Off The Record: What's Different Between Your 20's and 30's (ft. Silent Mike)

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  • @joshuamilbecka
    @joshuamilbecka Рік тому +177

    I actually needed this. I've been really destorying myself thinking about how much I have to get done in my twenties and constantly worrying about how the decisions I make now will impact my future. I just can't wait to be a little nicer to myself eventually.

    • @fremofo9207
      @fremofo9207 Рік тому +7

      This shit hit

    • @redlight3932
      @redlight3932 Рік тому +8

      Work on your body and your health I'm young as well and the only thing I've taken from my older family is take care of your body

  • @HH_Julius
    @HH_Julius Рік тому +95

    Mike always hitting with the hard questions and self awareness. Definitely one of the best return guests on the show!

  • @KeemV
    @KeemV Рік тому +27

    As much as I love episodes where it’s just silly topics, more mature topics like these are really nice to listen to and learn from.

  • @bfgboy2
    @bfgboy2 Рік тому +74

    Wow. This video hits a lot harder for me personally. I'm literally turning 29 in a few hours. Knowing that I'm on my very last 20s, is a major wakeup call for me. I deeply appreciate this one!

    • @nahex2
      @nahex2 Рік тому +5

      Happy birthday!!!!

    • @GYSMelanie5
      @GYSMelanie5 Рік тому +2

      Happy birthday 🎂 🥳 🎉

    • @bfgboy2
      @bfgboy2 Рік тому +2

      Thank you all!

    • @lor102
      @lor102 Рік тому +2

      Happy birthday!!

    • @shukritobi91
      @shukritobi91 Рік тому +2

      Happy birthday my guy!

  • @Calida
    @Calida Рік тому +32

    Joe said, "I think we prolong childhood now." I never heard it said like this, but that's totally it 🤯

    • @idrismahmood6532
      @idrismahmood6532 Рік тому

      Yup 200 years ago the term teenager wasn’t even a thing

  • @bethnichols2875
    @bethnichols2875 Рік тому +31

    I agree with Joe. Silent Mike isn't a guest in the sense that you would have to cater to him. He is like family that you can just chill and hang with.

  • @robertbrown5876
    @robertbrown5876 Рік тому +13

    I miss my 20s and 30s. Right now I’m 52 and can’t believe things from the 80s are 40 years ago. So Careful Boys enjoy your 30s and 40s. Oh this is the coolest channel. 🤘🏻

  • @jasin95
    @jasin95 Рік тому +20

    I’m in my late 20s now. I spent a big chunk of my 20s high on hard drugs. I really wish I started building my life up earlier so I could do drugs in my 30s without worrying about money. And also there’s this dread that the older you get, the fewer opportunities you have. But there is Grandma Moses that started painting much later in life and still become successful…you never know how life will go

  • @VQM6
    @VQM6 Рік тому +40

    Ain't even in my thirties yet, but coming out of school and trying to find a career but, getting jobs. Nothing but, disappointments on all fronts.

    • @Mewzyc
      @Mewzyc Рік тому +14

      I was in your situation before. Took me a few years, but you will get there eventually

    • @washingtonaleah3
      @washingtonaleah3 Рік тому +10

      ​@@Mewzyc Thank you. I know you weren't speaking to me, but I needed to hear this.

    • @jw7268
      @jw7268 Рік тому +3

      I entrepreneured till I was 33 before starting my career. Don't beat yourself up keep grinding

  • @petyr8036
    @petyr8036 Рік тому +10

    I'm not someone who usually comments but I feel that its important to share my perspective on where I am in life. I'm 23 and I have realized that it's not a goal of mine to live where I reach the age of 30 to 35. I came to this understanding because I see my current world falling apart and that I am attempting all sorts of things to keep my world together and spinning.
    But at every interval, I feel that my intentions of living a long life is met with less enthusiasm because of a multitude of influences. Whether its financial instability, expectations, or dissonance within my own country. I already accepted that any attempt I make to keeping my world together will eventually fail. With that said, I made a promise to myself that I would make the next 10 to 15ish years count by not buying a house or making a comfortable amount of money (dreams of mine). The universe showed me that my world doesn't include those things and so I have shrunk my world to only myself and my experiences. I'll dedicate those years to live without fear of making it in the rat race and making my moments worth it.
    I hope I don't influence you, my reader in anyway. I wrote this to express the kind of sentiment others may have because of their experiences.
    My goal is to be happy for the years that I planned to have.

  • @rudyhawk
    @rudyhawk Рік тому +3

    I'm 65. I've been watching since Joe & Barts early videos.

  • @Pharaoh_The_Great
    @Pharaoh_The_Great Рік тому +9

    These type of videos should be longer because not everyone get to speak on their own perspective.

  • @connorgoldy7706
    @connorgoldy7706 Рік тому +8

    I love hearing what these guys always have to say. I feel like I always learn so much from them when they talk about their perspective on things bc they are all truly wise. Love you guys and can’t wait to meet y’all one day

  • @striptalkbandit
    @striptalkbandit Рік тому +15

    Yeah I’m 21 right now and it’s so fucked how much I’m stressing about life just because in my head I’m telling myself I should’ve already been out the house , should’ve already had what most have at their 20s right now and Idk wtf I want to do because everyone’s just telling me what to do and not to do and I’m just so stuck in my head about trying to do 10 years in 1 and i can’t….

    • @3DSiscool
      @3DSiscool Рік тому

      Same here. I tell myself everyday and my friends this “It’s one day at a time” Try to do the best you can each day and don’t stress yourself. Being grown sucks

    • @jordanh.5182
      @jordanh.5182 Рік тому +3

      Interesting because I moved out at 17. And looking back I wish I had lived with my grandparents for a few years. Rent is expensive and having family support can be the difference between a down payment on home or not. Take your time and don’t feel bad about living at home. You’re doing fine, it’s all perspective!

  • @geodenton8223
    @geodenton8223 Рік тому +11

    This is the first jk vid I watched after a long break, after being a fan of 8 years, it's nice to see how time has grown them, beautiful to see them succeed and learn

  • @flipmarc69
    @flipmarc69 Рік тому +3

    Late 40s here. My first job I was 14. Graduated college @22yo. I'm 24yrs at my current job. Planning on retiring at 55yo.
    Investing during your 20s is pipe dream. 90% of people in their 20s are more concerned about partying. Wisdom in your youth is a lot less fun. I had loads of fun in my 20s, but I was swimming in debt. LOL!

  • @weweweLit
    @weweweLit Рік тому +16

    dam Bart and Joe dont look like 40 years olds, or maybe I just been watching jk consistently for 11+ years that always seeing them so I dont notice the changes haha 😄

    • @jw7268
      @jw7268 Рік тому

      It's also easier on your body when you don't stress over money. Joe definitely aged after the LUNA run tough 🤣

  • @tinabeee7350
    @tinabeee7350 Рік тому +5

    Ant made a very good point about starting to invest and save in your 20s vs in your 30s.

    • @jw7268
      @jw7268 Рік тому +3

      If you max out your roth IRA alone in your 20s you're pretty much set.

  • @OnThatYTShiii
    @OnThatYTShiii Рік тому +3

    This was a great episode, always appreciate the deep, humble, and insightful thoughts from the guys.

  • @Sweettormentt
    @Sweettormentt Рік тому +4

    Thats insaaaane! To think that bart and joe started JKN when they were in their 20s and theyre gonna be 40 next year !! Time flies, I know theyre getting older and change is part of life. But I really hope they keep JKN going for as long as possible :(

  • @meggymoo3667
    @meggymoo3667 Рік тому +17

    I’m 25 this year, and I feel like I’m 10 years ahead of where I actually am! I’ve moved out of my mums to another country, getting married (mum and aunt never got married).
    And last July I had surgery because I had an infected cyst, so now I have half an ovary on my right side. I’m now trying to build/start a business while waiting for my visa trying to rush ahead more so I can be comfortable to have a kid so I can hopefully have a hysterectomy (I have endometriosis).

  • @Yungdaggerwewe
    @Yungdaggerwewe Рік тому +3

    It’s so crazy cuz in high school I was like “why is everyone still acting like they’re in middle school?” Then leaving high school was more like “why is everyone still acting like they’re in high school” you realize how much ppl don’t want to grow up but I’ve always felt like at 18-20 years old I’ve felt like my mentality is of a 25-27 year old it has its ups n downs ppl need to sometimes take time and just look around at how others carry themselves to se how you want to carry yourself

  • @_Maxten
    @_Maxten Рік тому +3

    Ay man lauryn hill said it best. "How u gon win if u aint right within"
    some people will start the real shit late bc of personal life matters. its a pacing thing but we all will figure it out eventually

  • @TMNT3388
    @TMNT3388 Рік тому +3

    Damn, Bart is getting wise and spitting knowledge. RESPECT!

  • @dlofton123
    @dlofton123 Рік тому +5

    Today is my birthday just turned 24. Im towards the end of my college degree. Looking back to when i started at 17 vs now I can see a huge difference on how I interact with my peers ,professors, and other people. I feel old.

  • @jordanh.5182
    @jordanh.5182 Рік тому +2

    I watch every episode with Silent Mike, one of my favorites on the show.

  • @iLoneWolfy
    @iLoneWolfy Рік тому +2

    Love it when Mikes on. Chill dude

  • @angelac3705
    @angelac3705 Рік тому +1

    Gosh im 43, been watching for 10 years. jknews is part of my daily screen time

  • @simbast9726
    @simbast9726 Рік тому +2

    Bart at 50 will definitely still have no problem standing up immediately after the vid ends

  • @ellomurz
    @ellomurz Рік тому +2

    What a great video! Love this channel!

  • @michaeldavin2009
    @michaeldavin2009 Рік тому

    I'm 48, started a family at 23, been working in a job for 25yrs working 12 hours a day.

  • @MellowX2021
    @MellowX2021 Рік тому

    Thank you for this eps.

  • @FiveSubj3x6
    @FiveSubj3x6 10 місяців тому

    Silent mike is definitely in my top 10 if not then 5... i love seeing SilentMike with the careful boyzzzzzuh!

  • @bjf25-v8w
    @bjf25-v8w Рік тому

    Great conversation with great flow and no interrupting others thoughts

  • @jusoei95
    @jusoei95 Рік тому +3

    Bart could say he just turned 30 n ill believe it

  • @100XPercentX
    @100XPercentX Рік тому +3

    we like u Mike good energy

  • @stimihendrix3404
    @stimihendrix3404 Рік тому +3

    industrialization was about 300 years ago😭😭😭😭modernization was 100 years ago LMAO

  • @XhopebringerX777
    @XhopebringerX777 Рік тому +1

    This is hitting hard 😂 as a 33 year who recently got married.

  • @rodya_malverde
    @rodya_malverde Рік тому +2

    No way Mike is just a guest now lol, he's jknews norcal

  • @MartyD
    @MartyD Рік тому +3

    I’m turning 32 soon and am think like damn I wasted my 20s 😢

  • @88Renji88
    @88Renji88 Рік тому +1

    The thing is. When you become 35+ you are too tired and know people are full of shit. The majority of people are just idiots. And you don't want to deal with them.

  • @tmalonso
    @tmalonso Рік тому +1

    Paraphrasing Sandler’s standup bit from Funny People:
    Teens: “fuck my parents, they don’t understand me, they don’t know shit”
    20’s: “fuck my boss, they’re not qualified, they don’t know shit”
    30’s: “fuck the government, the ones who aren’t incompetent are corrupt and the whole thing is rigged”
    40’s: “I’m hungry…I wonder if there’s something yummy in the pantry?”

  • @joven999
    @joven999 Рік тому +4

    any advice for people in their early 20s?

    • @jw7268
      @jw7268 Рік тому

      Don't settle and explore you got 10 years

    • @GYSMelanie5
      @GYSMelanie5 Рік тому +1

      Invest

  • @ChrisytinaaCoffee
    @ChrisytinaaCoffee Рік тому

    The first thing Bart said though. I’m asleep by 10:30 every night now 😂

  • @finesseryessir5691
    @finesseryessir5691 Рік тому

    been watching y’all since i was 13 i’m turning 22 now time flies

  • @user-tf4tp2qk8c
    @user-tf4tp2qk8c Рік тому

    i just entered my 20's and my bf just entered his 30's, so this was really interesting to see the difference in our generation and where its headed. i dont have any big dreams, so lately ive just been taking it easy and having fun with life until the right opportunity comes to me. but i hope that when i also reach my 30s ill be settled down with a stable career path and at least be overall satisfied with my life :)

  • @GYSMelanie5
    @GYSMelanie5 Рік тому +1

    Silent Mike is definitely a careful boy!

  • @charlieangel9705
    @charlieangel9705 Рік тому

    Dang! What a great topic. Congrats Anthony!

  • @ml219
    @ml219 Рік тому

    As someone, who is in his 40s. You get more frail, as you age. Things hurt more, dont come back as easily, more tired. Biggest thing, in your 40s, Presbyopia. Just happens, as you age...

  • @alany8880
    @alany8880 Рік тому

    If you’re not a Careful Boy, you’re a guest. Except Kaylene, she fills in for Joe. My top 5 - David So, Gina Darling. Jason Cheney, Megan Batoon, & Wong Fu. Special mention - Silent Mike, Sherry Cola, & Gilbert Gallon

  • @goffbrent1923
    @goffbrent1923 Рік тому +1

    The OG is back!

  • @movingforward9555
    @movingforward9555 Рік тому +1

    My knees !!! 😢😅

  • @ODamWTF
    @ODamWTF Рік тому +5

    I wanna slap my 20’s 1000 lifetimes over

    • @Dave_of_Mordor
      @Dave_of_Mordor Рік тому +1

      how are you doing now?

    • @CamberRockerCamber
      @CamberRockerCamber Рік тому

      Same. Made some bad financial decisions that I spent my early 30s fixing. Looking back, I wish I was smarter with my money and time. Still have fun, but be smarter about it.

  • @PLSBminer
    @PLSBminer Рік тому +4

    In your 30s. Yo back and body hurts. Everyday.

  • @RedDenim
    @RedDenim Рік тому

    Realizing what really mattered in my early 20s (family, me, etc) gave me a midlife crisis at like 23 :’) I’ll heal by the time im 30 🥲

  • @bryantabut
    @bryantabut Рік тому

    Nah I low-key wanna hear them do a guests tier list.. lol. Throw it on Patreon and talk shit about all the bad ones 🤣

  • @stellahaynesworth5833
    @stellahaynesworth5833 Рік тому

    Really good conversation 👍, i enjoyed that 🙂

  • @kappa_feel
    @kappa_feel Рік тому

    Mike is cool I like him.

  • @DancingHero-ij3ix
    @DancingHero-ij3ix Рік тому

    dude im 27 now needed this

  • @canadiansport7
    @canadiansport7 Рік тому

    Great opening 😂

  • @JonathanAlexanderM
    @JonathanAlexanderM Рік тому

    Several things about this video. It’s great conversation to be had but I’m grateful to have my own proper association where those topics are regular conversation and I’ve been in that world for about like 2 years now. I’m 23 myself and life is great. Im not floating around and I’m after my goals one of which is to have my first kid by my 31st birthday. But before then I have to make sure the company is healthy and find wifey all according to plan so far (for the most part at least)
    Also also the human species as we know it is about 300k yrs old. Our species is older than that but 270~300k yrs ago is the point in our history where our anatomy is what it is now brain and body wise. Civilization as we know it started at around 4k bce so about 6,000 yrs ago now put things in perspective electricity was first put into homes in 1882 141 yrs ago, the first internet which was only for military and science use was in 1983 39 yrs ago. Things are advancing pretty fact 🫶🏼

  • @mablelinchow
    @mablelinchow Рік тому +3

    Oh shit. Im waaay older than their demographic.

  • @urfather007
    @urfather007 Рік тому

    Great conversation

  • @geezjunior
    @geezjunior Рік тому

    The fact I’m A young Mexican laughing & learning with A Bunch of Asian dinosaurs 👴👴

  • @MrTheRain
    @MrTheRain Рік тому +1

    Joe continues to outline things in my life that I felt but did not act on....

  • @ninchat2435
    @ninchat2435 Рік тому

    The ikea bob is the best hat i've ever seen

  • @333megaice
    @333megaice Рік тому

    Wait, wait, wait Nick just turned 30, so he’s only 4 years older than me 🤯

  • @HIGSOFX
    @HIGSOFX Рік тому +1

    My issue is I don’t have a dream lol. I’m happy with my job now but I don’t really know what to do next😅

    • @LaddRusso91
      @LaddRusso91 Рік тому +1

      Then it's not an issue, I think being happy with what you have is great.

  • @Camronrichard1
    @Camronrichard1 Рік тому

    I think people put to much emphasis on age and not trajectory/path. I’m 21 and have already paid off a car, bought a house, started a family, and in a stable career. I feel like I relate more to 40+ year olds than people my age and even 30

  • @cooglamooskies2091
    @cooglamooskies2091 Рік тому

    what financial advice do ppl in their 30s-40s have for ppl in their 20s?
    what should i look into as far as stocks, retirement ect….

  • @apeshiii
    @apeshiii Рік тому +6

    Cris better be extended family

    • @bethnichols2875
      @bethnichols2875 Рік тому +4

      He has been on a lot and does fit in well with the guys. Edit: He definitely seems more relaxed with the group then when he had been on in the past. Like in the video where they were discussing Geo's got pulled over story till now.

  • @VD82282
    @VD82282 Рік тому

    Jason cheny and Johnny Chang is in the top tier

  • @thecathhuang
    @thecathhuang Рік тому

    We like you Mike!

  • @GYSMelanie5
    @GYSMelanie5 Рік тому +1

    I kinda ruined my life. I mean, I always wanted to be a mom, just not in my teens. So I was a teen mom, and my twenties were all about raising my kids, the 30's were also. Even now, I'm helping to raise my daughter's children. I was a teacher, so I've always had children in my life. So, even if I had dreams, my kids came first. My family comes first before what I want. Ruined sounds bad, I don't mean ruined.

    • @bethnichols2875
      @bethnichols2875 Рік тому +2

      As a woman who was a teen mom as well. Single teen mom at that. I wouldn't say ruined, just that you selflessly redirected your energy. Ruined would be to possibly regret your life and I doubt you regret your children and grandchildren since you speak on how great they are and how much you love them. And for to change one thing in your past, such as when you married, would change the course of your life, who you've met along the way, and who you currently have in your life now.

    • @GYSMelanie5
      @GYSMelanie5 Рік тому +1

      @Beth Nichols yeah I definitely don't regret my children, or I wouldn't have my amazing grandchildren. The regret I think I feel is all the things I didn't do because I thought I had to only be a mom and put my aspirations on the back burner. My mom did that, and my mom's mom did that. So I didn't really know any other way. They are a huge blessing.

    • @bethnichols2875
      @bethnichols2875 Рік тому +1

      @@GYSMelanie5 Well the first step was realizing the issue. The next step would be trying to change the pattern I suppose. So hopefully your children are realizing/following their dreams and aspirations and inturn your grandchildren as they get older.

    • @GYSMelanie5
      @GYSMelanie5 Рік тому +1

      @@bethnichols2875 absolutely my daughter is breaking all generational trauma. She's setting the bar.

    • @GYSMelanie5
      @GYSMelanie5 Рік тому +1

      @Beth Nichols My son is a special case. He's disabled but he's doing life the best way he knows how. He's raising his children amazing.

  • @CuongChanster
    @CuongChanster Рік тому

    Mike's definitely extended family

  • @LostShamen
    @LostShamen Рік тому

    It’s different now because AI is pretty much going to take over everything in the next few years

  • @LaddRusso91
    @LaddRusso91 Рік тому

    My favourite guests are the ones that feel like they are a part of the crew.

  • @LucyLuRodarte
    @LucyLuRodarte Рік тому

    Bart & Joe is 1 year older than me.😮
    This is the year I will 38

  • @thechosenone-it5uh
    @thechosenone-it5uh Рік тому

    I really enjoy playing call of duty with Ryan. Let’s do it again sometime

  • @808BAMFasian
    @808BAMFasian Рік тому

    Im 25 and just started nursing school. I feel like I’m so behind on life. Everyone around me my age is getting married and having kids while my girl has been waiting for 5 years. I need to hurry it up.

    • @kaz9687
      @kaz9687 Рік тому +3

      You really don't need to hurry at all. I'm 25 as well and went to welding school at 24. Granted, I graduated about 10 months later and I recently landed a decent job. Only now I feel like I gained some traction. But also, I'm actually really glad I decided to take my time and figure things out like choosing a stable career and avoiding massive amounts of debt. If I started making rash moves in my late teens/early 20's, I'd definitely be in a rough spot.

    • @808BAMFasian
      @808BAMFasian Рік тому

      @@kaz9687 I think I’m saying I need to hurry it up because I’ve been with my gf for 5 years and haven’t proposed yet.

  • @dariushlarijani8083
    @dariushlarijani8083 Рік тому

    Pride goes before the fall.

  • @donnguyen2517
    @donnguyen2517 Рік тому

    I'm the same age as bart and joe so I feel that 40 coming 😬

  • @dare_he_is
    @dare_he_is Рік тому

    How do you start a business? I want to know what Bart has to say

  • @kaleopodcasts3370
    @kaleopodcasts3370 Рік тому

    Yeeeeeeeeee

  • @GYSMelanie5
    @GYSMelanie5 Рік тому +4

    I probably could have still fulfilled dreams, but I was just so young I automatically went into mommy mode. Got married at 21, no business getting married that young.

    • @thomaschristopherwhite9043
      @thomaschristopherwhite9043 Рік тому

      My parents did the same and now I have to pick up the pieces. Not saying that that'll happen to your kids, my parents messed up big time. I don't even know where my mom is and my dad croaked when I was 18. Because my parents didn't plan out their lives I have to be super careful about what my next moves are because of that because being in your early 30's the safety net gets smaller and smaller every year.

    • @GYSMelanie5
      @GYSMelanie5 Рік тому

      @Thomas Christopher White I'm sorry you have to go through that. My kids are in their early 30's now and are doing good. Even when their father left, I picked up the pieces. That's one thing I'm proud of. I am a good mom.

  • @BritheKop
    @BritheKop Рік тому

    13:39 😂

  • @joy844
    @joy844 Рік тому

    I thought Joe and Bart were in their 40s lol

  • @yusufgetsit
    @yusufgetsit Рік тому

    You definitely find more about yourself in your 30's

  • @visionarystyle_
    @visionarystyle_ Рік тому

    31 this year and still lost as ever

  • @angeldemonjuice
    @angeldemonjuice Рік тому

    I’m 25 🎉

  • @EdisonChau
    @EdisonChau Рік тому +6

    hi Silent mike

  • @rosyhoman1185
    @rosyhoman1185 Рік тому

    Mike said 23 in a couple of stories..

  • @iscratchmybutt
    @iscratchmybutt Рік тому +3

    in my 20s i lived by a motto that i made up: live like you will die the day you turn 30. so towards the end of my 20s i took risks, started a business, lived abroad because i wanted to, spent time with my mom and looked at her like i was not going to see her again.
    from 30 to now at 34, i have been more calculated with what i spend my time on. the goal now is to hit concrete numbers but only tackle things with asymmetric upside

  • @Z-Ack
    @Z-Ack Рік тому +2

    Difference between 20’s and 30’s.. just more depressing, less friends, less family and more problems..

  • @CuongChanster
    @CuongChanster Рік тому

    You have to write checks and send it in by mail to pay your bills. Lick stamps

  • @kookamanga
    @kookamanga Рік тому

    I'm 34 and a degen.

  • @maltheri9833
    @maltheri9833 Рік тому +2

    Truly first.

  • @evanom117
    @evanom117 Рік тому

    Anthony I am one of the few lucky ones that has had the opportunity to invest from a young age. I have been investing since the day I turned 18, only 23 now and know I got a long way to go. Luckily my dad taught me well at a young age. Compound interest truly is the 8th wonder if the world.

  • @lerrojcv3987
    @lerrojcv3987 Рік тому

    🤣😂😂😂🤣😅😅

  • @mvthemostvaluable3972
    @mvthemostvaluable3972 Рік тому

    Wtf I never knew they had Theo Von on here lmaooo

    • @bethnichols2875
      @bethnichols2875 Рік тому

      Off The Record: Theo Goes to Asia And It's... Different? ft. Theo Von & DavidSoComedy From 4 yrs ago. They actually have a whole playlist of his episodes on JK.