Baby.... I lost everything 2x and got it all back! Stayed in a shelter with my kid, slept in my car... Did it ALL! YOU WILL GET OVER THIS SEASON AND WIN AGAIN BEAUTIFUL ❤
@@nisinisi4627 with 8 children in this economy I’m sure they both have to work it’s not built for a 1 income house hold some of us are fortunate enough to be able to maintain that but its not the majority
@@rickiericktv3320Those kids are not a mistake! Anyone can become homeless! The streets are full of people that can't afford the high price of rent! Shit happens! I wish her the best!
As black people, we have got to get out of this *cart before the horse syndrome* I know wayyyy too many ppl that have 4+ kids (w multiple partners) w no economic foundation. We are too intelligent to keep repeating generational insanity.
You can tell she was the breadwinner. She just doesn’t want to embarrass or put her BD on the spot. Even how she cries that she can’t do anything for her children. It sounds like she was probably holding it down before her situation. I hope her appeal comes through & she can get back to work soon.
Yea she was kinda hush hush not to say the wrong thing to embarrass anybody and I can understand that. But now her bf gotta work 2 jobs until she can figure it out, and I believe she will. Bcuz she doesn't come of as a lazy person. Its sad what happened to her job. God bless her and the children 😢🙏🏽
I think that's what she was getting at when he asked her about it. That's a major increase in groceries and Bills plus overcrowding. I'm sure family wants to help but that's a lot
I wouldn’t want y’all to be my family members. It’s a TEMPORARY situation. Shouldn’t matter how many members. SHE’s an ONLY child. I’m sure her mom wouldn’t mind helping with her grand babies. The real issue here is that she doesn’t want her baby daddy to be homeless by himself because I’m sure her family members aren’t ok with him coming to live with them as well.
@@LovelyCeee Live long enough and you'll see that MOST of the time a "temporary" stay turns into overstaying your welcome. Been there, done that. Somebody needs to get up off their ass and stop making excuses. Two YOUNG, able bodied folks with 8 children should be doing everything in their power to see to it those kids are in an apartment or house of their own. She should have a steady job and HE should have 2-3 jobs instead of laying around strokin. Makes no sense. My Aunt raised my crack addicted cuz kids(6), I ain't the one. I feel for them but IF you bring a life or LIVES into this world, it's up to YOU to provide for them.
@@rickimhotep1236 I COMPLETELY get you! People do tend to overstay. That’s for sure. But IN THE MEANTIME, the grandkids shouldn’t have to live on the streets if they have family with homes. This is why I said her baby daddy needs to man up and figure it out on his own end. He can go live with one of his family members, in the meantime. Because it’s not fair to the children to be on the streets, period. But I 1000% agree with you !!! They need to get off of their butts and GO HARD in the paint. Aint no excuse why they have time to get it in and produce 8 children. But don’t have time to financially provide for all of those 8 children. Someone needs to go get their CNA licenses and do some doubles (16 hour shifts). Because ain’t no other reason why those two able bodied adults should be that down and out !! If you can make kids left and right, then you need to do what you can to support those 8 kids ! Period , point blank !
My mom raised three on her own and we were NEVER without a roof or food. I wish she lived closer to me because I would hug her right now. She was a bus driver too and she made SURE her driving record was clean: No at-fault accidents, no running red lights, did not speed, not even a parking ticket. She made sure she didn’t drink alcohol 24 hours before shift and made sure she passed those random drug test by being drug free at all times. Even when my aunties would smoke my mom left the room. Being a bus driver is no joke. It’s very strict. She made sure she kept her job for her kids. I’ll always love her for that.
Yeah. Your Mom was a responsible adult. This woman said she knew it was coming but did not seem to try to mitigate the problem. Besides that, responsible adults do not put themselves in situations to lose a good job supporting themselves and their children! I have NO children but had to take in my then 12 yo sister at the age of 23 because our mother was mentally unstable and married to a shiftless rapist ex-convict. I was in survival mode and terrified because I wasn't ready for all of that but my younger sister needed me. I functioned as a fully GROWN woman and by Jah's merciful help, we never missed a meal, lived in a nice 2 bedroom apartment in a nice neighborhood and I had a new 2door Honda Civic coup. NO one helped me support her! Not my mother. Not her man whore father (he has 22 children by different women, 3 by a married woman & 2 by our mother) I paid for EVERYTHING, including school clothes, salon appointments and her other needs. To this day, my mother has never even acknowledged anything nor apologized once. I no longer look for it. In fact, I feel sorry for her as it's so obvious guilt has taken a toll on her because she looks old and weary in the face. Relationships with her children are strained. She's now a bitter and angry woman in her mid 70s. So, yeah, I feel sorry for her and constantly ask God to help me freely forgive from the heart. Carrying intense stress and baggage that does not belong to you and that you really are not ready nor equipped to handle, eventually takes it's toll. However, I now clearly see where Jah carried me when I was unable to walk on my own. Now, my sister is fully grow with 2 children of her own. I married a wonderful man 15 yrs my senior who adores me, treats me very well, provides, protects and covers me. I thank Jah for the blessings He's rewarded me with💖 I hope the lady in the video will set her pride aside and get her children out of them harsh and hard streets before they will need therapists to get over damage she's inflicting on them by her own ego and pride.
@@pangeleta1967 beautifully wrote ! You’re a true Angel to your sister and to your Mother, little do she know. You saved your sister. May God CONTINUE to keep you in his arms!!! And as far as your advice to this irresponsible young Mother, I completely agree 1,000 percent!! I hope she reads these comments and gets herself and her children out of that situation. It only gets worse being in the lions den! So sad !
@@pangeleta1967 this gives me hope you’re amazing! I have a 8 year old sister and currently 23 and our mom cannot be apparent nor keep a stable living space i thought it was crazy for wanting to take her in. But what you did definitely gives me hope I can give my sister a better life than i did when i become a little more stable to do the same as you. How’s your relationship with your sister now ?
Bottom line is no one wants to help her with a man tagging along. No agency or family is willing to do that. I’m sure her family would say come on but he’s not allow here. She’s not willing to let him go because she don’t realize he’s her downfall. Praying for her and her children 🙏🏾
Most of Us live paycheck to paycheck. How Is He Her downfall, when he's working as well and still working? Yes she was making more but thats not the issue. The man is still in his children's lives and working.
in California if you hold a CDL and get a ticket the system would allow you to go to Traffic school to remove the infraction. However, if it's in a truck, you just a** out.
Any of us can be in this predicament. Most families are living paycheck to paycheck and can’t afford to save. And family are scarce when you need them the most
Damn! I used to drive for Marta and I was there from 2011-2018. I don’t know her and never seen her before. I am so very sorry to here of her going through this. Emissions in Atlanta, is hell if your car doesn’t pass the emissions test. For those people who don’t know, if your car doesn’t pass the emissions test, then you HAVE to get the necessary repairs fixed on your vehicle so that you can then pass the emissions. This all makes sense because of the number of children that she has, she most likely couldn’t afford to get the car/truck fixed. This story is heart felt. I pray that she gets the much needed help that she and her children need, sooner than later. Blessings, blessings, blessings 🙏🏽
@@LovelyCeee POSSIBLY. BUT THE REAL ISSUE HERE IS THE "PARTNER" OR LACK THEREOF, AND THEIR POOR DECISION-MAKING. IF HE WERE THE MAN SHE'S SUPPOSED TO BE WITH, THEY WOULD HAVE WHAT THEY NEED. INSTEAD, HE HASN'T LOVED HER ENOUGH TO MAKE HER HIS WIFE BUT CARELESSLY PROCREATED TO THE TUNE OF 8 HELPLESS CHILDREN WHO DESERVE SO MUCH MORE!! I'M SO ANGRY AND HURT BY THIS STORY. 😢😢😡😡
@@thisisHowHedidit AGREED! And same here. This story makes me so angry but so sad for the kids. They’re so innocent and don’t deserve adults that are extremely irresponsible!
Probablydidn't want to get married because even though she's driving for Marta she was possibly still getting benefits from the state with that amount of children . I am not sure how it works in Atlanta but generally if you marry someone then their financial situation comes into play and She would likely get less assistance from the state. These are just my thoughts.
Her and the daddy ain't shi to lay around and have eight kids in 11 yrs and not make sure those kids have a roof over their head. That's ridiculous now playing victim. Noooo, those kids are the only victim's of those two goofballs selfishness.
@@alcproduction7855Yes lots of ppl can't afford rent. However, 8 kids?! That tells me that they did not consider birth control. I have 1 kid...and a house...and I make a good salary and I can't imagine how I could support more than 2... So how do folk have 8?!. And in 11 years she had to be pregnant every year almost. We have to admit how irresponsible that is.
What a beautiful woman, my heart really goes out to her & them 8 babies. Also, it's great that her partner is still with her and working. Glad she decided to put her pride aside to do the interview because no judgment here, definitely going to support the family and make a donation. God got you so don't lose faith❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
The only woman that acknowledged her dude is working and still around and didnt put him at fault for "not doing enough". As a working single man if he was a dirty dude he wouldve left them and rent out a room.
Had my first daughter at 17, in HS graduated the following year went to college a big University for a year, had my 2 other daughters back to back. This was in the 90's, still when shame was a thing, I'm so glad that I was shamed to put a STOP to the madness and stop having these babies, back to back to back...I easily could've ended up just like her with multiple kids and struggling. Thank GOD my kids are adults now, but those 3 stressed me and their dad out, I can imagine what 8 do to your mental!
It takes a mentally unsound individual to intentionally have that many children when they know are already seriously struggling economically in a world as unforgiving as this. I feel compassion for her as she is crying but at the same time we have to be honest that this is madness on her part, not just a lost job situation. I hope she gets the help she and her family need to be stable.
Well said! She doesn't have the finances and support to raise 8 kids. No degree and no vocational training. This interview makes me sooo made. I'm disgusted🤢
@@josephdarline660 I agree except for the fact that her CDL is a professional license. No different from a doctor or lawyer. If she works it correctly, she could easily make more then most doctors or lawyers.
@@nattydreadlocks1973yet she drives around illegally. She is her own downfall. AND on top of all of that she has 8 children over the span of 11 years. WHY?! AND with a broke baby daddy. Smh. This poor girl has been making one bad decision after another. I feel sorry for those children !!
Not only did she make her own life hard. She made her children's lives hard!! Why the heck would you go and have 8 kids that you KNOW you cant afford WITHOUT government assistance!! That is absolutely selfish and ridiculous!! Smh! As women, we have to be amart about the decisions we make. Im sorry, but that was trifling. My heart goes out to those poor babies. Hopefully she ties her tubes & starts making better decisions. Wish her luck....but she's going to need a miracle. Ppl better pray government assistance never runs out!! THIS would be A LOT of women's reality if they didn't have EBT. Section 8 & Medicaid. SMH. Juat perpetuating a life of barely scraping by. Stop putting kids through this BS
@@beautifulsoul245 I can and will say what I want! If her Mama & Big Mama would have told her right she wouldn't be in this situation! That's what's wrong with the world now. Y'all coddle people too much!! You make your own comment to justify her BS. Don't tell me what to say on My comment. That's why ALOT of women are so delusional now! Y'all keep lying to each other instead of telling the truth of what went wrong. Tough love is still love! Thank Gawd I got tough love growing up. Kept me out of dumb situations like this.
Praying for a peace of mind and healing heart as she goes through this rough patch with her children...keep going, because God is not only shelter after the rain, but during as well! We could all be 1 step close to being in a situation like this, with this world forever changing in cycles after cycle...the thing we as people have to remember is to remain strong in is your faith and spirit ...keeping pushing forward 💪
Man, it’s hard to feel sorry for someone who has all these kids and cannot support them on their own. It would be difficult for someone making $175,000 a year for a family of 10 to survive. If you have to rely on government assistance to provide for your family, stop having children, it’s not fair to them.
Yep...if one cannot afford kids...and in these times...Control your sexual impulses!! Damn!! I see this stuff up in here in NYC everyday damn day!! Stop the madness!! I can only feel but so much pity for this young lady....and by the way...54 and none...by choice,thankfully!!
He needs to get a second job until she get back on her feet, especially having a newborn! Or she don’t need to just sit and wait on that job process … call a temp agency to start a new gig until it comes back around! She couldn’t have been making the most logical decisions overthese years! I feel sorry for the children with the these selfish parents that only think of what’s good for them at the moment instead of the children’s future! If I’m not in a good position in life, SEX is the last thing on my mind! 💯
I'll tell you her first problem she 31 with 8 kids. You can't expect to have any success with that kind of baggage over your head at such a young age. Seriously 8 kids!? You got 10 ppl in your house living off one check in 2023 thats insane. Please be more responsible, your still young and having more children is not going to help you.
Right one parent literally has to stay at him because daycare for 8 kids is a mortgage! Not unless you have someone like a parent or sibling who can’t work and that’s a lot of kids to be dropping off sheesh
you are correct, no one should continue to have children while poor especially with no husband. people like her don’t overstand the more you have children while poor those children are going to experience poverty an as they turn 18 they will experience a hardship of having to get a job struggling paycheck to paycheck because the parent hasn’t built no financial wealth for them to have a head start
I feel horrible for her. I also know that people should limit the amount of children they have. The more kids a person has the more economic problems you WILL have. Please please stop procreating humans you cant afford. I hope she gets 1000s in donations and a home and vehicle.
God didn't make any mistakes for each of her children trust me. God is in control over her families life. Could b because she was always alone being the only child. The Lord has His ways of doing things that we wouldn't even imagine. Doesn't matter how many children someone has, trust me. Because if God didn't want the pregnancy to go thru, best believe it wouldn't. Coming from someone who tried conceiving numerous times on numerous occasions. God bless u ❤
@@China.Curry. - 😳 What you wrote is like saying that everything that happens to children with incapable parents is god's plan. Time after time they are sexually assaulted as babies, physically brutalized, abandoned, and their lives often end early and tragically. I guess if god didn't want that to go through, it wouldn't huh? 🙁.
@@China.Curry.That's really phucking stupid to say. Use common sense and accountability. If God has nothing to do with babies dying and being trafficked, he doesn't have anything to do with making one ffs.
YOU CALL THIS STORY AN INSPIRATION?? I DON'T KNOW... THEY'RE STRUGGLING AND CAN'T SEEM TO STAY ON TRACK. I CAN HONESTLY SAY THAT MORE THAN LIKELY, THE FACT THAT THEY'RE UNMARRIED IS THE MAIN ISSUE. ENTITIES ARE MORE WILLING TO HELP SINGLE, STRUGGLING MOTHERS. BUT IF A MAN IS AROUND AND HE'S NOT GOING ABOVE AND BEYOND FOR HIS "WIFE" AND CHILDREN, THAT'S FROWNED UPON...
@@thisisHowHediditright!! Because what is being held down really?? Inspiration where ? This person must have watched a different episode because… how??
No they don't suspend CDL for that. I am a CDL driver and I've had an accident. It does nothing to the commercial license. There's more to the story than what she's saying. Marta also is definitely behind ALLLLLLLLL of their drivers. I've seen guys there that they put in rehab and gave them their jobs back. Something in the milk ain't clean with this driving story
Insanity is STILL alive with some Black females and She is the example. Both of them thought having 8 kids was OK. In 2023 with 8 kids, SMH bcuz it's a Struggle to Survive right now in America for all sizes of Family. Hopefully you both find Good jobs and housing Soon to be able to take care of your kids and yourself.
31 with 8 kids. That's crazy! Why put yourself through that? Nevermind that she's not married but to have that many kids. It's hard to take care of one. I feel sorry for her and her children. I hope she gets the help she needs and she is able to get stable and permanent housing.
Yo my sista and homie I am from South Jamaica Queens, NY. I lived on Rockaway Blvd. I pray and hope for your comeback... Keep your faith and press forward.
My kid are 14 years apart. I had my first baby as an E3 in the Navy and was broke as a joke. When you have one small “pie” and have more children everyone gets less, everyone eats less. I chose to get a bigger pie before adding to my family. When I had my second child I was a Lieutenant in the Navy working on my Master’s degree as a Family Nurse Practitioner. In my option having more kids while struggling is a form of child abuse. I wanted a larger family (not 8) but I also wanted to provide more than just food and water to my children.
Stimulus payments for 10 people were approximately $26,400.00. Does not include Earned Income Credits and child tax credits. What happened to all of that money?
Yeah enough for a mommy makeover, thats what some women prefer to spend this money on🤢 Instead of investing on their children's education. I hope the kids end up has concrete roses because right now they don't stand a chance. 😭
What's disturbing is we live in a modern society, yet this continues. Parents need to educate their kids, so they don't start having babies in high school, then never stopping, smh
Wow. I have one and married twenty yrs. I told myself as a child, as a teenager, as a young adult I do not want a lot of kids. I prayed for one. She came when I was forty , four years ago and my husband was 44 but she came and I’m extremely grateful and blessed. Kids are costly, especially nowadays. My heart goes out to her and her babies. God bless her and prayers for a better outcome..
31 years, 8 kids and you looking so good girl? Daayum. You're such a beautiful girl too. Your story is so heartbreaking. I don't know if you do hard drugs but you don't look so by your demeanour so if not that's a plus. If it's one person deserves help I think it's you. I hope you stay strong, get into the shelter and get the help needed to get your life, license and whatever back on track. Bless.
@davidsmith33 Looks don't mean a.damn thing when you git NO job, Nowhere to sleep nor your 8 kids, nor will looks get you a place to stay So who cares if she looks good. Homelessness is Homelessness no matter how you look, it ain't helping nothing
Praying to Almighty for her to receive back everything she lost very quickly and then to receive even more good things that bring joy to her life(Joie de Vivre). Keep updates on her and the others so we can hear about any progress they are making.
MY SISTER FACE IS SO CLEAN AND PURE...YOU ARE A GOOD WOMEN.FURTHER, WE ALL GO THROUGH TRIALS,THESE TRAILS ARE JUST THAT.PUT ALL YOUR TRUST IN GOD WHILE STANDING SOLID AND WATCH THE ALMIGHTY WORK IN YOUR SITUATION!
First if your struggling with 1 or 2 kids why bring more into the equation that's the problem with our young queens you don't bring other lives into it especially if you see your having a hard time with the ones you have already. I mean I feel her pain but sometimes we have too take responsibility for our actions which will not benefit you at that present moment.
Why did she chose to have so many kids with a man that won’t really help her? Also she needs to drop her kids off to her mothers home. She has too much pride and her kids need to be somewhere. Smh we have to live with the bad choices sometimes. I bet her baby daddy is laid up with someone else while she’s out here struggling.
Some harsh comments on here. It’s easy to point the finger and judge a persons life but not so easy looking in the mirror and dealing with your own issues. As mothers, there’s no one who judges us harsher than we do ourselves. Society teaches us to look down on others less fortunate. Just remember there’ll always be someone in a better situation than you, looking down on you. What’s needed here is some compassion and good practical advice and support. If you can’t offer this then send prayers, love and good thoughts her way. 🙏🏼❤
Everything you said is good in conversation but in reality no prayer or compassion is going to help someone who is not helping themselves. These interviews are some bullshit and this dude need help to stop living off all these ppl suffering. Dude seem like a pervert and I hope he burn in the deepest part of hell. She didn't even want to do an interview
So there's a lot of stuff going over people's heads. First off, I don't know why she chose to have 8 children but hey they're here now and she has to make a way for them. I'm sure as a bus driver, her and the BD were making enough to make ends meet but didn't have anything to put up to save. She said she was riding dirty because her vehicle was old and didn't pass inspection so they wouldn't renew the plates. I'm sure she couldn't afford a newer vehicle living check to check. She couldn't pay the tickets because once again she's living check to check! She probably didn't get much government assistance because she's a bus driver and she has a " spouse" . I don't think the family has disowned her but most people don't have the space to accommodate 8 children and 2 adults. Also if she's not working, she has nothing to contribute to a light bill, water bill and groceries at the mom or Grandma's home. We can all sit back and say what she did wrong in life but you can literally tell that her circumstances are already beating her up and she feels horrible. On top of that, she has a new baby so PPD is still possible. I'm sure she feels like a failure as a mother, hopeless and scared to lose her children. Tough love is great but a little compassion and encouragement would really help her right now. Praying for her and those babies 😢 🙏
I've always been told, the best lesson is through experience. I'm sure she's learning from her poor decisions, now I'd the time for compassion. We've ALL made bad decisions in life. Not just that, but even people with less children, are one paycheck away from losing everything! It can't happen to anyone. Don't get so high up on your horses, where you can't look down.
IF HER FAMILY WANTED TO HELP HER THEY WOULD. The fact is a lot of black families are very selfish and do not like being inconvenienced and will only halfway support their family through a life crisis if they can gain something out the deal. I see it all the time and unfortunately people have no clue their family is like that until they’re in a dire situation.
It is, and I'm so disappointed in these comments no one knows her reason for having 8 kids. It may be a religion thing, I pray to the good LORD he blesses her family and provides their every need! 🙏🏽❤️
@@TheCharnineif she was religious, she wouldn't have multiple children out of wedlock. Stop making excuses for this behavior. If people in her life would have taught her to be practical, she and most importantly, her children, would not be suffering today. This is devastating, for all who love and care about this young woman.
This is madness I feel for her and all the other people who don’t have the spare money to get their cars sorted regarding emissions. It’s scandalous that this has happened
This is seriously irresponsible to have 8 children and not able to provide for them sheesh. God bless this woman and I pray she finds her way and things turn around . I hope the father is helping
Wow that must be an epidemic in Atlanta Young and homeless 31 with eight kids 😯 wishing the best for her and her family and I hope she does not turn to drugs like some of those women🤲🏾🤲🏾🤲🏾
Marcus couldn't get even a smile when he said shout out to New York he would normally get from others when he usually give shout out she's really sad and need to get out of that situation
She love her children. I hate that she’s gotta be in that situation. If only I was rich. I’ll be praying hard for her. You can tell she’s not meant for this. I truly believe she will get her job back and get herself a place for her and her children.
Definitely wasn't planned properly! By the 2nd or 3rd kid some serious life decisions needed to made! The man is just as responsible but she's definitely defending him.
8 kids is not a mistake that’s done on purpose. Black women have kids because they think the kids will take care of them when they get older it’s a sick mindset.
The first time was a bad, ignorant decision, that I understand. The other 7, well come on now. Not even people that have great careers can afford more than 2 or 3 kids. I don't know why her parents allowed this to go on. They could have talked some sense into her. Remember Octomom?
I don't know how yall thought I was talking about the kids. I was talking about not protecting your liscense and you have a CDL. As I said, she made some bad decisions. I have been in the industry 30 years now, it can be hard to get jobs with a pattern of careless behavior.
Atlanta,8 kids! It's possible but realistically it would take at least a 6 figure income. Maybe relocate to a city that the cost of living is lower. Sometimes change is Good 😊. Blessings to this young lady
She need to stop having kids and sort out her financial situation, 8 kids with the same guy and he haven't marry her. Women, stop giving men wife treatment, when they only sees you as their baby mama.
Prayers for you sister 😢 This too shall pass. The kids will be fine it's just an humbling experience! Just don't forget the lesson and blessings along the way 🙏
I hope they get something soon. We have to acknowledge that a family of 10 has different dynamics. We need to appreciate those who have multiple kids to offset those who don't have kids. Wishing them the best.
🙁You think poor parents with poor judgment who have far more children than they can support is a positive because if supposedly offsets those who don't have children? This families children are going to be a liability to society more than anything else because they will not be nurtured otherwise. Society, including people who don't have children will have to subsidize or support them. There needs to be more quality, not quantity.
yes, having 8 children is good but it’s not when you’re poor an this is the second time that’s she’s been homeless but it’s her children’s first time which they shouldn’t have to deal with poverty, her and her children’s father are equally responsible for making sure they take care of the lives that they decided to create
@@peaceseeker9927 exactly, having 8 children is good but it’s not good having children while poor, the parents are already creating a generation of poverty an they will think that society is to blame for them having hardships
@@peaceseeker9927 I guarantee you are in no position to define what is a quality human being. Also, there are a lot of people who want less Black people around and they are implementing various tactics to accomplish that, including convincing Black people to think and behave like them....whether you realize it or not. And please know that my goal is not to convince you. There's more important things to do.
@@d.white.creationsYou sound crazy to say that. You don't have lots of kids because you think “they” are trying to get rid if black people. How does having a lot of kids and living in poverty help? Her family won't even invite them to live with them.
I feel for her however driving is not the only job out there, if it was me and I knew my job was on the line I would have started applying for other jobs. Once she lost her income loosing everything else was inevitable.
It’s just hard to accept low wages when you used to earn a decent wage. I moved to Atlanta and went in interviews but they all wanted to pay far less than my worth according to my pay history. Marta is probably her only shot at a decent wage in Atlanta.
I think they're a bit more to the story than just tickets. She may have broke the the Georgia state code for commercial drivers. Plus she didn't give a number on how much she owed the DMV. Because if all she has to do is pay the tickets her license will be restored. And I see why she got 8 kids. She's a knockout with a figure to match
Baby.... I lost everything 2x and got it all back! Stayed in a shelter with my kid, slept in my car... Did it ALL! YOU WILL GET OVER THIS SEASON AND WIN AGAIN BEAUTIFUL ❤
❤ beautiful testimony
Same! Yes!
I been there twice as well… she will definitely get it together ❤
@@Majourfreq6y66yy66lwpp mi
I hope she see your testimony and fight like hell to get her situation back on board🙏🏽
With 8 children I can only imagine what this woman is going through. I pray she gets back to work
I know right
Imagine why she laid down and had 8 kids she's good while it was good son.
her man can work now!
@@nisinisi4627 with 8 children in this economy I’m sure they both have to work it’s not built for a 1 income house hold some of us are fortunate enough to be able to maintain that but its not the majority
Hmmmm wow 8 kids 😢 this goes to show you anyone is a paycheck away from homelessness I pray 🙏🏽 she bounce back from this temporary step back .
One thing I applaud this sister for is that all her kids have the same father -that’s rare.
The same mistake 8 times! Evidently he’s sorry got her and them 8 kid’s homeless!
Thank you she looks like a Hotep or those spiritualist people who get the wrong men lol
Not even her HUSBAND! Not even a man that can provide and you applaud this madness🙄
@@rickiericktv3320Those kids are not a mistake! Anyone can become homeless! The streets are full of people that can't afford the high price of rent! Shit happens! I wish her the best!
I agree at least she’s not sleeping around with a bunch of men and at least he’s trying
As black people, we have got to get out of this *cart before the horse syndrome* I know wayyyy too many ppl that have 4+ kids (w multiple partners) w no economic foundation. We are too intelligent to keep repeating generational insanity.
That was me and you are totally correct I have two son out of wedlock
I couldn't agree more.
Generational Insanity 🤦🏽♂️🤦🏽♂️🤦🏽♂️
we have to get away from sexual lust that's where this comes from
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You can tell she was the breadwinner. She just doesn’t want to embarrass or put her BD on the spot. Even how she cries that she can’t do anything for her children. It sounds like she was probably holding it down before her situation. I hope her appeal comes through & she can get back to work soon.
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Yea she was kinda hush hush not to say the wrong thing to embarrass anybody and I can understand that. But now her bf gotta work 2 jobs until she can figure it out, and I believe she will. Bcuz she doesn't come of as a lazy person. Its sad what happened to her job. God bless her and the children 😢🙏🏽
Right, where is her childs fathers check? Crazy
@@talethaforte4903 that’s funny?
If that lady gave that man 8 kids......i like her....... He need to push
To be fair to her family... moving in 10 people indefinitely is a whole lot to ask of somebody.
I think that's what she was getting at when he asked her about it. That's a major increase in groceries and Bills plus overcrowding. I'm sure family wants to help but that's a lot
She could get food stamps and work. The space would be a issue.
I wouldn’t want y’all to be my family members. It’s a TEMPORARY situation. Shouldn’t matter how many members. SHE’s an ONLY child. I’m sure her mom wouldn’t mind helping with her grand babies. The real issue here is that she doesn’t want her baby daddy to be homeless by himself because I’m sure her family members aren’t ok with him coming to live with them as well.
@@LovelyCeee Live long enough and you'll see that MOST of the time a "temporary" stay turns into overstaying your welcome. Been there, done that. Somebody needs to get up off their ass and stop making excuses. Two YOUNG, able bodied folks with 8 children should be doing everything in their power to see to it those kids are in an apartment or house of their own. She should have a steady job and HE should have 2-3 jobs instead of laying around strokin. Makes no sense. My Aunt raised my crack addicted cuz kids(6), I ain't the one. I feel for them but IF you bring a life or LIVES into this world, it's up to YOU to provide for them.
@@rickimhotep1236 I COMPLETELY get you! People do tend to overstay. That’s for sure. But IN THE MEANTIME, the grandkids shouldn’t have to live on the streets if they have family with homes. This is why I said her baby daddy needs to man up and figure it out on his own end. He can go live with one of his family members, in the meantime. Because it’s not fair to the children to be on the streets, period. But I 1000% agree with you !!! They need to get off of their butts and GO HARD in the paint. Aint no excuse why they have time to get it in and produce 8 children. But don’t have time to financially provide for all of those 8 children. Someone needs to go get their CNA licenses and do some doubles (16 hour shifts). Because ain’t no other reason why those two able bodied adults should be that down and out !! If you can make kids left and right, then you need to do what you can to support those 8 kids ! Period , point blank !
My mom raised three on her own and we were NEVER without a roof or food. I wish she lived closer to me because I would hug her right now. She was a bus driver too and she made SURE her driving record was clean: No at-fault accidents, no running red lights, did not speed, not even a parking ticket. She made sure she didn’t drink alcohol 24 hours before shift and made sure she passed those random drug test by being drug free at all times. Even when my aunties would smoke my mom left the room. Being a bus driver is no joke. It’s very strict. She made sure she kept her job for her kids. I’ll always love her for that.
Your Mom is a RESPONSIBLE, wonderful Woman!! She did a great job as a parent!!
Yeah. Your Mom was a responsible adult. This woman said she knew it was coming but did not seem to try to mitigate the problem.
Besides that, responsible adults do not put themselves in situations to lose a good job supporting themselves and their children!
I have NO children but had to take in my then 12 yo sister at the age of 23 because our mother was mentally unstable and married to a shiftless rapist ex-convict. I was in survival mode and terrified because I wasn't ready for all of that but my younger sister needed me.
I functioned as a fully GROWN woman and by Jah's merciful help, we never missed a meal, lived in a nice 2 bedroom apartment in a nice neighborhood and I had a new 2door Honda Civic coup.
NO one helped me support her!
Not my mother.
Not her man whore father (he has 22 children by different women, 3 by a married woman & 2 by our mother)
I paid for EVERYTHING, including school clothes, salon appointments and her other needs.
To this day, my mother has never even acknowledged anything nor apologized once. I no longer look for it. In fact, I feel sorry for her as it's so obvious guilt has taken a toll on her because she looks old and weary in the face.
Relationships with her children are strained. She's now a bitter and angry woman in her mid 70s.
So, yeah, I feel sorry for her and constantly ask God to help me freely forgive from the heart. Carrying intense stress and baggage that does not belong to you and that you really are not ready nor equipped to handle, eventually takes it's toll.
However, I now clearly see where Jah carried me when I was unable to walk on my own.
Now, my sister is fully grow with 2 children of her own. I married a wonderful man 15 yrs my senior who adores me, treats me very well, provides, protects and covers me. I thank Jah for the blessings He's rewarded me with💖
I hope the lady in the video will set her pride aside and get her children out of them harsh and hard streets before they will need therapists to get over damage she's inflicting on them by her own ego and pride.
@@pangeleta1967 beautifully wrote ! You’re a true Angel to your sister and to your Mother, little do she know. You saved your sister. May God CONTINUE to keep you in his arms!!! And as far as your advice to this irresponsible young Mother, I completely agree 1,000 percent!! I hope she reads these comments and gets herself and her children out of that situation. It only gets worse being in the lions den! So sad !
@@pangeleta1967 this gives me hope you’re amazing! I have a 8 year old sister and currently 23 and our mom cannot be apparent nor keep a stable living space i thought it was crazy for wanting to take her in. But what you did definitely gives me hope I can give my sister a better life than i did when i become a little more stable to do the same as you. How’s your relationship with your sister now ?
Your mom is strong & loved y’all !! God bless her continually thank you for sharing
Bottom line is no one wants to help her with a man tagging along. No agency or family is willing to do that. I’m sure her family would say come on but he’s not allow here. She’s not willing to let him go because she don’t realize he’s her downfall. Praying for her and her children 🙏🏾
That part!! 🎯💯
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Most of Us live paycheck to paycheck. How Is He Her downfall, when he's working as well and still working? Yes she was making more but thats not the issue. The man is still in his children's lives and working.
@@chevychic7463Right!! Bc if the dad wasn’t around, they would have something to say about that!!! Smh!!
@@DaeMurda 💯 man need to be working 3-4 jobs with 8 kids
Fun fact: when you obtain a CDL, even when driving a regular car, any infraction or ticket counts as if you are driving an 18 wheeler......
Yeah, you’re definitely held to a higher criteria as a CDL holder.
@@LoganVal215 one of the reasons why I changed my mind on getting one.
I lost my CDL one time DUI and never again will I fuck that up again 😢😢😢 pay you're dues 😢
What!
in California if you hold a CDL and get a ticket the system would allow you to go to Traffic school to remove the infraction. However, if it's in a truck, you just a** out.
Any of us can be in this predicament. Most families are living paycheck to paycheck and can’t afford to save. And family are scarce when you need them the most
I pray that she gets back on her feet for her and her family. I hope she gets things right with her driving situation and she gets a home soon. 🙏🏽
Damn! I used to drive for Marta and I was there from 2011-2018. I don’t know her and never seen her before. I am so very sorry to here of her going through this. Emissions in Atlanta, is hell if your car doesn’t pass the emissions test. For those people who don’t know, if your car doesn’t pass the emissions test, then you HAVE to get the necessary repairs fixed on your vehicle so that you can then pass the emissions. This all makes sense because of the number of children that she has, she most likely couldn’t afford to get the car/truck fixed. This story is heart felt. I pray that she gets the much needed help that she and her children need, sooner than later. Blessings, blessings, blessings 🙏🏽
She should have taken Uber or the bus OR bought a new car instead of driving illegally! Period. No excuse.
@@LovelyCeee POSSIBLY. BUT THE REAL ISSUE HERE IS THE "PARTNER" OR LACK THEREOF, AND THEIR POOR DECISION-MAKING. IF HE WERE THE MAN SHE'S SUPPOSED TO BE WITH, THEY WOULD HAVE WHAT THEY NEED. INSTEAD, HE HASN'T LOVED HER ENOUGH TO MAKE HER HIS WIFE BUT CARELESSLY PROCREATED TO THE TUNE OF 8 HELPLESS CHILDREN WHO DESERVE SO MUCH MORE!! I'M SO ANGRY AND HURT BY THIS STORY. 😢😢😡😡
@@thisisHowHedidit AGREED! And same here. This story makes me so angry but so sad for the kids. They’re so innocent and don’t deserve adults that are extremely irresponsible!
Probablydidn't want to get married because even though she's driving for Marta she was possibly still getting benefits from the state with that amount of children . I am not sure how it works in Atlanta but generally if you marry someone then their financial situation comes into play and She would likely get less assistance from the state. These are just my thoughts.
@LovelyCeee Uber is expensive and where she have to go may not be on the bus line.
Her and the daddy ain't shi to lay around and have eight kids in 11 yrs and not make sure those kids have a roof over their head. That's ridiculous now playing victim. Noooo, those kids are the only victim's of those two goofballs selfishness.
EXACTLY!!!
She wasn’t homeless all her life ..when she lost the job she lost everything..plus she still looking good for 8 kids
People are getting evicted everywhere who knows u might be next or me
Okayyyy and why the man isn’t working or getting a job to support all of them!? Black men are wack
@@alcproduction7855Yes lots of ppl can't afford rent. However, 8 kids?! That tells me that they did not consider birth control. I have 1 kid...and a house...and I make a good salary and I can't imagine how I could support more than 2... So how do folk have 8?!. And in 11 years she had to be pregnant every year almost. We have to admit how irresponsible that is.
What a beautiful woman, my heart really goes out to her & them 8 babies. Also, it's great that her partner is still with her and working. Glad she decided to put her pride aside to do the interview because no judgment here, definitely going to support the family and make a donation. God got you so don't lose faith❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
sorry but he not with her, he just sticking around so he can lay down. If he was with her, he would be homeless too.
The only woman that acknowledged her dude is working and still around and didnt put him at fault for "not doing enough". As a working single man if he was a dirty dude he wouldve left them and rent out a room.
Wow!! I worked with her. I never knew this was her situation. I’m so sorry she’s going through this.
Had my first daughter at 17, in HS graduated the following year went to college a big University for a year, had my 2 other daughters back to back. This was in the 90's, still when shame was a thing, I'm so glad that I was shamed to put a STOP to the madness and stop having these babies, back to back to back...I easily could've ended up just like her with multiple kids and struggling. Thank GOD my kids are adults now, but those 3 stressed me and their dad out, I can imagine what 8 do to your mental!
We need to bring shame back into society.
@@blacksilverchair3315😂
@@blacksilverchair3315definitely helps with establishing missed boundaries and standards.
@@blacksilverchair3315have that same energy for your mama
I feel her so much I’m facing homelessness myself with five kids.I I was in tears 😢.
Damn 😞
Where are you
@@Moellmoell Maryland
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@wjones1216 I hope you’re in a better situation. Sending love and light
It takes a mentally unsound individual to intentionally have that many children when they know are already seriously struggling economically in a world as unforgiving as this. I feel compassion for her as she is crying but at the same time we have to be honest that this is madness on her part, not just a lost job situation. I hope she gets the help she and her family need to be stable.
Clearly she had those kids before her being homeless!!
@@protectedpeace2649 - Instead of me directly helping you, why not turn down the emotions and re-think your comment. 🙏
Well said! She doesn't have the finances and support to raise 8 kids. No degree and no vocational training. This interview makes me sooo made. I'm disgusted🤢
@@josephdarline660 I agree except for the fact that her CDL is a professional license. No different from a doctor or lawyer. If she works it correctly, she could easily make more then most doctors or lawyers.
@@nattydreadlocks1973yet she drives around illegally. She is her own downfall. AND on top of all of that she has 8 children over the span of 11 years. WHY?! AND with a broke baby daddy. Smh. This poor girl has been making one bad decision after another. I feel sorry for those children !!
Not only did she make her own life hard. She made her children's lives hard!! Why the heck would you go and have 8 kids that you KNOW you cant afford WITHOUT government assistance!! That is absolutely selfish and ridiculous!! Smh! As women, we have to be amart about the decisions we make. Im sorry, but that was trifling. My heart goes out to those poor babies. Hopefully she ties her tubes & starts making better decisions. Wish her luck....but she's going to need a miracle. Ppl better pray government assistance never runs out!! THIS would be A LOT of women's reality if they didn't have EBT. Section 8 & Medicaid. SMH. Juat perpetuating a life of barely scraping by. Stop putting kids through this BS
Facts. They can take those benefits away! They already making it harder for ppl to receive them
Exactly!!🤦🏾♀️
Just be quiet with the kicking somebody while they already down speech
She can overcome her situation now. All anyone can do just pray 🙏🏾 for her
@@beautifulsoul245 I can and will say what I want! If her Mama & Big Mama would have told her right she wouldn't be in this situation! That's what's wrong with the world now. Y'all coddle people too much!! You make your own comment to justify her BS. Don't tell me what to say on My comment. That's why ALOT of women are so delusional now! Y'all keep lying to each other instead of telling the truth of what went wrong. Tough love is still love! Thank Gawd I got tough love growing up. Kept me out of dumb situations like this.
This is exactly why I plan on starting my own business because these jobs don't give a damn about us.
They can fire us at any time.
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That aint marta fault. Her job didnt make her get them tickets
@@DaeMurda Everyone do t hold these supposed to be grown ass women accountable for their bad moves and they help enable the bullshit. It makes me sick
They sure don’t. Not nah one of them
Praying for a peace of mind and healing heart as she goes through this rough patch with her children...keep going, because God is not only shelter after the rain, but during as well! We could all be 1 step close to being in a situation like this, with this world forever changing in cycles after cycle...the thing we as people have to remember is to remain strong in is your faith and spirit ...keeping pushing forward 💪
Man, it’s hard to feel sorry for someone who has all these kids and cannot support them on their own. It would be difficult for someone making $175,000 a year for a family of 10 to survive. If you have to rely on government assistance to provide for your family, stop having children, it’s not fair to them.
Yep...if one cannot afford kids...and in these times...Control your sexual impulses!! Damn!! I see this stuff up in here in NYC everyday damn day!! Stop the madness!! I can only feel but so much pity for this young lady....and by the way...54 and none...by choice,thankfully!!
@@daxterclark5092 Agreed!
People make it with a lot less
@@charles4u1still doesn’t change the fact that they should.
if she was relying on the government she would be in a house on section 8.. life happened. she lost her job. get real pimp or pimpette.
He needs to get a second job until she get back on her feet, especially having a newborn! Or she don’t need to just sit and wait on that job process … call a temp agency to start a new gig until it comes back around!
She couldn’t have been making the most logical decisions overthese years! I feel sorry for the children with the these selfish parents that only think of what’s good for them at the moment instead of the children’s future!
If I’m not in a good position in life, SEX is the last thing on my mind! 💯
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My 🙏🙏 goes out to her. and her family
I'll tell you her first problem she 31 with 8 kids. You can't expect to have any success with that kind of baggage over your head at such a young age. Seriously 8 kids!? You got 10 ppl in your house living off one check in 2023 thats insane. Please be more responsible, your still young and having more children is not going to help you.
Right one parent literally has to stay at him because daycare for 8 kids is a mortgage! Not unless you have someone like a parent or sibling who can’t work and that’s a lot of kids to be dropping off sheesh
Exactly why in the world did she do that to herself ? Well no point of talking about that now but very foolish decision
Stop judging. She is blessed to have 8
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you are correct, no one should continue to have children while poor especially with no husband. people like her don’t overstand the more you have children while poor those children are going to experience poverty an as they turn 18 they will experience a hardship of having to get a job struggling paycheck to paycheck because the parent hasn’t built no financial wealth for them to have a head start
I feel horrible for her. I also know that people should limit the amount of children they have. The more kids a person has the more economic problems you WILL have. Please please stop procreating humans you cant afford. I hope she gets 1000s in donations and a home and vehicle.
God didn't make any mistakes for each of her children trust me. God is in control over her families life. Could b because she was always alone being the only child. The Lord has His ways of doing things that we wouldn't even imagine. Doesn't matter how many children someone has, trust me. Because if God didn't want the pregnancy to go thru, best believe it wouldn't. Coming from someone who tried conceiving numerous times on numerous occasions. God bless u ❤
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@@China.Curry. - 😳 What you wrote is like saying that everything that happens to children with incapable parents is god's plan. Time after time they are sexually assaulted as babies, physically brutalized, abandoned, and their lives often end early and tragically. I guess if god didn't want that to go through, it wouldn't huh? 🙁.
Well at least she didn’t hurt them
@@China.Curry.That's really phucking stupid to say. Use common sense and accountability. If God has nothing to do with babies dying and being trafficked, he doesn't have anything to do with making one ffs.
What a inspiration of FAMILY HOLDING IT DOWN ❤ I am sending prayers to all of them... MAY HER FAMILY PREVAIL ❤❤❤
YOU CALL THIS STORY AN INSPIRATION?? I DON'T KNOW... THEY'RE STRUGGLING AND CAN'T SEEM TO STAY ON TRACK. I CAN HONESTLY SAY THAT MORE THAN LIKELY, THE FACT THAT THEY'RE UNMARRIED IS THE MAIN ISSUE. ENTITIES ARE MORE WILLING TO HELP SINGLE, STRUGGLING MOTHERS. BUT IF A MAN IS AROUND AND HE'S NOT GOING ABOVE AND BEYOND FOR HIS "WIFE" AND CHILDREN, THAT'S FROWNED UPON...
@@thisisHowHediditright!! Because what is being held down really?? Inspiration where ? This person must have watched a different episode because… how??
No they don't suspend CDL for that. I am a CDL driver and I've had an accident. It does nothing to the commercial license. There's more to the story than what she's saying. Marta also is definitely behind ALLLLLLLLL of their drivers. I've seen guys there that they put in rehab and gave them their jobs back. Something in the milk ain't clean with this driving story
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I agree. That CDL story sounds fishy.
The story is definitely fishy.
My husband’s CDL has been suspended for a ticket as well. But additionally if you don’t respond immediately to their inquiry.
Yes if you dont take care of the violation it can snowball into something that can affect your cdl
*It’s super rare these days to meet a woman with 8 children and only have 1 father of all her children.*
And she still looking good so that tells us she keeps herself up ..
Rare, indeed
why would you keep having children with a dead beat dad- he should be the one with the CDL working 80 plus hours per week.
@@josephdarline660facts the dude need to have that CDL
@@josephdarline660obviously you wasn't listening to what she said .The man has a job.Yall comprehension skills seem to be off.
8 kids goddamn. Poor ppl needs to stop using sex as a sedative and birthing children that they cannot afford
Insanity is STILL alive with some Black females and She is the example. Both of them thought having 8 kids was OK. In 2023 with 8 kids, SMH bcuz it's a Struggle to Survive right now in America for all sizes of Family. Hopefully you both find Good jobs and housing Soon to be able to take care of your kids and yourself.
31 with 8 kids. That's crazy! Why put yourself through that? Nevermind that she's not married but to have that many kids. It's hard to take care of one. I feel sorry for her and her children. I hope she gets the help she needs and she is able to get stable and permanent housing.
JUDGMENTAL ASF🤬! All her kids have the same father, why tf u so worried why she keep having kids??? Help her or stfu
Yo my sista and homie I am from South Jamaica Queens, NY. I lived on Rockaway Blvd. I pray and hope for your comeback... Keep your faith and press forward.
God Give them everything they need 🥰 heartfelt
My kid are 14 years apart. I had my first baby as an E3 in the Navy and was broke as a joke. When you have one small “pie” and have more children everyone gets less, everyone eats less. I chose to get a bigger pie before adding to my family. When I had my second child I was a Lieutenant in the Navy working on my Master’s degree as a Family Nurse Practitioner. In my option having more kids while struggling is a form of child abuse. I wanted a larger family (not 8) but I also wanted to provide more than just food and water to my children.
Exactly, I was enlisted, and every enlisted with kids was broker than a joke...
I agree, I have one and got in medical school recently because I don’t want us to just get by and survive, I want us to LIVE.
@@missssme8321 that is so awesome!!!!!
Even Michael Jackson said, "If you can't feed the baby, then don't have the baby ".
Stimulus payments for 10 people were approximately $26,400.00. Does not include Earned Income Credits and child tax credits. What happened to all of that money?
Dang 😮 30K
Yeah enough for a mommy makeover, thats what some women prefer to spend this money on🤢 Instead of investing on their children's education. I hope the kids end up has concrete roses because right now they don't stand a chance. 😭
This should be a sign of the ages. That we are in some very trying and hard times.
What's disturbing is we live in a modern society, yet this continues. Parents need to educate their kids, so they don't start having babies in high school, then never stopping, smh
Raising 2 kids by myself was F%CK*** HARD.... 8 kids is a visit to the Doctor for a Tubligation. What was wrong with Birth Control??
@@red19700😂😂😂😂😂
She was ok until job loss so.. I love when Black babies are born but of course we need plan A, B and C since we have few resources most often.
I’m a public transportation worker of 24; years I understand her pain!
Going through this tell her to 🙏🏾 pray and keep going.
Wow. I have one and married twenty yrs. I told myself as a child, as a teenager, as a young adult I do not want a lot of kids. I prayed for one. She came when I was forty , four years ago and my husband was 44 but she came and I’m extremely grateful and blessed. Kids are costly, especially nowadays. My heart goes out to her and her babies. God bless her and prayers for a better outcome..
I pray she’s able to get back on her feet soon🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
Dude she can't answer for her family. I get it but all families aren't close.
that part! everyone does not have the same relationship with their family as you do!!
This is Why Entrepreneurship Should Always Be The Goal! So the bag and security u have never stops!
Right, you can't fire yourself.
@@Sunshine-jq9swsure cant
31 years, 8 kids and you looking so good girl? Daayum. You're such a beautiful girl too. Your story is so heartbreaking. I don't know if you do hard drugs but you don't look so by your demeanour so if not that's a plus. If it's one person deserves help I think it's you. I hope you stay strong, get into the shelter and get the help needed to get your life, license and whatever back on track. Bless.
She just got a bum for a baby daddy 😂
She dose..
@davidsmith33 Looks don't mean a.damn thing when you git NO job, Nowhere to sleep nor your 8 kids, nor will looks get you a place to stay
So who cares if she looks good. Homelessness is Homelessness no matter how you look, it ain't helping nothing
Now you see that David it's comments like that which got her the 8 kids sounds like you trying to give her her ninth. 😂😂
LOL @@inmyopinion9305
Damn that know the stress of being homeless by myself but to have worry about 8 kids💙💙💙 I hope she doing better today!
Praying to Almighty for her to receive back everything she lost very quickly and then to receive even more good things that bring joy to her life(Joie de Vivre). Keep updates on her and the others so we can hear about any progress they are making.
MY SISTER FACE IS SO CLEAN AND PURE...YOU ARE A GOOD WOMEN.FURTHER, WE ALL GO THROUGH TRIALS,THESE TRAILS ARE JUST THAT.PUT ALL YOUR TRUST IN GOD WHILE STANDING SOLID AND WATCH THE ALMIGHTY WORK IN YOUR SITUATION!
Amen yes only thing we can do is pray for her to get on her feet.
@@YahChild IT'S DONE!
First if your struggling with 1 or 2 kids why bring more into the equation that's the problem with our young queens you don't bring other lives into it especially if you see your having a hard time with the ones you have already. I mean I feel her pain but sometimes we have too take responsibility for our actions which will not benefit you at that present moment.
Why did she chose to have so many kids with a man that won’t really help her? Also she needs to drop her kids off to her mothers home. She has too much pride and her kids need to be somewhere. Smh we have to live with the bad choices sometimes. I bet her baby daddy is laid up with someone else while she’s out here struggling.
He put 8 kids in her with no marriage. These types of people are not ready for life ..
Why she didn't go to court to get her license reinstated instead of waiting on the dmv
Some harsh comments on here. It’s easy to point the finger and judge a persons life but not so easy looking in the mirror and dealing with your own issues. As mothers, there’s no one who judges us harsher than we do ourselves. Society teaches us to look down on others less fortunate. Just remember there’ll always be someone in a better situation than you, looking down on you. What’s needed here is some compassion and good practical advice and support. If you can’t offer this then send prayers, love and good thoughts her way. 🙏🏼❤
Everything you said is good in conversation but in reality no prayer or compassion is going to help someone who is not helping themselves. These interviews are some bullshit and this dude need help to stop living off all these ppl suffering. Dude seem like a pervert and I hope he burn in the deepest part of hell. She didn't even want to do an interview
Practical advise- get your tubes tied, get a job and get your baby daddy to man up and take care of all those kids😤
It appears she was in a financial stuggle way before baby #8... God also gives us common sense.
So there's a lot of stuff going over people's heads. First off, I don't know why she chose to have 8 children but hey they're here now and she has to make a way for them. I'm sure as a bus driver, her and the BD were making enough to make ends meet but didn't have anything to put up to save. She said she was riding dirty because her vehicle was old and didn't pass inspection so they wouldn't renew the plates. I'm sure she couldn't afford a newer vehicle living check to check. She couldn't pay the tickets because once again she's living check to check! She probably didn't get much government assistance because she's a bus driver and she has a " spouse" . I don't think the family has disowned her but most people don't have the space to accommodate 8 children and 2 adults. Also if she's not working, she has nothing to contribute to a light bill, water bill and groceries at the mom or Grandma's home. We can all sit back and say what she did wrong in life but you can literally tell that her circumstances are already beating her up and she feels horrible. On top of that, she has a new baby so PPD is still possible. I'm sure she feels like a failure as a mother, hopeless and scared to lose her children. Tough love is great but a little compassion and encouragement would really help her right now. Praying for her and those babies 😢 🙏
A new baby come on! Something wrong with this chick
I pray she get on her feet 🙏🏾❤️
What a strong sister and I hope she comes out on top of this setback.
It broke my heart seeing her cry...
I've always been told, the best lesson is through experience. I'm sure she's learning from her poor decisions, now I'd the time for compassion. We've ALL made bad decisions in life. Not just that, but even people with less children, are one paycheck away from losing everything! It can't happen to anyone. Don't get so high up on your horses, where you can't look down.
IF HER FAMILY WANTED TO HELP HER THEY WOULD. The fact is a lot of black families are very selfish and do not like being inconvenienced and will only halfway support their family through a life crisis if they can gain something out the deal. I see it all the time and unfortunately people have no clue their family is like that until they’re in a dire situation.
Amen
Lots of times our family hard headed as hell
If she can just tell the whole story and be truthful maybe she can get the help she needs. All the best to her
She's holding in how she really feels, I hope and Pray she let's it all out and everything will work out for her and her children ❤
She said they both hold it down STOP PICKING
Jehovah touch this young lady and her children journey. May her road be successful and she receive housing ASAP. Amen
Omg God bless her and her family i hope she gets her job back
That is an extremely sad story. God will provide 🙏 🙌 ❤, Keep your head up
It is, and I'm so disappointed in these comments no one knows her reason for having 8 kids. It may be a religion thing, I pray to the good LORD he blesses her family and provides their every need! 🙏🏽❤️
Tax payers will provide
@@TheCharnineif she was religious, she wouldn't have multiple children out of wedlock. Stop making excuses for this behavior. If people in her life would have taught her to be practical, she and most importantly, her children, would not be suffering today. This is devastating, for all who love and care about this young woman.
@@Sleepy__Joe__ You make a very valid point there, I didn't think about that.
I'm just praying for her ❤
God Bless this Sis, her kids, and the Father. Hope he finds better work. 🙏🏾
This is madness I feel for her and all the other people who don’t have the spare money to get their cars sorted regarding emissions. It’s scandalous that this has happened
She is a beautiful person with a beautiful soul. I pray God will turn things around for them babies
God bless this beautiful sister.
Man this is so heartfelt and heartbreaking. Wow
When you think you have nothing left you have GOD GOD is closer to use than we think now is the time for us to get close to GOD
This is seriously irresponsible to have 8 children and not able to provide for them sheesh.
God bless this woman and I pray she finds her way and things turn around . I hope the father is helping
Praying that her appeal goes through so she can get her job back and get back on her feet. 🙏🏾 ❤
Wow that must be an epidemic in Atlanta Young and homeless 31 with eight kids 😯 wishing the best for her and her family and I hope she does not turn to drugs like some of those women🤲🏾🤲🏾🤲🏾
Marcus couldn't get even a smile when he said shout out to New York he would normally get from others when he usually give shout out she's really sad and need to get out of that situation
naw, she ain't in the mood
Praying for her and the family. Hopefully things will work out.
I’m still sending prayers for them all.
She love her children. I hate that she’s gotta be in that situation. If only I was rich. I’ll be praying hard for her. You can tell she’s not meant for this. I truly believe she will get her job back and get herself a place for her and her children.
Definitely wasn't planned properly! By the 2nd or 3rd kid some serious life decisions needed to made! The man is just as responsible but she's definitely defending him.
She made me cry
It annoys me that he continuously asks everyone” how do you feel?” When already in a bad situation. It irks me so bad!
She is kind of cute. Made some bad decisions but we all do at times!
8 kids is not a mistake that’s done on purpose. Black women have kids because they think the kids will take care of them when they get older it’s a sick mindset.
The first time was a bad, ignorant decision, that I understand. The other 7, well come on now. Not even people that have great careers can afford more than 2 or 3 kids. I don't know why her parents allowed this to go on. They could have talked some sense into her. Remember Octomom?
@@DJ-vj4vi Black people as a collective (for the most part) do not believe in abortions.
I don't know how yall thought I was talking about the kids.
I was talking about not protecting your liscense and you have a CDL.
As I said, she made some bad decisions.
I have been in the industry 30 years now, it can be hard to get jobs with a pattern of careless behavior.
@@DJ-vj4vi🎯🎯🎯
I like how she wasn’t quick to blame anyone and just want her job back. May she get back on her feet asap 🙏🏾
Atlanta,8 kids! It's possible but realistically it would take at least a 6 figure income. Maybe relocate to a city that the cost of living is lower. Sometimes change is Good 😊. Blessings to this young lady
I'd say 7 figure
She needs to go back to school and stop having kids. Being a bus driver ain’t enough
yes!
@@Sleepy__Joe__ exactly 💯
@@Ang.143 at all
Bless you and your kids 🙏🙏🙏
She seems like she has a good heart, shit just happens.Stay Strong
Nothing just HAPPENS. It's called poor choices
Homeless with 8 kids, fake eyelashes, etc.....8 KIDS......CRAZY!!!!
At least she had all her 8 kids for one man thats how it supposed to be. 👏🏾👏🏾
To bad he's a loser too
True
And homeless 👏🏽
Not by a man but your husband
I love the way she sees things and does not look to point blame at anyone, she's taking full accountability. Hopefully she'll get everything together.
She need to stop having kids and sort out her financial situation, 8 kids with the same guy and he haven't marry her.
Women, stop giving men wife treatment, when they only sees you as their baby mama.
Prayers for you sister 😢
This too shall pass. The kids will be fine it's just an humbling experience! Just don't forget the lesson and blessings along the way 🙏
I hope they get something soon. We have to acknowledge that a family of 10 has different dynamics. We need to appreciate those who have multiple kids to offset those who don't have kids. Wishing them the best.
🙁You think poor parents with poor judgment who have far more children than they can support is a positive because if supposedly offsets those who don't have children? This families children are going to be a liability to society more than anything else because they will not be nurtured otherwise. Society, including people who don't have children will have to subsidize or support them. There needs to be more quality, not quantity.
yes, having 8 children is good but it’s not when you’re poor an this is the second time that’s she’s been homeless but it’s her children’s first time which they shouldn’t have to deal with poverty, her and her children’s father are equally responsible for making sure they take care of the lives that they decided to create
@@peaceseeker9927 exactly, having 8 children is good but it’s not good having children while poor, the parents are already creating a generation of poverty an they will think that society is to blame for them having hardships
@@peaceseeker9927 I guarantee you are in no position to define what is a quality human being. Also, there are a lot of people who want less Black people around and they are implementing various tactics to accomplish that, including convincing Black people to think and behave like them....whether you realize it or not. And please know that my goal is not to convince you. There's more important things to do.
@@d.white.creationsYou sound crazy to say that. You don't have lots of kids because you think “they” are trying to get rid if black people. How does having a lot of kids and living in poverty help? Her family won't even invite them to live with them.
Praying for you beautiful!!🙏🏼
I feel for her however driving is not the only job out there, if it was me and I knew my job was on the line I would have started applying for other jobs. Once she lost her income loosing everything else was inevitable.
True story. I decided no to sit and understand this. I hope she gets the help she needs
It’s just hard to accept low wages when you used to earn a decent wage. I moved to Atlanta and went in interviews but they all wanted to pay far less than my worth according to my pay history. Marta is probably her only shot at a decent wage in Atlanta.
I can tell she is a nice person. God bless!
Points dubble when you have a CDL
Man this is sad, why do people have so many kids knowing they can't provide? Child care cost alone is crazy
Damn, 8 kids!!! She's getting good EBT and benefits 😱
Too bad ebt can’t pay bills also ebt goes by income and if she was making a certain amount bus driving what ebt would she have?
Because a dhs officer makes no more than 35k and cannot receive any benefits, a case manager can’t either with under 30k salary.
I see that this was posted a month ago.. I hope her situation has changed for the better since then.🙏
How can I get in touch with her to help with clothes etc for kids
Sending her and her family 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾❤️❤️Pray she gets everything situated.
I think they're a bit more to the story than just tickets. She may have broke the the Georgia state code for commercial drivers. Plus she didn't give a number on how much she owed the DMV. Because if all she has to do is pay the tickets her license will be restored. And I see why she got 8 kids. She's a knockout with a figure to match