My relaxed hair journey | How to grow long, healthy hair - products + tips

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  • Опубліковано 25 січ 2025

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  • @boipelo_k
    @boipelo_k 2 роки тому +14

    I definitely have started taking better care of my natural hair because of you 🤞🏽and I’m definitely loving how it looks ❤️

    • @PalesaM1
      @PalesaM1  2 роки тому +3

      This is why I do what I do. Thank you Boipelo ❤️

  • @Nayyknights
    @Nayyknights 2 роки тому +15

    Girl I don’t even deep condition. Please you’re educating me and in the next two months I’m gonna take your tips and document it 🤞🏼

    • @PalesaM1
      @PalesaM1  2 роки тому +3

      Start! Deep conditioning is a game changer

  • @nosihlesimelane
    @nosihlesimelane 2 роки тому +7

    I’m so glad you included the Organics shampoo and conditioner 😩 and the ORS moisturiser/lotion. Smells good too!

    • @PalesaM1
      @PalesaM1  2 роки тому +1

      Love them! Those are staples in my routine

  • @asandankume7865
    @asandankume7865 2 роки тому +3

    Yoh I've been waiting for this, Thank you and Happy Birthday Mama💗

    • @PalesaM1
      @PalesaM1  2 роки тому

      You ask, I deliver 😉
      Thank you so much my love🥰❤️

  • @Phesi_nails
    @Phesi_nails 2 роки тому +3

    Recently started taking care of my hair, and i must say, your videos have been very helpful. Thank you

    • @PalesaM1
      @PalesaM1  2 роки тому

      I’m so happy to hear that ❤️

  • @kimmy2684
    @kimmy2684 2 роки тому +2

    I’m taking notes sis 🙌🙌 you’ve taught me so much about how to care for my hair & it’s flourishing 💕💕

    • @PalesaM1
      @PalesaM1  2 роки тому +1

      I love this type of feedback. Ima o happy to hear that 🥰❤️

  • @_Blissfully
    @_Blissfully 2 роки тому +8

    Taking notes 📝 thanks for the tips. Trimming is a sure way to think healthy length because split ends really damage hair

    • @PalesaM1
      @PalesaM1  2 роки тому

      They do! I’m all for healthy hair over long, thin split ends. It will grow back fuller after a trim

  • @busisiweab9123
    @busisiweab9123 2 роки тому +1

    True besides products, GENETIC counts and your natural hair is rich yhooo👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

    • @PalesaM1
      @PalesaM1  2 роки тому

      🥰🥰 thank you Busi 💕

  • @nokulungaluhdolmdletshe9254
    @nokulungaluhdolmdletshe9254 2 роки тому +1

    This video has motivated me to take care of my hair again. I have been so busy and am even thinking of cutting it. It is now uneven

    • @PalesaM1
      @PalesaM1  2 роки тому

      Make a simple routine that you can stick to even on those busy days 😉
      Thank you so much for watching ❤️

  • @0tismadaline
    @0tismadaline 2 роки тому +2

    Beautiful hair goals and great tips shared dear🤗🤗❤️conrows are also great protective style

    • @PalesaM1
      @PalesaM1  2 роки тому +1

      I love cornrows. Simple and quick. Thank you so much ❤️

  • @nomagugu1174
    @nomagugu1174 2 роки тому +1

    That 10k is within reach. Bona ♥️ 🔥

    • @PalesaM1
      @PalesaM1  2 роки тому +1

      6 subscribers to go 💃🏽💃🏽💃🏽

  • @palesamabula1555
    @palesamabula1555 2 роки тому +2

    Happy birthday to you Pali🎉🎊🎂❤️

    • @PalesaM1
      @PalesaM1  2 роки тому

      Thank you Pali 🥰❤️💕

  • @ivychilomba4734
    @ivychilomba4734 2 роки тому +1

    Thanks for the great tips Queen, nice video there!

    • @PalesaM1
      @PalesaM1  2 роки тому +1

      Thank you Ivy❤️❤️

  • @gracesenwelo2535
    @gracesenwelo2535 2 роки тому +3

    Thanks ausi 😍, you have very beautiful hair I must say ❤️

    • @PalesaM1
      @PalesaM1  2 роки тому

      Thank you Grace 🥰

  • @boipelo_k
    @boipelo_k 2 роки тому +2

    Yazzz I used to love using coconut oil ❤️❤️ then it suddenly started failing me 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭but definitely wanna try the avocado mask

    • @PalesaM1
      @PalesaM1  2 роки тому +2

      Could be because of the protein. You can add it to your deep conditioner rather than applying it directly to your hair.
      Love the avocado mask so much

  • @MyFabFlat
    @MyFabFlat 2 роки тому +1

    🥰🥰 Bella Armani can take all my coins! I can’t wait!

    • @PalesaM1
      @PalesaM1  2 роки тому

      🙈🙈
      Okay, I’m ready now.

  • @Bukhosini274
    @Bukhosini274 2 роки тому +3

    This vlog is soo insightful. Thank you

    • @PalesaM1
      @PalesaM1  2 роки тому

      Thank you for watching 🥰❤️

  • @peo.monageng._
    @peo.monageng._ 2 роки тому +2

    Happy Birthday to you mama❤️🥳🥳

    • @PalesaM1
      @PalesaM1  2 роки тому

      Thank you so much. I had a wonderful day 🥰❤️

  • @michelochimbwete988
    @michelochimbwete988 2 роки тому +1

    Nice content dear,I want to find out how often do you trim your hair

    • @PalesaM1
      @PalesaM1  2 роки тому +1

      At every relaxer day. Which is twice a year for me

  • @amandangubane3713
    @amandangubane3713 Рік тому

    this was so informative 🤍
    do you sell the oil and spray you make or have you done a video explaining what’s in them?

    • @PalesaM1
      @PalesaM1  Рік тому

      Thank you so much for watching Amanda💕
      I sell the oil

  • @esthertibane2728
    @esthertibane2728 2 роки тому

    Thank you soo much for the tips🙏🏽🙏🏽Definitely going to try deep conditioning
    I thought the heat protective spray was for wigs only

    • @PalesaM1
      @PalesaM1  2 роки тому +1

      Thank you so much for watching🤍🙏🏽
      I also used to think so🤣 I’m so happy I can share my journey but also help others.

    • @esthertibane2728
      @esthertibane2728 2 роки тому

      @@PalesaM1 🙏🏽🙏🏽❤

  • @chrism7348
    @chrism7348 2 роки тому +3

    Can u give me some advice on under processed hair...I relaxed my hair but it is under processed when can I do another relaxer

    • @PalesaM1
      @PalesaM1  2 роки тому +2

      You need to get a corrective relaxer. Preferably in salon, so they can relax your hair again and fix the underprocessing.

    • @chrism7348
      @chrism7348 2 роки тому

      @@PalesaM1 thank you

  • @Mayekiso_Athini
    @Mayekiso_Athini 2 роки тому +1

    Love it, it’s just nice and simple ❤️
    Thank you for sharing Sis💕🌸

    • @PalesaM1
      @PalesaM1  2 роки тому +1

      Thank you so much for watching 🥰❤️

  • @tarshaneilly518
    @tarshaneilly518 Рік тому

    I just feel like it was a sign from above to follow you❤

  • @Gomodelic
    @Gomodelic 2 роки тому +1

    Happy Birthday Aus’ Pale 🕺🕺🕺🕺

    • @PalesaM1
      @PalesaM1  2 роки тому

      Thank you Gomo 🥰❤️

  • @amaechirosemary7001
    @amaechirosemary7001 2 роки тому +2

    I got the masodi leave in
    It didn’t work for me too
    I am in search of a protien free deep conditioner and leave in conditioner

    • @PalesaM1
      @PalesaM1  2 роки тому +1

      Please let me know if you find one. The popular ones are American brands that aren’t available in SA

    • @amaechirosemary7001
      @amaechirosemary7001 2 роки тому

      @@PalesaM1
      Yeas sure I will

  • @nosihlesimelane
    @nosihlesimelane 2 роки тому +1

    Please can you review the new Dark n Lovely anti breakage treatment

    • @PalesaM1
      @PalesaM1  2 роки тому +1

      Eish, 😅
      I don’t really like dark and lovely products because of the ingredients but I’ll consider doing the review for you guys.

  • @roselinemase
    @roselinemase 2 роки тому +1

    Good hair tips👍 please do you have any tips for preventing hair breakage (at the back of the hair) of baby girls. I use native child kids products for my daughter.

    • @PalesaM1
      @PalesaM1  2 роки тому +1

      Moisturise the hair at the nape. Get her a satin bonnet or pillow to help combat friction. Make deep conditioning a staple part of your routine.
      I hope this helps💕

    • @roselinemase
      @roselinemase 2 роки тому

      @@PalesaM1 Thanks for the tips.

  • @yolisapoto7695
    @yolisapoto7695 2 роки тому +1

    Hey,
    Absolutely love your hair!!
    Mine has been shedding and I’ve recently started using the Originals Hair Mayonnaise. I o have thick hair, which if product combo would you recommend?

    • @PalesaM1
      @PalesaM1  2 роки тому

      Your hair may be protein sensitive. Your hair could be shedding due to a protein overload.
      Try to find a balance. Use the mayonnaise once a month and then find a moisture based deep conditioner to use on your other wash days.

    • @yolisapoto7695
      @yolisapoto7695 2 роки тому

      @@PalesaM1 ​ thanks, I think you might be right. I’ll try the deep conditioner by Aunt Jackie’s or the other ones mentioned in your video that aren’t as protein strong as the ORS conditioner.

    • @PalesaM1
      @PalesaM1  2 роки тому

      ❤️

  • @zanellefreeks
    @zanellefreeks 2 роки тому +1

    Girl, what relaxer brand are you using or recommend?

    • @PalesaM1
      @PalesaM1  2 роки тому +2

      I have used the ORS relaxer but switched to mizani butter blends last year

  • @Noni0512
    @Noni0512 2 роки тому

    Really enjoyed this video ❤. Can we please see progress pics (from the beginning of your hair journey up to now)

    • @PalesaM1
      @PalesaM1  2 роки тому +1

      😅 I started as a child. I only started documenting my journey recently but I’ll see if I can’t put together something. 🤍
      Thank you so much for watching

  • @Nayyknights
    @Nayyknights 2 роки тому +1

    My other issue is if I plait my hair and I keep spraying, I get dandruff quickly tsii

    • @PalesaM1
      @PalesaM1  2 роки тому

      What are you spraying with?

  • @Nayyknights
    @Nayyknights 2 роки тому +1

    All of the things that your hair loves and doesn’t like, ndim moes!

    • @PalesaM1
      @PalesaM1  2 роки тому

      It’s very important to learn what your hair loves and hates. That way you can stick to the products that do work for you 😉

  • @sandraphongo5976
    @sandraphongo5976 2 роки тому +1

    Nice and simple

    • @PalesaM1
      @PalesaM1  2 роки тому

      Thank you Sandra💕

  • @siphe
    @siphe 2 роки тому +1

    Great video!

  • @vanessawhetstone4251
    @vanessawhetstone4251 2 роки тому +4

    Girl I've been perming my hair since I was a teenager and my hair has been down my back forever and that's just the reality of what it is. 🥴
    Probably because I take care of it

    • @PalesaM1
      @PalesaM1  2 роки тому +1

      That’s right. If you take care of your hair it will grow. Simple as that

    • @estherekeh5509
      @estherekeh5509 2 роки тому

      Please tell me what you do? I need help

    • @vanessawhetstone4251
      @vanessawhetstone4251 2 роки тому

      @@estherekeh5509 You need a hair care routine that works for you but deep conditioning is a must every time you wash your hair. Protein treatments are a must but don't over protein your hair it makes your hair stiff which cause breakage, do moisture treatments regularly and seal it in with a oil.

  • @panaso_m
    @panaso_m 2 роки тому +1

    Yoh... I've been wanting to relax my hair and I'm so scared that I'll loose volume

    • @PalesaM1
      @PalesaM1  2 роки тому +1

      Stretching my relaxers has helped my hair grow thick. Relaxing my hair frequently has it looking thin and lifeless

  • @Lesa96
    @Lesa96 2 роки тому

    Hey can you please make a video on co-washing

    • @PalesaM1
      @PalesaM1  2 роки тому

      Hi, I will definitely schedule one 😉

  • @mammaleah5401
    @mammaleah5401 2 роки тому +1

    Have a blessed birthday 🎁🎁 girl

    • @PalesaM1
      @PalesaM1  2 роки тому

      Thank you so much. I had a wonderful day 🥰💕

  • @nkekorahlogo1218
    @nkekorahlogo1218 2 роки тому +1

    Happy birthday aswell

    • @PalesaM1
      @PalesaM1  2 роки тому

      Kea leboga Nkeko❤️❤️

  • @pamelalerato8803
    @pamelalerato8803 2 роки тому +2

    "please don't come for me, I app... I apologize in advance" 😂🤣🤣😂😂
    Hi Pali, we love your hair journey my sisters and I 💕💞
    You're doing well lady 🌺

    • @PalesaM1
      @PalesaM1  2 роки тому +1

      🤣😂 you guys tend to come for me when I mention the oil.
      Thank you so much for the support 🥰🥰🥰❤️

  • @peo.monageng._
    @peo.monageng._ 2 роки тому +1

    ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
    #OldieButAGoldie

    • @PalesaM1
      @PalesaM1  2 роки тому

      Part of the family now Peo 🥰❤️

  • @Nayyknights
    @Nayyknights 2 роки тому +1

    My biggest flop is not being able to maintain my relaxed hair. That’s why I even lost my hairline mxm

    • @PalesaM1
      @PalesaM1  2 роки тому +1

      Consistency is key. Make a simple routine and stick to it

  • @stellahndlovu3112
    @stellahndlovu3112 2 роки тому +1

    Hey Palesa.

    • @PalesaM1
      @PalesaM1  2 роки тому

      Hey Stella 👋🏽

  • @bongiweqilishane4379
    @bongiweqilishane4379 2 роки тому

    I unfortunately don't have the best genetics on both side of my family 😕 😞

    • @PalesaM1
      @PalesaM1  2 роки тому +1

      Genetics do play a part but a good routine can go a long way. It’s not impossible

  • @boipelo_k
    @boipelo_k 2 роки тому +4

    Yazzz you apologise a lot but you not giving us what we want 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 we NEED THE OIL 😭🙏🏽

    • @PalesaM1
      @PalesaM1  2 роки тому

      🤣😂🤣
      This time I’m not getting attacked. I’m going to deliver I promise

  • @busisiweab9123
    @busisiweab9123 2 роки тому +1

    ❤️❤️❤️🛎🛎🛎

  • @nkekorahlogo1218
    @nkekorahlogo1218 2 роки тому +1

    My pick me up thank u sooo much

    • @PalesaM1
      @PalesaM1  2 роки тому

      Hey my favorite 🥰🥰

  • @relebohilemalepe
    @relebohilemalepe 2 роки тому +1

    ♥️

  • @GoddessLifestyleTV
    @GoddessLifestyleTV Рік тому

    It’s sad that you had to say please don’t come for me as a disclaimer in the beginning out of fear of being bullied about perming your hair 😢😢

    • @PalesaM1
      @PalesaM1  Рік тому +1

      People are weird out here. But I also said that because I am not an expert, what I share is what works for me personally

  • @zamajokomakhoba90
    @zamajokomakhoba90 2 роки тому

    So how do we buy the Bella Amani hair oil? Checked it out on IG there no site

    • @PalesaM1
      @PalesaM1  2 роки тому

      It’s not ready yet