How BALDING Ruined My Life (Almost)

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  • @haircafekevin
    @haircafekevin 10 місяців тому +152

    Guy has a good shaped head, he looks good. Guy has a likable aura about him and he seems genuinely happy.
    I'm happy for him.
    Learning to accept hair loss is one way to treat hair loss. Takes guts, I admire that.

    • @badboy46528
      @badboy46528 10 місяців тому +2

      ...from Kim Jong Un style to Pharrell Williams transformation 👍😎💯

    • @rubensalsa8128
      @rubensalsa8128 10 місяців тому +2

      Bro needs to do krillin cosplay with his height, musculature and bald head

    • @vhyles
      @vhyles 10 місяців тому +12

      With all due respect Kevin, how is desperately trying to homogenize the scalp as a last resort, so that the horseshoe stays hidden, actually "accepting" one's hairloss?
      That's literally the inverse version of the person who's hiding his balding by combing his hair over the bald spots, the difference being that in this inverse version one is trying to bring down the level of the remaining hair to the level of the bald spots, so as to give the illusion of uniformity and thereby make the hairloss less noticeable.
      Doesn't true acceptance lay in giving so little fucks about your hair that you wouldn't even exert the effort to go out and buy an electric razor, and thereby let your hair grow as is ?
      IMO the men letting their horseshoe grow and not giving a fuck about it are the gutsy ones.

    • @haircafekevin
      @haircafekevin 10 місяців тому +22

      @@vhyles Hey, believe me the bald look isn't for me either. I just find it heartwarming to see someone who is happy about his newfound identity. I want bald men to feel happy and accepted.

    • @vhyles
      @vhyles 10 місяців тому +6

      @Cresimi "Working with it" already implies effort, i.e. going out of your way to buy a razor and taking 5-10 min each day or each 3rd day to make sure the top is uniform.
      Now compare that to Prince Harry who couldn't care less about it, or other people's opinions.
      Which is closer to actually accepting it? Shouldn't acceptance imply the path of least resistance after all?
      Shaving it off is simple grooming and there's nothing wrong with trying to look better, that being said it is on the very end of the spectrum as far as acceptance is concerned.
      Just my opinion based on _personal_ experience.

  • @nepmagar
    @nepmagar 10 місяців тому +65

    Bro shaved his head and turned into one of the greatest UFC featherweight of all time.

    • @josesayha
      @josesayha 9 місяців тому +5

      LMAOOO he does kind of look like Aldo!

    • @CommodoreJ
      @CommodoreJ 3 місяці тому +3

      Jose Aldo Junior jr.

  • @plasticbuttions
    @plasticbuttions 10 місяців тому +29

    Head shape play's a HUGE role in being able to pull that look off

    • @omar-1121
      @omar-1121 10 місяців тому +4

      Yes and the facial features looks like also fits his bald head head so much man wish my head skull was like him and my smile too

    • @Samule-Bule
      @Samule-Bule 9 місяців тому

      ​@omar-1121 bruh.. i have very thin and light eyebrows..not sure if a bald head would sute me. At least i have a great beard

    • @sammmuelspaul1946
      @sammmuelspaul1946 9 місяців тому +1

      @@Samule-BuleDye your eyebrows dark it will make a massive difference

  • @Minize9982
    @Minize9982 10 місяців тому +9

    Man this guy looks so cool without hair. It’s not often that someone looks good without a beard and hair but this guy looks really good

  • @drsabertooth6005
    @drsabertooth6005 10 місяців тому +24

    Bro became one punch man!! great to see a fellow asian on the channel...I have been balding since 16 and finally shaved my hair off. Best decision I ever made.

  • @buridah328
    @buridah328 10 місяців тому +38

    Welcome to the brotherhood. We nod whenever we see each other

    • @donthevalen
      @donthevalen 10 місяців тому +4

      Fr? Bout to join becoming very insecure with the hair around the temple receding

    • @HarsHSingH-313
      @HarsHSingH-313 10 місяців тому +3

      😂😂❤❤

  • @sheriffaltas9476
    @sheriffaltas9476 9 місяців тому +11

    I rolled with him in bjj club before. Crazy seeing him on here. He always had a very confident vibe so it's wild hearing all the internal struggles he went through. He was pretty jacked when I met him lol so he already went through his mental/physical transformation.

    • @Baldcafe
      @Baldcafe  9 місяців тому +2

      Solid guy 10/10 would recommend

  • @andrejvrba9529
    @andrejvrba9529 10 місяців тому +23

    I am 16 i had slight hairline recession so I buzzed it with zero guard and it looks pretty cool :D also everyone at school told me it looks good

    • @nathan87
      @nathan87 10 місяців тому +5

      Hmm just so you are aware: slight recession in your teenage years is completely normal for most men, even those who do not go bald. It's called a "mature hairline".

    • @sjisjsissk
      @sjisjsissk 10 місяців тому

      @@nathan87doesn’t mature that early. that is male pattern baldness

    • @nathan87
      @nathan87 10 місяців тому +3

      @@sjisjsissk mature hairline typically appears as soon as somebody enters puberty, so as young as 12-13.

    • @talk-supersix-seven6021
      @talk-supersix-seven6021 4 місяці тому

      @@sjisjsisskyes he should keep in mind it’s not too late to reverse.
      Everyone always says “I don’t care” when it’s mild then when it becomes worse suddenly they say oh no I should have done something.

  • @vans6084
    @vans6084 10 місяців тому +9

    Dude looks awesome! Congrats man

  • @Tahitison
    @Tahitison 10 місяців тому +9

    Wayyy better bro, looks great 👏

  • @GodEmperorTitan
    @GodEmperorTitan 9 місяців тому +4

    this really helps, thankyou for your content.

    • @Baldcafe
      @Baldcafe  9 місяців тому +3

      A pleasure as always and if you ever need a deeper level of support be sure to check out The Baldcafe community 👍

  • @Sunriseyt1
    @Sunriseyt1 10 місяців тому +3

    Seems like a great dude! Good on ya man

  • @GroovyJo
    @GroovyJo 10 місяців тому +6

    This dude seems like such a nice guy.

  • @TehxHope
    @TehxHope 6 місяців тому +1

    Bro looks so much better. Also has really nice skin, nice smile, well spoken and fit body. If he really wanted to, he could also try a hair system

  • @PAOK-G4-Orcs
    @PAOK-G4-Orcs 10 місяців тому +4

    Looks great my Brother. Congrats ⚡⚡⚡

  • @Stealthfulness
    @Stealthfulness 10 місяців тому +4

    Congratulations, gentlemen.

  • @saloumasaleck3697
    @saloumasaleck3697 10 місяців тому +6

    Too early to welcome another member to the community

  • @fal.skirata
    @fal.skirata 10 місяців тому

    i have a experience similar to his…i started balding during hs..after graduating i decided to shave it off….im now in university as a bald man and still have healthy relationships with my friends

  • @DerekDaly92
    @DerekDaly92 10 місяців тому +3

    Never make fun of anyone for hair loss it will make the norwood reaper to your own hair.
    I myself am 32 and still doing good, I am going grey with noticeable white hairs

  • @Drazle
    @Drazle 9 місяців тому +1

    Whoever shaved their heads and got on with it have my respect, for me I'm in the Norwood 3 category, I hide it well but it's a struggle to hide my bald spots on my temples most of the time whilst using a long comb over sort of style to give me a straight hairline illusion.
    I have a big head sadly, it's been an insecurity even before my balding chapter hence why I never even had a shape up, been bald when I wanted to try when I was a kid etc. Ive dealt with BDD all my life, having long hair has been the only thing to make such a huge difference to my level of confidence. Had short hair throughout most my 20s due to the early slow development from MPB but was never happy because it wasn't me. My dream is to finally work towards my goals towards my appearance, so sadly being bald is not an option for me in my early life.

    • @noelnoni
      @noelnoni 3 місяці тому

      You need to use Finasteride and minoxidil or rosemary oil brother. Only option if you don’t want to shave it all off. Or you can just keep it receding and accept it

  • @CarlosGarcia-be2jm
    @CarlosGarcia-be2jm 10 місяців тому +4

    You are Perfect Now. Congratulations.

  • @earlofdrumer1851
    @earlofdrumer1851 7 місяців тому +3

    My man looks like Daizen Maeda now 💪🔥🇯🇵

  • @andrerangel7654
    @andrerangel7654 10 місяців тому

    This is the kind of content I miss in my country.

  • @enmanueldipuglia9082
    @enmanueldipuglia9082 10 місяців тому +1

    Hi bald cafe, im 21 and i started losing hair at 19. In my high school years i was the curly latin good looking boy (im dominican), and hair played a important role on how i present to others and how i attracted woman. Im 6 ft 175 pounds, skinny fit guy. Last December i decided that i wanted to keep hair as most as posible and started oral min and finasteride with a dermatologist. She started me with a low dose of 2.5mg oral min and 1mg finasteride 3 times a week and the result's have been crazy good, ive recovery my hairline with a derma pen and this treatment in 3 months. I think i am oversensitive to Minoxidil cause i also got a beard that im rocking r8 now. Love your channel men, keep doing gods work and i hope i can be feature when i get completely bald in some years, but by now i want to push my hair at least 5 to 10 more years

    • @enmanueldipuglia9082
      @enmanueldipuglia9082 10 місяців тому +1

      And for anyone's asking, yes. My dad is bald, my grandpa is bald

    • @exactly1176
      @exactly1176 10 місяців тому +2

      ​@enmanueldipuglia9082
      Keep using finasteride and get on topical minoxidil instead of oral minoxidil (topical is more safe).
      Just use topical minoxidil once a day at night and wash your hair in the morning and you are good to go.
      You don't need to ever go bald as long as you stay on finasteride + minoxidil.
      No need to plan your future on baldcafe! Lol
      Hope this helps 🙏

    • @Baldcafe
      @Baldcafe  10 місяців тому +1

      Good for you man. Keep doing your thing and when you’ve had enough you can move on 👍

  • @d947
    @d947 10 місяців тому +1

    Nice story bro

  • @frRrRAin
    @frRrRAin 10 місяців тому +2

    he looks really better now

  • @James-qn5mv
    @James-qn5mv 10 місяців тому +6

    This guy is One-Punch Man,lol.

  • @Lugare
    @Lugare 10 місяців тому +2

    Bro I need your help I am 17 and 5.11 and 53kg and i am balding and I know I will we bald within 1 year please give me some advice please ♥️♥️

    • @LinnybobFitness
      @LinnybobFitness 10 місяців тому

      might want to consider the treatment if you want to hold on, it can def help. Otherwise embrace the head haha

  • @squid4104
    @squid4104 10 місяців тому +1

    Very inspiring and uplifting. Getting to the gym even when you're tired or low always gives your body and mentality a boost...

  • @dragulouse2219
    @dragulouse2219 10 місяців тому +1

    I'm 24. I have crazy mad scientist hair. But there's 2 big gaps at the front and one in the middle. So shall I dhave

  • @MrYoufess
    @MrYoufess 10 місяців тому

    Im still struggling with this, I used to have curly hair. Even tho I’m shaving for years, still don’t like my head when looking in mirror

    • @Baldcafe
      @Baldcafe  10 місяців тому +1

      What do you like about yourself?

    • @MrYoufess
      @MrYoufess 10 місяців тому

      @@Baldcafe My ability to stay (relatively) positive, with massive help of creators like yourself! Which I’m thankful for 💪🏼

  • @jackwilkins7972
    @jackwilkins7972 4 місяці тому

    Respect to my Asian brother. I don't know how to feel if I start loosing my thick curly mane. 😢

  • @timzstr
    @timzstr 9 місяців тому +1

    idk about yall but every winter i rock the Heihachi Mishima hairstyle summer time i shave it off 😅😅😅😅😂😂😂😂 😮 🎉🎉

  • @rabiulyt21224
    @rabiulyt21224 9 місяців тому +2

    he looks like Saitama....Its cool....time to be a muscle man brother and be sexy

  • @wadeschreffler2161
    @wadeschreffler2161 10 місяців тому

    Congratulations! You look great!
    What type of razor and shaving cream are you using to shave your head?

    • @LinnybobFitness
      @LinnybobFitness 10 місяців тому +1

      Amazon basic 5-blade razor, and any run of the mill 99 cent store shaving cream. Comes down to the shaving technique tbh

  • @AD-wg8ik
    @AD-wg8ik 3 місяці тому

    Lol it's funny hearing him say that he was concerned how his hair looked while powerlifting, as if anybody is paying attention to that 😂

  • @gatsu7012
    @gatsu7012 10 місяців тому

    The bald look goes perfect with beard

  • @jamesfagan7823
    @jamesfagan7823 10 місяців тому +8

    Sean Connery was bald that didn't bother women one bit if a woman is with you because you have hair you are definitely with the wrong gal

  • @Christelijke-apotheek-preken
    @Christelijke-apotheek-preken 10 місяців тому +6

    First view right ❤

  • @jewelbency5072
    @jewelbency5072 10 місяців тому +1

    he might look even better without the stache

  • @Oliver9402
    @Oliver9402 10 місяців тому +5

    Shaving it seems more an act of defiance more so than acceptance.

    • @archjones8187
      @archjones8187 7 місяців тому +2

      How so? They are accepting that they will lose all of their hair sooner or later and speeding up a natural process.
      That seems like the definition of acceptance for me

    • @Oliver9402
      @Oliver9402 7 місяців тому

      @@archjones8187 they can accept it without shaving it

  • @AnssiEriksson
    @AnssiEriksson 10 місяців тому +6

    It almost ruined mine, but then I found the joys of Finasteride and don't have to worry no more!

    • @joshuagonzales8451
      @joshuagonzales8451 8 місяців тому

      Same

    • @BKRouteTV
      @BKRouteTV Місяць тому

      Any side effects

    • @AnssiEriksson
      @AnssiEriksson Місяць тому +1

      @@BKRouteTV Other than thicker hair? No.

    • @BKRouteTV
      @BKRouteTV Місяць тому

      @@AnssiEriksson sounds too good to be true

    • @BKRouteTV
      @BKRouteTV Місяць тому

      @@AnssiEriksson is it Costly ?

  • @Querkel
    @Querkel 10 місяців тому

    God saw his manbun and gave him hairloss. Now looks much better

  • @ronymanuel507
    @ronymanuel507 10 місяців тому +6

    Shabbat Shalom from Panama 🇵🇦!!!

    12:17 pm

    • @somtowyer3221
      @somtowyer3221 10 місяців тому

      Aleichem shalom my friend 🙏🙏

    • @ronymanuel507
      @ronymanuel507 10 місяців тому

      @@somtowyer3221 Shalom! 🇮🇱

  • @PhoenixFit2024
    @PhoenixFit2024 10 місяців тому +1

    He’s looking very, very good. His facial structure and those lips…damn.
    Plus a good reminder that having a good skin care routine is also key. This guys takes care of his skin.
    Also, great teeth.
    This guy is nailing it.

  • @jamesfagan7823
    @jamesfagan7823 10 місяців тому +5

    Sean Connery was bald and that didn't bother women in the slightest If someone is with you because you have hair you are definitely with the wrong person

  • @rahulvij696
    @rahulvij696 7 місяців тому

    Inspiring

  • @TheRealTatamium
    @TheRealTatamium 10 місяців тому +1

    Thought that was Zukko

    • @nickj4281
      @nickj4281 10 місяців тому

      Nah this is unnecessarily funny

  • @Tonix333
    @Tonix333 10 місяців тому

    What is his @ I want to talk to him. I am 1 to 1 in the situation + I'm also asian

    • @Baldcafe
      @Baldcafe  10 місяців тому +2

      It’s literally in the description pal linked up ready for you.

  • @peenies
    @peenies 10 місяців тому

    good vid

  • @SJ_Jordan
    @SJ_Jordan 10 місяців тому

    Bro is real life Saitama from One Punch Man.

  • @BountyHuyanty3264
    @BountyHuyanty3264 10 місяців тому +1

    he looks cool

  • @Djay-tz3in
    @Djay-tz3in 10 місяців тому +2

    Bro all these people going bald are at least attractive!
    If I go Bald I’m toast 😫

    • @biff_handstands
      @biff_handstands 5 місяців тому +1

      Get into the best shape of your life, it'll make you the most attractive you can be. Anybody striving and taking care of themselves is at peak attractiveness.

  • @alexbayer2365
    @alexbayer2365 10 місяців тому +9

    It’s so rare for Asian person to being a bald… usually Asian hair is sooo good.
    Good luck.

    • @eliethia_munay
      @eliethia_munay 10 місяців тому +6

      Nah, there’s plenty of balding Asian men.
      - This guy is one of the few who’ve gone for the bald look.
      Looks super fly! 💯

    • @alexbayer2365
      @alexbayer2365 10 місяців тому +2

      @@eliethia_munay Caucasian men willface some degree of male pattern baldness, and around half can expect to lose their hair by middle age or younger, it’s my opinion. Asian men, and East Asians in particular, have historically experienced the lowest incidence of hair loss in the world.

    • @MikeJones-bm4wu
      @MikeJones-bm4wu 10 місяців тому +2

      ​@@alexbayer2365 balding does not affect one race of men more or less than others. Interesting observation but that's incorrect, friend. 🙂

    • @alexbayer2365
      @alexbayer2365 10 місяців тому +2

      @@MikeJones-bm4wu it depends, read statistics. Race depends on hair loss

    • @MikeJones-bm4wu
      @MikeJones-bm4wu 10 місяців тому +3

      @@alexbayer2365 If you choose to believe that, go right ahead. im not going to convince you otherwise. I just had to call out that your opinion, as the way you mentioned it above, is not factual. Have a great day.

  • @R4D
    @R4D 10 місяців тому

    Wow 👌

  • @evok427
    @evok427 10 місяців тому +2

    bro could just go on finasteride and minoxidil thats all.

    • @benten3260
      @benten3260 10 місяців тому

      Minoxidil is unnecessary unless you're balding from crown cuz it's just a hair growth stimulant, it doesn't inhabits dht or anything, also if you stop taking minoxidil you're gonna lose the hair u already had

    • @BKRouteTV
      @BKRouteTV Місяць тому

      Any side-effects?

  • @exactly1176
    @exactly1176 10 місяців тому +4

    I lived in Güd Korea for years, it was extremely rare to see young koreans going bald.
    Asian definitely don't go bald as much as Caucasians and that's a fact.
    So it's unusual to see a young asian men completely bald.
    That being said, i think this gentleman looks good bald 👍 .
    However, i just love Asian hair, i mean they do have great hair so yeah..
    If i was him i would definitely have gotten on finasteride / minoxidil right away to keep that great Asian hair !
    But to each their own i guess. Choices are choices and he looks happy so there you go 😊.
    This channel is okay but the fear mongering BaldCafe does on hairloss medicines is actually ridiculous (sounds like propaganda to scare people away from those meds).
    Hairloss is about choices (keep your hair or not). But the fear mongering on meds is definitely getting on my nerve !

    • @Baldcafe
      @Baldcafe  10 місяців тому +1

      Pick out literally one piece of fear mongering I’ve done on this channel. Tell me which video and the time stamp please.

    • @Baldcafe
      @Baldcafe  10 місяців тому +6

      Ok I can’t be arsed to wait for your reply so here’s my inevitable response. There isn’t one piece of fear mongering. You are just assuming that promoting the acceptance of going bald is fear mongering. I don’t ever need to slander the use of meds to show the benefits of just going bald. This channel exists because of the medicalisation of baldness that is now seen as so normal. It exists because for those who don’t want to go a life time on medication and surgery just to avoid the discomfort of fully confronting their hair loss there isn’t enough support and normalization of that route. Just because you decide you don’t want to use meds etc doesn’t suddenly make accepting going bald easy. Hence I started this channel. The fear mongering of going and being bald is actually the real problem here. If you wana take meds etc just do it and crack on there is apparently no need for you to ever consume hair loss content again right? You’ve solved the problem. The real problem with balding is the anxiety/appearance anxiety it causes. You can deal with it by trying to change your appearance (aka using products to conceal the balding) or you can learn to go bald and accept it. I might be missing a few points but I’m not trying to write a damn Ted talk. Final point is on this channel I’ve shared MY own personal reasons for not wanting to subscribe to a lifetime of trying to keep the balding at bay through meds and surgery and that is it. And the guys in my vids literally just share their reasons for also moving on from or not wanting to take hair loss medication for the rest of their life. Peace out ✌️

    • @exactly1176
      @exactly1176 10 місяців тому +3

      ​@Baldcafe
      Since you are asking :
      " finasteride, 5 reasons why I will never take finasteride/propecia " (the whole video is full of shit and fear mongering/ literally completely false informations).
      And that's just a video among others.

    • @exactly1176
      @exactly1176 10 місяців тому +3

      ​@@Baldcafe" there isn't one piece of fear mongering "
      ---> you lied.
      And that's the thing with your channel, it's a business. Which is fine, don't get me wrong, we all make money one way or another.
      But please don't pretend you are not completely biased about hairloss and that the more people go bald, the better for you.
      That's all I'm saying.
      Then again it's all a matter of choices and if people want to go bald, so be it. No problem with that.
      What bother me is that you basically lie to get what you want .
      I mean you either lie or you are completely misinformed about hair meds etc...
      Please inform people in a fair way with all the informations they need. Not just " finasteride is gonna shrink your penis, it's the most important hormone to reproduce bla bla bla " . That's ridiculous.
      Study a bit about the topic and read the data you will be surprised to learn that DHT is only useful during your teenage years when sex development is concerned. But not in adulthood (that's why you shouldn't start finasteride before you are 18 years old basically).
      You are just very misinformed (which again is completely fine) we all need to learn at some point.
      But the problem is the fact that you actually make videos with lots of false informations .

    • @louferrari1503
      @louferrari1503 9 місяців тому

      @@exactly1176this channel is really about becoming comfortable with yourself no matter what. Whether someone decides to accept being bald, or fight balding by trying to cover it up or take medications is their choice. In my personal opinion, I think people are better off accepting balding. IT’S OKAY TO BE BALD. Society tries to shame bald men and push expensive treatments as if balding is a defect that needs to be fixed to live a happy life. I’d rather see people that are happy and accepting of themselves being bald rather than people with insecurities who are constantly wasting time and money on treatments instead of trying to enjoy their life.

  • @lovelypattaya
    @lovelypattaya 10 місяців тому

    U MUST KEEP EATING NOODLES FOR HAIR STABILITY

  • @assassinskillz123
    @assassinskillz123 10 місяців тому +2

    Chinese people don’t go bald so it must be harder

    • @Baldcafe
      @Baldcafe  10 місяців тому +8

      Having lived in China for 8 years I can tell you they go bald for sure.

    • @assassinskillz123
      @assassinskillz123 10 місяців тому +2

      @@Baldcafe maybe very less

    • @exactly1176
      @exactly1176 10 місяців тому +2

      ​@@Baldcafe yes. But way less than in Europe (Caucasians).

  • @KB-lw1lr
    @KB-lw1lr 10 місяців тому

  • @ponyswaves8603
    @ponyswaves8603 3 місяці тому

    Biggest Coper Community is Baldcels Community. Thanks i dont have any balding.

    • @Baldcafe
      @Baldcafe  3 місяці тому +4

      What are you doing here then? Bit weird

    • @BKRouteTV
      @BKRouteTV Місяць тому

      Rude

  • @marcusalford1750
    @marcusalford1750 10 місяців тому +8

    Sounds like he was suffering from traction alopecia the cause of this was wearing his man bun too tight and too often .

  • @jayalexlee
    @jayalexlee 10 місяців тому

    He is hot as

  • @Satan97458
    @Satan97458 10 місяців тому

    Better being bald than fighting going bald.

  • @steve8803
    @steve8803 9 місяців тому

    Oddjob

  • @atillaozturk7075
    @atillaozturk7075 7 місяців тому

    No need to comfort men going bald . . .
    Losing your hair SUCKS😔😔

  • @elishahlandsdown5843
    @elishahlandsdown5843 10 місяців тому

    If you watch rick and Morty you deserve to go bald

  • @bichillocv
    @bichillocv 5 місяців тому

    No hair on the head nor a beard and way below average looking, like a 3 on the good looks scale if not less, you gonna have a hard time from that point onward, any how it was a brave move, keep it up despite having a very low halo efect, good luck

    • @Baldcafe
      @Baldcafe  5 місяців тому +3

      Less internet bro.

    • @bichillocv
      @bichillocv 5 місяців тому

      @@Baldcafe That would also mean less bald cafe :(

    • @EternalScreams
      @EternalScreams 3 місяці тому

      Its That Long hair is a sign of youth specially when you have long hairs with cleaned shaved ​@@bichillocv

    • @BKRouteTV
      @BKRouteTV Місяць тому

      Rude