out there for everyone. Just got to go look for it. May not be in the area you're in. But good luck man I hope for the best.
Tnx Tripp you are awesome you gave me the courage, im gonna go up to one shy girl and try to talk to her and also you can make a video how to talk to a shy girl to help me. Tnx
Hey tripp want to know your thought about the use of tongue? Should i use in first time, hold off for another time, doesn’t matter...? haven’t really kissed many girls but when i have, i kinda just let them go for it first before i made that move.
if i were you i'd just slightly go lick lip with your tongue while your kissing and see how she reacts. if she doesn't start using her tongue just go back to normal kissing.
Hey I asked this girl on a date/hangout, and she said yes, I told her if I get the vibe I’m going for the kiss and she said bet, so is that a good sign lol? I’m 17 she’s 16 btw
Guys, you may not believe but my first kiss happened when I was 5 years old. I was much braver than I am now😩. After that, the girl that I kissed still has a crush on me😄
1) Start slow and light. Touch her face/cheek, neck, hair. 2)Linger a little. Let each other breath near each other bit. Feel the warmth of her skin near yours. Build up to the deeper, longer kisses.Also, there are times when we are in a comfortable place where I'll start and when she responds by going into the kiss I pull back and with a little smirk shake my head a bit - basically telling her to stop and just let me kiss her without her doing anything too much, no hands. Start with lips, cheek, neck back to lips, etc., etc. Adding a few very light nibbles in there is also helpful.Then kinda give her the Ok to go at it. All this is done without saying a word.
I really wanted to know what do we guys do with our tong. The movement and the amount of pressure. You've been helping me a lot but you didn't helped me on that
I’ve heard that you should never go in with tongue right away. I’m ugly so I’ll never actually experience it but that’s what I’ve heard from numerous people
Tripp amazing video,I have been meeting her,she said she likes me a lot but now has friendzoned me and she loves spending time, she talks everything about her self, family,she allowsme to touch her neck ,hand ,waist but I was scared I missed a couple of options to kiss her now she is drifting away I feel,but I still she likes meeting me, now what can I do.
It helped .the last time i saw her we were sitting across the table from each other other people were sitting with us i showed her some of my puppy pics and she liked them that whole night cant remember if when i glanced at her if she gave me signal's seem like i remember her fixing her blouse not sure possibly and before we left i gave her a side hug with my hand on her back with a littlest pressure and when she looked at me she smiled at me so what do you think
Very useful. I'm saddened that I'm watching this *after* screwing up *three* times with a girl I really liked (and she liked me). I'm going to work on that situ and hopefully use these tips. I'll try to catch the signals and not over-think.
Ok so I'm in the backseat and I make out with her but can you help me out like how do I do it properly bc we were making out but I was at the worst position, what's the best position and how to kiss her
How do you go about kissing a girl that you like the most and you had try everything to impress her but she doesn't show, and you do not even know if you doing everything right ?
If I have a crush on a girl and she is dating another guy from some months and because of him she tried to commit suicide . If she is forcing herself in it how can I get her out of this??
i m thinking about kissing that girl at the end of the date... the moment we are saying goodbye to each other. we say goodbye but then there is always a silence i`ll probably go for the kiss at that moment. what you guys think... cuz i m not sure about kissing during the date it would be impossible cuz we are going to have same sushis with my and her friends..... any advices?
I had my first kiss last night. She needed to go home and we were just standing in a park both watching around. She said i need to go and i knew tht i need to go in first but i was to shy. I felt nervous and kinda dissapointed. In tht moment she leaned in and tried to kiss me. I just stood in place and i think tht i actually missed her lips. I felt terrible after tht. I have just put my lips on her face and did nothing, just stood like tht. Next morning i sent her message, saying tht i am sorry for tht and i said her all things about how i felt after tht. She said tht i didnt do anything wrong and that tht is normal for the first time, but i am still feeling bad. Cringe hurts me. For the most of the people first kiss was spectacular and the best moment of their live, but i felt litteraly nothing. In tht moment i knew tht i fcked it up and tht i looked like an idiot to her. I literally cant describe tht feeling. I felt so bad tht i even cried. I never cry. Now i am feeling depressed and dissapointed. My first kiss was very awkward and it was tragic for me. Now i need to live my life with tht in my memory. Sry guys, thx for reading this. I thought tht i will feel beeter if i post this here. Thank you again, and i love you! ❤😥
Brittany - if a guy asks you out for a coffee one to one - it's a 'date': don't complain then about a kiss being proferred - he didn't even kiss you - you should know better than complain if you accepted the date offer. This comment is directed to you Brittany if you take any interest at all - please note I am not asking Tripp to retort.
I have met a girl, we have been friends for about two and a half years now..but we haven't kiss. Once on a date together while she was seeing me off, she gave me a peck on my neck and that has been as far as we have gone. I get a feeling she likes me because she's always touching me. How do I take it to the next level by escalating things more with...?
The video isn't very well built. It starts with that "Oh-oh what are you doing?" scenario, and it ends with Tripp saying "don't hesitate". Well, Tripp, the reason guys hesitate is precisely that they're afraid of that scenario you just reminded them about.
+Daniel govender It's usually best to avoid tongue on dates unless you know she's into that kind of thing. Save that for the bedroom, and even then sparingly.
Tripp is the Best there is, the best there was, and the best there ever will be in dating advice.
Anjo Aquino ToddVDating: hold my beer.
If a guy asks a girl out 1-on-1 that is a date. It's sad that she didn't think that. That guy probably thought she was into him because he asked her out and she said yes, that's the signal to him that she's interested and he probably went for the kiss after she had her drink and they were laughing together. This is why I always make it clear "It's a date" because I wouldn't want to waste my time with some girl who agrees to go out with me and then think the whole time "We're just friends"... Poor guy. As for me, I wouldn't go for the first kiss the first time you meet her or first date. I strongly recommend holding her hand first, if she rejects that, then you'll know if she wants to kiss you or not.
Agreed.
Surgicalsensei go for the kiss at least if not more
When should you try to hold her hand
I've only kissed one girl, so far.
That was 2 years ago when I was 20
This will definitely help me thank you Tripp
Your advice is spot on. Thank you
Been on your channel all day so I immediately saw this when you uploaded. Keep doing what you're doing, Tripp!
Thanks AJ.
It was really helpful and awesome.
Only useful information!
Thanks Tripp.
Brillant! Wunderbar! Can‘t learn enough. Thank you.
Great one Tripp :)
4:53 ~ That's an _amazing_ shot.
I want to go places but job+college has me held back for now. :(
Something to look forward to.
You are awesome. Tips really help comment is only for you and your success!! I appreciate you!
I think Tripp Advice is getting better since he's got a gf so he has his girl giving inputs as well it's like a well co ordinated advice 😉
How do you feel about the "you go 90% and she goes the last 10%" from Hitch? Haha
The movie is sick
Here before 1 million and great videos
you are amazing bro God bless you!
God bless you.
I know I'm late as fuck but damn this production quality is insane brother.
i love this guy 😭😭😭😭😭😭
Actually, here's an idea for another video: "How to know if you're on a date". Especially useful for people from countries where there's no word for "date" in their language (like in Spanish, for example)
Building tension is an important in ingredient in many situations. Creates anticipation, keeps things interesting, exciting. Used in movies, music, novels, etc, etc. Keeps you coming back for more.
Oh yeah, Brittany (?) sees like a very lovely girl.
was soo helpful
Tripp could you make a video on Attraction and covering things that most people don’t cover about Attraction
Tripp: "Kiss when there's a moment of silence." Me: "Like in the movies?"
This is so beautiful 🥰🥰🥰🥰
Passionately!
That SOMEONE NEW thing reminds me of Jim Reeves tunes Ive heard!!!! Blows your mind, in a good way though.
What do you say or do when she rejects your attempt. Do you apologize or act like it didn't happen?
Good tripp
I was with my crush yesterday and of course im in the friendzone and i know it so i did not go for the kiss but when we said goodbye i did get a hug. Can a get like for skill?
Darrick Harms ouch
Roozbeh Man well her mom was right infront of us so it would not end well
Roozbeh Man and she is way shorter than me so it would be weird even tho she is 16 and im 14
Legit same thing happened to me hahaha!
Striker- ZQ your probably friendzoned because of your age. I used to like a girl who was older than me but it didn't work out because I was 14 like you and she was 16 (same situation) if your friendzoned it's usually because you didn't make a move earlier. So I suggest try and find someone new. Make a move on them and usually girls who friendzoned you get jealous because you converted your attention to someone else. If it doesn't work out with someone else then try again.
love you boy Kieran ❤
Is it best to hold on to patience or is it best to take and make that opportunity?
You should give some advice about your trips.
Tips for kissing with glasses?
Is it necessary to go for a kiss on the first date ?
This is the most important test ill ever study for
Great
I deffenedly know. If she looks in to your eyes. You gotta bring her really close and just kiss her.
This is useful information, don’t have the luck other guys do with women when I finally get a first date I want to kiss her and it’s like she’s not feeling it I have seen a lot of attractive girls I just feel like I’m going to mess it normally I never get past the first date. I’m to the point if I meet that special girl one day I’ll know it it’s so frustrating I don’t walk up and ask girls out because I feel like I’m going to be blown off by them, I want that one beautiful woman that’s made for me.
Kenneth Warren I feel for you. So its ok. Just take your time an don't rush it. It will come some point. Theirs always that special someone out there for everyone. Just got to go look for it. May not be in the area you're in. But good luck man I hope for the best.
Tnx Tripp you are awesome you gave me the courage, im gonna go up to one shy girl and try to talk to her and also you can make a video how to talk to a shy girl to help me. Tnx
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how do your videos look so professional? How do you keep the camera so stable while walking?
verveblack it's called a gimbal.
Dylanfilms Ah! Thanks for telling!
If we are talking , how do i know if she wants to be kissed (has the potential to be kissed)?
that song was corny af @ 2:00 lol great vid overall tho
Hey tripp want to know your thought about the use of tongue? Should i use in first time, hold off for another time, doesn’t matter...? haven’t really kissed many girls but when i have, i kinda just let them go for it first before i made that move.
if i were you i'd just slightly go lick lip with your tongue while your kissing and see how she reacts. if she doesn't start using her tongue just go back to normal kissing.
Hey I asked this girl on a date/hangout, and she said yes, I told her if I get the vibe I’m going for the kiss and she said bet, so is that a good sign lol? I’m 17 she’s 16 btw
What should i do if she is so shy to do it even at the monent of silence you mentioned in the vedio ?
Does that includes body language?
Song at 1:55?
Guys, you may not believe but my first kiss happened when I was 5 years old. I was much braver than I am now😩. After that, the girl that I kissed still has a crush on me😄
1) Start slow and light. Touch her face/cheek, neck, hair. 2)Linger a little. Let each other breath near each other bit. Feel the warmth of her skin near yours. Build up to the deeper, longer kisses.Also, there are times when we are in a comfortable place where I'll start and when she responds by going into the kiss I pull back and with a little smirk shake my head a bit - basically telling her to stop and just let me kiss her without her doing anything too much, no hands. Start with lips, cheek, neck back to lips, etc., etc. Adding a few very light nibbles in there is also helpful.Then kinda give her the Ok to go at it. All this is done without saying a word.
this is bullshit. I'm an asian lof indian ethnicity iving in europe. girs here are very racist. they don't like my type of people in the first place.
First time kiss a new girl just met best ever.
How will you know you are ready
How long should i kiss a girl ?
I really wanted to know what do we guys do with our tong.
The movement and the amount of pressure.
You've been helping me a lot but you didn't helped me on that
i agree
Should you go for a tounge kiss or just with the lips?
I’ve heard that you should never go in with tongue right away. I’m ugly so I’ll never actually experience it but that’s what I’ve heard from numerous people
Do girls show hesitation while kissing without physically showing it ?? If so , how do we sense it and what should be my reaction ??
Man! Tripp! Your pretty lucky you got hot girl friend. Me? Things didn't really work out for me. 😭😭😭😭😭
You da man
Tripp amazing video,I have been meeting her,she said she likes me a lot but now has friendzoned me and she loves spending time, she talks everything about her self, family,she allowsme to touch her neck ,hand ,waist but I was scared I missed a couple of options to kiss her now she is drifting away I feel,but I still she likes meeting me, now what can I do.
Am so scared she would not want to see me again because she was giving me some hints but I never made a move...what can I do to redeem myself..
I just realized how pathetic I am. Thanks for the advice though. It is probably the best on this site.
How do you get her in the mindspace of wanting to kiss?
It helped .the last time i saw her we were sitting across the table from each other other people were sitting with us i showed her some of my puppy pics and she liked them that whole night cant remember if when i glanced at her if she gave me signal's seem like i remember her fixing her blouse not sure possibly and before we left i gave her a side hug with my hand on her back with a littlest pressure and when she looked at me she smiled at me so what do you think
My question if both him and her never been kissed and known each other for 6yrs how and when to kiss
How do you kiss a girl on a date and she wants to kiss you how do you do it in a cinema ?
What’s the trick for kissing on the cheek and not getting the ear on random occasions for new female friends in a group setting?
Very useful. I'm saddened that I'm watching this *after* screwing up *three* times with a girl I really liked (and she liked me). I'm going to work on that situ and hopefully use these tips. I'll try to catch the signals and not over-think.
what did you do wrong in your opinion?
So If you’re a friend who is close with a girl. How do you know it’s time. What if she’s let you put your arm around her?
What if the intrest is kinda there on the first date? Not all the signa, but half of them
Hey tripp is there a secrete trick to do to make the kiss amazing please reply ASAP
trippadvice.com/how-to-kiss-a-girl/
Ok so I'm in the backseat and I make out with her but can you help me out like how do I do it properly bc we were making out but I was at the worst position, what's the best position and how to kiss her
I didn’t know Sam Harris is a dating guru...
Music 2:00 ?
I know you should not overthink about kissing a girl
How do you go about kissing a girl that you like the most and you had try everything to impress her but she doesn't show, and you do not even know if you doing everything right ?
I asked some personal questions to a girl, like what's your favourite food? Then she said why should I tell you. Now what should I do?
Leave her
Tell her BECAUSE you plan to take her to a nice restaurant with her favorite foods...
If I have a crush on a girl and she is dating another guy from some months and because of him she tried to commit suicide . If she is forcing herself in it how can I get her out of this??
I work a lot what are your impressions on dating in the work place
Ed Wi never fuck the office
Don't. The cons outweighs the pros. Lots more opportunities elsewhere.
i want to kiss a girl the first time what can i do can i tell her that i want to kiss you
..............please'n (HER) is very, VERY import for THAT relation and GO'N further....!! AND THANK's (TRIP) !!
Is this patched?
VanillaJokes only works on ver. 2.1.0.0.0.0.12
nevertakeaway may got to update my life them :/
i m thinking about kissing that girl at the end of the date... the moment we are saying goodbye to each other. we say goodbye but then there is always a silence i`ll probably go for the kiss at that moment. what you guys think... cuz i m not sure about kissing during the date it would be impossible cuz we are going to have same sushis with my and her friends..... any advices?
you could try to isolate her from the group after the sushi and create the right moment yourself
Don't wait until the end of the date to initiate the kiss. Do it somewhere in the middle.
I had my first kiss last night. She needed to go home and we were just standing in a park both watching around. She said i need to go and i knew tht i need to go in first but i was to shy. I felt nervous and kinda dissapointed. In tht moment she leaned in and tried to kiss me. I just stood in place and i think tht i actually missed her lips. I felt terrible after tht. I have just put my lips on her face and did nothing, just stood like tht. Next morning i sent her message, saying tht i am sorry for tht and i said her all things about how i felt after tht. She said tht i didnt do anything wrong and that tht is normal for the first time, but i am still feeling bad. Cringe hurts me. For the most of the people first kiss was spectacular and the best moment of their live, but i felt litteraly nothing. In tht moment i knew tht i fcked it up and tht i looked like an idiot to her. I literally cant describe tht feeling. I felt so bad tht i even cried. I never cry. Now i am feeling depressed and dissapointed. My first kiss was very awkward and it was tragic for me. Now i need to live my life with tht in my memory. Sry guys, thx for reading this. I thought tht i will feel beeter if i post this here. Thank you again, and i love you! ❤😥
Brittany - if a guy asks you out for a coffee one to one - it's a 'date': don't complain then about a kiss being proferred - he didn't even kiss you - you should know better than complain if you accepted the date offer. This comment is directed to you Brittany if you take any interest at all - please note I am not asking Tripp to retort.
Bill Howard Chill Bill
My first time here how u know a girl like you how to meet a girl
tripp what if you never had a date
What about it?
Do you lock your lips when you french kiss?
Press a little harder and hold the back of her head with one hand. You'll get the hang of it with practice.
Kiss for 10 seconds?
You know how fucking long 10 seconds is?
Where's my Degree??
What was the song on the second minute?
Please Tripp next time tell me how to kiss a girl I don't like...Please!
I have met a girl, we have been friends for about two and a half years now..but we haven't kiss. Once on a date together while she was seeing me off, she gave me a peck on my neck and that has been as far as we have gone. I get a feeling she likes me because she's always touching me. How do I take it to the next level by escalating things more with...?
Should I ask her if it's okay to kiss her? Because I haven't kissed anyone in many many years!
You can, but it's usually better to be able to read the signs and kiss her in the moment so it's more spontaneous and exciting for her.
This did not help
How long do I need to know a girl before going for the kiss?
Drummer Carson i dont think its about how long
hasun Darwiche ok thanks
Could be 30 seconds. It's kinda situational.
would it be weird if we dont kiss on 2nd date?
mpguitarra no
How to kiss softly how do you do that
Less pressure and relax your lips
first kiss should be?
cheek or lips
Hands, shoulders, knee's and toes
Cheek is a good idea, keep em guessing
Cat
The video isn't very well built. It starts with that "Oh-oh what are you doing?" scenario, and it ends with Tripp saying "don't hesitate". Well, Tripp, the reason guys hesitate is precisely that they're afraid of that scenario you just reminded them about.
Nuindakil You just gotta know when the moments right
BACHELORS DEGREE HUH??
Tips on Technique? And when to use tongue....I guess that's an idea for a next video
I know you mentioned go slow..but I mean technique
ikr
don't use your tongue on the first kiss, unless it's spin the bottle or truth or dare
+Daniel govender It's usually best to avoid tongue on dates unless you know she's into that kind of thing. Save that for the bedroom, and even then sparingly.
daniel govender Yes tongue matters