Warning signs you're with a gold digger and how to deal with one

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  • @johnlopez5531
    @johnlopez5531 5 місяців тому +3

    I had someone ghost me & send me breadcrumbs this past week. Today they had the audacity to randomly text and only ask for money. Not even asking how I’m doing or anything. I said “No can do!” and walked away. I’m over it and won’t take it anymore. I deserve the best.

  • @Watch_nolly
    @Watch_nolly 2 роки тому +33

    Jessica is more like a big sister to us🥰❤️

  • @stanleymchenry7593
    @stanleymchenry7593 2 роки тому +16

    You've really helped me a lot with my relationship and it's been helping me to know what to expect and what not. Thank you so much

  • @teboho_26
    @teboho_26 2 роки тому +30

    These girls want us to pay them for services rendered in a relationship 😂😂 always charging, always taking and never giving..

  • @ernestgyamfi5536
    @ernestgyamfi5536 2 роки тому +8

    Always in financial crisis.....you nailed it👌😂😂

  • @ekunperon509
    @ekunperon509 2 роки тому +6

    I got this girl that fits perfectly in your descriptions.She didn't even missed out one of the descriptions.I took on my heels till date,am not looking back since I started running.

    • @KINGDAVIDSTECHHUB
      @KINGDAVIDSTECHHUB 2 роки тому +2

      Me too bro, I same girl that fits into all the descriptions...

    • @ekunperon509
      @ekunperon509 2 роки тому

      @@KINGDAVIDSTECHHUB At times some relationships happens for reasons. Do you know that I appreciated my ex because of this girl?
      I called back my ex that has money more than me,her family is rich,she doesn't ask me for nothing and she's ready to go extra miles to see that I smile.Thank God me and my woman are back and waxing 💪💪💪. The bonding is so strong now more than ever before.

    • @josiahflame7477
      @josiahflame7477 2 роки тому

      @@ekunperon509 so after leaving that woman you went back and you're rejoicing how do you know she was not seeing someone before you came back and she's using you as an option for attention BE careful 😂

  • @juniormaononga99
    @juniormaononga99 2 роки тому +12

    This has come at the right time. Jessica, you've nailed it 💯

  • @toochukwuowoh606
    @toochukwuowoh606 2 роки тому +5

    Jessica has a very good command of English. Her accent is perfect

  • @felixjaoko4811
    @felixjaoko4811 2 роки тому +6

    Just in time for brilliant ideas 💯💕 Kenya🇰🇪🇰🇪🇰🇪 is represented!!!.

  • @wisdomridenai
    @wisdomridenai 2 роки тому +4

    Always articulate,straight to the point and daaaamn right! And wait a minute.... GORGEOUS!

  • @benjaminoseikuffourjnr.1648
    @benjaminoseikuffourjnr.1648 2 роки тому +15

    A gold digger girlfriend would be a gold digger wife
    Some women can be more wicked than armed robbers

    • @abdulmaliksuleman9111
      @abdulmaliksuleman9111 2 роки тому +1

      No man should fooled into letting a woman make him feel like her husband when they are just courting.

  • @devilsadvocacy
    @devilsadvocacy 10 місяців тому +1

    I’ve had to fend off a lot of them and have more experience than I ever wanted.
    I like where you’re coming from on this. Thank you for performing a valuable service

  • @DEZZSHORTSOfficial
    @DEZZSHORTSOfficial 2 роки тому +11

    I had a girlfriend like this who was asking me for expensive staff and asked me like $100s to give to her every month for her nails and I said OK I’ll give her $100 for her nails and after that, she asked me $200 for her birthday gift and I just said I’m sorry I don’t have that much of money I’m not working. And she say so you don’t care about me and I said I do care for you, babe. And she said that so then why would you not give me what I ask you to give me for my birthday and you declined and I say it’s because I don’t have a job that’s why I’m not giving you the money. And she said that OK so then we should break up and I ask her like why would you like to break up with me when there’s no problem? and she said why do you don’t wanna take care of me. And I say OK you can do whatever you want and now I have already broken up with her. And of course, we have been dating for almost 3 months and we never slept together I was always asking her to spend maybe one day sleeping together and she was just declining me. I don’t know what problem she had. She is very a Golddigger. and I felt some pain but in the future, I’m sure that I’ll get another one who can not ask me for money to get into a relationship. that was my personal experience that I have had been experiencing in the past month. My advice to those men who are not having a girlfriend right now. Don’t go into a relationship with someone who is asking you for money to get into a relationship with her. If she tried to say hey babe can we go to the restaurant? Or maybe if she asks you, hey babe can you help me with my hair done. That’s a red flag 🚩 don’t fall in it, my brothers. If you had this kind of problem with your relationship before, I want you to be happy and don't talk to her anymore. God has your desired wife.

    • @abdulmaliksuleman9111
      @abdulmaliksuleman9111 2 роки тому +1

      So true. U were not yet married and she wanted to put all responsibility of her welfare on you. Was her dad late or she was an orphan. Or was she not working.

    • @DEZZSHORTSOfficial
      @DEZZSHORTSOfficial 2 роки тому +1

      @@abdulmaliksuleman9111 yeah, she wasn’t working she was a student in high school and of course, she has a dad and mom who are working like why can’t she ask them for money instead of asking me for everything? And also that’s shameless of her, how can she ask someone for everything when they haven’t gotten married yet. That’s a truly gold-digger. Be aware of that

    • @josiahflame7477
      @josiahflame7477 2 роки тому +2

      Bro don't you ever ask a girl to sleep with you.never,if she loves you that's automatic but asking is really weird.and you should stop being weak if a woman loves you she will appreciate that you are trying hard to provide even without a job.stop being a nice guy otherwise you'll forever be used

    • @DEZZSHORTSOfficial
      @DEZZSHORTSOfficial 2 роки тому

      @@josiahflame7477 thanks for your advice ✊🏾 🙏

  • @tmassillon27
    @tmassillon27 2 роки тому +1

    This genuine lady is so real, Jessica since I started listening to you I have discovered so many things about some people it's just amazing. It seems like you lived inside those people's mind.
    Your info have changed my concepts for lifetime.

  • @ridgerunner3364
    @ridgerunner3364 2 роки тому +6

    Jess, I really appreciate your honesty and wisdom! Thank you.

  • @CraftyShawn
    @CraftyShawn 2 роки тому +1

    That’s some good advice most of the time you will see the signs if dating her feel like an expense you need to reevaluate your situation

  • @NathalieLazo
    @NathalieLazo 2 роки тому +56

    The more we work on our own selves, the better we attract, in this case, a better partner and a phenomenal relationship. There’s no such thing as the “right person” (to an extend) we have to become the right person first! You got this, I believe in you and invest into YOU! Best investment you can ever do is in yourself for your family, others, future and lives overall! 💯% back guarantee return on your investment! Have a great day! 🚀🎉❤️

    • @nardinequarcoo
      @nardinequarcoo 2 роки тому +2

      That’s one of my principles too. You couldn’t have said it better

    • @metatronblack
      @metatronblack 2 роки тому +2

      🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 You can never enter the mind of anyone , so your whole process is ridiculous. Now working on yourself I do agree with though.

    • @Khenny_jacobs
      @Khenny_jacobs 2 роки тому

      A girl I have a crush on Ask me what's the craziest thing she can do, I didn't understand her and could not answer, I felt like an idiot..
      Please help me out Jessica, I still wish to give a response regarding that question

    • @alisonb5921
      @alisonb5921 Рік тому

      My ex neighbour is living with a Gold Digger woman. In a few weeks time, at the beginning of April, by Australian law, he'll have to sell all his house & assets & give her half of it. They started living together, last year. The 6 months are up, then. This applies to the de-facto relationships, as well as married couples.

  • @elizabethsnyder9678
    @elizabethsnyder9678 2 роки тому +2

    Your correct on the dot. It sad about these kind of relationship. People using people and not for love . A relationship should be liking each other and get to know each other. Build love and trust and be thoughtful with gifs from the heart

  • @herberttorojr7640
    @herberttorojr7640 8 місяців тому +1

    I just dropped a gold digger recently. I always had suspected she was one but when she didn't tell me she went to her work holiday party a d we spoke the night after she didn't even mention it. Then Christmas eve she told me she was taking her and her mom and daughter to dinner but was at her friend's house getting smashed. I didn't hear from her till the day after Christmas and she sends me two videos telling me she loved me and I'm the greatest guy in the world yet I called her on her bs and she tells me I don't have to tell you everything. 100% trash human.

  • @birdman271000
    @birdman271000 2 роки тому +2

    Love watching your videos Jessica you really helping a lot of guys out there including myself I appreciate you.

  • @Burrburrcloud
    @Burrburrcloud 2 місяці тому +2

    As a gold digger I can confirm she's right! 😂😂

  • @captainkeyboard1007
    @captainkeyboard1007 2 роки тому

    I love the way you reach the core of the problem. Thank you for one of the facts of life that no one has ever taught me.

  • @adriantudhope5469
    @adriantudhope5469 Рік тому +1

    My best friend is dating a Gold Digger and he won’t listen to reason. Its like watching a car crash in slow motion

  • @addaetenkamenin5853
    @addaetenkamenin5853 2 роки тому +2

    Wish I got this information 10 years ago 😏, keep coming please, knowledge is power as they say.

  • @goldenstate2192
    @goldenstate2192 2 роки тому +1

    This is the first video I've watched of yours. I plan on watching MORE👍.. VERY informative, and straight forward. Keep up the great work 😉

  • @pontianekakoro1737
    @pontianekakoro1737 2 роки тому +3

    100% accurate content. Except for one misplaced assumption: there's no qhere in the current world where women doing the same work earn less than what me earn. In Kenya where I come from, jn many cases, women actually earn MORE than men for doing the same or less work. The reality in Kenya and I believe the rest of the world is that the social system favors women too much to the extent two people graduating with the same qualifications, same fit for a job, the woman will get a job in a third of the time it will take man to do so. In my country there are so so many assistance programs for women of different cadres it is like it almost a crime to be a man. So, let's drop that old tale of women being at a disadvantage socially today. It's been long overtaken by time and social change there's actually need to intervene for the men

  • @thefunfoodzone4377
    @thefunfoodzone4377 2 роки тому

    Every point was spot on and none more than the out-of-league part. Take a look at the film, music industry, and sports industry. The modeling agency portfolio may as well be a dating agency portfolio as average looking rich men, take their pick.

  • @blackmusicentertainment_gh
    @blackmusicentertainment_gh 2 роки тому +3

    Road to 700k Subscribers
    Hurray to jessy❤️

  • @jtugg7341
    @jtugg7341 2 роки тому +4

    The really good gold diggers will give an impression that they're doing well and will even pick up some the checks in the beginning of the dating process, and out of no where, she needs financial help and will lean on the fact that she paid for things in the past, so she can't be a gold digger, but it's a facade to only to get you to see her as a damsel in distress for rescue. Guy's, don't fall for it. From that point on, she will always need help.

  • @kensallah
    @kensallah 2 роки тому

    And who says the unmarried cannot advise the married? I'm looking for that person. Jessica you have never drifted from the truth. Kudos.

  • @bolaremyjr
    @bolaremyjr 2 роки тому +2

    This is what we face currently in Naija… the laddies here are always having this mentality

  • @emmanuelaluma5581
    @emmanuelaluma5581 2 роки тому +1

    Your guidelines on how to go about relationships are so helpful. You offer so much valuable content.

  • @yawampofo8529
    @yawampofo8529 2 роки тому +1

    Once again.Jess is erasing my fears.

  • @geoffrey7915
    @geoffrey7915 2 роки тому

    Am a Ugandan American but gal the advise u offer to us as men beats me to the cake!!! U r like a big sister to us who follow u and u r just an asset to us. It has made me more determined to kick out bull crap gals in my life. Lately i kicked out One who was trying to come back to me cos he heard that i relocated to the US. Watching from nashiville Tennessee USA.

  • @businessboom6143
    @businessboom6143 2 роки тому +2

    Insightful outpouring of wisdom nuggets Jessica.💯🎯

  • @bereanathlete723
    @bereanathlete723 7 місяців тому

    Very good wisdom, Jessica. I watched a lot of your videos, and you are like an angel sent from above to help open the eyes of the blind.

  • @benjaminoseikuffourjnr.1648
    @benjaminoseikuffourjnr.1648 2 роки тому +5

    Change you say, Jessica?
    I disagree
    marriage doesn't change anyone; it only amplifies what's already in existence

  • @deez_nutz5816
    @deez_nutz5816 2 роки тому +2

    Am watching you from Kenya

  • @SarkUpdates
    @SarkUpdates 2 роки тому +2

    I can't skip ur content 🤗❤️❤️❤️

  • @CarlosRamirez-xx6jz
    @CarlosRamirez-xx6jz 2 роки тому +1

    Hi my friend Jessica, you just nail it down with this very interesting video !!
    I am in this relationship with this beautiful woman who lately claims that she is in " financial crisis " she always needs money, I have been helping her out with some money yes I have !!
    But, this is the catch on this matter, today I send her the money to help her out, and tomorrow she will post new pictures with nice new clothes on in Facebook ... so, all of this is making me wonder; is she really a " gold digger " ??
    Is she using me for this matter, and she is not in financial crisis for real ??
    Your video just showed me FIVE of the signs that I have noticed on her !!
    And I have come to the conclusion that SHE IS A GOLD DIGGER !!
    Thanks God !!
    I finally found out about the truth !!
    Thanks Jessica for this amazing video, God bless you my friend !! 🙏

  • @lawrencemiller8198
    @lawrencemiller8198 Рік тому +2

    For me I don't and I never will deal with any gold diggers I would completely stay away from them cause at the end of the day they'll only drain you and leave you hanging low and dry and that's something that I personally don't want I can do without that!

  • @emmanuelsalako7370
    @emmanuelsalako7370 Рік тому

    I have seen this signs one too many times not to recognize it when you brought it up, thanks Jessica you have spoken well and you really know your stuff and teach us well. Trying to know in figures how much is coming in yes this sign is a well known fact to me and I have come to know it.

  • @hajarayusuf764
    @hajarayusuf764 2 роки тому +5

    Still giving great and awesome advice keep it up just wish you also gave women advice 👍

  • @philipapollo5185
    @philipapollo5185 2 роки тому +2

    More love from Kenya Jessica

  • @Zico804
    @Zico804 2 роки тому +1

    Thank you very much dear Jessica.Always watching from Southwest,Florida.

    • @JessicaOS
      @JessicaOS  2 роки тому +1

      Thanks for the support Nelson

  • @sarahboakye7691
    @sarahboakye7691 2 роки тому +7

    Jessica never disappoints 🔥👏
    Both genders are learning 🤩🤩🤩
    Great video 👏👍

    • @JessicaOS
      @JessicaOS  2 роки тому +3

      Sending hugs Sarah! I'd love to meet you one day. I've noticed your support for my content and i truly appreciate that

    • @sarahboakye7691
      @sarahboakye7691 2 роки тому +2

      @@JessicaOS awwwn thank you. It'll be a pleasure to meet you 😊. Always welcome Jessica 💕

  • @elit.
    @elit. Рік тому

    I appreciate your support Jessica, all men went through this, however all what if fact we're looking for is love... i feel sorry for us

  • @tgoldmania
    @tgoldmania 2 роки тому +1

    Life is too short than to live one second of it unhappy 🙁… Thank u jessy

  • @okonkwohushbaby6307
    @okonkwohushbaby6307 2 роки тому +2

    Thanks so much.. Part of my experience in the past. 💯 correct👍

  • @martinmusokem5765
    @martinmusokem5765 2 роки тому +2

    Thank you Jessica. You are such an inspiration to me.

  • @nariskajwiga940
    @nariskajwiga940 2 роки тому +2

    Thanks for your advice Jessica

  • @MannyEdge-GNF
    @MannyEdge-GNF 2 роки тому

    Fact vibes jessy😊😊 just imagine buying things for your apology to be accepted. Thanks for putting this straight forward 👍🏽👍🏽❤️❤️

  • @nardinequarcoo
    @nardinequarcoo 2 роки тому +2

    The most populous humans we have now! Not sharing and spreading love but digging from their partners; both men and women. Jess; you got it right! Ha drop her like hot kelewele! Drop him like buff loaf! Red flags 🚩 🚩

  • @LAQueja
    @LAQueja 2 роки тому +2

    Here's another, she wants to be kept(she wants you to take care of everything in her life). She moves in quick and quits her job or willing to quit her job.

  • @bobsean3466
    @bobsean3466 2 роки тому +3

    Thank you so much for this video it was really helpful, have learnt so much

  • @Ivan-zz9hd
    @Ivan-zz9hd 7 місяців тому

    Your example gold bracelet perfectly matching an experience I have recently encountered, I met someone few month back, went on few dates, and next thing I know, she started talking about this fancy shopping trips, bracelet and lingerires etc. I know right away a gold digger, I played nice till I said no, and her attitute changed faster than lighting...I feel sorry for someone becoming a gold digger, sold their soul for money.

  • @brianbrino4310
    @brianbrino4310 2 роки тому +1

    Lovely Jessica everything you have to say is always help you! I love you because of your honesty, your love to help people and because you are a real Lady in every sense of the word! And you are always there for us!
    I have a feeling that we will meet one day and I’ll feel very honored!
    Cosmic Blessings and lots of Love and Light to you always!
    🙏🙏🙏🙏🍀🍀🍀🍀🌹🌹🌹🌹❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

    • @JessicaOS
      @JessicaOS  2 роки тому

      Always look forward to reading from you Brian. Best regards

    • @brianbrino4310
      @brianbrino4310 2 роки тому

      @@JessicaOS Thank you wholeheartedly!❤️🌹

  • @cruisefamilytv1472
    @cruisefamilytv1472 2 роки тому +2

    imagine a girl billing you every now and then surely a red flag😂😂😅 thank you jessi...

  • @obaadedamola4860
    @obaadedamola4860 2 роки тому

    This is the reason i love to always watch your videos... Very Educative 👏👍

  • @cosmasscmps
    @cosmasscmps 2 роки тому +2

    Good contents from you Jessica 🥰

  • @samuelwadada2488
    @samuelwadada2488 2 роки тому +1

    Her intro self wey dry kill me💙💙💙

  • @charleshawkins699
    @charleshawkins699 Рік тому +1

    Friends, parents and siblings. Have an enormous influence on your relationship partner. Over time those influences will grow. Especially if things are not going well. A bad influencer can ruin a relationship or marriage. Someone that didn’t seem like a gold digger at first. May turn into one over time because of bad influences.

  • @francoisannasia5189
    @francoisannasia5189 2 роки тому +2

    Good Advice...

  • @kelvinhooru3918
    @kelvinhooru3918 2 роки тому

    Well spoken Jessi ❣️ always proud of your content 😍🧬

  • @danielsoto8601
    @danielsoto8601 5 місяців тому

    Words of wisdom here in this video!

  • @mosesawudzi3692
    @mosesawudzi3692 2 роки тому

    Wowww Jess I'm always learning anytime I watched your videos. Bless you 🙏.

  • @danielalvarado2837
    @danielalvarado2837 Рік тому +1

    Dealing with a woman like this right now, started off as a normal relationship now suddenly when she calls or texts she always just wants money for some financial crisis. didn’t even pay at all on the first date

    • @gamwsas
      @gamwsas 11 місяців тому

      my ex started off normal and now i am afraid to ask her out cash she now charges me for dates.

  • @kojomensah9977
    @kojomensah9977 2 роки тому +2

    Good

  • @jordanyoung1836
    @jordanyoung1836 2 роки тому +4

    I couldn't deal with gold diggers because I have common sense and I know how to stay away from those kind of people, I would be hurt if I was put in that category because I'm the type of person that's willing to hang or be with you for you...😐😑

  • @maxinegirard3270
    @maxinegirard3270 2 роки тому

    Like that you a solution or response to the signs and red flags. Good information and insights

  • @karebearsj.d.f1945
    @karebearsj.d.f1945 2 роки тому

    Jessica i thought i was the only one that have such views, my sister tell me my life is in a fairy tale book.

  • @ImaniFX
    @ImaniFX 2 роки тому +1

    i so much love this video and your wisdom !

  • @drelinsmedia2262
    @drelinsmedia2262 2 роки тому +3

    I should just ditch her right away

  • @irvingporter4925
    @irvingporter4925 Рік тому

    I've been dating this girl for over 2years now and lately for the past few months she keeps saying here wifi keeps going out and leaves me hanging and doesn't talk to me for a few days and hasn't ever chatted with me on any single holiday and asks for gift cards to pay her bills

  • @nkululekozindela2460
    @nkululekozindela2460 2 роки тому +1

    Well said I like this one

  • @furydj2311
    @furydj2311 2 роки тому +1

    Spot on 🎯

  • @DanteOs_
    @DanteOs_ 2 роки тому +2

    Facts facts facts

  • @Humanist1971
    @Humanist1971 Рік тому +1

    A woman's tears, is her greatest weapon that fails majority of the men.

  • @charleshawkins699
    @charleshawkins699 Рік тому

    Easy way to tell if someone is a gold digger. If flipping the switch on the relationship. Between who is the primary provider in the relationship. A user won’t let someone else use them in return.
    In fact they’ll always do the bare minimum. Sometimes they won’t even do that.
    You’ll find yourself getting pressured to give gifts to someone that never gives you anything. But uses the guilt trip to make you feel bad for not doing enough.

  • @junivybes7745
    @junivybes7745 2 роки тому +1

    Excellent content👌🏻

  • @russelllevers9513
    @russelllevers9513 2 роки тому +1

    Respect... Your amazing Jessica

  • @psym0nz
    @psym0nz Рік тому

    Thank you for sharing, she was a gold digger

  • @corneliusndeche6084
    @corneliusndeche6084 2 роки тому +1

    Hello👋it's sads, nowadays relationships have became business entities. I have a question, how do you deal with a woman who likes to jump in conclusions? Any tips😞🤦

  • @karebearsj.d.f1945
    @karebearsj.d.f1945 2 роки тому

    I've always been interested in sharing my life with female with same character from the mother land of Africa (Ghana) to be specific here now Jessica.

  • @vonkeithdavis1792
    @vonkeithdavis1792 2 роки тому +1

    Insightful and informative

  • @Shamgar5
    @Shamgar5 2 роки тому +1

    Thank you mam for the advices u the best 💯💯🔥💚

  • @agyeimaxwell.
    @agyeimaxwell. 2 роки тому +1

    Love this soul🔥🔥💕💕

  • @rohitsingha119
    @rohitsingha119 Рік тому

    U r right 😊life is too short why live even one second unhappy

  • @sk3ffingtonai
    @sk3ffingtonai 2 роки тому +1

    The Equal Pay Act of 1963 is a U.S. law that prohibits employers from paying different wages to men and women who work under similar conditions and whose jobs require the same level of skill, effort, and responsibility. It is part of the amended Fair Labor Standards Act of 1938. All women should look into this law and stop spreading false information.

  • @russelllevers9513
    @russelllevers9513 2 роки тому +1

    Great advice!!!!💖💖💖💖💖💖

  • @visitorlisaposiadenda5833
    @visitorlisaposiadenda5833 Рік тому

    Thanks a lot Jessica, eye opener 🙏🙏

  • @josephshanga1425
    @josephshanga1425 2 роки тому

    This is so true ,.why are women always so awkward? They never keep their word ,they always flip flop. Could these be the reasons some communities never involve women in decision making ?

  • @ebentee
    @ebentee 2 роки тому +2

    I thought I was first lol 😂

  • @russelllevers9513
    @russelllevers9513 2 роки тому +1

    I am from Jamaica...💟💟

  • @antoniomanicano3221
    @antoniomanicano3221 2 роки тому

    Thanks a lot for the video! you have been teaching a lot about the feminine side. Big hug from Angola - Cabinda 👍👍

  • @Don_Willy
    @Don_Willy 2 роки тому +1

    I wish you did this video two years ago.

  • @obrisseddy
    @obrisseddy 2 роки тому +1

    🇰🇪 I really agree with you

  • @nashiofficial7299
    @nashiofficial7299 2 роки тому +2

    2nd here 🕺🕺🕺🕺

  • @okikiakinnibosun4953
    @okikiakinnibosun4953 2 роки тому +1

    Most appreciated

  • @kaydotTvSgod
    @kaydotTvSgod 2 роки тому +1

    Facts !!