This Is How Embracing Negativity Will Help You Live a Happier Life

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  • Опубліковано 6 лют 2025
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    Negativity is all around us. You and I as humans will run into negative reality within ourselves and within people around us. Here’s what people leading happy lives do: They embrace negativity. Put another way, they embrace reality. There are three mistakes people commonly make when they confront negativity: 1) We deny it or repress it. 2) We split it; we’ll put everything into either a good or bad category and cut out anyone or anything that is “bad”. 3) We attack it. We respond to the problem with anger, judgment, condemnation, and shame. We have to redeem this negativity. We live in an imperfect world, but we need to redeem, reconcile and move towards negativity to bring it up to a higher standard. Do you have a conflict with someone? Call them and work it out. Jesus said, he didn't come to judge or condemn the world, he came to seek and save that which is lost, and that is what we need to do in our own lives.

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  • @brittanybowman4994
    @brittanybowman4994 2 роки тому +2

    These videos help me incorporate the gospel into everyday conversations with my friends. Thanks for taking time to make them.

  • @BodyLanguageAnalysisInterrogat
    @BodyLanguageAnalysisInterrogat 2 роки тому +1

    "Statagory" a phrase coined by Dr.Cloud in 2022 for strategy and category, aka, planning and organizing.

  • @BodyLanguageAnalysisInterrogat
    @BodyLanguageAnalysisInterrogat 2 роки тому +2

    Thank you for this! Great topic 👏 and ❤️ cognitive distortions examples

  • @kimberlykane7065
    @kimberlykane7065 2 роки тому +1

    I probably won't have far to look to find negative stuff to embrace, sadly it comes natural for me to find the negative in things

    • @marywhitner1280
      @marywhitner1280 2 роки тому +1

      If you were to compare you good vs your bad I pray your good overweigh your traumas ! 🤗

  • @lisa-rn3xl
    @lisa-rn3xl 2 роки тому

    Thank you, Dr. Cloud! Wow...again I needed to hear this!

  • @sh6460
    @sh6460 2 роки тому

    How about confirmation bias from others?

  • @GodnMe
    @GodnMe 2 роки тому

    ...nothing to be ashamed of.