INSTAGRAM HAS CHANGED WOMEN ... || Moon React
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I'm reminded of a saying: The problem with women's beauty standards today is that we have young women desperately trying to look like older women who are desperately trying to look like younger women
Bro that nails it. I remember being a teen, I also remember being confused AF by the girls always trying so hard to make themselves "beautiful" according to magazines and other women. I mean, shouldn't they be asking men what we want to see if the goal is to be attractive to men?
The female gaze and fem psychology needs to be accounted for in all this. I can't imagine men loading up Instagram and being like "I want all women to look like that." None of us are imposing it on the girls. They do it to themselves.
@@robinfox4440 This is a legitimately important point that not enough people are will to recognize because of political or ideological predispositions. Men under the age of 50 are not attracted to Botox or excessive surgery. Men have never been attracted to women with visible ribcages, and they haven't been attracted to pencil thin stomachs since the 1950s. Right now the most "in" look for the male gaze, I find, is natural and uncontrived - women who look normal basically (Especially amongst younger generations. I would argue that this is probably in reaction to the widespread 'fakeness' that they've had shoveled at them in excess, peaking with the Belle Delphine horde). That's not to say that there aren't dogs out there, there are, but I'm just speaking as a whole.
Women often maintain a perception of friendliness and openness amongst each other, but I've seen enough to know that they can be and often are utterly vicious to each other. That warm, welcoming veneer it seems is highly conditional.
@@akalichamp7030 don't try to understand women because women understand women and they hate each other has been feeling like less and less of a joke the more I learned about these sorts of things
Same with men.
This is what happens when you remove coming of age rituals and ceremonies from a culture. The kids can't wait to grow up and the adults are afraid of death.
“What’s photobucket” I’ll just be over here, turning to dust after hearing that question
The only reason I can feel young after hearing that is because I saw Photobucket die in real time, and now only remember it for getting images on my old youtube page.
I've been getting a lot of emails lately about how my photobucket account is about to expire and I'm not even sure if I ever had one. I don't know if it's scam mail or what. Either way it's really random.
Oh man…. Thou hast awoken the ancient memories of yore, buried for millennia in the earth, never meaning to be arisen again…..
And now I shall join a museum as its newest attraction, a shriveled, crusty, dusty fossilized prune
What's Yahoo 360
Photobucket launched in May of 2003. The same time I was graduating from high school. Never realized it was that old.
On your point that most men aren't ugly, i am reminded of a quote from a friend of my father.
"Looks are a bell curve. It's rare to be a 10 or a 1. It's better to think your a 5, because you more than likely are. And if someone doesn't like the way you look, never take it to heart, it just means they think they are better than you. And you shouldn't be in a relationship with someone like that. No mater what your little head has to say."
Don't know if I agree with all of it but still a good message.
The chances that you look average are the most likely as that's how averages work.
You can't know the extraordinary without the ordinary to compare it to.
sure, statistically, most men are average, because thats how stats work
but women dont WANT average, they want above-average, the top 20%, so to them, most men ARE ugly
Good to know I'm on one extreme of a bell curve 👍
Nah your dad is right. Keep your chin up king 👑
Y'all may be too young to remember but tinder was an offshoot of grinder both are sex apps not dating that's a lie women tell themselves.
Sounds about right
I lowkey assume a good chunk of ppl use most dating apps as hook up sites
@@vaporean_boylove.0w083 ALL of them.... no exceptions....
I don't feel there's a legit "dating" app it's all horny Degens
I used to be with a Korean girl who has this issue. She was 19 at the time and already had her lips, cheeks, and breasts done. I kept telling her that she was already beautiful, but she kept saying that it's not enough.
I couldn't stay, I was scared that one day I would look at her and not be able to recognize her.
Best decision ever
koreans are more plastic than organic nowadays....
I'm reminded of what Alucard said in Hellsing Ultimate Abridged (paraphrasing): Your looks filter out people who don't view you for you. The ones that like you regardless of looks are the people you want to be around.
That's an entirely stupid thing to say. Your looks are not only part of who you are, they are a large part of everyone's first impression of you.
'Your ugliness curated their shittiness'
@@dairoleon2682 I believe the quote was "Your ugliness curated their shittyness. That means everyone who stuck around liked you for you."
@@avroarchitect1793 That doesn't make it any less of a shit take.
@@dairoleon2682 no its sagely wisdom.
Social media is a poison.
No its not all social media has done was show us what was already there
Yes it is
@@buckethead5454 but you are using youtube right now so its cant be that bad?
#zuckerborg *clenches fist*
@@Brick_Boi_Says a Child with a Lego Man as Picture
When bad people are in charge of defining beauty only ugliness and insanity can follow.
Ugly, but great things
oy vey!
They're not in charge if you're free to ignore them. The worshipers have only themselves to blame.
@@Incubansoul awfully berg/stein/fried $$$ of you
Reminds me of that quote by Roald Dahl. "A person who has good thoughts cannot ever be ugly. You can have a wonky nose and a crooked mouth and a double chin and stick-out teeth, but if you have good thoughts they will shine out of your face like sunbeams and you will always look lovely."
This is why I love Roald Dahl
See I think that is going too far in the other direction.
It's a very beautiful idea but it's very idealistic and maybe even a bit naive.
It reminds me of the body positivity movement that went from: 'You don't have to look like a model with your ribcage showing to be beautiful, it's actually rather damaging' to: 'beauty and healthy at ANY size, worship Lizzo' people always take these things too far.
Trying to 'fix' everything about yourself to fit some weird sensationalized standard (that's often fake, like magazines/instagram) is wrong but saying everyone is beautiful just the way they are is also just objectively wrong.
I think the message should be more like: 'Accept yourself and others for how they look' rather than: 'everyone and everything is beautiful no matter how they look so long as they're a good person'
Plastic surgery just looks like you fed yourself to the Elden Ring character creator.
Or even worse, the one from Oblivion.
The spore creature creator
"Korean exchange students... From Korea" I would assume as much.
do you know that she was born at a young age?
@@BarioIDLI took shits as a kid
@@BarioIDL to top it all off,atm she is her current she.
@@BarioIDL "I was young when my momma had me" ~ Kevin Gates
I remember when instagram blewup in my school around 2012, and not on did everyone have it but me but their egos expanded beyond belife with girls compeating whicb one has the more beatifull picture, and I feel like now thats only gotten worse over the years with whats happening now.
I stopped using Facebook back in 2018. It didn't cure my depression, but boy did it help.
I think I made my account as a teenager and stopped using it after less than a year. I might've been 16, because I remember seeing my sister post a few pictures of her son climbing a tree, but even back in 2012 or whatever, I didn't feel like it was for me.
@@bluesbest1 I clocked around the time people started posting pictures of their food plates... It creeped me out very deeply for whatever reason when i saw people taking out their phones and taking a picture of a plate of food instead of just eating like a normal person would, to this day i don't know why but it was so bizarre i just quit it.
@@kookoo9235 My dad made a cookbook a few years ago and I got a chuckle out of seeing him take pictures of the finished product like those people would. Of course, he had an actual reason for it, but it was still bizarre and funny.
Behold, champion of Tzeentch, Zuckerberg.
Champion of Slaanesh, Kardashian.
Or we could just hold these women accountable for their actions, nobody tied them down to a table in the surgery office.
Luckily I wasnt allowed to have a phone until highschool so my brain never had to be rotted by all this cringe social media. The nokia flip phones went so hard back in the day.
Same, mine was a samsung flip phone. But that didn't stop me from browsing the internet with computers. Fortunately I couldn't read English, so I had no interest in Twitter and Instagram
I still sometimes get miss my motorola razr. I accidentally left it in my pants and sent it through the washing machine
This whole thing reminds me of a quote "people that worship their beauty die a thousand deaths befor they reach old age."
Most of these trends seem completely unattractive to me. Am I weird for not being attracted to this? Could it be that women "improve themselves" for other women, and not to be attractive to men?
Maybe to remove other women from the competition, which is in par with your conclusion.
Most popular onlyfans accounts are ran by their boyfriends because men know what they want others to actually see
Certain group of people aren't the best critical thinker.
Few women cracks the code - creates "meta", women start join that meta, and now women feel horrible being left out and join despite the results
In my Oppinion, you are deffinetly Not Weird!
Men are just a scapegoat for women to justify their feelings.
My big question is who creates and imposes these beauty standards? Because I know for sure it isn't men. For example, none of my friends's wives or girlfriends look like anything close to their "type". The only thing they have in common is their personalities, most of them work as nurses, teachers and stuff like that, and they are very carring and sweet people. So again, who creates and imposes these damn beauty standards? There are objective beauty traits, like symmetric features, big eyes, clear skin, and stuff like that, but what is weird is that these artificial beauty standards don't even coincide with what has been proven to be objective beauty traits.
Women create the standards and impose them on themselves... Because they're trying to compete against other women... for people who don't care or are turned off by what they're doing. Basically, woman, let's call her Susan, puts on a bit of makeup to look attractive to men. Susan sees another woman, Eve, also wearing makeup so she goes one step further to try and look more attractive than Eve. Eve then tries to one up Susan who tries to one up Eve repeating endlessly. And now they're competing with some instagram floozie using 50 filters.
Oh and they're doing it according to what they think men will find attractive not necessarily what men actually find attractive.
Really big part of all that are soulles, immoral,cash craving svines working in companies
They need to sell and the ways they gonna go are really long and dark
Women, but they'll blame men and not do the internal affairs investigation that is needed.
Beauty standards for women has ALWAYS been led by women, not men. Back in the days of lead-based makeup noble women would say stuff like "men love a woman with porcelain skin" - and so other noble and even non-noble women would go out and get the same makeup. But none of them actually bothered to ask the men because 'that wasn't the done thing, one does not ask a man's opinion on women's beauty and fashion'. It was also promoted via female jealousy of one another - Miss Catherine absolutely could not allow that cheap flouncy wench Miss Beatrice to gain all the favours and attention of wealthy suitors by being the only one to partake in the latest fashion and makeup trends! It's also how the high-heel ended up becoming the painful, ridiculous monstrosity of a footwear that it is today - high-heels didn't use to be that tall with such slim heels, even just a half-inch or inch extra in height was considered "high-heels", but women wanting to outcompete each other meant they kept adding more and more height until you get the footwear of today (also, high-heels were originally invented for MEN by MEN so that male aristocrats who were overly sensitive about their height and wanted to appear more imposing and important could look taller, even the famous Pilgrims that help found the USA wore high-heels with golden buckles, but then women essentially "took" the shoe type away from men)
Soft fluffy fox ears saved my morning. ❤
And Haiya Papaya
The Kardashians would have been one of those people that rubbed face cream with radium in it because it "made your skin glow"(this was a thing and did happen unfortunately)
Sometimes even what you view as imperfections other people find cute or handsome. They are the little things that make you uniquely you.
Online rules 101 if the service is free you are the product they're making money off of.
This video actually made me less insecure about my face, thx for making me fell better about myself :)
About 33 here, as of these last years,i have come to terms with my physique and face. I have come to welcome my own imperfections, they made what I am.
Otherwise, I would be a mixture of beauty standards making me average Joe all over again. Natural imperfections make you stand up above all the rest.
Love yourself🤙🏽
Social media has brought the worse out of people
the funniest part about all this plastic surgery is that most of the time people end up looking way worse after getting it done. That younger kardashian or the blonde girl actress from The Boys are good examples. They looked super beautiful organically, now they look so fake and grotesque.
The only place you find perfection is inside your own dreams, nowhere else.
It is no measure of health to be well adjusted to a profoundly sick society.
Social Media is everything but Social...
More like sociopathic.
Women be out here lookin like Skeletor...
Come on don't mock Skeletor like that
Damn
@@segenshin1894 DAMN
Uncanny Valley Surgery
I remember when girls started doing the duck face, my brother in christ it was like a repellant for me
It is sad, I have IRL friends both men and girls that are perfectly fine looking, going down this route and ruining themselves and relationships. With girls it often destroys their love life, and with dudes it often destroys friendships (roids often).
"If it makes them happy, why not support them?"
Such beautiful, but evil phrase, when it reach such topics. "Let's make that 14yo love herself again, roll out the bottox barrel!"
@@ЕвгенийПершин-е1ь I have been flabbergasted several times at the gym, kids at around the age 16-18, asking if I got roids, like wtf. Me and others that frequent the gym have tried to make them understand that the look they see is not real, but I dunno if it goes into their heads at all tbh.
I went from being made fun of and mainly using self-depricating humor to compliments from random strangera on a camping trip just cuz some friends made me work out.
just doing a little bit and developing a healthy routine makes such a huge difference
Something everyone needs to understand is that a 5 is average. Everyone looks at 5s as ugly, but that's just your average Joe.
"only 7/10? would not bang."
I always find it hilarious when women talk about how much pressure is put on them, are we not going to acknowledge the absolutely ridiculous "six feet tall, six pack, six figure salary" expectation put on men?
dr kim made that one 40 year old guy look like the puppet from toy story 4
I plan to have a hair redistribution surgery done this year. It is quick, as safe as surgeries can go, and risk is accecptable. It is also relatively cheap for a surgery.
This is because, as mentioned in the video, my hair thinning so much damages my confidence, and unlike other characteristics in which people like a whole spectrum, nobody likes a bald/balding man. If the surgery doesn't work and I have to shave my head, well, at least I only spent money to try some other outcome.
If it were like the older ways of doing hair transplant when they took a portion of your skin, etc, I wouldn't do it, because that is too invasive for me.
I would never do something as drastic and damaging as what these people are doing, but on the other hand, I cannot just point at them.
Not dissing you. But apparently quite a cultural difference. At least generally, people don't care if person is bald where I live. People who are clearly going bald but try to hide might be mocked tho. If I were going bald myself, I would happily shave my head completely bald. Hell, when I was in the army, being bald was really nice and a good solution. And stylish too.
Shave it and own it would be my suggestion. It's low maintenance and plenty of women dig it. But if the surgery can fix that for you without making it look retarded, and youre more used to having hair, than sure.
28:28 this is when instagram became totally unusable.
Aye new alana just in time for my coffee
I never thought any of the Kardashians looked attractive. Plastic surgery makes people look weird.
The guy that spent 100k to be 6 inches taller got the limb lengthening surgery in Turkey so that tracks.
I remamber when i was in 4th to 7th grad some of the "popular" girls in my class startet to use Instagramm and stuff and began to mob me because i said it was fake and i didnt use it. Fun times... and know the hole world is like that. It is so sad.
19:29 So can I call the people who uses PSN "dum freaks" because they are handling their ID to Sony the same.
Yes. More so considering the near constant data breaches Sony has.
Plus all the scammers on Instagram posing as hard cases begging for money. It's sickening
No matter what you do, you cannot save everybody.
Trying to prevent something with absolute methods will only make it worse and so on and on.
I wonder if the 18.2% of cosmetic surgeries being done by kids 13-19 statistic includes braces, because then that number would make a lot more sense to me.
good question
Do braces count as surgery? It's cosmetic to a point but most of the time your mouth functions better and is healthier with straighter teeth
@@nef36 From a medical standpoint yeah, a lot of dental work can fall into that category, which is why I asked the question. Not strictly necessary, so they are optional 'cosmetic' procedures a lot of the time. 18% of all cosmetic surgeries being performed by people under 19 doesn't make a lot of sense to me otherwise. If they are counting things like acne treatments and dental work though, I can easily see how they came to that figure. However, it would be very disingenuous of them to use those numbers to argue the toxic effects of social media.
Turkey is a good destination for hair implants, since they do them more than anyone else in the world, or at least top 3, so they have many clinics specialized on it.
But for other types of plastic surgery, I know people go to Korea, since they have a massive industry for that.
Photobucket... man... feeling oldge hahaha
thank you for the entertainment!
Social media getting so big has been pretty bad for a lot of young girls tbh.
Women were always like this. Social media has just been a magnifying glass.
Narcissism it's one hell of a drug.
Nah, people always have wanted to put up fronts. Even before social media. It's just even more pronounced with social media. That they want to show off that they are doing well. Even if they aren't actually doing so. Things just get more pronounced, as tech advances.
The plastic surgery in Korea is scary, I've seen a documentary about it, they showed the entrance to a clinic and they had a huge jar full of jaw bones they'd taken out of patients.
17.24 the reason people say they will get their teeth done in Turkey is cuz Turkey is the most advanced country in teeth related things in my opinion
Short story: I used to have a huge crush on the girl in high school who was 100% natural and she was so darn smart and etc..
But then she went full into plastic surgery and butched her body to look more like the standards of society..
My heart sinked in my chest when I saw her one last time. Never want to talk to her ever since, because
it traumatized me for real.
Moral of the story: Ladies you are already beautiful.
Instagram has really preyed upon women's insecurities with the whole filter thing. And it's also frustrating to us men, because it's all there to hide what the woman really looks like.
I really love Moon's take a lot of his videos are based and amazing.
People will never cease to disturb me
Note: I'm a yapper, I know... Before I knew it I'd typed all this... I apologize. This is an issue I'm battling. I overshare often. It's a bit linked to an OCD ritual I have, so it's difficult to stop.
We need to stop judging our appearances like this!
I'm a dude, not a dudette, so I can't fully understand.
It's less common, but men struggle too. We see height, glasses, voices that aren't somewhat deep, lack of muscle, etc made fun of on TV & in school. It gets to some of us who start to honestly think "I'm short... No woman can ever possibly like me. Sigh, I'll just grow to 90yo & die alone." I ended up working out 6 days a week just to match up to what's seen as attractive on TV which... So silly how we do that. I felt so worthless I was considering resignation until I met my first GF.
Fortunately for me in 2005, when I was 17 (old) I met my first GF, Amy. When she first started bluntly confessing her feelings I was SO programmed by society to think "short=undesirable, not a man, give up, trying is a waste of effort and time" that I thought to myself "great, this cute girl is pulling a cruel prank on me!" I didn't say it. I thought "must be a prank, I mean a gorgeous girl like her couldn't be into me... Right?"
Well... Not a prank.
She, by dating me, unknowingly created a confident man in me. Thought I shouldn't even try until she showed me I was wrong.
Very innocent. We were both Christian (both still are) so her dad didn't need to give me the death stare he did, a gun hanging beside his chair on the wall. Loaded? Dunno. I'd NEVER do anything bad (you know) anyway as it's not exactly Christian & immoral to begin with, but he, no joke, would've killed me. He was a lil psycho.
Now for some funny uncomfortable stuff that LEGIT bugged me. Picture this... She was 5'11", taller than my mother, dad, stepdad & uncle. My height? Before I met her I'd NEVER mention my height until I knew you for 1-2 years. Mom is 4'10", dad was 5'6". I landed around the middle at 5'3".
Now think about this, a 5'11" girl hugs her 5'3" BF... Hugging always freaked me out. I never do dirty stuff due to my faith, so getting hugged was stressful... Her chest being quite large made that worse. Yes, I know most guys would like that. In fact, one friend of mine, Dennis, saw this & gave me the "it should've been me!" Expression. She didn't mind! 1 time she did when her dad was looking at her sister & I was thinking "he's gonna turn his head, see this, grab that gun in his chair (side pocket of a recliner) and goodbye everyone."
Call me a wuss, but it legitimately stressed me out & made breathing difficult. Maybe I should've carried around a box to stand on lol.
Confidence is key. Women actually began to approach me after I gained the confidence from what Amy did. My appearance hadn't changed, I just became confident & a few other things like becoming outgoing, not shy. I'd NEVER have bone lengthening procedures done. This is the body I was given, why change it? Besides, gaining 2-4 inches from that procedure won't change anything inside you, the insecurities. That insecurity can easily live on. Your appearance isn't as important as you think. Grow instead as a person & I promise things will change.
Women, according to my friends and mother, like seeing confidence in men. They find it attractive. Being a little taller is useless if you never grew inside.
I mean I look the exact same as I did when no women were interested. All that changed was what's inside this thick forehead of mine. I grew inside. Now I get asked out often. If I, a teeny tiny microscopic lil 5'3" guy (lol) can do that then so can you!
A confident man or a guy who's so insecure he actually had bone lengthening surgery done thinking that was the source of his problems. So, which one?
I'm eternally grateful to Amy for awakening me, so to speak.
Note: Btw Amy being so tall kinda got me into tall women. I like looking up to talk or how they have to bend over/kneel down a bit to kiss me... Yeahhh weird, I know.
I had surgery for a deviated septum. Yeah, my nose bled. Yeah, it felt like my nose was bruised from being punched. I still slept like a baby. Now I can smell and breathe perfectly. Totally worth it.
I like the idea that companies like the sponsor in that video is just a branch company of facebook. Facebook creates the problem and opens up a company that you can pay for to avoid the problems they are creating in first place. :D
If I’m not mistaken, it’s not the sweat glands that were removed, it’s the glands that reacts to the sweat causing BO. (Not positive how accurate info is, and would like if someone told me if this is correct. )
The Starlight-effect from The Boys.
I am so proud not having social media outside of youtube
36:58 I starved myself down to 96lbs as a 5’8” teen and stunted my growth. Turns out I have a condition where my abdominal muscle is detached and hangs out unless contracted. All this time I thought I was fat lmao even at 96lbs 46:05 it was NOT innocent. It was basically a sex interview app at first it wasn’t until the roasties started being like “oh this filthy sex app I could also try to find a boyfriend on it” and then now it’s this mess
I became a lot happier when I deleted social media. Now I just eat food and play total war games and I realize that I don't need to live up to the standards of others to be happy.
I partly blame our educational systems... it is hard to find teachers that teach people how to think, reason and assess. Without those skills, things like Instagram are hopeless traps.
2010, everyone had a phone, just not every phone had an app store, and not as heavily relied on as they are now
People want to be alone, therefore standards go up
Going outside is dangerous?! I knew it! I'm never touching grass again! 😜
I'm a classically attractive man since the age of 16. Nonetheless, I've always been relatively unpopular with the ladies. Why? Because I'm emotionally and otherwise socially unavailable, a dry conversationalist, and unfashionable. These are huge factors that go both ways. The same way they overpower the huge physical advantage I have, if you excel in these areas, it will overpower physical disadvantages.
People are not just agents, bodies, personalities, or stories. We are a combination of all these things and more, and most people have a sense of this when choosing whom to align with.
Know your shortcomings, and be understanding of how others perceive them. Work on them while expanding your horizons.
Watching you is like talking to my little sister, but with out the narcissism.
Turkey teeth is a common saying in england
Basically: We should have listened to the rat utopia experiment.
I nearly got my nose fixed because I have a deviated septum. Then I decided I've been through enough surgeries that unless it becomes a huge issue, I'll just leave it be.
...It has now occurred to me that I've never actually given any thought to what "plastic surgery" even means, beyond it being simply being that silly thing the celebrities do. I'm not sure what visual was in my mind, but violent, intrusive, gruesome actual surgery was certainly not it. Das scary stuff.
The "omg super pretty" stereotypical instagram look isn't even that pretty. Maybe it's just that I have a preference for "cute" rather than the "glamorous supermodel" style but a normal girl taking a picture with a kind of low quality camera ( bad quality equipment helps smooth out the skin without photoshop) is going to look 100x prettier than someone who's had a dozen plastic surgeries to look "good" for the camera imo.
Also most countries let you *drink* alcohol at almost any age (many countries have no age restrictions, others have it set ridiculously low, like the UK has it set to 5), just not in public, and you can't buy it.
@@Person01234 It's mainly to avoid criminalising either accidents or honest lessons.
For example:
My brother was visiting me with his wife and 7 year old son.
My brother and me were catching up over a beer when my seemingly endlessly curious nephew ask what we were drinking so I told him.
He asked to try some and, after checking with his dad, I handed him my can.
He took one small sip, immediately spat it out on the floor and called it gross.
Cue laughter from grownups.
Now my nephew knows beer doesn't taste nice and won't be easily swayed by peer pressure in a few years.
Alana pretty eyes confirmed
@@Roggor yep. Honestly outright banning it is kinda dumb. I didn't touch alcohol until like 28 because I had experiences with it as a kid and it tasted like ass. It still tastes like ass but when sufficiently mixed it has a nice effect (ironically typing this whilst very intoxicated). but still, not something I do every day, don't need to.
holy shit i just heard photo bucket?!?!?!??!?! wow that was a missing memory of mine HAHA
Jokes on Zuck. I never used my real Name or Date of Birth. I even remember the nasty massage from FB, when i changed my date of birth for the 3. or 4. time.
"Is this your real Date of Birth!" lol sure.
As a parent, I wouldn't let my children, especially my daughters, to have Instagram until I can at least feel that have developed some sense of self.
Instagram and other apps like that should be 18+, in my opinion. At least 16+.
Parents are concerned with their teens smoking, drinking or watching porn. For me, this is worse than those three. The consequences of smoking and drinking can be bad, but they also tend to go heal with time. Porn warps your perception of sex and that is bad, but at the same time, I think that it is more obviously fake, it is not as insidious.
I think that the damage that social media cause to people still developing is to some degree permanent and for life, because it will warp your sense of self when you are developing it.
In summary, I would rather find out that my teen drinks a beer on the weekend with her friends than finding out that she is obsessed with Kim Kardashian and she is considering a butt lift.
yeah getting surgery in Korea (from what i heard) is like a right of passage.. they will actually get them as gifts... i heard its like this: Your daughter graduates HS with good grades so you take her out to get a nose job and what ever what ever that shes been wanting FOR YEARS... (now im not korean but ive heard from multiple people thats how it goes/went for them and the people they knew) its just like that out there.. the beauty standards/culture is WILD.. you think the USA is bad.. you think you are a 10 here? go to Korea and you will feel like putting a bag over your head. a quote from a korean i also heard. "your beauty and your job success (as in getting promotions and progressing at all) quite literally go hand in hand" so good luck tryna climb the job ladder too if you SO CALLED 'ugly" by their standards
That is horrible.
When lack of freedom of expression protects me. Since there a threat of attention for unwanted posts or even direct punishment - i don't feel a need to share almost anything about my life, other than, maybe drawings or reposts others
But free world on the other hand, enjoys all worthless talk they can have, unipar... Khem, right people have them anyways, perfectly cooked. Since thier pointless opinion "matters", thier personal life "matter", since Jack sharing his life, you should to
Now there a competition, now there a place for filters and surgery. Eventually there would be nobody to enjoy freedom no more, even when they swim in it, because they already lost thier minds
We live in an age of mass mental illness.
i have almost never posted a picture of myself. In my entire life. I did a few In Afghanistan but thats it. Every picture online of me has been taken by someone else. And I don't know I feel more free then others who seem like a slave to showing off their life to the internet void. I sugget other people try it, No pictures of anything just live in the moment.
its so weird that cosmetic surgery seems so much like a drug addiction. Some people can just get a thing or two touched up and thats the end, and others cant stop until they look like a bogdanoff twin.
As much as i hate people getting exploited, thanks to them surgery has improved and became affordable(for the most part)
I blame this all on sir mixa lot
No, it wasn't as bad, but we definitely did have this problem in society before social media. It's to the point where, online or in person, you aren't supposed to talk about any negatives in your life unless in a way to fish for sympathy, or do anything but present your best face to the public (metaphorical, and literal) and make it beyond your best with lies and photoshop and filters and luxury goods that are a bad investment at your income, and surgery, and adopting habits of social classes above you, and even changing your accent, etc.
It's just part of this masquerade people seem to want to live in and get angry when someone doesn't participate, because they don't want the world how it actually is. Like how everyone talks about how fake politicians are, but they only vote for the fake ones.
The day is saved when The New upload drops.
so true!!!
the moment it went all down wasnt instagram...it was the moment when people all over the World started Posting random ass Photos...especially food pictures....
They can generate a phone for you just like Google used to let you make free online phone calls
Well, success in romantic relationships greatly improves mental health, and physical appearance significantly impacts that. Other areas of life are affected, too. We can delude ourselves that looks don't matter, but that's simply not true.
I believe the culprit is the impossible beauty standards, not plastic surgery, enabling miserable people to live dignified lives.
55:58 … my nose didn’t hurt on my surgery(a different one) but damn if I didn’t sleep for 50 days…
I dunno what is instagram until last year ....
14:10 a bbl has the highest mortality rate of cosmetic surgeries, doesn't it?
Wasn't moon exposed plagiarising review videos amongst others
*Social media was a mistake*
- Some 'Cute' Foxie, probably..
However I Digress.
Hey smugAlana you should check out the AK-50
Everyone just needs to abuse the dragonballs instead :P Much safer
Non of the Kardashians are attractive
💔 what's Photobucket.... That cuts deep