A humble suggestion, please don't interrupt each other while talking. There's so many times you really want to hear what Ustadh Yasin is saying, but that's exactly when brother Imran interrupts. Of course podcasts can be fun, but I felt the quality of the podcast could be better and more concise...brother Imran's arguments can sometimes leave the listener confused on a simple matter. Nonetheless, I always look forward to chai with my Bhai episodes. May Allah reward you for your efforts.
Imran is so right about girls not wanting to eat in front of men. It is an uncomfortable thing for some girls and it would go down as such a plus point (for me) if they were considerate about that for the meeting.
27:56 is true lmao eating in front of people LET ALONE the guy you’re about to m a r r y is nerve wracking. Idk why but I think it has to to with first impressions
What if a woman does not have wali or mahram? Or they are not bothered to help her. You can't sit and just give up on marriage right. Not everyone has the privilege of wali or mahram
Good work brothers. Some points that could’ve been more extended and further explained what should happen in the first meeting? In what sort of setting? would you invite a potential on a first meeting into your house? Not knowing if you’re actually going to connect or have compatibility. Does the mahram or wali sit on the same table? Or what proximity? If in a cafe or restaurant setting? What about if it’s at home? Give more practical tips/input please The part of looking at the woman when you’re convinced you’re going to go ahead with Nikkah what are the circumstances is she just around the house and the potential agrees with her wali without her knowing? How does the woman go about that situation? That part needs more explanation/ clarification. How are you finding out about the potential spouse friends? Practical tips without sounding/ looking creepy Keep up the good work
Asalamualaikum, I have a question which I don’t remember being addressed here - can the man and woman sit alone while the mahram is a bit away i.e. in a cafe, the man and woman sit on one table while the mahram sits on another table but he can see them two???
This is not scholarly advice as I could not find a direct answer for you. It’s best to wait till you are engaged to a sister and indirectly give these gifts. Be it through her wali or a male mahram such as a brother or uncle. Refer you’re question to IslamQA they may have previously answered you’re query on their website or you can email them for an authentically sourced answer
Visit a nearby mosque and make muslim friends if possible. And if you have questions you can ask me. The first thing you can do is learn how to pray. And try to pray 5 times a day consistently. When you do that, the rest will come to you automatically.
As Salaam Alaikum, my brother was supposed to get married, but the womans father is asking for my brother to put half the house on her name before the marriage ? is this allowed in islam ?
The brother should give maher according to his means. Never put your house down in anyones name as there's no guarantee the marriage isn't going to break
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A humble suggestion, please don't interrupt each other while talking. There's so many times you really want to hear what Ustadh Yasin is saying, but that's exactly when brother Imran interrupts. Of course podcasts can be fun, but I felt the quality of the podcast could be better and more concise...brother Imran's arguments can sometimes leave the listener confused on a simple matter.
Nonetheless, I always look forward to chai with my Bhai episodes. May Allah reward you for your efforts.
Saad’s just chilling in his own world 🤣
I got happy when i saw ustadh yasin allahuma baarik
Imran is so right about girls not wanting to eat in front of men. It is an uncomfortable thing for some girls and it would go down as such a plus point (for me) if they were considerate about that for the meeting.
27:56 is true lmao eating in front of people LET ALONE the guy you’re about to m a r r y is nerve wracking. Idk why but I think it has to to with first impressions
Brother Sa'ad's small comments crack me up. #comedy
38:24
The most random statement ive ever heard loooool
What if a woman does not have wali or mahram? Or they are not bothered to help her. You can't sit and just give up on marriage right. Not everyone has the privilege of wali or mahram
Masha Allah Jazakallahu khairan Brother
You should bring Adam in this podcast inshallah
Ma Shaa Allah ❤️✨
Jazakallahu khairan ,I didn't know all that
Yesss,, ,,we,,, girls, ,, dont like to eat infront of guys
اللهم بارك
Mashallah keep up the good work!!🏆
Good work brothers.
Some points that could’ve been more extended and further explained
what should happen in the first meeting? In what sort of setting? would you invite a potential on a first meeting into your house? Not knowing if you’re actually going to connect or have compatibility.
Does the mahram or wali sit on the same table? Or what proximity? If in a cafe or restaurant setting? What about if it’s at home? Give more practical tips/input please
The part of looking at the woman when you’re convinced you’re going to go ahead with Nikkah what are the circumstances is she just around the house and the potential agrees with her wali without her knowing? How does the woman go about that situation? That part needs more explanation/ clarification.
How are you finding out about the potential spouse friends? Practical tips without sounding/ looking creepy
Keep up the good work
Asalamualaikum, I have a question which I don’t remember being addressed here - can the man and woman sit alone while the mahram is a bit away i.e. in a cafe, the man and woman sit on one table while the mahram sits on another table but he can see them two???
Can you do an episode on a man marrying a second wife, how it would work and so forth
Just research it yourself...
Tip number 1 can she cook Biryani?
is it appropriate for the brother to bring the gifts for the sister vice versa?
This is not scholarly advice as I could not find a direct answer for you. It’s best to wait till you are engaged to a sister and indirectly give these gifts. Be it through her wali or a male mahram such as a brother or uncle. Refer you’re question to IslamQA they may have previously answered you’re query on their website or you can email them for an authentically sourced answer
Tips for reverts?
Visit a nearby mosque and make muslim friends if possible. And if you have questions you can ask me. The first thing you can do is learn how to pray. And try to pray 5 times a day consistently. When you do that, the rest will come to you automatically.
As Salaam Alaikum, my brother was supposed to get married, but the womans father is asking for my brother to put half the house on her name before the marriage ? is this allowed in islam ?
The brother should give maher according to his means. Never put your house down in anyones name as there's no guarantee the marriage isn't going to break
That comes under mahr, they're allowed to ask for that and if you don't like it, you can reject the proposal.
Lol no way
Is that mahar/dowry or what?
Does make sense for security yh, this dad wants her daughter well taken care of.
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Mashallah
Brother Imran needs to stop interrupting
Abu Bakr 🤣👍🏻
Women are more concerned about a mans height than anything else. Minimum 6ft requirement. Sad times.
How are all the brothers below 6ft married then?
asianskywalker Men are quite shallow too..
Can’t blame someone for preferences
There are plenty of more fish in the sea akhi, not every female cares about height...
Shorter guys have more stamina.
Not all sisters are into 6ft tall Guys. I prefer short guys actually. Beauty is in the eyes of the beholder.
I am first
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Listen on the iTunes podcast app here: podcasts.apple.com/gb/podcast/chai-with-my-bhai/id1342318641#episodeGuid=tag%3Asoundcloud%2C2010%3Atracks%2F742924051
Listen on Android from here: soundcloud.com/user-589806432/39-the-dos-donts-of-a-marriage-meeting-chai-with-my-bhai