He stalked his wife, he psychologically tortured his wife, he threatened his wife by slashing her tires, he cheated on his wife, he violated his wife’s privacy, and yet that wasn’t enough for him. He also set out to completely destroy her by publicly smearing her good name and reputation. He might not have pulled the trigger, but he is responsible for her death. He ruined her life. That terrible man should never preach another sermon. May you now rest in peace, dear Mica. You deserved better.
When people beg the question about other abuse victims who never documented the abuse, why didn't they take photos, or candidly record their abuse, this is why. Imagine the level of retaliation if a sociopathic, borderline psychopathic, personality found incriminating evidence against them in their spouse's phone. Someone may say, well why didn't the victim ever call the police? They are often scared of retaliation, plain and simple. I managed to escape before things got to that point with my abuser, who created a case that assassinated my character in court, and I had no documentation showing the things he did to me. I hope this video puts things into perspective for those lucky enough to not know what it's like to attempt to escape abuse
Watching her speak on searching thru scriptures about divorce, she seemed like a God fearing woman, wanting to do the right thing. As children of God, suicide is not an option. She was fearful of her husband. Did she purchase that gun for protection? Was she perhaps overpowered? Prayers for her family from South Africa. The truth will come to light. ❤
How do these people sit in the auditorium and not walk out? Why do they keep going back? This isn’t healthy, all of the red flags, this should never be church Narcissists need fuel - he’s right in the opening sentence “y’all are just giving me fuel to my fire” he needs the fuel and the congregation is telling him his behaviors are ok and they grow more bold Mica was living a tortured life and all she went through is normal in narcissistic sociopath abuse relationships when you’re ready to leave and they lose control.
They aren’t. He’s been texting and got caught saying they are loosing 1,000.00’s of dollars a week. The ship is going down. How is a just and honest God.
As a Christian minister, this man disgusts me and should have been permanently removed from ministry a decade plus ago. So sad to see how many ppl have been abused by him, and how he’s used his power and position for personal gain and sexual abuse (among other abuses).
😢😡This is generally what happens to abuse victims and their church leaders and flock of sheep encourage victims to return to their abusers, Use gaslighting. They empower and enable these very dangerous abusers. Often abusers themselves. Recommended reading of protective mother, Corals, book as she endured the exact same by churches who supported her abusive husband. BONSHEA Making Light of the Dark by Coral Anika Theill
No he’s not.. that’s not even really up for debate anymore… it’s a confirmed ending one’s own life, she literally called 911 in the park stating she wanted them to track her location so her family could find her body
@@christoph1596he is to! Dude cheated,lied, whored, deceived! Dude is a narcissist and should step down because that demon could bleeds over others! He's sick! I hope and pray every person in that fellowship leaves! He may be building missions for people who don't know him and that's what they do try to coax outsiders how nice they are but reality narcissists are vile as hell to those closest to them!
Shame on that church. All the leaders should have fired him way before this. He shouldn’t have ever been allowed to be on stage preaching and in leadership of any kind. He was divorced, going thru another and seeing another woman while still married. Are there no moral standards for pastors anymore? Just a free for all? C’mon. It’s disgusting and they’re complicit in what happened.
I’m from Robeson County and they ain’t never went into details like that about a death. Nope I don’t think they don’t believe she did it and I don’t believe it either. That man is definitely guilty. Why say in the interview that he didn’t know why she would want to hurt herself ummm why not tell about ur affairs????
He did that for anyone that still maybe thought it was a parable or a story, which, it WAS, but he wanted to come off as noble and a victim- he was sabotaging Mica- HE was the cheater- not her, she never even got time with her sisters, she def didn’t get male friends
@@julibear2329 He has a son born in 1997. Mica was born in 1994. She was only three years older than this step son. He has four children with his wife from 2000. Mica became a step mother in 2017.
Oh an when he had her admitted, all he did was “use” Jesus in the situation and not a good way either. All he probably said was I’m a pastor…… I pray that God has mercy on ur soul because Ik ur probably reading all these comments. You sir are what we call FALSE DOCTORING and you better worry more about Jesus getting you than the laws cause I’m pretty sure they both will get you. The congregation should’ve got up and walked out on him smh
Why would anyone call 911 to announce their departure? What a selfish act. Not thinking about the mess you left behind . Not to mention the nightmares for the operator. All this is wrong
He just stood on stage and spoke about hiring a third party- in his story he pretended to be noble and tell the story as if it wasn’t him, knowing people would suspect it was him- it’s a win win, he gets to smear his wife, without looking like he’s the creep he is
He’s speaking about himself. No pastor ever called him. Mica was seeing a guy in the church. Briefly, but I don’t blame her. She was looking for any way out. I would be the same.
Well done, I will say again, He is responsible by making her life a living hell. From experience, everything she said he did to her, he did. This is disheartening, that she lost all hope. Our only hope is in Jesus Christ, not a man. We all must be born again of water and SPIRIT to enter the kingdom. It's imperative to be filled with Gods Spirit, our seal. This is where our strength comes from. No matter how weak we are, we are still strong in Him. His POWER supercedes all. She REVEALED exactly who He was. I wouldn't let him pray over my dog. Run church building people run! So many are under the influence of evil, following these fake nefarious dog pastors right to hell. PRIDE will be the demise of many.
He stalked his wife, he psychologically tortured his wife, he threatened his wife by slashing her tires, he cheated on his wife, he violated his wife’s privacy, and yet that wasn’t enough for him. He also set out to completely destroy her by publicly smearing her good name and reputation. He might not have pulled the trigger, but he is responsible for her death. He ruined her life. That terrible man should never preach another sermon. May you now rest in peace, dear Mica. You deserved better.
And SA her 😢
Using God’s words as a weapon is crazy
He treats his congregation as his therapist
Imagine this pastor leading the flock 🫣 God have mercy!
When people beg the question about other abuse victims who never documented the abuse, why didn't they take photos, or candidly record their abuse, this is why. Imagine the level of retaliation if a sociopathic, borderline psychopathic, personality found incriminating evidence against them in their spouse's phone. Someone may say, well why didn't the victim ever call the police? They are often scared of retaliation, plain and simple. I managed to escape before things got to that point with my abuser, who created a case that assassinated my character in court, and I had no documentation showing the things he did to me. I hope this video puts things into perspective for those lucky enough to not know what it's like to attempt to escape abuse
Glad you made it out safe ❤❤
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All that, and the fact that the evidence isn’t as helpful as you might think
What pastor talks about "his enemies" or his wife's text messages? Sicko
Totally. He really has disgusted me
wow, he has a lot of issues. His sermons are like a soap opera
Watching her speak on searching thru scriptures about divorce, she seemed like a God fearing woman, wanting to do the right thing. As children of God, suicide is not an option. She was fearful of her husband. Did she purchase that gun for protection? Was she perhaps overpowered? Prayers for her family from South Africa. The truth will come to light. ❤
Narcissists do good things for outsiders but mean as hell to those closest to them. Been there seen that 🤮🤮🤮
Why is he discussing not only his personal business but another pastors business in the church? He’s horrible.
There was no other Pastor. He's telling untruths implying Mica left with another pator to plant distrust in the minds of his followers.
This is why as Christians you can put your trust in man. Only God is pure.
I think you mean "can't, " and yes. 👍
It was about their marriage.
How do these people sit in the auditorium and not walk out? Why do they keep going back? This isn’t healthy, all of the red flags, this should never be church
Narcissists need fuel - he’s right in the opening sentence “y’all are just giving me fuel to my fire” he needs the fuel and the congregation is telling him his behaviors are ok and they grow
more bold
Mica was living a tortured life and all she went through is normal in narcissistic sociopath abuse relationships when you’re ready to leave and they lose control.
They aren’t. He’s been texting and got caught saying they are loosing 1,000.00’s of dollars a week.
The ship is going down.
How is a just and honest God.
As a Christian minister, this man disgusts me and should have been permanently removed from ministry a decade plus ago. So sad to see how many ppl have been abused by him, and how he’s used his power and position for personal gain and sexual abuse (among other abuses).
This is similar to Catherine Kassenoff story. Verbal abuse is just as real as physical abuse and needs to be discussed more.
Yes! You're right. So sad😢
Just looked her up, so similar!!!
How can they just sit there and listen to that garbage. Narcissist leading the church.
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The saddest part of this is that the church that was supposed to be safe nest for her turned their back on her and supported him.
😢😡This is generally what happens to abuse victims and their church leaders and flock of sheep encourage victims to return to their abusers, Use gaslighting. They empower and enable these very dangerous abusers. Often abusers themselves.
Recommended reading of protective mother,
Corals, book as she endured the exact same by churches who supported her abusive husband.
BONSHEA Making Light of the Dark by Coral Anika Theill
You can see she had such a beautiful soul, I worry the most about their kids. It's just so sad.
This is copy and paste of narcissist behavior
A few mins into this you can tell her husbands guilty asf. Smh
No he’s not.. that’s not even really up for debate anymore… it’s a confirmed ending one’s own life, she literally called 911 in the park stating she wanted them to track her location so her family could find her body
@@christoph1596he is to! Dude cheated,lied, whored, deceived! Dude is a narcissist and should step down because that demon could bleeds over others! He's sick! I hope and pray every person in that fellowship leaves! He may be building missions for people who don't know him and that's what they do try to coax outsiders how nice they are but reality narcissists are vile as hell to those closest to them!
Shame on that church. All the leaders should have fired him way before this. He shouldn’t have ever been allowed to be on stage preaching and in leadership of any kind. He was divorced, going thru another and seeing another woman while still married. Are there no moral standards for pastors anymore? Just a free for all? C’mon. It’s disgusting and they’re complicit in what happened.
So sad 😞
I’m from Robeson County and they ain’t never went into details like that about a death. Nope I don’t think they don’t believe she did it and I don’t believe it either. That man is definitely guilty. Why say in the interview that he didn’t know why she would want to hurt herself ummm why not tell about ur affairs????
The abuser always leaves the threat in your head of you may get away today but I'll find you tomorrow.
As a wife of a quadriplegic, why was the husband at the pool by himself??? That bothers me so much. Maybe another forced unaliving?
So sad 💔💔💔😭😭😭
What a narcissist. How did anyone believe this guy was a child of God?
Wow my heart goes out to her, and her children.
Not only did he officiate his funeral, he was the one who was meeting him to play chess on that fateful day!
He put a story in those people's minds.
He was talking about himself. He slipped up and said I. 6:10
Yup!! Most definitely talking about himself
He did that for anyone that still maybe thought it was a parable or a story, which, it WAS, but he wanted to come off as noble and a victim- he was sabotaging Mica- HE was the cheater- not her, she never even got time with her sisters, she def didn’t get male friends
So many questions with this....like: he has 5 kids and none of them were with Mica. Where's the ex-wife?
4 children with his first wife. And a son recently charged with DV.
Where's the first wife
@@SamStone1964 oh, I read a report saying that Mica was stepmom to 5 kids
@@julibear2329
He has a son born in 1997. Mica was born in 1994. She was only three years older than this step son. He has four children with his wife from 2000. Mica became a step mother in 2017.
Dude, can you just talk normally? Stop trying to sound like an investigative journalist on TV.
Here you are on HIS channel complaining lmao clink off silly
The only thing is… if it was her on the 911 call she should’ve said my husband is about to kill me!
Oh an when he had her admitted, all he did was “use” Jesus in the situation and not a good way either. All he probably said was I’m a pastor…… I pray that God has mercy on ur soul because Ik ur probably reading all these comments. You sir are what we call FALSE DOCTORING and you better worry more about Jesus getting you than the laws cause I’m pretty sure they both will get you. The congregation should’ve got up and walked out on him smh
Why would anyone call 911 to announce their departure?
What a selfish act.
Not thinking about the mess you left behind .
Not to mention the nightmares for the operator.
All this is wrong
911 operators hear much worse every day, they’ll be fine
She didn’t - wake up
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just cuz he wasnt there doesnt mean he didnt hire someone hes shown hes not above hiring third parties
He just stood on stage and spoke about hiring a third party- in his story he pretended to be noble and tell the story as if it wasn’t him, knowing people would suspect it was him- it’s a win win, he gets to smear his wife, without looking like he’s the creep he is
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He’s speaking about himself. No pastor ever called him. Mica was seeing a guy in the church. Briefly, but I don’t blame her. She was looking for any way out.
I would be the same.
Well done, I will say again, He is responsible by making her life a living hell. From experience, everything she said he did to her, he did.
This is disheartening, that she lost all hope.
Our only hope is in Jesus Christ, not a man.
We all must be born again of water and SPIRIT to enter the kingdom. It's imperative to be filled with Gods Spirit, our seal. This is where our strength comes from. No matter how weak we are, we are still strong in Him.
His POWER supercedes all.
She REVEALED exactly who He was.
I wouldn't let him pray over my dog. Run church building people run!
So many are under the influence of evil, following these fake nefarious dog pastors right to hell.
PRIDE will be the demise of many.
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JP is the mentally ill one… not Mica…
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