How To GET HER BACK After Messing Up...
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If You Want To GET HER BACK After Messing Up, DO THIS!... In this dating advice video, I will tell o do if you want to get her back after messing up. You may want to know how to get her back after messing up and it might be on first dates, online dating, or somewhere in the dating process. Take heed to this dating advice and be sure to watch the entire video.
Many guys don’t know how to get her back after hurting her and it can be a confusing and challenging situation. I understand it is not an easy situation because most of the time you want her back in your life, but you have no idea how to get her back.
I want you to know how to get her back when she pulls away. If you correctly follow the steps that I’m going to layout for you in this relationship advice, then to you, it will be much easier for you to know how to get your ex-girlfriend back.
As a certified life coach, relationship coach, and dating coach, I want to make dating and relationships easier for you. I pray that you find this video helpful and that you will receive the partner who is truly best for you.
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If a man were to pull away from his wife, is it wrong? Even if shes not talking to you and there’s a distance due to work.
Can I have a personal session with you sir
@@lukewatley2665 cheated on and lied to someone I love I always screw up
Please read my comment below 🙏🤲
bro she broke up with me for no reason.and this helped me, i started running 5 miles every day because of this, Thank you very much
Man, that was my biggest mistake, I would dismiss most of her feelings, I was so Inconsiderate. I wasn’t treating her like my partner. This video is an eye opener for me.
Hi my relationship is fixed back again my ex is back
to me we loving and happily together, I got help
from a great man who brought us back together
Yes we need you to here us and love us
the thing is i was probably too nice to her, i didnt tell her how i felt about how she acted because i didnt want to hurt her feelings and i let out all my anger all at once instead of telling her when the small things happened, so we got into a fight about our communication and behaviours, she was kinda mean to me the day before but she says it wasnt "that deep" and "its a joke" but i got really hurt by the things she said...
Hey man I felt that. My biggest mistake was not giving her the attention she wanted and didn't prioritize time with her. It sucks but we just gotta do better with things like that
Thanks for sharing your experience.
When he said you lost yourself to this person I felt that
#5 is exactly what caused me to lose the girl of my dreams. I lied about something dumb cause I was scared how she would handle the truth. Lesson learned, I will never lie again.
In the same situation right now brother
I did the same and it hurts so bad to see her hurt like that because of such a dumb mistake from my side!
We've all lived the same lives huh
Maturity: she was just looking for an excuse 😊
word
0:34 one: regain your masculine energy
4:48 two: do not overwhelm her
7:17 three: acknowledge her feelings
11:19 four: evolve
15:02 five: be honest
17:48 six: be thoughtful, not materialistic
20:18 seven: focus on yourself and live your life
There’s some more at the end too…
And at the end: pump and dump her. She left you for another dude.
Thanks dude.
Thanks!
@@cipryan96 lmao
🤲🏻
“A sure fire way to kill your chances is for her to catch you lying one more time”. 👈🏼 this video had so many great points.
Glad to hear that, thank you very much!
If he lie once it’s ova 🙅🏽♀️
@Caleb Newman92 na fr even people in good relationships
She's caught me lying three times and it's because I was on a dating app talking to other girls thing is I loved her while I was doing this but I think I did it because either I was doing it as a boredom because we didn't really do too much together after a certain point of being together for so long or it was the lack of attention that I wasn't getting that I was getting when we first got together but let me know what your opinion on is because I spent three years with a Hispanic woman from El Salvador she's beautiful her personality was amazing at first but now we've hit a dead end and it doesn't look like I'm going to be able to get back with her
I lost my relationship of 3years.
I need her back badly.
Like she practically tells me she is sleeping with someone else already.
Yessssss. OVERWHELMING her to PRESSURE her to come back, it PUSHES her away.
Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback.
Yeah. For me it was bcoz I was trying to show her how much I really loved her. Just kept pushing it on her how much I know I did wrong, and how I can fix it. Made her run like crazy.
Yeah😔
@@DonRoyalX I wish this method can be applied for Asian to be precise
This guy is a good person. I got her talk to me now. 😊 I'm going to continue to do what is needed to get her back me for good. I wish I wasn't such an angry and insecure man it took me this relationship loss to figure this out about myself. I do need to become a better version of myself and the best of who I really am behind all of that pain I had in my life before and while I was with you. We as men sometimes just do not realize how good things are and how amazing the person is that you've had until you lose it all.
That last sentence
I truly felt that
Same here bro
Word
truly felt that last message
Man I feel you. Same for me. Took me to lose this one. Then I seen a reflection of my behavior then seen what she had been saying.
The last part of this video is so crucial. It's easy to get caught up in not wanting to lose someone, that you can put a lot of effort into trying to get someone back who was never right for you in the first place. I've been in this situation, and it always seems to be worse for me when they end things. It helps me a lot to take some time, reflect, breath, calm down, talk to friends and my therapist, and journal about what went wrong/right. Many times I've done this, and realized in the process this person was never right for me to begin with. We can all get caught up in the pain of losing someone where we can act irrational, emotional, and ultimately come across desperate. Like he says, we can lose ourselves in the process. Thanks so much for this video!
Word! Been doing this. Trying SO hard to make her stay. In the end, I don't want to be with her any longer. It's just not worth it. I'd rather move on and start with a clean slate.
@@lockheedload Stay strong, my man.
Good luck to all of you. Be honest with yourself and deal with the real issues in yourself and most of all you have to listen to her about the things she doesn't like about you that got her to this point. Be strong. You are strong!
Edit: Thank you f***ing much for this video, you are definitely speaking to me. I need to grow up on ways at 35 and life has been hard and I let outside energies control my behavior and ultimately push her away...all hope isn't lost but I do need to evolve. Growing up is hard man and hearing the shit you done to her is even harder.
Update: We got back together a week ago and things are much better.♥️
Im really happy for you bro.I was narcissistic and blamed her for a lot of things when I was messing up.When we broke up I didnt even feel hurt, but now I realised how much she means to me.
She’s already trying to work things out with someone new and I feel like it’s too late.
I just talked to her and apologized for everything I did that led us to ruin our relationship, but I feel like she’s already moved on enough and is excited for this new experience.
It’d be nice to have her back but I’ll just move on if she doesn’t.I’ll just learn from my mistakes and be much better for the next person
@@gamerberry2451 I know it feels like it is too late, but PLEASE DO NOT GIVE UP. IF WHAT YALL HAD WAS REAL AND YOU TRULY CARED ABOUT HER YOU WOULD CONTINUE PURSUING A FUTURE WITH HER. DONT GIVE UP I AM PRAYING FOR YOU🙏🏽🖤
@@hsl2208 😭Thanks for your words brother.
I don’t wanna give up either.I miss her so much.I’ve thought about it so much.
I wanna talk to her, apologise for my wrongs, free her of all the guilt I made her feel for moving on with this new person, and then let her know she has a place in my heart.
After that I’ll keep my distance, to not be annoying..Check up from time to time, and let things play out naturally.I’m learning to be happy on my own, and it’s great..but I still really want her back to me.I pray that happens.
Bro what if she doesn’t want to tell you what exactly she did that made her pissed at you. She’s says you should take time to figure it out yourself…what do you do, when you know deep down you’re good bro
From my experience usually people know exactly why you are doing to make them feel a way. Most importantly bc shit don't work out with this person DOES NOT MAKE YOU A BAD PERSON. People make mistakes but did you learn from the mistake is the important part. Good luck to you all
Just make sure he is worth taking him back!
Absolutely!
He's not. I thought he was but I was never first in our relationship or his life. I love him. But I need to heal. This last incident was an eye opener. Alllllll people men and women need to truly understand words hurt. U can't unsay them 😢
Spoken like a woman
This video resonated with me because if you have true love and connection with the person then it is important to just be humble, apologize, work through the issues and progress forward. I like your key point of evolving. Evolving consist of growth and transformation with both people as when this happens the relationship can elevate to the next level. Agree, we must level up in life but more importantly in our relationships especially with the ones we love deeply. We have to get to the root cause to build a foundation that is unwavering. Most of the time disagreements and misunderstanding are not worth the risk of losing that special person or the love of our lives. To get someone back always use the 3 P's. Lose the pride, pray, and persistence. If it is meant to be, you will come back together even stronger than before. What God has for you, is for you. Thank you for the video, always insightful. Blessings and peace to you.
Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback, blessings, and peace unto you!
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@@drnanaojomo6362 HELL TO DA NAW!!!
@@obailey973 HAHAHA
Absolutely 💯
Everybody gangsta till you realize she ain't coming back
Worst feeling I think I've ever had
So sad but true
😂😂ong
Maannnnnnn! Big big facts! I don't think I lost her, still working on it. But when I really thought that I did. Man, I had never been that hurt for that long in my life.
Speaking volumes my man feelin this right now i feel like the biggest low life scum of the earth
Made the biggest mistake of my life. My girlfriend of 7 years broke up with me. The first 4 yrs of the relationship was great and then the last 3 years, I’ve treated her like absolute shit. I thought she would never leave me and she reached her breaking point 2 months ago. My sweet, loving , clingy girlfriend had enough and decided that she is going to move on. I literally can’t live with this pain, I really need her back. What I did to her is unforgivable.
Thanks for the advice, I will work on myself. She’s the love of my life. I will address all of this into my life. If I ever get her back in my life, I will be the luckiest man alive and I will update you guys.
Going through the same with My Gf of 5 yrs bro please let us know
@@WarrenMapp Hey man, We're back together. Thought it would take longer, took 3 months to gain her trust. Had to be consistent even when she didn't respond to anything. She gave in eventually. The relationship is still not exactly like before, have to work on it a lot.
One point is that even after she decided to leave, she still responded to me now and then. I'd suggest, be consistent and true with your words and actions. Never take her feelings for granted because one more fuck up will make it even worse.
Tips:
* Don't try to overbear
* Don't try to woo her with gifts
* Don't pressure her into loving you back, take it slow and give her enough space.
Good for you homie. I lost my wife of 10 years. She is now with another man. Not all stories have happy endings but I’m damn glad yours did. Treat her right.
@@kyjohns8271 very sorry to hear that my man..I hope you find your way. I am looking forward to marrying mine within next year or two. I’ll do my best.
@@kyjohns8271 I am sorry to hear that man. I hope things get better in some way or the other for you. I will take care of mine with all my heart.
This keeps my emotions in place. Whenever I will breakdown, I will rewatch this video and it calms me down. everything you've said is correct. But we tend to do otherwise when we are in hurting and feeling depressed. Thanks man! I hope we can be back together. Thanks for this video!
Hi did y’all get back together already ?
Bro, did you get back w her?
Good thoughts gentlemen, we know he got his girl back 😎
"Whenever i breakdown"...bruh...quit being a little pansy.
Bro what’s the update? I hope it worked out man
I have no doubt that my wife is the right one for me. It's been a struggle communicating effectively in the family and often I place myself as the scape goat. Hurt people hurt people and this holds true in my marriage. I recognize the growth cycle we're in individually and so grateful for people like you who are will to put these pearls out here for those of us who recognize and are in need of them
As someone who has been separated from my wife for 4 months now after I let her walk out which I deeply regret, I really needed this video today to help me learn what I been doing wrong in trying to get her back. THANK YOU 🙏🏻
I'm happy this has been helpful to you 🙏
Good luck bro. I lost my wife of 10’years and failed for 2 years trying to get her back. She is no with another man and wants absolutely nothing to do with me… the father of her two children. Don’t lose her if she is your one. They don’t always come back. Sometimes they find someone else. Wish I had found this video 2 years ago bc I did EVERYTHING Wrong. Good luck
@@kyjohns8271I’m sorry man
today makes 2 months i lost my wife because of my mouth said something i did not mean
Not many men will “get” this message; it’s easier for them to move on to the next available woman than to do the “work” properly because most of them only know how to pressure and cannot take rejections if they had the woman before;
The worst is the one who wants to get her back by making her feel guilty for refusing to forgive him.
Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback.
Yes. My ex did the same trying to get me back through guilt. It repulsed me even more.
@@pammy_land it’s really bad… the next category is the one who kill their exes because they can’t accept she wants to move on
Very true as a young man with quite alot of options it's easier to move onto the next than be a man and fix the issues I'm in the same boat I'm 28 have a 5 year son I left my sons mother at the time of my mothers death we have been spilt apart for 5 years I needed time to build myself back up I'm at that point I've evolved quite abit me and his mother both grew up in the foster care system so we are winging it alone I've come back after 5 years
You sound desperate 😹
This really helped man, thank you I’ve realized I was doing most of these and I’m going cold turkey on all and dedicating my life to god and praying to him every night, praying for her and myself. Me and her may never be tg again but Idc what anyone says I will sit here and wait for her as long as needed
Same same!
Great timing on this video for me personally. I feel that a lot of the “how to get her back” videos out there either are all about professing dying love for her, or just pretend she doesn’t exist. But love the way you framed this, you can still love and want to be with someone while also recognizing that you need to work on yourself first to move forward. I appreciate this message, much love!
I love when you say I have coached allot of people, men, women and couples. It means you have merit. It's no wonder you are quite easy to understand and you have clear points that are well articulated and easy to relate with. You inspire me.
Glad to hear that, thank you for your response!
Not really it's all nonsense
@@tsmar9939 probably to you. Me, I believe in his message and his agenda which is to ensure that we have more fulfilling lives and relationships. I have listened to, understood, believed and practiced his recommendations and I have achieved tremendous results.
If you aren't benefiting from his message it's either you can't comprehend it or you are not listening because his message is not from out of no where, it touches the heart of daily living.
@@thisismystone9658he’s just ignorant
@@MeetStephanSpeakscan this work for a failed talking stage?
I messed up so bad with the woman I really do love more than anything. Been with her for 7 years and have kids together been broken up for 8 months. I'm trying to do all I can to change who I am and be a better man. Watching these kinds of videos helps better understand my situation and to make better changes in hoping to get her back
Thank you for your feedback, I appreciate hearing from you ❤️
To be honest messaging DR OLOMOOBA was the best choice I have ever made…Thanks for bringing back my ex lover
Hey man any update
Thank you so much for this video
She left me this week because of my depression.
We both said we are soulmates and never met anyone like each other.
I’m going to work so hard on myself
No one will recognise me
Beast. Good luck. We're all rooting for you
cornnnnyyyyy
@@aidenalbury7794 Thanks for the input, you have no depth to you and I hope you never suffer from mental illness
How are things since then? I am going through a breakup right now and need advice
@@austinleap5924Not going to lie I’m struggling. My depression isn’t helping me at all. Ended up trying to cut her off. We’re still seeing each other as friends but I’m struggling to control my emotions because of this fucking depression.
I’m need to get a grip and man the fuck up.
Don’t fuck up like me my friend be smart and keep fighting good luck
I’ll pray for you ❤
As a woman who is involved with women I loved this video!!!! I’m recently in this situation and as bad as it hurts I’m learning the sympathy tactics do not work I needed to see this !!! Thank you💜
Just a tip as a woman, the real issue with someone pleading/begging/groveling, is that it's insincere. Everyone knows it's a tactic to get the other person back that nobody means when they employ it, and two seconds in after being taken back you'd go right back to the issue that caused the problem in the first place. "Getting back in your masculine energy" honestly doesn't particularly work, because if your crying is sincere, your pleading is sincere, if your REGRETS are sincere and sincerely expressed, it can be a lot of more touching than "acting tough" ESPECIALLY if you're the one who fucked up, because acting tough means that you're hiding how you really feel.
Don't listen to women on women. Ignore your emotions guys, emotions often come from your evil Ego. Stay stoic. Walk away. Date other women.
don't listen to this guy's, if you fucked up just be sincere to ask for forgiveness as a man don't loose your masculinity by pleading n crying... Women only see it as weakness it doesn't work... Ts better to act tough it won't break you even if you will loose her for good bt you won't loose yourself as a man
@@emazjassam2452 if your crying is honest it WILL turn women on and make them more interested in you. NO ONE likes a man disconnected from his feelings because that's a violent bruttish man who can't ever admit he's wrong. Being this way is the KEY to staying single forever. So listen up and DO TALK about your feelings and openly C R Y if you need it.
@@fildybmaybe you, most women do not act or think like this lol
@thekarmicbrat I totally agree with you. The big, stoic, ultra masculine man is such a turn off to me. Because it screams toxic masculinity garbage. A real man can acknowledge he has feelings, work through his pain and heal.
So far I made the first two mistakes. I’m glad this was recommended to me before I made things worse. My emotions are definitely all over the place.
Broke up yesterday, absolutely devastated. I feel lost and empty, I am in denial, and I don't know what to do. She's the love of my life
I pray that you heal from all that you have been through 🙏
It’s tough, but I needed this. This on a repeat whenever I think about her.
This video is powerful. Thank you. Time to evolve into the man I’m meant to be. Time to live out my purpose.
Stephen, the wisdom you pass on in this video is enormous. It has helped me so much. Thank you. I wished it carried on for another hour.
cornnnnyyyyyyyyy
FIRST....MAKE SURE YOU WANT TO GO BACK....BECAUSE SOMETIMES WHEN YOU GO BACK IT'S WORSE 😬😲
Indeed, it helps when we embrace that thank you for sharing!
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I am at a sad point of my life recently and this video makes so much sense to me. I wanna be better. Feel better. and do better for everyone I love.Thank you sir❤️
I'm sorry to hear about that. I pray that you heal from all that you have been through and be able to keep moving in faith 🙏 ❤️
Brother, this video has been nothing but confirmation for me. God has you in this space for a reason. Keep doing His work. God bless.
I appreciate that 🙏
Top quality advice for those seeking a mature and meaningful love relationship. Thanks Stephan.
My pleasure ❤️
Honestly this video does hit hard… I just experienced a break up not too long ago because I made a mistake of getting emotionally attached to someone else… it was hurting both of us at first but it became to where now we are just friends and we still hang out but we both feel torn up about it. When I came across this video it helped me reflect and realize the flaws of the relationship (mainly through finances). After sometime I noticed in her heart that she wants it to work but she’s still anxious. I’m giving her time because I believe God put us on our journey to better ourselves first before we get back together potentially, some days I still do beat my self up about it but I’m getting better to where I’m taking care of stuff for school , work and life in general and health wise personally too.. hopefully we can make it through but I’m a strong believer🙏🏾
Must have faith 🙏🏾✝️
Update?
I’m watching this video everyday. I need to become the man I need to be for me and for her. Even when my parents won’t accept, I know she is the one for me. I just pray she wants to do life together
Im in the same situation bro.
How’s it been going ?
I listen to it so many times today I want to make sure I don’t miss anything it’s so damn good it made me open my eyes on how I was going about things he explain it so good
I like evolving better than changing. People will say you shouldn't change who you are for an ex Girlfriend. But evolving is definitely a better way to say it. Evolving is a positive movement. You're trying to make yourself better. You're not changing who you are, your doing what healthy people do, learning from the past, adapting and making yourself a better person as a result. And when you're ex sees that and likes what she sees, that's a nice side effect. You should do this for yourself first, but there's nothing wrong with wanting a new successful relationship with your ex as an additional reason
Hey are you trying to attract or get back your ex, specific person (SP), restore back broken relationship/marriage's or banish third party from your relationship!!!!...
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I don't think is changing for ex girlfriend. At least from my perspective. We have split up because I literally was not myself. She said I have built a wall around me, and I didn't even speak to her like we used to. I stopped to support her and she was always there for me no matter what. I focused in work and career when she never cared about money. We started together with nothing, but we had each other. I got depression and anxiety from work which gave me literally nothing. And as a result I lost her.
And to do that I literally have to regain myself back, and become the person I used to be.
I am going through some really rough times now.
I feel worst even then when I lost father as a teenage boy.
She is the best person I met my entire life. Smart, loyal, supportive, happy and humble.
It breaks my heart that because of me of who I became she stopped laughing, locked herself up and she said she feels empty and need space. Regardless of that she still showed a lot of care about me before she moved out.
She never let me down, we never cheated on each other, I never even considered any other woman.
I feel lost and detached from myself. I look in the mirror and ask myself a question :"who am I" and honestly I hate myself.
I pray for God to give me a strength as there is big war in from of me and it's against myself.
Honestly when we’re done done…I just can’t imagine going back. It hurts. I love my exes unconditionally and will be there for them but there comes a point where you give up arguing, wanting to heal with someone, even listening to an apology is too much. Just be kind from the start. Love yourself so we can love you. Keep your head up men, even if you’ve made a mistake, but also don’t seek to covet someone because of what they did and will do for you. Love is an expression of selflessness. If you love her, leave her alone unless you’ll make up for it
Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback.
My girl of 5 almost 6 years found flirtatious messages from a couple months back in my phone, I was in a very dark place mentally at the time and was hiding many emotions from her because I felt like I couldn't talk about them. I never have done anything physical with anyone else besides my girlfriend for 6 years and we have been managing long distance for a little over half of it due to college, and what you say is exactly how she says she is feeling after finding out. I lost myself at that time and before she found the messages we were sailing almost the smoothest we've ever sailed, we had even talked about my worries because she brought up two things I was most scared to talk to her about, meeting her parents and me leading the charge more often (I desperately wanted to talk about both of these things for the entire relationship but nothing seemed to change for the better until this summer and after I had already stopped flirting with the other girl because I knew what I did was wrong and my heart does not lie with her). I want for nothing more than to bring her emotional safety again and I am confident she is the woman for me. I have evolved so much since being with her and I love watching both of us overcome the many obstacles in life. I cannot let our last moments together be so sour when everything was getting even sweeter. She is everything I ask for in a woman and more, and I was everything she asked for in a man until I broke that trust. I need to prove to her that I am still evolving as a person and I am still the man for her, own up to my mistakes and forge a healthier relationship moving forward. No matter how long it takes I will take all necessary steps to make this woman happy again. I reached out a little too early but she is the type to shut me out if I can't prove myself to her immediately. I am going out with her this week and hopefully she can see that I am honest and truly want to make up for my huge, huge mistake and work together to ensure a strong future for us. I never meant to disrespect her this much, I can barely eat or sleep with the thought of us not being together, but I try to for the sake of her. I need to be healthy for her. I need to win her back and prove she will always be safe in my arms even if it seems so far out of reach right now.
It's really tuff when u have kids with her and only want your family but there's a lot of gaps and misunderstandings so your now separate at the moment,it's literally tuff!I'm standing strong I will get her back love her the correct way and I won't this happened again! Thanks for this good advice Stephan 🙏🏾
U get her back ?
Currently going through a break up. I was doing a lot of what you said not to do at first. After listening to this video I’ve actually felt better started doing what you said. I got a job interview for a 2nd job tomorrow, started going to the gym, stopped overwhelming her, I’ve been trying to evolved. Today we talked on the phone for 20 min. I know it’s still too soon still but it’s a start. Hopefully all this works cause I do care for her and if it doesn’t I’ll be a better person for the next female in my life.
Btw I’ve listen to this audio like 5 or 6 times today 😅. It’s really helpful
It's always difficult to let go of someone you love, I was in a similar situation my wife for 12yesrs left me, I couldn't just let her go, I did all I could to get her back, I had to see the help of a spiritual adviser who helped me bring her back
How has it been soo far?
Any update?
Stefan lowkey a healer man 🤣💯 i always come to his vids when i feel that slump & it pick me back up. Shout out to you !!!
This is THE BEST video for this topic on the internet. I’ll stand by that statement. Ignore all these mind game tactics other channels will tell you to do. You’ll just set yourself up to lose her again or have a bad dynamic. As cliché as it sounds, work on yourself!!! She will notice these things! But do them for you! You definitely lost yourself during this whole relationship. Get yourself back! Hold yourself to a high standard! You are the prize! By the time you get yourself back and you’ve freed your mind of all your doubts, your mind will become clear and you might even realize she isn’t the one for you and she has more growing to do than you realized. Even if she’s a bombshell of a girl, she won’t be like that for long and it won’t be enough later. The sex won’t be neither. If you truly want a partner for life, you gotta do everything he said in this video. And you need to MAINTAIN who you are.
I lost the best one I’ve ever met and I’m going to level up for myself and hope I can get her back. Trying not to overwhelm her yet still stay in shooting range
I needed to hear this and already started regrouping and doing a lot of the things mentioned. It's hard when you loose the woman you love and it's your fault, and even harder when she's so hurt she forces herself into a new relationship to get over the pain and ends up having some feelings for this new man also. All I can say from my scenario is be confident and have trust in the bond and love you share. I've myself have struggled mightily and had many sleepless nights. But I know my worth and I know our love is real. I have faith God has a plan and everything will work the way it should in the end. Hold your head up guys. Trust me I know it's an incredibly difficult experience and it can crush a man's soul but don't let it. Grow stronger, show her the true man you are! She will notice.
Yes you need to have trust and faith in YOUR bond with her and it will be stronger then anything else. Bottomline she can date around maybe even catch feelings but when it's run it's cycle she will see who she really loves and it will actually make your connection stronger. Just have peace of mind knowing that. Gotta be patient but you got this .
I am going through this pain of getting separated after 22yrs of marriage. I didn't listen to her but when it hit the fan I really broke down and cried. I definitely have to wrk on myself first b4 I come back into her life. I just have this feeling that we will never get back together. she was not trying to work on our relationship she had checked out. Now she is in another relationship with a friend she new from college. I pushed her away from me. I have never felt like the from anyone else and I cry alot about all the things I did wrong. God help me please because I am not in a good place at this moment.
@@charlesdial7152 you got this bro'. Stay strong
@@charlesdial7152 hope you're doing better now. I also just lost my wife after 15 years and I'm right there with you. I wish I didn't exist.
I stressed her so much, I felt like I was the one threatening to end us throughout our relationship when things didn’t go my way and I always questioned her love. She did everything to try to fulfill my love and she was always so happy to please me. I do believe we needed to break up because it made me realize I lost my best friend. She said she’s down to go on a date and even be sexual with me in a month and see where it goes. I think I made her feel unworthy so I think I have a chance to get my best friend/ woman I love back but I have to grow up and love us better.
Hi my relationship is fixed back again my ex is back
to me we loving and happily together, I got help
from a great man who brought us back together
How’d u go bro?
The same exact thing with me. Please post an update
going through the EXACT same thing rn. we got this ✊🏻
Same here how long did it take for her to reach out to you again
This was a good video. While it was directed towards men these rules apply to women as well. We all need to work on ourselves and we all need to make sure we don’t lose ourselves within relationships. Most importantly we need to evolve and be accountable If we are serious about the relationships we want to have.
You're absolutely right, thank you for sharing!
It is actually the best video I have ever seen that covers this topic. Bro you are helping me so much. I am currently fighting for the love of my life by figting for myself. I am studying hard at the University, I got a new job, I am visiting my psychologist to deal with the communication problem. You are just great and you give me so much motivation. Thank you !
My pleasure ❤️
I am ashamed to admit that I literally did everything you said I shouldn't do, now I'm on my way home hoping that I'll get her to not leave. Wish me luck 😅
Did she stay
I needed to hear this I made multiple mistakes with her and I’m expecting her to move on like the next day and I haven’t acknowledged on how bad she is scared of being with me again! you are a Man of wisdom!!
Glad to see this video. I lost my masculine frame and my wife asked to try a separation. I didn’t cheat or abuse I became a loser and she married someone who would never accept that. Who would fight, and I stopped fighting. I let life get me down. I can’t blame her. What I can do is get my shit together. I started working more, and working out more. Stop drinking. Everything starts with me.
Stephan, I thank you from the bottom of my heart for this video. It gets me into the right mindset to grow up as a man and be the one I need to be for myself. I felt at ease and now ready to take on anything, not only in getting her back (who I really believe is the the love of my life), but to take on life itself, to stand strong and step forward, no matter what might happen after this. Thank you my man :)
No cap!! You got this!
How’d u go buddy?
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Wassup bro did y’all get back together?
update ?
She is so perfect she was always there for me she was so good to me I was the one who missed up and I wanted her to know I’m so different know and I would give the world for her to see that 😔
This man is spitting straight facts. Every sentence is like a dagger to the chest! Losing a loved is always painful especially if they were faithful to you, but losing your soul because of that is even worse. Remember God never wants you to put anything above him to begin with. So pick up the remaining pieces develop, evolve, and transform yourself for her or your next relationship! Either outcome God always wants be first. This is always the mission, to never lose yourself in a relationship and yo never put anything above him!
Bro real talk . It ended because I put too much love in her and lost my connection to God . I love God more than any woman . He will always be there .
Beautifully said!!! I needed to hear this. Especially putting a relationship before God. You checked me on that one. I appreciate your comment!!
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yes thats true , God might broke your heart to make you realize that you are going on to the right path , Jesus dont want us to be put in places than can ruin our soul , Jesus broke our hearts to let us know that we forget Him because of other person
Men, forgive yourself and learn from the mistake. Vow to never repeat it again. Youre not entitled to a second chance becauae you suddenly learned your mistakes. Change, not for them but for you
Dont hold on or beat yourself up. Cry, release, let go. Take accountability but dont impose or pressure her. It will only push her away. If you keep doing it she will go farther and farther.
Time and space will dictate all. Leave her alone.
I havent lost my girlfriend yet but i feel our connection thinning by the day. Alot of stuff you said in the video i feel guilty of doing , such as being inconsiderate of her feelings and only worried abt mine , and also moping around in my feelings because of this noticeable change. I gots to lock in right now cause i cant keep this constant thought of losing her, So i will be bossin up asap. And if i end up losing her , well ill be healthy enough to know how to overcome it . Great video man 💯
Any update are yall still together?
Definitely lost her! Made my mistakes!Staying focused and healthy but now she don’t even want any contact. Patience is needed. I want to make things right! Can’t be the same person or treat her how I did before. Have to evolve! Stay on my purpose
update?
😔 I wish you the best brother
Sending you a virtual hug
Stay strong king
@Loveth Lane hj
A woman needs to be treated with love compassion she needs to feel protected by you.
Exactly! Period!
I feel unsafe now 😔
Love the name lol.
I would like to give that to a woman.
My girl asks the same of me to make her feel protected... But when I did it she brought up all those times that I did ,and turned it against me like I was trying to control her. WTF ! Trust me that doesn't help! The best thing to do when she asked you to protector is walk the other way because she'll think you're controlling her
Man this is something I am doing.. and now I heard it from you.. now I know I am at the right path😌
I love this understanding and communication is so important. I believe in second chances after some time. But he is so right. Because the lack of these things what keep me single.
Communication is definitely key!
I think I have watched this video 10 times in like 3 days. Thank you for the tools to help evaluate who I was and the steps necessary to evolve into the man I want to be. Thank you Stephen.
Same. this video keeps my emotions in place.
I love you, man. This has opened my heart. I’m so arrogant and ignorant sometimes.
This mans words are absolutely on point! Every step hit home💯
Thank you very much I'm happy to hear that 🙌
I think that if she breaks up with you and you shed some tears of genuine sadness, its ok. I did it myself, but i never begged. I was just overwhelmed with emotions, had tears in my eyes and wished her all the best. Tears of desperation and begging on the other hand, thats a different story.
I'm sorry to hear about that and I pray that you heal from all that you have been through 🙏
I just lost the woman of my life and I’m in the process of trying to make it right and thank you for this video. It truly allowed me to calm my emotions and mental state down to where I can think clearly about how to properly handle myself so we can rekindle for the better.
Thank you brother this really means a lot to me. I gotta stand strong and firm I really want this woman back and it’s hurting me.. this really helped me
This video really spoke out to my soul man. It’s been a little over two weeks since my break up with who I think is the love of my life. I’ve seen a bunch of these videos, insta reels, you name it. And even still I feel like I’ve made a bunch of mistakes that Stephan spoke of in this vid, such as overwhelming her. However, I feel after watching this, it’s given me a great enlightened realization and most importantly goals I need to achieve. Thank you for making videos like these to help out men and women who are in my position or similar positions!
This one of the hands down BEST messages I’ve seen out here on handling relationships and relationship issues. Thank you!! 🙏🏼
I’m going through this now….I caused the pain in my relationship with my sons mom…I want my family back but I think I’ve been going about it all wrong…thank you for this video…
My pleasure ❤️
Did you get them back
@@300goincray3 naw man we are doing the co-parenting thing it’s been tough but I guess this is the new normal….Preciate you asking man
@@codimo87 everything will be better man, going through a rough time myself. Been rewatching this video to keep my head up. Wish all the best to you going forward❤
@Cmo 417 what's good brother. what's your "scheduling" like cuz I think im about to go through the same thing. I don't wanna but we think it's time.
Man, it was like I told you what was going on and you responded back to the T. I really appreciate this, it’s important that you said focus on you and your relationship with god, and along with that everything else will fall in place. Matthew 6:33 🙏🏾🙏🏾
Thank you for sharing, I appreciate that ❤️
@@MeetStephanSpeaks thank you so much this is exactly my relationship with my husband right now!!!! I tried explaining it to him like this before This video came up on my timeline he did not get it but the way you explained this should definitely resonate with who is being right now and the actions he’s doing!thank you so much
Thanks for the knowledge. Trying really hard to improve myself and be the best version of myself, earn my wife back. Shes the love of my life and I've been messing up really badly and acting a fool, lost her because I wouldn't stop the arguing, lying, drinking behind her back, and some other things. But she's always right, I need to fix myself before I can win her heart back. Our anniversary is coming up soon I hope I get another chance to redeem myself for her. It's hard getting by the days remembering how we call each other our soul mates, twin flames, act so sweet and loving and mellow. But that was all messed up because of me, and I need to be responsible and own up to my actions. I regret the hurt I caused her and I hope we can be together again.
Dear Stephen,
This is possibly the most heartwarming of all your videos. It truly nearly moved me to tears.
I would wish that men who genuinely wish to make things work for their relationships could see this.
I’ve already thought of someone I could send it to.
At the same time, you showed how we as women also need to take accountability that’s the only way in which a healthy relationship can thrive.
Such a blessing, this!!
Thank you
Oh yes! You sure got that right Stephan, we are paying attention to every word they say. I listen carefully to wat is said & wats not. Men plz be honest👌
Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback!
Be PATIENT. Be SHREWD. BE AWARE of bad habits. Relationships need to have GOOD MANNERS Treatment, BE HONEST HUMBLY. CONSIDERATE of her intelligent needs to be ENRICHED with your experiences & lessons learned along with her experiences of lessons LEARNED!" GOODNESS"
Sharing information that is enriching for both.
Be considerate! 🤔 Think
decent wholesome CARES
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one watched hundreds of videos about this topic the last few weeks and this was by far the best
I definitely lost myself in the process. That self talk be going crazy. Its really really hard to hold it together, but it has to be done.
old video, but this video gave me the reality check i've needed for awhile. thank you so much Stephan
I'm happy this has been helpful to you 🙏
Once my trust is broken I can’t anymore , even if still want it , even if I still love him… I hate inconsistency.
Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback.
So what if they made a mistake how can they improve earn the trust again
@@jdog4usmc1 first of all you have to show me that you understand how and why you broke my trust, not just apologizing to win me back. More than me realizing it was a mistake ,you have to understand that you did a mistake and be genuinely willing to change…. I think the biggest problem is when you want to minimize my pain.
@@maeba_eli ok I appreciate it. Yes had misunderstanding happen trust with a woman I really liked. Im Doing the growth and work inside as well to be the leader man to lead her and be that rock that she can be with and feel safe emotionally. Physically and spiritually and become the better man
@@jdog4usmc1 in the same boat bro. Only happened about a week ago
Good afternoon,
Thank you Steven for clarifying some much needed points. Women want to be in a relationship with a man who is ready to be committed. Some men are not ready and it’s not their fault. They are still learning and growing themselves. We want a man with emotions and a genuine heart. Some women love hard and when a woman is scorned it’s hard to get back to relationship normalcy, although it can be done. Not easy though.
Mel
Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback.
You are wrong when you say "it's not their fault" if you are not ready don't awaken someone's love
In this exact spot as i recently made the biggest mistake of my life. Had this mentality but nights get tough.. This video really spoke wonders, earned yourself a sub my friend🙏
back to this video for the second time now. why am i like this man….
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I pray she comes back with my son
This is very solid and straight forward content. It really sets things in perspective for me without the nonsensical banter or berating as most channels. Just man talk about our most common faults and brief solutions to tackle in myriad of ways. Good speech brother.
Thanks for making this video for us. While I still don’t agree with the breakup since she never gave a clear cut reason for the breakup or ever say “hey if you want this to continue I need this.” This may help me look at what went wrong
Thank you for sharing your thoughts I appreciate your feedback!
@@MeetStephanSpeaks how can I showcase change when I can only talk to her via text?
Thank you so much brother, this is the advice I needed, I received advice from friends and family about my whole fallout and they gave me bits and pieces which you highlighted but you just blessed me with such a clearer picture of how I should handle the situation. I was struggling and practicing a lot of the dont’s you were mentioning but this video has resonated and clarified to me how I should move forward with my life. I can be assured that whether I win her back or not, I will end up becoming more emotionally/mentally/physically/spiritually in a better place, God bless you.
From Australia 🇦🇺
How did your situation turn out?
@@WolfordWise Update: It was a struggle tbh, but I’ve allowed the struggle to help refine my character and now life is much better! don’t get me wrong I think about her and miss her but I’ve applied what Stephen shared in this video and over time accompanied with healthy healing I came to a realisation that she wasn’t the best fit for me anyways. I honestly believe that God helped me dodge a bullet that could’ve wounded me even greater than before. I’ve adopted a stoic mindset, I’m able to better control and regulate my stress and emotions in healthier ways, I’m stronger and look much better physically because I hit the gym 4-5x a week and stopped eating crappy foods most of the time than I did before, I pray and almost read my scriptures everyday meaning my relationship with God is much stronger (he really helped me heal!!) and I put myself out there more in uncomfortable situations and from this I’ve gained more friends and strengthened relationships that were already there and now I’m making more money and have a decent amount of savings it’s only up from here !
I’ve lost my wife of eleven years. We haven’t got a divorce just yet but she don’t want to be with me. We still live together, but I truly needed this. Thank you
Stay Focus you never Know with Gods Timing
The point about lying is absolutely on point! and because of that I lost most precious lady in my life...
This is so insightful, i broke my girls heart not once but twice because of my insecurities, i broke her heart selfishly to protect mine , now im turning everything around to make the necessary changes to win her trust again and get her back. Its going to be the biggest battle i have ever faced in my life but i am putting God as my compass to guide me in the right direction that hopefully will lead me to her again.
I'm in the same boat brother, best of luck to you
Most men want easy, they don’t want a woman with standards our boundaries. Apparently that’s ‘drama’ 🙄
Sadly some women also move the goalposts like there’s no tomorrow
@Sean Tiger Amen.
With all due respect that is not true. Most men? What you mean to say is most boys because real grown Men value a good woman who acts like she respects herself. If I'm looking for a relationship easy girls are a turn off. The guys at the bar/clubs can have her, I look for quality
@@aarotron1677 Be careful. Sometimes a woman that likes you will make it easy for YOU only. It doesn't mean she's not ''quality'' or easy or for everyone. Learn to getting to know a person before judging and respect a woman.
@@ana-pq3cs I didn't mean to come off judging, I was focusing on how alot of woman need to distinguish between a mature man compared to one with a boys mentality. The thing is a real man won't ever treat her like an object but if the woman allows herself to be vulnerable because of self esteem issues that's when these "boys" will destroy her heart further.
I just wanted to tell you thank you so much for making this video I actually learned a lot about myself by listening to you talk about all the mistakes guys make when dealing with a woman it’s really helped me realize the kinda man I needed to be for her and myself so thank you very much.
Hi my relationship is fixed back again my ex is back
to me we loving and happily together, I got help
from a great man who brought us back together
You got a sub man. Been doing my best out here to do better. I found the perfect girl and I messed up so bad she was to disappear off Earth and go back into military. I’m doing my best I can provide and do better but your videos opened my eyes and I’ll do everything you said. Hope for the best…
Glad I could help 🙏
Man this is huge! I messed up 2 times I regret every minute of it! And the theme I see in lots of channels I scrolled to, in one of the facts is not begging I keeping myself right , love this!!
Indeed. Thoughtful means you are present with her and know her and that's a plus.
Absolutely!
I’m glad when you address the men. Too many relationship experts focus a lot more on women. I wonder why.
Even though he addresses women more than men, he doesn’t pander to them and crap on men. It’s a huge reason why I respect him. He still defends us more than any other dating coach that’s predominantly towards women. It’s created the environment to allow Kevin Samuels to thrive
You are the best. Broke up with my girl after 4 years. You helped me so much thank you man. I need to calm down.❤🙏🏼
Came across this video today after an argument with my girl, did wrong for my immature selfish person but u right eleveting urself will get me there to have her and be the best for her and me
Thank you for sharing, I appreciate that ❤️
I ended things with my ex of 7 years 9 months ago. Now we are trying to give us another try. He better realize he mess up and is willing to be better because this is my very last time giving my all to him.
You are so right about all these! I messed up with a lot of these haha. but i also ignored sooo many of her red flags & after she broke up with me, she jumped into another relationship. Even tho i’m hurting, she just wasn’t the right person for me, way too insecure, deceitful, & selfish. I also failed at listening to her & caring about her feelings. It’s crazy how i still want her back but I must stay focused on bettering myself & letting go.
I'm sorry to hear about that. I pray that you heal from all that you have been through and be able to keep moving in faith 🙏 ❤️
It's always difficult to let go of someone you love, I was in a similar situation my wife for 12yesrs left me, I couldn't just let her go, I did all I could to get her back, I had to see the help of a spiritual adviser who helped me bring her back
I’m in a Similair situation I want her back so bad but she’s in another relationship. She said she wants to still be friends and still cares for me
@@daligang1359 if she really cared about you, she would still be with you! it’s better to just cut ties completely. Having that communication still while they are in another relationship, is only harming you.
@@bleedulus We’re not talking, right now it’s no contact. She says she hopes we can be friends in the future after blocking me. I just don’t know if I even want to cut ties, I want her back I’m willing to improve myself in hopes I can attract her in the future and if not I still worked on myself..
Just the video I needed after prayer. Thank you!
My pleasure ❤️
She was never mine I pushed her away. I misinterpreted things and as a result I lost her 🙁😩. For that specific situation I became the dude that puts women in uncomfortable positions. That was my first and last time. I will never do that again…
Y’all I swear to god his advice worked completely….i got her back!!! Just beware of giving bf treatment when u get her back if she hasn’t completely forgiven you. A lot of times they just miss the routine, then call up back