Just wanted to share to everyone that this mindset shift is the key. I had every anxiety symptom in the book in the past year, and at times some were 24/7. I am now at a point where I feel very little symptoms- calm and peace is actually attainable again. And it feels much sweeter once you go through this. The ONLY thing that has worked to get me to this point, was to stop fighting it, and change my relationship with it. Everything Dan preaches here. Keep responding to it in the right way, and you’ll get there in time. The subconscious takes a little time to get the message, but it will learn that you are safe. Also, once my symptoms almost completely went away, I got a new symptom of dizziness(more of an off balance feeling), typical symptom imperative- but I responded to it in the same way as the anxiety without being impressed by it, and it went away in a week and a half. This stuff works, folks. Thanks so much Dan for your videos- they have helped me a bunch in the last year when I was having doubts and my fear was getting the better of me
Wonderful story John. Love your resolve to remain calm in the face of a new symptom. Call it out for what it is. Give it little to no concern. Gone in a week and a half. Love it.
Idk if that’s what I’m feeling rn I mom getting this new feeling of off balance jelly legs my eyes feel extremely tired but I actually have been sleeping good for the past 3 days and I haven’t slept that good in a min but idk it’s kinda worrying me in a way but I’m trying to stay here present to cuz it’s making me dissociate but I will trust this
The sensations we get when we are anxious are the same as when we are excited. The difference is the thoughts we have around these emotions. Anxiety gives us negative thoughts, excitement gives us positive thoughts.
Being self aware and coming back to breathing is a great. Even if you get distracted keep coming back to breathing. Don’t fight the panic, embrace the panic. Make the anxiety and panic your friend. :)
Anxiety was really horrible for me, when I wasn’t aware of it that the symptoms came from my current state of mind: anxiety - being anxious about something. Once I realized it, that I was dealing with anxiety and the symptoms are only the „storefront“, I got much better. I still have anxiety with its various symptoms from time to time (right now actually - new job coming up), but I try to accept it and ride on the wave (I know it’s hard sometimes). However, use the opportunity to practice what we know (TMS), when symptoms are high. Nice song btw: Santana - Practice what you preach 😎
Hey there. Haven’t been here for a while. I watched Dan for about 6 months everyday. He helped me so much that I don’t need to listen anymore. How’s that for a recommendation! Dan, you are awesome!
Just like with TMS sensations/symptoms allow anxiety and thoughts to pass. The more you try to get rid of it, the more it will hang around. Thanks Dan! TMS really teaches us to relax more and stress less!
Sat up in "my" park looking at the trees too. I ❤️ spring. Crap morning when builders turned up outside my bedroom window 7.15am, grr. Had a debate with the manager. Got myself up to church for some space, calm and peace. Telling myself life too short to suffer anxiety etc over building works and other stuff out if my remit. A few weeks and it'll be done. Made some difficult phone calls, why is it that common sense seems to have vanished from most situations 😂. Definitely gonna take a new approach to the anxiety. Stay with it, knowing I'm safe. Thanks for today's video, appreciate. Anxiety is like premium "fear" fuel.
Let anxiety “wash over you like a day at the beach.” It’s a great thought and self soothing visualization, the gem I’m taking away from todays video. Tractor boy 😂
Dan, I had persistent one-sided neck pain for 8 months and attempted various treatments, starting with physical therapy and acupuncture and exploring different topicals and massages. Unfortunately, none of them seemed to provide relief. Then, one fortunate day, I stumbled upon your videos and began to watch and comprehend the underlying logic. Remarkably, my neck pain has significantly diminished, and I no longer fret about it. While it occasionally tenses up due to my computer work, the improvement is substantial, ranging from 80-90%. Every time I listen to your speech, I experience a sense of tranquility and an immediate reduction in anxiety. While I still have some other health issues, your guidance has helped me eliminate one of them! Much respect and heartfelt appreciation from Estonia!!
Wow, Sarno fan here, just discovered you Dan! I’m immediately taken in by your passion, focus, and pleasant demeanor. Good vibes man! Looking forward to calmness and healing with you at the helm! God bless!
The problem with me is that my stressor is my dad. He is very toxic and I live with him after I lost my mom. I try to stay away as much as possible, but it's impossible to avoid him completely because he's very dependable on me. I feel better when I go for walks or just spend time with other people. Your information definitely works. Thank you!!
Great explanation! Thanks again Dan! 🌊🙏😊 It just occurred to me that anxiety is like Tractor Boy chopping wood. There's noise, but that doesn't stop Dan from making the video.
I have come to accept that I have TMS and agree with all you have said both on this video. My anxiety is mostly from the issue of the pain meds I was pit on 5 years ago. They have me dependent on them and I have cut back and I do go through some mild to moderate withdrawal symptoms. The problem is that over the last few months it has been harder to get my script filled. I have a huge fear of going into withdrawal and feel it might take me a year to slowly taper down to zero. But every month when it is time to fill my script I hear they are out of stock or the meds are back ordered. It's crazy because if it was just the pain I was worried about I think I could make more progress.
Wow… thanks Dan for posting this topic.. I happen to be affected with this exact issue for a few weeks now and it’s become a bit absorbing in my life. I never had these sensations so constant before.. the heart rate increasing is a bit disturbing and it really helped to hear this again. It’s like I was meant to hear it this morning..💜 I have been touched by wack a mo once more and it’s like my brain found something that got my attention once again 😞 I’m practicing the tips and accepting that this is where I am now, I will come out at the other end..🙏🏼🙏🏼
Hi Dan, thank you so much for your daily videos, that I watch every single day for 7 months now. I appreciate your tireless and passionate work to help people who struggle with TMS/PDP. I suffer from ME/CFS and Fibromyalgia and have symptoms 24/7. I can stay pretty calm towards all the weird sensations such as tingling, twitching and also the pain, but it seems to be almost impossible, not to fear the debilitating fatique, because it keeps me stuck in bed for a year now, unable to live my my life or distract myself. I am also sensitive to screens and lose my ability to communicate with people, because every conversation triggers strong bodily symptoms. That makes me feel really anxious and desperate. Any advise how I can dig myself out of this dark hole?
Decide that you are not in danger. Stay away from the CFS and Fibro communities online. Disconnect yourself from those medical labels. Those labels carry around a ton of fear. You have TMS/PDP. It's all driven by fear. Your sole task is to KNOW you are well and dial down the fear. ua-cam.com/video/VSmTe8zPXh0/v-deo.html
@@PainFreeYou Thank you, Dan! This is also my favorite video. I watched it at least 10 times. Now I just have to believe deep in my heart, that I am truly NOT broken! I am recovering from fear!!!😊
I have white coat syndrome, I-go to the doctor and my BP is was up there , 170/100, as soon as I see the cuff and feel the cuff squeezing around my arm, I feel a huge surge in adrenaline. They want me to go on meds, but I’m not going down that path….. I get home and my first reading is usually high now too, but over time as I feel myself calm down so does my BP. I read a book by Dr Russell Kennedy recently, (Anxiety RX)he has a similar perspective to Dan’s, get out of your head and into your body This video today was just what I needed to hear, I took my BP earlier, I could feel my anxiety build putting in the cuff…155/94 ATHOME!!! After telling myself I was safe and focusing on breathing into my belly, it came down to 136/82 in a few minutes Crazy stuff this TMS/PDP
I'm not anxious about anxiety! I'm anxious about falling again and getting broken again and ending in hospital, and as I live alone and would have to manage on my own this is major. It doesn't matter that I probably won't fall again, my body has kept the score. I have PTSD and I freeze. I can't get across a road. I'm not anxious about it - my legs won't move. I can't go forward or back. I've done all the stuff, talked to my brain etc etc but my legs won't do it.
Dan, I’ve said this before, but you are truly doing God’s work. I am so thankful for you. I feel like this video is so simplified that I fully understand what’s going on. It’s PDP. I’ve had anxiety so much of my life bc I’m so afraid of it. Just like my “fibromyalgia”. I have to say, though, over the years of watching your videos I hadn’t realized how much better I am feeling. I’m hoping to be a success story! And could you hurry up with that book? Lol
🙏🙏🙏 A lot of us - most of us, do not have a therapist on hand to talk to in times of anxiety but we have Dan's videos to look up and reassure us in the moments. I agree with what you are saying. I think anxiety is just like any other TMS symptom - not to say it is not tough to deal with , it is - in fact when I think when mine came on - pretty much same time as the rest of the TMS symptoms . All CNS related , all tied together.
Another version of "accept and allow", especially during a panic attack, is to deliberately try to make and hope for your symptoms to become worse. It seems to be the most powerful version of accept and allow and really can make the anxiety burn out quickly. The problem is that you can't use the technique to get rid of the anxiety. You need to truly be fed enough to say 'screw it, give me your worst' and then paradoxically it seems to just wither away. Michael Norman is the person I heard about the technique from. I imagine you could use it for any symptoms though. I know it works for depression as well.
Hi Dan had to laugh about tractor boy 😀I treat anxiety the same as my symptoms pain stay calm and it will pass. Had some very bad panic attacks no fun. The fysical sensations of panic attacks are no fun now I know it is my brain perceiving danger. So I accept and allow them (got the Dare app now) because as my symptoms they are not dangerous. I can't think these panic attackd away. Ok nothing more to add don't feel so good today going to take it easy. Love you Dan and everyone else a big hug and smile from me see you all tomorrow 😘😘😘
What a wonderful topic! Anxiety as a wave. Let it pass through and over. Much like our thoughts as an open house. Come on in! Have a look around. Let me know if you have any questions. The doors are open. Come and go as you please. I get tickled at myself when I have thoughts that are anxious or angry or fearful. It seems to help me to ask myself why I might be feeling this way or that. As if I am an outsider looking in… hmmmm, why am I so angry with her? Then, answer honestly. She is controlling. She makes me feel small. Ohhhhh, okay. She makes you feel small. Am I less than? No, you are fine and you cannot control her behavior. You can only do the next right thing. Changing my internal dialogue to a “curious interview” has helped so much with anxious thinking. Have a great day everyone!
Dan now I realize when we slow down slow down and confidence increase. That the only way to overcome slowly slowly. Slow it's take time, the pecens and dare is the key factor
Your videos are so so amazing! Dan I feel tension in my stomach and neck back muscles. Not even pain (that only starts a bit later sometimes). It happens in my unconscious brain, mostly it is there without a specific reason. Is that also a “symptom” that you just treat the same way? With soothing and reassurance instead of digging and despair?
Fear / perceived danger is the cause. Safety is the solution. Know you are not broken. Know you are well. Teach your brain that fact. ua-cam.com/video/5SsKnAgAvnY/v-deo.html
I started to calm down over the years with anxiety three years ago I got pixelating lights in my eyes which lasted about 10:mins I was worried for a while then I just got on with things then about 9 months in got them again, then a few months went past they started again lately there coming every week or two , one morning before I opened my eyes, now I’m anxious because I don’t like them and scared although I had my eye check I told them about them they wasn’t too concerned it’s like I was really doing well and these come from no where there called silent migraines I have had acute anxiety for years never had these before, I hope they go an not come back I don’t get head aches with them tho, I do get a lot of tension in my neck and the back of my head 🙏🏻
Brilliant video, thanks so much for all you do Dan! I am healing from ME/CFS. The NS disregulation has caused a lot of anxiety, which I absolutely know is rooted in my brain perceiving my situation / life / movement / symptoms as unsafe. My challenge is that the anxiety results in debilitating post exertional malaise if I don’t nip it in the bud relatively quickly, which has definitely created anxiety about anxiety. Do you have any wise words here? If I just leave it there in the background whilst practicing indifference towards it, I end up with PEM. Feels like a bit of a chicken and egg situation! 🙏
Feel free to check out my fast start playlist for a deep dive on how things work and more importantly, what to do about it. ua-cam.com/play/PLRJmnkn2kTTIl4frNvmpenr49xcTmVl2H.html This video on delayed reaction symptoms may help. Regardless, the key thing to control is YOUR response to the fatigue if it hits. Substitute fatigue for the word pain. ua-cam.com/video/sHvM_PNfvto/v-deo.html
I was with my brother in law the other day ...he was driving on the freeway during nightime and it triggered a huge anxiety.. Especially when I felt the car was accelerating Whenever I am in a situation of speed or adrenaline I get a panick attack. .I had to look down during the entire trip BUT this time I realized: this is not dangerous, it's just uncomfortable It's temporary ...I ll be fine as soon as I get home. Old me reaction would have been me screaming : "OMG take me please to the hospital , I am gonna faint , please help OMG' Well I tried to look straight at the road but it was too painful and stressful..how do I become fearless ( and normal haha)?
Accurate knowledge that you are actually safe already and then consistency in reminding ourselves of that FACT. ua-cam.com/video/5SsKnAgAvnY/v-deo.html
Hey Dan, I know this is a random request, but could you make a video about a significant other breaking up with you while you’re healing? It’s having a huge impact on my stress/pain level. I’m losing an 8 year relationship (we have a 2 year old daughter together) because he’s stressed and “sick of me not trying to get better” -meaning doctors, pills, and the conventional route. Every day he tells me “your book isn’t going to cure you” in reference to a Sarno book I have. I’ve given up trying to explain the mind body connection to him. Quite frankly he just doesn’t care and I think he’s wanted out for a long time and is using my sickness as a convenient excuse. Either way it sucks and it’s making my healing journey even harder. I know you’ve went through breakups and divorce during your journey. Any tips?
His opinion doesn't matter. This is an inside job. Decide you can get well anyway. these two videos touch on relationships: ua-cam.com/video/jjDPneiwawY/v-deo.html ua-cam.com/video/6rGPPpj2tJk/v-deo.html
Many people find that just quitting coffee and all other forms of caffeine significantly reduces their chronic anxiety and in some cases even gets rid of it completely. Caffeine is in a lot of things, not just coffee. Mountain Dew for example has caffeine, so does black and green tea, so do some painkillers like Excedrin, so does chocolate.
Dan, I have two questions: - do you think it's even possible to employ the 'dare' response -- a version of the 'bring it on' attitude -- when the pain is really, really bad (CPPS in my case)? Is there a Buddhist in every mortal, waiting to be discovered? :) - do you think doing one's best to remain reasonably calm and indifferent to the symptoms is a more feasible strategy than this somewhat counterintuitive mental gymnastics of 'welcoming', 'embracing', 'curiously observing and describing' the pain?
The harder we fight the anxiety, the longer it sticks around. Watch my fast start playlist. Anxiety is just another symptom coming from a brain perceiving danger. ua-cam.com/play/PLRJmnkn2kTTIl4frNvmpenr49xcTmVl2H.html
Can I ask some of you if you can explain the physical symptoms you get so I don't know I'm going mad , mine just don't go at least till the afternoons and start as soon as I get out of bed .
I dont get any symptoms and have had nothing chronic or persistent for the past 14 years. This stuff works. Study and implement the fast start playlist. DansFastStart.com
So glad you mentioned the DARE Response. DARE save my sanity a few years ago when I was mired in high anxiety that seemed permanent. The book and the app are both great, so is the online community. DARE also has many free videos and a free podcast on UA-cam. It's helping me again as I recover from chronic fatigue due to TMS after covid.
Perceived danger explains it all. Why does the pain never stop? Fear. Perceived danger. ua-cam.com/video/tnU6KBAv5fg/v-deo.html Recovery from fear will allow the symptoms to stop over time. ua-cam.com/video/VSmTe8zPXh0/v-deo.html
I got lonlienessfeelings and abandontmentfeelings, my nervous system cant se on tv anymore some period i got pain now is my nervous system so sensitive so i vant se tv My family toke me away
Hi Dan do you think women who are off menopause age can use all these tools as sometimes alot of the anxiety can be crazy off balanced hormones would be calm and reassuring help in this thank you
BARRY MCDONOUGH. A BRIT WHO HAS WRITTEN THE BOOK DARE WHICH DEALS WITH THESE PROBLEMS. HIS BOOK DARE IS HELPFUL. HE HAD ALL THESE SYMPTOMS. HIS LAST NAME NOT BE SPELLED CORRECTLY
Let anxiety “wash over you like a wave at the beach.” It’s a great self soothing thought and visualization, that’s the gem I’m taking from todays video! Tractor boy 😂
Good morning Dan and PFY community ❤ I had free-floating anxiety for over two years at one point in my life. It would hit out of nowhere and yes, it’s really uncomfortable. The only technique that I found to be helpful was to lean into it and breathe through it. The word anxiety actually comes from German, and it means a closing off of the channel. Our natural inclination is to breathe shallowly so we don’t feel the anxiety but what we have to do is actually the opposite. It does come in waves when I first got my TMS diagnosis from a Doctor Who studied with Sarno I had heart palpitations for over a month and a lot of anxiety. It takes a lot of courage to walk this path. We are all brave warriors 💫🦸♀️
Wow Peggy, thank you so much for sharing your experience.. after years of physical sensations that are now almost gone, most of the time they are… the palpitations that visited once in a blue moon have now been more consistent 😐 I know what it is and I just have to ride this wave too.. I’m so glad to hear that you came out on the other side 💜💜 thank you again..🙏🏼🙏🏼
Just wanted to share to everyone that this mindset shift is the key. I had every anxiety symptom in the book in the past year, and at times some were 24/7. I am now at a point where I feel very little symptoms- calm and peace is actually attainable again. And it feels much sweeter once you go through this. The ONLY thing that has worked to get me to this point, was to stop fighting it, and change my relationship with it. Everything Dan preaches here. Keep responding to it in the right way, and you’ll get there in time. The subconscious takes a little time to get the message, but it will learn that you are safe.
Also, once my symptoms almost completely went away, I got a new symptom of dizziness(more of an off balance feeling), typical symptom imperative- but I responded to it in the same way as the anxiety without being impressed by it, and it went away in a week and a half. This stuff works, folks.
Thanks so much Dan for your videos- they have helped me a bunch in the last year when I was having doubts and my fear was getting the better of me
Wonderful story John. Love your resolve to remain calm in the face of a new symptom. Call it out for what it is. Give it little to no concern. Gone in a week and a half. Love it.
What where ur symptoms ? Fatigue too
Idk if that’s what I’m feeling rn I mom getting this new feeling of off balance jelly legs my eyes feel extremely tired but I actually have been sleeping good for the past 3 days and I haven’t slept that good in a min but idk it’s kinda worrying me in a way but I’m trying to stay here present to cuz it’s making me dissociate but I will trust this
The sensations we get when we are anxious are the same as when we are excited. The difference is the thoughts we have around these emotions. Anxiety gives us negative thoughts, excitement gives us positive thoughts.
I now view Tractor Boy as a sign of warm weather. It has become as positive as birds chirping! 😂😂😂
Hahaha
hee-hee 😄
I just have to laugh.
I love that positive spin on tractor boy and I also love you you, Dan, can now laugh it off
Lol!!!😂😂😂
Being self aware and coming back to breathing is a great. Even if you get distracted keep coming back to breathing. Don’t fight the panic, embrace the panic. Make the anxiety and panic your friend. :)
Thnks dan you describe no one die from anxiety.
Allow it to be there
Anxiety was really horrible for me, when I wasn’t aware of it that the symptoms came from my current state of mind: anxiety - being anxious about something.
Once I realized it, that I was dealing with anxiety and the symptoms are only the „storefront“, I got much better.
I still have anxiety with its various symptoms from time to time (right now actually - new job coming up), but I try to accept it and ride on the wave (I know it’s hard sometimes). However, use the opportunity to practice what we know (TMS), when symptoms are high.
Nice song btw: Santana - Practice what you preach 😎
Thanks for sharing your experience.
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Hey there. Haven’t been here for a while. I watched Dan for about 6 months everyday. He helped me so much that I don’t need to listen anymore. How’s that for a recommendation! Dan, you are awesome!
Just like with TMS sensations/symptoms allow anxiety and thoughts to pass. The more you try to get rid of it, the more it will hang around. Thanks Dan! TMS really teaches us to relax more and stress less!
Absolutely.
What's tms
Sat up in "my" park looking at the trees too. I ❤️ spring. Crap morning when builders turned up outside my bedroom window 7.15am, grr. Had a debate with the manager. Got myself up to church for some space, calm and peace. Telling myself life too short to suffer anxiety etc over building works and other stuff out if my remit. A few weeks and it'll be done. Made some difficult phone calls, why is it that common sense seems to have vanished from most situations 😂. Definitely gonna take a new approach to the anxiety. Stay with it, knowing I'm safe. Thanks for today's video, appreciate. Anxiety is like premium "fear" fuel.
Love you ❤❤❤
@@Lenneke8422-b3t thanks. so much love on this site, we are all blessed to have "met" Dan
@@1STBUCKLEY we sure are Dan is a walking Angel ❤️😘💕
Let anxiety “wash over you like a day at the beach.” It’s a great thought and self soothing visualization, the gem I’m taking away from todays video.
Tractor boy 😂
Excellent.
Dan, I had persistent one-sided neck pain for 8 months and attempted various treatments, starting with physical therapy and acupuncture and exploring different topicals and massages. Unfortunately, none of them seemed to provide relief.
Then, one fortunate day, I stumbled upon your videos and began to watch and comprehend the underlying logic. Remarkably, my neck pain has significantly diminished, and I no longer fret about it. While it occasionally tenses up due to my computer work, the improvement is substantial, ranging from 80-90%.
Every time I listen to your speech, I experience a sense of tranquility and an immediate reduction in anxiety. While I still have some other health issues, your guidance has helped me eliminate one of them!
Much respect and heartfelt appreciation from Estonia!!
wonderful. Thank you for sharing that with me. Love to hear of your progress.
Wow, Sarno fan here, just discovered you Dan! I’m immediately taken in by your passion, focus, and pleasant demeanor. Good vibes man! Looking forward to calmness and healing with you at the helm! God bless!
The problem with me is that my stressor is my dad. He is very toxic and I live with him after I lost my mom. I try to stay away as much as possible, but it's impossible to avoid him completely because he's very dependable on me. I feel better when I go for walks or just spend time with other people. Your information definitely works. Thank you!!
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Great explanation! Thanks again Dan! 🌊🙏😊
It just occurred to me that anxiety is like Tractor Boy chopping wood. There's noise, but that doesn't stop Dan from making the video.
Yes, exactly. Anxiety doesn't have to stop us either.
I like that Ava 😅❤️
@@PainFreeYou I named my anxiety Tractor Boy. Next time I have symptoms, I'll think it's just Tractor Boy cutting wood in the grocery aisle. 😂😂😂
@@Lenneke8422-b3t 😂❤🐾❤️
@@AvaGreenFeather awesome idea!!
I love to binge listen to your videos while I’m getting ready for an appointment or putting on my make up, etc. Such a good use of my time!
Relax in Peace..as much as possible..letting the feelings simply be there. Impatience creates anxiety..pain and symptoms. 😊❤
I have come to accept that I have TMS and agree with all you have said both on this video. My anxiety is mostly from the issue of the pain meds I was pit on 5 years ago. They have me dependent on them and I have cut back and I do go through some mild to moderate withdrawal symptoms. The problem is that over the last few months it has been harder to get my script filled. I have a huge fear of going into withdrawal and feel it might take me a year to slowly taper down to zero. But every month when it is time to fill my script I hear they are out of stock or the meds are back ordered. It's crazy because if it was just the pain I was worried about I think I could make more progress.
Wow… thanks Dan for posting this topic.. I happen to be affected with this exact issue for a few weeks now and it’s become a bit absorbing in my life. I never had these sensations so constant before.. the heart rate increasing is a bit disturbing and it really helped to hear this again. It’s like I was meant to hear it this morning..💜
I have been touched by wack a mo once more and it’s like my brain found something that got my attention once again 😞
I’m practicing the tips and accepting that this is where I am now, I will come out at the other end..🙏🏼🙏🏼
Yes you will Marly. Yes you WILL. You've got this.
Thank you Dan for believing in me 🥹🙏🏼💜💜
Excellent Dan!
Hi Dan, thank you so much for your daily videos, that I watch every single day for 7 months now. I appreciate your tireless and passionate work to help people who struggle with TMS/PDP. I suffer from ME/CFS and Fibromyalgia and have symptoms 24/7. I can stay pretty calm towards all the weird sensations such as tingling, twitching and also the pain, but it seems to be almost impossible, not to fear the debilitating fatique, because it keeps me stuck in bed for a year now, unable to live my my life or distract myself. I am also sensitive to screens and lose my ability to communicate with people, because every conversation triggers strong bodily symptoms. That makes me feel really anxious and desperate. Any advise how I can dig myself out of this dark hole?
Decide that you are not in danger. Stay away from the CFS and Fibro communities online. Disconnect yourself from those medical labels. Those labels carry around a ton of fear. You have TMS/PDP. It's all driven by fear. Your sole task is to KNOW you are well and dial down the fear. ua-cam.com/video/VSmTe8zPXh0/v-deo.html
Hi wishing you lots of love and success we are warriors 😘😘❤️🎈💕💐
@@Lenneke8422-b3t Thank you Lenneke, the same to you!😘
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@@PainFreeYou Thank you, Dan! This is also my favorite video. I watched it at least 10 times. Now I just have to believe deep in my heart, that I am truly NOT broken! I am recovering from fear!!!😊
I have white coat syndrome, I-go to the doctor and my BP is was up there , 170/100, as soon as I see the cuff and feel the cuff squeezing around my arm, I feel a huge surge in adrenaline. They want me to go on meds, but I’m not going down that path….. I get home and my first reading is usually high now too, but over time as I feel myself calm down so does my BP.
I read a book by Dr Russell Kennedy recently, (Anxiety RX)he has a similar perspective to Dan’s, get out of your head and into your body
This video today was just what I needed to hear, I took my BP earlier, I could feel my anxiety build putting in the cuff…155/94 ATHOME!!! After telling myself I was safe and focusing on breathing into my belly, it came down to 136/82 in a few minutes
Crazy stuff this TMS/PDP
It's all based on the brain doing it's job. Keeping us safe from perceived dangers.
Loved your Story! I have the same experience. I am a control freak..it is so hard for me to just go with the flow. 😊❤
I'm not anxious about anxiety! I'm anxious about falling again and getting broken again and ending in hospital, and as I live alone and would have to manage on my own this is major. It doesn't matter that I probably won't fall again, my body has kept the score. I have PTSD and I freeze. I can't get across a road. I'm not anxious about it - my legs won't move. I can't go forward or back. I've done all the stuff, talked to my brain etc etc but my legs won't do it.
Dan, I’ve said this before, but you are truly doing God’s work. I am so thankful for you. I feel like this video is so simplified that I fully understand what’s going on. It’s PDP. I’ve had anxiety so much of my life bc I’m so afraid of it. Just like my “fibromyalgia”. I have to say, though, over the years of watching your videos I hadn’t realized how much better I am feeling. I’m hoping to be a success story! And could you hurry up with that book? Lol
Working on the book at this moment. Thank you for your kind and humbling words.
🙏🙏🙏 A lot of us - most of us, do not have a therapist on hand to talk to in times of anxiety but we have Dan's videos to look up and reassure us in the moments. I agree with what you are saying. I think anxiety is just like any other TMS symptom - not to say it is not tough to deal with , it is - in fact when I think when mine came on - pretty much same time as the rest of the TMS symptoms . All CNS related , all tied together.
Well said. Thank you for sharing your insight.
Hi Dan Thank you for all that you give out.Very helpful to so many of us.❤
My pleasure Julie.
Another version of "accept and allow", especially during a panic attack, is to deliberately try to make and hope for your symptoms to become worse. It seems to be the most powerful version of accept and allow and really can make the anxiety burn out quickly. The problem is that you can't use the technique to get rid of the anxiety. You need to truly be fed enough to say 'screw it, give me your worst' and then paradoxically it seems to just wither away. Michael Norman is the person I heard about the technique from. I imagine you could use it for any symptoms though. I know it works for depression as well.
Yes, the "bring it on" technique. VERY effective.
Yes, I have heard that technique.
So true, anxiety is a passing wave.
Wow Dan what I needed to here this today thank you 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻
You are so welcome
Hi Dan had to laugh about tractor boy 😀I treat anxiety the same as my symptoms pain stay calm and it will pass. Had some very bad panic attacks no fun. The fysical sensations of panic attacks are no fun now I know it is my brain perceiving danger. So I accept and allow them (got the Dare app now) because as my symptoms they are not dangerous. I can't think these panic attackd away. Ok nothing more to add don't feel so good today going to take it easy. Love you Dan and everyone else a big hug and smile from me see you all tomorrow 😘😘😘
Sending you warm, cuddly hug Lenneke 🫂
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Yes, I had to laugh at tractor boy too.
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What a wonderful topic! Anxiety as a wave. Let it pass through and over. Much like our thoughts as an open house. Come on in! Have a look around. Let me know if you have any questions. The doors are open. Come and go as you please.
I get tickled at myself when I have thoughts that are anxious or angry or fearful. It seems to help me to ask myself why I might be feeling this way or that. As if I am an outsider looking in… hmmmm, why am I so angry with her? Then, answer honestly.
She is controlling. She makes me feel small.
Ohhhhh, okay. She makes you feel small. Am I less than?
No, you are fine and you cannot control her behavior. You can only do the next right thing.
Changing my internal dialogue to a “curious interview” has helped so much with anxious thinking.
Have a great day everyone!
Love your interview technique ❤
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Great insights Hinz. Love it.
Beautiful said Hinz love you ❤
Thanks Dan exactly what I needed to hear today
Wonderful.
Dan now I realize when we slow down slow down and confidence increase. That the only way to overcome slowly slowly. Slow it's take time, the pecens and dare is the key factor
Thanks again Dan❤🎉 great video.
You are welcome.
Your videos are so so amazing! Dan I feel tension in my stomach and neck back muscles. Not even pain (that only starts a bit later sometimes). It happens in my unconscious brain, mostly it is there without a specific reason. Is that also a “symptom” that you just treat the same way? With soothing and reassurance instead of digging and despair?
It feels like I will explode sometimes
Fear / perceived danger is the cause.
Safety is the solution.
Know you are not broken. Know you are well.
Teach your brain that fact.
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Very helpful as always Dan.
You are welcome.
I started to calm down over the years with anxiety three years ago I got pixelating lights in my eyes which lasted about 10:mins I was worried for a while then I just got on with things then about 9 months in got them again, then a few months went past they started again lately there coming every week or two , one morning before I opened my eyes, now I’m anxious because I don’t like them and scared although I had my eye check I told them about them they wasn’t too concerned it’s like I was really doing well and these come from no where there called silent migraines I have had acute anxiety for years never had these before, I hope they go an not come back I don’t get head aches with them tho, I do get a lot of tension in my neck and the back of my head 🙏🏻
Brilliant video, thanks so much for all you do Dan! I am healing from ME/CFS. The NS disregulation has caused a lot of anxiety, which I absolutely know is rooted in my brain perceiving my situation / life / movement / symptoms as unsafe. My challenge is that the anxiety results in debilitating post exertional malaise if I don’t nip it in the bud relatively quickly, which has definitely created anxiety about anxiety. Do you have any wise words here? If I just leave it there in the background whilst practicing indifference towards it, I end up with PEM. Feels like a bit of a chicken and egg situation! 🙏
Feel free to check out my fast start playlist for a deep dive on how things work and more importantly, what to do about it.
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This video on delayed reaction symptoms may help. Regardless, the key thing to control is YOUR response to the fatigue if it hits. Substitute fatigue for the word pain. ua-cam.com/video/sHvM_PNfvto/v-deo.html
@@PainFreeYou amazing, thanks so much Dan you’re a superstar! 💚
I was with my brother in law the other day ...he was driving on the freeway during nightime and it triggered a huge anxiety.. Especially when I felt the car was accelerating
Whenever I am in a situation of speed or adrenaline I get a panick attack.
.I had to look down during the entire trip
BUT this time I realized: this is not dangerous, it's just uncomfortable It's temporary ...I ll be fine as soon as I get home.
Old me reaction would have been me screaming : "OMG take me please to the hospital , I am gonna faint , please help OMG'
Well I tried to look straight at the road but it was too painful and stressful..how do I become fearless ( and normal haha)?
Accurate knowledge that you are actually safe already and then consistency in reminding ourselves of that FACT.
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I think you need to do a blooper video of every time tractor boy crashed your videos.
Haha - great idea.
Hey Dan, I know this is a random request, but could you make a video about a significant other breaking up with you while you’re healing? It’s having a huge impact on my stress/pain level. I’m losing an 8 year relationship (we have a 2 year old daughter together) because he’s stressed and “sick of me not trying to get better” -meaning doctors, pills, and the conventional route. Every day he tells me “your book isn’t going to cure you” in reference to a Sarno book I have. I’ve given up trying to explain the mind body connection to him. Quite frankly he just doesn’t care and I think he’s wanted out for a long time and is using my sickness as a convenient excuse. Either way it sucks and it’s making my healing journey even harder. I know you’ve went through breakups and divorce during your journey. Any tips?
His opinion doesn't matter. This is an inside job. Decide you can get well anyway. these two videos touch on relationships:
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@@PainFreeYou you’re the best! Thank you!! I will check them out.
Many people find that just quitting coffee and all other forms of caffeine significantly reduces their chronic anxiety and in some cases even gets rid of it completely. Caffeine is in a lot of things, not just coffee. Mountain Dew for example has caffeine, so does black and green tea, so do some painkillers like Excedrin, so does chocolate.
Dan, I have two questions:
- do you think it's even possible to employ the 'dare' response -- a version of the 'bring it on' attitude -- when the pain is really, really bad (CPPS in my case)? Is there a Buddhist in every mortal, waiting to be discovered? :)
- do you think doing one's best to remain reasonably calm and indifferent to the symptoms is a more feasible strategy than this somewhat counterintuitive mental gymnastics of 'welcoming', 'embracing', 'curiously observing and describing' the pain?
It feels dangerous I have 24/7 anxiety it never passes
The harder we fight the anxiety, the longer it sticks around. Watch my fast start playlist. Anxiety is just another symptom coming from a brain perceiving danger.
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Can I ask some of you if you can explain the physical symptoms you get so I don't know I'm going mad , mine just don't go at least till the afternoons and start as soon as I get out of bed .
I dont get any symptoms and have had nothing chronic or persistent for the past 14 years. This stuff works. Study and implement the fast start playlist. DansFastStart.com
So glad you mentioned the DARE Response. DARE save my sanity a few years ago when I was mired in high anxiety that seemed permanent. The book and the app are both great, so is the online community. DARE also has many free videos and a free podcast on UA-cam. It's helping me again as I recover from chronic fatigue due to TMS after covid.
Yes - Barry's approach to anxiety is well in line with my approach to pain or other chronic symptoms.
Why does my pain never stop? I wake up in pain and go to sleep in pain. I never get a break.
Perceived danger explains it all. Why does the pain never stop? Fear. Perceived danger. ua-cam.com/video/tnU6KBAv5fg/v-deo.html
Recovery from fear will allow the symptoms to stop over time.
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I got lonlienessfeelings and abandontmentfeelings, my nervous system cant se on tv anymore some period i got pain now is my nervous system so sensitive so i vant se tv
My family toke me away
You are in the right place to recover now. DansFastStart.com is a great fundamental study.
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Hi Dan do you think women who are off menopause age can use all these tools as sometimes alot of the anxiety can be crazy off balanced hormones would be calm and reassuring help in this thank you
Anxiety is also a response to the brain perceiving danger. So yes, safety can help for sure.
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@@PainFreeYou thank you so much for answering back watched the video explains a lot thank you 😊😊
Dan what do we do when we feel GOOD but that feels uncomfortable or weird?
What happened to the birds??
Who is the barry guy you mentioned ?
BARRY MCDONOUGH. A BRIT WHO HAS WRITTEN THE BOOK DARE WHICH DEALS WITH THESE PROBLEMS. HIS BOOK DARE IS HELPFUL. HE HAD ALL THESE SYMPTOMS. HIS LAST NAME NOT BE SPELLED CORRECTLY
Barry McDonagh
Barry McDonagh - DARE is the book and App for phones. I prefer the audio book myself on Audible.
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Let anxiety “wash over you like a wave at the beach.” It’s a great self soothing thought and visualization, that’s the gem I’m taking from todays video! Tractor boy 😂
Anxiety disorders causes lot of these pain back pain is listed as gad symptom.
Or maybe those with anxiety are prone to TMS.
@@PainFreeYou yes correct
Ride waves.. don't duck 🦆 under them
Good morning Dan and PFY community ❤ I had free-floating anxiety for over two years at one point in my life. It would hit out of nowhere and yes, it’s really uncomfortable. The only technique that I found to be helpful was to lean into it and breathe through it. The word anxiety actually comes from German, and it means a closing off of the channel. Our natural inclination is to breathe shallowly so we don’t feel the anxiety but what we have to do is actually the opposite. It does come in waves when I first got my TMS diagnosis from a Doctor Who studied with Sarno I had heart palpitations for over a month and a lot of anxiety. It takes a lot of courage to walk this path. We are all brave warriors 💫🦸♀️
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Yes, you are a warrior Peggy. I'm so proud of you and everyone here.
Yesss Peggy we are warriors and it is a hard bumby road but we can do this ❤❤❤❤❤
Thank you for sharing your experience, Peggy!
Wow Peggy, thank you so much for sharing your experience.. after years of physical sensations that are now almost gone, most of the time they are… the palpitations that visited once in a blue moon have now been more consistent 😐 I know what it is and I just have to ride this wave too..
I’m so glad to hear that you came out on the other side 💜💜 thank you again..🙏🏼🙏🏼