6 Red Flags to look for in a match before getting married | Marriage decision

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  • @supersayaaain
    @supersayaaain 23 дні тому +19

    Guys don't take Red Flag , pls take Red Pill😂😂

    • @avinashkumar4705
      @avinashkumar4705 22 дні тому +1

      Ultimate

    • @omgplaces6437
      @omgplaces6437 21 день тому

      Yup.. with whole gender biased laws and zero accountability in Maximum of women..

  • @nammi895
    @nammi895 19 днів тому +1

    5:30 Ma'am 10-15lpa kamane wali ladkia kabhi 20lpa se shadi nahi karegi
    Let me tell you my story, earning 30+lpa in IT sector & mostly I'm getting responses from girls earning 5-10 lpa. Those earning more than 15lpa usually looks for NRIs or established businessman.
    I got rejected by girls earning similar to me like 25+lpa
    & even for girls earning in 15-20lpa they will not call you, it's like you have to follow up with them every time. Same is case with my others friends earning similar.
    Simple rule for guys in arranged marriage is you'll be getting a girl earning 1/3 of yours

    • @AnonymousCitizen7
      @AnonymousCitizen7 12 днів тому

      Don't marry bro
      Please
      It's not a game for good income men
      Do u know after divorce based on ur salary u will have to pay around 5 crores as alimony
      Can u afford it brother?

  • @drx.abhaysoni
    @drx.abhaysoni 22 дні тому +5

    A life partner should be like this: understanding, intelligent, one who takes everyone along and takes both the families along, one who stands together in every situation, happiness and sorrow, both should be loyal alawys all these points should be there, "Mandeep you are also right, you always say rights."
    पति पत्नी हो संग ऐसे शिव संग पार्वती संग जैसे।

  • @pranavchoudhary4164
    @pranavchoudhary4164 23 дні тому +5

    Inn tamam red flags ko dekhne ke bawajood bhi maine kaii cases dekhe hain shaadi naa chalne ke. I have personally seen such cases, Mandeep, that both boy and girl are smart enough to change themselves for meanwhile. Afterwards, the actual face gets revealed. The marriage comes to an end.

    • @irshikha
      @irshikha 22 дні тому +2

      Indeed! Always check how people take your No. And, how they show empathy and do something about anything.
      Toxic people lack empathy and can't take anyone's No. They'll want you to change your opinion despite telling them your decision, multiple times.
      Moreover, how the person energy feels... Do they bring our the best in you or the worst? Do they make you doubt yourself all the time? Are they too clingy, etc.

    • @YourLifeMatters15
      @YourLifeMatters15  22 дні тому +2

      ​@@irshikhaVery well put.
      Always follow your instinct, ignore logics and explanations.

  • @Sanatani_DSG
    @Sanatani_DSG 21 день тому +4

    Shaadi me Virginity kitna matter karta hai....ek virgin boy/girl ko kisi non virgin girl/boy se shaadi karni chahiye??

  • @swot2535
    @swot2535 19 днів тому +1

    I am lucky that i got this knowledge from you as i am unmarried and will apply before getting married in future if i get my soul partner. Thanks for sharing information

    • @YourLifeMatters15
      @YourLifeMatters15  17 днів тому

      You are most welcome! May you find a partner who truly resonates with your soul.

  • @subratkumarpradhan2218
    @subratkumarpradhan2218 23 дні тому +8

    Facts been shared in the video. But after seeing Atul's case , lots of my friends including me are thinking trusting someone's words and bringing her into our lives and making her a priority and later ending up in the jail is not worth it.
    And one particular point which you've mentioned that the person needs to talk, but right now my cousin is looking for a bride to get married, and from his experience till now , I can most of the girls are not willing to talk and share the things that really needed to be shared before getting engaged, then how can you make her talk. And even if you take a leap of faith and get married to just find out unbearable truths after marriage to just end up being in depression is not a cup of coffee for most of the boys who comes into the category of INFP .
    Anyway, Nice job Mandeep , it will surely help the guys and ladies as well. 👏🏻

    • @sachinpandey8488
      @sachinpandey8488 22 дні тому

      Hi, Generally on what type of questions that most girls are NOT willing to talk.
      I am actually looking for a bride but like after 2 years

    • @sagnikbhattacharya666
      @sagnikbhattacharya666 22 дні тому +1

      Bro that's the problem of Arranged Marriage don't tend to talk..they think parents will arrange their wedding so tell your cousin not to say yes to them and look for those girls who are interested in conversations..in today's world, you can't take a leap of faith especially after what we saw in the Atul Subhash case

    • @sachinpandey8488
      @sachinpandey8488 22 дні тому

      @@sagnikbhattacharya666 par ladkiya yar sahi mein kaafi tej h aaj ke time pe, they know how to hide things and pretend like they are innocent

    • @RonakSaini-jb3iu
      @RonakSaini-jb3iu 22 дні тому

      @@sachinpandey8488 you need bride after 2 hours start looking up for it from now ..things dont happen overnight .....

    • @RonakSaini-jb3iu
      @RonakSaini-jb3iu 22 дні тому

      @@sachinpandey8488 *2years

  • @NitinKumar-ln3ow
    @NitinKumar-ln3ow 23 дні тому +8

    Like minded people.... very easy to say but practically it takes atleast 6 months to know

    • @sagnikbhattacharya666
      @sagnikbhattacharya666 23 дні тому +2

      Good things take time😊

    • @irshikha
      @irshikha 22 дні тому +2

      It's good to invest 6-8 months initially, instead of getting the brunt later.

    • @omgplaces6437
      @omgplaces6437 21 день тому

      Yup.. they think a person will see the red flags in one meeting considering many women are expert in hiding and lying about themselves.. and if caught in their lies they play misogyny and victim card

  • @Ranachanpa-s8n
    @Ranachanpa-s8n 23 дні тому +2

    Aaj ke time ☕'s log both complicated ho gayi Meri Mano to bhailog arrange marriage ❌ love marriage ❌ no marriage ✅

  • @jamesstramer5186
    @jamesstramer5186 23 дні тому +1

    Ma'am,
    Your videos are very unique and high quality. The advice provided is very pragmatic and can be immediately applied. Please keep up the good work! Kudos!

    • @YourLifeMatters15
      @YourLifeMatters15  22 дні тому +1

      @@jamesstramer5186 Thank you so much for the compliment dear.

  • @tradingwizard562
    @tradingwizard562 22 дні тому +1

    Only one Red flag men need to follow : The Red flag that says do not marry 😂 .

  • @mithunbhowmik7620
    @mithunbhowmik7620 20 днів тому +1

    Today the beautiful bond called marriage has turned ugly

    • @YourLifeMatters15
      @YourLifeMatters15  20 днів тому

      @@mithunbhowmik7620 It was always ugly, the only difference is now things have come into open.

    • @mithunbhowmik7620
      @mithunbhowmik7620 20 днів тому

      If it was ugly in earlier times then we wouldn't have such a beautiful life from our family .

    • @AnonymousCitizen7
      @AnonymousCitizen7 12 днів тому

      ​It's good for woman and ugly for men now
      Women cheat and still men pay Alimony
      Poor can marry
      But I have a good earning
      I will avoid it ​@@YourLifeMatters15

  • @alfredpaul-w4e
    @alfredpaul-w4e 21 день тому

    Very true,communication and interest matters .If both aren't proper just ignore. Otherwise things will quickly deteriorate. This can't be gauged quickly.

  • @irshikha
    @irshikha 22 дні тому +1

    However, cliche it may sound, I could easily call you my soul sister. 😄 You resonate a lot with me. 😇

  • @sagnikbhattacharya666
    @sagnikbhattacharya666 23 дні тому +1

    Mandeep, whatever you said makes sense to me but first we have to look for a match..so how and where will we find it?

  • @Buoyancy-z8d
    @Buoyancy-z8d 22 дні тому

    I always say LISTEN TO YOUR INTUITION.

  • @rahult5753
    @rahult5753 21 день тому

    What if parents are divorced?

  • @James-Bond-007_
    @James-Bond-007_ 21 день тому

    Nice Video Mandeep ji

  • @Climate-e3z
    @Climate-e3z 20 днів тому

    Sarlta aur nirmalta hi prem ki yogyata hai jinme ye nahi wo bekar hai

  • @Birds_of_Heaven
    @Birds_of_Heaven 21 день тому +1

    Mere liye sara decision normal hai

  • @MindMyOwnBusiness304
    @MindMyOwnBusiness304 23 дні тому

    What are your sources of income ?

    • @thegreatone6931
      @thegreatone6931 22 дні тому +1

      Obviously, uske bad hi baat aage बढ़ती है।
      Gold digger😂😂

  • @MyBachhu
    @MyBachhu 19 днів тому

    Hmm

  • @Climate-e3z
    @Climate-e3z 20 днів тому

    Punjiwad ne sabki buddhi khrab kr rakkhi hai

  • @mostimp8637
    @mostimp8637 21 день тому

    Garib ki ladki lane ae uski bhi family poverty line ke uper aayegi
    Think otherwise also.

  • @suniltransport6739
    @suniltransport6739 22 дні тому

    Awesome

  • @piyushdas079
    @piyushdas079 23 дні тому +3

    Hire russians😊

    • @irshikha
      @irshikha 22 дні тому +1

      Unfortunately, it doesn't work for everyone and in every situation. Ask people who've been in casual relationships or open-end ones or no-string attached ones. The day you open this Pandora's box, you'll be faced with guilt, eternal loneliness and all sorts of negative feelings. Watch certain documentaries if you want to gain more knowledge. Marriage is about finding a companion. Sadly, it's not marriages that are failing. It's overall human race that losing ethics. More than gender, it's about toxic mentality that's tightening its grip in the society.

    • @dev3269
      @dev3269 21 день тому

      Welcome STD

  • @Englishwithsaurabh-mx7ni
    @Englishwithsaurabh-mx7ni 23 дні тому +1

    👍

  • @baal-jano
    @baal-jano 23 дні тому

    Good Job (support from Bangladesh) 👈👈

  • @baal-jano
    @baal-jano 23 дні тому

    Eye Shadi ki porani concept hi agalat, hai, needs reform. 👈👈👍👍