I was just ghosted, when, admittedly, I have been focused on my financial goals: kid in college (cash flowing) and home payoff in 2 yrs or so. Scaled back on pay dates. Understood. She would ask about ways to help debt relief, but had different goals. I don't believe in credit cards. All good...allows me to totally focus. Amen!
When a man youve been dating and things were so well, tells you he his interested but he can’t make a clear decision wether he wants to take it to the next level and truly commit or not, it’s time to let go right? The more time passed the more it felt one-sided. Confusing because the beginning seemed so Perfect, i fell in love. 😢 i guess it was just another love bombing phase. I notice myself losing interest in men. I genuinly don’t enjoy it anymore.
All great points. ❤ If you truly sit and listen to the 5 he has given. He gives you the confirmation of why you should DATE THEM ALL. When you don’t place all your eggs in one basket you won’t feel as though you’ve been wasting your time on one man.. Communication is key for any relationship to succeed. So, if a relationship isn’t on his top 3 list- It’s okay to still enjoy time with him occasionally. However, he shouldn’t be in your top 3 either. Communicate your desires and expectations and respect his boxes. JMT❤
Once you reframe and realize that you were never ghosted, but God told them to leave you alone because God saw things that you couldn’t see, and God knew that you wouldn’t leave them alone. I no longer look at ghost thing in the worldly perspective, but on spiritual perspective, God protected me and God has better for me. Just know when they woke up one day told them to leave my daughter alone and they did just that they left quickly.
I was just ghosted, when, admittedly, I have been focused on my financial goals: kid in college (cash flowing) and home payoff in 2 yrs or so. Scaled back on pay dates. Understood. She would ask about ways to help debt relief, but had different goals. I don't believe in credit cards. All good...allows me to totally focus. Amen!
I totally get it. We have to balance the two in a way that works which is easier said than done.
When a man youve been dating and things were so well, tells you he his interested but he can’t make a clear decision wether he wants to take it to the next level and truly commit or not, it’s time to let go right?
The more time passed the more it felt one-sided. Confusing because the beginning seemed so Perfect, i fell in love. 😢
i guess it was just another love bombing phase.
I notice myself losing interest in men. I genuinly don’t enjoy it anymore.
I know the feeling
This is good stuff, Dr. T. You have a great sense of humor, too. It helps get the message across. Thank you!
Thanks so much DJ MME!
I definitely have a tough time casually dating! When I’m all in I’m all in!
I get it.
All great points. ❤ If you truly sit and listen to the 5 he has given. He gives you the confirmation of why you should DATE THEM ALL. When you don’t place all your eggs in one basket you won’t feel as though you’ve been wasting your time on one man.. Communication is key for any relationship to succeed. So, if a relationship isn’t on his top 3 list- It’s okay to still enjoy time with him occasionally. However, he shouldn’t be in your top 3 either. Communicate your desires and expectations and respect his boxes.
JMT❤
Once you reframe and realize that you were never ghosted, but God told them to leave you alone because God saw things that you couldn’t see, and God knew that you wouldn’t leave them alone. I no longer look at ghost thing in the worldly perspective, but on spiritual perspective, God protected me and God has better for me. Just know when they woke up one day told them to leave my daughter alone and they did just that they left quickly.
Come on now…you better preach my friend!
Excellent content- have the audience hit the likes to increase your views-
You do a great job ❤
I will do that. I never even think to do that. I appreciate you.