How We've Stayed Together Over a DECADE…married HS sweethearts
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- Опубліковано 28 вер 2024
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My wife and I met in 2nd grade. Ran with the same group of friends in our teens. Started dating at 17. Got married at 24. Been married 33 years. Key has been, through good and bad times, be true to the commitment you make in your wedding vows. We made a life long commitment. We built a life together and genuinely can’t imagine a life without each other. It takes work, but if you stay true to your commitment, it grounds you when things get rough. Using your words, every day choose to do everything necessary to honor your commitment - when divorce is not an option you will choose to work harder to overcome obstacles. Unless you are in an abusive situation, a loving, committed couple can work through anything. Keep up the good work guys.
Devin’s personality is made for camera, we always knew that. What I didn’t expect was how freakin cool it is to see Hunter getting more comfortable on camera as the months go by lmao. What a couple of silly ducks, love y’all !!!!
Right?! Glad others are noticing it too
Devin is my spirit animal 🤷🏼♀️😂💯
Hahahaha thank you!!! We love ya 😊
@@Thecordlefamily can you tell us what Taylor's channel again? im deaf and my close captions wrote Taylor swift
@@moderator7169 was it @TaylorandSoph you were asking for?😊
I think that first child rocks every marriage. It’s such a huge adjustment.
My youngest brother met his wife on Sunday school. They were both volunteers. She was 16 and he was 13. They started “dating” at 17 and 14 and got married at 21 and 18. They’ve been together 10 years married 8. They have such a beautiful relationship. They’re best friends and such a great team. They have two beautiful kids and are wanting more. My little brother knew she was the one the moment he met her.
Also your Brother & his Wife have some sweet company in front of her hands & nose!
I love this! My husband and I started dating when I was 14 he was 16. We got married 6 years ago. We are now 28 and 30 and our first baby is due in a few days! 🥰
Loving your spouse is an absolute choice. You guys are wise beyond your years.
Thanks so much!
Congrats! Started dating my husband when I was 15… I’m now almost 50. Carry on, kids! You’re doin’ great!
So rare to see a young happy couple with no type of addiction and/or recovery going on…. God bless y’all!
Cue eye roll. Because people who struggle with addiction or who are in recovery just don’t deserve and/or can’t have successful relationships.
@@kalmingkhaos5932 no that’s not what I said at all…. I meant more like I myself never see young couples who don’t have to deal with addiction or recovery in their every day life…. But that’s not to say they can’t also be happy and successful.
Actually I think that young couples who are supporting a partner through some form of “addiction” or “recovery”‘is really admirable. Just remember you only see what people choose to share and no couple is perfect. My now husband and I are coming up on 10 years together & almost 3 married. Shortly after we started dating at 17 years old I became unwell with multiple chronic illnesses and I have had the most unwavering support and compassion from my husband. Our marriage isn’t perfect but we believe in open, honest communication, compromise and prioritising our relationship above all else.
@@Blue-dg8vb agreed, definitely admirable.
@@kalmingkhaos5932thats not at all what that person said. stop twisting words to make it negative.
Communication is absolutely essential for a successful relationship! It’s so nice to hear that they were able to grow up together and they had the same ideas and views on life. So many people go into relationships(at all different ages) and they don’t have the same views and outlooks on how they want their lives to be like and don’t know how to talk through the issues they have and it leads to resentment. Once it gets to that point it is so hard to get back to how you were before!
i still cannot get over your hair, it looks so good!!
I have been with my husband since I was 19 years old- married for 11 years and together for 19 years❤marriage takes a lot of work but as long as you are best friends and work together not against each other is the best! I truly feel like people change as you get older but if you can both grow together then you’re marriage will last eternity!
My husband and I are so chill and never fight and I just know when we have kids things will change but continuing to prioritize the Lord will help all other things fall into place. You guys really encouraged me. Thanks Dyl and Hunter!❤️
Hey guys! I fell in love with you two while watching your videos, enjoying the heck out of your interactions, big smiles, laughter, and beautiful personalities. Real quick from me... My wife and I met and started dating then she was 14 and I was 16. Married at 17 and 19. Last month we celebrated 53 years of marriage. I actually remember thinking on the morning of our wedding that I couldn't love her more than I did at that moment. 53 years have proven that sentiment as wrong. She is still my everything, but more than I thought could be possible. Another note about us, is that we met at church when my father accepted the pastorate of a small Baptist church. I told my parents that very first day that I had met the girl I was going to marry. Mama laughed. Daddy looked at me and very seriously said, "Really? Who is the girl?" When I described her he said he remembered meeting her that morning and said she was very pretty. He became her biggest fan (after me, of course) and doted on her until his death. We've had many teens from churches we've attended ask us what was the secret. Fun, fun, fun conversations. God Bless You Both!
Hi! That’s awesome. Thanks so much for watching 😊
Your parents must be so proud of you both. ❤
Amen! Totally agree! We have had our ups and downs but we choose each other with God in the center. Love that you stay yourselves and are sharing what the world needs to see more of ❤❤
You seem like the kindest people ever
We 🫶 when we’re on UA-cam and a notification pops up that Dev and hunter posted
I love how honest you guys are about your relationship and about your faith! You share your faith and give God and Jesus the glory so fluidly and unapologetically and I can tell it’s just so genuine and not forced and I think that offers such a positive influence and simple yet meaningful way to witness to others the love of Jesus Christ! You guys are awesome am I’m so glad God has helped you build this platform you have!
My favourite couple on the internet! May God bless your lives abundantly in Jesus name I pray Amen
I absolutely love Devin's new hair!! Super cute :)
“that is THE KEEEY🔑 right there” -HUNNER
🥹🥹🥹🫶🏻🫶🏻🫶🏻♥️♥️♥️🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻 This was a beautiful message and reminder of God’s love and the importance of keeping Him at the center of our everything. Thank your for sharing ♥️
Thanks for this! The part where you said, he’s not my god… really struck me! I often hold my husband at higher unrealistic standards and that just really made me think! 💜🙌🏻
Y'all are adorable no sleep or chaos makes us all edgy. You don't need to explain sweetie your ways away your good parents. ❤
Sir you got that right she's a keeper as well as watching your videos of you both. Good wholesome life to the fullest many people wished they had. Thanks for sharing this with us that watch your channel.
You use each other in the ways y’all need. Congrats.
Honesty is respect; that's what you get from me, very inspirational. God bless.
I love you guys! I love how Y'all love Jesus and continue to grow and learn together.
Y’all are sooo precious and being so silly. Love that you’re giving shade towards others to live a more fruitful God fearing life.
Here for ittttttt 💜🧡💜
I can’t with you two! 💕I adore you and your love for each other and for God!
Met my hubby March 2004. Started dating November 12, 2004. Engaged September 18th, 2005. Married June 2nd, 2007.
We celebrated 16 years a few weeks ago! ❤ Crazy to think that 16 months from now, we will have been together for TWO DECADES!!! 🎉❤🎉
It hasn't always been easy - but it has always been worth it!
Devin, a video on how you do your make up or a grwm? I know you did a make up video a while back but anything new? What make up/new products you use?
Day in the life with Hunter?
My hubby and I met end of August 2020, started dating March 2021, engaged October 2021, married March 2022 (the day after our one year dating anniversary). We were both so prayerful and when you know you know!!
Also had our first baby February 2023!
Met my wife when I was 9 and became boy friend girlfriend, got married at 18 and a couple years later had a son and then a daughter, October will be 44 years and 5 grandkids!
God first! Amen!
I wish I had people like you when I was younger! Both of my 17 year old girls watch you as well and I pray they are in God’s will and have relationships like yours. God ALWAYS has to come first!!!! 🙌🏻❤️🥰
Congrats!! My wife and I will be together 11 years in Nov!!!
You two are the definition of COMMITMENT!!!!! BY THE WAY - My wife and I were married May 23, 1982!!!! Two grown boys! Going strong! Yes we have a church we belong to. - Russian Orthodox, we sing in the choir, sons are altar boys, very involved in church events etc. Lots of great friends. And we have jobs we love! We enjoy our life here in Northern California Wine Country - Sonoma County!
Tell us about what your parents thought about getting married so young and what kind of work did you guys do before the channel?
They knew we were ready as they had seen us together for so long and how we grew together. Hunter - fire/medic Devin- PTA
Oh my gracious I love you two so so much y'all are the best ...My husband and I have been married this year for 40 yrs and I can't imagine my life without him yes we have our differences but we work them out cause he realizes I'm right and he's not.,.lol Thanks for allowing us to come along on your journey and to watch Ivey grow...God bless you guys...
Oh wow. December 2017 was when we got married too ❤ hard to believe it's been 5 1/2 years. May God bless you with many more happy years together.
Hunterrrr is a cutieeeee with his beard!!!
My husband and I started dating at barely 15 years old. 8 years later we got married and were being warned we didn't have enough in common, were too young, etc. Lol. Whatever. Married 24 years this year. We still don't have common hobbies or anything...we just can't get tired of each other. He's my favorite.
I can really echo the importance of learning what causes drama (hunger, fatigue, miscommunication, feeling unsure) and reminding ourselves to give each other grace and to be loving in intention. If I know he meant well, I can deal with it. It hurts differently than if I am thinking he means to hurt me. It's all that trust you build over the years. ALSO...being together since we were so young means we KNOWWWWW each other. Lol.
You two are perfect for the life y’all have made. Great videos. Love your hair Devin.
best couple on youtube i swear!!!
I have been with my high school sweetheart for 21 years I’m 39. He has stuck by my side and still chose me after finding out I had stage 3 cancer and a new born. He never left my side. I thank God for my struggle bc that’s when I found God. I call them my holy smokes moments when you look back and see Gods work In yo ur life bc perfect timing. I want to get my testimony out but I dont know how. I have pet scan on 3rd they think I may have cancer again I have a 12 year old too. It’s scary but my husband Carrie’s me through with God. I would love to meet you two. I love near Gatlinburg 😂
Y’all are my favorite! You bring so much joy through your videos❤
I honestly have never heard a Mexican with a southern accent. It's awesome
Need this today. Thanks for the inspiration. My hubby and I have been for 10 years and have 4 kids so some days are long
I love y'all so much ❤️ My husband and I will be married 23 years August 5th... I totally agree 💯 God 1st, each other, and our kids! Be intentional with each other... I love how my husband loves Jesus as much as I do. I really wish we could all hang out. It would be so much fun. My hubby is a goofball!!🤪 ❤️✝️
Love the new hair ❤
The Alphalpha & Darla clips 💯 💗💞🖤
A grace filter I really love that❤
Y'all make me happy. Married to my girl for 25 years in a couple weeks.
oh my goodness!!! we need more picture of dolly as a puppy!😂
You know! Haha Hunter does say you know a lot and didn’t realize it until now
AMEN!! Thank you so much God Bless you guys
Much love from Canada 🇨🇦 you guys should visit Banff,Alberta you would definitely love the sights
Love this ! Needed this thank you
Sending ❤ from Brisbane 🇦🇺
Very well said God Bless ❤
I love y'all's content so much!
Love this!
Ya know???
😂😂😂😂😂
Love you guys🤍
This is funny because my husband and I have also been together for 11 years and started dating in 2012 but I was 21 not 13 annnnnd we also got engaged in 2016 lol crazy that we’ve been going the same path but with a huge age difference. We did know each other previously from high school though!
I just love you guys!!!
Y’all are the BEST
My fiancé and I hit 10 years this April! We’re getting married next august ❤
We’ve been together for 13 years and also high school sweet hearts. (Both he and I were 16). And we have a relationship very similar to yours, aka we never fight (have never fought before nor said a mean word to each other ever.) We’re best friends without a doubt. Communication is easy, important and we have our own language pretty much. We saved each other and grew up together. But a few exceptions in similarity of your relationship- we’re not ever going to have children (neither of us has ever wanted that) but we have and want pets always. We’re atheists and I have religious trauma so we never ever consider any spirituality in our relationship. And I personally still get the butterflies regularly around him lol. I don’t have to choose him. My brain won’t let me stop crushin’ on this man. But he does choose me and he doesn’t have butterflies always like I do (I don’t think he does anyway). So at least one of us isn’t crazy lol.
Our rules/tips for a loving, amazing long relationship
1-Make your partner the center of your world(in a healthy way lol). Nothing comes between you. You are a team and treat your partner with true respect, and ensure that everyday and every choice is aimed at them being happy. (Aka don’t ever be malicious, always want their happiness, don’t get annoyed over small things, treat them like your best friend, be truly kind)
2-your friendship is vital. Be playful. Have fun. Spend time together. Never take a breather, just talk it out until you’re happy or neutral again. Everything can be worked out with communication and a hug.
3- Physical touch. Love each other physically. Make out lol. It’s weird to say it but you need to remember to be very romantic with each other. Kiss, hold hands, cuddle, compliment each other, have .. alonnnneeee time regularly lol.
4- don’t let go of yourself. Work hard on your mind, your body, your outward appearance, your personal hobbies, your other relationships with friends and family, continue to strive to be the best version of yourself. And always encourage your partner to do the same. Also keep some mystery alive and don’t fart in front of each other lol. Gotta keep it sexy people. Don’t let go of yourself.
And my last tip is just to actually remind yourself of your entire relationship every now and then. Go back to those feelings you had when you started dating. Remind yourself of all your first times together. Remember how beautiful your entire love story is and be proud of each other and the love you have. Write long ass comments about your relationship in someone’s UA-cam video because you just can’t help yourself but talk about it lol. It’s probably the most incredible journey you’ll ever have and you deserve to be proud of it.
❤❤❤ love this!
Always communicate to each other. Make birthdays and major holidays top priority…go over the top for each other.
You are each other’s best friends and soft place to fall. Talk sweetly to each other. No yelling.
Ephesians 4:32
Be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, as God in Christ forgave you.
💓🙏💓🙌💓
that’s swwwweeetttt
Super random question?? 😂 My wife is obsessed with y’all’s coffee maker. Where did y’all get it from?
Y’all are toooo cute
LOL you guys are so funny ahhahahaha
I love you guys so much ❤
When you get a haircut and ask your man if he likes it, there is only one correct answer - "Yes dear. I love i!"
You know ? Yes Hunter .. we know 😂
If you think about it Ivy is the same years distance away from being 13/14 than y’all are!!!! That’s crazy!!!
I remember wen yall was babies lol ❤❤❤❤❤
I sometimes have some big petty arguments with my boyfriend of 4 years, we go to bed mad at eachother at times, does this mean we won’t end up lasting?
Yes
I’m sorry the bell sound was irritating 🙄
Edit man: those beeps in between transitions are waking up my hubby! And I’m too lazy to go get my headphones 😂 Help a girl out please and stop putting those in these videos 🙏
Be careful and good luck at the 14 year mark. JS. ...Alan in 🇨🇱
Firstish
I can relate to you guys so much. I met my husband at 13 years old. We got married at 18. We are almost 26. We grew up together. I knew God had him in my life for a reason. He's my best friend and I could not have gotten through life without him. All the glory to God because he wrote our love story. 🫶🏼
For Devin love Hunter is easy, for Hunter love Devin more easy
I wish you life together and happy with blessing of Lord Jesus
with baby Evy and his future siblings
Can you please put closed captioning on your videos?? I'm hard of hearing ... TIA
My husband and I always bicker 😊 but I agree having kids takes it to a whole other level because you feel like the stakes are so high, your rooting for what you thinks best for your little one and your right it isn’t always going to align with what your spouse thinks. But God made women more loving and caring and nurturing, and men more strong and stern and logical for a reason. We both bring something different to the table and once couples realize the value in BOTH I think it changes everything.😊
Just celebrated our 30th wedding anniversary. We were 15 &16 when we met and now 49 & 50. It gets better every year but you are correct, God must be #1 always or it just won’t be pretty. Love y’all!
I was 17 yrs old and my husband was 22 when we got married! This past January 2023 we celebrated our 23rd wedding anniversary! When you know you know! 🌹🥰
Love ya'll. Ya'll are good examples for young couples who haven't seen many christian role models
We look up to you guys so much. We are 18 & really wanting to get married, praying that God prepares our hearts!
Hunter still thinks she didn’t want to eat there 😂
Such a beautiful video! You guys are so precious!! 😊 My husband and I have known each other for 4 years and married for 3. We have a 7 month old now! Having Christ at the center and just being so open and honest about everything has really been what helps us have a fulfilling marriage. We met on Christian Mingle and it was truly only God that was able to bring us together (I lived in Texas and he lived in Alabama).
"I gethcu girl" That got me lol. I love the funny voices yall do lol its too cute
My husband and I have been for 16 years and 7 kids later we are each other rock . Every relationship has its flews. Love and communication. We waited 11 years to get married. The very wise words of my grandma " If it is meant to be it will be" .
Hunters personality is shining in this video i LOVE IT
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I wish I had followed this when I was your age. I didn't and as a result it led to being divorced at 27 years old. God does give grace and my ex has forgiven me, as I have him. No details will be given. He has been happily remarried for many years and he and his family put God first in everything. I am happily single, never remarried and am striving to put God first each and every day. Sorry to make a short story long, but the most important thing is to put God first!! Everything else will work out.
I play church league softball with a guy that could be hunter’s twin! It’s a little crazy! They even talk alike!