i have a friend whos too much for me and i just feel like she cares about me deeply while i dont really even like her that much, i want to be honest with her so she can make better friends the kind of friends she deserves to have but i dont know how to tell her without hurting her?
I had a best friend who stopped talking to me one day, and I didnt understand so I had a lot of anxiety but this allowed me to reevaluate my other friendships
I had a best friend and it ended back in junior year. We were absolutely inseparable...eventually she and I grew apart and the final blow was when she told me one thing and her boyfriend another and it all came full circle. It's hard to get over it but after a while you just gotta let go
I had a Best Friend back in the day and we were like 2 peas in a pod. Everyone around us kept trying to separate us saying we shouldn't be friends. At the time I didn't understand it, but as we grew older I began to realize we really didn't have All that much in common. Our phone conversations were boring. She called me more than I called her. After a while we just stopped talking to each other. I lived my life and she lived hers.
Spreading the word isn't forcing anything. You are doing absolutely fine. Don't let anyone tell you that you're forcing them to do anything just by saying something. Jesus loves you ❤️
I’ve had best friends who I hang out with all the time but I got stabbed in the back numerous times, they stole from me, lied to me, ditched me and used me as a bank account when I barely had any money to my name! I got guilt trip so many times by them… All I wanted was to be a friend and help out and that’s what I gave to them but when I needed a friend to talk to or ask one of them to help me out, I got pushed to the side, ignored, attacked physically, emotionally and mentally, threw me away like I was trash when I had nothing to my name and made fun of me behind my back and on social media… I moved on and I’m glad that I have better friends who look out for me and those who treated me “like a friend” are begging me to be friends with them and are willing to do anything but I gave myself so much time to forgive and forget them for good! Starting right now…
I can definitely see why both girls were told their too much. Because they are too much at times. Especially Diane. Her whole life is an example of doing too much with being unnecessarily mean and disrespectful to everyone including her own family.
Eh. I feel that nobody is ever too much for people that genuinely support them. You can say "hey, sometimes I need space & time to myself" but when you tell someone they're "too much" its misplacing the accountability. Sometimes people DO need a break, but to push it off on the other person rather than take accountability isnt a trait any good friend has in my opinion
As long as you leave on good terms is all that matters but she ruined the girls party just to make herself feel better instead of asking and underlying where her friend was coming from even if it wasn’t her intention to defend Dianne
@@futureivygirl and that's exactly why she's too much lol. You're ruining someone's birthday just to have the final say, that's literally only solidifying why the girl does not want to be friends with her. I get that she's a character but it's sounds kind of like you identify with ruining things for other people just because it didn't go your way. Which is weird. Some advice, talk to your friends, stop being petty because it's "just something you'd do". If none of this applies to you just ignore it but I'll leave it here for anyone else who thinks it's okay to be petty.
@@Royalty_girlie I’m exactly like Diane, frackly though I wouldn’t ruin a girls party but she ain’t finna get the last word. And my friends enjoy my “attitude”. When you get a friend like Diane you’ll understand
@@Royalty_girlie Ok, so first we have to remember this is a TV show, so the action is way more exaggerated than what would happen in real life. Let's not be triggered by fictional characters. Second, if someone tells you that they don't want to be your friend because you are "too much" and they walk away, it is horrible advice to tell a teenage girl that she needs to keep pestering a person for them to tell them how to change just to keep a friend. What is too much for one person may be just enough for someone else.
@@early2w homegirl, nobody is triggered by a fictional characters attitude. There are real people who act like her. Full stop, we're talking about a show. You're the only one here who needed to be reminded that it's a TV show. Chill.
When people give you criticism, sometimes you should take it and look introspectively. Diane is a mean person in the show, and that WOULD be hard to be friends with
@Kadeem Henry i think people somtimes use "keeping things real" as an excuse or a defense for their harsh and cold behaviors. People can keep things real, without being harsh / cold. You can be warm, and still "keep it real".
@Kadeem Henry yes perhaps... But kindness and warmth in a person makes them easier to be around. I only say this from my own life experience. I have had friends like Diane, and they're not good energy, and they're tough to bring to other social events.. they give off cold vibes that makes it harder for others to approach them, even for small talk.
This has happened to me before, and looking back, I probably was too much, but it hurt when I called her and she pretended it wasn't her. I moved on; I refuse to be friends with someone who refuses to be friends with me.
This happened to me but I don't think the break as organic as it seemed because it came on the heels of the good friend not being guarded with my personal possession. Looking back I think that was a way out of being held accountable of whatever happened to personal things valued at almost $5k. In talking to the person's mom they gave me insight to what they may have done with them and I partly blame myself because the person has never really been responsible and now I am not handcuffed with always getting them out of jams. I do not miss them as much as I used to but it is just the way it went down that still stings but not as much as it used to.
This girl and me had been friends since the 6th grade, we would fight but always make up until one day in the 6th grade. It was during gym class where she told other girls and one of those girls told me that she thought I was "a pest." It broke my heart, and it still hurts to this day, and I hate her now, but I'm glad it happened. I was reintroduced to anime at that time, and I was able to meet people who as liked it and one of them has been my best friend/sworn brother for 20 years.
Being told you are too much doesn't necessarily imply they don't want to be friends 🤝. They could just want you to chill ❄, so they have their own personal space. Of course, it could be a reason for them to break up as well, if they don't like you enough otherwise.
friends OR FAMILY don’t try to STEAL your inheritance at all cost, jeopardize your life, lie to your entourage, block your opportunities, & sleep with ppl they thought would hurt you! go to hell!
Being told you are too much as the ground for breaking the friendship is too much relatable sadly.
I feel it
I agree :(
Yep!
me lmao
i have a friend whos too much for me and i just feel like she cares about me deeply while i dont really even like her that much, i want to be honest with her so she can make better friends the kind of friends she deserves to have but i dont know how to tell her without hurting her?
We grieve more the end of a friendship than the end of romance
I love how Diane character matured, is it weird that I’m seeing parts of Zoe in her
That's usually how it works.
That’s not good
Hopefully not Zoe is terrible
@@ERoss-eb6ou right?! I think Diane is far more mature than Zoe. Diane would NEVER marry someone drunk off her head in Mexico
Lmao mature zoe, you’re funny 😆
Dianne really is my favorite character 😭 if anybody else gets a spin off I hope it’s her
I had a best friend who stopped talking to me one day, and I didnt understand so I had a lot of anxiety but this allowed me to reevaluate my other friendships
For years I've always been somewhat distant from people, knowing not to go all out because I'm INCREDIBLY easy to get overly attached
Why let someone live inside your head rent free?
Damn right.
I had a best friend and it ended back in junior year. We were absolutely inseparable...eventually she and I grew apart and the final blow was when she told me one thing and her boyfriend another and it all came full circle. It's hard to get over it but after a while you just gotta let go
I like the mixedish reference and Diane's a whole mood love it😂
I had a Best Friend back in the day and we were like 2 peas in a pod. Everyone around us kept trying to separate us saying we shouldn't be friends. At the time I didn't understand it, but as we grew older I began to realize we really didn't have All that much in common. Our phone conversations were boring. She called me more than I called her. After a while we just stopped talking to each other. I lived my life and she lived hers.
Ummmm did she die?
@@taffi_taffy9182 No. By the Grace of God she and I "occasionally" run into each other. We share niceties but that's all.
@@m.layfette6249 okay that’s good
@@taffi_taffy9182 It is. She's a sweet and caring person. We just grew up and apart. She and I both cherish the memories of our youth.
What's the point of this story
OH DIANE, forever my love and my role model. PS: I'm 40 y.o. ( pathetic, I know and I dont care)
Honey I understand you.
Doesn't matter, we all love Diane.
Sho nuff!!!
Pathetic? What do you mean?
She a role model to a lot of us older women. I’m almost 40 😊😊
There are NO bad characters on this show. I love itttt!
The dad, Dre.
@@babe6835 yeah he got annoying at the beginning of season 5
A reminder the God loves you and Jesus died for your sins💓 ( not tryna force)
True Amen to that 🙏🏾 (and no you’re just spreading the gospel ☺️)
Spreading the word isn't forcing anything. You are doing absolutely fine. Don't let anyone tell you that you're forcing them to do anything just by saying something. Jesus loves you ❤️
AMEN♥️🙌🏾🔥
Pls read Galatians 1-9💛
amen
Is it me or was this giving everybody hate chris vibes
No its not just you
I think it’s the flashbacks😂
@Kadeem Henry lol 😂
Mooood. “I’ll get back to you” 😂😂💀💀
I’ve had best friends who I hang out with all the time but I got stabbed in the back numerous times, they stole from me, lied to me, ditched me and used me as a bank account when I barely had any money to my name! I got guilt trip so many times by them… All I wanted was to be a friend and help out and that’s what I gave to them but when I needed a friend to talk to or ask one of them to help me out, I got pushed to the side, ignored, attacked physically, emotionally and mentally, threw me away like I was trash when I had nothing to my name and made fun of me behind my back and on social media… I moved on and I’m glad that I have better friends who look out for me and those who treated me “like a friend” are begging me to be friends with them and are willing to do anything but I gave myself so much time to forgive and forget them for good! Starting right now…
I understand that feeling betrayal from friends
I feel like blackish is going to end then Diane and Jack will get a spin off
I can definitely see why both girls were told their too much. Because they are too much at times. Especially Diane. Her whole life is an example of doing too much with being unnecessarily mean and disrespectful to everyone including her own family.
Mean? Diane?? Really?
Eh. I feel that nobody is ever too much for people that genuinely support them. You can say "hey, sometimes I need space & time to myself" but when you tell someone they're "too much" its misplacing the accountability. Sometimes people DO need a break, but to push it off on the other person rather than take accountability isnt a trait any good friend has in my opinion
Exactly.
@Kadeem Henry You obviously dont know the difference. You can be real without being mean.
@Kadeem Henry I said she was mean not real, by kadeem.
As long as you leave on good terms is all that matters but she ruined the girls party just to make herself feel better instead of asking and underlying where her friend was coming from even if it wasn’t her intention to defend Dianne
It’s Diane what do you expect? She ain’t gon let that lil girl have the last say. That’s why you don’t say nun bad about your “best friend”
@@futureivygirl and that's exactly why she's too much lol. You're ruining someone's birthday just to have the final say, that's literally only solidifying why the girl does not want to be friends with her. I get that she's a character but it's sounds kind of like you identify with ruining things for other people just because it didn't go your way. Which is weird. Some advice, talk to your friends, stop being petty because it's "just something you'd do". If none of this applies to you just ignore it but I'll leave it here for anyone else who thinks it's okay to be petty.
@@Royalty_girlie I’m exactly like Diane, frackly though I wouldn’t ruin a girls party but she ain’t finna get the last word. And my friends enjoy my “attitude”. When you get a friend like Diane you’ll understand
@@Royalty_girlie Ok, so first we have to remember this is a TV show, so the action is way more exaggerated than what would happen in real life. Let's not be triggered by fictional characters. Second, if someone tells you that they don't want to be your friend because you are "too much" and they walk away, it is horrible advice to tell a teenage girl that she needs to keep pestering a person for them to tell them how to change just to keep a friend. What is too much for one person may be just enough for someone else.
@@early2w homegirl, nobody is triggered by a fictional characters attitude. There are real people who act like her. Full stop, we're talking about a show. You're the only one here who needed to be reminded that it's a TV show. Chill.
When people give you criticism, sometimes you should take it and look introspectively. Diane is a mean person in the show, and that WOULD be hard to be friends with
@Kadeem Henry i think people somtimes use "keeping things real" as an excuse or a defense for their harsh and cold behaviors. People can keep things real, without being harsh / cold. You can be warm, and still "keep it real".
Agreed dealing with a friend who is too much. She loves to love bomb you and then play the victim and go cold. Too much is her solgan
@Kadeem Henry yes perhaps... But kindness and warmth in a person makes them easier to be around. I only say this from my own life experience. I have had friends like Diane, and they're not good energy, and they're tough to bring to other social events.. they give off cold vibes that makes it harder for others to approach them, even for small talk.
I have the exact same personality as Diane and I have a bunch of friends and they’re used to me
Also Diane never plays the victim she says what she says and she don’t take it back or make you feel bad for her
So excited to see Marsai Martin as Liberty in the new PAW Patrol movie!!!
2:53 unexpected shady🤦🏾♂️🤦🏿♀️
This happened to me once, except sorta the opposite....
My best friend told me I was too boring and my self esteem took a roadtrip eversince.✌️😐
Looks like the best friend doesn't heed her own warning.
I love Diane!!
diane act's perfect on season6 this is my favouriteshow
i love when Bow was like "What?"
This has happened to me before, and looking back, I probably was too much, but it hurt when I called her and she pretended it wasn't her. I moved on; I refuse to be friends with someone who refuses to be friends with me.
She pretended it wasn't her?! That's wild and so foul! I am so sorry.
This happened to me but I don't think the break as organic as it seemed because it came on the heels of the good friend not being guarded with my personal possession. Looking back I think that was a way out of being held accountable of whatever happened to personal things valued at almost $5k. In talking to the person's mom they gave me insight to what they may have done with them and I partly blame myself because the person has never really been responsible and now I am not handcuffed with always getting them out of jams. I do not miss them as much as I used to but it is just the way it went down that still stings but not as much as it used to.
@@8lollipop97 Thanks. I'm over it now.
Isn't pulling fire alarms illegal? Or is that just at a school?
she learns from her Grandma
2:00 not gonna lie u would do that as well😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
This girl and me had been friends since the 6th grade, we would fight but always make up until one day in the 6th grade. It was during gym class where she told other girls and one of those girls told me that she thought I was "a pest." It broke my heart, and it still hurts to this day, and I hate her now, but I'm glad it happened. I was reintroduced to anime at that time, and I was able to meet people who as liked it and one of them has been my best friend/sworn brother for 20 years.
So diane and jack couldn’t get a spin off called twin.ish
Honestly I only have one friend. I'm just not a person that ppl want to be around. I'm surprised that my friend still wants to be my friend.
Six if you count dad 🤣🤣🤣
i stg this girl was j u s t 10 yrs old
Diane is too iconic
I broke up with my best friend at the age of 28. I thought something was wrong with me .....this is normal lmao
My best friend literally broke up with me for the SAME REASON! 😢❤❤❤
can we be best friends ill get back to you
Why y’all drinking honest juice y’all teenagers 😭😭💕
What' season is this
It's season 6
Awww look at baby rainbow 🌈
Diane is a menace lmaooo
I guess I'm lucky my best friend was also my cousin blood ties and all that.
Being told you are too much doesn't necessarily imply they don't want to be friends 🤝.
They could just want you to chill ❄, so they have their own personal space.
Of course, it could be a reason for them to break up as well, if they don't like you enough otherwise.
Lmao Diane is a boss gyal
Diane is horrible. Don't know why people aren't acknowledging this
I say the same shit
Cause it’s just a show
Me too
People acknowledge it, but she is pretty entertaining. Lol
Cause she's not
Love it!!
Diane is too much
Girl just vist a country called Ethiopia!
sometimes you gotta do what needs to be done & stop caring about the fake victim act these people put on!
friends OR FAMILY don’t try to STEAL your inheritance at all cost, jeopardize your life, lie to your entourage, block your opportunities, & sleep with ppl they thought would hurt you! go to hell!